Sex, Lies & DM Slides - S1E19: Gizzi & Sydney | Daisy Lowe

Episode Date: October 10, 2022

Sydney and Gizzi chat to internationally famous supermodel Daisy Lowe about creepy photographers, famous boyfriends and what it was like shooting Playboy at age 21. Oh, and you’ll never guess which celebrity’s DMs she slid into once!  Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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What? I'm here. What are you talking about? Welcome back to another episode. She's got her fucking headphones the wrong way around now. Welcome back to another episode of Sex Slides and headphones The wrong way around now Welcome back to another episode Of Sex Slides and DM Slides I'm your host Sydney Lima And I am Gizzy Erskine

She's got loads of cookies in her mouth I do I do It's all very alarming This is all happening too quickly Oh god, how have you been? Haven't seen you in a while I've been good

Had a good week What have you been doing? Had a good week I've had a good week My book's week. What did you do? I had a good week. My book's sold. Selling. Flying off the shelves. I'm very happy about that. Our podcast is doing very well. We found out this week. We did really good. Thanks for listening everybody. Yeah. So I'm feeling pretty

groovy. I'm in a good groove. I had a bit of a funny week. Did some weird things. Yeah, come on. Tell me about this. I ended up having a threesome with our friends. Which friend? I can't tell you. You had sex with somebody that we hang out with the whole time?

I just thought I was doing research. Doing research for the show by having a threesome with our friends. Why have you never wanted to have a threesome with me? Because I just think that would be really weird. It's so weird. I've hit on you so many times. No, you fucking haven't. I can't handle the rejection no i also i found out that like more people that i know listen to this than i

had anticipated i know so i've been getting a lot of um comments from my friends about things i've said being like oh like you dirty bitch um i want to know okay so tell me about this threesome how did it how did it manufacture itself it manufactured itself by a few drinks yeah I imagine that was the case

and then I was out and then this was just as lockdown had ended and you know everyone gets a bit

a bit excited when lockdown ends I think lockdown ending has got a lot of threesomes to answer for. Yeah. I don't know.

I just went back to our friend's house and then our other friend came over. And was it planned? Were you like, right, I'm going to have a threesome tonight? Or did you just end up like smooching in the corner? No, no, no corners. It was all very out there. But how?

I want to know. I want you to walk me through it i don't know she's gonna kill me doesn't matter we don't know who she is okay so she i think she found some kind of like semi nice underwear so we put that nice underwear on and then we're like this is going a bit unnoticed yeah so then we took it off again plus plus one over and it was noticed and taken off again um i really hope my mum doesn't listen to this. But then you've had threesomes before. I have, yeah.

Have you? I was just trying to put this back on you. No, this is good. I feel like the light's always shined on me. I'm enjoying this immensely. Okay, so what's quite funny about me doing threesomes is that I suddenly have this, like, Alan Partridge moment where I'm like,

is everyone having an okay time? Drink any water? Yeah, no, literally. Or I'll say something like, I'm quite good at that, aren't I? Um, so it was a lot of that. You, one of the things you said was that you were quite good at it.

You were good at it. I'm good at going down on girls. You're good at going down on girls yeah so we should i've been told that quite a lot really i've got really good tips that i was given from a girl friend of mine i and it's can i just show you yeah this is very funny so basically sydney's holding out her hand she's she's licking carry on she's licking you. Carry on. She's licking it. You move it around. But it's about the pressure.

You've got to apply a constant pressure. You've got to have maximum surface area. At the moment, Sydney is eating out my head. Ooh. She would be quite good in it. I'm sweating. This is great. My week's been a lot less boring but one of the things

I wanted to what do you mean less boring well I mean less boring mine's not boring no I said no sorry

let me rephrase that I got that the wrong way around my week has been far more boring so no threesomes in my camp

have had sex with the ex-boyfriend two or three times he's back okay and i've zoned out with this back and forth i know it's a nightmare i'm really bored of it as well i mean the problem is that he smells so good it's really annoying um our friend lou uh hater always says you're you're just dick stunned because he's got amazingly big penis and he reeks of like fucking pheromones are a really interesting thing and what gets somebody into someone else is get someone into someone else well we have daisy lowes out our interview today and uh she was saying that you can be chatting over social media and not be able to smell them and you think you've got a good vibe then you meet them and you smell them and you're like oh my god the pheromones don't match you're like you don't find their

smell attractive and i have had that before so many times where i'm just like i think that's been my biggest problem and why i've not been promiscuous enough sniff test it's the sniff test so tell me about your sniffing yes so i sniff problem i've got one of those no um no the fact is there there is something about him that is so magnetic and it's and it's a problem like i think he can be i mean he's a twat i shouldn't be with him i cannot stop fucking him it's a nightmare what does one do i don't know when someone smells coming from someone are you asking someone who's had a threesome with our friends at the weekend as if i know the first thing about about how to conduct myself or be in a relationship. But it is a real problem, this.

Sexual attraction is a problem. When you have really good sex with someone, suddenly being able to switch that off in your head, I feel like I'm more addicted to fucking this person than anything else. We've got Daisy Lowe on the show today. Whee! And it was really fun. It was so fun

so I feel like all I do is just shout things at you while you explain I try and explain what we're actually doing yeah

wow so Daisy Lowe is a supermodel yeah I'd go as far to say that she's fucking hot

but also she's a brilliant brilliant mind and what does she do Daisy's a spokesperson for female issues she's a she's mod mind. And what does she do? Daisy's a spokesperson for female issues. She's a, she's modeled for everything from Pirelli to Playboy. I think she even auditioned for Victoria's Secrets and couldn't get in because of her body shape.

So she's been a huge campaigner for body positivity. She's just an all-round superwoman. Famous family. Her mum's Pearl Lowe. dad's gavin rochdale her stepdad is uh danny goffey from supercross i've known daisy since she was about 15 maybe even younger actually and i fancied daisy since i was 50 but daisy's great and she's got she's been shot by a lot of huge photographers and had some very interesting experiences with them. So she does spill all, which is very good of her. She's a spiller.

Anyway, Daisy Lowe. So Daisy, thank you so much for coming on our podcast. Thank you for having me. We wanted to have you on for ages. Oh, really? I love that this was actually organised behind my back. I had no idea it was going on. I'm like, which Daisy?

Like, my Daisy? And I took control. Yeah. I took control. So Daisy, you started modelling at a very early age, at the age of two, I believe. That was my first ever shoot. Yeah, I was at two.

What were you doing? I was actually in a Curiosity Killed the Cat video. Shut up. I love that song. Do you know what the song is? All I know is that I do remember being on set and then at

six, can you remember that band Minty? Lee Bowery's band. Oh yeah, yeah, I did. I was on the cover of their record Plastic Bag when I was six. Were you wearing a plastic bag on? No I was wearing some sort of white night dress and I had my doll in a plastic bag its head was I've seen this it's so terrifying my mum did my makeup and then they edited it so I had like really long burgundy

nails and my mum put on really turquoise eyeshadow with black thick line. I mean, it's frightening. Red lips. It was really quite scary. Oh, yeah, I've actually seen it. It's great. It's really iconic. I don't know about that. What about this? Did you say you're on a music video? Yeah. So was that on YouTube? I don't know. Do you know what? I've never even Googled. You haven't even searched it.

No, not even tried to. That's what I'll be doing. I'm going to do it. So how has it kind of affected you being in the modelling industry from such a young age? Well, I think, look, I mean, those things were one-offs. And then I guess I think I did my first, I did a hair care campaign when I was 12. And then I started modelling lingerie from, actually, I don't think I'm allowed to say that.

Is it something like 15 or something? Oh, my God. to say that I did my first proper agent provocateur campaign when you could see my face at 18 and I think there was something about doing lingerie modeling from that age that definitely shaped the way that I expressed myself I suppose it was like it was an empowering femininity thing and I guess there is something to be said for that I mean it definitely gave me of confidence yeah but also I mean there is something in nature as well you have been born with the most extraordinary body I probably shouldn't say this to you I have a list of people who are like got bodies pure not purely for fucking that's a terrible

thing to say but you're definitely one of them what is this little secret list you have I'm perving on you're perving on my mates

here she comes she's done I'm making a double I'm getting hot and bothered then you know but there are I mean there are

bodies in this world that are just like so sexy. And then you hold yourself in a way that oozes sexuality. Oozes, does it? It does. With modelling anyway, you know how you sometimes have to go to photographers' houses and you're put in a lot of compromising positions.

I once shot with a really successful big photographer at his house and actually his wife was making us dinner downstairs and we ended up shooting on his bed just compromising enough and and he was stood over me I was laid down and he was sort of straddling me and he had his flies down and nothing on underneath. And I was underneath him and I was only 18, 19. And I just remember thinking my thought process was, oh, fuck. Okay, what am I going to do? I'm going to have to say something because actually I think I've always been incredibly mouthy and that's probably really helped me get out of really sticky situations.

So I just went, went haha you're flying low amazing and to which he turned stone cold got off me zipped up his flies walked out and that was the end of the shoot and I have never worked with him again and we worked together quite a lot before then and like I had to then have dinner with him and his oh my god how awkward it was horrible like you could have just sucked the air out of the room it was hideous but you know I think I'm not saying that anything would have necessarily happened it was more I think just a power thing and I think that's the issue with any industry where someone is in a position of power, and particularly with young girls,

making them men, toxic males, making themselves feel more powerful with very vulnerable young women. And I think I was just very lucky that I was mouthy as hell and came from a family that understood the perils of the industry and therefore always made sure that my feet were really firmly on the ground. Have you ever been in an honour shoot where you felt thoroughly overprotective over a younger model?

Oh, God, yeah, of course. Lois, I'm sure you feel the same, right? Overprotective of other people? I don't know. I haven't really... I don't really shoot much anymore, Daisy. I mean... Me neither. But when in my...

I've got to cast my mind back to last time I was in a... No, nothing's come to me. I'm quite similar to you, because I get really mother hen and very protective, but I feel like I always want to protect you. Yeah, you're like sweet ducklings. Isn't she? Yeah.

So gorgeous and fluffy. I just want to cuddle you. Very big, hard feet. Hard feet? I'm just joking. Oh, that's going to get, like, foot fetish people onto us. Oh, bring it on. Hard feet.

Yeah, of course, there was loads of times, but not, you know, I was trying to think about all of the times, because I guess it's quite rare to shoot with loads of other people, but it happened a handful of times. I think there's that thing though, like especially with modelling, when it gets all a bit more lowbrow, like when people are just starting out and they're having to shoot around strangers' houses and they're not shooting in the Pirelli calendar.

Like you are, you are kind they're having to shoot around strangers houses and they're not shooting in the parelli calendar like you are you are kind of you are going around so i've had experiences where i've gone around to a photographer's house like there's no one else there it's just me and a photographer they've like they've said to change in the bathroom there's like some underwear there you're like 15 and then you're shooting and it all feels just like it's there's nothing you're really getting out of that like they're getting something out of it you're getting some really bad images with a very strong flash. Yeah. And you just feel a bit weird after.

And then I've been in situations at 15 when I've done semi-naked shoots and I feel weird about that later. I think when you're not working with high-end people, there's something almost about if they're a bit more high-end or a famous photographer that it's more celebrated as art. Whereas from my experience i just feel a bit like oh

well there is it there is there's those weird pictures of me out there somewhere that someone could use again i asked people to take them down as well and they said no i had i had a photo of me topless when i was 15 online and i asked him to take it down. That's really dark. Yeah. So I want to talk about Playboy. Okay. Because that was the most incredible shoot. Apart from they edited my hips, I then didn't have hips, which was so weird. That's one part of the industry, actually,

we should talk about as well, is the retouching. It doesn't look like me. Like, my body doesn't do this. It does this and this. I was going to say, you say you are like super curvy and surely that's the point right yeah that's i don't know but that that must have been who shot that tony kelly right and it was two of the most grueling days i've ever had in the industry what happened it wasn't like he's great actually i, I get on really well with him. He's a hilarious Irishman who loves a cold beer and a good laugh. He's brilliant fun. And he's really funny. He's got a very strange mind. But they, I mean, firstly, the light wasn't right for a lot of the first day and I've flown over to LA to shoot it and I had horrible jet lag and I ended up like curled up like a little kitten just trying to nap waiting for the sunshine to come out and then I just remember the worst for me was before

we actually shot it I said to my agent I was like so I've been thinking me at age 22 um I've done lots of nude shoots before like I think it's probably best that like I'm happy to show my boobs but I don't and my bum a bit but like I'm just gonna hide like my lady bits and is it like I'm just no lips right and she was like isn't it weirder that you did nude shoots before you were 22 and so I was like okay I can't argue with that so then I said look I just I'm happy for everything but could you just make sure that there's no I just don't want any close-ups of my pussy just like leave like it's quite a simple request like would it be okay if and then cut to like this horrible it was hands down the worst shot of my modeling

career to take it was underwater and the whole time we were in there for two hours in this swimming pool trying to get this one picture. And he kept shouting at me because he was like, stop blowing water bubbles out of your nose. No one wants to see that. It's not attractive. So I was like, oh, wait. So you want me to not take, push air out. Don't breathe.

Don't breathe. Don't push air out of your nose. So that all, you know, that horrible feeling of water shooting up your nose. And then you get all like fizzy behind your eyes. It's like a brain ache. For two hours solidly because I wasn't allowed to blow air out of my nose when I was underwater and he was taking pictures. So it was so painful. And actually, I then got the internet PDF when I was...

It's actually really brilliant that I received this PDF while I was with my poor grandmother. Because she was the one who had to hold my hand. Because I was like, oh God, I've got it. I've got to have a look at it. And when I opened it up, I burst into hysterical tears. Because they'd basically given my pussy an entire page. Which frankly it probably deserved. No, no. A double spread, it probably deserved. No.

A double spread. No pun intended. Exactly. Needless to say get this link I go through it with my poor grandma I burst into hysterical tears because

my pussy has been given a page and and also needless to say it was the last time I ever had a Playboy wax. It was like

just so exposed. Yeah. And everything. And actually, I think without my grandma, I think if my grandma hadn't have been there to experience how distraught I was by it, she, and she turned around, she was such a soldier, bless her, having to deal with the Grand Tour 2 and Playboy. And she said, darling, when you you're Myers you'll look back and you'll be really proud of yourself

for having done this then because if you've got it now it's really lovely for you to remember your body as it is right now and I was like okay thanks Chris

wow I mean they were really iconic shots and I bet you are really proud of them now I am yeah they're brilliant

I remember it coming out you did Playboy as well didn't you Sue oh my god not like that. Again, very low-key. Someone's living with me once again. I did Playboy.

Did you? Yeah. Wait, wait, wait. Again, not remotely in that thing. And it was only Dutch Playboy. I need to see that. I was just in a towel. It wasn't that exciting.

Yours was way better. It wasn't that exciting. Yours was way better. It wasn't even a good picture. And I can't fucking find it. So I'm not even convinced it happened. Maybe I dreamt it. We want to talk to you about body positivity. Because I feel like you've always, before body positivity was a thing, you spoke out heavily about it. I did.

I always did because I fucking love women. And I also fucking love food yeah but uh the so what i mean obviously it's probably to do with the fact that you are naturally curvaceous and have been celebrated for your curves have you ever had any people sort of attack you about your weight or anything like that yeah well so much I mean not like Sydney I don't model as much anymore at all but god when I was a teenager and actually throughout my career I mean there was kind of four years where I basically lived on a plane and worked constantly and didn't ever have a day off or a holiday or anything and I loved it it was great but throughout that entire time

remember the worst was the first time at the beginning of all of it I was 17 and I went and did a show in Milan and I went with a bunch of my friends and we all went and went to the fitting been confirmed and I was really upset because my boyfriend at the time was playing a gig at Proud Galleries and I was having to miss it. And I was really gutted. I want to be in Camden. All I wanted to do was be in Camden. But I had to go and do this show and it was quite an exciting show. And I went and did the fitting and there was all of these Italians just like babbling about me and pointing at me and babbling.

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tiny like i also in my head thought i was an absolute hippo and and actually I wasn't I just had boobs and hips I mean it's very the industry is so different now but then I I was I was a complete anomaly and I I was really penalized for it and made to feel really rubbish I mean I was cancelled from quite a few things but I was also celebrated and I think like when I did my first ID cover I remember like the pull quote was like I've got tits and an arse and I'm like when I did my first ID cover I remember like the pull quote was like I've got tits and an arse and I'm not afraid of it actually that's what makes me feminine and myself and their weapons yeah and I also didn't I it's funny when I made the decision to leave school at 17 I was like look I can't leave just just to model because I'd wanted to

go and either become a lawyer or a scientist. So I was like, well, it has to mean something if I leave school to model. And I was like, well, if I leave school and I actually try and fight for real women's bodies and make real women feel amazing about the skin that they're living in, then that gives my job purpose. So that's what I'm going to do. And that was my decision.

And I chose to stick by it. I think there was only when my relationship with Will ended at 20 my first boyfriend it was the first and only time I mean I had like heartbreak hotel diet to the max and I got so tiny my my boobs are naturally I'm like a double d and they went down to a double a and I had no hips I mean I, I was tiny. I was it. I just I stopped eating because I was just so sad. And I remember getting off a plane and I had my agent and my publicist waiting and my publicist burst into hysterical tears when she saw me because no one had seen me. And she was just like, fuck, what's going on? And my agent was like, great. Oh, my God.

Wow. And actually, that was the season that I did the most amount of shows I've ever done. I was just going to say, did you work massively based on that? Yeah, I really did. I'm getting goosebumps and chills and anger and all of this from that. It's so shit.

Yeah, but it is and it isn't. That was a natural progression of what I was going through emotionally and then it informed the way I was physically and then it helped for a season. I was like, woohoo, I finally got some shows. And then you got happy and then you started eating. And then I never did shows again.

So obviously our podcast is about sex, lies and DM slides i'm gonna go i'm just gonna say it what was your first sexual experience oh god it wasn't pleasant it wasn't pleasant it wasn't pleasant oh my god my boyfriend's gonna kill me um it wasn't pleasant we're just touching on it here um it was actually with um my kind of growing up my best friend who I thought I was madly in love with from the age of 11 and was so happy that I actually lost my virginity to him and then it was on the sofa and something fell off the couch at the end of it and I went oh what was that and he said don't worry Daisy it's just two friends having fun don't worry

and I was like no what fell off the couch you wanker what was that it was just two friends having fun he's like

oh really because I thought you were just fingering me amazing so then that started my very terrible choices in men which only seems to have just ended it's over it's over so obviously there's a big subject at the moment uh about sexual identity do you identify completely as straight have you ever had any bisexual experiences do you i have had

bisexual experiences i the funny thing about being with a woman there's like i have a few theories on this personally there's a fun thing about being with a woman it's oh i have one of those i know how yours works yeah isn't this fun like um i can have adventures like this. But then I really like to feel like I'm, you know, I'm tall and I'm curvy and I like to feel little. Yeah. And I think I only can really experience that with a man, my man. Yeah. No, I think it's really interesting. Some people need to feel exactly like you feel. For me, I think about a woman's genitals,

and I think that's more terrifying because I know what I should be able to do to that, if you know what I mean. Oh, interesting. So I'm right. I actually, like all the, well, the few sexual experiences I've had with women, I've been fucking terrified.

It's not been fun. But I want it. Sorry, I'm probably going a bit too deep now. I'm more into it in my head than the reality is really terrifying. Anyway. So,

you've also dated some very famous men. I have, yes. I'm going to name a few. I'm sorry. It's okay. Matt Smith, Tom Cohen, Ronson,

good friend, and Jack Benyarte. Ah, this is a good question question from Hayden, not myself. Oh, God, here we go. You don't have to answer this, by the way. Who was the best in bed and who was the worst? Oh, God. I want to know the answer.

Also, I love that Tom Cohen has appeared as one of the really famous men I've dated. Fuck off. of the out of also i love that tom cohen has appeared as one of the really famous men i've dated fuck off hang on it is just on the subject of yes i have dated a few men in the public eye um but i just find it really intriguing that it's always that that seems to be the topic of conversation over any of the work that i've ever managed to achieve for myself. Yeah. But I understand that it's exciting because I'd like to know about who's dating who because it's quite cute.

But also, like, equally, you stand up next to these guys as an equally powerful and interesting, intelligent, talented, famous woman as well. I think it's when I was doing a Google I was really interested in your relationship with the Daily Mail kind of thing and I was looking for all the headlines to do with you and how they

talk about you in this very sexualised way. It's like, oh, Daisy Lowe bears her skin in revealing crop tops. She just got back from the gym. And so what's your relationship of that kind of uh i think that with the daily mail particularly i've always been very lucky that they have always been quite favorable to not always of course there's been times where it's been really upsetting but but on the whole in through my, they have actually been pretty nice considering I know how nasty they can

be continuously. And actually, when I was dating Mark Ronson, I was 19. And I had been modeling a lot for a couple of years by that point and been in the public eye. But it was like when we got together, suddenly, everything went mental. and we were followed everywhere and I made a decision the day that the article came out about us being together that I would never read anything that was written about me and like it's a different thing if I do an interview I want to check that I don't sound like a total twat but I chose to just not buy into it because I figured it either inflates my ego, which I also don't want, or deflates my ego. Either way, I feel like a cunt. It's a lose-lose, yeah.

So, yeah, that was how I chose to deal with it. Have you ever had your name on Google Alert? No. Wait, what? No. Did you? My manager used to have it. Dean used to have it on it.

My ex-boyfriend used to have it on it like my ex-boyfriend used to have it on and it was the worst you'd suddenly it'd be pop up you know sometimes you get your like sky news story pop up that gives you a panic attack because something else terrible's happening in the world but then suddenly you see that with your name and you're like fuck what have i done now my grandma used to have them i had to i had to have big arguments with her to turn them off. I was like, I don't want to know. Yeah. It's never going to be nice,

so let's just move on from that. It's horrible. What else exposing were you going to ask me? Do you want to do DMs? No, do, do, do. Oh, you want to do quickfire? Okay, best orgasm you've ever had? Oh, with my current boyfriend, for sure.

As you get older, you get better at orgasms. Yeah, and every time. Fucking ridiculous. We talk often on this about like whether definitely as you grow up you in your sort of teens and 20s you're sort of more showing off as a sexually and then gradually as you get more confident with your body there's less faking of the orgasm yeah because you just don't what's i didn't you know what i never I was never a faker but I'd always like get into it

but I'd never fake an orgasm just because I didn't really know how it wasn't even like a I was like but what does this actually look like and it wasn't until

yeah later that I was like oh this is what it is and this is this is great yeah a lot of people say that so Daisy

have you ever showed a nude that someone else has sent you to a friend? Yes. I think I must have. I don't want to see. No, that's not okay. I mean, you can.

No, I showed you one. Oh, yeah. Oh, my God. What? What happened? I showed you one. I think we compared dicks once. Yeah. Yeah, because you were, God think we compared dicks once. Yeah.

Yeah, because you were, God, I've met this guy, he's so amazing. And yeah, it was definitely the day or the day after. It was the day after. Was it here today? No. No. I don't think that anyone that sends a dick pic

then has any sort of meaningful relationship with that person ever. Because also, I was actually, at the start of lockdown, I was sent a dick pic it was the first ever dick pic I've received which my gay husband was like oh my god you waited till 2020 he's like welcome to life sorry and yeah nothing ever happened I never saw him I just got sent his and I did think afterwards god was that a? Like, is that just something that you just kept to send to loads of other women?

I definitely have a hidden file with all the best pictures of my tits and bits. You send a direct bits pic? See, I have friends that send bits pics. I've never sent a bits pic. I've never sent any pics. What? I haven't. Not even your boobs?

No, I don't have boobs. What about you in, like, undies? Yeah, of course you have. You're really fit. I don't. Not even your boobs? No, I don't have boobs. What about you in undies? Yeah, of course you have. You're really fit. I don't believe you. I've got more pictures of Sydney naked on my phone than I have of anyone else. When we're on holiday, she's like,

top off, bottle of rosé in one hand, towel turned on her head. I was having red flush as well. No, gorgeous. No, they're absolutely stunning. Anyway, guys. Have you ever slid into anyone's DMs? Yes.

Go on. It didn't ever work and I knew it wasn't ever going to work, but Anthony Joshua. Oh, yeah. Straight up. So I went to one of his dinners and it was just us going through a breakup

and honestly, he was ridiculous. He was so oh his eyes are like oh they're just like butter um and as he had melted butter what did you say on this dm oh no i was just i wasn't like suggestive i just was like oh it's so lovely to meet you thanks so much for having me did he reply at all no he didn't even look at it i mean he doesn't follow me i don't even think he even i mean he was really sweet to take the time to come and speak to me as much as he did but yeah anyway oh god yeah

yeah ridiculous what kind of messages do you receive online oh my god i'm actually from what from randoms there are some really strange ones that I actually... The weird thing is, right, I got a bit psychic. Because I started... I got all excited about listening to your podcast. Because for some reason, I just haven't... I've been living with my boyfriend's family. There hasn't been a time where it's appropriate for me to just play it out of my phone.

So I was able to bake the other day alone. I was like, I can listen to Seth Larson doing his live. I got so excited. And then after listening to it alone i was like i can listen to sex and you're so excited um and then after listening to it i was like i'd like to go on there at some point and then i manifested it yeah but i'm super ocd right so i cannot cope with unread messages on my phone or emails like all of them have to be looked at replied to and then and then I have less anxiety, hopefully. And so I always delete those weird outbox, like the extra outbox. The other inbox.

Exactly. So I never touch, I always, I never read them. I just delete them because I don't want to see what this random photo or video is. And then I was listening to the podcast. I was like, they might ask me on at some point maybe I should keep some of them that are really super weird um which is what I've done so I and now she's scrolling through millions so in a week I've managed to accumulate 40 which I thought was quite good there's just weird ones amazing this one I don't know who the hell this person

is you're the most exotic mouth-watering thank you that's nice that's nice mouth-watering i don't know i mean i'm not dinner you're a snack i don't know who you are but wow thanks thanks what a compliment that and then hi baby what yeah I get I get a hi baby a lot hi baby

and people send me stories oh what you're saying nothing to you was that the full what you're saying or was it W-Y-S

yeah nice so were you ever on a dating app did you no I went on to one for all of 24 hours and then I actually found it so annoying to

have to talk to people that i didn't know that i deleted it and the only quite sweet boy that i spoke to was a sexy fireman and he was really sweet and we spoke for all of 24 hours and i was like i'm sorry it's just that small chat though, isn't it? Like it's, yeah. No, I just, I also, I hate small chat at the best times.

Like I literally go to, well, when we used to have to go to events and I walk in and I'm like, oh, I feel like I've just had a nervous breakdown.

How about you? Like there is no airs and graces. I just jump straight in. So to have to try and do that, it just didn't make sense. I also, I have a thing about like on a dating app,

you can't hear someone. You don't know what their voice sounds like. And you don't know what they smell like. I totally agree. We've never touched on smell before. Yeah, no, smell. I've fallen in love by smell. Me too.

And also people that I thought I was really into, and then you smell them and you're like, this can't work. Yeah. It just can't. Like, my pheromones don't like you yeah i totally agree we need to talk more about that actually well listen daisy thank you so much that has been it's been one of the funnest ones we've done thank you thank you so much for having me um i'm gonna make sure that my boyfriend never listens yeah

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