Sex With Emily - Episode 273 - Fit for Love

Episode Date: August 17, 2011

Another new fitness fad? Not quite. Today’s guest, Billy Sunday Mars, talks with Emily about how to be “Fit For Love.” Then it’s onto celebrity penis names, how a sex doll can land you in pris...on, and how to find and navigate the g-spot. New frontiers of sex are explored in the best male sex toys, viagra condoms, and women who go to strip clubs. Tune in to hear who wins out in the ultimate battle royale: Orgasms vs. Diamonds! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I Look into his eyes They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex Eyes that block our sacred institutions Betrubized they call them a fire god Hey, Emily you got a boyfriend because my man E here. He just got his heart broken He thinks you're kind of cute the girls got a hair stand Oh my the women know about shrinkage.
Starting point is 00:00:25 Isn't it common all the way? What do you mean like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god. I'm all for some. I'm gone.
Starting point is 00:00:33 Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. For more information about sex with Emily, go to sexwithemlee.com where you can listen to the podcast. A lot of you are there right now listening to the podcast. You know it's free web, live web TV show every day.
Starting point is 00:00:52 One, two, Pacific Standard Time. And we've got some announcements. We've got stuff going on. Hey, man, let me just say hello to you. Hi, how you doing? I'm good. How you doing? I feel bad.
Starting point is 00:01:02 I don't want to blow it, but we do have a guest in studio. And they know that they don't know that I don't want to blow it, but we do have a guest in studio and they know that they don't know that I don't talk before the show. Oh, okay. So they might think I'm rude, but that's what I do. Yeah, he's not rude. He doesn't talk. Okay.
Starting point is 00:01:14 And he doesn't talk after the show. In fact, I've never talked to him unless we're on air. Yeah. Signed something sort of. Yeah, so we do have a guest. Thanks for mentioning that. He wrote a book called Fit for Love, Billy Sunday Mars. Where you talk about the sex exercises
Starting point is 00:01:26 that you can do to enhance your sex life. Does that have you to say it? That's what we do here. That's Fit for Love, he teaches courses. Like forget your Rubik's class, whatever people take. What do people take now? They take school classes, they take yoga or lotties. Plotties is big.
Starting point is 00:01:42 You should just take this class so you can have better sex. So we're gonna get into that. And we'll also, yeah, today we're also giving away every single day. We're giving away a free friends with benefits. If you like the Sex with Emily page on Facebook, which is Facebook.com slash Sex with Emily, every day one person will be randomly selected to win a free Sex with Emily membership. And if you're already a fan, you are still eligible. And if you're selected, we'll send you a message and you will get a free membership.
Starting point is 00:02:10 And we'll not your name on the show. Good. Good. So what's going on with you? You know lots of things. Lots of...oh, I hate when you say that. I know. So what are the lots of things? Can you tell me anything today? Today, I can tell you, do you like frustrated with me or something? No, I just don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm just busy doing stuff, working and hanging out with friends and I got a friend's birthday party night, which is going to be really fun. She owns this cool club in the city called Project One and it's her birthday. I'm doing that tonight. And last night I had a fun dinner with an old friend
Starting point is 00:02:49 that I hadn't seen in 30 years, 20 years or something like that. And we grew up together. Who is his old friend? He's an old friend. See how she says friend. Friend, we never stop together. I know, but see, thing is this is how you can tell with a woman if she hung out with a guy or not because because she'll say, friend, if it was a girl, it doesn't matter. I'm not saying that you hooked up with them, made out with them, gave me a hand job or anything like that. I'm just saying the moment that a woman says, oh yeah, my friend, it's a guy. Instead of saying, oh yeah, I was hanging out with my girl.
Starting point is 00:03:20 With girlfriend, because we say girlfriends. Yeah. And it's the instant and gives away. And she'll come back. And then he's an interesting guy. No we see girlfriends. Yeah. And it's the instant, it gives away incident. I'm on the show. We should come back. And then he's an interesting, no, it's a giveaway. So he's a guy that we knew each other growing up. And yeah, it was fun.
Starting point is 00:03:33 He has a skincare line that's really popular for men called Anthony's, Anthony's Skincare. Have you heard of it? We'll get you some. It's amazing. They sell it like at Nordstrom and Sephora. Yeah, I heard that. Nice stuff.
Starting point is 00:03:44 So anyway, we caught up lot of fun. Nice stuff. So anyway, we caught up. We talked about childhood. Yes. Did you drink wine? What kind of wine is that? I did drink wine. I had some softened-down blanc, I believe, and it was good.
Starting point is 00:03:52 OK. Yes, it was really good. And then I don't know. What's going on with you? Tell me about you. I am getting all my schedule together. You might hate me, but I might fly to LA on Friday real quick.
Starting point is 00:04:03 Really? Disfer a couple hours. That's OK. I'll miss you, but why? Rob, are you doing in LA? What? Rob Durdeck. He's a professional skateboarder. He has this big huge warehouse. It's called the fantasy factory. Okay, cool And he's on MTV and he's starting another television show and he's having a press thing So I might have to find it. That's fine. Just let me know. It's keyposite. We'll just cry when you're not here And then I'm just like booking everything, like for the month of October,
Starting point is 00:04:27 got a bunch of concerts and stuff. I already booked myself for La La Plusa 2012. It was that good. Today. Because it was that fun. I got to go every year anyway, so my 12. That's so cool. I saw hotel that I want to stay at next year.
Starting point is 00:04:38 You don't want to say the W again? I love the W, love the W. Right. You know, I'm the biggest fan. But it's just the walking factor. Oh, it's too far. Yeah. Got it. Too far.
Starting point is 00:04:50 Okay, that's what I'm doing. That sounds really good. All right. I don't know why my, I don't know. What's going on? Nothing is going on. I just, nothing is going on. You sure?
Starting point is 00:05:01 I'm sure. What about that guy you're hanging out with? He's good. I saw him last night after my dinner. Oh, OK. Yeah. How'd that go? It's good. I like that.
Starting point is 00:05:07 Well, she's sharing that with me. I don't know. Because he's kind of awesome. He's a great guy. And so I saw him. I'm not in love. Do you have a phone love? Oh, sorry.
Starting point is 00:05:15 I don't do that. OK. So what did you do? We just hung out at his house. That's it? Yeah. No. We walked around the mission with my dog.
Starting point is 00:05:24 How's the dog going? Dog is good. It's hard. What's No, we walked around the mission with my dog. How's the dog going? The dog is good. It's hard. What's the guy feel about the dog? I think he pretends that he likes her. Yeah. I would too. You pretend you like her.
Starting point is 00:05:33 I would pretend I like her. No, you didn't like her. She was sitting in her lap. You're like, this is a problem when you've men over there. And the dog is going to sit in her lap. The dog farted on me and it's stung. I know. She's got stomach issues.
Starting point is 00:05:42 She's got stomach issues. So I'm trying to wrap another month.'ve got like a month left and it's but it's what I've made all these new friends dog parks She has play dates people text me the like is Daisy there because Daisy she is this crazy Jack Russell Terrier that can't that is a set has so much energy That she never ever stops and she plish. She wears it all the other dogs Everyone's like we love playing with your dog because your dog wears it. So I'm talking about my dog now a lot, but that's true. It's all very sexy. What's going on in sex with the news?
Starting point is 00:06:13 We got. Okay, but this is what we're talking about today. Some topics of the show today include emails, organisms from oral sex, menopause and sex, body image, and too much stamina and bed. And we've got some sex in the news that I'm going to get to right now. Okay. Celebrity penis names. Would you name your own penis? And even if you had, would you reveal your peckers name to the public? Here is a compilation of celebrities that were so proud that they couldn't help but boast its name. Recently at J. Leno, Hugh Jackman revealed his wings secret identity. You really want to know who old James Roger is? Let me show you. He said pretending to unbutton his pants
Starting point is 00:06:51 Okay, so last season on Jersey Shore Snooki was quite taken with Vinnie's strapping manhood In fact, she loved it so much. She named it Moby Dick. Yeah, did you know this? You know this question. Yeah, she always talks about it. Okay, John Mayer named his effin David Duke something. Cock, Cock, something. Who, Nate, do you name your penis? No, I haven't. It's okay if you did.
Starting point is 00:07:18 You can talk to the name. No, I haven't. I swear. Billy Sonne Mars, do you name your penis? Is that a personal question? Here, my sister. It's a closer view. It's an alter ego. Oh, is it? You're like into the whole sex. Okay, got it. Okay, here's some other McCauley-Cocken revealed that his nickname for his member is Floyd. Floyd? Yeah. He was with me lacunas for a long time. Yeah, so
Starting point is 00:07:42 she probably called him Floyd too, I think they called Owen Wilson the butterscotch stallion and reference to his blonde maid and his horse-sized dawn. Rain Wilson tweeted his wings name the failed will. The fail will. I can't believe all the first of all. I can't believe all these dudes are like outing themselves with their names of their penis. I think that's kind of why not? They're just being funny about it. I know, but I just never knew. I never, I wouldn't want somebody like, oh, and I'd like you to meet Bob.
Starting point is 00:08:10 I'd be like, really? I don't want to know your next Bob, your penis's name is Bob. Yeah, and you don't want to name yours right now? Just for fun? No. Okay. Probably not, I can't come up with anything right now.
Starting point is 00:08:22 I apologize. God, you're still the Vendry today. I'm not, I'm waiting for you to pop on out. I'm popping. All right. Psychiatrist had sex with married patient as delegation waited outside his office. Psychiatrist had sex with a married woman patient
Starting point is 00:08:35 on his consulting room floor, while a delegation from the local's women institute was waiting outside for a tour of the hospital. Dr. Steven Lomax, who was also married at the time, had given the mother of two astrology readings predicting she was on the edge of something new. God damn it, people said she was. Yeah, she was.
Starting point is 00:08:51 She was. Of his weener. The woman in referred to as Mrs. A came to Dr. Lomax suffering from low self-esteem after being diagnosed with thyroid condition. Those are the best, the ones with low self-esteem, because they'll love you forever. Oh my God. I mean, who, you can't sleep with your patients, therapists?
Starting point is 00:09:08 Of course they do all the time. I know they do, actually, but they really shouldn't. Not that I know. That's what I'm saying. Do you know why, experts? No, I actually do know by experience, but not from my own experience. Oh, okay. But I know of an experience that happened with someone with their therapist.
Starting point is 00:09:23 Not good. We're not going to get into that. Okay. I should be a therapist. What did you say? I should be a therapist. Exactly. I'll cure you with my weiner. Okay. Perfect. Teen faces prison after sex style prank goes awry. Okay. So when 18 year old Tile Morton put a blow up sex style on the bathroom style on the last day of school, he didn't expect school officials to call bomb squad or that he'd be phasing up to eight years in prison in a possible felony record.
Starting point is 00:09:48 What? See your prank gone to rye has raised questions race, prosecute or prosecute, curatory, old zeal and the post column by mindset in a small Indiana town, whatever. So they feel like the they fear that it was explosives, but it was really a sex style. Schools are so tight. I hear about crazy stories where kids are pulling pranks out.
Starting point is 00:10:09 We're not even that bad. The one that I heard most, Jimmy Kimmel brought it up, where a kid wanted to ask a girl out to the prom. In high school, the big thing is you you asking a special Romantic way and this guy cut out in cardboard big giant cardboard signs and put them out in sign In front of the school asking this girl to go right board signs Like not even like Tate to the wall or anything like that right just laid there, right? Okay, they won't let them go to prom Why because they said it was vandalism or anything like that, just laid there, right? Okay. They wouldn't let them go to prom. Why?
Starting point is 00:10:46 Because they said it was vandalism. That's so dumb. That's how bad it is. That's so sad. That's crushing this kidy. Like, when I did this whole valiant effort. Yeah, so they put them on the Jimmy Kimmel show and stuff like that.
Starting point is 00:10:58 So that's what you say, yes. Yeah. Yeah, of course. I don't remember guys being like, it was a big deal to go to the prom. I don't even remember. Well, I remember prom, but I don't remember guys being like it was a big deal to go to the I don't even remember well, I remember prom, but I don't remember being like Never like it never hit me until I started watching a lot of reality television like MTV We're like goon a beach and all this other stuff where they had a lot of teens on television, right?
Starting point is 00:11:17 But I don't know where this came out of where they would do a big They would do a big You they would do a big, you know, moment with the asking of the out. Oh. It's called a blow up doll. So he's saying it's called a blow up doll. So it'd be explosive. Yeah. Wow.
Starting point is 00:11:40 Anyway, wait. Yeah. So you were saying, okay, it is a bloke, okay, anyway. New male vibrator claims to boost erections. In recent days, gadget bloggers, just Gizmag and tech gadgets have been buzzing about a new handheld gadget for men with erectile dysfunction. Vibract, just approved by the FDA, great name,
Starting point is 00:12:03 promises not only how men maintain rigidity without medications but also deliver stronger organisms. To aid directions, Viburect is used about 7 to 10 minutes prior to sexual intercourse to stimulate pinal nerves. Instead of relying on a little blue pill to get things ready for the bedroom, the device which looks a little bit like a hair crimper, ouch, writes, delivers targeted nerve stimulation to both dorsal and ventral surfaces of the penis using medical soft pads. It'll launch August 15th and will cost $300.
Starting point is 00:12:32 Wow, how would that work? I mean, I don't get, I guess, if it's vibrating it, I don't know. What do you think about that? It's what I talk about in my books. It's the nerves. Right. Do you think it'll work? It could.
Starting point is 00:12:44 I mean, that's the penis is a muscle. Right. They've used muscle stimulation. I mean, that's what they use for those ab exercises. Somebody probably was wearing this. Pins is a muscle. They probably put an ab thing around the weiner. And then said, hey, or maybe did it on purpose?
Starting point is 00:12:58 And suddenly, he said, hey, this thing works. Exactly. Huh. OK. So it's 300 bucks. Do you want my men to second probably get you one? I'm not good. Okay. Another option for men who've trouble maintaining erections has been dubbed the Viagra condom. Okay, we've heard about this one a few times. But
Starting point is 00:13:12 what's the news? Let's say British biotech company Futura Medical has created the new condom currently known as CST-500 that is coded on the inside with a vasodilator gel that increases blood flow and results in stronger, longer lasting eruptions. There's so much stuff coming up for men and their penises. I mean, really. No, you guys had everything forever. No, we haven't. You had is our hand.
Starting point is 00:13:36 You guys got these crazy contraptions. Guys aren't even migrating over to this stuff, though. I mean, pills there, but I don't know, maybe a condom that would be good with the mint condom. It's crazy. The mint condom. Yeah, it's minty. It's like a minty Is it for your does it feels to feel good for the penis or is it supposed to be good for both both for both people? Oh, I don't know about it. I have you see it. It feels crazy. Yeah. I've used one before. Where'd you get it? Who makes it? I don't know You just found it. Did you get it at the um, did you get it at the machine inside the nightclub? No, but those ones are the dark ones and the ultra crazy. Just in case you lose the penis, it goes in the dark. That's awesome. Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 00:14:16 I wonder how that actually like how bright it is in the dark. I know. I think that you should use one. We're going to do a condom review show. Cool. Well, you guys find me one and I'll check it out I know you look like a life saber. Exactly. I don't know if I don't want to do that. Okay Are you becoming infertile in fertility as much as as much a man's problem as a woman's and while women's fertility issues are sometimes sometimes causing Cosby missing that near a wind of opportunities men's problems can be lifelong or created by life choices. In the last 50 years, human male fertility has been declining and they say it can be because of poor nutrition, your job, drug, alcohol, and tobacco use, sexual problems like
Starting point is 00:14:58 premature ejaculation, exposure to toxins. So if you are this, it may not matter become more and more fertile. So we think it's the woman's problem, right? Yeah, it's mostly the guys not taking care of themselves. They have to be healthy. They have to be healthy. Yeah Definitely men have to exercise they're gonna become infertile. You hear that minus? Let's go. I don't have kids anyways. Yes, you do you'll have kids one day. Maybe no. Yeah, I definitely would probably have kids Definitely would probably I maybe I have something I don't even know about you might ony You're right. Maybe you too.
Starting point is 00:15:27 I'm just kidding. That wouldn't happen. OK, we can get some emails about first, but first, but first. So I'll tell you. We've talked about the results from last week's poll. Have you ever had sex with a coworker? 39% of men said yes.
Starting point is 00:15:42 Well, 12% of women claimed to have sex with a coworker. And then 38% of men said yes well twelve percent of women claim to have sex with the co-worker and then thirty eight percent of of men said they hadn't and eleven percent of women said they have an sex co-worker so only twelve percent of women have sex with the co-worker that's crazy to me that's crazy to me i figured everyone's up at the co-worker at some point when she think it's fifty fifty of all these thirty thirty thirty nine percent of men and twelve percent of women
Starting point is 00:16:04 who are they sleeping with? I don't know We've suffered co-workers. You said co-worker Watch myself especially my work. I have to really be careful You do to be careful, but I bet you do because you're like sexy like talking touching all these I see all your positions in your book Here with the women. I'm like they for sure did it There's pole dancing in here. It is It's just acting God. It's pole dancing in here. It is. It's just acting. God. It's true. People make assumptions about me. I know. I left the priest to it for this.
Starting point is 00:16:31 You did? No. She's going to be a little bit more. I am gullible. But you know, yeah, people make assumptions. Okay, this week's new pole. What was the best? What's the best way to tell someone that you want to be more than friends? I want to be more than friends. Okay. Number one, just kiss them. Number two, confess your love through an email. Three, blast a love song below their window.
Starting point is 00:16:54 What, all these suck. A mutual friend investigates for you or you stay in the friend zone and hopefully they'll confess their feelings for you first. mutual friend. You have mutual friend to it. Yeah, mutual friend. I mean, that's the easiest without hurting or feeling like when we were 12. Yeah, but I mean, you will tell him that I think he's cute. No, you don't do that. You just kind of like, oh, so what do you do? You
Starting point is 00:17:12 kind of check it out. You see like what's going on. Yeah, I if you're if you're if you have fear of rejection, then you get different to investigate. But sometimes I think, you know, you got to practice friend to investigate, but sometimes I think, you know, you got to practice getting rejected if that's going to happen. Right. So this goes balls out, man. Rejection is gobs protection. What's up? What?
Starting point is 00:17:33 You want to be with me? Let's do this. If not, all right. Got it. Okay. Don't know your answers. All right, let's get into some emails. Okay.
Starting point is 00:17:42 What? No, it's going to throw in the any guy that says, oh, you know, I don't wanna ruin the friendship, shut the hell up with all that crap. I know, we've said that. Like, you can't, like, exactly. Like, you don't really wanna be friends with her. All you think about is being her.
Starting point is 00:17:53 You're not really friends. Like, you pretend you're friends and you wanna sleep with her, you might as well confess. Yes. That's how we're doing a poll about it. Okay, emails. Hey, Emily, I listen to your show all the way in Australia, but I have a question. I'm only 17, but I haven't the way in Australia, but I have a question
Starting point is 00:18:05 I'm only 17 but I haven't gone the home run, but I get very close when a guy goes down to me I never orgasm is because I've never had sex Thank you and for the great show Nadia XX queen Queensland Australia Well, she's having guys go down on her, but she's never had sex. Yeah, why is that crazy? No, I'm just saying that That guys would be doing that without... Without having intercourse. Yeah. But she's probably giving them flasher or something. Maybe she's really 17.
Starting point is 00:18:32 I don't think that's why you're not having an orgasm. I think that you need to masturbate more and know your own body and then you'll be more likely to have an orgasm when he is performing oral sex on you or he doesn't really know what he's doing. And he probably needs you to guide him and give him some instructions. Say this is what I like.
Starting point is 00:18:50 Tell him what you like. They don't know this is. They're just moving his head there, here, there, you know. This is something like that. Okay, let's get billion into the mix here. Okay. Cause these are some questions that Billy, okay, this is Billy Sunday Mars, my guest.
Starting point is 00:19:06 Everyone can see in camera. Now if you're watching us in our famous camera here in the studio, fit for Love is his book. It's intimate massages to prepare your lover for pleasure over 20 positions for passionate, sensual sex. Right? That was this your first book? This is the first book, yes.
Starting point is 00:19:24 Yeah. The set-off book of first of many. And Emily said that, you know, there's a lot of people can't see because it's a podcast or they can see on camera. They have a lot of photographs in here and you got your first book and you already got hot chicks like all over you. Yeah. What's going on? How did you do that? How did you pull that off? You just say, hey, I'm doing a book. Well, what it is, especially as a guy, and this is for all the guys to really listen to very rarely do women find guys that are willing to take the time to learn about them and pay attention to them. So as a guy, to take the time to really understand her, much like the young girl, it was just asking,
Starting point is 00:20:01 the guys got to take his time to understand her. He's got to find out what texture she likes, how she likes to be touched, where she likes to be touched. He's got to ask. And so as a guy, you got to ask questions, you got to listen, you got to not be afraid to learn and not know. Right. I'm down with that. But what about if they keep on talking? Like they continue the conversation after I've already asked like women to talk very much. If you know, if you're doing what you're supposed to do well,
Starting point is 00:20:25 she should stop talking if you're doing the right thing. She should be speechless. Okay, good. God, so you've seen the book now. Actually, what's really true about sex, when you do it the right way, it's the woman that falls asleep. Oh.
Starting point is 00:20:38 I think that's true. Yeah, guys, you should have more energy afterwards. She's the one that falls asleep. Do you talk about that in your book? Oh, yeah. That's awesome. Because I hate that part. She's the one that falls asleep. Do you talk about it in your book? Oh, yeah. That's awesome. Because I hate that part. That's my least favorite part of sex
Starting point is 00:20:49 is when the man following the sleep part. No, you build up. That's my least favorite part. That's what Tantra teaches. And one of the reasons why I talk about only 20 positions or about the 20 positions plus, the commasutra, it's not thinking about how the woman functions from the inside. You have to look at how she functions from the inside out. Those positions in the commasutra, which they're cool. It's not thinking about how the woman functions from the inside. You have to look at how she functions from the inside out, those positions in the kamisutra,
Starting point is 00:21:07 which they're cool, it's great, but the main thing is what positions work for her. None of the positions matter if they don't work for her. Right, so the kamisutra, that's how the kamisutra did look at that in the distance. And you've studied the kamisutra as well. Kamisutra Tantra, yeah. You've done it all. I've had a look I have to look having always been an expert at this. Yeah, I do research. I was a guy who didn't know what he was doing at one point
Starting point is 00:21:32 So do you think for the 17 year old woman then Nadia and Queen's in Australia? I'm saying her like that she's forgot her own body But you're saying that men can come armed with a lot of knowledge. I could maybe help her figure out her own body She's got to do her own work to she's got to take the time to learn to understand herself, to find out what she likes. And then it's a partner thing. The guy has to come in and when they're, when they're spending time together, they explore.
Starting point is 00:21:54 They have to be willing to explore and to take the time, allow the time to be able to get to no one another. What does she like? How does she like to be touched? Where? Why? Yeah. She's worked with that. Totally. That's what she thinks. That's what she's trying to teach? Where? Why? Yeah, she's work with that totally
Starting point is 00:22:05 So many guys don't ask yeah, I mean I usually talk to a guy to say hey, buddy Do you do you grill and they'll go? Yeah, I go do you have to warm up the colds first? They go? Yeah? You have to warm up first you can just warm up first. Yeah, after one more Hopefully you can't just dive in because you're just talking because you just saw me when you walked in the room You really can't you we're not ready. We're not even thinking about it yet. Let's bring it out. How long do I have to make out with her? Like how many minutes? Okay, if you want to come here's a thing. Here's the thing. Do you do you want every turn trip? Do I want to return trip? Yeah, do you want to do you want to recall back? It's very it varies on the lady
Starting point is 00:22:43 You know I'm saying but let's say let's say I am I am interested in our Okay, so you do want so think about saying It's not just for this moment if obviously if you want to be in a relationship with her You want to learn how she functions and how she feels because then when you do that if you take the time then You can actually learn how to make her orgasm very, very quickly. So it doesn't take that long. So you're preparing her. And that's what it's about. It's learning to prepare her. So she expects it. If in her mind she expects to have an orgasm, it doesn't take nearly as long the second time.
Starting point is 00:23:13 Taking it. Really? So you can learn. So how do they have? Well, we were going to be, but how do you teach? It's different with every woman. It's different with every woman. Everyone is different. So they have to ask. But do you also arm them with some like waist? Oh yeah, oh yeah. That's so good. The massage, first of all, a woman can't have an orgasm
Starting point is 00:23:33 if her fighter flight center and her brain is firing. So she's got to be relaxed first. Without fail, it's like a locked door. It won't happen if that part in her mind, she's worried about a lot of things, especially if she doesn't trust the guy It's not happening exactly so she's got to you got to take your time to give her trust and I'm always fight a flight in my mind like I can't Relax well, he's got to give you a nice massage. He does. He does. She can never relax. She can never relax
Starting point is 00:23:59 If he's if he's doing things the right way She'll relax to work on the you you gotta work on the sacrum, you gotta work on the occipital. It's basically what I call a brain gasm at the top of the jibble. I wanna brain gasm. Yeah, well that's where it happens anyway. We can do that after.
Starting point is 00:24:14 We can work on that for you. Not if you have to drive home. I don't, I walk. I walk to my office. Well we don't want you picked up for, you know, J walking and just kind of working in the street. Oh my God, I love a brain gasm. So I think I'm always saying that massage is a great way to warm up your partner and a great way to like get
Starting point is 00:24:31 it going. So I recommend alcohol. Do you have any alcohol? You don't need alcohol. Once you do it. I mean basically an orgasm releases the same neurochemicals in the brain as orgasm does like ecstasy. That's oxytocin, naturally serotonin like with alcohol, that's released cocaine. You got dopamine, naturally, basically you're releasing every chemical known to man and nice quantity. So that's why I say she gets knocked out. She falls asleep afterwards. You have to worry about it.
Starting point is 00:24:59 If she can expect that, basically that's what happens. That's what the positions are for. And it shows where to touch why, how, it's a schematics. It's like it's like going to, instead of, you ever been to, you ever see one of the pinatas in the Mexican? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, basically that's what us guys are like. Well, like guys blindfolded swinging your pinata going, how do you, am I getting anything?
Starting point is 00:25:19 How am I doing? Anything, anything, anything. But basically this takes that away. It shows you what's where and why. It's taken off the blindfold and shows you. So give me like one specific thing. Like what in what sense? What do you mean?
Starting point is 00:25:29 In what sense for like a man to, so she's not warmed up. Okay, we already know what massage. What about like different kinds of orgasms? Like how would you, because I know you're in your book, you talk a lot about like the different. Multiply blended, expanded and extended yes orgasm to sure she can open up the menu and say honey i'd like this one tonight how can she do that the multiple blended one i'm like it sounds like a drink at starbucks you had these orgasm you can do it depends i mean you have the different areas you have the
Starting point is 00:25:57 literature of the the g spot the interior for next a rajan song which is in the back of the near the uh... the the cervix and you can pick which area but you have to you have the partners have to say okay she has to say okay I like this spot tonight that's what we're gonna work and you have to say she has to call it out everything well she has to say when when when they're there she goes here and that's when you stay women are always afraid to do that though to do what tell man what they want once she knows
Starting point is 00:26:23 it can happen once she knows it can happen. Once she knows it can happen, she's no longer afraid. So tell me, so people come to see you in what's, I was going to get in, because I've got to look into it now. I was just asking you how long do I have to make out with the chick before I get to do that. I'll show everybody on the camera. She's warmed up by that time, right? Yeah. Oh, put it this way you you have to reverse the process he most guys think that
Starting point is 00:26:49 women don't want if if a woman knows she can be pleased then it changes because people say that that that and over the course of time that you have to have uh... things with age make a difference in everything else none of that makes a difference that's what time to teach us is what the main thing is. Once a woman knows she can have the orgasm or as many as she wants and you're the guy that can do it for her,
Starting point is 00:27:13 she's no longer concerned about, oh, I'm in the mood or not, it changes because the brain chemistry changes. So you teach them and how to have easier, more fluid orgasms? Yeah, yeah. So have you, have you, have women that come in that are like not orgasmic and then you teach them how to do
Starting point is 00:27:27 it? Yeah. Yeah. Every woman, okay, let me let me make this very clear to the ends of the earth and other places in the galaxy. There was no such thing as an inorganic woman. Right. There's no such thing as a woman that's not multi orgasmic. And I mean as a guy, it's not our fault because none of us were taught. Right. No, I mean when I was going up buy a tantra I was like is that is that some type of car who makes that right no guys no and they still don't I didn't know right but if we if we learn if we take the time I mean that there's it's it's all there for us now and it's something you got to practice you have to find a
Starting point is 00:28:02 good you literally need a good sex partner you need a good partner to be intimate with someone you can spend time with in a concert. Because you gotta like get in there. Yeah, yeah. Score, like it's gonna be like, you can lay out the groundwork here, but it's a little different for most. I mean, if we can learn to play,
Starting point is 00:28:16 we learn to play video games. Right. That's a lot of stuff with the hands and a lot of it is learning manual technique. Manual technique, I mean, that's one of the most important things in Tantra and learning Taoist techniques is learning to because you can find places with your finger, you start there, and then, you know, you can use your affer named friend afterwards. Exactly. And for like meant, like, so you
Starting point is 00:28:39 yeah, so you teach the man, yeah, and don't feel bad about it. Don't feel bad. It never feel bad about yourself. Not no one. No one. No one. No one teaches us this stuff. No one. I had no clue. No one. I was a stripper. And I had no clue. You were stripper?
Starting point is 00:28:52 I was a stripper. Wow. That's right. I was. What was your stripper name? I didn't have one. You didn't have one? I didn't have one.
Starting point is 00:28:58 You got to pretty good Billy's any more. That's a good name. Because you look familiar. What are you doing in the clubs? No. I'm not in the strip clubs But did you ever stop by radio stations? That's funny. So you were stripper and then you got into were you and then heaven you got into
Starting point is 00:29:13 This had you get into fit for love because when I was a stripper I used to ask the women questions I would ask you know I had a little notebook in my in my robe and I used to ask when I was like the love run to cover Oh, I love it. I was you asked what we were doing wrong. I said, Hey, why are you here? You know, you get married or you're in a relationship or whatever. Why are you here? And they explained, you know, they would talk. They had a few drinks and they'd tell me what was going on. And I had to I realized I needed a bigger notebook really quick, right? Right. Especially for myself. So why did you hear what was most common from women? He doesn't take the time. Oh
Starting point is 00:29:45 He doesn't pay attention. I would have said that if I was there and and things like he doesn't know how to be romantic Or he just he rushes in and it's kind of like we we as guys We think that women warm up as fast as we do right and and I mean we got 10,000 years of Get it over quick as the saber tooth tigers come in. Right. And now that's not happening. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:30:09 You know, not so quick. Right. So, I mean, women, if you give them time to warm up, the more time she has to warm up, it's like allowing the orgasm to ripen and mature. You can go from a fireworks show. That's for how long. How long? No, it's okay.
Starting point is 00:30:23 Sorry to interrupt you, but it seems like everything you said today is something that we already preached like your book is the guide. You know, you have your all your diagrams and things that do. But the main thing is, which Emily always talks about, which, you know, I'm kind of down with. It's all about communication, the biggest part is communication, correct? That's part of it. It seems like the biggest part of it. Communication in the beginning and also...
Starting point is 00:30:49 Do you see what you what each other wants? Right. And you can also communicate without words, too. One of the things that guys really can do if you watch her body, watch her breathing, watch her stomach, because as her stomach rises and falls, it lets you know where she is in her process. Most guys, I mean, here's the thing,
Starting point is 00:31:05 it's like that Shakespeare's saying, life is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury and in the end, signifying nothing. The more noise she's making, the less something's happening. She's going, oh, oh, oh, oh, nothing's happening. But as she starts,
Starting point is 00:31:16 that's the trail. As she starts to go into it, because she can't say, once her brain shuts off, gibberish. She starts speaking in tongues until she screams I mean this is why I say all sex is a religious thing because in the end she says oh God you got it right and then she's got to say oh God and then she falls asleep. So you're saying that women who are making a lot of noise during sex are not really turned on yet so they're lying because she has
Starting point is 00:31:40 to focus on what she's feeling right that's right. If there's a lot of noise happening like when I movement wise, this is why I teach them. See, it's not us not talking. You thought that. The pelvic tilt movement and the pelvic rocking, it's not about a train running in and out because you're trying to massage the spot, the size of a diamond cider.
Starting point is 00:31:58 So there's a lot of movement you're missing. It's like if you had a mosquito bite and you try to scratch it and you scratch it all the way. You're not going to get it. Like a jackhammer. You isolate the spot and it's not a lot of movement. It's not a lot of movement. It's just like your massage.
Starting point is 00:32:10 Which spot, you try with the clitoris? You try with the G spot? The G spot or the AFE or the PFE down in the back. He's got all the spots. So we don't even talk about that much. Yeah, no. I was looking at the diagram while you were talking. He has a G spot, he had like four different spots.
Starting point is 00:32:24 I know. He's got spots. How did you find these? Because guys have been trying to find these for a couple of years now. A lot of time. Lewis and Clark, do you have a G spot locator that we don't know about?
Starting point is 00:32:37 We wanted to do a G spot locator app. How do you suggest that a couple for the first time they decide they want to foray into the g-spot and figure it out? How what would you you show positions in there and what they do? Yeah, I mean you the best way to do it is use is manually right after you start with I mean one of the things you can do and especially as guys is Do a pelvic massage and a perennial massage for her because I mean you anybody who's most guys haven't read it But events live over giant amount of logs most women are really self-conscious about how they feel they look down the assault. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:33:08 If a guy can go down there and really help her to become comfortable with herself and feel like she's a special and beautiful there, if he can go in and really take his time with her. And basically, it's just a massage. And eventually what you'll do is it's make sure you got a lot of lubrication because you don't want it to become chafed You know, you got to make sure you have you have lubrication and then you slowly you don't just dive in you slowly enter and if you enter with your finger first She's already prepared for the penis, right? Right. Right. It's not like there's something
Starting point is 00:33:42 It's like you go from the smallest thing to the largest thing so I like take and take a while like a cup for couples together and they're like trying to find her She's not a shoes and I wear it. Yeah, yeah Well, and here's the thing with remember what I said about earlier when when a woman wants to Find out Where it is say she hasn't discovered it yet. It's like a credit card. It has to be called in and and activated Right, so the guy has to take his time and you can use your finger. Use your one finger and it's kind of like you, there's a pubic bone and you go, you find the clitoris, which everybody should know what that is. It's in back of the clitoris and up against the upper wall above and in back of the pubic bone. And it can
Starting point is 00:34:21 be anywhere in that area in a shoe. It's basically a nerve ganglion, nerve bundle. And you work with that and you can watch her. You know, as you start to find the place, her eyes will widen. Right. And if you start to work with that place after her, her eyes widen. She'll take a little bit of time for her to. Oh, yeah, yeah. Some women don't can't have orgasm. Are they? You can have women can have just better orgasm. Yeah, eventually, yeah. And they can all ejaculate too. Yeah, I know that I've heard that. I've heard they can all ejaculate, yes. Yes, that's true.
Starting point is 00:34:53 But it's just taking the time. And I'll tell you what, if you can do that for her, if you can be the, especially if you're the guy who discovers that for her, because that's now, that's opening up worlds to her. That's like a trip to Paris. Right. That's opening up a whole other world to her. It's opening up a world within her that she didn't even know was the whole chapter and female ejaculation. That's not a whole chapter. But it's talked about if you put your elaborate. How long
Starting point is 00:35:17 did it take you to put this together? It took a while. I mean, it was part of it was just being able to explain it in ways that that everybody could understand and like translating in a playful way. I use what's called manglish. So guys in manglish, because I, you know, there's a lot of people to get into, a lot of the woo-woo talk and a lot of technical talk, but I'm from Boston. Yeah. It's cool there.
Starting point is 00:35:40 We haven't got time. You got to explain it quick. Yeah, like I never heard of a vulva. We call it vagina. Right. It was a vulva. It was a technical like numb and this vagina, it covers everything. Yeah. I mean, basically you don't have to know a lot. You don't have to get into all kinds of technical names and do all kinds of stuff. Basically what you, with your girlfriend or wife or your partner, you say, do you like when I touch you here?
Starting point is 00:36:06 How does that feel? Is this too soft or too hard? How am I touching you? How do you like this? How does that feel? And you can watch her because it is going to come a time when you're going to say that you don't actually want her to be talking.
Starting point is 00:36:17 You want her to be able to disappear into it. Yeah, so you do these exercises and she'll just show up. I mean, I'm going to try. I've never seen a movie like in Thrall show up. I mean, I'm gonna try. I've never seen a movie like in Thrall with your rubber. No, I'm just saying because, okay, we're talking about these graphs earlier. It says the PFE, the G spot, and the AFE. Yeah. Now, how did you find these and what are these?
Starting point is 00:36:40 We can skip the G spot, but what about the guys like yourself? The interior, the foreign or whatever. The fornix or agents. Well, basically, that what about the guys like yourself? The interior, fornicer, or whatever. Fornicer, orgt. Well, basically, that's at the base of the cervix. And here's another thing for guys. I mean, I get pulled aside by a lot of guys saying, oh, but what if I can't reach that? What if I'm not big enough? If one woman, and this is one of the reasons I teach the exercises, when a woman's knees
Starting point is 00:37:02 lifted up and her pelvic area is shifted, it shortens the vaginal canal so you can reach those areas. So she moves her knees back? Yeah, but you have to tilt her hips. That's what a lot of the work in Tuntras, to the bicycle, the thing that I teach in the book there, and the different positions.
Starting point is 00:37:20 This is why you prepare her first, because when her muscles are tight in that area, it's difficult for her to have an orgasm. It's also difficult to position her So this is why I wrote this so that there's there's not any problem with the guy trying to do what he wants to do for her He's he's already setting everything up. So she's not loosened up then she can't do this stuff She might have issued like whether she's a winner or ever and yeah, yeah, tight hits her problem for men and women Yeah, for women too if she if she's men and women. Yeah. For women too. If she's got trauma, like a lot of times women hold a lot of stuff
Starting point is 00:37:49 from past relationships and their bodies. And the guy thinks he's doing everything right. And he may have been great with his past girlfriend or past relationship. And he says, wow, she doesn't work. Well, there's a lot of emotional issues. There's a lot of stuff that a woman goes through that us guys don't think that they have to deal with.
Starting point is 00:38:06 To pay attention to that. Love us, man. You're still a no-man all across the nation right now. But this is what, hey, look, this is what's great about us is we have an opportunity like when I was studying martial arts in China and Japan, they always said, hey, reflect it back on you. We become better men when we reflect it back on us
Starting point is 00:38:22 because otherwise the power is outside of us. So when we start saying, hey, what can I do to be better? You know, that's when you assume discipline and responsibility, that's when we become better. And it's not a matter of being, because being able to look at myself and go, okay, what can I do? Gives me back my power as a guy to be able to say,
Starting point is 00:38:42 okay, it's not out there. Because otherwise I'm waiting for someone out there, some person out there is something out there to make me better. But if I say, hey, look, I can figure, it's like, I mean, if you walked up to a safe and you had to crack the safe and you didn't get the tumblers right, would you blame the safe? The woman's situation, it's a lot like that, learning how to work with a different tumblers inside of her to figure it out. And if you're a master editor, you become a master at it,
Starting point is 00:39:05 now you've figured it all out. And you're a smart guy. I can tell you he's a smart guy. I can learn to ask. Same difference. It just depends on where you guide it from. But I know you got it. I know you can do this stuff.
Starting point is 00:39:14 There's no doubt about it. OK, I understand we have to do this, but you can break it down with me. Go for it. It sucks that we have to do all this stuff, right? I think we understand it. We're going to do it. We have to do it. Yes. We'll have to do to please our ladies. Yeah. Okay. I'm not knocking the part. I'm just saying.
Starting point is 00:39:32 I'm like, God, like really does it really have to be that complicated that we're beginning in the beginning, we have to go above and beyond to do all these things in the beginning. Yeah, like I have to read all this stuff and yes see you in all these crazy positions. Just you know, just you know, to do take out the pictures and Photoshop you in there, man. Just like, you have to do all that stuff. Look at it. Look at that. Like how was that photo shoot? Like that was crazy. Yeah, I was like, you know, you don't have to go there. I'm just saying like, how many more teens do you have to have? No.
Starting point is 00:40:06 So yeah, variation of doggy style is called the froggy style. And it looks like you're using a sex wedge, like a special padding. She likes it. Should somebody have, should everyone have one of those in their house? Well, you can, anything, it's positioning.
Starting point is 00:40:21 It's basically aligning you, because you want to align her pelvic area to your pelvic area. That's right. You've got to align the pelvic. It looks like what kind of piece of furniture would you call that like in your house? That's a like a cushion on your couch. Where you put the footrest. Yeah, the footrest. The hamster. Over outside the footrest. So we can try the hamster to froggy. It's an alternate can try the hemic too. You can try the hemic too. You can try the hemic too.
Starting point is 00:40:45 It's an alternate position to the doggie style. It's a froggy style? Well, it's just when you, because typically people just, in a doggie style, they're just, they've got the legs in the knees bent. But what you want to do also is you want to open her knees apart and that allows you to get better access to her pelvic region because, to the spots inside, because now her legs are open better from behind. Right. So it allows better access.
Starting point is 00:41:11 These are some great positions. It's like Star Wars. It's like the insinin Star Wars. You gotta open up to be able to get into the deeper regions. It's fit for love. It's fit for love. Thanks, fit for love. You had a couple more things.
Starting point is 00:41:24 I know, we're gonna put links up on on fate. Thanks, fit for love. I believe it's an immerse. I wish. But no, we're, uh, I mean, we're going to put links up on sex. Yeah, totally. But what's the main place you can buy? The book, Amazon, Barnes and Noble's, Borders is gone. God. Yeah, that hurts. Oh my God, they're gone, gone, huh?
Starting point is 00:41:36 Yeah, they're gone. That's so sad. We are now without borders. Is it an individual format? Do you have, uh, individual format? Yeah, yeah, it's, uh, I've seen it in um, it's funny because uh, I was in a gym and somebody was doing the exercise, they headed on their little book and I'm like, it's like on the Kindle or the Kindle, yeah, they were doing the exercise in the book.
Starting point is 00:41:54 And the guy walks up and goes, hey, dude, and I get this one right and I'm like, oh, wow, cool. That is really cool that he was reading your book. I love it. So I want to go back to selling that that menace said here and because i think that menace sometimes speaks for other men yeah i don't know that but it's true he's like why do we have to do this like i think that what he doesn't see at perhaps
Starting point is 00:42:17 is that yeah guys like really like a million positions like i do this i got a warm we're up i got a better this i got a bigger latte and a massage for an hour and like one night i got a pay for dinner I got to warm her up, I got to bring her this, I got to bring her a latte and then massage her for an hour and like, what a night. I got to pay for dinner, I got to pay for dinner. Oh, that change is- That change is- What am I getting my return?
Starting point is 00:42:30 That change is- But I guess the thing is that once you get into this sexual place with someone where you're so connected in this intimate way that you actually, it doesn't feel like work. Yeah, you, you, you, you, you, you get to a place where it, like, actually turns you on to a turning part. And, you ready for this? Ready for this. This is the best part. This is what guys, every guy that I work with loves, this is their favorite part. What, we want one now.
Starting point is 00:42:52 Once you're able to give her, and I've asked women afterwards, would you prefer diamonds or orgasms? Most women go orgasms. Right. And so it's a good study for you and I'll show you well because those women who haven't had orgasms right the ones who are like I'd rather have new genes like there's these studies that come out all the time like every week like women would rather have their cell phones and sex women rather by a new pair of genes they don't say sex they I mean you're right they say sex but not
Starting point is 00:43:18 orgasm but not when they've had a billy Sunday Mars type of orgasm that you teach your brother once they've had that orgasm because it releases the same, it's neurochemicals, it releases the same area of the brain and a massive quantity. So the same thing, the damage you can put down and the diamond they can put away in a draw and they're not thinking of wearing the diamond all the time, but in their body, now their body and their mind is programmed. Oh, so did you have sex with lots of people, lots of women to write this book, the research? Actually, no, I've been in a lot of long-term relationships
Starting point is 00:43:47 Oh, that's great. Not a lot of them, but in long-term relationships So you take your time to get to them. This is why I say after a while it's not a matter of having to do a lot of stuff I mean, you can actually you know how I'm from Boston, okay So they have they had the the Boston Massachusetts Minute Man Right. After a while you can make her a minute woman really yeah and that is a good And under and under a minute. I could have it all done in like five minutes. I used to have that but the chick was crazy So I can oh god right right From the other women who just pop it. They can make different
Starting point is 00:44:17 The internal one of the external one Internal internal yeah, just because your internal doesn't mean it wasn't external though Could have been our clitoris that you were hitting I'm just saying you probably didn't because if you were if you were doing some variation of the cat which is the the quarter alignment taking a few cubic bones are rubbing together then you can cause that too but if she has if she has an internal one did she fall asleep I she did fall asleep but I want to throw on there I was paying a lot of bills too so that might have helped.
Starting point is 00:44:45 There's a lot of things that guys wonder about about that. If she, because I mean, I heard this and it scared the hell out of me one time. The guy, when I was in China, you know, a guy was had a girl. He was dating for a while and what it came out to was, you know She was with him because he was taking care of her which you know It's cool for a guy to take care of his girlfriend or wife, you know, that's that's what you're supposed to do the masculine part of it Anyways, but He lost his job and when he lost his job, he knew money, no honey. So basically, when a woman is just with a guy for that,
Starting point is 00:45:29 then oftentimes that's what's gonna happen. Now she's with you and in the relationship is good. If both people are working sooner or later, that's gonna come up that the orgasms aren't happening because she doesn't have to stay for the money. And then the truth comes out. Right. But if he lost his job and he had read your book and he was giving a really good orgasm,
Starting point is 00:45:49 she might have stayed. Yeah. She might have given him a honey. Yeah. Maybe. Do you find overseas the women are easier to date than the ones here? I have dated women from Europe and from China and Japan. One less of a pain the ask
Starting point is 00:46:06 less vocal but more suggestive How's it break that down for me women in America will just say it a woman from overseas will imply it Okay, you'll give you hints. Oh We're just much more direct here much more direct good. We're better. You're good in America. God bless Okay, you say something that I pulled out what we don't know nothing I was gonna share a story But okay, I pulled out a quote from your book that I knew that met this was for men It's because you'd appreciate this you say that every man's talk to a lesbian
Starting point is 00:46:39 Every won't talk to a lesbian and every woman's talk to gay man to learn about sex and we always say that on the show that like which talked to lesbian and every woman's chapter gay man to learn about sex and we say that on the show that like they should so what that is because you could learn more about well there more there more in touch with their their bodies in that sense because they spend time with a person who's similar uh... anatomically and so i mean a lot of it the issue people have a lot of it
Starting point is 00:47:00 and i take my interns to blow job class and those woman teaching it is like why can't a man be teaching it? I'm serious because the man has a penis he knows how it feels. Well yeah I mean there's the thing here's the thing with gender issues and it's we're really foolish about this people like what they like you can't tell somebody what they like it's in their system they like what they like but with that now that with that being said when we step back, they have spent more time around somebody very similar. So they know a lot more about how people's hormones
Starting point is 00:47:31 act, how a lot of emotions act, and the functions that we don't get to see all the time. If you're with somebody or with around that atmosphere all the time, you're going to know a little bit more. Plus, you have two people that are very familiar with how their bodies function. Similarly, so even though, even though a straight male or a straight woman may feel they know, I mean, I have a lot of lesbian friends and a lot of gay friends, and I'll usually tell people, hey, look, let me know what you figure out. I don't care. Tell me what you found out. And they tell me, and it's like, wow, okay. Because even though I'm straight, there's stuff that a gay guy knows about his prostate,
Starting point is 00:48:09 that as a straight guy, I don't know. So am I gonna not feel learn something, that's important for me and my health, because I wanna be macho. That's stupid. Exactly, there's a wealth of knowledge out there. Okay, what are some of Roger and his zones that we don't know about that you uncovered your book
Starting point is 00:48:27 or that you could ignore it? Because I am always saying like pay attention to Roger Nusson's, but can you break down some of the Roger Nusson's in the book that you kind of have men and women explore together? A lot of people, I mean there's, we don't know about, we don't pay attention to. The love handle area typically, as you move towards the base of the spine in those areas there,
Starting point is 00:48:49 that for a woman to allow her back to arch just the prodding of that area allows her to feel more alive and now her back arch is whenever a woman allows her back to arch that opens up and then you obviously want to reposition her during intimacy. So she can tuck underneath. But that learning to allow a woman's body to move by touching certain areas like the back of her, the reason why the ears are such yeah, they're soft areas as nerves there. The people don't realize this the feet. Why do women like shoes? Because the same area very close in brain, is the area where the feet are receiving signals and the sex area, the ventral segment area. That's why I like shoes.
Starting point is 00:49:33 That's why I've got hundreds of pairs of boots. Well, this is why. So, massaging your feet is one of the most erogenous. You talk about foot massages in your hair. Yeah, foot massages, part. Those are so important. Yeah. Every man should give a foot massage.
Starting point is 00:49:44 Seriously, foot massage. Start with foot massage isn't there? Yeah, foot massage is part of it. Those are so important. Every man should give a foot massage. Seriously, start with foot massage. But even more so than arogenous zone is just when you prepare the body, the spine, when a woman is able to relax and you're able to work with her, with her sacrum and relieve lower back tension and relieve tension in the hips and just massage in her glutes and you open up and this one of the things is to massage the adductors. When you start massaging her adductors and into her perinium floor, the pelvic floor, that allows her when she does have an orgasm, because the muscles will loosen, it's like an elastic band, more stretches. Totally, that makes so much sense. They'll loosen up, because they can be so tight, like if you actually have whatever. So, a Rajinisone is a one thing but more important because every woman has a place where she likes it more but the
Starting point is 00:50:28 muscles are always the same. So, you can always find an area that that she's going to like particularly that she's going to cause, call her her place of excitation and stimulation but the deeper ones to prepare her that's what I've discovered over the course of time because if you if you really want her to have a powerful orgasm, she's not gonna really care too much about the erogenous songs, once she's able to experience something powerful. I'm not talking about a lot of women think they've had
Starting point is 00:50:55 orgasms, but. So you're still okay. What they think they've had, it's kind of like the difference between what most people have had, firecrackers, and the Fourth of July awaits. You could go so far, I mean, to say porn stars haven't even had orgasms that they can really have. Right. Wow. It's true. I mean, I think there's so much. And that's our opportunity as guys because it's true. I mean, I think there's there's so much and that's that's our opportunity is guys because it's an opportunity. An opportunity. It's an
Starting point is 00:51:29 opportunity. It's not it's not like a pain in the ass. Well, I do I without even reading a book, I can tell I can already recommend it because of the photographs because guys are very visual. Yeah, that's good. And it's one of the reasons why I'm like, yeah, because it's not going to read all that. Yeah. But if you have these interesting photos with the commentary below, I, you know, what do men really have to lose? Nothing.
Starting point is 00:51:56 Nothing at all. They have to be. It's like sports center. Yeah, you show the video and you give the, they come. Exactly. And do you have video on your website? It's BillySundayMars.com, but I'm going to do some more stuff on the YouTube channel
Starting point is 00:52:09 because I've gotten a lot of requests for that. And we're doing some video stuff now to give people some ideas on how to do the movements. And it's practice. It's just practice. With fingers. When you practice this, the core gets really strong. There's a lot of great exercises because they're specifically designed for sex, they work on the lower abdominal muscles in ways that no gym could ever teach. So you teach these, do you actually have a question? The pubic bone between the pubic bone
Starting point is 00:52:33 and the navel center, that's the lower abdominals. If your legs are moving when you're doing an exercise, you're doing your legs, you're doing hip flexing. But because you can't use your legs so much during sex, you have to specifically target those muscles between the pubic bone and the naples. It's a lot of work. I'm just trying to remember to do my kegels
Starting point is 00:52:49 and stuff like that. Kegels, kegels are good. Kegels are awesome. I have an app, kegel camp. I can get an iPhone star. That's gonna help you from the inside. But now once you're able to do a pelvic rock, now you have the ability because one is just to squeeze and hold the penis tighter.
Starting point is 00:53:07 That's what a cagle does. Right. Better than that, because that's still random. Right. If you learn the exercises, which are, are talking about, talking about dropping the g-spot down onto the penis and the penis moving up in, now it's a direct. Can you visualize that? Yeah. It's not moving, it's not missing.
Starting point is 00:53:28 You don't miss. Do you have any pro-Jays or anything that I could sleep with? Are you ready to walk? No, it really, it sounds awesome. I'm working on that. Yeah, are you? Are you creating people?
Starting point is 00:53:37 What's a full body orgasm? You talk about that in your book. How can you teach women out of a full body and men a full body orgasm? This isn't just about the woman. Obviously, it's about men too. Well, yeah, for us guys, I mean, really, I mean, we have to last longer. When we last longer, we actually release more hormones that keep us stronger.
Starting point is 00:53:52 Everybody, people don't realize that. The way to stay young and healthy is orgasm without a doubt. It releases hormones and neurochemicals that allow us to stay younger, longer, without a doubt. Every libidinal herb that they were using for years has been a longevity herb. Right. So the full body orgasm,
Starting point is 00:54:12 we're talking about that for both men and women, the longer you wait, the longer you allow it to mature, it's kind of like building it up. It's building it up and building it up. So when a guy goes in and he just has a thing for three minutes, he's, that's like robin' a bank and walkin' up with a dollar. dollar right you know. Gotcha. Love it. Okay. Awesome. Thank you so much. I think we're good. Yeah Billy said he more as rare to time fit for love
Starting point is 00:54:35 We can find this on the website. We'll put on the website. We'll put your book and we're gonna do a little video after this too. Everyone can watch you can watch show and then we're gonna do a little video ourselves as much as I says. Thank you so much Thank you. You're on great. Thank you so much for being on the show. We're going to be shit. Thank you. Isn't it fun? We have good times in here and I've never seen men as so engaged. Now I'm just listening. I love it though. I think that we should get you the book. I think you should. I'm going to do it. Okay everyone. Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? Email me. Feedback at sexwithemily.com. You're back at sexwithmly.com.

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