Sex With Emily - SWE: Dude, Where's my G-Spot?

Episode Date: January 21, 2012

Emily prepares a speech for a Singles Convention and Menace is resentful of hot women (no surprise here). How Emily handles Valentines Day, "expiration dating", and teasing your partner sexually without being annoying. Emily talks about how long foreplay should last and why it’s important. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey, Avaline, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got a hair spandor, oh my! The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common, Mollie? What do you mean like laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?

Oh my god. Hey, I'm not going to talk about sex. Hey, I'm not going to talk about sex. Hey, I'm not going to talk about sex. Hey, I'm not going to talk about sex. Hey, I'm not going to have a stand. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean, like laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?

Oh my god, I'm so dumb. Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information go to sexwithanley.com. We promise it will improve your sex life in minutes It is the place to go for all the sex information. We do the live shows all week long and we've got information for you and blogs and polls and

Everything to improve your sex life right menace. I'm here with menace. Well, I know I at least have one poll for everybody What only ladies apply though? May take this poll. What is the poll? Just kidding. Okay. My poll. You didn't get that joke? No. Wow. Anyways, you were telling me right before the show started that you want to have sex through your iPhone. Okay. So I, I, and the last person on the planet by an iPhone, especially in the business

that we're in, I had a droid. And it was fine. And then I didn't, I'm happy the droid switch to my, to my provider. I mean, that iPhone switched to my provider finally. But like, I have two iPhone apps and didn't have an iPhone, right? I am so in love with my white, pretty iPhone. I'm holding it up to the camera now. We also, you can also watch the show if you'd like.

And it is amazing. Like, I'm blown away. Yeah, it does everything, right? It is everything, the apps, like, you don't need anything else. No. Like the apps, and I'm downloading, and I'm figuring away. Yeah, it does everything, right? It does everything, the apps, you don't need anything else. No. Like the apps, and I'm downloading, and I'm figuring it out, and I have to do lists and functions and reminders, and I'm listening to music as I'm running.

Like I'm, I had a problem. I'm using it on here. Like I don't need my iPod anymore. Like I'm like from the last decade. You realize everyone that's listening, go. They're like what planet are you on? Yeah. And I'm a very touch savvy person as most people people i would say on the spectrum not compared to you

menace but i love it i downloaded my app kegel camp if you haven't downloaded yet it is an app for men and women to improve your sex life that's all i want to tell you so download and 101 sex tips from sex families my other app i actually did uh... he because you never go to my website but i did the top ten no i did top 11, top my favorite iPhone app.

Oh, I wanna know. I was asking everybody, I'm asking everybody what their favorite apps are. Yeah, there's so many. Which ones are what, that's your number one Instagram. No one's Instagram, but there's other stuff like, you've seen me use it before, Uber. Uber is only available in like a major city, but a private town car, once you open it up, will come.

It's great for date night, because we can't. And then you don't like washing your car, right? There's a new car. You're washing my car, and it's disgusting, and it needs a car wash. There's a new app called Cherry. It's only available in San Francisco. They're opening another city soon, where you just open up

the app next to your car, and they go, here's's my car and then somebody comes and washes your car you never talk to them or anything like they just show up like I'm like my car is going to be sitting on the street all day is it more expensive uh 25 bucks oh my god done and done because when you get a car wash in San Francisco it's like a 40 minute commitment yeah yeah like wash your card to knowing. So, okay, today's show, it's called, dude, where's my G-Spot? I know, I saw you tweet that out earlier before the show and I was like, oh my god, are you serious? Uh-huh, seriously, because let me tell you about the G-Spot. The G-Spot is this elusive way that women can orgasm the G-Spot as part of their body, and a lot of women don't have G-Spot orgasms. They have clitoral orgasms.

So we're going to break down some of the best positions that you can do to enhance a woman's G-Spot orgasm if she can have one and how to find it, to where it is, dude, where is my G-Spot? And then we've got sex in the news. We're answering your emails to your most pressing sex questions and relationship questions. And we've got a live full show today. Very exciting. And we have a poll, our latest poll is,

how long do you think four plays should last? We're gonna announce the results next week. You can vote on the website. A, what four play? B, five minutes. C, 15 minutes. D, 45 minutes. E, all night long, baby.

All night long. I think all night long. I've changed. At first I said 45 minutes and I night long baby. I think all night long. I've changed. At first I said 45 minutes and I'm like four play should not be separated from sex. You say sex like intercourse like in and out in and out but four play is part of sex. It all flows into one another. You can have sex. You can have intercourse.

You can stop. You can go down in your partner. Four play should just go on and on and on. It's my favorite. One is your next four-play session. Probably this weekend. Really? Yeah. What do you got going on this weekend? I've got, well, okay, I was invited to one of those sex dinners. Do you know about this? In San Francisco, there's this guy and he puts on these like sexy dinners.

They're like play parties where people eat the food. I think they get naked, eat food off each other, have sex, have play, it's like a play party. It's like a orgy kind of, but not really an orgy. And I get invited to all these things. I've actually, for research, wanted to check it out, but I have a friend's birthday party, so I'm not going to go. But maybe I'll report back when I do go.

And I'm just going to be doing some work and going out with friends. And I probably will have a hot make out sash this weekend, maybe a hot four place sash. Can I just ask you, you just get invited to all these wacky sexy orgy parties because of the show? Yeah, I mean, I think I'm also a wacky sexy girl, but I do get invited to all these wacky parties. Just like constantly. Have you ever just gotten invited to, you know, a normal party where they just serve like chips and dip yeah sure But they're boring Well this weekend we have a major football game. I just heard about this. You just heard about oh my god

I'm so embarrassed because the guy was over painting my ceiling this morning and And he was like yeah a big game 49ers. I didn't realize that if the 49ers win that they're actually in the Super Bowl Yeah, yeah, so I'm like I'm like thank you so much because I know it's gonna come up and here it is coming up a big game 49ers. I didn't realize that if the 49ers win, that they're actually in the Super Bowl. Yeah. So I'm like, I'm like, thank you so much because I know it's gonna come up and hear it is coming up. And I know I know. I knew they want a big game last week,

but I did not know. I'm not a sports guy. I know you're not. But I watched the game. I was at a buddy's house. It was amazing. And it was one of the most amazing football games I've ever seen in my life.

It was so good. And I was at someone's house to watch the game. And I sat on my iPhone the whole time because I just got it and I was obsessed and I missed the entire game. You missed the last minute. And I was sitting in front of the television. Yeah, I heard all about it. I heard all about it, but you know what?

I don't think I would have been so impressed. I don't know if football, football, football. I'm bad football. But the guy caught the football and there was only like seconds left in the game. No, I get why that's interesting. Why it's interesting? I get why that's a cool game. That's why they won the game that could be going super well because of that game.

And they have invented it right, and I missed it. And so I can kind of say I watched the game, but I really didn't watch the game. Because when I got my phone, I was obsessed. I was like downloading apps and figuring stuff out. But I did miss the game, but I do know they haven't been in the Super Roll since 1994. Yeah, I remember in 1994, I was watching the game when they were in the Super Roll. Really? I don't remember that either, but I probably didn't watch it then either.

What are you going to do this weekend? Any hot, uh, four-play sessions for you? No, I'm going to go watch the Girl with a Dragon Tattoo movie. Oh, you are where? In the theaters? Are you going to like a special private screening? I'm going to a special private screening of it. With you. Just my buddies. My buddies. Oh rap picks are. Yeah whatever.

You're gonna go to Pixar and watch it. You never take me to. I think I can I just kind of plow you can I ask you a favor. Yeah. It's a new year. I never make the time to see movies. Can you please take me to a movie like every quarter? Not even once a month. I would that would be too much. Well I was going to movies to all these private screenings, right? Yeah, whatever. I know, but I'm just saying. If I take you to the private screening, I will cannot talk in the movie. I won't. I can't. No matter how bad it is,

you cannot talk in the movie. One time we went to a movie and I talked the whole time because it was the worst movie that's ever been made. That's great. But we were there with a bunch of other media people. People know who I am. What was it we call it in? It was the one with, um, we always forget the name of it because it was so bad. I go when she's like dating some guy that wasn't that one.

It was the one about the history of the world or whatever. When they get back. Oh, you're one. You're one. No, that one was that one was terrible. But you didn't talk as much in that one. Yeah, I did. As the one that I took you to the other one,

you talked a lot. Because this one you didn't, I didn't really listen to. I was talking about interesting stuff. You should have been listening. You weren't sitting right next to me. I know, whatever, I'm sorry. You're with some babe there at the movie, I remember.

Ladies. Some ladies. You're with some Foxy ladies. So what are you gonna to go to screening? You're going to go to the screening and then probably work on a website. Mine? On your website. No, no, yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to try to on Saturday. Okay, cool. Yeah. That sounds like a fun weekend. And just so you all know, I still have my contest going on. I'm giving away copies of my book and this contest, it's my book is called Hot Sex over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight.

And I have to say, I am the author. However, if you want to improve your sex life or take your sex life to the next level or you just want some ideas, you can flip through it. It's got amazing ideas that improve your sex life. And you can order on Amazon, but you can also win a copy if you email me at feedbackatsex with mme.com. Why you think you deserve a copy of my book, Hot Sex, and you might just win it. We'll send it to you. So email me feedbackatsex with mme.com. Oh, you know how we're always talking about the vagus thing. Yeah, that we need to go to

vagus and get drunk. We need to go to vagus you know, we already spend a lot of money on travel anyways. And we never have extra money to actually go do the show. My buddy just started this due website. It has, it's basically like Kickstarter where you know, people fund your products, but it's like fund your, your travel. Oh my God. Like if you're going traveling for work or something like that. Yeah, and then let's do it.

Yeah, so he just started, like he only had like his third person, already raised like over $2,500 for their trip. And then it's just like, I really want to go to Vegas so medicine I can get drunk and do a live sex with Emily's show, please help us. Yeah. Okay, let's do it. Let's do it.

What's it called? It's called a I don't know how to really say it's TR AB B you. Trebu. Trebu. So it's a T R A B B you. I would like someone to fund my trip. Would they fund a trip to the Bahamas too? I really just need to go sit on the beach. We really just want to do like a vagabond. I know what we want to do. We'll do it. Drifty. I will do it want to do. We'll do it thrifty. I'll do it thrifty. I get it. We won't say, oh, you need to stay at the palms in the real world sweet.

Although I really do like nice hotels. I do too. I mean, we don't want to say at circus, circus, but I mean, we're not going to ask for the biggest suite. No, not the biggest suite, but just maybe a sweet suite. Yeah. A sweet suite. That'd be fun.

I will show you Vegas how I do it. I want to see how you do, how you do in Vegas. Yeah. And I like all your Instagram. I'm going to start Instagramming too. Also, you're looking at my Instagram. A little bit, yeah. Yeah, I like it.

You're white menace, right? Instagram. And I'm sex with Emily at Facebook and Twitter and Instagram. And you're white menace, and all those things too. Yeah. If people want to check your ass out Okay, we've got some sex in the news and nothing else in your news sex in your news Well, I don't well, I don't know what you have so I do know if you're any of your own sex news

My own my own private sex news Not this week. Okay. It's been sleeping a lot. All right. That's good. That's important Do you have trans-barca news? Travis Barker news. Nope. How do you not have Travis Barker news? Dude, I don't do the news. Tell me what's up I Mean I do the news, but I didn't do it nude photos have leaked of Travis Barker. Okay. What would they like he took them on his phone? Yeah, I took him on his phone and stuff like that Stupid idiots people put your phone down.

When you are naked, leave your phone in the other room and stop taking pictures of yourself. You don't know what? He probably looks good. He's packing, so it doesn't matter. Really, I'm sure he is. I'd like to see those photos. Who released it?

Some chick that he sent them to? Probably, yeah. People, OK. You're in love right now. You slept with this chick last night. It was the best sex of your life. So you're going to send your picture of your winner. That's a really, really great idea you with this chick last night it was the best sex of your life so you're gonna send a picture of your we know that's a

really really great idea you think to yourself because it was hot and i'll continue the four-play by sending a picture uh-uh bad idea this person is going to use that photo again eventually against you what do you know what this person please stop sending naked photos everyone just stop just don't do it but if i'm travest barter and i'm packing out on a car like yeah this one we know i know but still I'm just talking about general message for everybody. Yeah, the only part of that sucks is he has kids that are like... Exactly!

And eventually you're gonna have kids anyway, and if your pictures get out, you might have kids and your pictures are out in the world, or you know, your mom Googles you and there comes your picture. Like, you just don't want, you just want to put the phone away. You can, as an alternative, I I guess take pictures without your face in it But we know him he has like very distinct tattoos right. Oh, it's a task. Yeah, you got tattoos forget it Sex and news Russell brands third memoir scares Katie Perry Look as they how she's a high-maintenance bitch or what? Something like that.

According to sources in the publishing world, Russell Brand has decided to move forward with the third installment of his bookie-wook memoir series. The stories in the third book will apparently feature everything that went on throughout his marriage to Katy Perry, including the details on why it failed. Another source claims Katy is worried saying there's definitely things she's went out in the open. What do you think that he's going to say about her? That she was high maintenance and maybe because I don't know. Because you think all women are high maintenance. Well, they are. But especially Katie Perry, I mean,

if you look at her writer, if her writer is real, which I'm hoping it's not real, it's like do not look real, which I'm hoping it's not real, it's like do not look in the mirror at Katie Perry. What do you mean the writer? Her writer, her concert writer. Her concert writer is apparently like 25 pages long. Okay, oh I see. So before she goes on tour, she's like, I want- These are my demands every time I go to the concert. Don't look at me in the eye.

I want M&M's in my room like that kind of thing. Yeah, and apparently it's pretty elaborate. I think it's on the smoking gun.com. See, I would want it in a elaborate one too. I'm like, don't look me in the eye. And don't talk to me. You're high maintenance, be a sh**. Walk backwards, get me some heat.

You can be married to you for a year. Exactly. Well, okay, people, this is another message. Okay, don't take new photos. Like today's going to be a series of lessons. Do not take negative pictures of yourself and do not get married under the age of 30 if you age under the age of 30 and if you've only known someone for a few months. Everybody's in love after three months. Everybody thinks marriage is a great idea

but let's look at King Kardashian, let's look at Russell Brand. I mean, really, why Russian to marriage? Why can't you just rush into like living together or like committing really seriously heavily, but why the wedding? I don't get it. Piss me off. I bought them presents too. You were in love.

Yeah, but love is disillusioning because when you're in love, do you know that the brain images of someone falling in love looks like that looks the same as someone who is on cocaine? Yeah. So you literally have neurons and hormones firing in your brain and you look like you're on drugs because you are on the love drug, which eventually like all drugs you crash. And it could be after six months, after a year, after you start seeing who this person really is, this is not the time to get married when you're on drugs.

I love the love drugs. I love your scientific studies that are so uplifting on life, but you have never been in love. I've been in love. You have not. It's been a long time since I've been in love, but I've definitely been in love. I've been in like serious like. I've been in love. I've been in love. But it's been a long time. It's been a long time since the long time since i felt like that oh my god i love you i might want you to sleep over all i'll i want you to see what you get a with anybody i know it's crazy that i've never really i've never lived with

anybody but it just never really came up i think that guys would have wanted to guys proposed the idea of living with me and i just thought not a good idea time to break up not because they want to live together just because just because I didn't see it or I didn't see where they were going. Well, when I'm jobless and I have no money, I'm living on your couch.

Totally, honey. You can always stay with me. And I've got cable. You're a week at most. I've got my, yeah. Or like a day. And my dog. Oh, I love it.

After I ain't staying over. Oh, come on. Just because you farted on you once does not mean you hated dogs. It was disgusting. Oh, honey, I'm sorry. She had a bad stomach. OK, Johnny Depp and Vanessa Paradis are on the serious rocks on serious rocks. I've heard that too.

They've been together forever. And she's so cute and he's so talented. And things are not looking good for Johnny Depp and Vanessa. Seems their quiet family isn't a lot of turmoil enough to tear them apart completely. Multiple sources say the couple of 14 years who've not been seen on a red carpet together for more than a year are officially calling it quits. What's worse is we hear they are already living

sad, separate lives, passing poor Lily Rose and Jack between them. As one source points out, all this leads to their relationship being all but officially finished. I thought they were like this one happy couple, good looking, like they've been together 14 years. But again, I don't see that as a failure 14 years is a good run. Maybe they looked at us Maybe she looked at his teeth I think that his teeth are jacked. He was on the golden gloves the other night

I don't know what the hell's wrong with him. He never fixed him. He's got all that money He looks like his teeth looks like he's still in the pyres of Caribbean like really after Wow, well, I doubt that's why she left They're like round like his teeth looks like he's still in the pyres of the Caribbean. Really? Really? Wow. Well, I doubt that's why she left. They're like round. Does he smoke? I think he smokes and drinks. Dude, get the whitening thing in the Visaline.

Visaline. You got the money. You're a crazy millionaire. He lives in Europe, though. A lot of people in Europe don't aren't as focused on their teeth as we are in America. You need to have nice white teeth. I know. That's what I have. Okay. Bethany to have nice white teeth. I know. That's what I have.

See? Okay. Bethany Frankl from the Reaus HowtsWide. Bethany, love her. She, you do? Yeah. Awesome. She doesn't have sex.

During a recent interview, how is wife Bethany Frankl open up about her marriage to her husband, Jason Hoppe, and she had the following thing to say about it. My marriage is not perfect. And here's what Bethany had to say about her sex life in the promo for the new season of Bethany's ever after. I'm Bravo. Intimacy is challenging. Uh oh, ready? Intimacy is challenging.

Jason's penis has cobwebs on it. They've only been together like a year, right? Yeah, but they had a baby. Oh, the baby kills the sex life. I just got to interview. He's killed the the boners everybody. Baby kills the boner. I just got interviewed by Parenting Magazine about why would Parenting Magazine be intervening? Because I'm a sex expert about what about sex after baby? It was it was how the father can deal with the sex life after baby and what he should

do and you know what sleep with horse no She's not gonna want to have sex for on average for months She just had a baby come out of a vagina. It's been ripped Yeah, but that that was a while ago. Wow. That's a very attractive. I can't believe she said on national television that Jason's penis Has cobwebs on it. How does he feel about that? They got to start to having sex again. I'm sorry if you're listening to this and you're in a relationship And you're not having sex again, and then sorry. If you're listening to this and you're in a relationship and you're not having sex again, then it seems like too much time passed, too much time.

We can't do it. Just go home and sleep with your person right now because you can even take the 30-day sex challenge, which you say we're going to have sex every day for 30 days. That will get your sex life back on track. You can even have four play one in the night. But just say, like, go into the gym. You know when you play, I didn't go to the gym for like a month, right? I was so busy, I had no time to go to the gym.

But I've gone the last 13 days in the mornings. I've been going to the gym. And it feels great. I had to go every day in the first few days sucked. I was miserable, it was hard. I was like, oh my God, the gym, I was the last in 10 minutes. But now if you make yourself go, and it's the same thing with sex, you think,

oh my God, that's such a burden. But if you know you're gonna do it it gets you guys back connected again because when couples don't have sex they no longer have the intimacy anymore they might be fine and they can sit down and play game of backgammon together or do whatever couples do i don't know what couples do but but they're not having sex it's not gonna be good it's not gonna go well for the relationship yeah i don't know things just introduce alcohol. You'll be okay. Speaking about one of the real housewives,

because she's our off. Right, is it real housewife, right? Candy from the land is going to be here in our area. Right. So I want to try to get it on the show. We're going to go see her. Well, we actually knew that. She's going to be a good vibration.

Oh, thanks for telling me. No, we just found the same day you texted me about it. Oh, okay. Candy, she's got a new sex toy line. Yeah. And so she's promoting it at good vibrations and we're gonna go to the party, but she's also would be great to get her in here.

Yeah. Yeah, let's work on that. It's cool. Okay. This is crazy. What we're gonna say. No, I was saying she also does a sex show too. I heard that.

That bitch is trying to copy me. She's stealing my thunder or something. Where's her sex show in her basement? No, she does that as studio to what abs? Okay, Chris Brown and Rihanna are secretly dating again. Is that woman insane? He beat her. I have nothing else to say about it It says sources close to the star said that Rihanna Chris Brown have secretly been hooking up for a whole year Then the source close to Chris's said that Rihanna Chris bond has secretly been hooking up for a whole year. Then the store is close to Chris's girlfriend, apparently as a girlfriend, came forward and said that she's fully aware of his cheating but won't break up with him because of it. Okay, she's an idiot.

How many idiots are in the story? So now Chris's rep has spoken out about the romance claim saying he's not, you know, he's saying none of it's true. He said that they're just friends, he and Rihanna admits the rumors that Chris has been cheating on his girlfriend with Rihanna. She's been tweeting a lot about the topic at hand. She said there's no reason to cheat. There never is. This is a tweet that she sent. If you're not happy with the relationship, then don't be a coward just ending it. So maybe it's not true. Well, they were following each other on Twitter on Twitter still and then

Then her fans were like why the hell are you doing that? Sarge or crap and so on how many times did he beat her during that beating was it a lot? He was it repeated beating or was it a one-time? I mean all we know of is one time and he was no he wasn't drunk He was it was on the way the Grammys they got a fight now this is what I heard From because I I work in the industry. Yes through industry people, okay?

Okay, this is this is here say I'm not saying this is true This is not a statement that I'm making. This is what I heard okay happen that day Thank you for that, this was great. I was actually at the Grammys and I was excited to see her perform. So what I heard was they're driving the Lamborghini. She was giving him Felatio. Oh, awesome. And he got a text message from some other chick.

And I don't know how it went down, but she ends up like seeing his phone or something going off. And then she ends up biting. I was just gonna say that she bite his penis. Bite his penis. And then he went crazy on her. That's what I heard.

Oh my God, I've not heard that story. You don't beat the crap out of a chick. I mean, that's, I mean, you have no matter what, you know, you do show us teeth, which is a no-no. Yeah, you do whatever you can to get her off of your penis, but you don't beat her up. It doesn't sound like they had a healthy relationship. And it sounds like he's a cheater, even if he's not cheating with her, the fact that his girlfriend doesn't carry it. I mean, who knows what's true and what's not, but I don't think if they're good and he was a stupid thing I would just happen not too long ago he was trying to send

her a private message on Twitter and he messed up and it was public what and it says oh did you get those photos I sent you oh this is like dude you probably have a freaking phone number you don't need to be like talking to her through Twitter Yeah, that's so dumb. Okay. I don't even want to talk about them anymore because she should just friggin run from him and the fact that he's tweeting her Means that there is some kind of reconciliation Yeah, but a lot of times women who are are involved in abuse go back for more Yeah, because they want you know that thought there's a whole cycle of abuse that why women are in abusive relationships and it sounds like that could be her.

Okay, we are going to move into some emails before we get to do, whereas we're going to do stuff. Okay. Thanks everyone for emailing me at feedback at sexwithanlee.com. I will answer your emails, your sex questions, your relationship questions, whatever you got. And you can also go to my website, sexwith at le.com and just click on Ask Emily. It's easy to do it that way through the website. Okay, Emily, I've got a couple of questions.

Last week, I was with a woman and she was giving me a blowjob in the middle of her going down on me. She puts a finger up my ass and she pressed her and she pressed against my prostate and I came so hard it was literally the best blowjob I ever received. I guess my question is, is the prostate the male G spot? And my other question is, with the same woman, she had a fantasy of taking a man up the ass. So we went out that night and I bought our strap on harness and a new dildo.

And when we came back to my apartment, I let her take control. And yes, I had let her take it out my ass. The thing is, I kind of liked it. and I'm ashamed to admit it to her. Is it natural that I like that sort of thing? I love your podcast, and I'll be getting a membership to your site very soon, Steve in New Jersey. Steve? Okay, yes.

The male prostate is very much like the male g spot. Men have intense orgasms when they are penetrated there when when they're when their prostate is rubbed It's like the taint area What is it not your ass? Not your The taint the taint. Yeah, yeah, but this is the g-spot up I think but the taint area feels good too But anyway the male g-spot there are so many men first of all doesn't mean you're gay You didn't ask me that but a lot of men think they're gay. I can't tell you how many men derive so much pleasure from fingers up their butt or being penetrated by a dildo.

It does not make you gay, but a lot of men feel that it would make them gay, that they don't want to think of their ass, by the law. I think to the men out there, you might be missing out on some of the most extreme pleasure that you've ever felt and you're not getting it. And just start with the finger. Have a woman's stick her finger up your butt. See how it feels. At first it might kind of feel weird because you're not used to it. And then you can move on to baseball bats.

And then you can take a baseball bat if you're about, but I'm just saying that it's not, well, gay men can't all be crazy. Like they have experienced sex. It feels amazing to them. And you guys have an asshole an ass and you should use it and you should try an experiment but I know you won't I know there's some you know when you bitch sick and a dildo on my ass but you know what am I feel good and then then then do you really want to find out like 30 years from now that like that was the best experience you could have and you didn't do

it no yeah you should watch the movie road trip it's a it's a really funny movie but there's a whole part in that movie about this and they actually break it down and explain it what do they say the same how amazing it is and i mean men i mean i get why so many men i mean i don't want to strap on uh... penetrating me what about a finger but he said he had the best she was giving a blowjob

so what happens is she's... If it's a woman giving me a woman putting her finger up my butt, I don't think that's gay. Oh, okay. And you would, would you... If it's a guy putting his finger up, I'm gonna put it up. Have you ever had a woman put a finger up your butt? No.

But it might feel good. You would know. Yeah. Right. So, you know, and if that's something that grows your eye, you can take a shower together before I am, but just try. Everyone this weekend. Get a finger up your butt. Get a finger up your butt. Yeah, a finger you know and if that's something that grows you take a shower together before I am but just try it Everyone this weekend put your finger up your butt. Put your own finger up your butt. I don't care. See how it feels

Hi Emily. I'm a 21-year-old woman and I have problems achieving orgasms during sex I can manage fine on my own with masturbation primarily click-toral stimulation But when it comes to sex it's a huge hassle My boyfriend is an amazing partner and I've honestly never been more roused in the bedroom. Natural penises for the wind. But I just can't seem to climax during sex and I think it's discouraging my boyfriend even though I've told him that it's always been a problem for me. When I have achieved an orgasm during sex, it's been the best climax.

So I'd like to experience them more frequently without killing my boyfriend's wrists. Any suggestions or advice? This is Lydia from Tottenham, Ontario, Canada. Okay, Lydia, this, first of all, you're 21 years old. This is a great time, nested question. A lot of women, a lot of women, all ages, are unable to achieve an orgasm through intercourse without additional clitoral stimulation.

So I would say, first of all, good for you that you can have an orgasm on your own. That's awesome. You know how to do it. You can masturbate. I would say that you need clitoral stimulation during intercourse. And sometimes there's a lot of positions that are better for hitting your decent, for hitting, like if you're woman on top, you can move so the man's rubbing your clitoris. But also, I would try using a vibrator during sex.

There's nothing wrong with it. You can get a small subtle vibrator, so it's not like a big huge, rrrr vibrator. There's like the bullet or the pocket rocket. You can get those from Adam and Eve.com. Actually, if you go to AdamNave.com and you use coupon code Emily at checkout, you get the Kim Kardashian sex CD, sex tape CD. You get 50% of most items, a free gift and free shipping. We love Adam and Eve.com. coupon code Emily.

Get a little vibrator. The Packer Rockets or the Bullets are amazing because it's like you can barely, like you just, you just hold it or your boyfriend hold it over your clitoris while you're on top or sometimes it's great. Well, he's behind you to use a vibrator and you'll definitely have an orgasm. And some women need to have a clitoral orgasm before they can have a more, before they have a G-spot orgasm. So you might realize that once that vibrator helps you have an orgasm that you have another kind, you might have even more intense orgasm So I would definitely try that another thing I would try oh

You can also get a form three from Jimmy Jane or form two those are great vibrators Jimmy Jane.com is awesome And you use coupon code Emily 25 it check out Also Cock rings are great because you don't need to use your hands. Meaning you won't hurt your wrists. And there's the iconic ring from Jimmy Jane, the boy-in-go cock ring and screaming O's from Adam and Eve. So here's a deal about cock rings.

I'm a huge fan of cock rings because they're stretchy, they fit on every penis, and now they come with vibrators on the little tiny vibrators like the size of a, what is that? Like a nugget, like a dime. Like a dime. Like a dime. I was trying to think of something more profound. It's like the size of a dime, and it vibrates, and it hits your clitoris, so it helps keep him stronger, harder, longer, the caucerang.

But while you're having sex, it is pounding on your clitoris. So you're getting that vibration and you don't have to hold anything in your hands because the caucerine is on his penis. So I would recommend trying one of those and see how it goes during sex, just bring in a sex toy. Again, both Adam and Eve.com and Jimmy Jane.com are great sites to go to buy those kinds of things. My biggest fear ever has happened since we've we have ever done the show. What? Our computer crash while we're recording. But it's

okay. We're recording on our video, so we'll just get the audio from there. Okay, perfect. Well, I'm in. So, but the audio is fun. How long have you been doing the show? Seven years. Yeah. The audio works more than that. Yeah, well, we'll get off the video. Oh my God, no worries.

No big, so yeah, you want to watch a show though. Oh, if you want to, I should explain everyone, listening to this show, that you can watch the show on sexwithfamily.com. We do three to four shows a week. It is some shows are free, but some, if you want to watch all the shows and get all the information,

you should become a friends with benefits member. It's 4.95 a month, and it's the best 4.95 a month that you will ever spend. It's like a sandwich. It's like a sandwich. It's like nothing. It's like, not by this lovely lady of sandwich for once a month.

Exactly. Think of how much I've already helped your sex life and I haven't even got into dude, where's my G-Spieh yet? Which we're gonna get into in a second. Believe me, she needs that sandwich. If you can see the refrigerator at her house. Oh my god, it's all alcohol.

I've got whipped cream, half a bottle of wine and tons of condiments for some reason. Half a bottle of wine, isn't it? Like not good after you open it? Yeah, I should throw it away. It reason. Half a bottle of wine, isn't it? Like, not good after you open it? Yeah, I should throw it away. It's like a bad bottle of wine. I just haven't thrown it away yet. It's pathetic.

I live like a bachelor. My refrigerator's always been that way. The freezer is really full though, because I eat frozen food sometimes. From time to time. My refrigerator has the whole line of Trader Joe's. Like, it is everything I love Trader Joe's. Yeah Trader Joe's is amazing Yeah, and you've been drinking a lot of wine lately. I noticed I've been joking around I saw my

Generate when I'm tweeting it. Okay, but yeah, I post a couple pictures on Instagram. Yeah, that's drinking wine The white wine is but you love to heal that's your favorite to heal. I yes Okay, please send the. Please send the bottles here. Send the bottles here, for you. To sit here. Exactly. We're better when we're drunk on the show. We actually have not done our drunk show yet. I know.

We're going to do it soon. What the hell? Okay, let's move into our topic. Dude, where's my G-spot? Before we do that, could we just say something? Because I remember in a conversation that we had, because we went out drinking not too long ago, went to the bar.

And a conversation we had because we went out drinking not too long ago when we're at the bar and a conversation we had was what's the normal one question people ask me about you oh okay you remember my response no you didn't remember I don't remember things tell me the number one question is do you take it out the butt what yes that was the number one question. That's the number one question. She must have been drunk if you don't remember my. Well, we were all drinking. What do you think? Why do people want to know if I take it out of the butt? I don't know. It's very interesting. I was thinking it'd be like, is she as cool as she seems on the radio? Is she that hot in person? Is she really knowledgeable? No. Right. No. Did she take it out the butt? Now, how would you know

if I took it out of the butt? I don't know. Maybe you told me. Right. I hate your friends. They're No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 99 a month and on sexoledemily.com and you'll find out you will find out although I've I won't talk about that. Um, but what you're talking about fingers of the butt why can't you talk about taking it off the butt? I won't talk about my own taking off the butt, but anal is like the new blow job. I swear to God everyone is having anal sex now. I know. I just wrote a book called anal sex it is trendy. Things become trendy and I feel like not it's it's been for years now, but, but it seems

like anal sex is a lot more common. Commonly talked about I think it's more in the mainstream probably I mean it's always been around but they've been having anal sex for thousands of years probably but it has been become more of a something in the repertoire but it's funny because I was in I was in Michigan visiting my family and remember when I had a date with that guy from Michigan, and he's newly divorced, and he said to me, I have a question for you, Emily. And he's, he's been, he's been, he was married for like 10 years, and he's just starting to date again. So he said to me, do you take it up? No, no, it wasn't about me taking it, the body's like, why do all these women want to take it up the butt?

He's like, I'm confused, color me confused. My wife didn't want it up the butt, like, you know what, you know what, you have the dating game, and you get back in the dating game, you have to like, exercise your dating muscles, whatever, he's just like, okay,

I don't know what to do, they all want it up the butt. He's like, and that doesn't really do it for me. And he doesn't think he's like afraid of it because he'd never done it. So anyway, that was his one sex question for me. And I said, yeah, people do it up the butt. Up the butt is so hot right now.

Up the butt is hot, dude. It's trending on Twitter. But I can realize, I know why a lot of people, if you don't, we're gonna be doing a show on anal sex in the next few weeks, because my friend actually wrote a book about it, called Tickle Your Tush. And it's-

Wait, that's a Sadie Allison. Oh my God. Yeah, she wrote Tickle's pickle. And now she wrote Tickle his tush, or Tickle Your Tush. His tush, no, Tickle Your Tush. Tickle A- Tickle, Tickle Tush. Because women's tushes can be tickled too.

So we're going to break that down for you. If you have any questions about anal sex or anything, you can email me feedback at sexwithalemy.com. So what, that you want to tickle a touch this weekend? No, I'll pass. Okay, cool. Okay. Dude, where is my G-spot? For some women hitting the G-spot can bring deep and intense orgasms that differ from

a clitoral orgasm. For other women, stimulating the area called the G-Spot makes them feel like they have to pee. So a lot of times women don't have the G-Spot orgasm because that area, when you touch it too hard, it does feel like you're going to pee, but actually a lot of times maybe you are about to be, but you might be about to have an orgasm too. So let's just talk about the location of the G-spot, the elusive G-spot where it lives. It's located about two inches inside the vagina on the top side, on the underside of her stomach.

So sometimes it's difficult to find or locate, and you should know when you found it because it feels like a bean-shaped bump, or some say like an apricot pit. The size and location will vary with most women. So if you stick your fingers inside of her, so a lot of times the best way to find the G spot for the first time, if you wanna do it with your partner or if you're a woman and you wanna do it alone, is to stick your fingers inside in like a cum-hether motion,

like that cum-to-me motion, but it's pointing towards your belly because that's where it is. It's like on the underside of your belly, the G-spot. You are more likely to find it if it's the G-spot, if the woman is already roused. So as I was telling the right, the woman who wrote it earlier, a lot of women need to have a clitoral orgasm before their G-spot because then it becomes engorged and she becomes arousis, she comes arousis and it is better to use your fingers. Have you ever gone to hunting for the G-spot in a woman?

Yeah, I have. The elusive G-spot. What did it how to go? I believe in while she was faking it whatever either way. I went looking for it. You did? Did she ask you to or you were just like let's go to spot hunting? Yeah, I mean I put my mining hat on there was a flashlight involved like splunking. Yeah, I had some maybe some Some night vision going on, you know, it's hard to find yeah, it's hard to find so you're more more likely to find it And fingers are generally generally more effective than a penis in finding it.

So this is what you do to find it. Let's say you have a woman, ask her to line her belly legs apart and hips rotated slightly upward. She can even use like a pillow underneath her butt. Insert two fingers, palm up and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch. Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen. So you've got one finger inside, two fingers inside and one on her abdomen just above the pubic airline and apply a soft downward pressure. This helps stimulate her g spot. So a lot of times during sex, if you've ever been having intercourse with the woman and she's rubbing her stomach or her area right there. Yes. Okay, that's her pubic bone. That's rubbing her stomach or her area right there? Yes.

Okay. That's her pubic bone. That's because that's how you can reach the G spot. That's why she's doing it. Aren't you glad you know that now? I know. Are you already not? Why are you doing that?

Right. Weirdo. Yeah. I have to do that too, just so you know. Sometimes. Sometimes when I'm having sex, it feels really good to rub that area because it's G spot. And they hit your clitoris too. So now that you have found the G spot hopefully you are taking notes

are listening very carefully you have to stimulate it. So like I said some women need to have their clitoris stimulated first so do your mouth or your fingers or your tongue or you some lube or whatever you want to do. Oh you put that like crazy ecstasy. Oh right. Let's make sure. You know there's all these female libido enhancers that they have whatever you want to do. Oh, you put that like crazy ecstasy stuff on your channel. Oh, right. Last week's show. You know, there's all these female libido enhancers that they have now. And my friend, Jamie, who was on the show, if you want to check out the show, it's on our website.

I believe it was last Friday's show. And before she came in here, she brought me a bunch of sex. She just went to the sex expo and we put this gel on our vagina on our clitoris because it's put in it tingled, and it's supposed to help you with orgasm. But I didn't have sex, I was doing the radio show. So I kind of forgot about it. It was tingling, it felt good.

And if I walked out and bang someone, I might have had a more intense orgasm, I don't know. It's inconclusive data at this point. No, you need to test it again. I'm gonna test it. We were actually just talking about it in the office. So if you don't stimulate the clitoris, there's a very strong possibility the G-spat may be feel dry and uncomfortable.

So do the com-hither movement with your fingers. And as she approaches the point of orgasm, if this is her first time having won this way, she may get the feeling of a full bladder like she has to pee. So that's what happens. This sensation should go away after a few seconds and if she is still nervous without having to pee just tell her to go pee. But that is the feeling. It's kind of a bummer. You're like, I want to have an orgasm, but I got a pee that happens with the G-spot exploration. And then what happens? And then what happens? Well, she can have a raging orgasm or a reject. Or she can just pee all over you.

Because she really needs a pee. And maybe you're into that sort of thing. Some guys like the Golden Jow. I know. It's so weird. It's so weird, but there are so many men who are like, PME now.

I never had that experience. Oh, I thought you were about to say, I had this one guy. I have not had a guy do that. Have you ever know? Got girls? No, but I knew some chicks in high school. They're like all into it.

They're talking about stuff like that. Are you for real right now? They were into. In high school, they're into like peeing on guys and stuff like that. Really? Yeah. Where'd you go to high school?

I went to a classy high school. Yeah, sounds like it. Newer, more or newer California. Yeah, it sounds like it was super classy. But yeah, I've never had a guy say, will you pee on me? I wonder if I would. Like, I really liked the guy and he was like, okay, get up and pee on me. Do you ever like taking a shower in a guy and he's peeing on your foot or something? No! What? Not for fun or anything like that?

Dude, is that how you have fun? You pee on women's foot? Yeah, you just pee on their feet or something. Do you do that? No. No? You pee on women's foot? Yeah, it's pee on their feet or something. Do you do that? No. No. Do I pee in the shower? Do I pee in the shower? Every guy pees in the shower.

Does he? Why don't you just pee in the toilet that's next to the shower? You know how to get out of my wet, then there's flour. There's wet. Pea before you get in the shower. It's disgusting because you don't clean your shower. I bet, how dirty is this? It's pee in the hole.

How dirty is your shower? My shower is very clean. How often do you clean? I bet you bet, how dirty is your- It's being the whole. How dirty is your shower? My shower is very clean. How often do you clean? I bet you guys, the worst thing- It's clean my entire house every single Sunday. Being a chick. Like top to bottom. Really?

And going to a guy's house when he is a disgusting bathroom makes me limp. I can't get it up for a guy. It kills your bum. Just guys, clean your bathroom, wipe down the toilet, like get all that crud out. I mean, stop peeing in the shower if you want to take a shower together,

because I know you just peed in it, but I know people will be in the shower. Okay, there are some positions that are the best G-Spot positions to reach the G-Spot. The first one is Doggy Style, which I'm sure will make many men happy because that's a very popular position. Guys love Doggy style.

As you kind of trade her vagina in this position, the head of your penis will hit her G-spot automatically. Then why don't you guys like it? Why do you think it's degrading? We do, like, that's the old news. But I guess some women feel like it's degrading. How do they call it doggy style? Why don't they just change the name into like queen style or something like yeah to princess style princess The it's the princess position and then then people wouldn't feel so offended by it. Yeah, okay So doggy style is right and another great thing about doggy style position Is that your penis can hit her g spot plus she can also stimulate her clitoris with a vibrator or with her fingers or you can Simulate her clitoris with your fingers favorite What my clitoris no to be able Your favorite. What, my clitoris?

No, to be able to use a toy at the same time. I love my toys. Position two, to find a G-spot. Missionary with her legs bent to her chest. So she's on her back and her knees are way up. And that can hit it because you're... And you can also put a pillow. It's always good to put a pillow under but the liberator is great. The liberator learned how to liberate our wedge. You can buy those it out. Really Lauren.

Lauren wants to learn is my internet sitting here. You're the stoner out of the bus. Maybe she don't want to share that information. Well, she got it to test it because we do test for Adam and Eve. I don't know that she really wanted it. Oh, she did want it. Oh, she really wanted the elevator. It's the big wedge. What was that movie that they had it in? It was with Brad Pitt. It was that movie. The sex wedge. The sex wedge.

It's like a wedge because a lot of women need to be have their butt raised up a little bit to have more stimulation and to reach easier. So. What do you want to use the liberator with? Oh, she doesn't want to talk to me. She doesn't want to use easier. So what do you want to use the liberator with? Oh, she doesn't want to talk to me. She's one of these names. But she did walk through the streets of San Francisco, loud and proud with the big wedge in her hand

when it came in the mail. You know, they sell that everywhere, like at Walgreens. I got your mom on the phone. I know, but they don't call it the wedge. Yeah, they call it the like, but Lauren did watch TV with it the first night, right? She did not have sex, she just watched, but it's comfortable for whatever fun it.

Watch TV. I have you had people come over and say, what is that? Are they already know what it is? Her roommates wanted to know. Oh, okay. Okay, so yeah, my interns get good little perks. Position three.

I never got a sex wedge or a cock ring or nothing for me. I don't know that you want one. I'll give you a comment. I mean, sex wedge, I like you because it's furniture. Like you could be used for other things. You see it? Why don't you just go to a keyah?

You really need a wedge? Okay, position three is the reverse cowgirl. In this position, your penis will easily hit her G spot. So you know reverse cowgirl. Guys laying down, woman is, it's like she's on top but she spins around. So her legs are facing, your feet are all facing the same position.

And she goes up and down. Men love that position too. The first cowgirl? You don't love it? I don't love it. Some guys like it, I think because, I don't know why, you can see my ass. Why do you guys love first cowgirl?

Well, maybe it's less intimate. I don't have to like look in your eyes. That's why I was gonna say first. I was gonna say, you don't have to look at me. You can just make weird faces and stuff. Yeah, and like give thumbs up and like call my friend. Well, you know? You're like, she won't know what I'm doing.

I'm gonna eat the rest of the pizza. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Okay. Have you ever texted somebody while? Having sex? While having sex are receiving um You know or or pleasure. No, no, have you yeah, of course like I do work. I had a video Nothing to do you're like I'm a final girl pro editing videos. Yeah, I'm getting flasier

Well, you're just a multi-tasker. Exactly. No, I think they like guy. I'm with would offended if I started sending texts. I was on a conference call once and had a guy go down on me. He was at my house and he performed all sex to me was on the conference call. That was kind of hot. I mean, were you supposed to put input on this conference call or just listen to it? Well, I didn't put a lot of input. I think I was just listening and maybe moaning by mistake. Yeah. But yeah, that's kind of all what I was having sex with some chick once. And then we called some other chick and let her listen. Dude, that was me. Oh, yeah.

I forgot. Oh my God. Menace, for again. I don't know why you did that. I was making more drunk. And I think I was always giving you shit about now. Oh, you never get laid. You never get laid.

So it was like Saturday night at 11 o'clock, I'm driving around and it's minus calling me. And I always answer minus's call and he's like, guess what I'm doing right now. And I was like, quite sick. Having sex. Having sex, man. He's like, you want to talk to her?

And then he puts the girl on the phone and she's like, hi. And then I think you guys forgot I was on the phone. Yeah. And you went back to having sex. And I realized I was listening for a while because I thought you're coming back You were just having sex and I'm like oh my god. I'm listening to men is having sex. I'm hanging up Why would you hang up on that when you go to all these crazy wacky sex parties? I think I was going to a party

I didn't have time to send listen to you have sex on night, but I thought that was funny You should do that again, okay, and then I'll record it Okay, if you want to find your own G-spot, this is for a woman. You do not need a man, you do not need his penis, you do not need his fingers, because you've got your own fingers, and they also make, if you go to any of these sites

at a mini of Jimmy Jane, they make certain vibrators that are for G-spot simulation. But first thing, get out some lube. Lube is so important, I am bringing lube back in 2012. Lube is not just for when you're dry loo feels really really good on women's clitoris and inside why laughing

i always like when you bring up such as like these for some reason because i watched a lot of comedies and it'll be in uh... the movie super bad yes they can't get out yeah it goes out of the little little bottle and he throws in the bushes Right, Lou gets a bad rap and It's so extra like just bringing I mean you should bring a condom every single time But bringing a condom such a hassle and then bringing a little

That was a fun side it was firm inside loop,. Was it, yeah. Well, okay, loop feels amazing. It just enhances sex. I think for me personally and a lot of other women, I've talked to Ann Mann, it just feels good. Like, just always have loop by your bedside and add it into the mix. It makes it more slippery. But specifically for women who are trying to find their G-spot,

get out some loop, put your finger inside and tell about your second knuckle is inside. You should feel a rigid area on the upper wall of your vagina, and it's going to be the texture of the G-spot area will likely be noticeably different than the typically smooth walls of a dino. So that's how you find it. It feels like I said, like an apricot,

or like a bean or something. And when you're aroused, it expands. So maybe you first want to masturbate clitorally and have an orgasm and then go haunting for your G-spot. Just saying. The G-spot responds to pressure. So press down and pull forward using that cum, Heather motion with your fingers. And a light touch, unlike the clitoris, a light touch on the G spot doesn't do that much.

So experiment with direct and consistent pressure. You may also try circular movements or thrusting. So you want to do direct pressure on it. It's different. Like the clitoris, you go on the clitoris, you go around the clitoris, but with this, you got a pressure, pressure, pressure. That's a woman, that's what you should do.

Okay, so you got that so far? I got it, I'm thinking of it in. Mm. Another thing about the G-spot, that makes it so you're like, why do I care about the G-spot? A lot of women, when they have G-spot stimulation, can squirt, so female ejaculation.

That's a very common question we get asked. Why are you squinting and making faces? No, it's just the whole squirting thing. You don't like it. It's very messy. And I have to clean my bed sheets like right away. I know, I know. And I don't know if she peed on me or she actually squirted.

She did not pee. It's squirted. Female ejaculation exists. It is different fluid than pee. It comes out of different place. It is real. I promise you. comes out of different place. It is real I promise you some women ejaculate with an orgasm and others find that orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct in different Functions which happen separately so I know women who squirt but don't have orgasms and some women

Orgasms and then they squirt so you can squirt without it So if you have a lot of pressure to your g-spot, you are more likely to squirt. And there are lots of DVDs and stuff online. And on the show, we talk about it. You can actually learn, women can learn to ejaculate. We had a woman on the show a few months ago who talked about teaching women and you can all learn to ejaculate. So she's got to relax, the woman's got to relax, and she's got to contract her pelvic muscles.

So women eat control stimulation, and brothers might happen during intercourse, but most likely they'll happen tension to the g-spot. So this is all about the g-spot fluids. Use your fingers to play around and see what works, and you'll hear the g-spot. So just keep pressing and pressing on the g-spot for increased stimulation. And then you'll know when it happens because a clear watery fluid streams out of her urethra, which is different than where the urine comes out of it. It's a white, it's clear. I mean, it's not urine. Where is she hiding? Where is she hiding this fluid?

Enter your rethra. And it doesn't go that unless you stimulate the G-spot. Jesus Christ. It is a lot. It is a lot. But have you had a lot? Where are you hiding all that? Have you had, have you had a lot inside? Yes, it's very messy. I thought I was peed on. Maybe I was peed on.

Maybe you were peed on, did you smell it? No, I didn't smell it. Oh, that's good. But I mean, some women do pee during sacks. It happens, was that gross you out? That I got peed on? No, I thought it was awesome. Yes.

No, but does the female ejaculation? No, no. It's just so, you know, I don't like things that are messy. So much messy. So why are you so neat? I'm not like super neat, but it's just like, all this messy stuff all the way. I know, it does.

It does make your sheets really wet and you have to change like the other sheet and the under sheet and the mattress cover and it's true Maybe you just put like those depends on your bed for like like the the sheets that people use like old people use Yeah, they pee in their bed should yeah, you could you know I spent $40 at Ross for my bed set And I don't want to mess it up. Okay, you spend a 40 whole bucks? $40. That's nothing, mine was like 500. Oh, excuse me, Egyptian cotton, whatever the hell. Yeah, you gotta have Egyptian cotton.

Honey, this is important for men. Men should have good sheets on their bed. Yeah, I mean, my bed is always made and it always looks nice. Yeah, but do you scratchy sheets? No, no, I have good sheets. Are they crusty? Are they, yes, they're very crusty. From ejaculation?

From all the ejaculation on them. Yes. How often do you masturbate? Daily. For real? No. By-weekly. By-weekly?

I don't know. Once a week, twice a week. I'm just curious. Yeah, maybe. Twice a week. And you think about me. I think about you every single time. Right.

I wonder if that would make you not get a boner if you thought of it now. You would for sure. Oh, man, I was gonna I was gonna tell you something. Go. No, I've just got a little bit more to talk about the juice. We're almost down with the juice. But so we've yeah. No, I, uh, damn, I totally forgot. I'm sorry. Oh, give me a good story. No, no, no. Oh, uh, I was gonna say towards the end of the show because the show's on serious now Right serious XM 165. Yeah, and they're based on New York and I found out last minute I'm going to New York. No way what? Yeah, in The beginning of February for what for the history channel for some media thing. That's awesome Yeah, it's really awesome. You've been to New York right? Oh many times right love it there. I love it I should live in New York I feel like it's every American's duty to live in New York at right? Oh, many times. I love it there. I love it. I should live in New York.

I feel like it's every American duty to live in New York at some point in their life, and I still have not lived there yet. I'm living in San Francisco, but I love it. I mean, New York is amazing, but it's so, we think it's expensive where we live. I know. It's so expensive.

My friend had a one bedroom place that wasn't even new. Right. It was five grand a month. Yeah, it's crazy. The rest of the people play there. It's even more than San Francisco, which is one of the most expensive in the nation. I know. It's crazy.

There's so many more people. I mean, here's the thing San Francisco, there's less than a million people. And by the time you lived here long enough, like you've dated everyone, you've slept with everybody. That's your problem. That's my problem. But in New York, there's always new meat coming in.

There's millions of people, not just hundreds of thousands when that area 15 million people live there a lot of people people should not complain about dating in New York because you can find people in New York in our whole area here we only have five million in our surrounding I know eight hundred thousand live in San Francisco but our surrounding area is five million right so yeah they have 15 million in such a small place I know I love it I love it when you going February 1st and 2nd probably cool okay what's up you gonna come yeah for sure let's try to do a fundraiser on your friend's website oh you're coming yes I'd come with you Emily really wants to go with

Minus in New York I'm gonna go there to play with the Alligators. Why? That's for the History Channel. Oh, that's cool. Swamp people. It's a television show. Oh, that's awesome. Okay. So, the final thing is I have to say about the G-Spot.

There are sex toys that are specifically good for G-Spot stimulation. So there's the Lilo GG Pleasure Object. It gets five out of five stars of reviews. There's the vibrator. It has a vibrator motor in tip for stronger G-spot stimulation. And then there is, so I guess that's the best one. You can buy it at meneve.com. Use coupon code Emily at checkout and I love Lee Low Toys. So people should check it out. I thought there was more. I was going to explain to you more about it, but I'm not going to.

So I just, I've talked a lot about sex toys, which is important. Oh my God. And get to a meeting tomorrow. Oh your favorite Adam Lambert Oh, he's really yeah, he's coming to my work tomorrow He's really good friends with a friend of mine in LA really that sounded so L.A. I've got a friend. He's got a friend who wants to have friends with I'm not really good friends then what he's coming at what's he doing now? He's still doing music. Oh, that's cool. He's coming by to promote his music But you know, he was just recently in the tabloids because the guy on a fight somewhere in Europe with his boyfriend

And then they got arrested no way like an a domestic Exist. Yeah, and he tweeted later that they were laughing about it But you know, we're gonna get the dirt. They're probably drunk. Don't you think? You know, okay guys, they're drunk. Do you think most domestic, most, a lot of domestic disputes happen when people are drunk? Oh yeah, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I drinks, she immediately, like after like a drink, she blacks out, like blackout drunk.

If she's like such a lightweight, yeah, she shouldn't be drinking. She's like pretty much almost entirely stopped drinking. She said one time that she was drinking with her boyfriend at her house, she she blacked out and she said that she just woke up by herself laying on the floor of her house. Oh my god. And she said that her boyfriend told her later that she went crazy and pulled a knife on him and he went running out of the house. Oh my god, after one drink. Yeah. Crazy. She's crazy. She shouldn't drink. Okay. This is all we got time for. Everyone, thank you so much for listening to Sex with Emily. You can send us your questions, go to our website, become a friend with

benefits member. We've got a great Valentine's Day program coming up because I know you're all thinking, started to think about Valentine's Day and you're maybe you're annoyed with it and you're like, what am I going to get her? What do I do? We've got a whole week long thing of Valentine's Day. So you're going to be in tip-top shape. Everyone keep listening to the show and thanks so much for supporting us and listening to us. Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? Email me. Feedback at sexwithemily.com.