Sex With Emily - SWE: Real Housewife Kandi Burruss

Episode Date: February 4, 2012

Kandi Burruss from the Real Housewives of Atlanta talks about Bedroom Kandi, her new discreet intimate product line, and gets personal about her own sex life. The Sex With Emily staff party leaves the entire team worse for wear. Why you should never share your "number," bicycle dildo delivery, how chocolate in the freezer will get get you laid, Steak and a BJ Day, ex-sex, chat roulette shenanigans, and myths about singles. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Started the day off terribly. Why would you do? because uh my work uh said they would get me a new computer. So I was just extremely excited about that. But checking the price now I have to get this special. Right. Of course, there's going to be $200 or something special, okay, to be able to spend this amount of money. And then they asked me about another computer that they got for me that I also have. Right. And they asked me if I use it.

I said, Oh, no, I don't use it. Do you want it? And they go, Yeah, we just wanted just because of other employees when they use it. They can. I go, Oh, sure, no problem. I go, I just need to grab all my files off of it. So I do that this morning. And I kept it in really good condition.

And I thought to myself, oh man, I'm gonna clean it, I'm gonna make it look great. You know? And I had this special, you know how you get like plastic shells over them, and you know, to protect them and stuff like that. So I'm just cleaning this thing off and then I go to pull off the shell

and the freaking screen breaks on it. No way. You have to return. I just died inside because that's the second computer in a week that second laptop. Because you pulled off the plastic thing and that made it. Yeah, it's supposed to be the, but it's been the protective, but it's been on there for like a couple of years. So it's like stuck on it. Because it was like kind of dirty. So it's like stuck on it. Cause it was like kind of dirty. So I was like, oh, I'm gonna clean it out, make it look all nice.

Oh, sweetie, that's a bar. It's like the worst thing. We've had it for a while. I mean, the Azure fault, we've had it for a while. It's on a big deal. So how much fun do we have at our party there tonight? Can we just talk about that? The other night, man, we had too much fun.

I think I started falling asleep. That's because it was way past my day. I know, but it was super fun. We did Jello shots. It was the whole section of the only team. And I made Jello shots. It was the first time I've cooked for everyone. Which I, which is not cooking. That's cooking, because sort of. That's providing sustenance sort of. Yeah, yeah. And it was really fun. We just posted some pictures on our Facebook page, the section of them, Lee and Twitter and everywhere and they're fun. Yeah, that's so much fun.

We had a Thai food and we ordered pizza and we watched a movie and we just talked and drank. Left and drank. And you busted out the Charles Shaw, the $2 wine. Because that's what you guys like. So I got you that I would have gotten you. Oh sorry, you had to slum it with us. It was kind of hard to buy it like when people I was a trader Joe's

We're talking about the two-buck chuck a little bit because I wouldn't normally bring the two-buck chuck to a party Why taste the same as I host a party with two buck chuck? I've had expensive wine Yeah, but I like it more expensive wine, but but I could get a lot more bottles We did not run out of alcohol. No, we did it. And it was awesome. So we Yeah, it was wasted We did get wasted. I was messing with the interns because I could tell that they were wasted So when no one was looking I would just point and laugh at them and then make them laugh really hard

And then the end everyone else is like why are you laughing so hard? Because I was I was messing with everybody you were that's so mean Yeah, it was it was pretty hilarious Because everyone gets on asking them why you laughing? I did that to a lot of people. Yeah, cuz you're just so funny I know hilarious hilarious. What are you doing this weekend? It's a big weekend this weekend my mother's coming Oh, no, I mean oh great. Why for how long? Just two days really I really I really want to meet her. What time should we go to lunch or something? Saturday Sunday? I can happen. Come on. I want to just meet her. What's good is she's landing in the East Bay and you don't go over? Oh, no, no, no. I already had to go this week once and it was not fun. Oh my God. You have to go 10 minutes away.

I know. Why did I go again? No, you want to go to a good vibration? a bit of an awesome. Oh my God, that was really fun going to good vibrations. I actually enjoyed that trip to Oakland. Yeah, we're on serious XM right now. So people might not know, but there's here in the Bay Area, San Francisco Bay Area. There's a bunch of sex shops, sex toy shops, you can call it. It's called good vibrations.

It's called good vibrations. It's good vibes.com, you can go and buy. It's not like your cheesy, crazy sex. No. No. It looks like, I don't want to say it's not boring at all, but it's like if you're walking kind of into like a Barnes and Noble. Yeah.

Exactly. Exactly. It's like it's not in your face, but the reason why I love good vibrations is because where I grew up in Michigan, there was like sleazy sex toy stores where you walked in and it was like old men sitting there like whatever jacket I have to pour in some of the basic cars. Yeah, didn't know. And then I walked, I moved here and I moved San Francisco and I walked into a good vibrations and they were like, oh, they're so educated and informed and you can like talk to them about sex and feel comfortable and they're like,

well, how do you orgasm would you like a G spot by a writer? And it was like totally normal and I felt like for once it was a place that I could go and discuss my sexuality. Yeah, and then they have the antique vibrator collection. It's crazy. It looks medieval vibrators. Exactly. They have them all.

And I won some toys and I got some presents. It was super fun. And then also I want to mention real quick that we have a new poll on the website. You love polls. I know. Do you enjoy casual sex? We just want to know.

Do you enjoy it? Yes, I'm a man. No, I'm a man. These are the answers. Yes, I'm a woman. No, I'm a woman. Easy. So now as we have four or five choices,

this is just yes or no. So we want to know, do you enjoy casual sex? We just did a show on casual sex, casual sex, etiquette, we wanna know how you feel about it. It's good. It's good, casual sex? Yes, it's very nice. Oh, I wanna say what's up to everybody

listening in Los Angeles. I'm gonna be there next week. Oh, hello. Yeah, I'll be there for four days. So if anybody wants to hang out, I gotta figure out where I'm gonna stay because every single girl that I know down there for four days. So, if anybody wants to hang out, I gotta figure out where I'm gonna stay because every single girl that I know down there has a boyfriend and my best friend, he lives there,

but he just had a baby. Oh, knowing, I hate people with babies and you can't stay with them anymore. Or girlfriend. And these like, like, like girls I slept with, but it's just, you know, this is weird. You didn't see with any of them?

No, I mean, well, some of them. Some of them, No, I mean But the probably the ones that were called to stay with right or not the one you said was not or not the ones And their boyfriends won't want you to say there are just it's just weird, so I don't even want to ask So I can stay with your ex boyfriend that car use car sales Yeah, exactly you can totally stay with him although he's maybe sell me a car. He does have an extra room You just have to be nice to hang stay with him, although he's not. You can maybe sell me a car. He does have an extra room. You just have to be nice to him and hang out with him. He's not so bad.

He sounds so bad. If he takes me to Kat Suya, he'll turn me around then. Yeah, he does. We go down your place. We've totally been there. So you can do that. But that's funny, it'll be in LA. And then I last slept at my girlfriend's house.

Something guys would never do. But I had to go. I had an appointment with this boy named Palabal, so I had a meeting my girlfriend's house. Something guys would never do. But I had to go, I had an appointment this morning in Palabato, like a meeting I've had forever. My friend just moved down there in Palabato, California. It's like an hour, 45 minutes away. So I stayed, I slept in her house. We hung out with Jake Wine.

I slept in her bed. She just moved to a new place. My friend, Charlotte. No way. The guys would never sit around and like sleep over to guys' house and sleep with his bed. You'd sleep in the couch, right?

Yeah, you don't sleep in the same bed. Yeah, but girls do that all the time. We slept in the same bed. We didn't have a pajama party or anything. Did you guys make out and bust out dildos? We didn't make out. We just ate cheese and drank a lot of wine. And then made out.

We didn't make out. But when that be better story, if we made out, I was just thinking about that. I just was in a friend's house. This is called going to ask to ask when you, chicks. See been the same bed? Yeah. You should Google it.

I'll Google, I'll go on the Google and Google it. That's the ass. Exactly. But yeah, in a desperate situation, you sleep in the same bed, but most likely not. I, when I was in Chicago for a lot of plusa, I was saying at a W hotel, and my friend, he was staying there. I was letting him for a lot of plusa, I was saying a W hotel and my friend

He was staying there. I was letting him stay at my hotel and I let him sleep on the bed and I slept on the couch Right that's what I do. That's you guys do. I totally get it, but we are a little different like that. Yeah, okay I've got a little bit sex in the news for us. What do you got? This is not a shock or a butt. It's a story and it is that study shows that women lose interest in sex over time. What? What a shock and so do men,

but they interviewed straight couples who had been together from one month to nine years and found that for each month by 0.02 on the female sexual index, ranges from 1.2 to 6, whatever. It says that they don't like sex anymore, right? So the factors could be, it could be because most likely the factors of the nature of the relationship must do with hormone levels changing, the honeymoon phase moves to the compassionate stage or the evolutionary phase.

And the reason why couples during this time, men need to maintain higher levels of disease. Women's disease, basically it says that women's desire levels goes down. Men need to maintain higher levels of desire for longer because they have to spread their seed. So you guys have desire that goes a longer and long-term relationship. Or a woman that just takes a nose dive. That's why you gotta, you know, date somebody younger.

You can't be dating these old ladies. They're no fun. Shut up. He's gotta date someone when this, okay? We watched, what's your sex number? Oh yeah, that's the movie. I thought it was kinda stupid, but it was cute Of course because it wasn't correctly acclaimed by the academy. No, that's not me

But I liked it. No, I liked it because she that movie was a really good point But a really good point of a very important topic that we need to discuss right now and that is we said it before Say it again. You should never ever ever, ever discuss your number with anybody, your friends, your people, the number of people you swap with is, is your, is a number to be kept to yourself. Yeah. And she didn't want to go over a certain number. Right. So she was trying to go back to like ex-boyfriends and see if there was somebody that she missed

that stuff like that. Exactly. Because she read a study that the average is 10. Yeah. But women, that's ridiculous, they low. And then maybe on the coast, 10 is like your virgin. 10 is like last week, just kidding. Maybe in middle America.

Last month. Middle America, I'm sure 10 is pretty high. Exactly. So not to say that you guys don't have fun in middle America, but I'm just saying you can be. Be get married younger you guys don't have fun in Mill America, but I'm just saying you get married younger. Yeah, you have you don't have as many sexual encounters. I go if you watch 16 and pregnant, it's all it's all chicks from Midwest. Yeah.

Yeah, team mom to everybody. You just condoms people. Yeah, right. Exactly. Okay. So a Brooklyn sex shop now offers bike delivery. So Bay plan, which is a really cool sex shop in New York. If you're dying for a vibrator and you're in bed

and you're in New York and you're just like, I don't wanna get up, you can just call them and they'll deliver you a vibrator. They deliver everything these days. Why not vibrators? Yeah, I was just thinking about how they need a pie delivery, but they do have pot delivery. No pot pie. We live in San Francisco. Yeah, no, I found out they do though on like Friday night in San Francisco. You can buy it's like Friday night pie or something like that. They deliver pie. Yeah. Oh,

that's cool. Sometimes you just want to pie. Sometimes you just want to go outside your house to get it. Yeah, but pies and yeah, that's true. Pies delicious. You don't like it in pie? No, I'm actually not a pie fan. I'm a chocolate chip cookie fan. Anything with chocolate and then I'm a chocolate pie. Yeah, they do.

They don't. Yeah, they do. Most pies are like apple. Apple, which is one of my favorites, and then pumpkin pie. Yeah, but there's no chocolate in there. There's no like chocolate pies. There's chocolate.

I don't want chocolate pie, because pies aren't meant to be chocolate, and then when they're chocolate, they're weird. So they're not my thing. I believe that pies make chicks horny. Why do you just make that up? No, like chicks love pie, except for you, because you're weird.

She's still with chicks love pie more than men. She's just love just like in general, like sweets. You know, you take them to the malt chop or whatever, they're gonna like suck your dick, you know? Because they love candy. Yeah. So true. I love sweets.

Like guys, I've guy friends who always have chocolate like in their freezer, like always at bars of chocolate like frozen so they know when a woman comes over like, oh, would you like some chocolate? Cause we wouldn't always have chocolate like in their freezer. Like always at bars of chocolate like frozen. So they know when a woman comes over like, oh, would you like some chocolate? Because women always want chocolate. That's a really good tip for you men listening. You should always go get some chocolate and leave in your freezer.

Do you chocolate in your freezer? No. Are you a refrigerator? Do you have any chocolate in your house? I do currently have some chocolate in my house. Okay, it's important for men to leave chocolate in their house. I'm just saying it helps. It might help you or your situation sometime. And you'll be like, oh my God, it's like someone is right. chocolate in their house. I'm just saying, it helps. It might help you either, your situation sometime,

and you'll be like, oh my God, since someone is right, I just got my legs that laid or something. Because I had the chocolate. Exactly. Okay, brits are becoming more accepting of adultery. A study from the University of Aztecs evaluating Britain's integrity found that more brits

found underage sex and adultery socially acceptable than they did 11 years ago according to the study 5 out of 10 brits condemned adultery in 2011 whereas in 2007 and 10 so they're feeling pretty good about adultery they are? yeah they're more relaxed about it than we are which has always been known there's like everyone's got a mistress or whatever Emily why are you packing your bags right now?

I know I should go there, I'd fit right in. I should fall in. I should move to the UK. It'd be all about it. You'd be like, I've got a mistress, you've got a mistress or whatever. It's all good. It's your dream.

It's not my dream. It's not my dream, not to. We could totally do the show still. If you could go. How, we'd have to like, Skype, I wouldn't be able to see you and touch you and feel you. I would know how to do it. You would?

Yeah, it's really easy. I don't believe you. I touch you and feel you know, I would know how to do it. You would yeah, it's really I don't believe you I'll explain it right now. Okay. We would talk over Skype But we'll be recording each other's voices on high quality records like a Adobe audition Then you would send me your audio file and then I match them up together and it sound like we're sitting in the same room So I'm just gonna move to the UK and be happy because obviously they happen in here for you. I'm so happy. I'm so I'm I'm no I'm in a really good place. I am. I'm just dating. It's fun. It's open. It's new. Non-committal. It's perfect. Non-committal. But adultery is more socially acceptable. Just just meaning that here it happens all the

time. It's like oh my god. It's horrible, but there it's like, okay, I got it because it is horrible. But I don't want to commit adultery. I shouldn't move to there. I just that they're more relaxed. Me more open about having different types of relationships. I totally understand that. Emails emails from people. Oh, yes, what's more news? What game we played in? We played a game at the party. And everybody else lost, but me. What was the game? The game was What game we played in we played a game at the party and Everybody else lost but me what was the game the game was I had all the girls in the room pick a letter Pick a letter and call and I would call a guy that started with that letter right on my phone And I would ask them just randomly all I without influencing the metal I would just say do you think surgical parker is pretty right and what happened they all I have it on video you do I have three videos they all said no

they all said no guess what what I was on our favorite website today yeah sexes only dot com sexes only dot com our second favorite website today. I was on it was a gocker Okay, and Apparently she's had some plastic surgery done on the face. Oh, I want to see does she look good? Better than you think that she looks like a dog or whatever you think she looks like I didn't say she looks like anything Look at that. There you go. It's like been stretched or something. I don't know Check it out. What do you think? Wow her eyes look all funky. Yeah She did something something is going on

So if you want to see the photo, I'm gonna email it to you. We'll have it up on sex with every dog eyes are all weird Anyway, menace maintains that no guys find Sarah just a park attractive But all women do because we think she's cute style. We like her, we love sex in the city. Oh my God. But menace says, no, so we was calling all these friends and they're like, no, she's not hot. And I wasn't influencing anybody.

No, you weren't. I just called them and asked them the simple questions. Exactly. Very simple questions. Sarah Jessica, right? Did not. We played other games. She could be an amazing person.

She could be the nicest person on planet. You just don't find her attractive. You don't want to be like I just don't like being forced by women to say that oh yeah she's hot and beautiful. And when I don't feel that way. It's okay honey. I don't believe me. She's not going to think I'm hot or beautiful at all. She's going to have the same opinion about me. So don't feel bad. I'm saying these things. I don't feel bad. I'm actually fine. And there wasn't there another game we sort of played when you said that I thought about it. Do we play another game? No. We're all super wasted. Cosmetic. We're always. I think I need to pace it with the alcohol. I just get everyone really drunk really quickly. So I don't mean to, but I just get excited and

enthusiastic and I had so many jealous. Yeah, you're already busing, you bus it out the hard alcohol for me, like right away. I know, because I love you. And then I was passed out on the floor. I know, it was cute. It took pictures.

You were swimming a little. Yeah, I did that. I know you do. You're a good time at a party. Okay, here we go, emails. Thanks everyone for emailing us at feedback. It's sexathomely.com. I want to mention that I know that Valentine's Day is coming up.

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Jimmy Jane.com makes amazing, amazing sex toys. And you get $25 off your purchase over $100. Enter Emily 25 at checkout. I'm just trying to help you. You probably invite your gifts yet. You even thought about it. Believe me, she wants a sex toy. Let me guess what you're going to be doing on Valentine's Day for

somebody that you're dating. You're going to be doing on Valentine's Day for somebody that you're dating. You're going to be cooking an amazing meal, an amazing beautiful meal for the guy you're dating. I've never cooked anything in my life. That's a yes or no. No, true or not true? Not true.

What are you going to be doing on Valentine's Day? On Valentine's Day, I'm probably going be driving back from Los Angeles, so. That's good, good times. I don't know. I just think that if you are someone, like I'm sure if you're dating someone right now, you have got pressure, you've got a lot of pressure to do something.

So we are gonna be all week long on our shows. We're not just doing the show in Syrias XM, but we're doing, we do show three shows a week. And we're gonna have great guests and give you great tips for Valentine's Day all around all week long. Have you heard of steak and BJ Day? Yes. That is the holiday that happens exactly one month after Valentine's Day.

Yes, they have for that. What is it, steak and blowjavs? Yeah, it's the day that you celebrate where you're significant other, the girl that you're dating, she prepares a stake for you and gives you BJ. Because Valentine's Day is not about the man, it's all about the woman. So stake in BJ day, you can Google it or go to sexcowhai.com. You can maybe put a little excerpt.

That's a good one. I've heard of it. We talked for the last year. I'm out though. Like I'm out. Can't make a stake. Can't do it. Can't participate. Apparently it was just actually stakeaking BJ Day, which just in the news recently, because

a senator, dumbass, who's like running for office, apparently has an old blog post where he talks about staking BJ Day. I wouldn't idiot. See, this is why I can never run for office. Because I've said too much, I've talked about sex too many times. But there's one thing I wanted before we actually got in the emails, I know we're gonna do it in a minute, there's a big study that came out.

Everything you know about singles is wrong. It was a big single study about like all of these inclusions are being single in America. We separate fact from fiction with the first comprehensive studies of singles in America. So this is from match.com, who we know is millions and millions and millions upon millions of members.

And dollars. So and dollars to spend. But here it starts with a myth. They are, they're all myths. So the myth is that women are needy and clinging relationships. No, no, I don't think all of them are. Well, the fact is, the study, women need more independence in relationships than men do. In a relationship with women, are more lucky than men across every age group to want their own interest, have personal space, their own bank account, regular nights out. So is a myth that women are clean, clean, clean, can we commit, women get to commit? No, they've studied found that that's not true. Here's another myth that came down in the study.

Guys don't want to get married and have to be pushed into having kids. They're saying that's a myth. It is a myth. I want to get married. Men are just as inclined to want to get married. In fact, 33% of men and 33% of women said they want to get married. So it's different. Youngs, here's a myth, another one. Youngs singles today are promiscuous.

What do you think? Did you hear that? That young singles are promiscuous? Well, definitely, definitely on the coast, yes. Well, most singles ages, most people age 21, 34 age groups, say they have never had sex. They'd be precise 24% of men and 23% of women, 21 through 34 are virgins.

I definitely think because it averages out because they probably ask people all through the country, but definitely like in, um, on the, you know, West coast and East coast, people are definitely promiscuous like Miami, New York Right Los Angeles and stuff like that, but if you you know fly to Chicago You're gonna have to take out a girl a little bit. Yeah, exactly. I'm a wider and diner San Francisco We don't care so I'm fighting so for bottle of wine. It's done. Yeah, okay Another myth won't to buck talk. I've got three bottles left one more thing is a myth one more myth is hookups never turn into relationships. It's a myth because 36% of singles are open to a casual hookup in their future,

and 54% of singles have had a one night stand. 35% of singles have had a one night stand that turned into a long term partnership. I think they can turn into partnerships. I've done that too. You're like, oh, we're only hookin' up. Oh, look, you're my boyfriend. How that happened. Oh, no. What do I do? Oh, no. Gotta get out of it quick. Okay. Okay. Now we're gonna move into emails. Okay. Okay. You teach me enough. I teach do. Feedback at sexwithemily.com. You can email me. You can also email me on my website through Ask Emily. There's an Ask Emily section.

Dear Emily, do you have any shows on X sex? My girlfriend and I recently broke up and she's trying desperately to have sex with me. I broke up with her after three months of misery. We argued more than three months later in the entirety of my previous two relationships that at least last over a year. She's not a bad person, but she doesn't mind arguing. And I can't stand it until we do work out. She's also so much in signs of being crazy. I.e. overreacting, trying to make me choose between me and my friends. Yesterday she was saying how much of an asshole am, but today she's asked me three times to have sex.

I've told her I'm not into the idea because I feel like I'll get attached. She said, let's just try it. I'm also pretty sure she'll get attached. However however she's sure she won't, but I'm almost positive that she's a big, old liar. She sounds like a gem. However, she's pretty amazing and bad, and she's absolutely gorgeous. I'm not incapable of getting new women, and I'm inclined to do just that and avoid the headache.

My roommates and friends have been repeating the same phrase over and over. Don't stick your dick in crazy. I'm inclined to trust them. What do you think? Can XX really work? Big fan, you're awesome. Sean. Don't do it. Sean, Sean, Sean, Sean. Here's a deal. XX works. In fact, I've been known to sleep with X's for many years after. And it totally works. We did it all the people so we received together. She sounds a little nuts and I think that you're going to get more attached to even though you say you won't like she'll get attached. Why is she saying she never wants to see you. It's over and then she calls you the next day and asks you to sex three times and your friends are telling you you're crazy. Her telling you that she's crazy and she's making you pick between you and your friends. I hate when women do that. Yeah, I know it's awesome because you're getting laid and all this stuff, but you

just got to cut it off, man. I know you're going to maybe make the well dry, but it's worth it for your mental health in the long run. Exactly. And the more you sleep with her, like, I know she's amazing and bedding gorgeous, like all the crazy ones are all the crazy ones are the crazy ones are the best in bed. No. That's why you stick around for a little while. Yeah, because they're so good. Yeah. I wonder what makes her good.

I always want to know when someone says she was amazing in bed, like I want to always know what that means. Like, break that down for me. What did she do? That was so amazing. But that's a separate conversation. But XX can work, but for you, Sean,

I don't think that she's the one that you want to be Xing around with hell. No hell no Okay, web cam sex. Oh What make sure your network is a cure? Exactly Exactly if you're gonna engage you web cam sex I've been going out of my girlfriend for about six years. We're 27 and we've great sex and she's incredible She was away for a year and we used to have Skype sex for fun. We both loved it but when she came back

at the end of course but I still wanted to do it but we lived together so it would be pointless now. When I discovered that sometimes girls and couples go and chat roulette I got excited about watching another girl masturbate or couples having sex. Now there are a lot of penises on there but you do get girls on there who like to mess around. I don't classify this cheating on my girlfriend, but I'm sure she accomplished she wouldn't be impressed. I did try the other night to bring her onto it in her underwear to see if she get turned on by another couple.

She'd go on and wait a laugh and watch she couples having sex, but didn't really do anything for us. And I think I just enjoy it more when I'm doing it by myself with another unknown girl. I think Chatred let us a bit comical, and there's too many weirdos are showing their ugly dicks and whacking off. I don't classify myself as one of them, but I probably am. I don't understand that.

Chad Rue Lehet. My class? Yeah. No. I mean, I've seen it. I've seen it for not long. Oh my God. There's so many penises on there.

It's crazy. You know, not, I've seen it for that. Oh my God, there's so many penises on there. It's crazy. You know, not, I love the penis. I don't want you to click on it. It's just like, what are the people get out of that showing their dick? I don't know. I don't know. Guys, just they love their penis, isn't they want to show

them to the world if possible? It is so bad. Okay, well, here's his question. Is it fair to be doing this to my girlfriend? Is it a bit of fun or is it cheating? Number two, do you know of any of their sites or chat forums where people might have sex for each other or on cam where girls like to play in cam

without using my credit card number? For myself, but also my girlfriend. Thanks, Submillion, Irish Guy in London, Mark. Okay, There are some free webcam sites that include chat for free, which is really popular. Cam2cam chat rooms is also good, but requires registration. CAM2 number two, Cam. But I know a lot of guys who are, I have a friend who every night when his wife with the baby is sleeping, he goes and he masturbates to one of these sites with someone woman need is like me Joel masturbation Cam girls

Yeah, I mean I've never been on it, but I don't think it's cheating Yeah, I don't think any physical stuff is cheating no no no, but he's doing like chat we let when she's like not around And he's he's he's whacking off of the chest. It's just another way of porn. It's just another. It's kind of interactive porn. Yeah. I mean, I, it's only a problem. Like I always say, I don't think that you have a problem. I don't think it's really cheating. It's just if it becomes, it's a problem when it becomes a problem when you stop going to work, when you no longer like your girlfriend, when you can only get off, doing the webcam, that's when it becomes a problem. But if you're just dabbling in it, it's fine. I have no issue.

Be safe, man, because one day a video of you masturbating to one of these videos is might end up on the internet. You think it's called screen capture. It's super simple. I know you've got to be careful. I've never had Skype sex. I've wanted to. No, man, people have this screen capture it and put uploaded to internet. I love you. Be be careful. I've never had Skype sex. I've wanted to Nah, man people the screen

I'm sure it and put uploaded to internet It would be with someone I trust. I wouldn't just randomly have Skype sex. I don't trust anybody with that footage You're right. I don't know you're right. I lock it down Lock it down. I know the footage is never gonna get out because I'm the one that owns it and has it You know all your footage although if something happens to you, what are you gonna do with all your sex tapes? Whatever to let other people enjoy them, I wanna care by then. But when you're dead, you know why all the women

that you've slept with in camera are gonna be exploited. They're not gonna be exploited. You never know, honey. They're gonna be like, yes, I did sleep with that guy. It was amazing. And he was so hot, oh my God. He was so hot, It was so much fun. I wish he was here right now.

That's what's going to happen. Yeah. Yeah. Lockdown your hard drives, everybody. Passwords, all that. Don't, people just don't get naked in unsafe places on the internet when there's cameras around. Don't, don't text pictures.

Don't make videos and doing this stuff. Safe deposit box is a good place to keep them. Yeah. You know. Be careful. It'll all come out to haunt you eventually. Okay, this one next email is about four play to anal. Oh.

Yes, family, it's a van. I've emailed before about being a guy that wasn't really into four play. What are you laughing? It's funny that you said his name was Savon because there's like some video on the internet where some girl named is Javon and she's like, my name is Javon and I only do anal. And it's like super hilarious. It's really popular on the internet.

I haven't seen that. I haven't seen it at all. I've emailed before about being a guy that wasn't really into four play. We kind of made a deal. We're all keep getting Brazilian wax versus shaving. If he'll give me, if he'll give four, mutual four-play a real chance. It's kind of fun. But I'm, but I'm not into my question. He's finally admitted to and asked me if anal sex was okay. He loves it apparently. We've tried it and it's not too bad.

I actually like it, but sometimes it hurts on my end. Any tips? Thanks again, guys. Love the show. I'm looking forward to this Valentine's A season to see what you all have up your sleeves. Yes, I'll be sharing on Facebook all over the place. That's awesome. Savon, Modesto. She's a premium friend with benefits member. You can all become friends with benefits members today. Friends with benefits is 4.95 a month. It's nothing. You get three shows a week. There's lots of perks, lots of benefits.

We answer emails right away. Okay. anal sex. If you have some pain, I would just have to say, go slowly in these lots of lube. It's all about lube. Use like a water soluble,

water soluble lube. You can buy one out of my knee for 50% off. If you use coupon code Emily at checkout. And yeah, I would say, lube goes slowly, he gets out with his fingers before he's singing his penis inside, like, work up to it. Menace has no anal sex tips

because he doesn't like anal sex. What? I mean, I don't, receiving. Right. That's next year. But next year, no way. I don't know, maybe. I was telling my friend over the phone the other day About how the hot trend is you know Women putting on strap-ons and then doing a guy and he cannot believe it

He was like you know her that he's like so many guys The male prostate men can have amazing orgasmic. Men can have even more intense orgasms through their, you know, in their nake, they mean to gay. Yeah. Strappons, big thing. You should do it. Yeah, no.

I don't like following the trends, you know, I go my own way. I don't want to have a v-pentrated inly because it's too trendy. Yeah. No, I'm not on board. No, maybe one day. Yeah, he could absolutely not believe it. But what to use his own. Yeah, exactly.

But um, she, she's with the guy that wasn't really into foreplay. And, um, but then so she's Brazilian waxing versus shaving. So he preferred it a billion wet and she wants me to go for play. She's talking about him going down on her. That's not for play. That's him going down on her. That is for play.

He wasn't that into it until she started getting Brazilian waxed. Yeah, but that's not for play. That's him going down for play. That is for play. No, for plays world-sector so well. I don't know a planet you're on where getting a filatio is not for play that's like no that's his own app but it's under the umbrella of four play if there was an umbrella and said four play it would have

in it nipples touching breasts or all sex massage they'd all go under the umbrella for place don't don't try to label four play is something that it's not Wow, you're then you then you're into really hardcore four play. Yep No, I don't know. Okay, that's we got pretty much and then we're so excited candy Burris from the real house with land is coming up in a few minutes. Yeah, she's got really cool on a sex toys That would be great Valentine's Day presents. I also want to say again that we're having this Valentine's Day contest. It's spread the love.

Sex with the Emily's spread, the love. We are giving away so many prizes and so many cool stuff that so many cool things that my entire office is filled, filled with sex toys right now. It's crazy. Con. No, I've seen that. So many condoms. I'm posting them on Instagram. I know, I love it.

Oh yeah, Instagram, fine you on a white menace. White menace on Instagram. And I'm, I'm a sex family on Facebook and Twitter and all that. Are you on Tumblr? Are you on Pinterest? No, I'm on Tumblr. I try, I request a Pinterest.

Are you on it? Yes. Do you like it? It's Tumblr, it's like Etsy Tumblr. What I think is. I don't know what that means. Etsy Tumblr. You know what Etsy is? People make their own things and they sell them online. It's very vintage looking. Oh, yes, yes, yes, I have seen that. So that's how you find us. Thanks so much for listening to Sex with Emily. Yeah. I think I see I think I see Candy right outside the door. Okay, perfect. She's

Let's just not and that's a deal. I'm so excited for our guest today. We have Candy Burris here. She's from the Real Houseways of Atlanta. Thank you. Thanks for having me. But more importantly for our records here, she's got a killer new line of sex toys called bedroom candy. She just won the EVN award for best new products this year. Congratulations. That is a tough, there's a lot of people in the market. And I'm not easily, I've ever, every sex toy, I get them all sent to me.

These are the homemade, I wanna buy every single person, the lipstick vibe. It looks like a lipstick, but it's a vibrator and it's a good vibrator, like it's waterproof and it's powerful And the compact will get into all that so you also are a Grammy award-winning singer songwriter You live in Atlanta with your daughter Riley Yeah, and you're a former member of the platinum selling music group escape and the recipient of a Grammy for her work on TLC's mega hit no scrubs Yep, and now you're doing sex toys

Yeah It's my bedroom candy dot com candy with a K. And now you're doing sex toys. Yeah. How do you... It's mybedroomcandy.com. Candy with a K. How do you make that transition? Well, I also have a talk show. It's a special show too, yeah. How fun that is.

Yes, it's called Candy Coded Knights. You can go to CandyCodedNight.com. It's Candy with Ks. K-A-N-D-I. I love it. K-O-A-T-E-D and Knights build the regularly. Okay. CandyCodedNight.D and Knights build the regularly. Okay. CandicoDenite.com and basically for the past two years, we've been having a show every

Humpty Wednesday. Love it, of course. And we talk about sex and relationships. So during that time, you know, when you actually, I mean, just like you, once you do a show, you realize how much there is a need for the communication and the conversation about sex. Exactly. And me personally, I'm a fan of toys. I've always had one.

Most women that I know do have one. And like my mother says, no matter if you're 60 or 20, 30, or whatever, you all want to feel good. So women need to know how to explore their bodies. And I just decided I'm going to do one. That's good. So you always, you always the person that people went to for sex advice and information. We always the one comfortable talking about it in your group.

Yes, well, I've always been very open with talking about sex always. But my friends are too, actually. Like when I was sitting around and when sex in the city was a TV show, like we would always compare ourselves to the show because all of us, me and all my friends, we always talked about sex. And the thing was, it's like, okay, every week we, I used to have a movie club, like me and my girlfriend. We had the movie club, we got together every Friday.

And every Friday, we would talk about the guys that we had went out with that week. Right. If we had good sex, you know, if he was weak. Oh, let me do that. You share every single detail. Details. Guys don't do that.

Yeah, I told them. Oh, bullshit. They told me I can tell. No, it's all good. No, no, you got it. It's serious. That's bullshit. And you know you do.

We don't. You're like, oh, did you hit it and that's it. That's it. We don't go into detail. You guys go into the gaseous details ever. I like, did you have sex with her? Yes. Women are like I had sex and then he did this he went down to me And then we had you know then we have this and then I had orgasm I was actually on top like we get into it

Yeah, yeah guys don't do that really don't I swear on everything you get enough sex to know With that no, I'm gonna ask you like with your your toy line real quick You've been doing this for a while though, even in this spin in the works, right? Oh, well actually it's only been, well this time, no, this time last year is when I came up with the idea that, okay, I wanna do this.

And I partnered with on my bot, like it's probably like April, last year. And they pulled it together with me. I was telling them that I wanted some toys that were really discreet. Of course I originally picked on my body to help me out and partner with me because they had the technology to make toys vibrate to music. And I have a music industry person. Right, so it makes total makes sense So that was the first

Conversation we had was about doing a toy that could vibrate to music for bedroom candy Which would it had to be a dual vibrator right because that's what I like right? I love I used to love the rabbits right so I was like I need the modern version that vibrates to me And so then after that I also was like, you know, I'm a mom So I was like we need some toys that are more discreet. Exactly. I think I'm wrong. Yeah.

And then we need something that people, you know, they don't have to, you know, a lot of women are real timid about toys, you know, some women, you know, are scared to let people see them having a toy. So I was like, let's have something that they don't have to be afraid to, you know, have or that people know they see it. Because with that toy, some of the lipstick, the candy kisses, that's what we call it, candy kisses.

And the one that looks like a makeup compact, you would never know what it was unless we told you. It looks like a makeup compact and it's got, it vibrates. So look at this. It charges in its case. It has a major in everything. make-up compact and it's got, it vibrate. So look at this. It charges in its case. It has a mirror in every bag. So I'm like, oh, I'm just gonna powder my face

and then you take it out, oh look, it's a vibrator. Not the mirror. Which you friggin' awesome. Which you know is so hilarious. Like normally I keep one in my purse, one of the compacts. And one time I was out and I was really did need to fix my makeup so I pulled it out because it does have a mirror.

And I'll end the lobby of this place, you know, with my vibrator in hand, just, you know, powdering my face. And my friend is like, oh, you are so wrong. And I'm like, why? Nobody even knows this is a vibrator. Nobody would know. And what do you think about vibrators for couples? I think it's perfect.

Now, me personally, um, my first toy was given to me by ex-boyfriend, and it was the best experience ever because he would do oral, why he was the vibrator. So it was like the best of both worlds. It's amazing. Hence happiness and joy. Exactly.

My toy. And so'm just like my toy. And so I thought it was very important for us to have some toys that couples could have. So that's why we have the couples ring, which we... Oh, she makes a ring, a sea ring. That is my favorite sex toy ever. I love the... I have picture of it here.

Can I ask you real quick, though? Is the toys better than the exploit friend? In bed. Do they replace? No, I don't not want people to feel like we're trying to replace men. I don't I'm not trying to replace my man I want to just make the bedroom even better and more fun So like to me like say for instance if we we had this, make me over the power, the company. So he could, it has a handle. He could actually hold it on my clitoris. And while he's coming in from the other way, you know, exactly. So it'd be great. I think they're great

for couples because we talk about sex toys, Ednazzi. Menace is afraid of sex toys a little bit. No, I'm just saying. Not afraid. You just think it just like, I have a theory. I have a theory. I have a cool male like, oh, you're not gonna need me.

No, I'm not afraid of it. This is my theory and tell me what you think about it. But you do make sex toys, so you're probably not gonna agree. I just feel once you introduce sex toys into the equation, you can never just have sex without sex toys. That's not true. True? That's not true. True?

Not true. Because not have sex all the time without them. Yeah. But it's like, you know. It takes it to another level and you can have multiple orgasms sometimes, which maybe you won't, you can't do on your own. Exactly.

I mean, to me, it's kind of similar to, you know, sometimes you bring whipped cream and extra little stuff like that to the bedroom that you don't do it every day. Right, exactly. You know, so it's like, the bedroom, but you don't do it every day. Right, exactly. So it's like, you know, when you want to spice things up or I mean, maybe your man is going to be out of town. Who knows?

You just see the thing is for me. That's cool with me. For women, it's very important because a majority of women have never even experienced an orgasm. A majority of women have it. And even if they are in a relationship, been married, whatever, a majority of women have it. And even if they are in a relationship, been married, whatever, a majority of women have never experienced an orgasm.

For me, I think it's partially because a lot of women have not explored their own bodies. Exactly. And they can't really say to them, okay, this is what I like right here, because do this, do that, whatever, because they really don't know. They're waiting for this guy to tell them.

Exactly. Or show them with. One of my favorite quotes, this was from Carol Queen, who you might meet tomorrow You know, they're waiting for this guy to tell them. Exactly. Or show them with, you know. One of my favorite quotes, this was from Carol Queen, who you might meet tomorrow in a good vibration, she's a sex educator, and she said, she was on my show once, and she said, you know, a lot of women think, someday my prints will come and so will I. So sometimes my prints will arrive, and then I'll have an orgasm. Like, my prints will come, and then I'll come.

Women are waiting for men to give them an orgasm and if they don't know their body and they don't know how to figure it out themselves it's not gonna happen you know exactly so the women who are like my guy can't give me or you think have you had one yourself you know exactly and I think that's really sad when a lot of women don't know how to make their self-climate and an vibrator is a great way to start yes exactly so okay so what do you feel like you're attacking me today and an vibrator is a great way to start. Yeah, exactly. So, there you go, Madness. So, what do you- I feel like you're attacking me today.

No, I'm not. I have so much love. I was so excited for you to be here. No, I am not. He's not like a lady. He's like, my girl's the walking. You know, I was joking. It's cool.

It's all good. Have you ever been, I had, so I posted on Facebook that I was gonna interview you. So, I was like, what are some questions if you wanna ask you? And someone wants to know what, my friend, Shafty,

what has been one of the most weird or uncomfortable conversations you've had since launching your sex toy line? Well, it wasn't necessarily uncomfortable, but I did have to have the conversation with my daughter about the toys, right? You know, so well because I the toys. Right. So, well, because I basically developed the line while I was taping the show and everybody was gonna see it on TV, I wanted to have the conversation with my daughter

before anybody else did. Right. Now personally, I don't really like for my daughter to watch our show because I don't think it's for kids. Right. But a lot of her friends watched the show. Right. So it was important for me to have tell her myself before they could, you know, take it,

you know, make it crazy. Right. You know. But actually, the conversation was... Actually, I was a little bit uncomfortable. Yeah, it was fun. That beautiful toy. So how's your brand new show coming out, right?

Your own show now. Yes. It's called The Candy Factory. Yes. I love it. That's awesome. It's a music industry type of show. And it's basically basically we're putting

People who want to be artists through this boot camp basically we give you the new song We give you the new image we give you the choreography and in the end you have to Perform this full show in front of an audience and it's like can they pull it off or not? And it's only six days we have to do this. Oh, that's cool And you can make stars out of anyone right you say? We read about it. I'm sure you make her she makes it. I know that's so cool. You make it now you got the hit with the sex toys I'm so excited and happy about the fact that it's like Ben Rum Candy has been so well received

I really didn't know how people were going to take it. I think out here on like the West Coast, I think everybody is like really open, but in the South, you know, totally different experience. Exactly, but I have not gotten any negative feedback. Right, that's right. And I was kind of scared that I would.

And your friends are supportive of it too. Oh yeah. I have to ask you though, what about your mom? How's your mom feel about it? Oh, my mom is very supportive of it too. Oh yeah. I have to ask you though, what about your mom? How's your mom feel about it? Oh, my mom is very supportive of it. She was the main one that said, you know, like she feels like women her age would really benefit from it

because she was like a lot of times. No offense fellas, but you know, when men get older, or stand up, you know, as well. Yeah, they're not always getting it up. And a lot of times, you know, when they take in hard medication and different things, it makes them in- All them at exactly. I have an older aunt who got the happiness in joy and she was like Please she told my mom please tell candy

That cool child that thing she was like I almost went for a second round, but I'm too tired. Oh my god This is your happiness enjoy toys called happiness enjoy. Yeah, it's a deal. I love it. This is your happiness and joy toy. It's called happiness and joy. Yeah, it's a joy. I call it happiness and joy because it's a dual. Because it is happiness and joy. Happiness on the inside, joy on the outside. Well, I also want to talk about this. You know, it's very close to my heart. Hold on to me. Yes. It's to strengthen your kegel muscles to help you have stronger and more intense orgasms among other benefits. So there are kegels fears that you put in your vagina when you're doing keg exercises.

And I have an app on iTunes called kegel camp. So I feel like, people, what is that, what are you doing? So here's the app is, it's actually my voice that walks you through. It's a reminder. It's a tool that it reminds you every day,

time for kegel camp, it pops up on your iPhone. Are you see? And then it's my voice walking you through. There's different levels. You can get to different levels. So every day, you might do three sets. And the next week, you do five sets.

And it says, and then it's my voice. And it says, tense. Relax. Tense. Really like that. And I walk people through doing their exercises, but I love the toys that help you do your, because they're so important.

They're so important for women. And Matt, menace. You could do your kegels too, I think. I need to work on my kegels. You really do. I think you do. And hold Jim thing. Yeah. No, I love your website though. I go on it often. This is really well done.

It is well done. Yeah. So well done. Very, very impressive. And it's always impressive. Like I'm telling done. Yeah, so well done very very impressive Yeah, and it's always impressive like I'm telling you like I went there I'm like okay, I'll check out these toys because I literally like I've been doing this seven years of a lot of it And I hadn't even touched him yet and I was like these are awesome like in the office I was like oh my god like because because I have seen like less expensive like of the lipstick But someone has tried to do that before and like a cheaper cheesy version

Yeah, but these's a good one. But these are like classy sophisticated toys. Thank you. And they're not the kind of toys that like come in the box with like the porn star on the cover that you're like, oh, that's exactly what I did not want. And I was like, tell you look, I do, this is what I don't want.

Right. I do, I want my packaging to be really, really nice. It's you nailed it. Yeah. Yeah. So are you in a relationship now? Yes. You are. I was wondering that too. Really? I don't know because they never really see you or hear you talk about it. Well, if you mean on the show I wasn't in a relationship on the show. Yeah. When did it wrap? When did the last season wrap? Well,

unofficially like in August, but we still kept taping after, you know, but um, so August was around the time that I had just started, um, well, when I met the person and then we just started doing. Do you tweet about your booth? No. No. No. No. No. So it's weird about him. No. No. Well, no, I talk about that you're in a relationship you put it on Facebook I changed my status you did she's against that I'm against it because she's a player she's a player did it because we're really serious like normally I I haven't had a serious relationship in forever like the last time I had it like a long relationship was

a decade ago seriously okay yeah so so she's excited about it. And she bought it. Yeah, but she wants to know why you're against it because you're a player. And you want to keep your options open. You think some of the player. And maybe I've been known to be a player, dating several men and you don't want them all to know.

It wants, however, mostly it's because I don't think it's everyone's business. That's what a player says. No, men, you're the player. He changed his Facebook status as well. That's what a player says. Don't, man, it's your the player. He changed his Facebook status as well. I wouldn't have done it. I agree with you. I wouldn't have done it unless he did.

Exactly. Because I'm like, look, you're not gonna be still hanging out and I'm looking like a tie down. Like, look who's my boyfriend and it doesn't say anything on his page. You know, I know I get it. I just think that the relationship status thing is not everyone needs to know.

Because then you break up I'm not saying you will but one breaks up and then everyone's like oh you change it back and then everyone's like So sorry what happened? I know your business. I didn't even realize it's no longer in a relationship The funny thing is I did not realize how serious it was It's well yeah until I did it in a star getting all these people Congratulations Like wow you would think I was going down the aisle already.

Exactly. Well, maybe would you do want to get married? I would love to one day. I mean, I'm not like, oh, I don't want to be putting pressure on it. Right. I don't want him to feel like, oh, she wants me to marry her right now. Right, exactly. That's good.

You never want to pressure the guy. I never understand women who pressure men to get married. Like, why would you pressure them into making the most important decision of their life and not have them come up with it on your marriage? Never been married. Okay, do you never never marry never kids? Do you want to be married? No, you don't want to be married. I never want to be married or have children. And you might want to have kids and you might want to have kids. Okay, well, I used to think like, I used to say, well, I don't have to be married, but I do want to have kids, and now I have a kid. And, but I would like to have one more,

and I would love to be in a good relationship. A serious relationship, at least. Right. Yeah. She's never lived with a guy. Does she really? I've never even lived with a guy. I know.

I love bringing up this kind of stuff. Things meant to say. I just want to see people say it. I just never wanted my space with the guy. I know. I love bringing up this kind of stuff. Thanks, Amanda. I just want to see people doing this. I just never wanted my space all the time. I need my space. Let me say this. I did it once when I was super young. And then I was like never again.

And then I got engaged to, when I first came on the show, that's why I was engaged. Right. And I lived together because we were getting married. That's, that's why I was in the kitchen. And I lived together, because we said we were getting married. That's the only reason why I did it. And we ended up breaking up. And he moved out and I was like, oh, I don't know. That was a smart move.

But now, I'm getting a new house. And we're talking about moving in together. And actually, I said I was never gonna do it in, but I'm actually excited about it. That's good. Yeah, so I don't know. And I have to live together to know all that. If I met them right then.

Why? Okay, eventually when you do get married, then you move in together. You don't know how each other, how you are together in a small confined space 24-7. And then, then it's too late because you're married, then it's gonna get ugly. Cause you're like, I can't.

Have you ever been married? No. He was engaged for five minutes. Yeah. For five minutes. Literally five minutes. Five minutes to go away. Did you work up after you moved in together?

Pretty much. Oh, wow. See, because I was talking to my friend the other night and she's like, oh, I never want to move in with a guy unless I was married. I go, you're tripping because you're just, it's all bad. You have to know if you can live with each other. No, I just feel like sometimes to me,

like if somebody moves in together and they haven't even discussed marriage, I feel like if the woman wants marriage, then he's gonna take forever to marry up there. Because he already feels like he's married. But if you don't care about the actual marriage part, then it's like, okay, cool. Yeah, exactly.

I mean, I come from like, it's a long history. My family, the divorce, all this stuff. It was never a goal of mine. What happened? My dad's been married six times. Yeah, okay. Did you go to my parents? I was, I attended five weddings of my parents. It was never a goal of mine. What if it happened? My dad's been married six times. Damn, did you go to my parents? I attended five weddings of my parents.

Really? Yeah, attended. I only thought parents got married. Literally, that was like, oh, only a parent. I would tell you it's 25. I was like, it only attended a parent's wedding. So whatever, I found enough therapy to be through that. I just think I never, if I do get,

it's not that I'm against marriage, it was never like a goal that I set out. But if it happens, I mean, amazing. You put weddings are fun, right? You do have fun at the twine. No, I didn't go to bed. No, it's awful, because you always hate who they're marrying. No, there's food, there's dancing,

there's alcohol. Well, I only hated one of my debts, but other than that, they were cool. Okay. So what's the future of the line? Anything else we can know? It's bedroom, mybedroom were cool. Okay. So what's the future of the line? Anything else we can know? It's bedroomcandy.com. Yes.

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But not immediately. We have like 4,000 people who have signed up to be consultants and we wanna launch it the right way. So we're putting things together properly so that everything will flow the way it needs to. But we also are adding so many things to the line from lingerie to the massage oil candles. I love that. It's a lot of great things that we're adding. That's good. said, the massage oil candles. Love that.

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I feel so bad. No, Menace, everyone loves you. So here's one more question. Well, you've had a boyfriend for a while, so I guess it's not the same thing, but I was one, another question on Facebook, but've had a boyfriend for a while, so I guess it's not the same thing, but I was one another question on Facebook. But it's like, do guys feel weird about dating you because you have a sex twig?

They feel like, oh, and you have a sex talk show? Does everyone feel like, oh, she's gonna be good and bad? Or is she still? You know what, that's the one thing that I do hate is that by me speaking so openly about sex on the internet, I think that a lot of guys feel like I'm gonna be easy. And they feel like, oh yeah, she's gonna be hot and bit or whatever, and I don't want that to be the first thing

that they think of when they're talking about me, but it's like, but that's what happens. Do they bring it up right away or they wait, like at least. We'll see this the thing. Second date. Oh, so by the way, you have sex toys. Well, well, I didn't, he's the only person

that I've been dating since the actual toy line came out. So prior to that, I told you I had the online show for two years. Now that did become kind of weird for me because like, say for instance, if a guy took me out for the first time, I had this one guy, you know, we were talking and I said something about, oh, I gotta go because I have to do my talk show.

And he was like, well, what is it? And then that's the next one. And oh, that's all he wanted to talk about after. And he was like, he was getting so touchy-filly. I was like, oh. Well, I've done it to the point where I'm like, if friends, people want to fix me up or whatever, I'm like, don't tell them what I do.

Like, I know you can Google me or wherever I'm like, but can we not like lead with the sex talk show thing because then they don't see anything else beyond that they're like oh she's a gotta sex talk show she's easy in bed and I want to sleep with her and I or I don't or I only want to date her because I want to sleep with her and she must be crazy and swinging for the rafters yeah they think that you're just gonna be doing everything that's why we always ask people was your freak number I consider myself a full tin like right I feel like I'm like a eight nine number? I do not consider myself a full 10, like I feel like I'm like an eight and a half, you know? I don't do everything.

All right, so don't come to me thinking that you're just gonna get, you know, platinum treatment, exactly. On the first time around, it doesn't work. I hear you, I totally hear you. So one of the stigmas of having a sex talk show, but there's still many wonderful things. So, okay, so bedroom candy,

and then your talk show, where can we find that? candycodedknights.com. Okay, the case. Yeah. Got it. Okay. Well, not the night. Just candy coated is with case. Okay. No, no, no, right. I got that. Yeah. Okay. I hate the three k-vang. No. I mean, the case with case. The case with the case. Okay, well, thank The caves is good, the cuck, the caves. Okay, well thank you so much, Candy, for being on the show. We really appreciate having you here. It's awesome. Good luck with your line.

Thank you. Of toys, we are excited to review them and play with them. And thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? Email me feedback at sexwithemily.com. Emily.com.