Shawn Ryan Show - #188 Leigh & Robert Bortins - Why Parents Are Ditching Public Schools for Homeschooling
Episode Date: April 3, 2025Leigh Bortins is the founder of Classical Conversations, a global homeschooling program rooted in classical, Christian education. With degrees in aerospace engineering and ministry, she blends analyti...cal rigor with deep educational vision. A mother of four and grandmother of three, Leigh’s passion for home education began with homeschooling her own children. She’s authored several books—including The Core, The Question, and The Conversation—that guide parents through the classical trivium. Robert Bortins, CEO of Classical Conversations, was homeschooled by Leigh and now leads the organization with a bold vision for educational reform. A mechanical engineering graduate and entrepreneur, Robert champions faith-based, family-led learning, helping over 125,000 students across 50 states and 30 countries thrive through critical thinking and community. Shawn Ryan Show Sponsors: https://ShawnLikesGold.com | 855-936-GOLD https://AmericanFinancing.net/SRS | NMLS 182334, nmlsconsumeraccess.org https://trueclassic.com/SRS Upgrade your wardrobe and save on @trueclassic at trueclassic.com/SRS ! #trueclassicpod https://ZipRecruiter.com/SRS https://ExpressVPN.com/SRS https://hometitlelock.com/SRS Go to https://hometitlelock.com/srs and use promo code SRS to get a FREE title history report so you can find out if you’re already a victim AND 14 days of protection for FREE! And make sure to check out the Million Dollar TripleLock protection details when you get there! Exclusions apply. For details visit https://hometitlelock.com/warranty https://Hillsdale.edu/SRS https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/SRS | Download the app today and use code SRS Classical Conversations Links: Special Offer For SRS - https://info.classicalconversations.com/shawnryan Classical Conversations - www.classicalconversations.com Leigh’s Website - https://leighbortins.com Robert’s Website - Robertbortins.com Podcast - www.Refiningrhetoric.com X - https://x.com/TheRobertBshow Education Independence - https://chooseeducationindependence.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Horace Mann was the primary evangelist for the public school system.
He wanted to get rid of Christianity, and he wanted to get rid of individualism and
capitalism. Over the last hundred years of state education, parenting has kind of been drummed out of us.
And the UN since the 1930s when it got to be big after the war, has the same agenda as Horace Mann.
Because the UN wants this voucher system to occur because they knew with the shackles come the shackles.
because they knew with the shackles come the shackles. Lee and Robert Bordens, welcome to the show.
Thanks for having us.
Yeah, Sean, thanks for having us.
I've been looking forward to this for a while.
So we were kind of talking off camera just a little bit, but I've been really looking
forward to this. My wife and I have little ones,
and it seems like every day we're trying to decide
what we're gonna do with the schooling,
are we gonna do public school,
are we gonna do private school,
are we gonna do homeschool?
And I think both of us, well, I don't think,
I know both of us lean way more towards the homeschooling.
We have a lot of friends that do homeschooling,
and where we live here seems to be like
somewhat of a homeschool mecca.
And, but it's also kind of a daunting task.
You know, it's maybe not, it's intimidating.
You know, it's intimidating to us, the time commitment,
the socialization, are we gonna do it right?
All those kind of things and so, so anyways,
my wife and I, who's, she never sits in on interviews.
This is the first one ever she's sitting in on
because we're so interested in this.
So I just wanna say to both of you, thank you for coming.
And like I said, we've really been looking forward to this conversation.
So I appreciate it.
Yeah, I'm glad to be here.
And you brought up the issues that people want us to address all the time.
So it's kind of universal that over the last hundred years of state education, parenting
has kind of been drummed out of
us and the confidence that I can teach you reading, writing, arithmetic, that it
doesn't take an expert to do it. I mean, it just isn't there anymore in our
culture versus if you look back, say, pre-1920s, parents wouldn't have even
sent a child on to a school situation if they couldn't already read, write, and
cipher, as they called it, that they knew that if if they couldn't already read, write, and cipher as they called it.
That they knew that if you can teach them to read, to walk and talk, which are the hardest
two things a human being ever learns, parents can teach them pretty much anything else after
that.
Wow.
Wow.
Interesting.
I'm just curious. I think the thing that really got us thinking about this was before we even had our son,
2020 COVID hit, kids weren't in schools, kids were wearing masks in schools, then certain
outlets started talking about how kids are falling behind on just picking up on basic
body language stuff and all of that.
And then on top of that, I mean, I hate talking about it,
but it's a thing, the woke curriculum,
the white privilege stuff, the LGBTQ stuff,
all this stuff that's like,
what is this doing in the public school system and
how does this better their future? And so we've really taken note of that and we've talked to a
lot of our friends that have kids in both public and private school. And I have to like say the only
people that we talk to that are like are gung-ho about their kids' education are the people that
are taking the time to homeschool their kids. And so, so I guess long-winded there, but my question
is have you seen a rise in homeschooling since COVID, since 2020?
Well, first, let's just say that all that stuff that's in the public schools is in there
intentionally and back, Horace Mann, who started the public school system in the United States
200 years ago, had a vision for all this, but he knew he couldn't introduce it into
a Christian nation right away.
And so he knew that he had to plant the seeds and let it grow. And so public school has been wildly successful
in the United States based on what its framers had hoped that it would accomplish. So, pre-COVID
numbers, there's, you know, knowing an exact number of homeschoolers difficult, but about 2 million homeschoolers in the United States
pre-COVID. During COVID, 6 to 8 million was kind of the high point of parents who are intentionally
educating their kids, picking out curriculum. Not talking about the kids who are doing public
school at home, but intentionally homeschooling their kids. And then that's dropped down to about
4 million, 3. a half to 5 million based
on some different numbers that I've seen. So it's effectively almost doubled or maybe
a little bit more than that post COVID. So I've seen some research that says one out
of eight kids of the current generation will be homeschooled at least one year. And so
it's definitely becoming an option
that families are picking, you know,
maybe they homeschool in elementary school,
but send their kids to a Catholic school for middle school
and public school for high school.
So it's just gonna be much more ubiquitous
when people are gonna be selecting
their educational options.
But obviously we believe homeschooling
the whole way through high school
that parents can do it and and do it well
It seems like it's exploded and just just to elaborate, you know, like it's just
like
like the white privilege stuff like like I think it's important to learn about
Everything that happened with slavery and the mistakes that we made as a country and all of that kind of stuff
But I don't want my son or daughter to feel guilty for being a Caucasian straight male
or a Caucasian straight female.
And I've brought on all kinds of people to talk about this
and wasn't necessarily the focus of the interview, but I brought on this guy, Chris Beck,
who was the first, maybe the only, I don't know,
but the first transgender Navy SEAL,
and I wanted to get inside of his mind and see,
you know, how does this happen?
Like, I just wanted a snapshot into his mind,
and throughout his conversation, he talked about love bombing. You guys familiar with this? So they
basically like love bomb you into the they basically just like fill you with
love and da da da da da like everybody's looking for acceptance into something
and so they like they they overdo it and that's what they
call it. They call it lob bombing and into that culture. And then if you leave, then
it's like...
You're a pariah.
Exactly. And he went on to talk about like that happens in schools. And he's transitioned back.
And so it was a fascinating conversation, one of my best
interviews ever.
But all these things are just in my head.
And then, man, I could go off on tangents all day.
But I mean, kids these days can't read, you know, that their math skills
are shot, their reading shot, they have no physical education, they don't know how to
balance a checkbook, they have no financial skills, they don't know how to apply for a
job, they have no confidence.
I mean, I see this like through the youth everywhere I go.
I mean, I brought it up several times, you know, I go to Home Depot or I go to any home improvement center, department store,
restaurant, you know, and I get a limp-wristed handshake.
I get a kid who has zero confidence and is staring at his shoes when I ask him, where,
you know, where's the doorknob section?
You know what I mean?
And it's like, they don't know how to act.
And I'm like, man, I know a lot of that goes off on
parenting as well.
But I mean, it's atrocious out there.
Well, for five generations, our parents went to public
school right before the 1920s.
Hardly anybody did.
And so each generation of parents bought into a little bit more of what I call the box of
education that is funded by distributed income.
It's socialist in nature.
So of course Marxist ideology is what the content will be no matter how much you try
to put school prayer or patriotism or anything else into it, because the box itself, the public education, is Marxist.
And so every generation we've accepted since the first universal socialist program, public
school, we've accepted each generation another form of socialism.
So whether it was socialized housing or Johnson's Great Society or now health care, you'll
have to remember
when people paid their own doctor bills and had insurance, not health care from the government.
And then we got to the point where now parents are like, I'm not in charge of their education,
of their housing, of their food, because we're on food stamps and that's all subsized by the
government. And so now, I don't even know what genders are supposed
to be. I'm so confused.
Yeah.
And so you had parents actually saying, because of the love bombing, so now I know what you're
referring to, I'll love you no matter what you do. And that, of course, you know, they
say that's the Christian way of doing things. But they forget that even though God is love,
love isn't God, and that there's four kinds of love talked about in the scriptures. So
there's just, it's a lot of confusion because each generation accepted
something the previous one wouldn't have.
And so now we're at the point where we fought against
all this subsidization for the last 30 years,
and now they want to subsidize homeschooling.
And we're like, with the shackles come the shackles.
We don't want civil government influencingluencing our children's minds stay away
And people don't recognize that that's what happened that every new plan with the dollars attached made it
So a woman like me a woman like your wife. We don't need our husbands anymore
We have full-time daycare and if we're worried about our children being good citizens, the civil government will be sure to control their minds
Yeah, you know, I mean, that's another thing.
I just don't see very many critical thinkers out there or free thinkers anymore.
Everybody's told how to think through the media or told how to think very obviously
through the universities out there and now into like little kids.
I mean, even the patriotism, I mean, I don't have kids
in school yet, but it seems like the Pledge of Allegiance
has been yanked out.
And I mean, I went to public school,
I did one year of homeschooling, it was the fastest.
Like I learned the fastest there, I excelled the fastest
there and probably a quarter of the time
that I was in public education that year, they
was sixth grade.
But I mean, I remember going to school and like election day was like a big day.
It was a big day.
Everybody's talking about it.
It wasn't divisive.
It was like, yeah, we get out.
That's what we do as Americans.
We get out, we vote for what we believe in.
And now like, I just, I mean, I don't see any of that stuff happening anymore.
And as Americans, we think that we're the center of the universe and that, like,
these things have never happened anywhere else.
Like, again, our public education system was implemented, it was imported from Prussia.
Now, most people probably don't even know what Prussia is.
I don't.
Germany, pre-World War I.
Our education was based on the same education system that initiated World War I.
They had the same sexual revolution back then because they could see that it would affect
the children's stuff.
But then they saw that it was destroying their society.
And that's why, part of the reason why Hitler killed the gays
and those types of things,
because they had put this sexual idea inside their kids
so that the state could control them.
But then when they realized that you wouldn't be able
to keep your civilization going,
I mean, we have a birth rate problem
here in the United States.
Once these Marxist ideas get inside of our children's head,
that that wasn't gonna be worthwhile.
And so, again, the sexual stuff is really perverted now, but it's nothing new.
There's nothing new under the sun.
And they've done this before in other countries and it's gone terribly awry.
So that's why...
How were they doing it back then?
I mean, because these gender surgeries are relatively...
I mean, in the past 10 years.
So how were they sexually perverting the public schools back in World War I?
Yeah, I mean, not here in the United States, but in other countries, they're doing the
same thing.
Oh, we need to have sex education for sixth graders.
Now it's fourth graders.
Now it's second graders.
You know, in Minnesota, they just passed a law where they want to teach third graders
how to implement they, them pronouns here in the United States today.
So it's the same things that they're doing here in the United States, the same arguments,
hey, we need these kids to understand their sexuality and things like that.
But the kids' minds aren't developed for that, and so they develop perverted mindsets
and they want to fit in or whatnot or be different. And so, I mean, these playbooks that they've used in the US for the last 20 years isn't
something that hasn't been tried before.
It's not even just genders now.
Yeah.
I mean, in Cookville, Tennessee, I think it was Cookville, they had somebody, of course,
from California, go figure, right?
Oh, another one from California, moving to Tennessee
for whatever the hell reason, I don't know.
You don't fit here, if you think like this.
But they bring their kid to school in a crate
and call it a furry, call it a furry.
I think it's called a furry.
I can't remember what it's called, a furry.
They shit and piss in a litter box.
And like all the rest of the kids, it's like,
like how was that not a disruption? Cookville said, they didn't stand for it. They were
like, well, we're going to sue the school. And they're like, cool, you came from California.
You can go right the fuck back to California, where you belong. We don't have furries in
public schools here, but I get so pissed off just thinking about
this stuff.
Well, it goes back to that CRT, the critical race theory ideas.
If you're a white cis male or white cis female or a normal human being, you don't have any
sort of privilege.
You are automatically an oppressor.
Why you see this number of, these astronomical number of people being LGBT identified is because they've been told they're oppressors their entire public school
life. And how do you, if you're a white male, what's the only way to stop becoming an oppressor,
by becoming a white female? Interesting. The other thing is, like, all this is kind of a new way of
talking about it. Something that's been around in the classical books and education is this idea that you can either teach your children that they're a little better than
monkeys or a little lower than the angels.
And that changes the whole worldview of how children are raised and taught and what's
expected of them.
And so public schools is where Darwinism and its both social and scientific ideas was ushered
in and made a cultural norm.
And so if you have children who think they're just little better than animals, eventually
that's how they act.
Versus if you think your children are just a little lower than the angels, they know
what to aspire to.
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Interesting.
Interesting.
All right.
Well, I got a ton of questions, but let's get into the interview.
So everybody starts with an introduction, Kara.
So Lee and Robert Bortons.
Lee and Robert Bortons, a mother-son team who've turned their
passion for education into a global homeschooling movement called Classical Conversations. Lee,
you are a wife, a mother of four, a grandmother, and an aerospace engineer turned education
pioneer. You are the visionary founder of Classical Conversations, a homeschooling juggernaut that's empowered
over 125,000 students worldwide
to learn through a classical Christian lens.
You started with a basement,
class of 11 teenage boys, including Robert,
and turned it into a community spanning 50 plus countries.
Robert, you're a husband, father of three,
an industrial engineer, a graduate from Clemson,
who traded corporate life at UPS
to join the family business.
You are now the CEO who took the reins from your mother
and grew this thing by 300% since 2012,
making it the world's largest
classical homeschooling organization. You are the host of the refining rhetoric podcast.
You serve on multiple boards, engage in state politics, and you love rugby.
You're both fierce advocates for educational freedom,
pushing back against government overreach while championing parents'
rights to educate their kids how they see fit.
Most importantly, the families you serve are dedicated to preserving the best of Western civilization
while raising families that know God and live to make him known.
That's us.
I'm sure I'm missing a lot there.
We sound cool.
Yeah, you do sound cool.
But, uh, yeah, you guys, I mean, obviously met my producer, Jeremy.
He's his kids are, uh, in the curriculum.
Do you call it a curriculum?
Community, community, community.
Cause it's not the children or the curriculum that matter.
It's the parents and the families together that matter.
Okay.
that matter. It's the parents and the families together that matter. Okay. But he's had phenomenal things to say about the program and just a whole
bunch of people we know here in Tennessee are in the immunity. So a couple
other things. Everybody gets a gift. Oh, thank you. Thank you. I wouldn't recommend giving these to your homeschool kids.
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Thank you so much.
You're welcome.
They will be enjoyed.
Got lots of grand babies.
You have another son that's a Green Beret, correct?
Yeah, our youngest.
Yeah, very cool. Maybe we'll get him on the show someday too.
But, um, but, uh, so,
one last thing before we get into the interview. I have a subscription account.
It's turned into a community of people. It's, uh, it's called Patreon. And so,
a community of people. It's called Patreon.
And so the patrons, the community,
they've been here since the beginning
when it was me and my wife doing this thing in the attic
and we couldn't figure out how to make any money doing this.
And they are the reason that I get to be here
and that you guys get to be here
and that we got this studio and we're moving on to the next.
They're just our top supporters
and we've turned it into one hell of a community.
And so one of the things we do is we offer them
the opportunity to ask each and every guest a question.
And so this is from, this is for Lee from Steven Casey.
We've used Classical Conversations for all five of our children.
Four have graduated and one now is 17, is still in the program. As Classical Conversations grows
as an organization, how do you ensure it stays true to its founding principles of a God-centered
Classical education and does not drift off course?" That is a really good question and is really difficult both to do and to answer.
So the way we go about it is we vet as well as we can the leadership team we hire. We work at the
C-suite level and below to really write good training curriculum, not just curriculum for the children.
And we value the face-to-face more than I think a lot of companies do in this day and
age of online and digital technology.
So we have over 15,000 tutors using our curriculum.
That requires us to have almost 3,000 trainers.
And so we have a whole structure where each trainer takes only eight
people and helps them understand the classical Christian model and then filters down.
So is it going to get kind of watered down at the lower level?
Yeah, it's going to, but I don't own this company or run this company in the normal
sense.
The Holy Spirit is our guide and it's the Lord's business, and I trust Him to fill
in the gaps where our families are struggling and we can't actually
reach them.
So, a lot of prayer.
Even just being on this show today, Shawn, you don't know how many people have texts
saying they're praying for you and for this to go well.
We raise our children so that they can see the unseen, they know the world has windows,
and that they pursue their
purpose rather than their weakness.
And as you help parents see how to do that, it cannot not do anything but naturally filter
down to help them, their families, know God and make Him known.
So we're going to have a lot of failures.
We're human beings, but the vision is what we have to stick to, and we have to keep knowing
He's in charge.
Very cool.
I'm just, so you have, did you say 15,000 tutors?
Yeah, when you just announced the numbers,
that's just how many students we have this year.
We've been doing this for 20 years.
We've had over a million, almost a million students
go through Classical Conversations.
Tutors are teachers, correct?
Yes.
Yeah, yeah.
So we have about one tutor for every eight students.
Do you want to explain the structure?
Can you do that?
Yeah.
So we form communities.
So we'll have a community leader we call Community Director and for each kind of, I'll call them
grade levels for the sake of our conversation, they have a tutor and they get training from
Classical Conversations, you know,
home office and we have all sorts of online modules form as well as in-person
training opportunities for them.
And so they're leading the parents and the students once a week inside of community.
So you and for especially K through sixth grade, you know, typically the mom
and the kid go together.
So there's eight kids and, you kids and eight moms with one tutor,
and she's demonstrating how to go through all six subjects
on a weekly basis.
And since we have,
since homeschool parents have to teach all subjects,
we have one tutor that's teaching all the subjects,
and we believe that's part of that classical model.
And so it's not, it's a really strong bond.
You know, the Bible says a bond of three is not easily broken.
So you've got your family, you've got your tutor, and you've got classical conversations,
home office, all backing up you and your education endeavor.
Interesting.
So what is the, so if somebody has, I mean, that's a lot of people, 15,000 tutors.
We spend a lot of time and money training people
who love classical Christian ed.
So what if somebody goes array?
What happens?
How does that come to your attention?
How would a parent?
So we have a leadership structure.
We've got the world and then the US in particular,
structures and groups of say 10.
So we have 10 regional leaders who have about 10 folks that are then state leaders.
They're kind of divided by a few million people.
And then they have all those local leaders that we've been referring to.
And so the regional leaders are trained in quality control and they know the classical
model really, really well.
And so they're always working with the folks that they license to be tutors with us, as
well as parents at these online, not online, live events.
And so they'll go, huh, that was kind of funny what you just said.
Let me look into it more.
Or wow, you guys got it.
You really understand what's going on.
And it's all that one-to-one face-to-face time
Is what is the best that we can do for that?
Person who goes awry because it does happen. It does happen. Yes, of course it does. Yeah. Yeah
Because we have such a big community network if it goes really sideways
We typically can put them into a local community nearby to finish off that academic year
I mean, it's once or twice a year something happens, but when you have 15,000 people,
that's a pretty good track record.
Yeah.
So, that's something that I like to share with the parents is if you're at all into
venture capital, you know the first round funding never gets you anywhere.
But there's no second round funding where you have the profit and the impact on society
if you don't have the first round.
So, that's how we look at a new community in Classical Conversations.
It's a bunch of parents, you don't know what they're doing, but they're trying.
And you give them that funding from us and the funding from the parents,
and we all as a group work together, guess what happens the next year?
It starts to get good.
And the next year it gets even better.
But we have to start because the public school system
isn't going to ever do what we do, and the state is never going to – we don't want them to fund
what we do because that will inherently destroy what we do. So we just have to trust people
to just try. The Lord trusted you guys with two kids. Is he crazy?
It might be.
Yeah, right. And so I'm saying I trust you to work with other families who have the same goals to work together
and figure this out.
And I know you can do it because I know you believe in freedom and that you want your
children to be made for freedom.
And that's what's in the heart of every person, not slavery.
And so, we just have a totally different worldview of what the human is and what they can accomplish.
In Classical Conversations, we don't want any child ever excluded from any form of human endeavor.
We want them to say, I can do that.
It's gonna be hard, but I can do that.
Okay, okay.
Well, let's move into, so,
Lee, you've been married since 1983.
You were an aerospace engineer.
I mean, that's amazing. What was it that, why did you give up that
career to start homeschooling?
Because I loved him.
What about dad?
Give a little more details.
Yeah, so, well, that's the big...
I mean, was there... So, when I was pregnant with Robert, a friend of mine, we didn't have a TV, we chose not
to have TV back then, a friend and I who were both pregnant were walking through a shopping
center and there was some TV, so we stopped and watched some TV and Phil Donahue was on
and he had this very strange family that homeschooled and that's what the episode was about and
we watched it for 10 minutes and my friend looked at me and goes, I would never do that.
And I looked at her and I said, I'm pretty sure I'm going to do that.
So my husband, who's 10 years older than I and also met in the aerospace engineering
department at the University of Michigan, that's where we met and we're married and
finished our education.
I went home and I said to him, could we homeschool?
I think I want to homeschool our children.
And he looked at me and he goes, oh my gosh, I am so happy because you guys that are ten
years younger than me are so dumb.
There's no way I'm sending my kids to public school.
So we just, from the time I was pregnant, we just knew something wasn't right.
And we weren't Christians at the time, but we wanted better academics.
And we saw the destruction of the family occurring. Because me being an aerospace engineer, you
can imagine the pressure to work and to not be at home with them and the expectations.
And we're like, this is destroying the family. We're not going to let that happen to ours.
How did you pick up on that before you had kids? I'm just curious.
Well, I-
You saw the destruction. You said you saw the destruction of families occur occurring.
So my husband had amazing parents as did I and they were just really both astute politically
and culturally.
I can remember being seven years old watching a cartoon on a Saturday morning with my siblings
and my dad was in the room and for the first time an advertisement came on directed at
the children rather than the adults.
And he stood up and just said to nobody in general,
thanks for making my life so much harder.
Like that's the background I come from.
My parents were always paying attention
to what it meant to be a good family,
a good parents, and to serve the community.
You said you weren't a Christian before?
Mm-mm.
How did that change?
Neither you nor your husband were Christians.
No.
So I became a Christian when our second son John was three years old.
It was on his birthday, so that's why I remember it.
And then my husband became one 13 years later.
So for 13 years I had to be like Esther and see him as the king on the throne and to keep
my tongue, bite it, don't say all the things you want to say to him, and learn to honor
and respect him in a way that was impossible in my own strength.
And one morning I got up early on a Sunday and there he was in the living room in his
suit and I looked at him and I said, �What are you doing in a suit?� He said very angrily, �I�m going to church.
Isn�t that what Christians do?� I was like, �Okay, you�re really fighting this.�
A few years later when he really was committed, I looked at him and I said, �What happened?
How did you change your mind? And these boys were college age at that
point. We have our four children, there's a gap of 15 years, so the two oldest were
in college and we had two at home. And he looked at me and he said, "'Cause I want
to be like my boys, because he and John were very strong in their faith."
Wow.
So, and this is what homeschooling did for our family.
Wow. And so, what brought you to Christianity?
So, when I left Boeing to stay home with Robert and had John, it was kind of the hounds of
heaven chasing me down. We were in Seattle, which isn't known for Christian culture, and
yet my dentist was a Christian and was always playing this Christian contemporary music,
our gas station played it, our grocery store played it.
And then this lady behind me named Joni Isaac was homeschooling and knew I was interested
in it.
And she was a really strong Christian, and she kept inviting me to church.
And I was like, what is going on?
So I said to my husband, can I explore going to church and what that means?
And he was like, sure, and if you figure out
what you wanna do, I'll do it.
Well, he didn't, it took a lot of time.
But anyways, so me being the academic I am,
I was like, okay, well how am I gonna learn
about Christianity without like committing?
So I was like, I know.
So I called the Jehovah Witnesses
because I knew they sent out people.
And I called the Mormons
because I knew they sent out people.
And then I started reading the books Joni gave me, and I was just pursuing
anybody and anybody that would just talk to me about being a Christian.
And fortunately, Joni won, and I did give my life to Christ, and once again, because
of my husband.
It's really interesting just how couples are tied together when you don't even know
how.
So, I had just done a lot of exploring, seeking, searching.
Pete Who was Joni with again?
Joni Isaac was my neighbor, just a neighbor.
Pete She was your neighbor.
Joni And she homeschooled and she was in CC and she…
Pete Didn't go with the Jehovah's Witnesses.
Joni No, I went with the Protestants.
Pete Good call.
Joni Yeah, I went with. But you know, God had me in his hands. It didn't matter, right? He knew what was going to happen and how it was going to go. So,
Joni was really smart and she paid for me to go to a Ken Ham conference on creationism.
And she also paid for a friend's unbelieving husband to go also, so this man and I went on their dime. And we enjoyed
the conference a whole lot, and we left kind of mad that even though we didn't believe any of it,
that we'd never heard any of it, that there was a whole other body of science. So that kind of
opened up, you know, our minds to what it could be. So I was reading a book from Josh McDowell, a very famous evangelist from the
seventies and eighties, and in the book he brings up C.S. Lewis's logical option about
Jesus, that either he is the Lord, he's a lunatic, or he's a liar, and we have to pick.
And no one will believe me, but I'll just share what I think is true.
The Holy Spirit in the form of Jesus came into my kitchen in a blinding light, knocked me down, the book fell. My husband looks over and said,
what happened? And I said, did you see that? And he said, no, but there was obviously something
just happened to you. Well, it was the most terrifying thing in my life that that happened. And if you read through scripture, whenever an angel
comes down, it's fear not. It is scary. So I didn't go to church for a year. I
didn't read anything about scriptures. Nothing. I was like, oh my gosh, I don't
want that. So on John's third birthday, we're climbing Mount St. Helens, no, Mount Rainier, and we're
at like that 9,000 foot level at this lake called Lake Eunice.
And this is why I remember the details.
And so as we're having his cupcakes and giving him little dinosaurs because he's three and
Robert's there, Lake Eunice is frozen over, but it was melting and there was fish.
And you go through the National Park System and they talk about stocking fish and the various resources that are in the area. Well,
this was super high. And I looked at my husband and I said, how did fish get in this lake?
Because it was so high. And he goes, very flippantly, I don't know, maybe God put him
there and walked away. And at that moment, I knew that I was his
forever. And whether he put those dang fish there or not is irrelevant, that he put me on this earth
with a purpose, and it was to serve him. And so she who has sinned much is forgiven much. And my
whole life since has just been to love him. Wow. Was it difficult raising your oldest two as Christians when your husband wasn't on board?
So Rob was always very kind and accommodating.
He just didn't believe himself.
What about you growing up?
How was that?
You have a mother that's a believer and a father that thinks it's BS.
I mean, my dad was kind to me. and he didn't really express that, but we were
at church Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night. If his church was open, we were there,
and he wasn't. And occasionally, praying for him and things like that, but he was always
a good father.
He was a good man.
He was a good man and treated us well. And so, I mean, I think, you know, as growing up, you probably don't take those things as
seriously as you do as an adult or know it as well.
But yeah, I always knew he loved him and we were always praying for him that he would
come to know Jesus.
Would you ever ask him as growing up why he didn't believe?
I have not.
My dad is a very quiet man. So, he doesn't share a whole lot of those details,
but when he does share things, it's very insightful. So, maybe you're challenging me. You should
ask him more questions.
Especially before he dies. You need to ask him.
Yeah, I'm just curious how that would be.
Well, it's kind of, you know, I didn't know some of those things, but, you know,
my wife was a public school teacher for 10 years and I was the first homeschooler that
she ever met.
And of course, I was, you know, we were in our mid-20s.
And so when we started getting serious, you know, I said, I wasn't working for Classical
Conversations yet, but was starting to inch that way.
I was homeschooled.
I enjoyed being homeschooled.
If this thing gets any more serious, you need to have in the back of your mind that this is a possi-
that I'm going to homeschool my kids, and if you're not on board with that, then we probably shouldn't keep dating.
She started laughing.
She said, I would never send my kids to these schools.
Wow.
She said, I mean, she was a public school teacher,
grew up in the public school system.
But yeah, she had that same.
She said, I didn't know what homeschooling was
until I met you.
And yeah, I'm on board.
So now we've got three kids ourselves.
Wow.
So let's talk about the beginning then,
the beginning of your homeschool venture.
Marcia Yeah. So, he was hitting 12 years old and like
every other homeschooling parent, you get nervous about those older grades and what you can do and
not do. And books on classical education had just started being released by
Christians that were doing classical education in schools and some in homeschool. And so,
my husband, the whole time I'd been homeschooling him and John, so the first 12 years, he was always
supportive, but he would say, but you're doing it wrong. And I'd be like, I don't know what you want
me to do differently. So then I started reading this book on classical education and I would read passages to him
and he'd say, that's what I've been saying.
One day I remember looking at him and going, well, not very well because I didn't understand
what you were talking about.
And so I began to realize that because he was old enough, he'd actually gone to a grammar
school, that's what they used to be called.
I went to an elementary school.
So there was that divide between what's a classical education and a modern education
in our relationship.
So I didn't know what he was saying.
I didn't know what his words meant.
So when I read these books on classical education, I was like, yes, okay, I get it.
This is what I want too.
But when you're working with the older children, you need to have what's called the dialectic
and rhetorical experience.
There's lots of questioning and lots of presentations and argumentation and various dispositions
and things like that.
Pete Slauson Critical thinking.
Dr. Ann Cousin Critical thinking, yes.
And so, I looked at them and I said, okay, this is going to be hard to do all by myself
with Robert and John and you, and I had always run homeschool co-ops and homeschool math
classes and just various things.
So we had looked around for a potentially class school Christian school to send them to,
and there just wasn't one at that time. And so after we interviewed a few headmasters,
Rob looked at me and this very quiet, shy man looked at me and said,
well, you're just going to have to have people in the house and start it yourself.
very quiet, shy man, looked at me and said, well, you're just going to have to have people in the house and start it yourself.
And so that's what we did.
And that's when we had in 1997, 11 families join us.
And it was boys and girls.
There was a mix, not just boys at that point.
So once again, my husband pushing me to look for a church, pushing me to homeschool better,
pushing me to start classical conversations.
So it really wasn't a surprise when he did become a Christian and you knew it was going
to happen because he was helping all of us get there.
Interesting.
So, I know we covered this a little at the beginning, but when did the public school
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Which history do you want?
Because you know, we have, you can start back at the founding fathers where there was very
little public education, but some up in Massachusetts.
But when they say public education, what they really mean was the church was, the church
said, hey, you can use our building, we'll teach
the Christian religion, and parents paid.
Parents paid for all public schools that were in existence before the 1920s.
So they were called public schools, but the parents had to pay for them.
Pete You mean paid directly, not through taxation?
Julie Right.
They paid, they hired, they might hire the teacher through his board and all pay the salary that way,
or they might every Friday give her 12 bucks or two dollars, whatever the amount was. But there was no control
beyond the parents until the 19, 1980s.
I mean, 1880s is when it began to be more prolific and Robert can tell you more about the history of why that happened.
And then in the 1920s, think about what we used to call it, in the 1920s almost every
state had what's called compulsory education, because no parent in their right mind would
give their children over to the government for education.
The civil government has no rights over your child's mind.
That's something the family and the church does.
So they had to make it a law, because the only way to fund it was to make it part of
the general welfare and make everybody be part of it. So the Catholics were very smart
and that's when they said, look, can we opt out, we'll pay the taxes, but we don't want
to be in it, we want to have our parochial school system, which a lot of people are familiar
with that. So they were smart right from the beginning. So from the 1920s on, it became more and more prevalent. But remember in the 1920s, it was
only through eighth grade. And it wasn't nine months of the year, it was mostly three or
four months of the year. And it wasn't all day long. So it wasn't nearly as influential
on the family. And even me, I never went to kindergarten. They didn't have kindergarten when I was a child.
It wasn't until my brother, who was a little bit younger,
came along that that was something we had in our country.
So people don't always know the history
of United States education.
And when they talk about school choice,
it's like we've always had lots of choices,
but every time the government added another year,
another month, another grade, another service,
we've had less and
less choices.
And so, the decline in education has been because public schools destroy public education.
So before the 1920s, the United States had a proficient literacy rate of 90%.
Now we have one of 9%.
Pete Slauson We have what?
Nine percent. So let me describe what my words mean. That's definitions in classical education.
So someone who's proficiently literate can read multiple resources, hold their ideas,
and once they've finished reading all of them, synthesize them and analyze it. That's someone who's proficiently literate. Only
nine percent of our population can do that now. But 90 percent used to do it when the
only three resources they had in their home was the Bible, Shakespeare, and then local
newspaper.
I mean, a lot of people like to point, especially in Christians, when you get prayer back in
school, right, and you hear that. But it's like, well, what set up the system to remove prayer from school? And a lot of people
don't know before prayer was removed from school, you actually had to memorize the Christian
catechisms to graduate from like third or fourth grade. And so I said, why stop at prayer? Why not
go back to the catechisms? And so, again, there's plenty of history.
They've got the papers out there. Alex Newman, a buddy of mine, has done the research.
What is a catechism?
Basically, yeah.
It's a little school victim.
Yeah. Okay, a catechism, basically, it's a series of questions about the Bible and the
Christian dogma and faith. So, what is the chief end of man? The chief end of
man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. So, every child learned that before.
And so, every third grader had to memorize that answer. And there's, I don't know how many,
there's like, well, there's over a hundred on the full catechisms, but I imagine they had to
memorize probably 15 or 20 of those answers. Okay.
I mean, literally, I mean, the system was designed from the beginning to get us where
we are today.
So it's, I mean, first they implemented the system, and then they took over the teachers'
colleges.
And so you can have...
Who implemented the system?
Horace Mann was the primary evangelist for the public school system.
And he was praising the Russian system and the Prussian system, Germany, aka, and worked
with them, got them to implement it over there, and then brought it here into Massachusetts,
started there, and then perforated it throughout the United States.
And again, it was very minimal to start, but he saw that he wanted to get rid of Christianity
and he wanted to get rid of individualism and capitalism.
And he knew that if we could have a public education system, a system based on redistribution
of wealth, that it might not be in his lifetime, it might
not be in his child's lifetime, but eventually the United States would bend its knee, would
no longer become a post-Christian society.
Right now only 3% of Gen Z has a biblical worldview, less than 9% of all society has
a biblical worldview. So his efforts took almost 200 years to work, but it worked.
And so he knew from the beginning that because society was Christian at the time, that it
wasn't going to…
He couldn't say what his end goals were publicly, but he wrote them down in different
documents.
Yeah, there's lots. And the UN, since the 1930s when it got to be big after the war, has the same agenda
as Horace Mann.
So back in 1970 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where the first voucher programs, the UN and their
cronies helped fund that.
And when Milwaukee, before the 70s, before they had the voucher program, had the same
proficient literacy rate as everywhere else across our country, we were at like 70% at
that point.
And now, you know, it's just plummeted.
And that was instituted by the Democrats, not the Republicans, because the UN wants
this voucher system to occur because they knew with the shackles come the shackles.
And let me add one more thing what you said.
So two things made it so that because you said, who's they? Like, is there, who's this they?
So two things happened. One, the Civil War. So, after the Civil War, for the Southern
States to be allowed back into the Federation of the United States, they had to rewrite
their constitutions to include public education. Then when the immigration crisis occurred
in the 1880s, and there was all kinds of people who couldn't speak English, the Protestant Church said, hey, let's get them to be English-speaking
Christians by making them go to public school.
So it was a whole bunch of theys that made all this happen.
This is a system inside of itself.
But see, as Christians, we believe that God actually established three different forms of government.
And so, there's the family government that's headed up by the husband, there's the church
government, and then there's the civil government. And then the Bible lays out each of those things
that they're responsible for. And the civil government is basically responsible for justice
responsible for justice and to promote, not fund, not require, but to promote good. And the only way to do that is allow the family government to do what it does in the church
government.
And there's a verse in the Bible that I think is misunderstood that we don't wager against
flesh and blood, but we wage war against spiritual things.
But the spiritual war is-
Pete Where does it say this in the Bible about three governments?
Mary Beth Oh, no, it's not. It's not like it's one's
verse.
Pete Yeah, yes.
Mary Beth So, you gotta go through Moses and the law,
you've gotta go through Jesus and what he said about the law of the Pharisees, and you
have to look at how the families describe the whole way through all of it.
Pete Okay.
Mary Beth So, a common saying is that the family, the
church is the family of families.
Okay.
Yeah. So, the spiritual war is which unit is going to have the most power. And so,
that's why so many of these laws are... The spiritual warfare is they're trying to create
laws that destroy the family. You saw how welfare has destroyed the black family over the last 30, 40 years.
So ultimately, our spiritual wars is the family unit actually has pretty much the most power
in God's design for humanity.
The government of the church is supposed to be there for when the family unit gets off
to help the poor, the widows,
people in bad situations. And the civil government's pretty much responsibility is
to punish bad guys. And so when any human institution goes outside of its design,
things tend to get really expensive and outcomes tend to get really bad.
So it's bodies of influence, basically.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's the way of saying it.
Family should have the most influence, church second, civil government third.
So every time they overstep, we have less need for fathers.
And so we find ourselves now, it's been for decades now, less than 50% of boys live with
their biological father.
That's not since COVID or since DEI.
It's been that way for a long time, really
since the 80s. So, 40 years now.
Wow.
So, let's not repeat that. You know, when people say to me, well, I can't homeschool
because, you know, I wasn't educated very well and I don't feel like I can do that.
And so, my response is, well, don't send your kid to the same system that's going to do
that to them, too. Do something different. The definition of a fool is somebody who just
keeps repeating the same thing.
Pete Slauson Say, mistake over and over again without getting
a different result.
Pete Slauson Homeschooling really expecting a different result.
Pete Slauson Yeah, that's it. That's it. Together we'll
get the verse out.
Pete Slauson I mean, homeschooling we say redeems two
educations at once. It redeems your education as an adult.
And obviously the child is getting a much more rigorous education than they would have
outside of God's design for children and families.
And so you don't have to be an expert.
You just got to be one page ahead, one minute ahead of your kid.
And one of the best things that my mom taught me growing up is, I don't know, let's go figure
it out.
And we'd drive to the library, you know, to have Wikipedia back then or whatever.
Drive to the library, go look it up, go, hey, Mr. Thompson at church, he does this for a
living, let's go talk to him.
And showing me how to find out those things that she didn't know.
And so it's an opportunity to be humble, but also to teach those skills because, I
mean, as you know, you don't know everything until you learn how to ask good questions.
And so, yeah, until you don't have to be an expert at anything.
God trusts you with your kids, and He designed it for you to raise them and teach them the
way they should go.
Pete Slauson Where do you tell kids where to go look things
up?
I mean, today with the internet
and there's so many false sources.
It's too easy.
You can't trust media.
I'm gonna have friends that have
warehouses full of Bibles because they think
that AI is gonna manipulate the Bible and the Word.
And so where do you send, you know,
a kid who's in a homeschool program doing a research project?
Where do they find their information?
We do original source documents, and it's really important to know the authority of
who wrote the document.
So we train our children to ask questions about that.
But we can't train our children to ask questions if we as the parents don't know the questions
and what the resources are also.
And that's why Classical Conversations' focus is our parents, because parents need stuff
real quick.
Oh yeah, I know what that is.
Versus a child may not have ever heard of certain resources.
Yeah, so we think we don't read some woke professors' interpretation of the Federalist
Papers.
We have our students read the Federalist Papers. We have our students read the Federalist Papers.
We don't want our children to learn science.
We want them to be scientists.
And so we try to go back to,
and that's part of the benefit of a classical education
is we're looking at what has stood the test of time?
What has worked for 2000 years?
Like a lot of what's going on in the public school is experiments that have never been tried before in human history
and we see what the results of that is. Depression at an all-time high, reading levels at an
all-time low, expense on education at an all-time high, fatherless homes at an all-time high.
So these modern experiences and experiments that they're doing on our kids and our families
clearly isn't working.
And so we say, you know, what is the best book about philosophy that's written in the
past, you know, 3,000 years?
What are the authors that influenced our founding fathers or, you know, and not just people
that we agree with, even people that we disagree with, that we want people to be aware of.
And so teaching them to don't believe the media's perception of something,
go to the original source documents, go to the experts.
So we're teaching them to be resilient against the media's propaganda, which is
one of the reasons they hate homeschooling so much.
Are there any efforts to end homeschooling?
In Illinois right now as we're talking, they're trying to, for the last 75 years, every single
new education law that affected homeschooling made us more free.
The state of Illinois for the first time in 75 years, and we'll see if it passes or not,
is trying to add restrictions
to the homeschooling experience.
Are you kidding?
What restrictions?
Like, making it so that you have to file more paperwork as a parent, that you have to demonstrate
competencies in certain areas, that you may even have to get credentialed one day to be
able to raise your own kids, stuff like that. Where does Illinois education stack up?
I'll tell you what this-
States, competitiveness with states, I'm just curious.
Where does Illinois stack up?
In their outcomes in education, you mean?
Let's say, I don't know what Tennessee is.
Let's say Tennessee is number one.
Where's Illinois?
Let me just tell you this. Chicago has 40 schools where they spend over $20,000 a year per student, where they have
zero students that can read at grade level or zero students that can perform math equations
at grade level.
That's how they are performing.
Wow.
And again, government funding, government managing it, absolute disaster for the family.
So, not good.
So, something people will say like, you know, I went to public school and I'm okay.
And I'm like, compared to what?
Or I was highly schooled and I'm really educated.
And I'm always like, but compared to what?
Because where that came to hit me face to face was when I was trying to, when he was
14, to teach him what the Constitution said.
And we got the actual Constitution and we read it.
And I read two or three sentences in and I said, I don't know what I just said to you.
And I'm a highly schooled person, but I wasn't highly educated.
I thought I was.
So when I started looking at these organic documents from our founding fathers and the history of them that
they were written for the average newspaper reader who had a, you know, so the average
12-year-old could read those and understand the arguments of Madison and, you know, the
various names are in the Federalist Papers.
And I, as a 25-year-old, or as a 40-year- old, with all this education, couldn't read those same
documents.
In that same time period where we were looking at what classical education is and starting
CC, I was like, this mama is not going to be stupid anymore.
I am changing what we're doing.
You asked about homeschooling internationally.
In Germany, it's illegal to homeschool.
It's the only law left on the books that Hitler signed.
In Sweden in 1992, they started a revolutionary school choice bill passed by conservatives.
Now Sweden's run by socialists.
And 19 years later, they outlawed homeschooling because they told, said, why does a parent
need a homeschool when the state will fund your education?
So yes, it's-
And it's all history's repeating itself.
The immigration issue in Europe,
where countries that had really free homeschooling laws,
they're starting to suppress them.
They're saying, no, the immigrants, we can't trust them to teach their children to be patriots,
and it's going to undermine our nationalism.
So they're using that as the pretext to say then all parents are going to do that.
They have no nationalism.
Right, right, right.
Oh, it's just there.
In 10 years, it's a totally...
Yeah, the Crusades will pass.
Our grandkids will be fighting the Crusades.
It's crazy.
It's like they lost all their culture.
It's gone.
It is insane.
Don't even recognize it.
So we don't want to preserve the culture of the 50s when there was still prayer in school
We want to preserve the culture that that made Western civilization arise and be the great benefit
It was to the whole world
So that means you know if you're on if you're going the wrong way down to wherever you're headed and you realize it's wrong
You got to go back and then go forward and so that's what we're encouraging people to do, is to look at the great classical conversations
of history where things succeeded.
And let's go back and take the best of that while we in wisdom implement the newer things,
the progressive things, the timely things.
If you're on a train that's moving down a track and it's the wrong train, moving to
the very back of it isn't going to get you any closer to what you need to do.
You got to jump off that train, get on a different one heading a new direction.
So there are efforts in Illinois and then worldwide.
Internationally huge.
Germany, Sweden.
The UK right now because they don't want the Muslims being Muslims.
Well, France is really bad right now.
France too.
But yeah, Virginia is trying to pass laws.
Those populations there, what's going on there, that's irreversible.
Yeah.
They're just...
Well, Virginia.
They can do...
Democrats in Virginia are trying to make it so that you can't...
Each state's different. So in the state of Virginia, to homeschool, you can say that
you want to do it for a number of different reasons, academic,
health reasons, or religious reasons. The Democrats in Virginia passed a law out of
their education conference to make it so that you are no longer allowed to homeschool in
the state of Virginia for religious reasons.
And for us, that's the only reason to educate anybody.
What is that even? You have to have a reason to homeschool your kids?
In some states.
What does that mean?
You basically fill out a paperwork, check a box, fill it out, send it to some faceless bureaucrat.
I mean, it's an automatically approval type process right now, but that doesn't mean it'll
be that way in the future. There were people in the 90s that were getting thrown in jail for homeschooling in the United States.
There were people in the 80s getting thrown in jail having their children
removed from their household for homeschooling in the United States. This isn't a freedom mess.
It doesn't surprise me. I mean in Washington, they'll take your kid if you don't give them the gender surgery.
Right.
Just like that.
Good example.
We'll take that. We'll take your kid.
Yeah. Just like that. Good example. We'll take that. We'll take your kid.
Yeah.
So in the 1980s, when HSLDA, Homeschool Legal Defense Association, was helping each of the state homeschool orgs get developed so that we could lobby our
senators and representatives so that we could have freedom in education.
Um, during, and the reason we, we did that is because we were tired of being fined.
We were tired, like, early homeschoolers,
we wouldn't let our kids out of the house before 3 p.m. because we knew our neighbors
would tattle and the truant officer would come. And it's the scariest thing for a woman
to be home by herself with three or four kids behind the door and a lady in a suit and police
officers next to her and they're knocking at your door. And that was a regular thing
during that time period. And then the fines that
came around that and the children put in foster care, this is in the United States when he
was four, five, six years old, not that long ago.
Wow.
So when people, I'm wondering like, Lee, why are you so against getting money from the
government? It's because they don't remember when we used to all get money from the government
how bad it was.
And so we just said, leave us out of it. Go do all the dumb stuff you want to, but leave
us alone. And then by leaving us alone, what happened? We got really strong. And you know,
any type you have a business that does well, the government starts to say, oh, we want
to do that. That looks good. And so our popularity has almost been our worst enemy because now everybody wants to have a
classical Christian education, but they don't want to pay for it.
They don't want to put the work in.
And so the government's making it possible for everybody to do that, but we'll give you $7,000 a head for your kids. So if you have four kids...
What do you think about the voucher program? Isn't DeSantis in Florida trying to like implement some type of a voucher program?
We're very against it.
Yeah.
You're very against it.
And he spends a lot of time talking in these states,
so you can explain some of the different ones that you're up against.
Again, this is from just a perspective of the three governments,
the civil government has no responsibility over the human mind,
and so we don't think the civil government should pay for it.
And we recognize as legislators, you've got a hammer, everything looks like
a nail. Basically, the only thing they can do is distribute money. So we understand why
they're going to do it. And we're glad they want to get kids out of the public school
system. But why is it a public school system? Because the public is paying for it with tax
dollars. So they're not actually getting kids out of the public school system. They're actually
turning private schools and homeschoolers the public school system. They're actually turning private schools
and homeschoolers into public school students.
And every single state that implements it,
their budgets go way up.
So now they have to increase taxes,
which makes it so fathers have to work harder
to be able to provide for their students.
And best case scenario,
you're getting a temporary tax break,
but you're gonna be paying for that the rest of your life.
Like, yeah, you might be getting some welfare checks from the government for 12 years while
your kid is, you know, under the age of 18, but as soon as they turn 19, you got to start paying
your taxes to cover those expenses. And so it's, I wish it was the truth, I wish it would work,
but that's what they did in Sweden. They've got all of Europe basically has some sort of voucher system.
Their education is terrible.
So I got a question.
How much a year does Classical Conversations cost per student on average?
So kindergarten through third grade, you're looking probably around a
little bit less than a thousand dollars.
Third through sixth grade, probably about $1,500,
and then seventh through 12th grade,
you're looking at $1,500 to $2,000.
A year, not a month, a year.
Yeah, maybe a little more than that.
Wow.
So it's a lot less than I thought.
Yeah.
Because I was gonna ask, well, what about,
what about families that can't afford that?
Yeah. Well, it's my job to help them afford it.
As a member of the church, it's my job to help the poor.
It's not the government's job.
Yeah, is this civil government helping the poor,
made the poor less poor?
Has it made their lives better?
I'm not saying that.
No.
So one of the things we do at Classical Conversations
is we've formed an ecosystem where you can actually
make money to homeschool.
It's not a lot of money, but if you tutor, you can pretty much pay for one or two of
your kids to be in Classical Conversations.
If you decide to run a community and it's a successful community, you can make $8,000,
$10,000 a year homeschooling through that.
And then we've got salespeople and leadership that are making more than that. So we have single moms whose husbands are not paying child support that are doing classical
conversations and they're in leadership going through all sorts of things.
We've had crackhead moms who found Jesus and have a fourth grade education and they come
join a community.
One of the dads is paying for their tuition to be there and the moms are trying to teach her how to
Be a mom because she never had it before so we just want to be the hands and feet of God
But if the civil government takes over that responsibility
We know that the situation is gonna be dire for for everybody. Yeah. Yeah now I do get it
I mean one of the plans me and my wife came up with,
and we brought a bunch, not a bunch, we don't have a lot of friends. We brought the few friends
that we do have together that have kids around our kids age. And we had this idea where, because
like I said, we've been a little, we've been intimidated about the time
commitment and we thought it might be good to share that time commitment with
other like-minded friends of ours who we think share similar or the same values
and so we thought it would be a good idea, maybe if everybody put in an investment into a pool of money and we purchase a piece of property or rent a piece of property, but we thought purchase a piece of property because that would, a real estate investment.
Our kids go to school there, but we don't label it a school.
We don't turn it into some type of educational business because I don't want any involvement
with any government.
I don't want anybody I'm suing because they can't put their kid there.
They're like, sorry, your kid doesn't belong with me.
We don't share the same values and
then I don't give you go raise your kid however the hell you want, but not here.
And so we thought it would be, we would do a real estate investment that just happens
to be a place where education is happening.
That's awesome. and then we would all pull in, hire a teacher,
and then we bring in each other's expertise,
financial guy, I'm a CIO, CIA guy,
podcaster, media, nurses, doctors,
and everybody kind of brings their expertise
and we really pour into our kids as a community.
And then at the end of it, the real estate investment gets sold and all of the gains
and everything gets proportionally sent back to each individual family.
Brilliant.
Yeah.
But, you know, it never went anywhere. I think me and my wife are the only ones.
So, we're actually excited about it. We call that a cottage school where a few handfuls of family get
together and do something like that. And then what I call is a cul-de-sac school because this was big in COVID
where five families get together and each family takes one day of the week. So, you can divide it by time or
you can divide it by income. Hire a single teacher or two or three teachers and then add the expertise like you said.
So what people don't know is we have so much school choice because of the homeschoolers
destroying the compulsory education laws in all 50 states. So anybody that wants to start
almost any kind of school situation can register as a homeschooler in their state and then
organize how you just
described or whatever works best for you.
So people don't understand that homeschooling wasn't just another option, public school,
private school, bring it all home.
Homeschooling was people saying, no, we want to be free.
We want to be able to choose what's best for our families.
And we want to be able to have what the First Amendment says, the right to assemble, the
right for free speech.
Why do I have to ask the government for permission to get together with the former school?
That's insane.
And yet people just accept it.
So what you're saying, you're going to do a real estate thing?
Bravo.
Yeah.
And the time commitment thing, I think, is something that people don't understand if
you're homeschooling. So for my like, you know, 10 year old, we're spending maybe three, three and a half, four hours a day max educating her.
My eight year old, two, two and a half hours.
My five year old, four and a half year old, maybe an hour a day.
So a lot of that's the formal education part.
It's not really a lot of time.
I mean, I think other like if you got a lot of reading
or writing a paper or something,
like most homeschoolers typically spend
about three hours a day doing what you would consider
formal education and the rest of it's living life
with their parents, which they're learning
how to balance a checkbook.
They're learning how to go grocery shopping.
They're learning how to...
Fight with the insurance agent.
Fight with the insurance agent.
Yeah, so many things.
You know, starting businesses.
Like so many homeschool moms and dads are entrepreneurs.
And so it's just about living life together as a family.
So there's really not a lot of formal time commitment other than, you know,
you don't have the government paying for someone to babysit your kid while you go and do stuff.
But I mean, they could be downstairs right now doing some coloring books or talking to one of your
assistants about social media or learning about cameras or something like that.
And they would be getting an amazing education, but you wouldn't get that type of thing in public school.
So the time commitment is really a limited part of, I mean, of course,
you can go eight hours a day.
I mean, I guess we thought a lot about this too. And I mean, I guess if you cut all the
bullshit out, the disruptions, the lines, the bathroom breaks, the recess, the lunches,
the insert, whatever nonsense that you have to deal with in public school.
I mean, just forming a line takes probably five minutes, you know, and all the other
disruptions, the disciplining, like all that kind of stuff.
I mean, then it cuts down hours and hours and hours worth of time.
The government did a study that I saw about 10 or 12 years ago that showed in the average
class period, which I'm assuming is about 55 minutes, there's actually only 8 minutes of instruction.
Yeah, throughout the day the study is that the average child is...
What was that?
8 minutes per hour.
Per hour.
Per hour.
Yes, there's 26 minutes over the course of a day at school of education going on.
Where was that study?
Federal government did it about 12 years ago.
I don't have it.
NERI has stuff like that though.
NHGRI is the National Home Education Research Institute.
So they find out this data for us.
But one of the things that made a lot of people...
Eight minutes of instruction per hour.
Yeah.
Well, what'd you say?
Whoa.
That was 12 years ago.
So it's probably gotten better since then?
Maybe.
Now a machine's doing it.
Yeah.
So one of the big moves towards homeschooling in the late 80s was a lot of teachers started
home educating their kids because they were working all day with these kids and then they'd
go home and they'd spend, because they're good parents, they'd spend two or three hours
doing homework with them.
And we would say to them, why do you spend two or three hours doing homework when you
can spend two or three hours and you should be done?
And so they started to see the exchange of time with their family because they were already,
if they were good parents, putting that much time in.
But then, like one father of eight children looked at me one day and said, look, I am
not having eight women at some public school tell me how to run my life and my family.
If they're all in school and we want to go on vacation or something happens, I have to
go ask eight ladies for permission to be the dad and make the decision for him.
I said, I'm not doing that. So there's other efficiencies that people aren't paying attention
to. Yeah, you can go to Disney World where there's no lines.
Yeah. Well, let's take a quick break. And we covered a lot there and when we come back I want to
kind of dig into the actual experience of kids K through 12.
I have a ton of questions and I just want to see what the roadmap looks like.
Perfect.
And also when we come back my wife Katie who you guys know has been sitting over there
listening into this entire conversation.
I know she probably has some questions and she'd like to ask you guys those as well.
So we'll see you after the break.
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Okay, so like, if you, how would it work?
Because as you're like, you know, talking to Sean about all this stuff,
I have my questions over there, but I'm like,
how would this work for a family
that has to have a dual income?
Or like you mentioned, like single moms, like,
how do they do it? You know what I mean? Like, right, like you could be a stay-at-home mom and
I'm assuming your husband was working.
11
We've always both worked.
12
Oh, okay. So you're both working?
11
That's the misnomer. We both, but not full-time. We've always had flexible schedules. So when his
schedule was full-time, not flexible, I didn't work very much at all. And then whenever we started, Cece started to grow, he quit, and I worked full-time, and he
homeschooled. And then as things kind of leveled out, we both had our hands in it. And that's what
most people don't understand is that almost every homeschooling mom has to work at least part-time
because the economy has forced that. And then when they are really career-minded
Or have professional degrees or things like that
Like we have a lot of doctors that homeschool and what they'll do is they'll do clinics on the weekend or they work second shift
If they're nurses like what there's a will there's a way
Yeah
It's just seeing that way because there's you don't know a lot of families doing it to see all the ways to practice
Different things. I mean you have to be willing to get off the consumerism hamster wheel that, you know,
I think you work for a company, you don't like doing something,
you don't want to buy stuff you don't need, right?
Right.
And so, but we're so used to that. And also you get, you know, you kind of have this situation
now in the United States where people are having kids older and older in life. And so,
they've gotten used to a certain lifestyle and certain things that aren't necessary to live the good life.
But, you know, they have a house that's too big and used to
vacations that are too extravagant and cars that cost
too much money.
And they don't want to take a step back from a lifestyle
perspective.
And the government will pay for their kids to get an education.
And so they went through that same system.
And even though that system's changed a lot, that's just what they know.
And so, I mean, there is financial sacrifice, but what good things in life have we ever
achieved without sacrifice?
And I mean, I think it creates kind of this like me mentality that we see that's so, you
know, the selfish orientation that we see in our culture today, because we're not having
the ability to, you know, really make ourselves
less to make other people more.
And I mean, we're the wealthiest country that this world has ever seen.
Like if you're not homeless with like a mental issue, you're like in the top 1% that's ever
walked this planet.
And for the first, you the first 80% of humanity,
they all homeschooled their kids.
So to think that we've suddenly become so wealthy
that we can't afford to homeschool our kids,
but a lot of it is lifestyle driven
and you have to decide,
do you wanna go on these types of vacations
and live this type of lifestyle
or do you wanna live a homeschooling,
family-centered lifestyle?
And because the family's broken up so much, it's hard for people to see that
difference. And I mean, obviously, there are situations that make it more difficult or
life decisions that make it harder, and that's when the church is supposed to jump in or
community. And like, you know, we have an older gentleman at church, you know, him and
his wife didn't have any kids. There's a single mom, and you know, he helps pay for those kids' education because he
didn't have kids' education that he had to pay for himself.
He wants to make sure they have a Christian education.
And so, when humans have the opportunity to help humans, we see good results.
But when the civil government steps in, it screws everything up.
And so the problem is the civil government has expanded so much that most of us, you
know, we're conditioned to the environment that we're in and we know no better.
And so when someone has been eating mud cakes their entire life and you offer them an apple
pie, they say, why would I ever want to do that?
I got these free mud cakes.
And you're like, well, the apple pie is so good, you know, but you can't, you can't describe it to them.
Their taste buds have been numbed by just the life that they've lived.
And so we're trying to say, you know, throw away the world's wisdom, follow God's wisdom,
and it's going to look like you're crazy.
But guess what? It works out better for you in the end.
Because people can't separate daycare as an issue from education because they put it together.
And I think that's like when people ask that question, they're trying to figure out how
do I logistically do this with the expectations I have at this point.
So Robert's trying to help people see the change in your expectations.
But meanwhile, I call that like a Monday problem.
You're still going to wake up Monday and try to figure out what in the world am I doing?
And one of the places I think Classical Conversations is helpful compared to
other like homeschool co-ops is all of us from that same boat.
And what you'll find it over time is that CC moms, like I gotta work,
my husband's sick, we help each other, bring the kids to my house,
I'll take them today.
The sense of community within us is so different than what
most churches provide, because we're looking out for each other, because we know we're
doing something so hard.
Mm-hmm.
This will be relevant to the voucher question. So we have a friend, Rachel, who's in Arizona.
She's one of our leaders. And one of her friends who's in classical conversations Took the voucher now Rachel has
bazillion kids are giving up like fifty six thousand dollars a year in vouchers. They're not taking the money and
her friend
Who was I guess?
Needed she was working part-time. They were having conversations
she was trying to convince Rachel that what she was doing was a good thing and
She said Rachel remember before I got the vouchers,
I had to work part time.
And when I had to go work,
my aunt had to come and watch the kids
so I could go work two days a week
to make enough money for us to homeschool.
But now I don't have to do that.
And Rachel said,
let me make sure I understand what you're saying.
You used to rely on your family and hard work,
and now you rely on the government.
Wow.
Right, because it sounds like it's a good thing.
Right.
Because it's an easy thing.
Nothing good is easy.
Jeez.
As you guys were talking to Sean, I got emotional over there,
because I just felt like this Holy Spirit
in here and then on the break, everyone downstairs felt it too. And it was just so bizarre. But
it's really, it's a lifestyle. It's bringing it back to God and His way of life and taking
a village and relying on other people.
We're trying to be the body of Christ. We're trying to be the body of Christ.
Yeah.
We're trying to be the body of Christ, not enslaved to another non-believing organization.
Right.
And Christians just still can't grasp that somehow.
I mean, when we're, one of the things, like, when you become a Christian, there's no such
thing as being a part-time Christian, like, you're in full-time, right?
And so, one of the things that Christ told
us is now we're ambassadors to heaven, we're ambassadors to Christ, we're brothers and sisters
in Christ. And so when you're an ambassador to some other country, right, the other country doesn't
pay your bills, right? You're relying on the country that you came from, the king that you serve,
right? And when you're there, you don't adopt their laws, you adopt the laws of the king that you serve. And when you're there, you don't adopt their laws,
you adopt the laws of the king that you serve.
And so, I mean, we have very few people that are ambassadors,
you know, right?
So you don't necessarily know those things
about how a US ambassador in Germany is treated
or how a German ambassador here is treated, right?
And whose laws you affirm,
and you don't rely on the government
that you're going to visit
or be an ambassador to do to take care of you.
And so, if our Father in heaven has His cattle on a thousand hills, why would we want the
crumbs from the enemy's table?
Right?
Yeah.
That's how we see it.
That's a good point.
That's how we see it.
Yeah.
It's so true.
But Monday shows up.
Right. And it's hard to believe But Monday shows up. Right.
And it's hard to believe that.
And we got the flesh and we're sinners and we live in America.
And make bad decisions. We sell farm.
Right, but it's that cycle. It's that keeping up with like the whole Joneses type thing and yeah, consuming things and wanting those great vacations and at what cost though?
Yeah, one of the things like, homeschooling gives you 16,000 hours back with your kids.
Wow.
How can you afford, no one can, how much would you pay to get 16,000 hours with your family
or someone that you love?
Right, yeah, there's no-
There's no money.
No money in the world.
Right.
Wow.
I mean, who lies on their deathbed and says,
I wish I had spent more time in the corporate office?
Oh, I know.
I always say that.
I know.
I always say that to you.
I spent too much time with my kids.
I just wish I had been there with my work husband.
Right.
I always say that to Sean.
I'm like, you're never going to look back on your life,
like on your deathbed, and be like,
God, I wish I could just check Instagram one more time.
You know what I mean?
Things like that.
Like, come on, let's be real, you know, but.
So what are your other questions?
That was long-winded.
So yeah, so that, basically, so that was really my thing.
Like how do people do this?
You know what I mean?
So you answered that, you know, perfectly.
But my other one is I've heard a lot
about classical conversations and classical education,
and I've heard you mentioned it both up here too.
So what is the difference between classical conversations and classical education?
Because I also know there's like a classical school here in Franklin, and I think it was
like founded by one of the founding fathers of classical education.
Oh, probably, probably George Grant or something did that one.
That's it, yes.
Yeah, so classical education is what all of us are about.
That's like the ideology of education.
Okay.
But we all go about doing it a little differently.
And so Classical Conversations is just one organization helping people with classical
education.
Okay.
And so our model is to not chase the children, which is what schools do.
Our model is to support the parents.
We have a different consumer mindset than a school would have.
And then there's other co-ops who have like, so we're super structured.
There's other co-ops who are like, they're doing a good job, but you never know next
semester who's teaching or what it will offer.
So the consistency isn't as strong.
And we're not against those.
We think parents
should do what they want to do. So what Classical Conversations model is, we assure you that if you
pick up and move to Italy next year, you can join that CC community and all your curriculum is going
to work. Got it. We're very- The military loves our curriculum because it's, whether you're in
loves our curriculum because it's whether you're in Mozambique or Michigan or Tennessee,
that if it's week five of the semester, you're doing the exact same thing all around
the world. And so we get, you know, college, we have history songs that we teach the kindergarteners through sixth grade and they memorize those. And so, you know, we hear stories all the time about,
you know, they're at some college and some history professor says something that triggers some kid's mind.
You know, that song they said, he starts humming it. And then his neighbor looks at him and goes,
did you go to classical conversations too? And so...
It's been... We hear it a lot, that story.
That's really cool.
Because a lot of them... We got really big later. Like, so if you're in college now,
you may not have gone through CC the whole way, but your little siblings are, and so they'll
go, my brother won't stop singing that song, you know, I've heard it before.
So it's just kind of fun.
That's neat.
That's neat.
So does that answer your question?
So I was hoping with Sean, we can go through exactly what Cece is and our differentiation
and other programs.
And I think you guys are going to take him through, like, right now, starting our son,
basically, like, at what age and what to expect, that type thing.
It's really hard in a first-time conversation because people still have school in their
mind and they try to fit what we say into school and it doesn't work, but it's the
best you can do because it's all you know.
So we're hoping that we can go slowly through that.
I make the analogy that like if I was gonna go learn cricket
and they have a batter, well, I would bring baseball
and I would have the hardest time figuring out
the batter rules so I could say,
no, this is a different paradigm.
The batter doesn't do the same thing except hold a stick.
So that's the place we find ourselves
with classical education. So that's the place we find ourselves with classical education.
That makes perfect sense, yeah, because it is.
I keep thinking back to school, you know.
And you have to.
The Lord made it that way.
That's your grammar.
That's what you know.
And it just takes time to break that for something new.
So it's kind of like if you've always done a certain knitting
stitch as a left-hander, because that's what your grandma grandma taught you and then you try to go do it right-handed.
It's hard! I don't want to do it.
What do you think the biggest struggle for parents in the community is?
In our classroom?
Yeah.
In your coo- yeah. I mean, I don't know.
I say parents in general, the biggest problem is they all have Wizard of Oz syndrome.
What do you mean by that?
So in the Wizard of Oz, you had a lion that, you know, needed courage and a tin man that needed a heart
and the straw man that needed a brain.
And at the end of the movie at least, they find out they had it all at the same time.
And so because-
They didn't need the wizard.
Right.
Okay.
Because of our accreditation system and our expertise system that we've established here
in the United States that has corrupted everything that is touched.
We have parents who have everything right inside of them that they need and can rely
on other parents and grandparents and other people that have a year or two ahead of them
to give them advice and they don't need any of those accreditation ideas.
But we have a lot.
My wife was obviously a public school teacher for 10 years and the first year she was homeschooling,
our kids formally. She spent all summer preparing all the documents and papers and the worksheets
and all that stuff. I knew that if I had said anything that it was not going to be received
by her, so I let her do all that. Then about middle of October, she just threw it all away.
She said, why'd you let me do all that?
Because that's what she knew.
And I was like, I couldn't have told, you know,
if I had told you that all that was a waste of time,
you would have not listened to me.
But a lot of times,
because there is a lot of public school teachers
or private school teachers at homeschool with our program,
like they basically say,
the first year or two of homeschooling,
they're just trying to unlearn to be deprogrammed from everything that the teachers colleges have
taught them. I think it was my wife's second or third year homeschooling our kids. She goes,
I went to school for four years. I got a master's degree. I taught for 10 years. And not once did
they teach me how to pass
on knowledge to the next generation.
That's a really good point.
Wow.
Because, I mean, you've got to manage a classroom with 30 people.
Right.
That's not natural.
30 children.
30 children.
That's not natural.
I mean, in business, the goal is one manager for seven or eight employees, and those people
are trained
and paid every two weeks to be there.
Jesus had his disciples, and one of them betrayed him.
And we expect our public school teachers to teach 30 kids.
Yeah, that's a really good point.
Which is why we're for public education, but we're against public school,
because the very industrial model of it
breaks everything that's natural about children.
And people don't think about children the way we used to,
because there aren't very many of them anymore.
Yeah, this has just been like mind blowing to hear it all.
So for me, for Classical Conversations, the parents, we have parents who have been in
the program 20 years or more because they've had so many kids and their average is getting
higher and higher.
And about six, seven years in, they start to say, I thought I was here for my kids.
It turned out I was here for me.
I needed the women of the body of Christ to love on me and to teach me to be more like
Him.
That's amazing.
I love that.
Yeah, but people want to hear about the education and like, of who?
Right?
It's the parents that need educated because we have been shortchanged.
And that was one of the things that surprised me too when we first met downstairs and you
were like, right away you were like, it's all about the parents and, you know, giving knowledge to the parents and the community that way.
I was under the assumption you're going to come in and be like, do this with your kid and do this with your, and like, make it all about the kids.
But it's not. It's about the parents, which makes total sense, you know? And I mean, I'm a stay-at-home mom for our kids, and our three-year-old,
he memorized how to spell our last name, how like our phone, my phone number, because I'm like,
I must be on the phone with a lot of receptionists because I'm always repeating these things, and he
says it exactly the way I say it to a receptionist. So I'm just like, oh my gosh.
But it's like what you said about, you know, fighting insurance companies or whatever.
Like they're picking up on all of those things, you know?
So and the hard thing is...
It's all real life experiences.
Yeah, but I'm like, it's great.
He knows like our last name and phone number.
So yeah.
But as he gets older, he will do something very sinful
and you'll go oh my god he learned that from me oh for sure mirrors both ways oh
gosh yeah yeah that's that's already happening yeah Sean's gotten in trouble
with a few words that have slipped out yeah one of his first words he ever said
was duck and so you know where that led quickly.
Oh yeah.
We're enjoying your wife, she's very smart.
Oh cool.
Get your questions?
I'm all set. For now.
Yeah.
Till the next break, I'll have more.
Alright guys, I hope you enjoyed my wife there for a minute.
She had a couple questions that she wanted to get answered.
So thank you guys for that.
But I want to move into what's it like starting from, do we start in preschool or is it K?
You start when you're pregnant.
You mean with our community at CC?
Yeah, I mean with classical conversations.
At kindergarten, K4.
Kindergarten.
So how does it work? Just walk, just start
walking me through what's the process, what's it like all the way through grade 12. Yeah, so we have
three programs. The foundations program is our K through 12, K through 6th grade program. And it's in the mornings from 9 a.m. to noon.
So it's once a week and we go through all the subjects. They're memorizing about seven
facts a week in math, history, geography, science, grammar, Latin, inside community.
They are doing public speaking.
Even the four-year-olds.
So they start with kindergarten, they do public speaking.
It's really cute.
They have eyeballs, and when they stand in front of the room, they say, is everybody
looking?
We teach them to look at their audience, and then they put it down.
And when they're done, all the four-year-olds say, are there any questions?
And then in between, they tell you about their teddy bear or Walmart trip.
Wow.
But they're four and they can do that.
How often do they do that?
Once a week.
Once a week they're given some type of a public presentation in front of their class.
Yes.
So they'll have done hundreds, maybe close to that?
They'll do about almost 200 by the time they get on the challenge.
Yes.
Wow.
That's just through 12 year old.
Yeah so looking at Jai and talking to you, they'll do science experiments.
We try to do that community day art experiments, things that you wouldn't necessarily want
to do at home, that you can do.
Some people of course love to want to do at home, that you can do. Some people, of course, love to
do that stuff at home. But you're basically the K through six foundations program. Let's break it
down a little bit more. So you're learning my wife and I next year are going to, I mean, we've got
to make a decision within the next two years. And, and so what, what, what, what does that look like? What do we get?
Where do we sign up?
Yeah.
So we expect as parents.
Yeah.
So you'd go to classicalconversations.com, put in your zip code.
It's going to show you a list of communities and then you'd say,
Oh, that community is close to us.
Let me click on that.
That local director would call you, invite you to an open house or an
information meeting, let you meet the other families there,
learn about the Classical Conversations curriculum.
You would buy the Foundations Guide, which is good.
All the students are learning the same things,
K through sixth grade,
but just going deeper into it each year.
And then we have what's called three cycles.
So it changes a little bit based on world history
and some different things, geography each time.
And so you're going to the community each week
and we're gonna demonstrate at community,
you're gonna have the eight kids, a tutor
and the parents around it.
And then the tutor is gonna demonstrate
how to teach these things at home,
as well as doing those public presentations,
science experiments, art history, music history, stuff like that.
So are the kids there at the community too?
Yep, the kids are there.
So it's like a live, is it like a live class that the parents are watching?
Yeah, it's like a live demonstration, flesh to flesh, eye to eye.
The parents come together and practice together, so then when they go home they know what to do.
Yeah, suddenly, oh, little Johnny's having this issue or whatever. You can call another parent in the community.
How did you handle this?
What worked?
What didn't work?
And so, yeah, so you're doing that for 12 weeks in the fall, 12 weeks in the spring.
You know, basically, you know, for a kindergartner, you're probably working, you know, like I
said, 30 minutes to an hour at home with that stuff, working on handwriting, learning to
read,
doing some math as well.
And phonics.
So kindergarten's about, at max, an hour a day.
Yeah, so you're going to go to community three hours once a week and then about an hour per
day.
And then you typically add about 20 minutes or so of formal education at home every single
kind of grade level until you get to about three,
four hours a day.
Wow.
And then so the nice thing-
How many people are in community?
Did you say it's broken up into eight families?
Eight persons per classroom, our average community size is about 50 students, so about 20 to
30 families depending on student size.
Where does community take place?
Typically they're at the church is the general place where they're housed.
The church.
And so, you know, Tuesday and Thursday are most popular community days, but there's ones
on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays as well.
Occasionally, they have ones on the weekends.
There's over 2,700 churches that sponsor these around the world, around the US.
So it's almost one per zip code. So we believe very much in touching each other while you learn and it's why it's
geographically based.
With the churches, can any church sign up to do this or is that also like a selection
process or...
So we don't work through the churches, we work through the community leaders and we help
them identify and find churches. And so it's up to them. Because we need five or six school rooms.
Sunday school. But churches do reach out to us and say, hey, we would like to have a CC community.
And they're like, all right, let's see if we can find a local leader to lead one in your facility.
So... But even maybe backing up before that, so let's say Katie wanted to be one of our licensed
directors. So she would contact us and say, hey, I let's say Katie wanted to be one of our licensed directors.
So, she would contact us and say, hey, I want to help the community, and I have two or three
kids.
How do I get licensed?
How do I get trained?
And so, we have a whole process where we spend a lot of time with her explaining on how you
can start your own business doing this.
And then we'd say, Katie, find two or three friends that you think would be amazing tutors
and would be willing to do the work and want to also understand what Christian classical education
is. So then Katie brings her friends to our training and things and she works with them
so that, you know, you might have one director and two or three tutors the first year. You
might only have eight to 16, 20 kids and then they grow.
Did you just say start your own business?
The directors would license all run their own business
So how is how does that work?
Yeah, so I mean this kind of a part-time income. They're probably bringing in depending on the community side
You know $30,000 a year in revenue like eight to ten thousand dollars in profit once they get you know fully fully full-size
But they're just a small LLC or S-Corp.
They license our materials.
They collect tuition payments and pay out tutors and stuff like that, and then pay us
a licensing fee based on the number of students that they have.
Because when homeschooling mamas stay home, they lose the opportunity to continue in their
business and leadership skills, and they lose the opportunity to make as much money.
So I wanted them to look at them and say, look, you help other people do what you want
to do anyway with your own children and all theirs there, so nobody needs daycare and
let's practice it together.
And so entrepreneurship is part of our training for our leadership.
Yeah, so we help 2,300 women plus have run a small business every single year.
Wow.
Yeah, so the nice thing about our kindergarten through sixth grade program, because homeschoolers
tend to have a lot of kids, they're actually memorizing the same information for each year.
So my three kids, my 10-year-old, my 8-year-old, and my 4-and-a-half-year-old, they're all
learning and being presented that
same material each week.
And so, they're learning the same math facts, the same history facts.
And then obviously, the older kids are maybe writing a paper about it or going to read
a book about it versus the four-year-old is just memorizing the quadratic equation or
Latin noun endings or something like that.
He doesn't know anything. But kids are sponges. And so God designed their minds at that age to
love learning and love memorization. And so we're teaching you how to learn the multiplication
tables by doing jumping jacks or push-ups or learn the history timeline song by marching around your room or different
things and the kids really enjoy it and they memorize over a thousand facts each year.
Wow.
And it's not the memorization of a thousand facts that matters.
What matters is we need to build our children's ability to memorize and we need to build the
vocabulary.
The people in the room that seem the smartest are the ones with the most copious vocabulary. They can use big
words even if they don't know what they're saying and so we help our
children because they're totally capable of using the correct terminology when
they're four or five six years old and so the memorization is just an expansion
of what a parent's doing at home. Right, you start with your children going no,
hot. Well we've expanded that whole parental natural way of teaching your children to include
science subjects, history subjects, math subjects. And we help the parents expand their vocabulary
while they're helping their children.
What about discipline? How does that work in the communities?
Yeah, because the parents are there.
They're responsible for the discipline.
And so if a kid's acting up, most of the time the parents just see that they're acting up
and pull them out to have a conversation with them.
But if you have multiple kids in multiple different classrooms, you can't be with them
all at once.
And so, I mean, typically, if you're aware of a kid who has different challenges or something,
you know, the tutor is aware of it and they're having conversations ahead of time on how
to handle that.
And before community gets started each year, we have a parent orientation and part of that
is an agreement on how we plan on handling any sort of conflict and try to use the biblical
model and best practices that are being established.
Yeah, Matthew 18 is what we do everything off of.
Okay. I guess what I'm getting at is one of the distractions in public school is a class
clown, somebody that's picking on other kids, bullies, all that stuff. And so I guess what
I'm kind of asking is, I mean, occasionally.
You just have to deal with that.
And what happens if you do have a student
that's a continuous disruption to the class?
So what you're not picturing,
because you're bringing school into your mind,
is remember he said there's a tutor
and a bunch of parents in the room.
The kids don't get out of hand, except on rare occasion.
Because if you're a dad and your four-year-old's acting up
and I'm a mom in there with my
Four or five six-year-old I'm gonna say
Can I help you I will help with your children. You don't seem to know how to help discipline them
Okay, we're there to help each other. It's the parents that are there to learn
Okay
So it's one teacher and and at least one parent.
This isn't, so community, am I saying this right, community?
Yeah.
So community isn't, we ditch our kids for the day
at class for conversations and.
Nope.
Okay.
And then because we have a wide group of ages
and then our facilities only have so many rooms,
you may have the four, five and six year olds in one room and the seven, eight the seven, eight, nine-year-olds in a room, and the 10, 11, 12-year-olds in a room.
So if you're a parent that has one in each of those, you kind of have to bounce around
to see what's going on with them. But you can only fit, if you got 60 kids, you can't put them in
one room. We've got to divide them. So we divide them up in groups of eight as the biggest class
size. And then that generally ensures that most parents might only have
two classrooms
Unless they have a whole lot of kids because because there's a range of ages in those
So so most parents then will say, you know what? I'm gonna stay with my child who needs me the most
It might be your little one is very well behaved
So you end up staying with your older one who's got learning issues?
And then you peek your head in and look and see how the other one's doing and we become a team very well behaved. So you end up staying with your older one who's got learning issues.
And then you peek your head in and look and see how the other one's doing, and we become
a team. So like I had a mom one year whose child had severe issues and she was an excellent
tutor and as a tutor she couldn't watch them because she's tutoring. So I took it on myself
and I arranged every time we had a, the kids started to act up, a different mother would walk him
around the school building.
He just needed to walk, and then he'd come back and he was fine for another hour.
We get to know each other's kids and love on them and take care of them and see what
their deficiencies are and see what the parents' issues are and help each other.
This is Christian education.
This is not modern education.
So it's a hard paradigm to explain to
people. A couple years ago, we had a high school student in one of our classes come out as
transgender, right? I mean, we have people that join, you know, just because it happens.
And the community was... And the parents knew that there was an issue. They weren't supporting
that idea in their child's head.
And they just came together as a community and decided that they wanted to support this
student the right way.
And so all the kids said, we're not using your new pronouns, we're going to use the
pronouns God gave you.
And they allowed the student to stay in the program.
And about 12 weeks later, they said, you guys are right,
thank you. Thank you for loving Ma and gave up those pronouns and started identifying
as God identified them. So, you know, or sinners, situations happen. I mean, occasionally kids
get asked not to return because of behavior issues or things like that, but since it's
not, again, it's not, again,
it's not like the parents aren't aware of the situation going on and having conversations and
working through these, trying to work through these things in a godly way ahead of time
that we're usually able to head them off or get them back on the right track.
Pete And you're asking these questions because the age of your children, which is good, but we do
have middle school and high school programs too. So that's what he's referring to
as a high school child did this. But the same thing there in groups that we go
up to 12 is the most at the high school program and then there's usually less
parents in those rooms because those parents normally have to go be with the
little kids. And so you know then it's on the director or the tutor's part to say
to the mom, hey kid did great in logic this
week or you guys, you need to do a little bit more math.
But I don't go home and do it with you.
I tell the parent what happened and give them some feedback to encourage them and their
child because we can't all see everything.
And even when we're in the same room with our children, I remember I was tutoring my
fourth born and this woman kept popping her head into the classroom and this is when he was 14 every week and I finally looked at her and said, why do you just keep
looking in my classroom?
You don't come in or talk or say anything.
And she said, oh, I'm just watching David grow.
And I was like, what?
And that was the year he grew 12 inches in one year.
And I was trying to figure out why I was having so many discipline issues with him.
Well, your body can't, if your body's growing that fast, your mind is not growing.
And so her just noticing that made me go,
no wonder my kid and I are struggling, he's probably in pain.
Well, I wasn't noticing that, why?
Because I see him every day.
But she saw him once a week.
So we're a team trying to say our children are body, soul, spirit, and mind, not just academics.
Yeah, so we have typically not the younger students, but the older students will have
what we call a memory master. And that's when it's they'll basically recite from memory all
1200 or so facts. They do it to their parents and then the tutor and the director.
And so that's a kind of a highlight opportunity.
You don't have to do that.
My kids haven't done that yet,
but they will as they get older.
And we actually have a competition every year
called the National Memory Master,
where they have to memorize all these things
and do it in front of like a elimination competition.
And they have to not just give the facts forward, but also backwards.
And so we'll give them like a history timeline sentence and tell them to go backwards or
tell them to, hey, give us the 15 times table starting at 15, but work backwards.
And so they have to start with 15 times 15 and then do 15 times 14, et cetera.
But yeah, Mike, I mean, my kindergarten old kid knows one times one through 15 times 15
at the end of the year.
Your kindergartner knows that?
Yeah.
He can recite it. He doesn't understand it.
Oh, okay.
But the understanding can come quicker because it's in his head.
Wow.
Yeah, we have him memorize things like the quadratic equation,
basically a timeline from the beginning of history to
today.
160 points on the timeline they memorize each year over and over again, the same 160 so
that by the sixth year they've got it down and then they can go backwards, not just forward
or start in the middle.
They memorize every country and every capital, not just at the United States, but the whole
world.
When Donald Trump said, no one's heard of that country before, every single classical
conversation student can point on a map where it is.
Wow.
Yeah.
So like when they get to Challenge A...
How many years does that start?
Well, I mean, it takes a while for them to be able to do that, but Challenge A, which
is our middle school, the first year of middle school, at the end of the year, they have to draw the...
They have an hour to draw the whole entire world.
They get a big piece of paper and a pencil and an eraser, and they have to draw the entire
world.
Rivers, capitals, countries, oceans, label all of them.
Yeah.
So, they're labeling almost 600 locations at the end of them. So. Yeah.
So they're labeling almost 600 locations at the end of the hour.
Impressive.
And they do it as fast as they can.
And we say, be sloppy.
Just get it down.
It's not because you're better than anybody else.
We want you to prove to yourself what you know and what you don't know.
So starting fourth grade, we have our Central's program.
So that's...
What's on the historic timeline? What kind of stuff is it?
Creation in the fall can enable the flood, the tower battle.
And then we go into…
Is it all biblical?
No, but the early five or six events are.
And then we get into things like…
The rise and fall of Israel, Jesus Christ, modern history, World War II.
But that's all biblical.
It's like I got things like-
Declaration of Independence, stuff like this.
Yes, mm-hmm.
The war between the states, there's all kinds of things in, yeah.
Elizabeth, Henry, all the kings and queens.
So it's a world timeline.
Yeah, it's a world timeline.
Yeah, so they have like that transcontinental railroad and then the first train in London.
There's just all kinds of things that they memorize.
Wow. So they don't know what they're doing at first. I remember a mom text me, she said,
my two-year-old just named her new puppy, Amenhotep the fourth.
Pete Right?
Julie Because we're building this copious vocabulary around the kids and it's fun.
But that's only one of the things, we have review and new on the memory work,
but they always do a science experiment together and they always do a
Art projects together and they always do a presentation in front of the group
So those are the five what we call topics that we use with the little kids
What about is a parent? What about testing?
What about we submit any tests? Do we, I mean... Each state's different.
So, like in the state of North Carolina, we have to do an end-of-grade test, but we just
keep the results.
You just have to do it.
Nobody checks on you unless there's a...
I don't know the rules in Tennessee.
Tennessee's pretty, I think, a pretty free state.
So, I don't...
Some states do testing every other year.
Some states have no testing requirements.
So some states like Florida, you can either do an end of grade test
or have a teacher evaluate your kid at the end of the year.
So each state's different.
So I can't necessarily answer.
So like Texas has nothing, right?
Texas has always allowed you to just do whatever you want.
And so do you hear the words I just said?
Texas has allowed you.
Fathers shouldn't be letting a state tell them what they're allowed or not allowed to do,
in our regard. But we do have to, and we help families in the states, so HAP testing, we have resources to help with that.
– But we do a lot of assessing, assessing inside of classical conversations. Like, that four-year-old,
after they give their presentation for the
day, they'll ask, what's one thing you did well and what's one thing you can improve
for next time?
And that gets more sophisticated as they get older, the questions we ask them.
What about, you know, I think one of the biggest topics that people talk about when it comes to homeschooling is socialization and so I mean
How do you guys?
See kids socially
who
aren't around
Classmates every day you know it sounds like it's one day a week, it's eight kids.
Do you see those, I mean, how do you just go into the socialization?
Yeah, I mean, for, yeah.
Yeah, I mean, a big, obviously, question over the years.
I mean, the driver of that original question, like we told you earlier,
like parents were getting thrown into jail for homeschooling their kids.
So we weren't socialized because we didn't want to go to jail.
But nowadays that's not the case. But for us, we'll have friends over and they'll do some classical conversations, work together outside of those community days. Obviously,
you got a lot of socialization or whatever going on there, church, sports, all of these
different activities that kids are involved in. And all the statistics show the government like tracks it and as adults, you know,
says homeschoolers are more active in civilization than any other peers voting,
you know, being involved in their community, etc.
So when, this is what I tell people, when Sean, I don't know how old you are, when do
you... are you in a room with 30 people your exact same age from your exact same zip code
as an adult?
Never.
No.
Right?
So, we're not modeling anything in a public school or private school setting that exists
in real life.
It's all artificial.
It's a factory.
And so, socialization for my kid is going to the grocery store and talking to the clerk
and asking where the pancake batter is.
It's going to the mechanic shop with my wife and asking how much an oil change is going
to be.
I think what I'm getting at more is like, I'm not talking about ages, I'm just talking
about I think a lot of, I just think people get worried that their kid is going to be
socially awkward
and not.
Thank God.
Like not.
Sorry, they're not trans.
Not being able to resolve social conflicts and not being able to make friends and stuff.
I think that's kind of more of what I'm talking about.
It doesn't have to be your own people, but
or their own age.
You're the one that talked about the limp handshakes
and they don't look in your eye
and they went to public school.
I mean, that's the one thing about homeschoolers
that adults always comment on, they look you in the eye.
They talk to you and ask questions.
They care about you.
So socialization is very different.
Everybody's socialized somehow.
It's just what is the outcome of that socialization. So we're trying to raise our children to
be brothers and sisters in Christ. We're not trying to raise them to be another 12-year-old
or to be a janitor or an engineer. We're trying to raise brothers and sisters in Christ, and
that means they have to learn how to serve the world.
So the socialization comes in, I think, in their opportunities to serve other people.
And most homeschoolers do that on purpose.
So we're still the ones visiting senior homes.
Go ahead and call the local drama society here and ask them, who's showing up for
the community theater to be in there?
It's homeschoolers.
We're the ones that are out doing all the community activities.
Because the kids have been in a box for the whole day.
They come home and they, you know, and then they have sports.
They're tired.
They're weary.
Our kids are full of energy.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah, I mean, it's just such a...
I mean, I know why people ask the question, but it's just so nonsensical at this point
for us.
I mean, it's just...
It is for you, but it's not for somebody on the outside looking at.
Yeah, so I mean...
Somebody on the outside looking in thinks they're with mom or dad all day long, they
never leave the house, they don't get involved in extracurricular sports, they're not going
to be able to be in intramural sports.
There's not going to be school dances.
Is my son going to be able to talk to a woman because he's not around him?
That's from the outside.
Sure.
That's the perspective from the outside looking in.
Yeah.
And like I said, the reason that was the perspective was because homeschoolers did have to hide
because we didn't want to get arrested early on. But nowadays we can move around freely and so, yeah, I mean, I don't know, we have top 10 draft
picks. We've got four kids in North Carolina that got D1 scholarships on golf teams. Like look at
almost every single Olympian in this individual sport. They're all homeschooled. So it's just,
the opportunities out there,
it's not provided to you by the civil government,
you have to go find it,
but there's homeschool sports clubs,
there's homeschool debate clubs, there's science clubs,
there's, you know, starting going to work.
I started working almost full time when I was 16 years old
for an engineering company.
So there's life, life's out there.
You're not, are there parents who might not do
what they ought to do?
Sure, I mean, that's in any situation, right?
But the majority of homeschool parents,
I mean, that's a concern for them too, right?
They want to have grandchildren.
They're not staying at home with their kid
if they don't want to have grandchildren, right?
So they want little Jimmy or Jane to be able to find
a good mate that's going to take care of them and stuff.
So do you see the kids that are involved in community together? The eight kids, do they generally become,
is that their social circle?
Well, it can be. So the thing that
most people don't know is that a third of all children in the United States move every year.
That's for all demographics
And so what happens is that they become you know close to one another but then they move and they're in a different CC
Community so that's one thing that happens
the other thing though that happens is because of the
The growth CC has had every couple years most communities split in half to go start another one
and so those children had now of those friends and new friends that have communities split in half to go start another one. And so those
children now have those friends and new friends that have come in in order to grow our model
because it's very mission-based. We're telling parents you don't have to go to Africa to
be a missionary. You can just go down to the next zip code and start a new CC community
and teach folks about Christianity. So the children go right along with them.
But we have what they, something I think is very wonderful, but that might sound like
not to you, is how many CC students are married to each other. And they aren't necessarily from
the same community. They might have found each other when they went to college and then get
married. There's a lot of them. I mean, like for our household, my oldest daughter's 10, she's one of the top five gymnasts
in the state of North Carolina. She trains 12 hours a week. My wife coaches, so we have
like our homeschool classical conversations friends and we have her gymnastics friends
and sometimes we have...
Church friends, neighborhood friends.
Yes, sleepovers with a mixture of groups or individual one or other. And she had friends
that go to public school and private school and all sorts of things.
And my eight-year-old son plays baseball and basketball and did some combatives.
And so again, just kind of interacting with people of all demographics and in different sort of activities.
He does a robotics camp where they learn to
program robots and do them out of Legos and stuff like that. We have a guy named Bernie
Carbo at our church. He's a Hall of Famer for the Boston Red Sox. And I take my four-year-old
and eight-year-old at 10 a.m. during the week, once a week, to go get baseball, hitting practice
from a Hall of Fame baseball player. Charges me 20 bucks. And then he gives them also the gospel of Jesus Christ and tells
them about how he loves Jesus and his background. And so, yeah, there's all sorts of opportunities
when you're not stuck in a box eight hours a day for 180 days a week.
So think about from the military perspective, there's only been two cultures that have been
successful at having public education that the government fully controlled.
And that was ancient Sparta and modern Prussia.
And neither one of those organizations, those groups, those schooling situations, thought
it was a smart idea for teenage men to be sitting in a school building.
They made them, right, they got their academics and they went into soldiering.
We're the only culture, it's been the last 100 years,
and we made it global where we said to young men,
you need to sit down all day long
and not train them to go out and serve the community
and get a skill set that'll make it so they are employable
as well as just situationally aware.
Situational awareness is what you're describing when they look down and don't shake your hand.
And as a soldier, you know that's probably the most important skill to give your children, is that.
And so we focus on that a lot as homeschoolers.
Are you paying attention to who's in the room with you?
How are you going to serve them? You need to be kind.
I don't care if you like Latin, your classmate does, you better do a good job so that she'll be happy."
Like, it's paying attention to the rest of the world is what we're trying to accomplish.
People want us just to bring—think about when you're with your little ones that you
have.
They're smaller than you.
So God designed them to have to look up.
They look up to you.
They look up to their wife. They look up to you. They look up to their wife.
They look up to the stars in the sky.
You're the first face of God that they've ever seen, and we all have to look up to Him.
Why will your son one day be taller than your wife?
Because if a mother can't look up to her son, who else is going to?
So God in His natural order has made it so that we should know the natural way for children to be raised.
But what do school books do in the classroom?
They all look down.
That's painfully wrong to do to a child, let alone a really energetic young man.
There are women who love that school setting, and there's a few men that love school settings,
but that's not what we were designed to do for the majority of our childhood.
We were designed to work our butts off all day long like they did in early colonial America,
and then when it started to get dark at night, you pull out your Bible, you pull out your
instrument, you pull out your history book, because you're too darn tired to go work
anymore, and then you study the academics.
But we have it all flipped around.
So for like practical stuff, what we do at our house is the night before I put out handwriting
and so the kids wake up, they go downstairs, do about 10 minutes of handwriting.
Then they'll go, like my four year old, that's all he does, you know, and then
would do, my eight year old will then go do a math lesson, my ten year old will work on a paper that
she's writing, and then after, then I'll serve him breakfast, then I'll go to work, then my wife will
come in and do about 30 minutes of memory work where she's reviewing some of the past memory work
from the previous weeks,
and then spending time on the current memory work
and getting them to pair it back,
pair that back to her.
And then basically doing a reading lesson with each.
And that's pretty much our day from an education standpoint,
a formal education standpoint.
Her little kids.
Her little kids.
So if they were older children, they'd spend more time doing math, probably an hour in the afternoon,
doing some research and writing, and then they'd read two or three hours at night
before they went to bed instead of watching a movie.
What are they reading?
Oh, I have a whole list. They read from challenge A, which is 12
year olds up through the 18 year olds in challenge four. They read 80 novels and write 80 papers,
essays on these novels. And then they read, so that's just in the literature strand. And then
in the history strand, they read all kinds of original source documents
about you know like the Magna Carta and the Federalist Papers and things like that and
write papers on them and then the science strand they work on writing science textbooks
and learning how to do research and pulling it together and doing presentations and abstracts
so they're writing again.
So by the time our students graduated Challenge
IV, they've read a couple hundred books and they've written a couple hundred papers.
And that is unheard of in even Christian education. But that's what they do. So a couple of children
in the early days came to me at the end of Challenge IV and said, Mrs. Borden, we just
realized what classical education is and you tricked us. If we just did math for an hour a day and read a book for a couple hours a day and
wrote a paper for an hour a day, we would be so educated. And I said, wasn't that what
you just did? And they're like, yeah, that's why we realized that we're educated. And what
they're realizing is they're, so the mother and father become facilitators. Sure, I'll
get that book for you. Oh yeah, I remember as a child I used that resource. Let's go
see if we can talk to that person or get it for you. You become a facilitator more than you
become their teacher as you teach them to become autodidactic and teach themselves.
And that's what people who don't go through homeschooling through high school don't ever
get to see is that beauty of becoming your child's mentor facilitator, right? Because you want all
kinds of mentors for your children, but isn't it wonderful when
you can be one of them?
Yeah, usually by the sophomore year, the kids are doing 75 to 90 percent of the work on
their own, and the parents are just holding them accountable and helping them out when
they get stuck and helping them research or answer questions.
Yeah, but I mean, they read books like-
Driving them to soccer, driving them to archery, driving them to...
Yeah, I mean books like, you know, Johnny Tremaine, The Iliad, The Odyssey, some Chronicles
and Arnea books.
I mean, each of our... starting in middle school through high school, each of our years
has a different theme and all of our literature and history books revolve around that theme
and the final year, your senior year,
is all about leadership.
And so we're building all the core blocks
to develop the next group of leaders in our country.
And so the things our seniors do,
a lot of people won't do unless they get a master's degree.
Well, we'll get to there.
Yeah.
What about attendance?
What happens?
I have a lot of friends that do homeschool and they travel a lot.
Yeah.
They get an RV and they go across the country or they do a tour in Europe or they go to
Asia or whatever and you know they, jokingly but not jokingly, they're like,
yeah, like this is homeschool.
Yeah.
We're on vacation.
This is education.
They're seeing the world.
They're seeing the Grand Canyon.
They're seeing the Coliseum.
They're seeing Gettysburg.
You know, and so it's like, it's like a double benefit there.
Yeah.
But so what happens if they're missing?
I mean, like even our family,
like because of our travels and work and stuff,
like we'll miss a couple, couple of weeks.
So I mean, obviously that's allowable.
We're not, we're not forcing you to get there,
but you want to be a good neighbor, right?
To people that are expecting you to be there.
So I mean, the fees are, if you miss,
you still pay the same fees.
But yeah, for us, like a lot of times,
if we're going somewhere else,
we can actually reach out and find out
if there's a local community there,
and we've gone to other communities
on weeks that we've missed.
Oh, okay.
And there's 52 weeks a year,
we're talking about 24 of them,
and not even 24 full weeks, but 24 Tuesdays or 24 Thursdays.
So a lot of times you can work around it and then we'll do a spring break and a fall break
and stuff like that.
So you'd have to work pretty hard to miss a significant amount of time.
But there's definitely people who say, you know, we're going to wherever for
a month and, you know, they take off and say goodbye and say hello.
But that's one of the benefits of our model is you can do that and you can know exactly
what's going on while you're gone.
So they'll take their books with them and they know what the, you know, assignments
are going to be and what's expected of them.
And for the younger ages,
they're gonna see all the material twice in those six years.
And so if you miss it one time,
you'll pick it up the next time.
So yeah, I mean, I think,
if you were gonna RV school for 52 weeks,
it's probably classical conversations,
probably won't work at that lifestyle for you that year.
But people come in and out and take long vacations.
Our community ends the week before Thanksgiving and doesn't start until the second week of
January, so that's a six-week period right there.
You can go take off and do something.
Because we don't meet as many weeks as the school does.
That's the thing.
That was designed on my part because we traveled a lot, and I was like, we're not going to
be stuck the whole year with this group.
In community, are all the kids, the eight kids, are they all in the same grade?
And our bigger ones, yeah.
And the younger ones, and our smaller ones, not necessarily.
But they're usually, again, paired up by ages.
So like my four-year-olds in a group of four- and five-year-olds,
my eight-year-olds with just eight-year-olds, my ten-year in a group of four and five year olds, my eight year olds with just eight year olds, my 10 year olds with 10 and 11 year olds.
Okay. So is it individualized then if the grades are different?
So each...
Within the...
Within that community day, they're going to present to the level of the kids. So the group
of fifth and sixth graders who are being presented the
same base materials that the kindergartners are being presented, their experience that community
day is going to look different than that based on their longevity and age groups. So yeah.
So let's say they're doing a science experiment with the four and five year olds. Four and five year olds just play, but the twelve and thirteen year olds will do the
same project, but they'll have to write a research paper or they'll have to do a scientific
method or they'll have to do something with it.
And then that way, mama at home goes, okay, all you guys did the same thing in general.
I'm going to go home and see, oh, the next thing we're going to do at home is maybe we're
going to do a bird study. And now I know how to go home and see, oh, this next thing we're going to do at home is maybe we're going to do a bird study.
And now I know how to grade it.
I know how to help the little ones be involved while the bigger ones have more work to do.
So that's what we're modeling is that each age can do a little bit more than the younger
ones can.
But we can still work on the same material.
Because it's not the material that matters.
It's the practicing, the skills of learning that matter.
Okay.
Interesting. So if they're studying George Washington, you can do it at any level.
Mm-hmm. It does. It does make sense.
So our curriculum's written to help the parents scale, and our tutors model how to scale it.
So a parent can go, I see what you're doing. No, I can do that.
Okay. Okay.
Because we don't, one time a grandfather said to me, I want my daughter to
home school but she's got four kids and if she does four kids and six subjects, how is she going
to do 24 hours a day? And I was like, you're bringing school home. Nobody does that. We combine
our children together and we all do math at the same time. We all do science at the same time
because we need to be efficient at what we're doing too. So it teaches parents how to juggle and be parents of many-aged children.
Instead of like, I just can't handle you, there's too many of you.
So we model being a parent of large families.
Yeah, so like my, you know, before learning about George Washington, maybe my wife's given
them the George Washington history sentence that they're gonna memorize
My four-year-old is coloring a picture of George Washington
My eight-year-old you know, he's gonna color the picture and then go play with Legos for 55 minutes
my
Eight-year-old is gonna, you know color the picture and write a few sentences about them and go play Legos with her younger his younger brother
for the next 35 minutes. And then my
10-year-old will write a paragraph about George Washington and go walk a five-minute YouTube video
on him or something like that. And so they all learned about George Washington and all at the
same time. And so that's one of the benefits of Classical Conversations versus other homeschool
programs, all integrated by age level. And so what we're teaching them and having them memorize
as a four-year-old, they're going to see again
when they turn 13 and 16 and 18.
And so one of the problems in America with our math
and why we're so bad at math is they're trying to learn algebra
and they don't know addition or subtraction or multiplication.
And so they're trying to learn algebra and multiplication
at the same time
versus we've taught our kids at a very young age, how to do multiplication,
even though they don't understand it.
But when they get to the algebraic level, well, they have that to fall back on
and they're just learning, you know, why is there an A in here or B in here
and stuff like that.
So it's, it's really providing what's called the foundations program, a foundation
for your student to be able to learn everything else at a much deeper level. And so that's
one of the things that classical education is different from modern education. Classical
education teaches you how to go deep in a very few subject matters so that you have
those skills to do that anywhere that you want to as an adult versus modern
education just teaches you that first inch, you know, mile wide and inch deep.
And so you might survey a lot of information, but you don't exactly dive down into understanding
it.
And so it's a very deep education versus a very surface level education.
The other thing is that I want to just qualify some definitions.
So we've said challenge A a couple of times.
So we call our under 12 students foundation students because they're all doing the same
thing and moms and dad are very active.
Then challenge A hits.
So we called them because there's a challenge.
There's an A challenge, a B challenge.
There's a challenge for each of them.
So even though we have six traditional looking subjects in challenge A, their main
challenge is called ownership. Will you learn to own your responsibilities? Then challenge
B's challenge is to become disciplined. If you're going to own that, you're going to
have to work at it. Then challenge 1, which is at our high school level, challenge is
freedom ship. You're becoming an adult. Do you want to be a free
adult or enslaved adult? So all the literature they read that year is about enslaved and
free cultures and talk about that. Then if you're going to be free in challenge two,
you're going to learn and discuss choices. Freedom comes with freedom comes choices.
And then in challenge three we go, but you know what? Choices have consequences. So all the curriculum is based around the literature and history around the consequences
of decisions people have made in the past.
And then in challenge four, like Robert said, it's leadership.
So if you are free to make good choices and bear the responsibility of your own consequences,
you have an opportunity to be a leader.
That's our grades.
We don't say ninth grade, 10th grade, 11th grade.
We say what the challenge is for each.
Our history's around it, our literature's around it.
Even our math, our science.
Our geography, everything.
So you may read like Amos Fortune Freeman in challenge one, who was a tanner.
And while you're doing that, you're also in science, learning about biology and
tanning, and then the math equations are such that you're doing that, you're also in science, learning about biology and tanning. And then the math equations are such
that you're beginning to understand
how to apply the grammar, the memory work,
to actual algorithms so that people can process
and affect your plant.
Everything is super intentionally integrated
so that we're working on the whole child
and not bifurcating everything that they do.
One of the differences between Classical Conversations and other programs
is because of that large age gap between my brother and I and the youngest two, is Classical
Conversations got started after my mom had basically, you know, homeschooled us through
high school and saw what she did and the results.
See, if you think about a scientific experiment,
said, what should we do differently?
And so foundations and then essentials
and even the earlier challenge levels
were actually designed around, this is what we did,
this is the outcome that we had,
how do we make it so that that outcome's even stronger?
Versus your typical Christian school or private school, where they say, okay, let's do a kindergarten,
and then they do a first grade because everyone liked it, and a second grade, and a third
grade, and eventually they have a graduating class, but they get great results compared
to the public school, but they didn't, you know, 13 years ago have the wisdom of saying,
what is the steps that we need to take to make sure that we have a whole person who is a leader and free versus what Classical Conversations was.
It's kind of like the Oregon Trail.
I don't know if you played the Oregon Trail growing up, right?
You picked a guide.
Like Classical Conversations, we got to Oregon and said, well, that was a bad way of doing it.
We should have done it much differently. And then we went back to the East Coast, rerouted all the lines, figured out what the right trails
were. And now we're just taking people metaphorically along the Oregon Trail. And so that's kind of
what classical, how classical conversations is different as we said, we got to the end of the
journey and said, this worked, this didn't work. We want to help you. We got to the end of the journey and said, this worked, this
didn't work, we want to help you, we want to tell you what works and what doesn't work
for our family, what we've seen working doesn't work for other families. Take those hundreds
of thousands of families over the last 29 years or 27 years, however long it's been,
and give all that best practices to you, and we do that. We deliver it in community. Okay. Okay. Well, let's take one more break and then we'll pick up. I hate to say it, but
we called it fourth grade. Yeah.
But we'll pick up there and wrap it up. All right. Sounds good.
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Alright guys, we're back from the break.
We're getting ready to pick up fourth grade-ish.
But you know, I just, we had a, I mean, I can tell, me and my wife were chatting down
there right before I came up.
I can definitely tell a difference in the kids nowadays that are homeschooled versus
not homeschooled.
And you guys have brought up the fact that
you know they're zinging questions at you, they're not just listening, they're engaged.
They're asking questions and like pepperings and they're intelligent questions and I noticed
it with Jeremy's kids, my producer, and pretty much everybody's kids they just seem more engaged sharper
more confident and and able to hold adult conversations like it's impressive
man it's impressive and so I want to get into I want to get into the fourth
grade so but I also want to get into how does that happen?
How has that developed?
How are you bringing that critical thinking and the confidence to pepper an adult with
questions into these kids?
A lot of it's just lifestyle development, like the intentionality behind the program
from those weekly presentations, teaching the kids how to do that,
just having them be interested in life,
having the parents that they look up to,
asking them good questions,
not letting them just ask a question and not answer it,
but actually go maybe go look at it,
look it up if they don't know it,
and teaching them to go ask other adults questions.
I mean, that's the thing that I think homeschoolers do more, something that you can't get in private
school is you just...
In public school and private school, you have one teacher and that's the person that you
go ask questions about.
In homeschooling, like I mentioned earlier, like if you have a question about something,
you go ask the scientists in your church or you go find an expert that teaches that subject
locally or go find a local business owners that's doing that thing and go have a conversation with
them and so I think just that that level of intentional behavior that parents are developing
with their kids is something that's interesting because in public school, when I went, it's probably
even worse now.
I mean, people are embarrassed to ask a question.
You see it in adult rooms.
You know what I mean?
They don't want to raise their hand or talk to you.
Exactly.
They don't want to raise their hand.
They don't want to ask the question.
They're embarrassed to ask the question.
But what I notice about homeschool kids is they are not embarrassed to ask questions and they can ask
some pretty tough questions.
Well, I think classical education is all about
learning to ask good questions.
And so it's the exact opposite of a lecture-based education
where you're just supposed to listen to some expert
at the front of the room and write down everything you can
and then regurgitate it.
Classical education is all about learning to ask good questions, learning who the experts
are, where the source materials are.
And so the kids just naturally grow up in a situation where they're more inquisitive
than other people and they think it's a good, they've been trained and that's a good thing
to do versus, right, if someone's lecturing and you stop, I didn't get that last thing, can you repeat that?
Right, that's an interruption in their space.
And so that's frowned upon, right?
So it's the exact opposite, just the mentality that homeschool parents have with education.
Like, oh, the sun rises from the east to the west, why is that?
You know, oh, the ripples are forming on the ocean, like, why is it low tide, why is it high tide? You know, and
you're just asking kids questions all day to see what they know or what they think,
and since you're mentoring them in that manner, that's the same way that they're going to
grow up and go.
Mm-hmm.
So I have a friend who's 20 years older than me that was one of my mentors, and she always
reminds us that the scriptures say that a student will be like their teacher.
And so, if your teacher is somebody that you have just for a couple hours a week, and there's
new ones the next year, you don't even get to fall in love and know what they think.
And then today with all the online education, she says, do parents want their children to
be like a plastic box?
The homeschoolers that are intentional, they just spend the time with the children. So the children, that's their model. That's what they're going to be like. So if you're a curious parent, you're
going to have curious kids. If you're not a curious parent, you might luck out and get some
curious kids, but that's not going to be the intention that you have with them. So something else is that...
I think you mentioned at the very beginning about how parents are nervous, like, can I
do this? Can I do that? And can I do a good job? And I think that motivates them and propels
them to do a good job. Like, how do I know I'm a good parent? Well, you care.
That's already...
Like, the fact that you ask that question indicates that you are on a pathway to being
a good parent.
And so, how do I know I, how can I educate my kids?
Just the fact that you have that question or are willing to ask it means that you've
got a really good chance of doing a really good job.
Well, you guys have my wife fully on board and the interview is not even over yet.
So and really, I mean, me too, but let's unless something drastic changes in the last half
of this interview here, but let's pick up at the fourth grade level.
Yeah.
So in fourth grade, we have what's called our Essentials program and the Essentials
of the English language and that's when we start teaching them how to write and how to
write well.
And we use this program by Andrew Poudelois called IAW and it really just, again, it's
a model.
So we take some of the best writings through history and start having our fourth graders
and fifth graders and sixth graders modeling it.
And then at the end of the year,
they do what's called faces of history,
where they pick a character out of history
and write a three page or three paragraph or longer,
depending on the age group, presentation on them.
And then at the end of the year,
we would do a big capstone is what we call them
in classical conversations
where they present their faces of history. And so they go,
you know, you've got 15 kids, you know, 8 to 15 kids, depending on how many classrooms you have
of that. And they're all presenting on different historical people. And so it's a very intentional
writing program is really what Essentials is about.
And the faces of history is the audience is supposed to guess who they are based on the
presentation.
So they can't say the name of who they are.
So it gives them a little bit of a, like, will they trick the parents or won't they
trick the parents?
And so the audience asks the student questions and the audience is the parents.
The audience is the parents and grandparents, people like that. And so they'll go and if they're talking about George Washington, they'll probably dress
up and be like, I was a general in the war, I got shot six times, all those details and
tell about some facts and some stories.
And then they'll say, all right, who do you think I am at the end?
And then the parents will guess.
So we're practicing their presentation skills,
practicing having them look people in the eye,
practicing their stage presence.
And so they'll do that fourth, fifth and sixth grade,
along with diving deeper into that memory work
that they're doing.
And then they'll head off into the challenge program,
which is, as my mom was describing earlier, those six challenges
where we put all the building blocks together for leadership and go back through history
and read who struggled with what, what were those things going on, reading about Booker
II Washington and learning about slavery, the truth about that stuff, not some woke version and not some whitewashed version,
but what was actually going on in people's minds.
Each year has a special event at the end of it,
so they do things like Challenge A's,
they do a science fair, so that's a big focus,
along with drawing the map from memory.
Challenge B is mock trial, which they'll go and they, we have a case, a person dies on
a work site.
So there's prosecutors, defenders, witnesses, judges, and we typically have those in courtrooms
with real judges.
A lot of times they say that our seventh graders do better than the second year law students
they see doing the same sort of presentations.
You can go see one.
So if you want to find out where the challenge, because what happens one challenge being another
challenge be from near zip codes, we'll meet at the courthouse and try each other, both
for prosecuting, both will defend.
And the public's welcome to see that.
And for me, like the best story out of that was when I ran David's mock trial, the judge
said, you know what, he was a juvenile district judge.
And he said, I was going to quit being a judge.
This was the end.
I wasn't going to go do it anymore because all I hear is this horrible stuff from juveniles
every single day.
It's my job.
And he said, I'm not going to quit now because I just met you 12 students and I know it can
be better.
Wow.
You know, so we hear those kinds of things all the time.
So to have them, the way that works is we do take a true case and we've had it scripted,
or not scripted, but researched
kind of at the student level and then the children write the script based on their roles. And they
write it as a team and then they meet this other team they've never met before and they go against
each other. And they wear suits and ties and they speak really well and you know they're all 13 years
old. So our expectations are just really high in those middle school years versus most school
situations treat them, middle school kind of as a waiting ground.
They're not children who are fun at school.
They aren't able to do what a high school student does.
But we say, no, they are dialectic.
They will ask questions.
They will rise to the occasion.
So let's give them occasions to rise to.
And so through the essentials and challenge A and B, that's kind of the focus.
And as you can hear, it's language and words, and just getting their speaking skills sharpened.
Tell them about the other capstones in the challenge levels.
Sure.
So Challenge 1 is policy debate, which is you don't get to pick a side, and it's two
on two. What age is this?
Policy debate.
Fourteen year olds.
Fourteen year olds debating policy.
And so the students pick the policy.
The first time they ever debate, we give our tutors ideas and help with directing the children
and then after that they can start picking what they want to debate on.
Where do they, do they have a list to pick from or do they just look at what's going on in society?
Yeah, so should the government fund the arts to death penalty, abortion rights,
I mean, this heavy subjects that they get into. So, uh.
Do you see excitement out of these kids to do this stuff?
Not at first, but eventually, yeah.
And they have to learn to defend both sides.
So if you're pro-death penalty, you have to learn how to defend.
Want it anti-death penalty or removing it from the civil government's jurisdiction.
So the public's welcome to come watch that capstone event.
That's that challenge one, freedom ship level, and then challenge two, choices.
They end the year with...
The poetry?
Yeah. No, that's Challenge 3. What is Challenge
2? The Protocol. Oh, Protocol. So then the Challenge 2, they go to Protocol where they
dress up in suits and ties, sometimes tux and gowns, and instead of having a prom, which
would be more traditional or modern, they go to the opera or they go to some symphony
orchestra.
But it's called protocol because beforehand we do instructions so that when they go to
a very nice five-course meal, the boys seat the girls and they know where the silverware
goes and things like that.
So then they get to, because challenge too has a lot to do with art and our choices and
how art reveals the choices of a culture. So we thought the Capstone event should center around culture.
So that's what they do.
And they do an art grant that year.
Yeah, they write an art grant, trying to understand how things get funded.
You should have had them send it to USAID.
Yeah, they were going to the wrong places.
And then challenge threes, where we called the Poetry Cafe and the children spend the
whole year in the literature seminars reading ancient poets, modern poets, Shakespeare,
and then writing their own poetry.
And so they just like the faces of history for the little kids and the parents, the poetry
cafes where they share the poetry they wrote that year with the bigger audience.
And the
thing that's really special to me is that poetry is very personal. It's like writing
music. And to see children willing to share their poetry, which is not cool in a public
setting, and I've even seen them start... I've seen the audience cry because the poetry
is so beautiful and that these children share their hearts.
And the reason they're willing to do that versus not even ask a question in public school
is they've been with the same, about a dozen kids for the last few years with all the same
parents around helping.
They trust us.
They're willing to reveal their heart because nobody's going to mock them.
One of the best things I've ever heard in all of Classical Conversations was this mother of a 12-year-old came to me in tears, and her daughter was in one of my seminars, and
she said, you know my daughter, and she's highly autistic and very strange, and all
the years that she was in pillow school, she never had a friend.
And since September and us joining Classical Conversations, she's gone to three sleepovers
and girls call her all the time.
They don't care that she's different.
That's what we're trying to do is show that we can be kind to one another.
So schools talk about it and regulate it.
We help our children to live it, but they're modeling those adults who look you in the
eye and try to help you.
They're not modeling their peers who don't know what they're doing. They're little kids.
Wow.
That's the thing about private schools and public schools is because there's only one
teacher to 30 students or 20 students, the students learn to model each other's behavior.
That's why you got cliques and these different behavioral issues because they don't have
the mentor mentee. It's too big, it's too
many.
And then they see a different teacher every single year, and so all it does is condition
them that adult in their life is going to leave them the next year.
If they're from a broken home, their father's left them, their mother's left them, they
go to this school, they have a teacher that they like, and then their teacher's left
them and their buddies are with them.
And so that's a lot of reasons why we have these behavior issues in public schools because
the only people that they can trust to be around is their five or six friends that have
done all the things with them.
That's why you see a lot of these behavior issues that are there.
To mom's decision, the stories we hear from community. There was this little girl, she was disabled in a wheelchair
and would always watch the kids at recess,
go play baseball or whatever they were doing.
And one week the boys were out there,
10, 11, 12 year old boys,
with this seven year old girl and they saw her.
And so they stopped their game and they went in and got her and helped her hit the ball.
Damn.
And then wheeled her around for a home run.
No kidding.
Nope.
No adult told them to do it.
No adult was, you know, there was adult monitoring them, you know, for safety and stuff,
but they just saw that this little girl was always watching
them play and wasn't able to do that.
And so they've had it modeled by their parents, a helping, loving other people system.
And so I think that's a big difference when you have a community, especially not 30 kids,
but eight to 12 kids per age group and siblings playing with siblings, different
age groups playing with different age groups. I mean, that's real. It's not socialization,
it's creating civilization. It's creating a community and environment to uplift people
and not tear people down. I mean, people always talk about peer pressure in a negative way
because that's how most of us experience it, but in our communities it's the opposite. We help people rise. And
I mean, that's, you know, what the Bible says is going on a journey with a friend is good
because when you fall down, they can pick you up. And that's why, you know, being in
a homeschool community and not loan schooling is so important. And then we have our final
capstone in Challenge 4.
Yeah, so that's the one that, I mean, the students actually really like to do this one.
It's called their Senior Thesis, and they do the same thing you used to have to do to
get your PhD.
They write a 30-page paper on a topic of their choice, and then they pick people from the
community to come judge them.
And then we invite the community to a church or a bingo hall or somewhere that has a stage,
and the students present their thesis, and in front of everybody, the judges criticize
them and question them and try to get them to defend their thesis.
So they show that they really did the work and they understand it.
And that's what you used to have to do to get your doctorate.
Who are the judges?
People from the community.
The kids get to invite pastors and business owners and fathers that are senators or congressmen,
anybody can come do it.
But the kids invite the people they want to judge them.
Because they're not kids anymore, they're adults and they need to know that assessment's
going to come from all kinds of people in all kinds of fields.
And you know, most people don't want to public speak.
And when that child has spoken for 15 minutes presenting their paper and then another 15 minutes answering questions, they feel like they can do anything.
Yeah, but how many people are they speaking to?
Usually there's a few dozen to 50.
It's not...
The three or four people.
The three or four kids.
No, three or four people are judging them.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, three or four judges.
But they're also speaking to an audience, not just the judge. Up to 50 people. Sure,
because it's a really popular event and we like every parent who's not there yet wants to come
see what it looks like so they'll be ready when their child's working on it. Wow. We want to start
collecting those and publishing them and sending them to... The thesis? Yeah, because I mean,
it's just amazing the research and stuff that these kids do.
A lot of them are doing AI the last two years, so our group, I think, is ahead of the curve
with all the AI papers we've been seeing.
Do you guys do any...
What are the core subjects again?
So we call them grammar, dialectic, rhetoric, debate, research, and logic, or what we call them.
They translate roughly to language, like English and Latin for grammar. Dialectic is... I just
lost my mind.
We got geography, history, math, science.
Yeah, with the little guys. So we have...
Can we do that, the older kids? History, Math, Science. Yeah, with the little guys. So we have, yes.
So we have, here, I'll do it the way you would know.
So we do Latin, Math, so algebra for the older kids, Latin, Math, Science, History, Debate,
and Rhetoric, where rhetoric's a catch-all of presentation skills.
Reasoning logic.
So they do six semesters of pure logic from Challenge A on. They do a course in
philosophy or theology for a semester at every challenge and they do a course in formal logic
in every challenge also. So that gives them three years of logic which very few universities require anymore. Wow. Wow. Is there any, you know, is society kind of evolves in the tech world?
Is there any, is there anything that like coding or anything like that?
Well, we don't do it specifically in our program, but as like we teach them how language is modeled,
which is part of coding. We teach them math is modeled, which is part of coding.
We teach them math and logic, which is part of coding.
So they have all the building, you know, building blocks to do well at it.
And we see a lot of students go on to do that at university or even just skipping university
and going right into the workforce.
And like our CIO at work, he has, he knows 40 different coding languages and
there's new coding languages coming out every couple of years.
And so it's better to, we teach them how to learn coding languages.
So whatever the next coding language is, they can be the forefront of programs and designers
and things like that.
So it wouldn't surprise me at all to have a lot of Classical Conversation students doing this
AI programming. And then the kids, because we work hard for a short period of time,
we don't go the full length of a school semester. So typically, starting middle school and high
school, you've actually got an additional six weeks of school left to do at home that's not related at all to classical conversation.
So a lot of times people are diving into those sorts of timely specifics for their family
in those time periods.
And for me, I thought I was going to be a computer engineer.
I actually wrote some of the first websites for politicians in North Carolina.
But I went and actually at the age of 16, I worked full time for a coding company and
realized that's not what I wanted to do.
I didn't want to sit behind a computer all day.
But those type of opportunities are there.
So many of our students, you know, when they're 15, 16 years old, go and get almost full time
jobs doing
what they think they want to do the rest of their lives.
And they sometimes find out that it is, and sometimes they find out that it's not, and
they want to go do something else.
And homeschooling kind of gives you that freedom.
So it's a...
Are they using any technology for their homework?
Are they using computers, iPads, anything like that? We can do it. We don't go home with them, so sure, they can, but we don't allow that
within our seminar days when they come to community.
Okay.
And we don't even let the tutors bring in PowerPoints or slides or anything. Our motto
is stick in the sand. If the Lord loves some poor Indian woman who has no husband and seven
kids and wants her to equip them to serve Him for the rest of her life and she has no husband and seven kids and wants her to equip them to serve him for the rest of his life and she has no resources, well, we can do it too. So we try not to have an American
education or an unachievable wealthy education. We try to have an education anybody can achieve.
Okay. Okay. How do the older students do on ACT, SCT scores?
Yeah, I'd have to... I mean, we have them on our website. But yeah, I mean, they typically
are two to three points on ACT ahead of your homeschoolers, one or two points ahead of
your average, like classical Christian school. I think about 70% of our students get academic
scholarships to college. 70% of our students get academic scholarships to college.
70%?
Yeah.
But I recognize not all of them want to go to college, so that's a pretty high number.
We have universities that give scholarships just for our students.
Yeah, there's at least a handful of them where they'll give you an academic scholarship just
because you graduated from classical conversations because they believe in our students and their abilities so much. We hear from college students all the time who are like English 101,
and the professor after like a month goes, you've got an A if you'll help me grade all of your
peers paperwork because there's nothing I'm going to be able to teach you, and I need the help getting your peers up to the level.
So we have a partnership with a college in Florida, Southeastern, where our students
can actually get college credit for their classes and they're in such a way where they're
transferable to other universities and things like that.
So a lot of times are, I mean, they're, they could technically graduate
with an AA if they did everything, but most of the time students are going to be graduating
with nine to 12 hours of college coursework finished. And that's actually a pretty good
sweet spot in order to still get scholarships and stuff like that. And yeah, we had a student,
he was interviewing at Baylor and they invited him to his scholarship week.
And basically, they gave him their scholarship assignment was, you've got 30 minutes, here's a
subject, here's three papers to read on it, give us a one-minute speech on it afterwards.
And he had done that about 100 hundred times in Classical Conversations.
And so he got a full $250,000 scholarship to Baylor because of all the work that he'd done.
And I mean, that's one particular student that I know of, but that happens all the time.
We hear about it time.
Over and over again.
So one of my first students, after only two years of being in challenge, because we were
just getting going, she got a Rhodes Scholar to Oxford and then scholarship and then joined
the FBI.
It doesn't take long to change a child's abilities because they're fresh and they're
young.
Wow.
But we don't really lead with those types of stats because we're much as, seek first
the kingdom of God and everything's going to be added.
And the more we seek first the kingdom of God, the more that seems to be added.
And so, not doing it perfectly by any means, but it's quite remarkable.
And even like special needs students are in our programs and we hear from parents all
the time that the doctor said they're never going to be able to do this. You guys have special needs students are in our programs and we hear from parents all the time that the doctor said they're never gonna be able to do this.
You guys have special needs kids too.
Oh yeah.
A lot of people home school because of special needs, because the school can't meet any of
the needs.
Yeah, so what's up?
Yes, you gotta meet all sorts of people in classical conversations.
Yeah, we've had whole communities that specialize in special needs.
We don't like make that a policy or sanction it because as we've said before, the director
kind of gets her own tutors together and finds the parents in that local community.
So every now and then there's enough of them of interest that they'll get together with
that.
But that's not our standard by any means.
Usually they're all integrated because they're coming with siblings, and so there's usually
a healthy sibling with maybe a child who's struggling.
So we try to bring them into, like, that whole idea of mainstreaming them into the general
population.
We definitely do that because we don't think, like, I don't know, Shawn, I'm pretty sure
I'm brain damaged.
Every person has some things that they need to work on, and so we just look at them as somebody we have to help. I think the last thing with the, it
sounds like we've pretty much covered the curriculum. Yeah. And so, oh I wanted
one part, can I, the master's program. So one thing that we noticed to end it.
That's where I was going. Oh, yeah. Is this the master's program for parents?
Yes.
Yes, that's where I was going next.
What's your question?
Perfect.
I can go.
So we noticed 10, 15 years into CC that these parents who were teaching six different subjects
to six different kids over 20 to 30 years were becoming very, very smart.
And yet when their children were empty nesting, they had no credentials,
and the world still wants
credentials. So we got with SEU, Southeastern University in Florida, and we put together a
Masters of Classical Studies through SEU. And if you're in our challenge program doing the assignments
with your children, which the majority of parents do, you actually can earn your masters while you're
homeschooling your own children.
So we wanted to have a way to recognize how hard these, especially mamas, were working.
Because we'd have the smartest clientele in the world, and then they'd go work minimum
wage at the library because they hadn't worked in 12 years, but they're smarter than most.
They're probably almost 90% of the professors in our college system.
So why not make it so that they can teach college courses?
And it's just normal.
Moms and dads doing the work alongside their kids.
And so it's an opt-in opportunity.
We have...
Yeah, so let's just go into that a little bit more.
I mean, so do they get the masters for teaching?
No, while they're teaching.
While they're teaching.
So in other words, let's say you work on an essay on the Iliad or some book from Homer
with your child, and you're taking the English course for this classical studies. So you
get in with your master's cohort and you show the work that you did with your child and then there's a little bit of additional work to bring it up to the
master's level that you'd complete. So you're doing it well with your children.
Yes.
Because we're trying to show that the family can build the community together and so there
are adult activities, there are children's activities, but mostly they're going to work
together.
Man. Yeah. So we were just really fortunate because SEU had had so many of our students and they activities, there are children's activities, but mostly they're going to work together.
So we were just really fortunate because SEU had had so many of our students, they were
like, what are you doing? Why are they such great kids? And we're like, well, because
of their parents. And they right away were like, yes, we're going to help you make this
master's program. Because now when these parents empty nest, we want them teaching at Christian
schools across the globe. So we want them already ready to go, not empty nest, then spend four or five more years afterwards
before they can teach.
Yeah, so we try to set it up. I mean, if they want to, we have about 100 people in the program,
so it's the largest classical masters in arts in the world, was the day we opened up
registration.
Head-on. in the world was the day we opened up registration. So you can basically do this and come out with a
$60,000, $70,000 a year job or more if you want to. And so you can use all those years of homeschooling
and expertise to shape more young minds. God said, honor your father and mother, and
we have the audacity to believe it.
God said, honor your father and mother, and we have the audacity to believe it. Where do you… where are you guys heading next?
What's the goal?
What's the next benchmark you're trying to reach?
Yeah, I mean, I think, you know, we're higher education in college trying to see what we
can do there to influence even more, whether it might be starting our own or partnering with more colleges.
So I think that's the next thing is because you've got these parents are doing a great
job with these kids, but universities quite frankly don't know what to do with them.
A lot of them, you know, until they reach a junior or senior level, they've already
done harder work in our program than they're doing at university level.
And so it's kind of wasting their time.
So we want to see if we can fill that gap and I think now that we have so many alumni
and parents who are alumni, how can we help them connect, create an alumni network and
just continue to foster that community and take over the world?
Yeah. I mean, we know that we have dozens of alumni producing podcasts and we need to find out
who they are so I can be on them all.
Good call.
Good call.
No, but yeah, I think just be faithful to the Lord, what He has for us.
It's His business or His, you know, we answer to him, nobody else. So our goal is to hear the well-done
faithful servant when we get to the Beema Seat. What does, actually, I just want to rewind,
is there any type of a graduation? Yes. What's that like? It's awesome. Well, there's a lot of
people just graduate, you know, locally and they'll do it at their local church and stuff like that. Their community will have an event for just them.
But we do a graduation at the home office with Lee and I and about 5, 10% of our students
come to that every single year.
But we're actually getting to be moving that starting next year to going on a cruise.
Which we used to do before COVID.
Which we used to do before COVID.
So we're going back cruising, so it'll be like a four-night cruise or something like
that, and one of the evenings we'll have a big graduation ceremony and party.
So maybe you can come and be a keynote speaker.
We should invite him.
Yeah, we should invite him for that.
I mean, I'd love to do it. It's just the greatest thing is that you get this 150 students from Challenge Four across the
globe who've never met each other before, and in 10 seconds they're best friends because they've
read the same books, they love the same God, they know the same world. They have this just unity of
like people who just love books, you know how they get together and talk about the same books. People who love classical Christian education love talking to one another.
And I remember two graduations ago, our youngest son was there, and he had been around for
a while because he was in college and various things. And afterwards, he came up to me and
he said, Mom, are all the graduates this happy? Because they were doing backflips and high-fiving
each other and just, you know, really enjoying the time together.
And they had just met each other that day.
Wow.
That's really cool.
That's really cool.
So I think, you know, wrapping up the interview, maybe I should have asked this at the beginning,
but in both of your definitions, what is a classical education?
Let my mom go first because she'll have the better answer.
Do you want me to follow up with yours?
So practically, a classical education is one where instead of handing a child a whole lot
of paperwork and asking them to fill it in, multiple choice,
complete the answer, is instead you hand them a blank piece of paper and you say, tell me
what you know about, and you give them the topic.
Because then they can assess, do I know or do I not know?
Because anybody can learn patterns to filling in the blank and multiple choice questions.
So that's the difference between a classical and a traditional or a modern education.
But in general, what a classical education is, is the trivium of grammar, dialectic,
and rhetoric.
And that is why it's accessible to anybody.
Because grammar really means all the words and ideas and images and things you put into
your brain using your senses.
And everybody has senses.
That's grammar.
The dialectic is everyone's got a brain.
What are you thinking about all those things
that your senses told you about the world?
And then, oh, I have a thought, I'm gonna go do something.
That's the rhetoric.
And so no matter how brain damaged or handicapped you are,
we all have that ability. And so folks who how brain damaged or handicapped you are, we all have that ability.
And so folks who like are learning welding,
they need to know the language of welding.
They need to think about what am I gonna use when I weld?
And then eventually they may become an artist in welding
and people will say, you're really good at this.
And how do I know?
It's because of what I showed you.
So that's true with all of language also.
If you're good at learning language, you usually become good at thinking about language
and then hopefully if you practice,
you become good at teaching or speaking
or presenting things through language.
So what that does in education is as a parent,
if my child's frustrated or not progressing
in an academic subject, I can say, okay, is
it because I've not given them enough time to bring in the information?
Is that all it is?
Or you've had that experience where somebody you go, yeah, I know he knows it.
How come he can't explain it to me?
We've gone over it.
Well, maybe they've got the information, but they haven't thought about it enough to know
how to express it.
So like a really good example to me is when you watch a toddler and they're kicking their
feet and they're frustrated.
It's because they know they want to say something and they don't have the words for it.
So the grammar, dialectic, rhetoric, the rhetoric is they're kicking their feet.
You know they know something, but they don't got the words.
So the worst case was whenever we have war, especially when young men are bored
and no one will listen to them and they don't have the words to describe what the problem is
that they're trying to, that word that's frustrating them. And so we as parents are trying to say,
there's not subjects. We know you have these senses. What can I do to teach you how to learn?
What can I do to teach you how to think? What can I do to teach you how to express your thoughts?" And it reduces it from all these university options and choices
to a parent having just three responsibilities. And so that's what the classical model is.
And I had said maybe earlier today, what we want our children to be able to do is to name
like Adam, ask questions like Jesus, and persuade
like Paul. That's to me what the classical model does for us. And it doesn't matter
whether it's in warfare or if it's in knitting.
Yeah, I'll just add on to it. I mean, it's basically the way you learn anything. It's
a process that you go through. And so a classical education what we're trying to do is pick the best materials that the human mind and God
inspired has produced over the last 4,000 years, present that to the students and
have them go through the process of really learning those things well so
that whatever God gives them to do or however the economy changes or whatever
happens in their future life,
they know how to address the challenge and overcome it.
And so, for people, grammar,
like I like the story of Michael Jordan.
Michael Jordan, at the height of his career,
a reporter said,
you know, I'd love to see how you practice.
And Jordan says, well, get there at 5 a.m. and I'll be practicing.
And so the reporter gets there at like 5 a.m.
and Jordan is just all sweaty.
And the reporter goes, you told me to get here at 5.
What have you been doing?
He's like, oh, I've just been dribbling the last hour.
And so dribbling is actually a grammatical stage
of learning how to play basketball. That know, that's what I teach.
I teach you a basketball with my kid.
We teach the kids how to dribble and hopefully keep their head up.
That's the grammar stage.
So Jordan, even at the height of his career, was still practicing the grammar of basketball.
And so the dialectic stage is when you cross someone over and the rhetorical stage is when
you hit that game-winning three to send your team to the NBA championship.
And so sports and music never lost the classical model because the only way to be good at either
of those things is to use the classical model.
So if you've been an athlete or a musician, you've not known what that's what you're doing,
but that's the process that you were going through.
Probably the same thing in the military, I would suspect, when they're teaching people.
I know my brother was going through a gun course and they were teaching them the names of all the
parts of the guns and what they did, right? That's the grammar of the guns. And then
you're breaking it apart and that's the dialectic, and then hopefully you're shooting bad guys and
that's the rhetoric. So- So it's the fundamentals of learning.
Yeah. It's the fundamentals of learning and it's just practicing it over and over again
with copious amounts of good materials and people that love you.
Wow.
I wonder, I'm just, how many of these kids become entrepreneurs?
A lot.
All of my sons are.
I'll bet, I'll bet there's a lot of entrepreneurs coming out of there.
That's the hardest part about homeschooling.
I would say that's the one weak thing about homeschooling.
We do not like to sit in a cubicle eight hours a day.
Yeah.
I remember when my friend empty nested and I saw her a few days later and she'd gone
back to work and I said, how's work going?
She goes, they think I should sit in that chair all day long
because none of us had ever done that.
Right.
Wow.
So the classical conversations kids start, start businesses and hire all the
public school and private school people to work for them.
Genius.
But, um, well, you know, to me, I mean, it sounds like it's perfecting the fundamentals of
learning so that you can go anywhere and learn anything you want.
And it makes a hell of a lot of sense to me.
And on top of that, I mean, me and my wife were talking downstairs about it right before
this last segment.
And you know, it's a lifestyle. Me and my wife were talking downstairs about it right before this last segment and you
know, it's a lifestyle.
It's not a curriculum.
And it seems like the premise for adults is giving your kids to have the tools to be better
than you were and to just create, you know, to give the
next generation the tools that need to be good people, have great values, succeed in
life and, man, I mean, that's all any good parent wants, I think.
Right?
Can I give a definition of homeschooling?
Sure.
So, most people think, as I said earlier, is they bring in school home, and that's not
it at all.
What homeschool education is, is a husband and wife have children, and while they work
on their marriage and they build their business and they build their home and they serve their
community and they build their government and they build their church, they do all that
construction work with their children around their feet.
That's home education.
I love that.
I think about that all the time, you know, about teaching my kids all the things that
go into, I mean, I really, really want my kids to be critical thinkers and to be able
to question, you know, ask questions and know how to grow business
out of nothing and that stuff's all really important to me
because then you can go anywhere in the world
and find success, not find success, make success.
And I'm always just thinking about how I'm gonna do it,
how am I going to do that?
And this model sounds really like the perfect way.
So, thank you.
So, um, well, Lee and Robert, I just, it was an honor to interview you guys.
And, uh, I love what you're doing.
And I just want to say thank you again for coming.
This is going to answer a lot of questions for a lot of people and it's just amazing like what you
guys have built. So thank you.
We appreciate the opportunity.
My pleasure.
It was fun.
It was fun. Yeah, we had a good time with you even during the breaks. What a fun guy
you are, Sean.
Yeah. Well, God bless and I hope to see you guys again.
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