Something Was Wrong - Data Points: Stalking (featuring Lenora Claire)

Episode Date: July 23, 2024

*Content warning: stalking, harassment, emotional, mental, and physical violence. Resources:Stalking, Prevention, Abuse, & Resource Center: https://www.stalkingawareness.orgSPARC SHARP Risk Assessment Tool: https://www.stalkingawareness.org/sharp/Stop Stalking Us: https://www.stopstalkingus.comSpecial K Investigations: https://www.specialkpi.comDelete Me: https://joindeleteme.com/Sources:Catalano, S. (2012). Stalking Victims in the United States - Revised. U.S. Department of Justice. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://bjs.ojp.gov/content/pub/pdf/sv19.pdfStalking Prevention Awareness & Resource Center. (n.d.). SPARC. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://www.stalkingawareness.org/fact-sheets-and-infographics/Storey JE, Pina A, Williams CS. The Impact of Stalking and Its Predictors: Characterizing the Needs of Stalking Victims. J Interpers Violence. 2023 Nov;38(21-22):11569-11594. doi: 10.1177/08862605231185303. Epub 2023 Jul 24. PMID: 37482768; PMCID: PMC10515444. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10515444/Tjaden, P. G., Thoennes, N., National Institute of Justice (U.S.), Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (U.S.), & National Violence Against Women Survey. (1998). Stalking in America: findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey. Center for Disease Control. Retrieved July 5, 2024, from https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/21857Lenora Claire:Lenora’s website: https://www.lenoraclairellc.com/Lenora’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenoraclaireSpecial K Investigations: https://www.specialkpi.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Something Was Wrong early and ad free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Hi friends, it's Lenora Clare. I'm a survivor, activist, Los Angeles District Attorney Crime Victims Advisory Board member, and investigator at Special K Investigations. I'm guest hosting this episode of Broken Cycle Media's new series of educational episodes, Data Points. These special episodes will include educational information, statistics and support on different

topics that are important to our community. Thank you so much for listening. While each jurisdiction has their own language and criteria, generally stalking is defined as a pattern of behavior directed at a specific person that will cause a reasonable person to fear for the person's safety or for the safety of others, or suffer substantial emotional distress. Stalking can include harassment, following the victim, posting information, whether true or false, about the victim publicly, and more.

While many crimes center around a single traumatic event, stalking is an ongoing pattern of distressing and or dangerous behaviors. It's important to remember stalking is a vastly under-reported crime, especially in vulnerable communities that may not be comfortable with reporting. The most up-to-date United States statistics

reflect 13.5 million Americans actively being stalked as of 2022. Stalking is a heavily nuanced crime where anyone can be a victim or survivor, as well as a perpetrator. Stalking transcends sexuality, gender, identity, race, religion, and socioeconomic background. An estimated one in three women and one in six men will experience stalking in their lifetime. 34% of female and 30% of male survivors report their first stalking experience occurring

between the ages of 18 and 24. 1 in 3 bisexual women and 1 in 14 bisexual men have experienced stalking. 1 in 5 lesbian or gay women have been stalked as a have 1 in 9 gay men. 40% of stalkers are believed to be former intimate partners. 42% of stalkers are defined as acquaintances. 19% are strangers. 80% of victims are stalked in person and through technology or social media. 36% of stalking cases last longer than one year.

Stalking frequently coincides with other types of criminal behavior and victimization. For example, 31 percent of women who are stalked also report being sexually assaulted by that partner. Stalking also increases the risk of homicide three times. However, it is important to note that these statistics may not support the accuracy of danger and lethality. When there is a homicide, the perpetrator almost never receives an additional stalking charge. It's entirely plausible. Many

homicides have a stalking component but have not been designated as such. An estimated one in three stalking victims report the stalking to law enforcement. According to a report by the US Department of Justice, in 2019 about about 16% of all stalking victims sought victim services and 74% of the victims who sought services actually received them. Stalking can have a grave impact on many aspects of a victim and their loved one's lives. That impact can be mental, emotional, and or physical in nature. One in three stalking victims report feeling physically sick following the stalking.

As a University of Kent Psychology Department study reveals, 37% of stalking victims met the criteria for a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder. Stalking is a unique and misunderstood crime. While many crimes center around a single traumatic event, stalking is an ongoing pattern of distressing and or dangerous behaviors which can result in CPTSD, anxiety, depression, and hypervigilance. Many report that even after adjudication or perceived resolution, they never feel safe and have been forever changed by the experience. The federal government, all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and U.S. territories have

enacted criminal laws to address stalking. However, each state possesses varied stalking-related laws. These laws largely depend on victim fear and emotional distress, as well as the intent of the stalker. For example, as the U.S. Department of Justice 2019 special report on stalking shares, quote, some state laws require prosecutors to establish fear of death or serious bodily harm, while others require only that prosecutors establish that the victim suffered emotional distress, end quote. After the 2023 Supreme Court ruling of counterman versus Colorado, which focused around language and intent around stalking, some victims survivors have reported difficulty in obtaining restraining orders and lack of law enforcement intervention. Oftentimes victims of stalking seek protective orders in order to establish some sort of level of safety. However, these can vary greatly from jurisdiction to jurisdiction.

In most states, a person is issued a temporary restraining order before attempting to grant a longer one. There can also be the possibility of an emergency order in certain situations. There are other methods of risk management available as well. The SPARC Sharp Risk Assessment Tool is an excellent starting place for both potentially defining what has occurred and validating an individual's experience. That link can be found in the episode notes. Another method of risk minimization is documenting evidence. Stalking is a crime where evidence collection is not only essential for protective orders and prosecution, it's also key in monitoring the threats of potential for threats from the individual. For those comfortable with law enforcement, it can be very beneficial to create an organized timeline of events

that clearly shows escalation or the potential for such. Most experts advise blocking when it's harassment, an organized timeline of events that clearly shows escalation or the potential for such. Most experts advise blocking when it's harassment, but if it's stalking, it's best to be non-responsive yet still collect all the threats coming in. It may also be a way to know what places to avoid if the perpetrator mentions seeing you there. It's important to switch up daily patterns if you believe you're being surveilled. Social media can also be an easy way for someone to monitor you, so it's advised to use discretion when posting and only post after you've left a location.

Being mindful of clicking suspicious links is another helpful tip. It can be an easy way for an individual to get into your tech and monitor you through your GPS. Ring and security cameras are also an excellent security measure, as is the removal of your home address from the internet. You can do this manually from opting out of sites like Truthfinder and White Pages or paying for services like DeleteMe. All of the statistics provided in this episode are derived from the Stocking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center, as well as the Center for Disease Control unless otherwise noted, and can be found in the episode notes. For access to the resources that Spark offers, visit stockingawareness.org. Further resources are also available at stopstockingus.com.

I'm also available at specialkpi.com for further information and resources. For more information about the nonprofit organizations mentioned prior, please visit the episode notes. For a comprehensive list of organizations that are working to help victims of stalking and prevent others from experiencing it, please visit somethingwaswrong.com backslash resources. Many of the amazing groups listed on the website are only able to exist because of the community's help and support from people like you. If you'd like to find out more information about volunteer opportunities, please feel free to go to the resources page as well as reach out directly to the organization

of your choice. I'm Lenora Claire and you can find me at LenoraClaire.com or at LenoraClaire.com. That's my handle pretty much everywhere. Thank you so much for listening and learning with us. something was wrong, you can listen early and ad free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple podcasts. Prime members can listen ad free on Amazon Music. Before you go, tell us about yourself by filling out a short survey at Wondery.com slash survey. I'm Afua Hirsch. I'm Peter Frankenbaum. And And in our series Legacy we look at the lives of some of the most famous people to have ever lived and ask if they have the reputation they deserve. In this series we look at J Edgar Hoover. He was

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