Stuff You Should Know - Selects: How Vomit Phobia Works
Episode Date: May 25, 2024No one - no one - likes to vomit, but there are some people who would prefer to die rather than vomit, people who spend their days worrying they will vomit at any moment and become so obsessed they cu...rtail their lives to prevent it from happening. Learn all about it with Josh and Chuck in this classic episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Hi, everybody.
It's Stuff You Should Know co-host Chuck Bryant here, Charles W. some say.
I'm in charge of picking out the Saturday Select this week.
And we're going back to 2017.
December 5th, in fact, it's a Christmas episode.
It's called How Vomit-phobia Works.
Trigger warning, there will be talk of vomit. Rate it R.
Welcome to Stuff You Should Know, a production of iHeartRadio.
Hey and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark.
There's Charles W. Chuck Bryant and there's Jerry over there
This is stuff. You should know very special surprisingly sad
edition
Yeah, I think so. Yeah, of course. It's sad
It's really gross
It is gross
I'm gonna have a hard time getting through this one. So we should give everybody fair warning
we are talking about a metaphoobia, which is a specific phobia, a fear of throwing up and
we'll get way more into all of that and what it means.
But we're talking about vomiting.
It's basically tied for first as the subject of this episode. So we're going
to be talking about vomiting a lot. And I found from researching this, reading and I
imagine hearing about vomiting for a good 30 minute, 40 minute stretch, it can make
one queasy. So just fair warning. I don't think it's actually going to make you queasy, but it's possible
If it starts to happen just plow through it
Just say Josh and Chuck would want me to plow through it and your queasiness will magically go away. Oh, yeah. All right
so like you said it is a specific phobia and it is actually listed in the
DSM now not sure how long it's been in there,
but it is...
Well, a metaphobia isn't.
Oh, well, I thought the specific phobia of vomiting, no?
I guess, I think specific phobias are. I don't know if it's specifically listed, Chuck.
So when this says it is a specific phobia according to the DSM, what does that mean?
I think it means that it falls under the umbrella of a specific phobia.
Okay.
You see what I mean?
Not really, but that's okay.
This means, well, you're afraid you might vomit, you're afraid someone else might vomit
around you. You're afraid what people will think of you if you do vomit, you're afraid someone else might vomit around you.
You're afraid what people will think of you if you do vomit?
Yeah, it's just, and it's not this article, where'd you get this stuff anyway?
Was this sort of cobbled?
It was cobbled together from some pretty good sources including Psychology Today, the American
Association of Anxiety Disorders, the National Institutes of Health Library, the BBC Vice,
and I want to give a shout out to the listener who wrote in to share her a metaphobia story.
I had never heard of it before, and she had a very harrowing experience and overcame it
just through sheer grit and willpower and came through the other side of this very serious phobia.
Yeah, which we'll get to how to do that later,
but these articles make great pains to point out
that it is, I think all people think it's gross
and are very much repulsed and turned off by the sound
or the smell or the look or anything that
deals with somebody getting sick like this.
But this is different than that.
This is a debilitating fear that can overtake your life.
Yeah.
That would specifically be a metaphobia.
There's actually, it seems like a spectrum where you can also suffer from what's called fear of vomiting,
which is much less overwhelming,
but still you're preoccupied with the idea of vomiting.
With the metaphobia, your life does not resemble
what your life would be if you weren't afraid of vomiting.
Yeah, it's a real impairment to your life
in a lot of different ways, which we'll go
over.
It seems like there's not a lot of study about it.
I mean, I ran across a few studies, but even in the studies I found, they specifically
say not a lot of studies about us.
So a lot of the guesses about the prevalence are guesses.
But one thing I saw was that in the general population, 8.8%, I think that's actually
fear of vomiting. I think a metaphobia is more like less than 1% of the population has
actual metaphobia. But that it tends to be about 4 to 1 ratio of women to men. Women
suffer from it. They have a tendency to suffer from it more. Yeah, and I certainly do not have it,
but like I said, almost everyone in the world probably,
it is a trigger for most folks.
Yeah, nobody wants to throw up,
but if you have a metaphobia,
just seeing the title of this come through your podcast feed
could have set off an anxiety attack.
And like I feel very guilty about that.
There's nothing we could do because even if we warned everybody in the episode before
this that this was coming, that would set off a panic attack.
Just the mere mention of the word vomit can set the anxiety disorder into full gear.
Yeah, this one article you sent, one of the clinicians they interviewed who treats anxiety
disorder said it is, in her practice, the most common fear among children that they
see.
Yeah.
And that's typically how it starts.
So it's a chronic disease, meaning that if you don't treat this, it's going to persist
basically every day of your life and it tends to get worse over time.
Yeah.
And it usually starts with a traumatic experience of vomiting most frequently of all in childhood.
So it's more common I think among kids, but it can survive into adulthood and it can start
in adults.
But what seems to happen is you have a traumatic experience
from vomiting and just like with any other traumatic
experience, whether it's surviving a violent crime
or being in war, vomiting can have that same effect
on the brain apparently and you develop something
pretty closely akin to PTSD at the thought of vomiting, and it
overwhelms your life as a result.
I had a traumatic experience with this when I was a kid.
I might have told this story before for another reason, but I was on the bus going to elementary
school and there was a scary kid.
Remember in elementary school, they were just the scary kids?
I remember my scary kids first and last night.
Yeah, right?
And they're scary for various reasons,
whether they were bullies or, I mean,
you could probably diagnose something
that was wrong as an adult, but as a kid,
they were just scary kids.
And I'm not talking about like,
I mean, I'm talking about like sociopathic behavior, not
something that, you know, like some...
They weren't goth, you mean?
Yeah, exactly.
Right.
They had like real issues that were affecting other people around them.
Exactly.
So this one kid, I remember his name was Tony something, but he on the way to school one
day would, or many days, he would make himself throw up outside of the, with
his face out of the window and it would, you know, the school bus was going down the road
and it would fly down and land on the windows all the way down.
Oh my God.
Come in other windows and he would make himself vomit.
And it just, it scared the crap out of me, man.
Oh, okay.
And it wasn't like, oh, that's gross.
I bet it scared the crap out of the bus driver. I was wasn't like, oh, that's gross. I'll bet it scared the crap out of the bus driver.
I was scared, scared, scared, scared of this dude.
Yeah, well, that's really bizarre behavior,
especially if he was doing it to intimidate or freak
other people out.
Yeah, and I think I might remember telling the story
because it's how sometimes a certain event can tie something
else in your brain. My dad was my elementary school principal. I don't know why I was riding
the bus because I usually just went to work with him.
Well, he wanted to normalize things.
Maybe. But I ran to my dad's office right when I got to school crying. He wasn't in
there and the secretary, Dot Jones, let me in the office and Dot let me stay in his office because I was sad and he had one of those big cabinet stereos.
You know, the 70s.
Did you put it on the Rosie Greer record?
So the stereo was already on, but the song that was on, weirdly, was the Bee Gees, How
Deep Is Your Love.
Oh, that's good.
And to this day, I hear that song and it makes me want to cry.
Really? Yeah, it's just a trigger from that day with that guy. You know what? Isn't that
weird? That's a sad story because that's a good song. I know. It makes me want to weep.
It makes me want to weep for you. Thinking about Tony making himself throw up and I always
wonder what happened to that guy. He's in Jim Rose's sideshow right now. Maybe. Is that still around? I don't know.
Pukey Tony?
Yeah, that was him.
Pukey Tony and Hippy Rob are in like a little jug band together.
But anyway, that's a long way of saying that that was not enough even to traumatize me
to the point where I have a metaphobia.
No, but I mean, it could have been.
Yeah, sure. No, but I mean it could have been it gesture it seems to be like and it's not even necessarily
like a type of person or
It's it's the brain can just the synapses can fuse in a certain way and all of a sudden
You have this phobia and the problem is this it starts from a traumatic experience
So let's say that that had had this impact on you check, right?
It starts from a traumatic experience. So let's say that that had had this impact on you, Chuck, right?
What would have come next if you were on the road to a metaphobia would have been to start
to fear throwing up.
Seeing somebody throw up probably is how it would have started.
And then that would have spread to throwing up yourself.
And then you would have become hyper vigilant.
You would want to protect yourself from seeing somebody throw up or from throwing up
Well, how do you do that?
to
Prevent yourself from throwing up. You're gonna monitor every single weird feeling you have. Yeah to say am I about to throw up?
I need to like tamp this down or I can't eat that food
It might make me throw up or I can't read in the car. It might make me car sick and I'll throw up or
That person looks kind of sick, I'm going to avoid them.
And then let's just take it a little further and avoid everybody altogether because anybody
could really throw up at any given time.
And you start to become preoccupied with this and you adjust your life and alter it.
And then you're constantly worried about throwing up and
Once that happens, it's the phobia is complete your life has changed
You're constantly worried about it and then the cherry on top of the whole thing is that when you finally are confronted Yeah with the word vomit actually seeing somebody vomit something like that you enter a panic attack an actual panic attack
Yeah, you can for sure.
And the only way to overcome that is to get away,
to run, to get out of there, to,
I'm not sure all the ways you can handle a panic attack,
but then it calms down and your anxiety returns
to normal levels, which is to say hi for the average person.
Yeah, so in my case in elementary school,
how that could have gone was I had another
ride to school, but if I hadn't, I might have stopped taking the school bus and started
skipping class and not going to school at all because I was afraid to get on the school
bus because of Pukey Tony and gone weeks in a row and then my parents get a call saying
Chuck hasn't been in school for weeks. What's going on? And that's exactly what's going on. Like it can get that severe
and it all boils down to the, at least in most cases, the anticipation of this more
so than the actual act.
In every case.
Because the people that are struck with this by all accounts are less vomitous than the general
population.
Right.
So much so, because they've tried to avoid it, so much so that this one article said
that most of these people can even name like the three or four times in their life they
have ever puked.
Right.
And what they ate that day and what they had on television and what they wore, because
it stands out that singularly to them. And then, so that's horribly ironic that the people who are the most worried about throwing
up are the people who are actually statistically speaking the least likely to throw up, right?
But there's an even greater irony to the whole thing and we'll talk about that after this
break.
How about that?
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So Chuck, we were on the irony train and I want to keep going, okay? Yes.
The irony of paying attention and being hyper vigilant about vomiting, especially when you
are worried that you're going to vomit.
Because again, there's a number of things
that you're worried about.
You're going to be worried that you won't be able
to find a bathroom in time to go throw up.
You're worried about throwing up in front of other people
and embarrassing yourself or being teased for throwing up.
You're worried about just the experience of throwing up.
It's just a horrible experience, but once you start to get a metaphobe, you lose perspective
completely.
Like, it becomes, like, I've seen multiple, they call them a metaphobe, people with a
metaphobe, I've seen multiple people say, you would prefer to die than to throw up.
That's how much they fear throwing up. And to the rest of us, it's like, God, that would suck to throw up. Yeah, that's how much they fear throwing up and to the rest of us
It's like god that would suck to throw up
But I know I'll be fine on the other end of it not to a person with a metaphobe
so the irony of all this is the more you start to focus on this and you start to
Think about every gurgle in your stomach or every weird twist or turn, it actually produces
more anxiety. And here's the ironic part, anxiety can actually make you queasy when
you're thinking about throwing up.
That's right.
So, it makes the whole thing worse and it becomes this vicious cycle.
Well, yeah, and they recommend trying to tell yourself, like, I might feel queasy, but I'm not going to throw up
My anxiety might be making me feel nauseous, but I am NOT going to throw up
Yeah
Because there's a confusion of queasiness equals nausea equals throwing up and that's just not the case
Like you can make yourself sick with anxiety, but you can't make yourself throw up from being anxious
So the whole thing is just wasted worry
Yeah, some of the other things you might do because of this fear
You might not shake hands with anyone ever again
You well, I think a lot of people avoid looking at television puke scenes
Yeah, you cannot watch but you really can't watch those at all. You can't watch stand by me
No, or the meaning of life
Those are so funny looking though
But still probably not
you might throw away food in your fridge that
Is not even past its expiration date. You might have a trigger there
You might overcook your food on purpose and then before you it, you will lift the bread a bunch of times.
It's called checking behavior.
Sure.
You might not eat on vacation as readily
because you only trust your trusted food sources.
You might go into a place and like,
you know, when some people go into a music venue,
like they check for the exits,
like you're checking for the bathrooms.
You may not even make it to the music venue, like they check for the exits, like you're checking for the bathrooms. You may not even make it to the music venue. A lot of them, a lot of people with the metaphobia
end up being agoraphobic and just don't leave their house.
Really debilitating.
It's often confused for agoraphobia by counselors and shrinks. I've got another one.
All right.
Apparently a lot of people who have a metaphobia
Walk around with a plastic bag on them at all times something to throw up into yeah an emergency throw-up bag They walk around with this because they're so afraid of throwing up that they never need to use because they probably don't ever throw up
I know and some of them will actually carry a change of clothes around with them as well really
For the same reason if they throw up on themselves, they can change their clothes.
Yeah, and of course, air travel, drinking alcohol, any of those things, or car travel
even.
Yeah.
Like any kind of travel is probably avoided.
Definitely don't booze it up or...
They probably don't drink at all.
Yeah.
And subsist on things like pasta and bananas and very very safe
Digestively speaking foods
Although a banana could gag you
Yeah, you know that would be a nightmare if you had a metaphobia. I
Wonder if they mash them up and eat it like like mashed up with a fork. Maybe maybe I could see it
Yeah, and I could see cutting your food up into the tiniest pieces
because you feel you're choking.
And that's one of the fears too, I don't think we mentioned, like they're not just afraid
of the vomiting, but they sometimes can fear choking on vomit and dying and asphyxiating
and or going to the hospital.
David Kramer- Or starting to vomit and the vomiting never never ending that's another fear of a metaphobe.
One other thing that I saw people do is prevent getting pregnant because of a fear of morning
sickness.
Yeah.
So yeah, so your life is is altered and curtailed it because you're afraid of vomiting everywhere
you look there's some potential
trigger out there so it'd just be easier to stay home and eat your pasta and not watch
movies, basically. And to just lie there and monitor your stomach for signs that you're
about to throw up. That's what they do. That's what you do when you have a metaphobia. That's
your life. It's no way to live.
Peter T. Laisman It is not.
David Kinn So, like, this is not all just academic and stuff we're grasping at straws and pulling
together from different cases.
Like, there's actually a case study we found that was of an eight-year-old girl who had
a terrible experience throwing up and really kind of encapsulates the experience of a
metaphobe.
She had full-blown a metaphobia. She had full blown a metaphobia.
She had appendicitis and had been throwing up before the doctors figured out she had
appendicitis and had her appendix removed.
And that experience throwing up was, well, it triggered a metaphobia in her.
When she came to and was recovering from her surgery, about 10 days later, she started
getting really worried she was going to start throwing up like that again.
Yeah, it was a really sad case and pretty much covered everything we've said and even
then some to the point where her father traveled for business and she didn't want him to travel
anymore, her father to travel anymore for fear that he would get some sickness
and then bring it back to the house.
I mean, that's pretty extensive.
You know?
Yeah, like she didn't want to eat herself.
She didn't want to eat any outside food.
She ate her safe food, but she also didn't want her parents to eat any outside food either
because she didn't want them throwing up.
She stopped playing with other kids because she was worried about throwing up in front of them and being teased
that was her big thing, yeah, and
As as one of the clinicians who we came across in this research said it's not the vomiting
That's really the problem. Like that's the focus. That's the obsession, but the real problem is the worry, the constant
worry.
It's the worry that's altering your life, and it altered this little girl's life, you
know?
Very sad.
So let's take another break, and then we'll come back and put a silver lining on this
thing and talk about treatment. Guess what, Mango?
What's that, Will?
So iHeart is giving us a whole minute to promote our podcast, Part-Time Genius.
I know!
That's why I spent my whole week composing a haiku for the occasion.
It's about my emotional journey in podcasting over the last seven years, and it's called
Earthquake House.
Mango, I'm going to cut you off right there.
Why don't we just tell people about our show instead?
Yeah, that's a better idea.
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It was the perfect cover for Justin Rutherford
to hide behind.
They led me into the house, and I mean,
it was like a movie.
He was sitting at our kitchen table.
The cops were guarding him.
Stacey learned how far her husband would go to save
himself.
I slept with a loaded gun next to my bed.
He did not just say, I wish he was dead.
He actually gave details and explained different scenarios
on how to kill him.
He, to me, is scarier than Jeffrey Dahmer.
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All right, so we've talked a lot on the show over the years about CBT, cognitive behavioral
therapy or exposure and response prevention, ERP, basically exposure therapy.
And this is definitely probably the way to go when it comes to emetophobia.
So depending on who you go see,
you might undergo various kinds of treatments
ranging from starting out by literally saying the words,
bomb it out loud, or throw up, or puke,
or just all the words,
because that's literally the first step sometimes
into getting over this is just being able
to speak the word.
Yeah, and you may have to start out by writing it down first before you can say it out loud.
For real.
And so once you move past that, the therapies range from kind of all over the board from
looking at fake vomit that your therapist has made in a toilet.
Yeah, now you're starting to move into exposure therapy, right?
Yeah, I mean, this is all of this stuff, ERP and CBT.
Okay.
But, you know, they'll make up some fake vomit, put it in the toilet, make you go look at
it.
They themselves, the therapist might make the noises in front of you.
Right just out of nowhere.
Well, imagine they probably prep them, or maybe not.
May go in the bathroom and jump up and say, I've got to go get sick.
And all of this is just exposing this patient over and over to the point where they can
handle hearing the sound, seeing the thing, saying the word, hearing the word.
Smell is another one too.
One of the recommendations for exposure therapy is you make your own throw up, like in the
toilet, a little bit of cold soup, something like that, maybe mix in some oatmeal with
it and then pour a little vinegar in there to make it pungent and sit around and think
about that being vomit.
Maybe try to make the sound of throwing up yourself, try to make yourself gag.
And all this is to show you when you have a metaphobia that this is, first of all, it's
manageable.
That's the first part is what you're trying to do is get to this point without having
a panic attack.
But then also that if you gag, it doesn't mean you're automatically going to throw up.
Right. And if you do throw up, it doesn't mean you're automatically gonna throw up right and if you do throw up
It doesn't mean you're never going to stop throwing up right or that everyone's going to ridicule you for throwing up
Yeah, and and that's you know
The point of any cognitive behavioral therapy is just kind of change your perspective and give you a more realistic
View of the thing you're worried about
There's also a website called rate my vomit. Have you heard of it?
Yeah, I wouldn't get to mention that, but go ahead.
You have heard of it before?
No, no, no. I read about it, but I just, yeah.
It just sounds like, I mean, that's like classic internet stuff, right? Somebody's like, oh,
let's put pictures of throw up on there. And you guys tell me how gross it is. Well, it's
actually used by people with a metaphobia as exposure therapy at home, to just go look at this stuff and see it.
There's also videos of people throwing up.
There's a lot of stuff.
The internet, like unintentionally,
is this great place for people with a metaphobia
to go get over their fears.
And I'm sure, like, if you have a fear of snakes,
it's good for that too.
But so is like a time life book.
You're not going to find a time life book that's nothing but pictures of vomit.
You're going to find it on the internet though.
Yes, you will.
That's not in the Old West series.
No.
And then I found this other type of therapy, Chuck, called eye movement desensitization
and reprocessing, EMDR.
And it's used for post-traumatic stress disorder.
And it's the most bizarre treatment
I've ever heard of in my life.
But apparently it really, really works.
Yeah.
You ready for this?
Yep.
So say I was your therapist and you had PTSD.
And it's been used to treat a metaphobe a couple of times, but you're talking about the thing
that gave you PTSD.
You're focusing on the worst aspect
of this traumatic experience,
and you're talking about it out loud.
But while you're doing it, I'm moving my finger back
and forth and up and down, maybe in a slow circle,
and I've instructed you to follow my finger
wherever I move it while you're recounting
this horrible traumatic experience.
Supposedly just doing this over multiple sessions,
but sometimes just in one long session,
PTSD can be treated, and the way that they think
this happens, if it actually does does work it just sounds like such
Just like totally made up that in 50 years are gonna be like they actually thought this worked right, but if it does work
they think that it works because it it it
taxes your working memory to follow the finger and
Your recall then is not aided fully by your working memory.
So the vividness of this horrible memory isn't as robust as it would be if your full working
memory was working on it.
And so when you reprocess it, when you file it away again, this memory, it's lost its
luster.
It's lost a lot of its bite.
Right.
Because you've gotten it out there and reprocessed it in a way that's not nearly as traumatic,
because your working memory was being used in part to follow your therapist's finger.
Supposedly it works.
Wow.
Yeah.
Isn't that nuts?
It's pretty neat.
Yeah, I think so too.
I wonder if it really does work.
You should try it.
Anyone who has ever undergone eye movement,
desensitization and reprocessing,
I would love to hear your story,
if it actually helped you or not.
For sure.
And if you have a metaphobia, Godspeed,
we hope you get well soon,
and to take this on, or any phobia really, has so much courage
and grit that just taking a first step toward treatment, my hat is off to you for life.
Yes, and chances are you probably didn't even listen to this episode.
Yeah, but if you have a different phobia, you know, any phobia.
And since I said phobia a couple of times, that means it's time for listener mail.
I'm going to call this our second PSA in as many weeks, if this releases the same week.
Okay.
But this one's about dogs.
It's very sad.
Hey guys, take me a while to write this because it's been very difficult to talk about.
You're animal lovers though, so probably a good majority of your listeners are.
I thought sharing our tragic story would help prevent others from experiencing the same thing.
We lost our dog River about two months ago because I left a bag of chips out.
We were at work while she got her head stuck in the bag and we came home to find
our dog stiff and lifeless from suffocation.
We've always been careful about plastic bags and stuff like that and kept them stored away
for recycling, but never occurred to us that a chips bag on the counter would, something
would need to be concerned about.
No, no one ever would ever think about that.
Everyone we've also told said it was something they never thought about either, so now we
keep all of our bagged foods in the cupboard, cut the bottoms off of anything that goes into the recycling and waste bins.
That's a good idea too.
I started doing that since these guys wrote in.
Oh yeah?
We were and still are extremely heartbroken.
I hope no one else will have to go through this experience.
It was the worst.
And if I can help save just one other dog's life, it's been worthwhile.
So, thanks for being you guys
Thanks for being you guys
There's a comment there. There's not but I think that's how I'm supposed to read it
I hope we make it into your next Seattle show. That's Jackie W from Seattle
Jackie, thank you for writing in. I'm so sorry about River
But I hope you guys are doing okay.
Yeah, that sounds like a guest list action to me.
Yeah, right back in and we'll guest list you.
Yeah, so just right back in, we'll throw you on there. And she sent a picture of River. Beautiful dog, very, very sad.
River looked very sweet. If you have a PSA that happened to you that you think we should share to warn everybody
else about, we want to do that.
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