Stuff You Should Know - Selects: How Vomit Phobia Works

Episode Date: May 25, 2024

No one - no one - likes to vomit, but there are some people who would prefer to die rather than vomit, people who spend their days worrying they will vomit at any moment and become so obsessed they cu...rtail their lives to prevent it from happening. Learn all about it with Josh and Chuck in this classic episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Guess what, Will? What's up, Mango? I've been trying to write a promo for our podcast, Part-Time Genius, but even though we've done over 250 episodes, we don't really talk about murders or cults. I mean, we did just cover the Illuminati of cheese, so I feel like that makes us pretty edgy. We also solve mysteries like how Chinese is your Chinese food, and how do dollar stores make money, and then of course, can you game a dog show?
Starting point is 00:00:23 So what you're saying is everyone should be listening. Listen to Part-Time Genius on the iHeart Radio app or wherever you get your podcasts. Last season, millions tuned into the Betrayal podcast to hear a shocking story of deception. I'm Andrea Gunning, and now we're sharing an all new story of Betrayal. Justin Rutherford, doctor, father, family man,
Starting point is 00:00:44 it was the perfect cover to hide behind. Detective Weaver said, I'm sure you know why we're here. I was like, what in the world is going on? Listen to Betrayal on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, everybody. It's Stuff You Should Know co-host Chuck Bryant here, Charles W. some say. I'm in charge of picking out the Saturday Select this week. And we're going back to 2017.
Starting point is 00:01:13 December 5th, in fact, it's a Christmas episode. It's called How Vomit-phobia Works. Trigger warning, there will be talk of vomit. Rate it R. Welcome to Stuff You Should Know, a production of iHeartRadio. Hey and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark. There's Charles W. Chuck Bryant and there's Jerry over there This is stuff. You should know very special surprisingly sad edition
Starting point is 00:01:51 Yeah, I think so. Yeah, of course. It's sad It's really gross It is gross I'm gonna have a hard time getting through this one. So we should give everybody fair warning we are talking about a metaphoobia, which is a specific phobia, a fear of throwing up and we'll get way more into all of that and what it means. But we're talking about vomiting. It's basically tied for first as the subject of this episode. So we're going
Starting point is 00:02:26 to be talking about vomiting a lot. And I found from researching this, reading and I imagine hearing about vomiting for a good 30 minute, 40 minute stretch, it can make one queasy. So just fair warning. I don't think it's actually going to make you queasy, but it's possible If it starts to happen just plow through it Just say Josh and Chuck would want me to plow through it and your queasiness will magically go away. Oh, yeah. All right so like you said it is a specific phobia and it is actually listed in the DSM now not sure how long it's been in there, but it is...
Starting point is 00:03:09 Well, a metaphobia isn't. Oh, well, I thought the specific phobia of vomiting, no? I guess, I think specific phobias are. I don't know if it's specifically listed, Chuck. So when this says it is a specific phobia according to the DSM, what does that mean? I think it means that it falls under the umbrella of a specific phobia. Okay. You see what I mean? Not really, but that's okay.
Starting point is 00:03:36 This means, well, you're afraid you might vomit, you're afraid someone else might vomit around you. You're afraid what people will think of you if you do vomit, you're afraid someone else might vomit around you. You're afraid what people will think of you if you do vomit? Yeah, it's just, and it's not this article, where'd you get this stuff anyway? Was this sort of cobbled? It was cobbled together from some pretty good sources including Psychology Today, the American Association of Anxiety Disorders, the National Institutes of Health Library, the BBC Vice, and I want to give a shout out to the listener who wrote in to share her a metaphobia story.
Starting point is 00:04:15 I had never heard of it before, and she had a very harrowing experience and overcame it just through sheer grit and willpower and came through the other side of this very serious phobia. Yeah, which we'll get to how to do that later, but these articles make great pains to point out that it is, I think all people think it's gross and are very much repulsed and turned off by the sound or the smell or the look or anything that deals with somebody getting sick like this.
Starting point is 00:04:49 But this is different than that. This is a debilitating fear that can overtake your life. Yeah. That would specifically be a metaphobia. There's actually, it seems like a spectrum where you can also suffer from what's called fear of vomiting, which is much less overwhelming, but still you're preoccupied with the idea of vomiting. With the metaphobia, your life does not resemble
Starting point is 00:05:16 what your life would be if you weren't afraid of vomiting. Yeah, it's a real impairment to your life in a lot of different ways, which we'll go over. It seems like there's not a lot of study about it. I mean, I ran across a few studies, but even in the studies I found, they specifically say not a lot of studies about us. So a lot of the guesses about the prevalence are guesses.
Starting point is 00:05:41 But one thing I saw was that in the general population, 8.8%, I think that's actually fear of vomiting. I think a metaphobia is more like less than 1% of the population has actual metaphobia. But that it tends to be about 4 to 1 ratio of women to men. Women suffer from it. They have a tendency to suffer from it more. Yeah, and I certainly do not have it, but like I said, almost everyone in the world probably, it is a trigger for most folks. Yeah, nobody wants to throw up, but if you have a metaphobia,
Starting point is 00:06:17 just seeing the title of this come through your podcast feed could have set off an anxiety attack. And like I feel very guilty about that. There's nothing we could do because even if we warned everybody in the episode before this that this was coming, that would set off a panic attack. Just the mere mention of the word vomit can set the anxiety disorder into full gear. Yeah, this one article you sent, one of the clinicians they interviewed who treats anxiety disorder said it is, in her practice, the most common fear among children that they
Starting point is 00:06:53 see. Yeah. And that's typically how it starts. So it's a chronic disease, meaning that if you don't treat this, it's going to persist basically every day of your life and it tends to get worse over time. Yeah. And it usually starts with a traumatic experience of vomiting most frequently of all in childhood. So it's more common I think among kids, but it can survive into adulthood and it can start
Starting point is 00:07:21 in adults. But what seems to happen is you have a traumatic experience from vomiting and just like with any other traumatic experience, whether it's surviving a violent crime or being in war, vomiting can have that same effect on the brain apparently and you develop something pretty closely akin to PTSD at the thought of vomiting, and it overwhelms your life as a result.
Starting point is 00:07:48 I had a traumatic experience with this when I was a kid. I might have told this story before for another reason, but I was on the bus going to elementary school and there was a scary kid. Remember in elementary school, they were just the scary kids? I remember my scary kids first and last night. Yeah, right? And they're scary for various reasons, whether they were bullies or, I mean,
Starting point is 00:08:14 you could probably diagnose something that was wrong as an adult, but as a kid, they were just scary kids. And I'm not talking about like, I mean, I'm talking about like sociopathic behavior, not something that, you know, like some... They weren't goth, you mean? Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 00:08:31 Right. They had like real issues that were affecting other people around them. Exactly. So this one kid, I remember his name was Tony something, but he on the way to school one day would, or many days, he would make himself throw up outside of the, with his face out of the window and it would, you know, the school bus was going down the road and it would fly down and land on the windows all the way down. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:08:56 Come in other windows and he would make himself vomit. And it just, it scared the crap out of me, man. Oh, okay. And it wasn't like, oh, that's gross. I bet it scared the crap out of the bus driver. I was wasn't like, oh, that's gross. I'll bet it scared the crap out of the bus driver. I was scared, scared, scared, scared of this dude. Yeah, well, that's really bizarre behavior, especially if he was doing it to intimidate or freak
Starting point is 00:09:16 other people out. Yeah, and I think I might remember telling the story because it's how sometimes a certain event can tie something else in your brain. My dad was my elementary school principal. I don't know why I was riding the bus because I usually just went to work with him. Well, he wanted to normalize things. Maybe. But I ran to my dad's office right when I got to school crying. He wasn't in there and the secretary, Dot Jones, let me in the office and Dot let me stay in his office because I was sad and he had one of those big cabinet stereos.
Starting point is 00:09:49 You know, the 70s. Did you put it on the Rosie Greer record? So the stereo was already on, but the song that was on, weirdly, was the Bee Gees, How Deep Is Your Love. Oh, that's good. And to this day, I hear that song and it makes me want to cry. Really? Yeah, it's just a trigger from that day with that guy. You know what? Isn't that weird? That's a sad story because that's a good song. I know. It makes me want to weep.
Starting point is 00:10:14 It makes me want to weep for you. Thinking about Tony making himself throw up and I always wonder what happened to that guy. He's in Jim Rose's sideshow right now. Maybe. Is that still around? I don't know. Pukey Tony? Yeah, that was him. Pukey Tony and Hippy Rob are in like a little jug band together. But anyway, that's a long way of saying that that was not enough even to traumatize me to the point where I have a metaphobia. No, but I mean, it could have been.
Starting point is 00:10:42 Yeah, sure. No, but I mean it could have been it gesture it seems to be like and it's not even necessarily like a type of person or It's it's the brain can just the synapses can fuse in a certain way and all of a sudden You have this phobia and the problem is this it starts from a traumatic experience So let's say that that had had this impact on you check, right? It starts from a traumatic experience. So let's say that that had had this impact on you, Chuck, right? What would have come next if you were on the road to a metaphobia would have been to start to fear throwing up.
Starting point is 00:11:12 Seeing somebody throw up probably is how it would have started. And then that would have spread to throwing up yourself. And then you would have become hyper vigilant. You would want to protect yourself from seeing somebody throw up or from throwing up Well, how do you do that? to Prevent yourself from throwing up. You're gonna monitor every single weird feeling you have. Yeah to say am I about to throw up? I need to like tamp this down or I can't eat that food
Starting point is 00:11:39 It might make me throw up or I can't read in the car. It might make me car sick and I'll throw up or That person looks kind of sick, I'm going to avoid them. And then let's just take it a little further and avoid everybody altogether because anybody could really throw up at any given time. And you start to become preoccupied with this and you adjust your life and alter it. And then you're constantly worried about throwing up and Once that happens, it's the phobia is complete your life has changed You're constantly worried about it and then the cherry on top of the whole thing is that when you finally are confronted Yeah with the word vomit actually seeing somebody vomit something like that you enter a panic attack an actual panic attack
Starting point is 00:12:23 Yeah, you can for sure. And the only way to overcome that is to get away, to run, to get out of there, to, I'm not sure all the ways you can handle a panic attack, but then it calms down and your anxiety returns to normal levels, which is to say hi for the average person. Yeah, so in my case in elementary school, how that could have gone was I had another
Starting point is 00:12:48 ride to school, but if I hadn't, I might have stopped taking the school bus and started skipping class and not going to school at all because I was afraid to get on the school bus because of Pukey Tony and gone weeks in a row and then my parents get a call saying Chuck hasn't been in school for weeks. What's going on? And that's exactly what's going on. Like it can get that severe and it all boils down to the, at least in most cases, the anticipation of this more so than the actual act. In every case. Because the people that are struck with this by all accounts are less vomitous than the general
Starting point is 00:13:27 population. Right. So much so, because they've tried to avoid it, so much so that this one article said that most of these people can even name like the three or four times in their life they have ever puked. Right. And what they ate that day and what they had on television and what they wore, because it stands out that singularly to them. And then, so that's horribly ironic that the people who are the most worried about throwing
Starting point is 00:13:50 up are the people who are actually statistically speaking the least likely to throw up, right? But there's an even greater irony to the whole thing and we'll talk about that after this break. How about that? Guess what, Mango? What's that, Will? So iHeart is giving us a whole minute to promote our podcast, Part-Time Genius. I know! That's why I spent my whole week composing a haiku for the occasion. It's about my emotional journey in podcasting over the last seven years and it's called Earthquake House. Mango, I'm going to cut you off right there. Why don't we just tell people about our show instead?
Starting point is 00:14:31 Yeah, that's a better idea. So every week on Part-Time Genius, we feed our curiosity by answering the world's most important questions. Things like, when did America start dialing 9-1-1? Is William Shatner's best acting work in Esperanto? Also, what happened to Esperanto? Plus we cover questions like how Chinese is your Chinese food? How do dollar stores stay in business? And of course, is there an Illuminati of cheese? There absolutely is, and we are risking our lives by talking about it. But if you love mind-blowing facts, incredible history, and really bad jokes, make your brains happy and tune into Part-Time Genius. Listen to Part-Time Genius on the iHeart radio app or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Starting point is 00:15:41 He was sitting in our kitchen table. The cops were guarding him. Stacey learned how far her husband would go to save himself. I slept with a loaded gun next to my bed. You not just say I wish he was dead, you actually gave details and explained different scenarios on how to kill him. He to me is scarier than Jeffrey Dahmer. on how to kill him. He to me is scarier than Jeffrey Dahmer.
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Starting point is 00:17:40 are worried that you're going to vomit. Because again, there's a number of things that you're worried about. You're going to be worried that you won't be able to find a bathroom in time to go throw up. You're worried about throwing up in front of other people and embarrassing yourself or being teased for throwing up. You're worried about just the experience of throwing up.
Starting point is 00:18:04 It's just a horrible experience, but once you start to get a metaphobe, you lose perspective completely. Like, it becomes, like, I've seen multiple, they call them a metaphobe, people with a metaphobe, I've seen multiple people say, you would prefer to die than to throw up. That's how much they fear throwing up. And to the rest of us, it's like, God, that would suck to throw up. Yeah, that's how much they fear throwing up and to the rest of us It's like god that would suck to throw up But I know I'll be fine on the other end of it not to a person with a metaphobe so the irony of all this is the more you start to focus on this and you start to
Starting point is 00:18:39 Think about every gurgle in your stomach or every weird twist or turn, it actually produces more anxiety. And here's the ironic part, anxiety can actually make you queasy when you're thinking about throwing up. That's right. So, it makes the whole thing worse and it becomes this vicious cycle. Well, yeah, and they recommend trying to tell yourself, like, I might feel queasy, but I'm not going to throw up My anxiety might be making me feel nauseous, but I am NOT going to throw up Yeah
Starting point is 00:19:11 Because there's a confusion of queasiness equals nausea equals throwing up and that's just not the case Like you can make yourself sick with anxiety, but you can't make yourself throw up from being anxious So the whole thing is just wasted worry Yeah, some of the other things you might do because of this fear You might not shake hands with anyone ever again You well, I think a lot of people avoid looking at television puke scenes Yeah, you cannot watch but you really can't watch those at all. You can't watch stand by me No, or the meaning of life
Starting point is 00:19:46 Those are so funny looking though But still probably not you might throw away food in your fridge that Is not even past its expiration date. You might have a trigger there You might overcook your food on purpose and then before you it, you will lift the bread a bunch of times. It's called checking behavior. Sure. You might not eat on vacation as readily
Starting point is 00:20:13 because you only trust your trusted food sources. You might go into a place and like, you know, when some people go into a music venue, like they check for the exits, like you're checking for the bathrooms. You may not even make it to the music venue, like they check for the exits, like you're checking for the bathrooms. You may not even make it to the music venue. A lot of them, a lot of people with the metaphobia end up being agoraphobic and just don't leave their house. Really debilitating.
Starting point is 00:20:34 It's often confused for agoraphobia by counselors and shrinks. I've got another one. All right. Apparently a lot of people who have a metaphobia Walk around with a plastic bag on them at all times something to throw up into yeah an emergency throw-up bag They walk around with this because they're so afraid of throwing up that they never need to use because they probably don't ever throw up I know and some of them will actually carry a change of clothes around with them as well really For the same reason if they throw up on themselves, they can change their clothes. Yeah, and of course, air travel, drinking alcohol, any of those things, or car travel even.
Starting point is 00:21:16 Yeah. Like any kind of travel is probably avoided. Definitely don't booze it up or... They probably don't drink at all. Yeah. And subsist on things like pasta and bananas and very very safe Digestively speaking foods Although a banana could gag you
Starting point is 00:21:33 Yeah, you know that would be a nightmare if you had a metaphobia. I Wonder if they mash them up and eat it like like mashed up with a fork. Maybe maybe I could see it Yeah, and I could see cutting your food up into the tiniest pieces because you feel you're choking. And that's one of the fears too, I don't think we mentioned, like they're not just afraid of the vomiting, but they sometimes can fear choking on vomit and dying and asphyxiating and or going to the hospital. David Kramer- Or starting to vomit and the vomiting never never ending that's another fear of a metaphobe.
Starting point is 00:22:07 One other thing that I saw people do is prevent getting pregnant because of a fear of morning sickness. Yeah. So yeah, so your life is is altered and curtailed it because you're afraid of vomiting everywhere you look there's some potential trigger out there so it'd just be easier to stay home and eat your pasta and not watch movies, basically. And to just lie there and monitor your stomach for signs that you're about to throw up. That's what they do. That's what you do when you have a metaphobia. That's
Starting point is 00:22:40 your life. It's no way to live. Peter T. Laisman It is not. David Kinn So, like, this is not all just academic and stuff we're grasping at straws and pulling together from different cases. Like, there's actually a case study we found that was of an eight-year-old girl who had a terrible experience throwing up and really kind of encapsulates the experience of a metaphobe. She had full-blown a metaphobia. She had full blown a metaphobia.
Starting point is 00:23:06 She had appendicitis and had been throwing up before the doctors figured out she had appendicitis and had her appendix removed. And that experience throwing up was, well, it triggered a metaphobia in her. When she came to and was recovering from her surgery, about 10 days later, she started getting really worried she was going to start throwing up like that again. Yeah, it was a really sad case and pretty much covered everything we've said and even then some to the point where her father traveled for business and she didn't want him to travel anymore, her father to travel anymore for fear that he would get some sickness
Starting point is 00:23:47 and then bring it back to the house. I mean, that's pretty extensive. You know? Yeah, like she didn't want to eat herself. She didn't want to eat any outside food. She ate her safe food, but she also didn't want her parents to eat any outside food either because she didn't want them throwing up. She stopped playing with other kids because she was worried about throwing up in front of them and being teased
Starting point is 00:24:07 that was her big thing, yeah, and As as one of the clinicians who we came across in this research said it's not the vomiting That's really the problem. Like that's the focus. That's the obsession, but the real problem is the worry, the constant worry. It's the worry that's altering your life, and it altered this little girl's life, you know? Very sad. So let's take another break, and then we'll come back and put a silver lining on this
Starting point is 00:24:36 thing and talk about treatment. Guess what, Mango? What's that, Will? So iHeart is giving us a whole minute to promote our podcast, Part-Time Genius. I know! That's why I spent my whole week composing a haiku for the occasion. It's about my emotional journey in podcasting over the last seven years, and it's called Earthquake House. Mango, I'm going to cut you off right there.
Starting point is 00:25:06 Why don't we just tell people about our show instead? Yeah, that's a better idea. So every week on Part-Time Genius, we feed our curiosity by answering the world's most important questions. Things like, when did America start dialing 911? Is William Shatner's best acting work in Esperanto? Also, what happened to Esperanto? Plus, we cover questions like how Chinese is your Chinese food?
Starting point is 00:25:28 How do dollar stores stay in business? And of course, is there an Illuminati of cheese? There absolutely is, and we are risking our lives by talking about it. But if you love mind-blowing facts, incredible history, and really bad jokes, make your brains happy and tune in to Part-Time Genius. Listen to Part-Time Genius on the iHeart radio app or wherever you get your podcasts. Last season, millions tuned into the Betrayal podcast to hear a shocking story of deception. I'm Andrea Gunning, and now we're sharing an all-new story of betrayal.
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Starting point is 00:27:54 All right, so we've talked a lot on the show over the years about CBT, cognitive behavioral therapy or exposure and response prevention, ERP, basically exposure therapy. And this is definitely probably the way to go when it comes to emetophobia. So depending on who you go see, you might undergo various kinds of treatments ranging from starting out by literally saying the words, bomb it out loud, or throw up, or puke, or just all the words,
Starting point is 00:28:41 because that's literally the first step sometimes into getting over this is just being able to speak the word. Yeah, and you may have to start out by writing it down first before you can say it out loud. For real. And so once you move past that, the therapies range from kind of all over the board from looking at fake vomit that your therapist has made in a toilet. Yeah, now you're starting to move into exposure therapy, right?
Starting point is 00:29:07 Yeah, I mean, this is all of this stuff, ERP and CBT. Okay. But, you know, they'll make up some fake vomit, put it in the toilet, make you go look at it. They themselves, the therapist might make the noises in front of you. Right just out of nowhere. Well, imagine they probably prep them, or maybe not. May go in the bathroom and jump up and say, I've got to go get sick.
Starting point is 00:29:29 And all of this is just exposing this patient over and over to the point where they can handle hearing the sound, seeing the thing, saying the word, hearing the word. Smell is another one too. One of the recommendations for exposure therapy is you make your own throw up, like in the toilet, a little bit of cold soup, something like that, maybe mix in some oatmeal with it and then pour a little vinegar in there to make it pungent and sit around and think about that being vomit. Maybe try to make the sound of throwing up yourself, try to make yourself gag.
Starting point is 00:30:06 And all this is to show you when you have a metaphobia that this is, first of all, it's manageable. That's the first part is what you're trying to do is get to this point without having a panic attack. But then also that if you gag, it doesn't mean you're automatically going to throw up. Right. And if you do throw up, it doesn't mean you're automatically gonna throw up right and if you do throw up It doesn't mean you're never going to stop throwing up right or that everyone's going to ridicule you for throwing up Yeah, and and that's you know
Starting point is 00:30:32 The point of any cognitive behavioral therapy is just kind of change your perspective and give you a more realistic View of the thing you're worried about There's also a website called rate my vomit. Have you heard of it? Yeah, I wouldn't get to mention that, but go ahead. You have heard of it before? No, no, no. I read about it, but I just, yeah. It just sounds like, I mean, that's like classic internet stuff, right? Somebody's like, oh, let's put pictures of throw up on there. And you guys tell me how gross it is. Well, it's
Starting point is 00:30:58 actually used by people with a metaphobia as exposure therapy at home, to just go look at this stuff and see it. There's also videos of people throwing up. There's a lot of stuff. The internet, like unintentionally, is this great place for people with a metaphobia to go get over their fears. And I'm sure, like, if you have a fear of snakes, it's good for that too.
Starting point is 00:31:22 But so is like a time life book. You're not going to find a time life book that's nothing but pictures of vomit. You're going to find it on the internet though. Yes, you will. That's not in the Old West series. No. And then I found this other type of therapy, Chuck, called eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, EMDR.
Starting point is 00:31:45 And it's used for post-traumatic stress disorder. And it's the most bizarre treatment I've ever heard of in my life. But apparently it really, really works. Yeah. You ready for this? Yep. So say I was your therapist and you had PTSD.
Starting point is 00:32:02 And it's been used to treat a metaphobe a couple of times, but you're talking about the thing that gave you PTSD. You're focusing on the worst aspect of this traumatic experience, and you're talking about it out loud. But while you're doing it, I'm moving my finger back and forth and up and down, maybe in a slow circle, and I've instructed you to follow my finger
Starting point is 00:32:26 wherever I move it while you're recounting this horrible traumatic experience. Supposedly just doing this over multiple sessions, but sometimes just in one long session, PTSD can be treated, and the way that they think this happens, if it actually does does work it just sounds like such Just like totally made up that in 50 years are gonna be like they actually thought this worked right, but if it does work they think that it works because it it it
Starting point is 00:32:58 taxes your working memory to follow the finger and Your recall then is not aided fully by your working memory. So the vividness of this horrible memory isn't as robust as it would be if your full working memory was working on it. And so when you reprocess it, when you file it away again, this memory, it's lost its luster. It's lost a lot of its bite. Right.
Starting point is 00:33:26 Because you've gotten it out there and reprocessed it in a way that's not nearly as traumatic, because your working memory was being used in part to follow your therapist's finger. Supposedly it works. Wow. Yeah. Isn't that nuts? It's pretty neat. Yeah, I think so too.
Starting point is 00:33:41 I wonder if it really does work. You should try it. Anyone who has ever undergone eye movement, desensitization and reprocessing, I would love to hear your story, if it actually helped you or not. For sure. And if you have a metaphobia, Godspeed,
Starting point is 00:34:00 we hope you get well soon, and to take this on, or any phobia really, has so much courage and grit that just taking a first step toward treatment, my hat is off to you for life. Yes, and chances are you probably didn't even listen to this episode. Yeah, but if you have a different phobia, you know, any phobia. And since I said phobia a couple of times, that means it's time for listener mail. I'm going to call this our second PSA in as many weeks, if this releases the same week. Okay.
Starting point is 00:34:35 But this one's about dogs. It's very sad. Hey guys, take me a while to write this because it's been very difficult to talk about. You're animal lovers though, so probably a good majority of your listeners are. I thought sharing our tragic story would help prevent others from experiencing the same thing. We lost our dog River about two months ago because I left a bag of chips out. We were at work while she got her head stuck in the bag and we came home to find our dog stiff and lifeless from suffocation.
Starting point is 00:35:05 We've always been careful about plastic bags and stuff like that and kept them stored away for recycling, but never occurred to us that a chips bag on the counter would, something would need to be concerned about. No, no one ever would ever think about that. Everyone we've also told said it was something they never thought about either, so now we keep all of our bagged foods in the cupboard, cut the bottoms off of anything that goes into the recycling and waste bins. That's a good idea too. I started doing that since these guys wrote in.
Starting point is 00:35:34 Oh yeah? We were and still are extremely heartbroken. I hope no one else will have to go through this experience. It was the worst. And if I can help save just one other dog's life, it's been worthwhile. So, thanks for being you guys Thanks for being you guys There's a comment there. There's not but I think that's how I'm supposed to read it
Starting point is 00:35:53 I hope we make it into your next Seattle show. That's Jackie W from Seattle Jackie, thank you for writing in. I'm so sorry about River But I hope you guys are doing okay. Yeah, that sounds like a guest list action to me. Yeah, right back in and we'll guest list you. Yeah, so just right back in, we'll throw you on there. And she sent a picture of River. Beautiful dog, very, very sad. River looked very sweet. If you have a PSA that happened to you that you think we should share to warn everybody else about, we want to do that.
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