Sword and Scale - Episode 261
Episode Date: April 8, 202465-year-old Marilyn Gandert worked for the U.S. Postal Service for over 30 years. She was a solitary woman who lived alone and was getting ready to sell her house and retire. Tragically, Marilyn was n...ever able to enjoy her retirement. In January of 2018, her mangled and charred remains were found on a backroad in Rio Rancho, New Mexico. Someone had brutally beaten and stabbed Marilyn to death, covered her in gasoline, and burned her body.
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If my sense of entitlement strikes you as unflattering, that's because it is.
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Those of us with a slightly more acute sense of self-awareness wonder what makes people act this way.
An extreme sense of entitlement can be developed in a number of ways.
One of the most common ways usually relates to how a person has been treated in the past.
When someone or a group of people are routinely given what they want, they can develop the
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It's common for children to have this mentality, but they usually grow out of it and begin
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They learn that, in general, if you want something, you have to earn it.
Unfortunately, not everyone develops this understanding.
Some full-ass grown adults hold firm to their sense of entitlement, and when things that
were once handed to them are suddenly taken away,
well, that's when they lash out.
They get angry.
They might scream or yell.
They might get violent, in fact.
They might even commit murder. On the night of January 26th, 2018, a middle-aged woman in Rio Rancho, New Mexico was driving home from work.
Her commute was one that she had made many times before, but on this particular night
she noticed something unusual.
While driving along a somewhat well-traveled back road, she saw a smoldering pile of, well,
something that was laid out on the road in front of her.
The pile lit off a small cloud of black smoke, and its glowing orange embers suggested that
whatever she was looking at was very recently on fire.
I was coming home.
I could see it off to the side, but I couldn't see what it was at all.
When you drove through, were you able to drive around it or did you hit it?
I drove around it.
No, I drove around it.
I couldn't see anything because it was dark.
My headlights aren't very good, but I wasn't going to get out of my car either.
You know, I'm not stupid.
But so I came home and we talked about it for a while.
So I went to bed, woke up at about 10, 10 ish and said, I'm going to go up and take
a look.
The woman drove home.
She told her roommates about what she saw, and then she went to bed.
The next morning, she decided she wanted to take a closer look at what she had seen the
night before.
I went up there, and I still didn't think it was real.
And it just did not look real to me.
It was horrible.
It looked like it was.
Well, describe what you saw for me.
I could see the head.
I could see the two arms.
The face.
It looks like a female.
I can tell you that.
Now that the sun was up, the woman returned to what she saw during her commute home, and
she couldn't believe what she'd discovered.
Lying on a burned mattress was a severely mangled and charred human corpse.
Actually, as I was walking away, I could see the restraints.
The restraints?
Yeah. The person was bound with metal, with wire or something.
The arm was broken. I could see that.
The mouth looked round, like forming an O.
The right foot was missing.
It looked like it had been cut off from about here, maybe even higher.
It was creepy. I mean, there's no nice way to put it, you know.
Some person lost their life.
And whoever decided to dump it on a road that is well-traveled, you can tell the roads were well-traveled.
Why?
Most people would not dump a body on a well traveled road.
This woman had a good question.
Why would someone dump a body in a well traveled road?
Along with that question, the cops in Rio Rancho are wondering a few other things, too,
like who was this dead person?
How did they die?
And more importantly, who put them there?
Meanwhile, about 20 miles south, a concerned man in Albuquerque was making a phone call
to 911.
Albuquerque police, operator 3461, how can I help you?
Yes, this is Harry Gendert.
I have called about making a, possibly making a, assistant person's report. 62 year old Harry Ganderth lived in Albuquerque and for the last day or two he'd been trying
to reach his sister Marilyn, who he knew
was pretty reliable when it came to returning his phone calls. Okay, how old is she? house, I think it was yesterday.
The vehicle is here, so unless you went with a fare to face, if you were with a fare to face,
you could have called me unless you were among my members.
Okay. Well, just wait right there, I'm going to get an officer to make contact with you shortly.
65-year-old Marilyn Gandert worked for the US Postal Service for over 30 years.
And according to her co-workers, she was very dependable.
A colleague that was a joy to be around.
Working with Marilyn was just relaxing.
That's the best word to use is that she put a ease to you.
She knew things didn't get to her.
She didn't sweat this more stuff.
When asked, Harry described his sister as a great person.
In fact, he told police that Marilyn was the perfect sister
and that she was always there for him when he needed her.
Harry reported Marilyn missing, but unfortunately,
he couldn't direct the Albuquerque police
towards many leads.
Marilyn Gander lived alone and was a solitary person.
She mostly kept to herself and didn't have a lot of close friends.
She did, however, have a best friend.
Her name was Nancy Robinson.
Nancy worked alongside Marilyn at the post office for a long time and over the years
the two of them had become quite close.
How did you know Marilyn?
We worked together at the post office, same station, probably 12-15 years.
And then we were friends outside of that, went to Bible study together,
spent time with her and her husband, birthdays, you know that kind of stuff.
Marilyn's husband passed away long before Marilyn went missing.
Several years later, tragedy struck again when Marilyn lost her only child. Marilyn's 42-year-old son, Ryan Bickett, killed himself while playing Russian Roulette.
If for some reason you're not familiar, Russian Roulette is a deadly game of chance where
a person places one bullet in a revolver, spins the cylinder, points the muzzle at their
head and pulls the trigger.
You basically have a 1 in 6 chance of killing yourself.
In case this isn't obvious, people usually don't play this game unless they're severely
suicidal.
In Ryan's case, he was both severely suicidal and extremely unlucky.
How did Ryan's death affect her?
She was heartbroken, of course.
She was her only child.
She had, you know, like most mothers, she cremated remains that she wore around her neck. She paid extra money to bring the report to her house.
She had all the pictures.
She would wake up every morning at a certain time when he lost his life.
It was a big deal.
As expected, the death of her son was devastating for Marilyn. But the silver lining was that she still had her daughter-in-law
in Ryan's wife. Ryan's wife
was 43-year-old Alyssa Bickett, and Marilyn also had
a grandchild in Ryan's son.
He was 20-year-old Drake Bickett. Marilyn had a big heart.
Her interaction with Drake that I would see was she was trying to be grandmotherly with him.
Same thing with Alyssa. She looked at Alyssa as her daughter.
She treated her like her daughter.
Much like Harry Ganderth, when Marilyn went missing, Nancy was quick to notice that Marilyn
wasn't responding to phone calls or text messages, which was quite out of character.
And so when did you start becoming concerned?
Honestly, I started getting a real bad vibe on Thursday night.
I called her and then I called her later,
I couldn't get ahold of her,
and the feeling got worse, worse, and worse.
And you would text, when you text Marilyn or call Marilyn,
you get pretty much an immediate response.
Called her on Saturday and said, did you go back to work?
I haven't heard from you, I'm concerned, et cetera, et cetera.
And then by the time Sunday morning came, when I woke
up six or seven o'clock, I left the house in my pajamas and my robe and said, Marilyn,
I'm coming for you because you just knew something was wrong.
After Marilyn was reported missing, the first place that police went looking was Marilyn's
home.
The responding officers discovered that Maryland's back door was left wide open, so they went
inside, but there was no sign of Marilyn.
The house seemed undisturbed, but the police did notice something strange.
Marilyn's house keys were left hanging on her front doorknob.
Who leaves their house without their keys?
The responding officers knew something was wrong, so they decided to visit another house
that Marilyn owned.
It was a neighboring property that Marilyn had been renting out to her daughter-in-law,
Alyssa. When police arrived at this second house, they spoke to Alyssa, who was in the process of moving out and was half expecting Marilyn to pop on by. I expected her to come by, but I didn't
think anything of it. I thought, you know, she probably just, you know... Right. Like, sometimes she gets mad and won't even talk to me, so...
Marilyn's brother, her best friend, and her daughter-in-law were almost always in regular
contact with Marilyn.
But the three of them told police that they didn't know where Marilyn was.
She had seemingly just vanished.
Meanwhile, back in Rio Rancho,
a middle-aged woman discovered a mangled
and smoldering corpse on a back road.
After she told roommates about what she found,
one of those roommates called 911.
Standable County 911,
what is the exact location of your emergency?
Out here in Chino and Northern, we think we found a body out here.
It's in a road and somebody had put it on like a mattress or something and burned it.
And so it's a mattress with something burned on the top of it?
Yeah, and it looks like it has bones in it and you can see intestines and guts and I don't know. After the police arrived on the scene, they quickly confirmed there was indeed a charred
human corpse lying on a road in Rio Rancho, after which they promptly questioned the people
that reported it.
When you got there, what did you...
There was smoke.
You could tell something had been burning and I was like, what the fuck is that?
And he goes, I think it's a body.
Okay. Did you walk up to what you saw burning?
Yeah, we were parked where you could go around it, like, but we didn't go around
it, we just backed up and we left too.
And we were there for maybe three minutes if that.
Oh really?
Well, cause we both felt really creeped out.
Like someone was watching us.
Okay.
Oh really? You felt you both felt really creeped out like someone was watching us. Okay. Oh really, you felt like something was here?
Needless to say, finding a dead body is a terrible experience for anyone to have, but
in this particular case, and because of the horrific state of the body,
it was especially traumatic for everyone that happened to witness it.
Tell me again what you observed. traumatic for everyone that happened to witness it. suffered bad. What makes you think it's a person? I don't know. I can tell that there
was a shin bone sticking out and there was intestines hanging on the side. It was bad.
It's the worst thing I ever saw in my life. I'm sorry. I'm sorry you saw that. I told
the victim, I said, man, you got to deal with this. I don't know how you do that. I mean, tomorrow we're putting a cross up there because that soul has to rest and it's
not.
Right.
I understand.
Within a day, the news of this dead body reached the Albuquerque area and the detectives that
were searching for Marilyn.
Soon after, the body was identified through dental records and confirmed to be 65-year-old
postal worker Marilyn Gandert.
Following that revelation, Albuquerque homicide detectives went to work, and they expected to find out who had brutally murdered this poor woman, who had
dumped the body, who had burned it, and why. In January of 2018, the mangled and smoldering corpse of 65-year-old postal worker Marilyn
Gandert was found on a back road in Rio Rancho, New Mexico.
After the body was collected and an autopsy was performed, the medical examiner and homicide
detectives were able to determine what likely happened to Marilyn
Someone had brutally beaten and stabbed her to death
After she was dead the killer or someone else drove the body to Rio Rancho
Dropped a mattress on the road and put Marilyn on top of it
So, dropped a mattress on the road and put Marilyn on top of it. Then they doused her in gasoline and lit the body on fire before driving away.
The medical examiner also determined that there were no signs of sexual trauma to Marilyn's
body, but there were ligature marks on her wrists and ankles, so Marilyn was likely bound either
before or during the murder.
When detectives began investigating this homicide, one of the first things they tried to figure
out was where the murder happened.
They examined Marilyn's house but didn't find any signs of a struggle
or any significant traces of blood. They quickly determined that the murder probably didn't happen
at Marilyn's home. Then they set their eyes on another property that Marilyn owed. It was
a neighboring house that Marilyn had been renting out to her daughter-in-law, Alyssa
Bickett, who happened to be in the process of moving out when Marilyn was first reported
missing.
My name is Detective Ronald Albuquerque, please.
Yeah, how are you?
Good, you mind if I step out and hold me?
Yeah, I'm fine.
First off, we're investigating a disappearance that you reported to your mom.
It's my mother-in-law.
We actually have to secure the house.
Okay, I'm just trying to get all my stuff out.
Okay, alright, so unfortunately, I can't let you go back in.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'mlaw. We actually have to secure the house.
Okay, I'm just trying to get all my stuff out.
Okay.
All right, so unfortunately,
I can't let you go back inside.
I need to get, I have things in there.
Unfortunately, I can't.
I literally have everything that I'm taking to my hotel
and stuff, my purse, everything.
I understand that, okay.
But at this point, we're gonna secure the residence.
Why?
Okay, we're doing the search warrant.
I can't do any detail.
Do you have the warrant?
I don't have the warrant yet. Then I want to get my things out first. Why?
Okay, then secure the floor search warrant. I need to get my phone. Ma'am, what's your name? My name is Alyssa.
43 year old Alyssa Bickett wasn't overly thrilled that a bunch of cops were about to be invading her home and rifling through all her stuff.
But given that
she had no other options, she relented and a search warrant was executed on her home.
After that was being done, Alyssa was informed that Marilyn's body had been found and Alyssa
was taken to the local police station for questioning. deceased. Okay, how do you know Marilyn? She's my mother-in-law. Mother-in-law. I don't know how
to say it. It was my husband, but he passed away. It's her, it was his mom. Okay, and when he passed
away you were still married to him. Yes. Okay, do you and her son, what's her son's name? Ryan. Ryan.
How long were you and Ryan married before? 23 years. 23 years. And how did he pass away? He shot
himself right in front of me. Okay, I'm sorry to hear that. How long horrific tragedy that had struck this family.
Back in 2014, Alyssa's husband and Maryland's son Ryan Bickett killed himself while playing
Russian roulette.
According to Alyssa, that suicide happened right in front of her.
How was your relationship with Marilyn prior to that?
Before Ryan had committed suicide?
It was okay.
I mean, I was just-
Okay.
And you were married 23 years?
Mm-hmm.
Wow.
Okay.
And your relationship was okay with Marilyn?
Yeah.
Okay. And since Ryan has passed away, how was your relationship with Marilyn? It was okay with Maron? Yeah. Okay. And since Ryan has passed away,
how was your relationship with Maron?
It was okay, I mean, just off and on.
I just really didn't talk to her very much.
After the death?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
Any hard feelings I guess you could say about-
She was mad at me.
About what I said?
She was mad at you.
How come?
Sometimes she just thought I should have left him
because he was very abusive.
Oh, okay.
I mean, if you would have left him, he wouldn't have...
She thought he might not have killed himself.
So maybe a little finger pointing at the mom.
Yeah.
Alyssa claimed that Marilyn had some resentment towards her, and Marilyn seemed to believe
that if Alyssa wasn't in Ryan's life, Ryan wouldn't have killed himself.
Despite this, Marilyn allowed Alyssa to remain living in the same house that she and Ryan shared,
which was owned by Marilyn.
The only condition that Marilyn had was a reasonable one.
She expected that Alyssa pay rent.
Unfortunately, Alyssa didn't live up to her end of the deal.
So Marilyn began the process of evicting Alissa.
When Marilyn was first reported missing and responding officers went to the house
that Alissa was renting, Alissa didn't mention anything about being evicted.
She only told him that she was moving out.
For detectives, that was kind of a big red flag.
And I didn't work for six years when he was alive.
He didn't let me work.
So, you know, and I got a job right away,
but I sometimes, you know,
I wouldn't have a job at some time, so.
Okay.
You know.
So is it-
But I tried to talk to her and she kind of worked with me. She said she was gonna evict me and I said, okay, you know so is it but I tried to talk to her and she kind of worked with me She said she was gonna make me and I said, okay, you know, whatever
Okay, who lives at the 4715 Taylor Ridge with you? Um, it was Annie Rayell
Alyssa shared the house she was renting with two people her 20 year old son Drake and her close friend 28 year old
Annie Rayell so how did you end up meeting? and her close friend 28 year old, Annie Raelle. and she knew I was unhappy and she kind of offered and I accepted.
Alissa and Annie met in 2017 and became friends.
Before long, Alissa offered to let Annie live with her in the house she was renting.
While there, Annie met and occasionally interacted with Marilyn Gandert. I don't know if it was Thanksgiving or Christmas or one of those.
She gave us, well, them a ham and like food.
Like they did get along.
Okay.
You know, I have seen them get along.
According to Annie, the relationship between Alyssa and Marilyn was, on occasion, cordial.
But on other occasions, it was clear that the relationship was breaking down. Mostly because
Alyssa wasn't paying rent. And because, you know, she wasn't even taking good care of the house.
Anyway.
So it seems like Marilyn and Alyssa are having a dispute over the conditions of the house,
maybe some payments, just not really getting along about stuff.
Right.
Okay.
But I went out there while she was getting ready to leave and just talked to her and
was like, Alyssa's trying, she's a good girl.
She does try and she, I don't know, I was just trying to make the peace.
Okay. How did that go?
It went really well, but I guess she didn't know who, that I was outing. She didn't know
it was me.
Did she know that you were staying there?
No.
While speaking with detectives, Alyssa and Annie seemed to downplay the issues that Marilyn
was having with Alyssa in the house. But according to Marilyn's best friend, Nancy, Marilyn was at her wits end.
She had just had it with Alyssa.
She loved Alyssa.
Over the years, she did everything she possibly could for Alyssa.
And it was actually Alyssa who was angry with Marilyn.
Marilyn supported them entirely for many years,
as opposed to her own self.
And then after Ryan died, there was a period of time
where she wanted the whole situation to change.
She was hoping that Alyssa could begin to pay her some rent,
that kids could work, something could happen
so that they could still live there and she wouldn't have to be able to support them entirely.
Again, Marilyn's expectations were entirely reasonable.
If Alyssa was going to live in Marilyn's house, she would have to pay rent.
But apparently, Alyssa just didn't like that arrangement.
Alyssa's response was that to, oh, okay, now because Ryan's not here, you're not going to take care of us anymore.
She said, yeah, I can't, you know, you have to have some income, you have to help me here.
I want to retire. So she attempted to make that work with them and Alyssa was very
unhappy with the fact that she was now going to have to pay some rent. She'd tell me about
the bits and pieces of money that would come in and it never came in like it was supposed to
and there were promises. Despite her objections, Alyssa did agree to pay rent, but she never actually lived
up to the promise to do so.
On top of that, Alyssa did a pretty poor job of taking care of the house.
It looked, when I was there, it looked as if somebody got angry, or drunk, this is my pressure, drunk, angry, whatever,
and just trashed it.
People do stuff like that.
They put their fist through the wall,
they break things, and it didn't look like
it had been basically kept up anyway.
Finally, after giving Alyssa several opportunities
to turn things around, Marilyn decided
that Alyssa had run out of chances
and began the process of having Alyssa evicted.
Marilyn's long-term plan was to eventually sell the house.
She had to resign herself.
She was done with the whole thing,
tired of putting that emotion out there, tired of putting the bill. she was done with the whole thing. Tired of putting that
emotion out there, tired of putting the bill, she was done. She was gonna sell
this house because she wanted to retire. We work hard at the post office. So she
was just kind of had been done with it. After hearing about the drama and
conflict between Alyssa and Marilyn, Albuquerque homicide
detectives felt like they had a plausible motive for murder.
So they questioned Alyssa about the eviction.
So am I correct by saying that eventually you guys were evicted?
Yes.
Okay.
How did that come about?
Because we were paying.
She just said, and I didn't go to court.
I just because I knew I didn't want to argue.
There was nothing to argue about.
Did she actually take it to court like file it in court?
Okay. And you didn't show up.
I didn't show up because I knew what's an argue.
I mean, what am I going to go say? I know I'm not paying rent.
So I just let it go.
You know, I mean, I did ask her, you know, maybe. So just let it go. And you know, I mean, I, but I did ask her, you know,
maybe we can work this out still.
And she said no.
And I said, okay, you know.
How did you feel about her evicting you?
I was a little upset, but then I came to terms with it.
I was like, my husband died here.
I, you know, my son doesn't get, it's not good for him.
It's not good for his mental.
So, but it's not like, I mean, I don't hate her.
I just, you know, I don't, I've never heard her.
It's a tough thing to go through.
You know, I mean, none of us would.
We were just like, let's just go, you know.
According to Alyssa, the eviction process
was as cordial as it could possibly be.
And Alyssa's friend Annie echoed that claim.
Alyssa got through to her that we're her that we are trying to get out.
We're not trying to leave in a brawl.
We're not trying to destroy her house.
We want to leave in peace on good terms.
Was your understanding that those terms
were starting to happen like good terms?
Okay. Yeah.
Melissa and Annie admitted that they weren't happy
about being evicted, but they claimed that they accepted it
and were willing to just move on.
So they began the process of moving out,
but that process wasn't easy
because Marilyn changed the locks on the doors.
How are you guys now getting back into the house?
Marilyn would come and meet us there. Oh, okay, she has a key? Yeah. locks on the doors.
The court filings and eviction notice granted Alyssa three days to move her things out of
the house.
Out of the concern that the house might be further damaged, Marilyn decided that Alyssa
could only move her stuff out while Marilyn was there.
She wanted to oversee what was going on so they wouldn't cause a bunch of damage to this
house that she needed to sell eventually.
So she decided to take off work so that she could watch everything and make sure the move
out process was, you know, going well.
Yet according to Alyssa, Marilyn eventually decided that she didn't need to keep an eye
on things for some reason. this week so I'm gonna take the weekend I want you to come and get the key tomorrow I'm gonna let
you guys just hang out because you know like not hang out but you know I want to relax you guys go
ahead and just so that was the conversation you had on Friday okay.
Alyssa claimed that on the day before Marilyn was reported missing Marilyn gave her the new house keys so that Alyssa could
finish moving out. I'm not sure why anyone in their right mind would give
someone that they are actually in the process of evicting a set of the new
house keys to the new locks they've just installed. It kinda makes no sense
whatsoever, but I'm sure you knew that already.
Alyssa even had a text exchange with Marilyn
to show detectives and back up this claim.
But again, Marilyn's friend Nancy
contradicted what Alyssa told the police.
When Nancy was shown the text messages
between Alyssa and Marilyn,
she knew it didn't make any sense.
Come get the key on Friday. That is so not Marilyn. That's somebody texting from Marilyn's phone.
Needless to say, the story that Alyssa told police was pretty suspicious.
Why would Marilyn go through all the trouble of filing court paperwork, changing the locks, taking time off of work, and then just allow Alyssa to have free access to the house.
It made zero sense.
And because of that, the homicide detectives began to push back on Alyssa's story.
Marilyn didn't allow you guys in the house without her present.
At the beginning, yes.
And?
And it was because she thought we were going to damage the house without her present. At the beginning, yes.
And it was because she thought we were going to damage the house.
Okay. So it's just kind of odd to me that all of a sudden she would have a change of heart.
She likes the weekend.
And then she would go missing.
Well, I don't know.
Now all of a sudden you have the keys.
Yes, because she gave it to me.
Not according to the friends that we spoke to, not according to Harry. They all stated that she was not going to allow you guys in that home
Okay, she discussed it. She discussed and said that she would
Naturally Alyssa maintained that Marilyn had given her the house keys and permission to go into the house without being supervised
Unfortunately for her as detectives began asking for details
about how Alyssa got those house keys, her story started to...
bullshit... break down.
I messaged her on Saturday morning and said I'm on my way, it was about 9.
I said I'll be there in about an hour and I went and picked up the key.
Okay.
So I just went in and started packing and then Annie and Drake came and you know we're
loading up and stuff.
Okay.
And her brother, Marilyn's brother Harry came.
To the house on?
Yeah and asked if I had, on Saturday.
On Saturday.
Okay.
And asked if I had seen Marilyn when the last time was and I said about 10 this morning
I went and picked up the key.
Alyssa claimed that the last time she saw Marilyn was on Saturday morning when Marilyn
gave her the house keys.
But police knew that couldn't be.
Because by Saturday morning Marilyn was already dead.
The woman who saw Marilyn's body on the back road in Rio Rancho had spotted it on Friday
night during her commute home. You saw Marilyn's body on the back road in Rio Rancho had spotted it on Friday night
during her commute home.
Alyssa Bickett was either lying or she'd gotten her days mixed up.
Of course, she claimed the latter when her impossible story was pointed out to her.
I mean, I'm confused.
I don't want to talk anymore.
I don't want to even be here.
How come you're so upset right now?
Because she's gone and I didn't know this.
You know, I'm not going to be here. I'm not going to be here. I'm not going to be here. I'm not going to be here. I don't want to talk anymore. I don't want to even be here.
How come you're so upset right now?
Because she's gone and I didn't know this.
You know?
And I'm sorry.
It's like, and then I'm here being accused of I don't even know what.
We need to get down to the truth.
And I mean, it's just because I can't think right now and it's not in pair.
I probably will say things that I don't remember, you know?
Okay.
And I know Friday was the last time I did see her, but I probably will say things that I don't remember, you know? Okay.
And I know Friday was the last time I did see her, but I've seen her in that robe and
I think I was just in my head fully making up that I saw her that morning, okay?
Because I did see her Friday and that was the last time I saw her.
Alyssa changed her story.
Now the last time she saw Marilyn was on Friday, not Saturday. Okay, fair enough.
Being questioned by the police about the death of a family member is a high stress situation.
It's entirely possible that Alyssa confused Friday for Saturday. But there was something else that Alyssa could not explain.
Namely, the large amount of blood the cops found in her house.
Would there be any reason that we will find
Maryland's blood in Annie's room? I don't know. No, there would be no reason.
I don't know.
Is there going to be any reason if we pull that carpet up in that house?
Is there going to be any of Marilyn's blood on the carpet underneath?
I don't know.
That should just be a yes or no answer. That's not a no.
No, there shouldn't be any.
Okay, well there is.
Okay.
So you're the renter of the home, you were the last person in the home, so that needs to be explained.
I don't know. Why is there blood on the walls of that house,
in the carpet, and in Annie's room?
I don't know.
You have no answer.
No.
Doesn't that seem a little suspicious to you?
Well, I don't know.
I haven't done anything.
And now she's missing from the seats.
Well, I haven't done anything.
I don't know of anybody doing anything,
so we haven't done anything to her.
Who cleaned up the blood in the hallway.
You guys didn't do a very good job on the walls
because there's still blood spatter on the walls.
Very small, but she didn't do a very good job
because we were able to locate it.
Eventually, the detectives made things very clear for Alyssa.
They were trying to solve a murder case.
It was a murder that almost certainly happened in the home where Alyssa was living.
And they knew that Alyssa was lying to them.
So you've told Detective Brown that the last time you saw her was on Saturday morning at
10.
I lied because I wanted to see her that morning and I didn't, okay?
No, you're lying now because you know that we caught you in a lie.
But I did nothing to her. I did nothing to her.
Maybe you didn't, but you know what you did?
Nobody else said, no I don't.
Well, she's deceased.
I'm sorry.
Okay. Well, how are your kids going to feel when you know what it felt like for a promise of their grandmother?
Well, they're going to be sad. But I didn't do it, so I will find out.
Okay, well, if this thing you didn't do it, it was in the residence that you're living
in.
None of us did it.
You have the truth to it.
We were together.
None of us did it.
So.
I'm not even talking anymore.
And you said I have that right.
You do have that right.
So I will get an attorney. After Alyssa was confronted with her lies and the blood in her house, she asked for
a lawyer, which effectively shut down this interview.
But the cops weren't done asking questions.
Next, they turned to Alyssa's son, Drake, who, having recently been evicted from his mom's home, was now living
in a Dazen hotel room with his girlfriend.
Detectives met with Drake at the hotel and asked him about the last time he saw his grandmother.
Drake explained that he last saw Marilyn the day before she was reported missing.
And when he saw her, she was parked outside outside his house as Annie and Alyssa were busy moving things out of the home
Annie and my mom and my grandma were there and I just showed up with Nikki in the afternoon
I don't know exactly what time I would say 1 p.m. Okay 1 p.m. Me and Nikki go to the hotel because she says hey
Your mom and Annie need help moving stuff And I was like okay well then I'll go there and then we drove
there and then I go in to help it and then my mom was like oh your grandma's
kicking us out and I was like oh why because we don't have money for this
place and then I was like okay well I'll go talk to her and then I'll help you guys move stuff out
so then I went out to the car and was like, yo, are
you kicking us out or what? And she was like, yeah. And I was like, okay, well,
I'll help them get this stuff out. And then I'm staying in a hotel. I just wanted
to let you know that she was like, okay, bye. How did they make your mom feel?
Oh, she was pretty upset. Yeah. She was really upset. What she tried? She was
just like, I don't know where I'm going to stay and stuff like that.
But we told her that she could stay at hotels with us.
With you and Nicky?
Yeah, until we got a place.
According to Drake, after he helped his mom and Annie move a few things out, he left.
As he was leaving, he saw that Marilyn was still parked outside the house.
And then Friday, when you left, where was grandma? Still there. Still there? Yeah, she was still there. still parked outside the hotel.
I was like, all right, I'll see you guys there.
And then when did you see your mom and Annie again?
Whatever, we were at the hotel.
Did they say anything to you about anything that happened?
No, I didn't think that there was anything
that had happened.
You didn't know that your grandma was missing?
No, I had no idea. I had seen her those two days and then that had happened. You didn't know that your grandma was missing? No, I had no idea. I'd
seen her those two days and then that was it. As far as Drake knew when he left the house that day,
his mom, his grandma, and Annie were still there and everyone was still alive and breathing.
breathing. Sadly, detectives had some bad news for Drake. Your grandma, we found her, but she's dead.
Where at? Well, we believe that it's suspicious.
Okay, we think someone killed her. When?
And I'm really sorry. Okay. How does that make you feel?
Makes me feel sad.
Very sad.
So she's murdered?
Or like is she, she's just dead?
No, someone murdered her.
So now telling you that, knowing that,
is there anything now that you think you may have seen
or heard that you think, okay,
that's kind of out of the ordinary?
Something that I saw or someone that I talked to
or a conversation?
I've never, no, I haven't heard or seen anything.
After Drake was made aware of the situation,
detectives further explained that Alyssa's story
just wasn't adding up.
In other words, it was looking like Drake's mom had something to do with the murder. No. With your story or Niki's story. Okay.
And with...
Totally wrong.
Yeah.
Okay, is she okay?
Your mom?
Yeah, she's fine.
She's being taken care of.
No, and I believe, and there's that gap in time that you guys aren't with them.
So I was asking when they came back, was there anything that was like awkward that you noticed?
No.
According to Drake, when he met back up with his mom and Annie,
he didn't notice anything strange or suspicious.
To him, aside from the fact that they had all just been evicted
from their house and essentially had nowhere to live,
everything seemed fine.
Essentially, Drake was either unwilling or unable to give the police any new information.
But this wasn't the last time that Drake would speak to cops.
During the second interview with the said, I'm too old.
Will you please kill me?
Do you remember when she told you that?
She told me like a couple days to several days
as I stayed with her.
I was there and then she would be like depressed.
So you're saying that at some point
your grandma asked you to kill her?
Like she was like, yeah, I get real tired at night
and like I'm, I wanna die, you know?
So did you do that for her?
Yeah.
At this point detectives were extremely confident
in their theory that Alyssa and Annie
were involved in murdering Marilyn Gander.
But now, Alyssa's 20-year-old son Drake was taking sole responsibility for it.
Perhaps he was just trying to protect his mom from being charged with murder.
How noble.
After Drake made this admission, he was arrested, but the investigation didn't
stop there. The detectives remained determined to find out the truth, and eventually that
truth came out. It turned out that it wasn't just Alyssa that killed Marilyn and burned her body. It wasn't just Annie
or Drake either. Marilyn Ganderth was murdered by all three of them. In In June of 2018, 20-year-old Drake Bickett confessed to Albuquerque homicide detectives
that he brutally murdered his own grandmother, 65-year-old Marilyn Gandert. According to Drake, his grandmother asked him to kill her
and he graciously carried out her wishes, just like any decent grandson would.
So I was just like respect like because I can understand I don't know if you guys can
understand but I expect you guys to be able to understand if an old woman is like old and having to work for her children, right?
Mm-hmm.
Then I'll do what she wants, you know? Like...
So how did you do it?
Uh, just essentially... that's it.
Like, that's all the information without a lawyer or a public defender I'd like to share.
Okay, so you don't want to talk anymore after that?
Mm-mm.
Okay.
Okay, so you don't want to talk anymore after that? Mm-mm.
Okay.
After Drake gave his confession, he was carted off to jail and did the standard purple walk.
This gave the local media an opportunity to put a camera and microphone in his face.
Did you have anything to do with her death?
Oh, yeah, she asked me to kill her, so I did.
She asked you to kill her?
Yeah. How did you do it? I'm not gonna, I don't to kill her. She asked you to kill her? How did you do it?
I'm not gonna, I don't know.
You don't know how you killed her?
But she mentioned that she was old, tired, so.
So she wanted you to kill her.
Did you burn her body?
No, I have no idea about that.
You don't know how she ended up burned?
No.
Is there anything you would want to tell her or anyone else?
No.
Okay.
Drake told the police and the media that he murdered his grandmother, but he was unwilling
to provide any details about how he did it or how her body ended up being burned on a
back road in Rio Rancho.
Needless to say, the police knew that there was a lot more to this story. In fact, they didn't buy Drake's claim that Marilyn wanted to be killed.
They believed that Drake's mom, Alyssa Bickett, and her friend, Annie Raelle,
were responsible for the murder.
When Alyssa was questioned and the detectives pointed out inconsistencies in her story, she promptly
asked for an attorney and her interview came to an end.
Annie, on the other hand, did a lot more talking.
I feel like you guys are doing this because you feel like we did something to Marilyn.
Yes, we are investigating a homicide.
Because of that, yeah.
Okay.
And I just lose my mind. Marilyn was murdered. Without a doubt, we know investigating a homicide. Because of that, yeah. And that just blows my mind. Marilyn was murdered.
Without a doubt, we know that.
Evidence has been collected.
A lot of it is pointing towards you and Alyssa.
So you have one opportunity to give us
your side of the story.
I am telling you, we didn't do anything. I'm telling you that.
Okay. One of the main issues with Alyssa and Annie's denials was that Marilyn did
not give them permission to enter the house they were being evicted from
unless Marilyn was there. Yet Alyssa had the keys to the house when the cops first questioned her.
She was there, alone, without Marilyn.
You have not been permitted into that residence without Marilyn being there, is that correct?
Me specifically, I don't.
Anybody.
She's the only one that has the key.
Alyssa has the keys.
She didn't know what's happened.
Right. So when did she obtain those keys? She's the only one that has the key. Alyssa has the keys. She said Marilyn did.
Right.
So when did she obtain those keys?
I don't know when she got the keys. I don't know that.
So Alyssa told you she has the keys, you said.
Alyssa said she got the keys.
She has the keys. Why?
She talked to Marilyn. She said she, Marilyn, is giving us more time.
That's what I was told. And I don't care to ask questions. The cops knew, or at least strongly suspected, that Annie was lying and perhaps the most telling thing about her interview
was that she clearly wasn't taking the situation seriously.
Don't talk to me like that.
I haven't treated you like you're stupid.
I'm getting a very bad like.
Because I'm getting upset that you expect me not to lie to you, but you're going to
sit over there and lie to me.
I don't appreciate that you feel that way because I'm explaining to that you expect me not to lie to you, but you're gonna sit over there and lie to me. I don't appreciate that you feel that way
because I'm explaining to you my situation.
I don't know what to think the date is.
Do you realize you're looking
at being charged with a homicide?
Does that not compute with you?
And I'm trying my hardest to give you the opportunity
to get out of that.
I get it, okay?
You obviously don't. Okay, I'm not. Okay. You're sitting here smiling and laughing.
I'm not laughing because I know that we're going to be out of this fine because we have done nothing
wrong here. Annie feigned confidence, but the confidence was slowly broken down as detectives
started introducing physical evidence into the conversation.
Annie owned and drove a large pickup truck which was perfect for transporting a dead
body from Albuquerque to Rio Rancho.
As coincidence would have it, surveillance cameras captured Annie's truck driving through
Rio Rancho around the same time that Marilyn's body would have
been dumped there.
Do you like to off road?
No.
Because you have a nice truck.
I mean you cannot.
That truck, they literally told me not to drive on the highway.
So why?
Well, but you can go off road out there and there's trails and there's roads and there's
dirt roads.
I don't think it's possible doing that because that's my only, I don't do that.
So why did you guys go out there then?
We went to Walmart.
What are you asking me?
Like, okay, you're going to Walmart?
I'm going really. I'm not really. I'm not really. I'm not really. I'm not really.
I'm not really.
I'm not really.
I'm not really.
I'm not really.
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I'm not really.
I'm not really.
I'm not really.
I'm not really. I'm not really. I'm not really. I'm not something. West of Unser.
No.
Because Annie's truck was spotted near where Marilyn's body was found,
the cops decided to search it.
And Annie seemed pretty confident that they wouldn't find anything incriminating.
But we are going to process the vehicle for any kind of evidence inside the vehicle.
Okay.
Is there going to be any reason that Marilyn's DNA is going to be inside that vehicle?
No.
Unsurprisingly, the police did find Marilyn's DNA in the bed of Annie's truck, along with a few other things.
Court documents show five days later, investigators find blood in the bed of that truck, along with Marilyn's purse, medications, pants, and keys to her car.
Obviously, Alyssa and Annie weren't criminal masterminds.
Jesus, these people couldn't even figure out how to pay their fucking rent.
They committed this murder and then did an absolutely horrible job of covering it up.
Not only did the cops find Maryland's blood in the back of Annie's truck, but they also
found a whole bunch of Maryland's blood in Annie's bedroom.
Is there going to be any reason that a large amount of blood of Maryland's is going to
be in that house?
I'm sorry.
Okay.
And if we do locate a lot? Well, I just...
Why would you locate any blood?
Okay.
Specifically, maybe in your bedroom?
No.
Okay.
And when we do, because we have...
Okay.
What's going to be the answer then?
Same.
You don't know.
We've been together.
I know that. Just because you've been together doesn't mean you can't commit a We've been together. I don't know.
Just because you've been together doesn't mean you can't commit a crime together.
Right.
There's blood.
In your room.
Okay.
How did it get there?
I don't know.
I've never lived in my room like that.
Oh no, there's a lot.
Yeah.
I just, I guess I expect people to believe me and easy, but we are moving out of that place.
We're trying to do it in peace.
We're not doing wrong here.
You guys do what you need to do.
Okay.
When faced with the facts, Annie just denied everything, which wasn't exactly a sound
strategy.
The physical evidence was just overwhelming, and detectives made that very clear.
Unfortunately, all the evidence is pointing towards you.
I mean, if that's how it...
I don't know what else to say.
I can't, I'm not gonna say that I seen something
and I didn't, or I was a part of something
and I wasn't.
There's, I mean, there's, if you didn't do something wrong,
then you know what happened and you saw it,
and you know who did, and you saw part of this.
There's absolutely no way, there's no way Annie,
that you don't know what happened
and that you didn't see someone cleaning,
cleaning up blood.
No.
Yes, and then your truck-
I didn't see that.
Honey, your truck was, your truck,
you were on traffic cameras where we found the body.
Like I feel like- But we need to explain it. Well, I don't. I can't. Because I don't, I didn't see anything. If I'm going to feel this way that you guys are trying to switch it up on me, I'm not
going to even talk at this point because I'm telling you, I'm not lying.
Did it happen?
Did they ask you to help me rid of the body?
No.
Despite the evidence, Annie denied and denied the evidence.
She said she was going to tell me.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell you. I'm going lying. Did it happen? Did they ask you to help me get rid of the body? No.
Despite the evidence,
Annie denied Annie involvement with the murder.
But in the end, it didn't matter.
The cops had more than enough to put both Annie and Alyssa
behind bars.
And they started with Alissa.
And do you know why you're here today?
No, I don't.
Okay, so the reason I brought you down
or had you arrested is I have an active warrant,
arrest warrant for the murder of Marilyn.
That's fair.
Okay, so that's gonna take a little while
and then you'll be booked into the Metropolitan
Detention Center.
I'm sorry?
Why am I booked?
For murder.
I didn't do it, so...
Okay, well, that's what the arrest form is for, okay?
Do you have any questions for me at this point?
I need to speak to somebody, a lawyer.
In May of 2018, Alyssa Bickett was officially arrested and charged with the murder of Marilyn Gander.
A short time later, detectives also formally charged her friend, Annie Raelle.
So do you know why you're here today?
No.
Okay.
So the reason you're here today is I have an active arrest warrant for you for the murder
of Marilyn.
Okay? So at this point you're being charged with an open count of murder, conspiracy to commit
murder, tampering with evidence, and conspiracy to tamper with evidence.
Months later, and perhaps after learning the full extent of the potential consequences
they were facing, both Alyssa
and Annie decided to confess.
Though their respective stories didn't quite match up.
According to Alyssa, Annie was the primary aggressor and the one that set Marilyn's
murder into motion.
So Marilyn, you know, she's sitting in her car and then she comes, she was coming in
because she needed to use the restroom.
She's like, look at my mom, this is our house, can't we just stay here one more time in our
old beds?
And she said no.
And so he was crying and he left out the back door.
I stayed in my room.
And at that point,
I did hear Marilyn yell and I went out there
and Annie's on her back.
She's on the ground.
So Marilyn's on the ground and Annie's on top.
Marilyn's on the ground and Annie's on her back.
Oh, she has her knee on her back, okay.
I tied up her hands and legs
and I helped her put this bag over her head.
Do you remember what you did it with?
What you tied her up with?
Yeah, it was like phone cords and stuff like that.
Then there's other one that Annie gets, put it around her neck, and I hear it snap, but
I don't know if it's the cord.
I'm just like, I gotta go.
Alyssa explained that during an argument with Marilyn about the rent money and eviction,
Annie unexpectedly attacked her.
Then Alyssa and Annie beat, stabbed, and suffocated Marilyn to death.
After she was dead, they loaded her body into the back of Annie's truck and drove north
toward Rio Rancho
Alyssa admitted that after they stopped on a somewhat desolate back road
They unloaded a mattress and placed Marilyn's body on top of it
Then Alyssa poured gasoline on the body and lit it on fire. For detectives, Alyssa's version of events somewhat aligned with what they believed happened.
This is just my opinion.
I think that the argument sued over the rent or whatever and frustration started.
And it just happened.
It wasn't planned.
It wasn't planned. It wasn't intentional
something happened and whether it was Drake or whether it was
But whomever oh shit look what we just did it got out of control now we need to get rid of the body
The detectives believed that the murder was not planned and that it happened in a moment of desperation and anger.
A moment where you lose control of your emotions.
A moment where you're faced with the weight of the world
on your shoulders and you just snap
and do something really really really stupid
and now there's even more consequences facing you there's even more problems
ahead unless you eliminate what you just did unless you erase it unless you erase this person you've assaulted.
It can happen so very quickly and lives are changed forever.
It's an incredible story but it's too bad that it's all bullshit, according to Annie
that is.
You see, when Annie decided to confess, she revealed that the murder was, in fact, premeditated. She had brought it up before about killing Marilyn.
I still didn't think we were going to do it, like, and Marilyn was coming in.
Drake was like, can you just let us stay, look at my mom passing?
She was like, no.
Alyssa looked at me and Drake nodded and I looked at Drake and he started like walking behind
Marilyn and I got Marilyn from behind and took her down.
Eni explained that after she took Marilyn to the ground
Alyssa and her son Drake helped to tie Marilyn up.
Then they wrapped a plastic bag over Marilyn's
head, beat her with a baseball bat, and stabbed her to death. One major difference
in Alyssa's and Annie's stories involved Drake. According to Alyssa, Drake left the
house before the murder happened, but in Annie's version, Annie who, you know, probably doesn't give a shit
about Drake, Drake was the one that finished Marilyn off
by slitting her throat.
Like mother, like son, I guess.
The son doesn't fall far from the murderous mother tree
or something like that, I don't know.
Maybe that should be a shirt.
Anyway, ultimately the detectives determined that Annie's confession was a more accurate telling
of the events and that Alyssa was probably trying to protect her son from a murder conviction.
She was unsuccessful in that pursuit. After detectives finalized their investigation and handed things off to
prosecutors, Drake, Alyssa, and Annie all faced murder charges. All three of them
decided not to take their respective cases to trial and they all pled guilty.
Alyssa was sentenced to 30 years in prison, Drake got 26 and Annie was given a reduced
sentence of 12 for her willingness to cooperate.
You could say that justice has been served, but for Marilyn's friends and family, and
specifically for her brother, that justice comes as a small consolation.
Harry Ganderth continues to live with the tragic loss of his sister and the realization
that Marilyn's final moments alive must have been absolutely horrifying and incredibly
painful.
She was just a very kind person and she didn't deserve anything like this.
It's a useless thing that my sister was killed.
I mean, that was for no reason actually.
Marilyn Ganderth was so brutally murdered by these three people that she knew that she
was kind to, in many ways that they probably didn't deserve.
The mastermind behind that murder, if you can even call her that, was Marilyn's daughter-in-law,
Alyssa Bickett.
For most of her life, Alyssa was given a place to live for free.
Her husband and mother-in-law provided that for her.
But when the time came for Alyssa to provide for herself, she lashed out and decided to
do something truly horrific.
Alyssa felt entitled.
She felt that Marilyn owed her a home. When Marilyn refused to give
Alyssa what she wanted, Alyssa planned and carried out her murder. And perhaps,
worst of all, she made her own son kill his grandmother and now he's spending decades of his life behind bars.
Ironically, Alyssa was able to avoid paying rent and you and I are the beneficiary of that privilege.
Beneficiary or benefactor? What's the right word for that anyway Alyssa has a you
know respectable decent place to live now still for the rest of her life still
doesn't have to pay rent for the next 30 years she'll have a free roof over her
head she'll be given three square meals a, and she won't have to pay for any of it.
Though I doubt her accommodations are what she was hoping for.
Who knows? I mean, I hear prisons these days have free basic cable and even some restricted
internet access. Doesn't sound quite that bad compared to the 9 to 5 cubical life, if you ask me.
If Alyssa's fate tells us anything, gives us any sort of lesson whatsoever,
it proves that a sense of entitlement can be a very dangerous thing.
As much as we might not want to admit it, there is at least a
little bit of entitlement in all of us. So try and be sure to keep yours in check
and remember that nobody owes you anything. Not your mother-in-law, not some true crime podcast producer.
Nobody owes you a fucking thing.
So if you want something,
you're gonna have to do the work.
You're gonna have to go out there and
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