Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris - The Science Of Motivation: How To Make Habits That Actually Stick | T. Morgan Dixon and Dr. Gary Bennett
Episode Date: June 12, 2024How to overcome inertia and research-backed plans that actually work.Dr. Gary G. Bennett is Dean of the Trinity College of Arts & Sciences at Duke University. He is also a professor... of psychology & neuroscience, global health, medicine, and nursing, and is the founding director of the Duke Digital Health Science Center. He has authored nearly 200 scientific papers and is a past president of the Society of Behavioral Medicine.T. Morgan Dixon is the founder and CEO of Girl Trek, the largest health movement in America for Black women– with over one million members. Also check out Jeffrey Walker’s podcast, System Catalysts, where they did an episode on Morgan and Dr. Bennett.This is the latest episode of our Get Fit Sanely series. This is the third time we’ve done Get Fit Sanely, and in this go-round, we’ll be covering not only longevity but also ozempic, exercise, and the Buddhist case for laziness. Related Episodes:Get Fit Sanely PlaylistThe Dharma of Harriett Tubman | Spring Washam Sign up for Dan’s weekly newsletter hereFollow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTokTen Percent Happier online bookstoreSubscribe to our YouTube ChannelOur favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular EpisodesFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/dixon-bennettSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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I'm Dan Harris.
Hello, everybody.
How we doing?
Today, we're coming back to what is for many of us a diabolically difficult challenge, how to
overcome inertia and create habits that actually stick.
In other words, how to get motivated.
The good news is this is something that has been studied quite extensively and we've got
a world leading expert on the science of motivation on the show today,
alongside a fascinating and world changing innovator who has helped come up with a plan,
a program that has gotten hundreds of thousands of people off the couch and onto their feet.
We talk about the things that research suggests actually work.
When it comes to motivation, these include starting small, having social support,
finding your why, and
tracking slash celebrating your wins. Although on that last score, you want to do that without
getting obsessive. And my guests have some really good thoughts about that. Said guests
are Dr. Gary Bennett and T. Morgan Dixon. Dr. Gary G. Bennett is Dean of the Trinity
College of Arts and Sciences at Duke University. He's also a professor of psychology and neuroscience, global health, medicine, and
nursing, and is the founding director of the Duke Digital Health Science Center.
He's authored nearly 200 scientific papers and is a past president of the
Society of Behavioral Medicine.
T.
Morgan-Dixon is a leader of Girl Trek, which is the largest health movement in America
for black women with over a million members.
And her story, the group's story as well is fascinating.
Before we dive in, I just want to shout out the person who turned me on to both Morgan
and Gary.
That person's name is Jeffrey Walker.
He has his own podcast called System Catalysts,
where they did an episode,
a great episode on Morgan and Gary.
So we'll put a link to that show in the show notes.
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and the entire show.
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T Morgan Dixon and Dr. Gary Bennett, welcome to the show.
Thanks very much.
Thank you for having us.
It's a pleasure.
I'm excited.
Morgan, I think this may be a first or maybe a second, but I think you're joining us from
another continent.
I am.
I'm joining you from West Africa, the Republic of Ghana.
Nice.
And I'm in the city of Accra.
Well you get gold stars right from the jump here for all the extra effort I'm sure that
went into scheduling this and actually technically setting it up.
So thank you.
I'm going to start though with Dr. Bennett.
So Gary, I have been thinking about how to describe your expertise and I'm probably going
to screw this up, but looking at your work,
it really strikes me that you have specialized
in trying to get people, to get all of us,
to do the stuff that we know is good for us,
but that we don't otherwise want to do.
So one word that might be used to describe
what you look at is motivation.
Am I in the right ballpark?
You absolutely are. That's the key challenge in our work is trying to find ways to help
people to do the common sense behaviors that are extraordinarily impactful for our health
and longevity. So yeah, you've got it in one word, motivation.
So how did you become interested in motivation.
Well it starts with a result lab scientist in fact i studied how stress gets under the skin to affect.
Hey hypothalamic to a tree relaxes i was doing kinda nerdy work at the lab but i'm trained as a clinical psychologist and i was on a transplant team.
psychologist, and I was on a transplant team as part of my clinical training, and I kept encountering the same challenge patient after patient after patient.
So one of the psychologist roles on transplant team is if a patient needs to get listed for
transplant but has some behavioral challenges, they need to lose weight, they need to get
more active, they need to stop drinking, they need to stop smoking, then the psychologist
will engage them in some treatment
before they get listed.
And can you imagine like needing a heart transplant
or kidney transplant or a liver transplant
and still smoking or still drinking
or still not being active?
And what I found was that in patient after patient
after patient, at this moment in their lives,
when they should have the maximal amount of motivation
to make any behavior change,
it was extraordinarily challenging to get people
to stop drinking, get active, to lose weight,
and those kinds of things.
So it occurred to me that was the kind of challenge,
solving that challenge was more important
and potentially more impactful than doing a lab-based work.
And so that's how I got into this.
Why is this so hard for humans?
As you said, you're working with a population that needs a transplant to stay alive.
This is not theoretical.
But it's also true for the rest of us.
So why is this such an issue?
Because it's hard. It's really hard, right?
You know, the most important thing that we can do, in my view, and it's not even really my view,
the data I think very clearly shows that one of the most important things we can do
to protect our health and extend our longevity
is to get out and get active, to just move around.
30 minutes a day of moderate to vigorous activity
is the most important thing we can do for our health,
and yet there are so many barriers in our day-to-day lives
that make that challenging.
There are psychological barriers,
just exhaustion, pain, fatigue,
not sleeping well, stress, anxiety, all things incidentally that are improved when you're
active. But nevertheless, they get in the way of that decision to get up in the morning
and go for a walk. You know, just the challenges of our day to day lives and work stress and
in some places, safety impairments in the neighborhood, right? It's physically not safe to walk around, or it's physically difficult to walk around,
or we live in an area where there aren't sidewalks.
There's so many challenges that get in the way of the decision to be active.
I'm seeing a patient in my mind who was just absolutely extraordinary in her day-to-day
life.
She had two jobs, she had two kids, and we were talking about how to
establish a walking routine. And she said, look, you know, like, I work eight hours,
I go home and feed my kids, I put them to bed, I go out for my second shift, when am
I going to do this, right? I mean, there are so many challenges that get in the way. And
so sustaining motivation during that period in time and finding ways to be active amidst
some of those constraints are some of the challenges that get in the way.
And the last thing I'd say is that the amount of time that's necessary to experience the
health benefits can be kind of long, right?
It can be three, six, nine months before you start to really feel and see the kinds of
benefits that accrue with activity.
So it's not just getting off the couch and getting active today, but it's really finding
a path to maintaining that level of activity over the mid to long term.
And those are all real challenges for folks.
This strikes me as a real design flaw
in the human operating system.
Evolution was all about getting our DNA
into the next generation.
So we're really good at scanning the environment
for threats or food or mates.
So I know you answered the question,
why is this so hard for us? Because it's hard. But it is frustrating because if
evolution is all about survival, this seems like a big gap in the plan.
Yeah, I'd say humans have really complicated things pretty spectacularly,
right? So when we all lived in environments when it was easy to move
around and really necessary for us to move around
to achieve the goals for our day-to-day life.
It was getting activity was just secondary to existing.
And to now, we're sitting in offices like the three of us,
and this is where many, if not most of us spent our time.
Our leisure time is generally spent being sedentary.
We have rearranged the sort of context of human existence
to prize being sedentary or minimally active, right?
So it really does require us to think differently, to find ways to motivate ourselves, to find the kind of supports both in human terms
but also in contextual and kind of group-based terms that will help to lift us when we're having those kinds of challenges.
It requires the kind of really a coordinated engagement that will help to lift us when we're having those kinds of challenges. It requires the kind of really coordinated engagement
that will promote and sustain motivation
over a pretty long period of time.
Now, the challenge for us as scientists
is it's been really hard for scientists
to figure out how to do this well.
And one of the reasons I'm most excited about GirlTrek
is that in GirlTrek, I have found as a scientist
an intervention that works better than anything I've seen
in the scientific community,
because it does all of those things.
It gives folks motivation, gives them the support,
teaches them the skills in ways that feel familiar,
they feel affirming, and it works.
I love when an interviewee brings me
exactly where I was hoping to go.
So let's bring in Morgan.
Morgan, can you tell us the origin story of Girl Trek?
Okay, Dan.
Dan, don't ever put me behind Dr. Bennett ever again.
This is number one.
This is number one.
The only time I felt like this before
is when I had to go on stage after Bryan Stevenson.
I was just like, I threw up my notes.
I'm just gonna hang up now.
Yeah, yeah.
Girl Trek is, first of all, a movement
of a million black women who walk for better health
all across America and increasingly around the world
and are energized.
And once they become energized and active,
they become change makers in their lives
and their communities.
How did it start?
It started with me and my good old friend Vanessa
Trying to find the answer to what Gary is talking about
trying to find a way to move forward when we felt stuck and
I felt stuck by just looming pressure
To achieve in life. I was the first one in my family to go to college and when I was I don't know 21 22
I was working in investment banking and I was making more money than my dad and my mom
Probably combined when I was 22 years old
That exerts a tax on you that is untenable. It feels like you then are
Responsible at a very young age to then care for the people who have not
had the opportunities that you had.
So with that pressure, I joined the teaching core, Teach for America, and it didn't feel
like enough to be teaching those 35 beautiful children.
So then I started taking them hiking because they were deeply unhealthy because they too
were experiencing stress
at very young ages.
We started taking particularly the girls hiking
on Saturdays, and then we said,
yeah, this is not enough,
because when they go home, they're still unwell.
So we said, what if we got their moms to hike with us,
and better yet, what if we got a million of their moms
to hike with us, that everything would change?
So that was essentially the origin story.
So it started as a utilitarian kind of exercise in solution making for our own lives to save
our own lives.
And it is the reason why Girl Trek works, because we don't do it if it doesn't work
for us, for our national staff, for our hundreds of volunteers, for the crew leaders and thousands
of communities.
If it doesn't work for the leaders of the organization, it won't work for the million women we're
trying to move every day. I mean, I think that's an incredibly powerful insight.
You know, you are the customer, so you know what is going to work because you
test it out in the laboratory of your own life. Yeah, and Dan, I tell you, it's hard
to move 30 minutes every day. It is difficult and
it is a great privilege that we don't have to, you know, I'm calling in from Africa and
that's not a choice. If you want food, you have to go get it. It's like you got to go
get the food, you know, if your child needs something, you have to go do it. And there's
not this kind of doorstep like
delivery system where you can literally sit on Zoom all day and get fed. It doesn't exist
here. And so I agree with you, Gary. It is a complexity that humans have created seeking
ease, seeking ease. So, and it is not natural. Walking is the most natural thing we're supposed to do every day.
So we're just kind of getting back to normal
is what it feels like when I go for a walk every day.
It feels like getting back to normal.
I'd be curious to hear you say,
why do you think this has worked so well?
Dr. Bennett, why has it worked so well?
It's a good question for Dr. Bennett.
He's way smarter about these kinds of change theories.
I'll give my answer and I would love to hear yours, Carrie.
I think Girl Check has worked well because it has been co-designed by thousands of people
who have a shared interest.
And we started with a simple premise that was affordable, accessible, and scientifically proven.
That if you walk outside your front door just 15 minutes in any direction, turn around and come back to your house.
That 30-minute walk, if it were bottled into a miracle drug, would be one of the most effective pills you can take.
That's what the 18th U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Benjamin, who's on our board says.
If she could prescribe 30 minutes of walking every single day, it would reverse chronic
disease in significant ways, and it would prevent chronic disease in significant ways.
It was research-based.
It was affordable.
It was accessible.
And for us, there was a whole narrative that
also made it cultural, right? So we all grew up one generation from living in the South
where we walked everywhere. And so like the idea of walking and talking with our mothers
or walking and talking with our sisters or our neighbors was very culturally relevant.
And then when we talk about walking for change
in our communities, everyone from Harriet Tubman who walked on the Underground Railroad
to the women in the Montgomery bus boycotts, when black women have walked throughout history,
things have changed. And so you imagine this energized joyful army of a million black women
wearing these bright blue, superhero blue, we call it, Girl Trek shirts,
walking through some of the neighborhoods
that are most disproportionately impacted by injustice
with the notion that they are the change makers
we've been waiting for.
That feels powerful.
And so that narrative is also a point
of change making for us.
Yeah, let me bring you in, Dr. Bennett,
because I'm interested in finding
what are the active ingredients in GirlTrek
that we can all apply in our lives.
And what Morgan just described is one of at least
four active ingredients that I've identified as,
I know enough to be dangerous.
So like a semi-ignorant outsider,
and you'll educate me as we go here.
But one of the active ingredients seems like
connecting people to a larger cause,
framing personal health as a kind of community service.
Am I right about that?
Yes, and let me speak for just a second
as a pointy-headed behavioral scientist.
I mean, some people would argue
that I never speak in any other way.
Let's just say that I were at a scientific conference
and someone said, how is it that one should build and sustain motivation for behavior changes that are hard
and that require a long duration of time to experience some benefits. I would tell you
that across a large number of theories and many, many studies, what we find are most
important are people's setting clear, achievable goals,
knowing what you're going after, right?
Thirty minutes a day, going out for a walk with my walking group each and every day or
each once a week, like having a very clear goal.
Two is what we scientists call increasing autonomy.
That is to say that these things work better when people have more control over what it
is that they're doing and when they're involved in the designing of the intervention itself.
The third is that over time what you want to do is build confidence, what we call self-efficacy
or competence, in your ability to do the thing.
If you have a little extra weight and you're spin sitting on the couch
You get up and getting active hurts. It does not feel good at first, right?
So what you really need for motivation to build you should need to do this for long enough that you realize I can do this
Right that thing I would say social support absolutely critical having people in it with you who are similarly
Motivated to try to achieve the same kinds of goals. And you need regular feedback. You need to know how you're doing. You need to have people in your
corner saying you're doing a good job, great job, those kinds of things. So you
know you put all of that together. I mean that that's what those of us in the
scientific community think is necessary to build and sustain motivation. And
Morgan just told you how the GirlTrek checks every single one of those boxes.
They didn't start Girl Trek with that kind of scientific theory in mind.
But what I found when I first started working with Girl Trek was that, you know, as a scientist,
I was looking at what happens in some of the walking groups and I'm thinking, this is just
one of the finest implementations of a theory-based approach to physical activity that I've seen.
And that's for me is why it works.
Daniel, you're pointing to something that's really critically important, the idea of being
involved in something bigger than yourself and being led by historical and cultural examples
that feel deeply resonant.
I have to tell you, that is such an important component
of Girl Trick.
In the scientific community, we often say,
look, if you can make these kinds of experiences
feel personally relevant in a deep and authentic way,
then we know you can promote motivation
and it can also produce the long-term engagement
that's necessary to see health effects.
I just haven't seen anyone do it better.
When you invoke the notion of walking in the Montgomery boycotts,
or the notion of Harriet Tubman's experiences in her life walking people to freedom,
these are things that have a deep and abiding cultural relevance.
In my experience, watching walking groups, it just bypasses all those kinds of barriers,
speaks deeply to people, spiritually, I think, and helps them to be motivated to do the work.
I really want to go down these list of ingredients and talk a little bit more about why they're
so important and how we can tap into them.
Let me just stop on this issue we're on right now, which is the larger narrative being that if people can
attach to a meaning and purpose and a story, I mean, we know humans care deeply about stories
is one of the things that differentiate us from other species.
We've heard the pointy headed version of that, but let me just go back to Morgan for a second.
Can you talk a little bit about what it feels like and why you think it's so important to
have a sort of overlay of meaning on top of, you know, quote unquote, eating your vegetables?
Dan, I don't know one person who's not experiencing extreme overwhelm, like the second in America
and in the world.
The state of the world is overwhelming. And for me, every single time I lace up my sneakers,
I open my front door and I go out,
I take the first step out for a walk,
it is an act of absolute hopefulness.
It is a moving meditation that I believe
that things are getting better
and that I have some sense
of agency in my life in order to move myself toward my healthiest, my most fulfilled life.
It feels like an actual moving mantra toward that every single time I go for a walk.
So one of the things we did in Girl Trapped is we listened.
So after we hit a
million members, which was initially our mission, was to get a million women to walk in their
neighborhoods. We did that in 2020. And everyone said, okay, well, what happens when you get
a million women walking? What do you do next? And we said, well, we will ask them what we
do next. So we did. And we paused and we listened, and we tried to learn what was beneath,
what were the root causes of stuckness.
Because really what we're talking about is feeling stuck,
or like immobilized by fear, by overwhelm,
by confusion, by addiction,
whether it's addiction to your phone,
or addiction to substances, or television,
or whatever it is is or worthiness.
There's so many addictions that we're working full-time on.
Like how do we move from that stuckness to going forward?
We've created a framework called the three deadly eyes, the things that are really hurting people.
One is inactivity that we just aren't moving enough.
So we've talked a lot about that today.
The second one is isolation.
And this notion that loneliness is deadly, right?
And particularly as you age.
And then the third one is injustice, right?
That when you feel like you haven't been given a fair shake,
wherever you are in life, whoever you are,
it's hard to feel like you have the agency
to kind of fight back against that pressure of injustice.
And so to answer your question,
having a sense of agency and identity
that is connected toward broader change-making,
collective action, and includes physical activities
solves for all three of those things.
Pretty elegantly, it solves for all three of those things.
When I don't want to walk, which is a lot.
I have long four and five hours Zoom marathons,
and I have a headache sometimes.
When I don't want to walk,
I think about, but I told my crew member,
I was going to walk today, or oh my goodness,
I want to get a Warrior Week today, or this week, which means you walked for five times
this week, or 30 minutes a day.
And we have a roll call on Saturday where all these women dial into the same phone line.
We open up the lines, it's like this party line, old school, it's so much fun.
And I mean, women are calling in from around the world. It's unreal.
And I want to be able to say, I got a warrior week.
So I'm thinking about kind of the community that we've built.
But then I think about the women who walked before me
and how dare, how dare I get overwhelmed
by what's on the news?
How dare I get overwhelmed
by my particular financial situation right now? Or how dare I get overwhelmed by my particular financial situation right now?
Or how dare I get overwhelmed by these extra 15 pounds I put on?
And I just have a better sense of context and gratitude for where we are right now.
And that just is that extra push that gets me out of the door.
Coming up, Team Morgan Dixon and Dr. Gary Bennett talk about the three things to focus
on in order to overcome inertia, the two important questions to ask yourself in order to get
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Gary, there's so much in what you just said. I'm just kind of taking notes here. And again,
pardon me for my obsessive focus on honing in on what we're calling active ingredients
and then thinking about how people listening can operationalize them in their own lives.
But let me just stay with this larger story part,
because there's a lot of things you just referenced there
and you've referenced too,
the sort of accountability piece, the agency piece,
the sense of doing it for other people.
Let me just stay with this idea of the larger narrative.
If somebody listening to this is thinking,
I struggle too with exercise or meditation
or any of the trillion habits that Instagram is recommending for us.
How do I yoke this to some sort of larger narrative so that I, whose life circumstances may be less dramatic,
can actually get off the couch over inertia and do the thing?
I so appreciate you framing the question that way, because what you describe is a,
this is a challenge for all of us.
If I were to boil down that long list I just gave you
into a couple of really key pieces, I would say,
these are the three things to focus on.
The first are getting some skills.
So that is to say, thinking about how you can be active,
where you can be active in ways that really
comport with your own interests and your own life. For some people, and I think
most people, that should be walking. Doesn't have to be like Olympic-style
speed walking, but like a good brisk walk is perfectly helpful and there's lots of
good examples of how to start a walking regimen online. The second thing I would
say is support. So finding support from other people in your life,
from a walking group, maybe a meetup group,
those kinds of things, having other people
supporting you is critically important.
The third thing I would say is what we call
self-monitoring or tracking.
Being able to have some sense of how you're doing
so that you can continue to see steady progress
towards that goal.
You just heard a great example of this with Morgan
who's describing having a warrior week, right? Like towards that goal. You just heard a great example of this with Morgan, he's describing having a warrior week,
like hitting that goal.
The only way you get to hit the goal
is if you know how well you're doing.
So keeping track of something is really critical.
So support, skills, self-monitoring,
you do those three things and most of our data suggests
that those are really the kind of the crucial things to be able
to get moving or to make any other kind of health-related behavior change.
The challenge, of course, is that you have to do it for a little while.
And so it might require that you make changes over time.
And one of the things I love about what happens with GirlTrek is that the walking groups themselves
are their own organic, you know,
sort of social contexts in which people are responding to others' needs and they're making
changes in the goals and changes to the support and changes to the kinds of ways in which they're
walking over time to maximize the likelihood that everyone can be successful. It doesn't work all
the time for everyone, but it's moving directionally well. I think that's the key, the real advantage of
what you see in GirlTrek. And those principles will work, I think, largely irrespective of who you are and where you are and what you're trying to achieve.
I'm seeing shifts in your posture, Morgan. Does that mean you have something you want to say?
Yeah, I'm not very good at hiding it.
So much trouble in Sunday school for acting like that. It wasn't just you.
Yeah, you know, I was thinking about, so you know, Sunday school, I used to be a school
teacher and I taught history.
And one of the things I always taught is about these push and pull factors that all the great
migrations, whether it was kind of the Irish coming to America or whether I'll have these
kind of push and pull factors, right, or whether it was westward expansion or whatever it was.
And something had to be pushing you away from where you are. People want to just be still.
They want to just remain safe, right? Everyone wants to just be safe and just make it through
the day. That's just kind just how we are hardwired.
Well, I don't know, ask Dr. Benard if that's how we're hardwired, but whatever.
But throughout history, what has effectively moved large groups of people are push and pull factors.
So for Irish Americans,
it was the potato famine that pushed them out of Ireland.
What drew them was this narrative of American opportunity, particularly
in New York. So I created this kind of wave of immigration. And I think about that now,
what can't I accept in my life anymore? Right? Anymore, right this moment? What is the thing
that I can no longer accept? And it is a question that I just encourage our members to think about.
And then, what is my big why?
What is it that really energizes me every morning
because of my children?
Is it that I have a calling on my life?
Is it that I'm angry about the state of my commute?
What is it that is really pulling you out of bed?
And you need to think about both of those things.
And so the way that we frame that in Girl Trick,
that kind of big why, that rationale
for why you want to get out of bed
and this kind of this thing you can't accept
is what are you walking away from
and what are you walking toward?
And we encourage women to think about that
at least on a weekly basis this week.
What are you walking away from
and what are you walking toward?
And if you can name it with great precision, I promise you that strong rationale begins to rewire your motivation in
ways that are so, it's a stronger current that you can't talk yourself out of. It's just a stronger
current. So we're talking about energy here and how do we energize ourselves when
no one's looking. And part of that is thinking about what motivates you particularly. So
it is your own storytelling.
I think that's a huge point. It's kind of extrinsic versus intrinsic motivation from
an if you're motivated by achieving the abs of your favorite influencer,
that can probably get you off the couch a few times.
But given this kind of uncanny valley, this interregnum that Gary keeps talking about,
which is that you can start exercise or any other habit,
but it often takes a long time for the benefits to kick in,
it may not get you all the way to the promised land.
By the way, you know, I think we can raise lots of questions
whether the promised land, specifically as it pertains
to abs, is worth pursuing.
However, if you can tell yourself a different story,
which is what is it that I cannot accept in the world?
What was the second part of that, Morgan?
Yeah, yeah, what is my big why?
What's moving me forward? Yeah, so these related questions of what can I not accept and what's my big? Why well, that's a different
Well, that's a different kettle of fish. That's more kind of in your molecules intrinsic to you authentic to you organic
but let me come back to you on this Gary because I think
Morgan was able to find a very clear and compelling why.
But there are a lot of people who may not have that or may not see that so clearly.
And so I would like to hear from you whether there are techniques that you would recommend for helping us
figure out what we can no longer tolerate in the world and what is our intrinsic why.
I'll just say a little bit about how I've tried this.
I picked this up from Dr. Richard Davidson,
who's a neuroscientist at the University of Wisconsin,
who's been deeply influenced by Tibetan Buddhism.
And Richie talked about how everything he does
all day long, he tries to dedicate it
to the benefit of all beings everywhere.
In other words, his why is the rather grand and
unachievable alleviation of suffering for everyone everywhere. And that may sound
so big that it's hard to sink your teeth into, but his argument is if you just
kind of make this a habit, it is a pretty good motivator. And so I've tried to do
that with varying levels of success, like try to remind myself every time I exercise
I'm doing this for me because I feel better and less depressed if I exercise
but I'm also doing it so that I can be more effective in the world and
better able to
Alleviate suffering to the extent that I'm capable so that I just rambled for a while
But do you hear anything universal universally useful in any of that?
Yeah, so you had it before, just a moment ago,
when you talked about the importance
of intrinsic motivation.
We know very, very clearly that when people
are making behavior changes on the basis of drivers
that they find personally relevant,
personally meaningful, that it's a far better way
to both produce and sustain the behavior changes
that we're looking at.
The whole, like, you know, I'm looking at Instagram
and want to get my beach body ready for the summer thing.
Neither is being responsive to often other people
in your lives who say,
hey, I think you need to lose a few pounds,
or hey, have you ever thought about walking,
you know, a bit more free of health?
Those kinds of extrinsic or kind of outside of your person motivators are often can work
for a little while, but not long term.
So I really appreciate your example, Dan.
And I have to tell you, like, as a scientist who's been studying this for 25 years, I have
become very accepting of a kind of a core thesis, like a core fact in my personal life
around this, which is like, I am like, I hate to exercise. I can't stand to diet. Like it is hard personally. Most
every patient I've ever worked with has been more like me than other scientists I encountered
in the sense that like I really am not motivated. I don't experience a runner's high. Like I
don't, I've tried every diet and I don't, I can't stick with them for more than three
or four weeks. I don't sleep particularly well all the time.
And so for me, I just, I can't think of the kind of higher order benefits. Like I have
to think very simply in order for me to find the kind of internal motivation. So that is
to say like, for me, it might be today, I need to, I've had a stressful day at work, and I have to accept that when I
walk, I actually feel better about the stress in my life.
It's momentary.
It doesn't last for a long time, but it does help me to manage that stress.
Or, if I'm trying to, I've had a long day and I want to sleep better tonight, I know
that probably one of the best things for me to do is take a 20 or 30 minute walk in the
evening. And that is a great way to help me to sleep better at night.
And so I'm looking for those intrinsic motivators, the what am I walking away from, the stress,
the anxiety, worry, those kinds of things.
And what am I walking towards in Morgan's language would be like a better night's sleep,
more solace, more time to be present,
cognitively with my friends and family,
those kinds of things.
I tend to think about these things in a very micro level.
The good thing about the science on this
is that whatever is intrinsically motivating will work.
It can be kind of higher order notions
of wanting to do things in the service of humanity.
It can be, I just want to be sure
that I can walk up these stairs.
Like my most frequent personal intrinsic motivator service of humanity, it can be, I just want to be sure that I can walk up these stairs.
My most frequent personal intrinsic motivator for strength training is that my daughter,
who is 10, loves to ride on my back up the stairs when she's going to bed in the evening.
I don't ever want a world in which I can't get that done.
I don't know how long this is going to last.
It may get weird if she's 13 or 14 and still wants to do it, but for right now while she's
10, if she wants to do it, I want to be able to do it without huffing and puffing
when I get to the top of the stairs.
It's tiny, it's micro, but it really is meaningful to me.
And so that would be my suggestion,
is find these creative framework.
The framework that Morgan offered is terrific.
What am I walking away from?
What am I walking towards?
And fill it with something that you find really
personally meaningful.
Yeah.
When I'm doing high intensity workout,
I'm on a bike or
doing a high intensity interval training on an elliptical or any in a pool wherever, I try to
think of my son who's nine and like I'm not doing this just for me. You know, I want to be around
for this. I'm an older dad. I want to be around for this kid and that is it's very useful. My walking,
what am I walking toward is very similar to yours, right? My father died when
he was 68 and, and I'm an older-ish dad and he just wasn't there for, to see these beautiful
children grow. And I would love to be there for my kids in that way. And not only be there,
but be there and be active and vibrant and healthy and energetic in the ways that I think
they might enjoy.
I think whatever you can find in your personal life
that brings you just that little bit of a spark,
that little bit of a jolt that's necessary
to get off the couch and get out and get moving.
I think the science shows,
we can make this more complicated, but it's not.
It's finding those things that are really personally meaningful.
Yeah, all of this is reminding me
of one of the things at GirlTrek that we say is like, rather than what do you want to do, who do you want to be? Because identity is
the stronger driver than behavior, right? And so, you know, I want to be a good parent. I want to be
an active neighbor. I want to be a good American. I want to be energized and all the things that
Gary just said. And having an identity around it.
Sometimes we call it lifestyle activism,
what we're doing with Girl Track,
because we're not walking enthusiasts necessarily.
We didn't set out like, we didn't go to college,
the College of Walking.
It is just the kind of minimum viable product
of how we can be the people we want to be,
which are energized citizens
and leaders of our communities and families and leaders of self, right? And
so I think a good question for listeners is like who do you want to be and like
what is the most direct pathway to that?
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Yeah, if I could pick up one thread of what Morgan mentioned earlier that I think is critical.
She mentioned one of the I's as isolation And isolation and loneliness and social disconnectedness
is exerting a really pernicious set of effects
on so many of us.
Current Surgeon General has talked a lot about this
and is reinforcing something we've been able to see
in scientific literature for a long, long time.
Loneliness and social isolation are killers of Americans
and folks in other populations.
One of the things that I have always loved about Girl Trek is the fact that women walk
in groups and these groups are defined not by age or ability, but by the fact that they
have on blue shirts and they want to walk together.
It is a movement of motivated people who are walking in community and by extension
they're self-reinforcing one another in ways that are really
health-affirming. And so, you know, one of the other things I hope listeners will
take away is we talked about Girl Trick and I think you might imagine more
organization like that you'd find in a gym or something like that. It's not that.
It's a group of people who've made a decision to walk together. Those groups can change from week to week and have different members and go to
different places. And you can replicate some of that same effect in your own life by finding
people to engage with in your own spaces in walking or whatever kind of health behavior change you
hope to be taking on.
But what we know very clearly is that people who experience that support do much better,
feel much better, and are more likely to achieve their goals.
It's an absolutely crucial part of their program.
Morgan, is there a catch-22 here?
Because we're talking about the importance of community or social support when it comes
to motivation and habit
formation from what I can tell is a ton of data around this.
We're also talking about the fact that we're in a loneliness epidemic and people are isolated
and that's, as Dr. Bennett said, you know, pernicious impacts on our health and on our
politics and many other aspects of being alive right now.
So if you're isolated and lonely, how do you find a community?
Yeah, well walking out in your neighborhood. It's a great start Dan. It's a great start
Every time I walk out I meet new people all around me
It's part of why we're so isolated is because we're in these little boxes of homes
Cities aren't built quite the way they used to be and so we don't have proximity to one another So part of it is getting outside so that you can say hi neighbor
We have something called the Trek code and girl trek and one of them is single file and smile
So like it's so fun
You'll have this big like raucous group of women walking down the street talking and laughing and then a neighbor will come by and we'll
All collapse in a line and we'll all wave at her and greet her and say hey good morning
Good morning, and it's such a beautiful sight to behold.
We are constantly building community as we get
outside and make the effort to be connected to a larger world.
Then I will say for listeners,
many of them may know the name Harriet Tubman,
but many of them may not.
In Cliff Notes, Harriet Tubman was
a great freedom fighter in America, and she was born
into slavery.
And as a young woman, decided that she wanted to walk away from the institution of slavery
and to escape into freedom.
And so she walked across what was in the Mason-Dixon line into freedom.
But when she first wanted to walk away, she was going to go with her two brothers.
And one of her brother had just had a baby and he didn't want to go.
He wanted to be a responsible father.
He couldn't take his baby.
The other brother just got pulled to feet and she went alone her first time.
And it was terrifying.
And then she went through the woods.
Actually, our whole national team retraced her steps.
So it was 100 miles on the Underground Railroad a few years back.
And it was harrowing and
she went by herself, but when she found the way, then she came back and got her family
and took them. And when she got her family free, she came back and got her neighbors
and when she got her neighbors free. And along the way, she had all of these allies, right?
People who were helped, people of all races, all gender, all like states of freedom, some
free, some enslaved were helping her along the way. And then she found a home in upstate New York.
She was the first black woman to buy a home in the state of New York with the help of
Governor Seward at the time. And she lived a joyful life into her nineties. She planted
apple trees, she got married again, all these wonderful things. And so we've used her life
to frame out what we call the Tubman Doctrine.
Number one, walk in the direction of your healthiest, most fulfilled life now.
Don't wait for anyone.
Go at it alone.
Right?
Find that kind of intrinsic motivation that you need.
Find the identity that you have that makes you want to get up and go toward your best
life.
Right?
So that's step one of the Tubman Doctrine, go alone.
When you find the way, come back and get a sister
is number two.
So there's a service charge right here
that somebody said, service is the rent we pay on the earth.
Shirley Chisholm said that great quote,
come back and get a sister.
And that is like, if you have a friend now,
and you may be that friend who is just struggling
with all this whole conversation, and they're like, look, I just went through a divorce.
I'm like not feeling well.
I had this diagnosis or like my kids are just acting just bizarre.
Whatever it is that you're going through in your life, you may not be able to source the
motivation, but I guarantee someone around you is in a place where they can make forward momentum
and my charge is to the friend around you to come back and get your friend.
Because we all need help at some point.
So that is a charge for Girl Trek.
For the energized women who are out in the streets of their neighborhoods every single
day, that's not enough.
Go back and get your cousin.
The cousin who you just hardly can't stand because she has such a bad attitude.
Go get your cousin and go for a walk with her, right? And it is amazing the kind of
testimonials that we're hearing where just you never regret getting outside and being
in the sun and going for a walk. You never ever regret it. And the kinds of transformations
that are happening individually, in friend groups, in families,
in communities are just awe-inspiring. And last but not least is like think about the people who
have your back. Like Harriet Tubman we call the Parallelized. Think about the people who have your
back and who can hold you accountable that you got to be at this place at this time and schedule
appointments with them. And then the last piece we've talked about a lot is make it joyful, make it practical,
make it functional and sustainable.
So sometimes I schedule walking meetings,
sometimes I schedule walking dates
with very good looking humans.
Sometimes I schedule all sorts of things
because it also has to be fun.
Well, let me just kind of,
I hate this term and I'm saying it anyway,
double click on something Morgan said, Gary. And you've said this too, but I feel like it
might be worth just kind of dwelling on it for a second. It seems like starting
small, making it doable and achievable is a really important theme here and when
it comes to motivation. Can you just say a little bit more about that from the
from the research, from the pointy-headed side?
Sure. We know that goal setting, it's been a lot, there's been hundreds and hundreds
of studies on goal setting. They mostly suggest this. Do something you can actually, set a
goal that you can actually achieve. And so if you are sedentary and the goal is to become routinely active, like active five days a week,
walk in 30 minutes a day, then an achievable goal is not joining a gym.
An achievable goal is not to decide that you want to run a half marathon. An achievable goal is generally not to run a 5K in the next
six weeks. An achievable goal is getting out of the house, taking a walk of any length every day
this week. That would be the kind of starting small that we're talking about. And once you hit
that for a week, then progressively increasing that, you know, progressively increasing that goal.
So maybe in the second or third week, you decide I'm going to walk every single
day for 15 minutes and then 20 minutes and then 30 weeks, and it's up to a point
at which you were able to do that 5k or the 10k or the half marathon.
And one of the real traps that we get into as humans is out of a spirit of real,
you know, often ambition and a real drive
is just setting those goals so high, so intensely,
that they just set the stage for us
not to meet our own expectations.
And then that becomes itself becomes negatively
or reinforcing.
When we say we want to do this thing, we can't achieve it.
It becomes its own barrier to our motivation.
So the far better approach is to set a small goal,
make it simple and straightforward,
and then just progressively increase that over time.
Again, it's not rocket science, but it does work.
And if you come out of the gates too strong,
then that can be a real challenge for your behavior change.
Yeah, I like to knit together those small goals
and reward myself with something great at the end as well.
Like if I do that all month,
if I walk five days a week,
30 minutes a day and I do it all month,
then I'm definitely going to go camping.
I'm going to go camping next week, or I mean next month.
So I think I like to do that too.
And then I like to tell myself catastrophic stories of what I don't do.
And I know this is not the science,
but I'm just telling you.
There is a whole app at one point that was like,
think of the organization that you would never donate to,
that you like really despise,
and we're gonna put your credit card here,
and if you don't exercise,
we're gonna give to that organization.
I was like, that's a genius.
That's a genius, I don't want to do that.
So I think all of what we talked about is really exciting
And then there's this video on YouTube called 23 and a half hours
It's all that has millions of views and it basically says if you could reduce all of your sitting
To 23 and a half hours and just move for half hour a day like so many things in your health profile would change for the better
So basically if you can walk 30 minutes a day
your health profile would change for the better. So basically if you can walk 30 minutes a day.
So that was confirmed by like the CDC and everybody's smart.
And so when Vanessa and I started GirlTrek,
we were like, okay, what is the least amount we can do
to like have like all of the benefit?
Because like we're busy, we like are not motivated.
And so like, what are the things that we can do?
And everyone was united that, you know,
just get 30 minutes of moderate exercise at least every day. And it is a good start. Well, what we found is
even 30 minutes felt hard for some people. And we have women who are walking with Girl
Trek from over 40 countries. And there was an ambassador in US foreign aid who texted
me one time and
she said, you said one thing on your podcast, Morgan, that did it for me. She said, you
just said walk out 15 minutes and then turn around and come back. And she said, the fact
that you broke it into 15 minute chunks for me really helped because I'm so busy. And
there was a block in my mind of trying to find 30 minutes in the day. And I know that
once I get out there for 30 minutes, I'm going to want to try to get two
miles or three miles, but just walking 15 minutes in one direction, pivoting and coming
back, that framing for me gave me permission to make it small.
And so listen, I couldn't agree with you more, Gary, that like it has to be bite sized.
It has to be repeatable.
And then I would argue that it has to have other kind of cascading benefits, that it's
not just about losing weight or not just about putting a story up on social media or whatever,
but that it has some other benefits.
And for me, walking has the benefit of vitamin D. Like I get deeply depressed, like seasonal
affective disorder when I don't get outside, I get really depressed.
So it has this kind of benefit of fresh air and sunshine.
It has this benefit of me getting out of my office
and meeting my neighbors,
which is an identity that I want.
I want to be a good neighbor.
So it has all these other kinds of benefits
that are helpful to me.
It is striking to me, and I think as a a scientist that so many of the health conditions that
concern us, depression, hypertension, diabetes, fatigue, all of these things, it's not just
that they can be positively impacted by physical activity.
It's that in many cases, and depression is a terrific one, exercise works better than other kinds
of treatments, more reliably, more durably.
And so, you know, I so appreciate what Morgan is saying and the real tangible benefits for
just sleep and energy regulation and just mobility and again for mental health and this
other thing that Morgan's talking about, which is social connectedness,
is these effects are profound
and they're discernible in a pretty short amount of time.
So earlier, you know what I've been saying is like,
you know, it'll take some time
for the health benefits to accrue.
That is true for things like hypertension
and you know, in lipids and these kinds of health markers.
But you can have real benefits very quickly
for things like energy for sleep
and just getting to know the people in your community that will help you to be a
more connected, less isolated person.
Those all seem to me to be like really good motivators for most people.
Morgan was saying before that she didn't think it was scientific, this idea of
negative motivation, but I think we've had guests on this show.
I've done so many interviews here that it's hard for me to remember everything chapter
and verse, but I believe we've had guests who've said that actually there are like apps
you can go to where if you don't do the thing you said you were going to do, you have to
send 50 bucks to some cause or candidate you detest.
And that actually there's some science behind this. I'd say like the debate in our field really concerns whether or not that kind of reinforcement
can continue to promote health benefits over the long term.
So what we know is that kind of effect works pretty good in the short term, say three months.
Whether or not it can continue working at month six and month nine and month 12 as you're
progressively increasing
You know your behavior change efforts or your exercise routine or whatever you're doing
Like that's still very hotly debated in our field Dan, you know, he can't sustain you. You know, he can't sustain you
Oh, there you go. Thank you
And that's what you're getting out before around the promised land
The other thing is for all of my Christian listeners out there
or Buddhist listeners or religious or spiritualist
or whatever, I never felt closer to God when I get outside
and I get close to nature and I get
to smile at my elders who are in my community.
I just feel alive and I feel radically connected
to all that is love and all
that is life. And so no, hate can't sustain, only love can. And it's one of
the things we just really practice and promote. Our number one core value
in GirlTrek is radical welcome, which means that everyone is welcome. And we
target our programs to those who need it most because we are loving and everyone is welcome.
So to just to double click on your research that you can't sustain hate, you just can't sustain,
you have to walk toward like what lights you up. You really do. Well said. I just have one last
question for each of you. Dr. Bennett, one of the things
you referenced earlier that can help us with our motivation is tracking, you know, getting
progress reports, celebrating milestones. And I know GirlTrek is really good at this.
But it feels like there's a pitfall here, which is obsession or orthorexia, which is
a term I've learned recently, but it but like an unhealthy obsession with getting healthy.
So yeah I mean I like that my watch tells me how many steps I've taken I don't like the self laceration I can get into around not having achieved the goal whatever that is so any thoughts from you on how to walk that line and Morgan of course I'd be interested in your views as well.
And of course, I'd be interested in your views as well. Yeah, I normally suggest to our patients
and in our treatments that you pick something that works,
that speaks to you, and something
that you can stick with.
So for some people, it might be an app or a device
or a wearable of some sort.
I think the orthorexia concern is not much of a concern
for most people.
Actually, the opposite is, which is
that you can spend a lot of time in money investing
in technologies and then stop wearing them pretty quickly
if they're not things that really speak to you
and your particular,
the ways in which you tend to consume information.
I'll tell you, the patient who I've had
who was most effective in tracking her own data over time,
simply went out and bought one of those old day planners.
And at every day, if she hit her goal, she put a smiley face.
And if she didn't hit her goal, she put a sad face.
And she was probably the most successful tracker I've ever worked with.
It doesn't have to be sophisticated, but it needs to be some way for you to track how you're doing
and for you to be able to provide that data back to yourself.
Like what we know about self-monitoring or tracking is that it's a way for you to be able to provide that data back to yourself. What we know about self-monitoring or tracking is that it's a way for you to be able to learn
from your own data.
Whatever speaks to you, whatever works, is the way to go.
I weigh myself every day, not because I care very much about the number on the scale, but
because it's something I can do every single day and keep track of.
I've learned over time not to become obsessive about it or not to overreact to
end 10 of the number on any particular day.
But I can't miss that scale when I walk into the bathroom in the morning.
And that's a pretty good way for me to make sure that I continue to track.
So again, I would say whatever tracking modality works is, can be very helpful.
Thank you for that, Gary.
I'm horrible at tracking.
And in fact, Girl Truck is creating a mobile app because just now, after a decade, because
I've never been invested in tracking anything, but it works as per Dr. Gary's recommendation.
And so we're creating an app.
But what I've been a proponent of all these years is auditing your energy and figuring
out at the end of the day, do I feel good?
And if I feel good, figuring out what I did today that made me feel good and repeating
those behaviors.
And so like almost a microcosm of what you're talking about, Gary, is just really being
aware and truly grateful for when you feel great.
And so someone said this earlier, when you go out for a walk, you just feel good.
You're just out there and you're just feeling good.
And so paying attention to that feel good
has been really important to so many walkers
in our movement and trying to repeat
and stack that feel good.
It is in many ways a gratitude practice
of thinking about, oh my God, I feel great and I am grateful for that.
Let me pay respect to that good feeling right now by
attention to it and then just doing that as much as possible.
That has been a mental discipline and fortitude
and mindset that I've tried to cultivate in my own life.
That's been very helpful.
Contrary, when I feel terrible,
it's because I skipped three days and I have not moved through my chest. And I'm like, oh,
pay attention to that as well.
At the risk of going down the nerdy rabbit hole on this one, I'll just say that there's
a pretty big debate in scientific community as we have had this proliferation of devices
that make it easier for us to track. There are some devices that will do all the tracking for us
and then give us a little feedback at the end of the day,
you don't have to do anything.
And then there's some approaches to tracking
that require more effort on the part of us,
or of us to sort of write down how we're doing,
or to take a look at the end of the day
at what our data suggests,
and then extrapolate some meaning from it.
And many of us believe that having some skin in the game, having some involvement, having
doing some work in your tracking is a far better way to experience the cognitive benefits
of self-tracking, which are the ability to look at your own data and to create meaning
out of them for you.
If you rely on a device to do that entirely, it may miss the mark. It may not speak
to you and give you the kind of data that you need to be able to discern what in the day was the
strategy that you used to overcome that barrier, what gave you the motivation in the afternoon to
be able to get up and take that walk after, well, as you were feeling a little tired, right? Like,
that actually being, having some involvement in the process is really critically important.
So I always tell our patients, it would be better for you in my estimation to, at the
end of the day, say to yourself, did I meet the goal of hitting my 30 minutes a day of
activity?
Yes or no?
That's as an effective tracking mechanism as is having a device measured for you.
If you actually pick up the pen, think about the answer to the question, write down your
yes or no, and then really think over the course of the day, what worked for me, how did I
feel, how am I going to replicate the success on the next day.
So again, it doesn't need to be overly complicated or overly expensive, but something that will
activate your involvement in the process, I think, is the most successful approach here.
Look at that.
I've been tracking data all this time, Gary.
Look at that. That's great.
That's great.
Thank you for having us, Dan.
My pleasure.
Before I let you go, can you just, I'll start with you, Morgan, can you just give people, if they want to learn more about your organization, where can they go to do that?
Sure.
GirlTrek is an awesome organization of a million women who walk in their neighborhoods for better health all across America. You can learn more at girltrek.org. We actually just got
off of social media. So I used to say all those social media handles, but we decided
we wanted to meet in the streets instead. So meet us in the streets. Go to our
website. Our app is coming soon to the app store near you. It will be called Girl
Trek Underground where you can have a million black women cheering for you
as you walk toward your healthiest, most fulfilled life.
And Gary, what about you?
Do you have a website or anything else
you've put out in the universe
that people wanna follow you?
I'm at Dr. Gary Bennett on all social channels
until I get smart, like the Girl Trek team and get off.
But I strongly suggest before you come to my site,
go to Girl Treks.
They're just absolutely terrific organization doing great work in the world.
Yeah, what you're doing is incredible, both of you, but in particular what Girl Check
has achieved.
So it's such a pleasure to talk to both of you.
And yeah, thank you for your work and thank you for your time today.
Thanks, Dan.
Thank you, Dan.
Thanks again to Morgan and Gary.
And also want to thank yet again, Jeffrey Walker.
Go check out his show, System Catalysts, where he did a great episode on Morgan and Gary
and they do lots of great episodes on all sorts of people who are having massive impacts
on the world.
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