The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - #1858 Rational Uncertitude

Episode Date: April 26, 2024

Adam wraps up the week looking for his sunglasses, they discuss the benefits of walking and resistance training, then Dr. Drew explain the pain in sex for menopausal women. Plus, the open house fiasco..., and Santino gets a new car! Leave us a voice mail: https://wwxw.SpeakPipe.com/AdamandDrDrew

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Starting point is 00:00:52 Recorded live at Corolla one studios with Adam Corolla and board certified physician and addiction medicine specialist, Dr. Drew Pinsky. You're listening to the Adam and Dr. Drew show. Yeah, get it on, got to get on it. Dr. Drew's for certified. That's good. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It's fucking weird. What's that? I'm just, I sit around and kind of... Marvel? Yeah, I was talking
Starting point is 00:01:29 about on my show, I didn't tell you but it made me laugh. There was a house for sale on the top of my street in Malibu and a couple, there's a couple things. It's like there's a whole bunch of stuff, Drew. It's a bunch of stuff. Yeah. First off, a couple things. It's like there's a whole bunch of stuff. It's a bunch of stuff. First off, a couple days before there was a sign down at the bottom of the hill that said, open house today. And I went, I said, oh, open house today. It was like Saturday.
Starting point is 00:02:00 So I went, oh, and it was like 1230, one o'clock., I'm gonna go up there and check that house out and see what they want for it Go up to the house knock on the door. Nothing. That's another Other go back home Look it up online. Okay. I thought there was an open house today. Yeah open house today The house is for rent. So, okay, couple things. You gotta sign, you know what I mean? So open house kinda means for sale, to me, to me. 100%. To me, 100%.
Starting point is 00:02:33 For rent means for rent. Yeah, yeah, so it says open house, right? And then it says open house, two to five. And it's like, well, I went up there at 115 on a Saturday, but it seems like you coulda put that, you coulda put two to five on And it's like, well, I went up there at 115 on a Saturday, but it seems like you could have put that – you could have put two to five on the sign. You put a sign out at 10 in the morning or 9 in the morning because passerbys are going to want to go, oh, let's pull off and check it out, you know, but except for you open
Starting point is 00:02:59 at two. At two. So everyone who goes up to the house, like me at 115 and knocks on the door, you don't answer because it's two. But you don't put two on the sign, which is weird. Okay. So then I go. So the next day, I see another house for sale up there. Put the sandwich board out in front, out by PCH. Oh, you know, put the sandwich board out in front, you know, out by PCH. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:26 Oh, that house. I go, huh, that's on my street. I want to see what that house looks like. So I go, I go up there and I go in and there's a Malibu realtor. Oh boy. And in his blonde attractive cohort. And I go in there and I walk in the house, we're just alone, nice guy. And I go, oh, oh, this house. I looked at this house. It's so weird.
Starting point is 00:03:54 Okay, so there's a bunch of things. I walk up and down my street when I'm in Malibu. And every time I walk up and down my street, I go, that house was for sale, that house was for sale. I looked at that house, I looked at the house next door, I looked at the house above it. When I bought my condo in Malibu, there were nine houses on this hill that were all for sale. Interesting. All of them. I mean, I literally – I walk and I don't go 10 feet without going, I looked
Starting point is 00:04:22 in that house, I looked in that house. I literally looked in the house next door and the house next door to that, all for sale. So, and it's been vexing me because there's nothing for sale up there now. It's rare, it's rare. So I wonder out loud a lot, like why it was COVID, but every third house was for sale and now nothing's for sale.
Starting point is 00:04:45 Did you ask the realtor? Yes. Yeah. Said that's just the way it is. You're gonna go, okay, I don't, why, can you have a field of, can people have a field of expertise? You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:04:56 He just goes, that's the way it is. Wouldn't you guys even say something about rates or something or? No, I just said that's the way it is. Nothing, that had nothing to do with anything. I'm like, it's impossible that it has nothing to do with anything because every third house was for sale and now there's no inventory.
Starting point is 00:05:09 Did you argue with him? No, but I did argue with him about something else. Uh-oh. I go, oh. For sale, the open house side. No, different house. I go, oh, I go, I've been in this house. I remember when I looked at this house,
Starting point is 00:05:25 I looked at this house, I've been in this house. I remember when I looked at this house, I looked at this house, I've been in this house because it was for sale. And I looked at it right before I bought my place down the street. So that would have been, you know, middle end of 2020. I mean, right in the middle of COVID, I guess, everyone was selling their houses. And then he goes, oh, we sold this place before COVID, 2019. I said, you did, huh? He goes, yeah. Then
Starting point is 00:05:53 his partner, that's the part I like. I like when somebody jumps in and backs them up. Oh. Then the chick goes, yeah, yeah, pre-COVID, 2019. I go, well, that is so weird because I didn't start looking in Malibu or anywhere up here until we were in the middle of COVID and my daughter said to me, hey, we got to get out of house. We got to rent a house in Malibu or look for a house in Malibu, you know? Remember? Like I did with my dad back in the day.
Starting point is 00:06:22 Yes, same thing. Your dad ran out to Look for a house. He was in the car honking the horn, going, yeah, maybe there's a place open next to Johnny Carson's place in the colonies, son. Let's go. So my daughter in the middle of COVID said, she was going to stir crazy. I don't know. She wanted to get, her impulse was we gotta go rent the beach out. She likes the beach, you know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:06:49 I said, okay. So I'm standing in this house and I say to the guy, I didn't start looking until like sort of mid 2020, until mid, I don't know, May 2020. So, but I looked at this house. So did it sell again? Or something? Or did it say or something?
Starting point is 00:07:08 Who knows? Okay, anyway, you're trying to figure it out. And he goes, no, pre-COVID 2019. I sold it. And he points at himself. I sold this house 2019. And you didn't sell it again. And nothing again.
Starting point is 00:07:25 No open house a year later or something like that. And he goes, nope. Well, this is really vexing now because I was in this house and I looked at this house and it was for sale and I remember the price and that was 2020. This is what gas lighting's all about. And he looks at his partner again,
Starting point is 00:07:43 the partner's like, no, 2019. I'm like, well, now we're in a weird place because I'm always right, but you sold this place. Who better than you? Did you say that out loud? No, I'm thinking, and your partner's backing you up on this, right? And then at some point he gets his phone out
Starting point is 00:08:02 to presumably prove himself right right and then he goes, oh yeah, August 2020. I was like, yep, that's exactly when I would have been here. And he goes, okay. And I thought, first off, why do we have to do that? You know, the dance. I do it with everyone all day, every day. Like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:08:24 Just go, let me look it up. Maybe you need to walk out in like a suit or something and see if people treat you differently day every day. Like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, tumor, because I've been in this house and I looked at this house and it was right in the middle of COVID because there was all the retarded COVID protocols. You'd have to come in and the realtor would go, take your shoes off, put a mask on. We can only show
Starting point is 00:08:53 it in these hours. We're not allowed to have more than two people in here at once. You got to, you do, you ring the doorbell and then what he'll do is he'll unlock the door and then he'll stand back from the door and then you open the door. but you have to have your mask on and you have to put these booties over your shoes so we don't spread the virus, you know what I mean? It was all COVID protocol and I've never looked in Malibu before COVID. So no, it's impossible that I was in this house in 2019 and I looked at it. One of the extraordinary sort of remnants of the COVID protocol.
Starting point is 00:09:26 But you sold it and you've told me that four times now. Yeah. And you said, I sold this house and it was 2019. Weird. Why? Well this is irrational. They have no qualms about digging in to being incorrect but all day, every day, everywhere you go.
Starting point is 00:09:43 Wasn't that COVID? Wasn't that COVID all about? Yes, that's all COVID was. Irrational certitude. Yes. Irrational certitude. Everyone should have rational uncertitude. They should all be like, I don't know, maybe, I think so, or catch themselves at least.
Starting point is 00:09:57 But it makes me flash back to something Fauci said, he goes, hey, these protocols, we're going to need them forever. No more hands. I'll never shake hands again. Remember that? Yeah. Oh my God. Think about that. Think about that MF'er. He's such a fucking evil vessel, that guy. But saying that, that sort of to me is like a remnant of, oh, that's gross. Yeah. And then there are people still affected by that going, we're still the enlightened ones. We know this horrible things happening We're gonna wear our masks forever Yeah, oh boy. Yeah, so
Starting point is 00:10:32 At least I got the sense Whatever. Well, do you have satisfaction when you're proven right or is it just more frustrating? No, what it what it is is I I Say to myself I'm constantly assuming, I went out to dinner last night. I left for dinner at 6 p.m. I walked out of the house with my sunglasses on because it was pretty light at 6 a.m. 6 p.m. I always stop and go, you know, there's a there's there's a possibility the time you lose your sunglasses
Starting point is 00:11:16 is when you head in and it's light outside and you head out and it's dark because you don't reach for your sunglasses, right? So I knew you're opening yourself up to losing your sunglasses because you're wearing them into a place where, okay. But you're not supposed to have them. Right, and then, so I'm always, I will set them on the table next to my keys or something like that.
Starting point is 00:11:41 Yes, like you do here. Right, right, and then, but whatever it is, I woke up this morning and I went, Oh, where are my sunglasses? And I looked like on the couple of places and I was like, Oh shit, did I forget? And I started questioning myself immediately, you know, like, Oh, you left your sunglasses at the restaurant, you idiot, you idiot, you did it, you know, you said you wouldn't do it, but you did it, you know? And I was like, yeah, but I thought about it so much. I really left it at the, well, you got caught up in the conversation, had a martini,
Starting point is 00:12:10 you forgot your sunglasses, and that's what happened. And then I walked out and they were just right over here. But the point is that I'm constantly questioning. Did I do this? Did I say that? Did I do that? Did I leave this? Did I do this?
Starting point is 00:12:23 So nobody else has any questions of themselves. They're 100%. They're like, somebody stole my sunglasses from inside the house after I went to bed because I went to bed. And then you go, do you think someone broke into the house, stole your sunglasses, and left it in the more likely you left them at the restaurant? No, I took them from the restaurant. Somebody broke it. Somebody broke in. The neighbor's kid came in and stole them. And they took just your sunglasses. Yep, that's right.
Starting point is 00:12:46 100%. It's like, where does this come from? Where does this insane confidence and certitude come from? I talk to people all day that are 100% sure of everything all the time and then wrong all the time. And they have no problem. What is that? I've been trying to make sense of it for a while because there are people that
Starting point is 00:13:07 are trained to know better and do better that still are doing that. It's, it's some, something about the present moment is really amplifying that wherever it's fear. It's gotta be fear that they're afraid to be wrong. And by the way, you're checking yourself and stuff. I do that kind of shit all the time, but yes, but it's, but it's OCD for me. For you don't have OCD no it's just uh it's a what just a mechanism you learn from work at work kind of thing I lose stuff by putting stuff away responsibly because when I can't find something I probably left it on the hood of the car or something.
Starting point is 00:13:47 I probably set it down some stupid place. At some point I open a desk drawer and it's sitting in there nicely folded or something and I go, oh, I put it away. But I don't think of myself as that person. I think of myself as the person that left it somewhere. So I start looking around behind sofa pillows and stuff like that. Because my default setting is I must have fucked it up somehow. Which is again, the opposite of wub wub wubzy and why we value that. Because it makes you adjust and problem
Starting point is 00:14:18 solve and think things through. Not always assume it has nothing to do with you. Well, it could... Maybe the neighbor breaking in is part of the self-esteem thing too. Oh, shh, shh. I think... Here's what I think. I think people are so precariously perched in terms of their worth that they have to worth that they have to almost become violent or dug in animated about neither here nor there stuff. You know what I mean? I think they're precariously perched. I think they're precariously perched. I don't quite know how to explain it, but what I'm trying to say is I feel like a person that is way ahead of the game in terms of where I started and where I went, where I am and what I've accomplished. I couldn't read out of high school and I've been on the New York Times bestseller list several times. To me, it's all gravy. It's all sort of way ahead.
Starting point is 00:15:29 And then it's also easy too, because it's kind of family of origin kind of thing. I don't have a wildly successful sibling. No expectations and no comparisons kind of thing. I don't... If I had a brother that was just crushing it in something, anything, I don't know what, it'd be nice, but if I had that, it was just wildly successful. Maybe I'd feel like I had a little chip on my shoulder or something, a little lesser than or, I remember when I used to get that guy in a headlock and tap him out when he was 13. Now he's the biggest commercial real estate guy in Florida.
Starting point is 00:16:07 You know what I mean? And he's offered me, send his private jet over because I don't, you know, like maybe, I don't have any of that. You took authority here, relax. What I'm saying is, is I feel like I possess a skill. That'll come, that'll settle you right down. Number one, I am a carpenter.
Starting point is 00:16:28 I get to be a carpenter. I know how to build a house. By the way, that's a piece that people leave out. Having skill and wisdom is very important. And people just skip right over that. They do, and listen, obviously. We haven't ever talked about that. It can be being a physician.
Starting point is 00:16:42 That's right. It could be being a commercial airline pilot. It can be being a physician. That's right. It could be being a commercial airline pilot. It could be an electrician. I feel like there's a kind of a trade thing. Like I can shape metal any way you want, heat it up and bend it and I'll seam it and I'll buff it and you won't even know there was a seam there and stuff. And those guys have a thing they can hang their hat on,
Starting point is 00:17:05 kind of a security. I mean, I- It's a security and it's something to offer other people too, which you don't think about. It's like sort of being like, I have a black belt Brazilian jujitsu, you know what I mean? I'm calm.
Starting point is 00:17:17 I know I can handle myself, you know what I mean? I, whatever that thing is, if you have that kind of a base where it's like I have a skill and a field of expertise. Now not my mom's Chicano studies, because that's just bullshit ether shit, but I mean an actual tangible skill. You're already kind of less threatened, I guess.
Starting point is 00:17:43 You know what I mean? Like who are the most, okay, who's the most easily, who's the most combative easily, whatever, you've gotta come to me. It's the black welfare mom with the six kids who's home all day, right? Doesn't get money from the government. Like you better come at her with respect.
Starting point is 00:18:01 Do you know what I'm saying? Ironically, you don't have to come to the black belt with Brazilian jujitsu. You can disrespect him. He doesn't really care. But you go to the lowest on the food chain of not contributing and taking from the government and welfare queen and all that stuff. You better come to her with respect. Why is that? Why does she need so much respect, but the guy who's Brazilian black belt doesn't care. So A, just having a baseline of a skill is a major thing. And then B, just being more successful
Starting point is 00:18:35 than really I'd anticipated or had any thoughts about. All right, so I don't get that caught up in being wrong because I can be wrong as much as I want. I'm still wildly more successful than most people are. So I'm not living and dying with every exchange about you said 730, oh, I got a taxi that said seven o'clock. I'm not living and dying with all of that. I do say, well, look, I've been in this house
Starting point is 00:19:02 and I've been in this house during COVID. So if it's not for sale twice, then I think it's 2020, not 2019, because I've walked this house. So I will dig in on stuff like that, not because my personality, my worth isn't wound up in it, it's just more of a,
Starting point is 00:19:27 you're telling me two and two equals five. And I, this doesn't make sense. And I'm trying to get to the bottom of it. Right. Completely agree. Oh. What else? I wanna take, should we do calls or you wanna do that one last clip here?
Starting point is 00:19:40 Whatever you guys want. I think we should, let's do one more clip. We have just enough time for it and then we'll go to calls. We have some voice messages for everybody. Let's do it. I think we should... Let's do one more clip. We have just enough time for it and then we'll go to calls. We have some voice messages for everybody. All right. So this clip we've got is Dr. Gabrielle Lyon, a board certified physician as well. And she claims that walking is not an exercise. Walking is great, but do not count that as exercise.
Starting point is 00:20:01 I'm so glad you said that. It is the strength... I don't know when that started. I don't know, Heather, and if we don't challenge the way. I feel it's like the last five or eight years like so walking is exercise? What the hell is that? This is activity of daily living. Like humans walk like that's not exercise. Like talk about the lowest possible standard. Like I don't mean to offend anybody but like I mean maybe if you haven't worked out in forever start with a walk but my gosh you're not exercising come to a gym with me and you'll see someone exercise right? The thing is that what are you know and and just a side note I don't think we should be setting quote goals we need to begin to set standards for ourselves. Love it.
Starting point is 00:20:38 You know how are we setting standards? I love it. What's a goal versus a stand? So here is my recommendation. There is no replacement for resistance training. And this is not to offend doing yoga and people get very upset about their modality of exercise. God forbid that there is a problem. I need to be able to lift my 40 pound four-year-old up and throw my other two-year-old on my shoulder. And if I need to sprint and lift both of those little suckers, I got gotta be able to do that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's right. You have to train for real life.
Starting point is 00:21:11 We live in a physical world. Great. We have become domesticated. She sounds like me. You must do training. You have to be a functional, capable, viable human. You guys need to figure out what her train, what is her board certification here, please.
Starting point is 00:21:28 I don't know what's controversial here. No, I'll tell you what's controversial. I've got an argument with my girlfriend, where I just, she gets totally offended, but she'd go, I walked today, you know, and I'd go, that's exercise for elderly. You're in your 30s. That's not exercise for people in their 30s. That's exercise for elderly. That's not working out when you're young. That's not a workout.
Starting point is 00:21:55 So what that – By the way, did not go over well. No, but you know what we do now? We have the weighted vest. And now I just ran into Paulette Gerges yesterday. Was she wearing the vest? No, I was wearing the fucking vest, you asshole. She's not wearing a vest. I just thought maybe you were gonna tell me something that Paulette was doing.
Starting point is 00:22:16 No, I got two of them, I got a 20 pounder, now I got a 25 pounder. When I was training for that special forces thing, I wore a 40 pounder, I think, something crazy was terrible. Oh, you did? 40 pounder. I think some crazy terrible 40. It was something I couldn't even put it on. It's awful. Well, it's intimidating because even at 25 pounds, when you pick it up, it feels like a fucking load. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:34 But put on the 25 pounder and go up this endless hill behind me in Malibu. I wouldn't even try jogging, but I would hike all the way up to the top of this hill in Malibu with the 25-pounder on, and now we got something going. Yeah. You know what I mean? In the days that they made us put on packs and run all the time. So we had to do it.
Starting point is 00:22:55 Yeah, I'm just saying, look, she's right. Walking is exercise when you're elderly. It's not exercise when you're young. So she goes, where did this come from? It came from the cardiology literature, that they were showing that walking was equivalent to any other means of exercise in terms of cardiac health. Well, look, it's great to walk. Can I tell you how fucking good my son is? At walking? What do you mean? How good he is? He walks every goddamn night, right?
Starting point is 00:23:26 For like two hours, right? And I called him the other night, but now he also got himself a new car, a nice car. Nice. And so like any teenager, he's kind of into it, though he wasn't vying for it and so on and so forth. But I called that guy the other night. I'm like, I'm Saturday night.
Starting point is 00:23:47 I go, well, where are you? He goes, I'm at my friend's house. I go, well, what friend? Ah, he lives, you know, half a mile away or something. I go, okay. Did you drive there? He goes, no, I walked. I go, well, aren't you into driving?
Starting point is 00:24:00 He goes, I don't really feel like, I don't really feel good about driving places I can walk. If it's walkable, I'll just walk it. If I wanna get in the car, I'm going into Pasadena or something, or the Hill Walk to Pasadena, but what I'm saying is, is like, his thing is, is if I'm going to a friend's house and the friend's a quarter mile away or half mile away
Starting point is 00:24:20 or a mile away or whatever, I'm walking. I'm not driving if I don't need to drive. Why do you need to drive? And I'm like, that's 17. I don't know where the fuck that comes from. Back to the resistance training, the number one longevity thing you could do is resistance training, vigorous exercise.
Starting point is 00:24:36 Number one, numero uno, clearly proven over and over again, and it pushes back the inevitable fall of the cliff that we all have in this sort of what's called sarcopenia. We all lose everything at a certain point. You can push that back into your 90s. If you don't work at it, it'll happen in your 70s. Why is this a controversial clip? Like why are we playing it?
Starting point is 00:24:55 I mean, why is it controversial? I think because she takes a stand on walking and walking has been so revered as a health exercise. Well, walking is good. It's also easy. And that's why people like easy. And if you won't do anything else, I'd rather you walked than nothing. Yes, but you should be working out. The other thing, her reason for one of the resistance training was completely off base. So I could run with my kids in a nuclear holocaust. Oh, okay, honey. That's why we're actually...
Starting point is 00:25:24 She was like, you're at an airport, there's a nuclear holocaust? Oh, okay, honey, that's why we're actually... She was like, you're at an airport, there's a mass shooting going on, and you gotta pick up your toddlers and run for a mile to Terminal 7 to safety. Like, yeah, I don't, I'm not so sure. No. I don't know what that is.
Starting point is 00:25:39 I'm gonna say she is physical rehab medicine or sort of functional medicine, something like that. What's her degree? Board certified what is the question? You can't get it? All right, we'll figure that out. You want to play a message? I do. Let's do John, if that's interesting. All right. This is John from Sacramento Big upset town
Starting point is 00:26:06 So this I tell my friends this they think I'm such a jerk for it So my my wife doesn't have sex with me anymore And she says it's cuz my dick is too big now it like I'm not a monster like yeah, it's big but When we were dating, everything was fine. And then, like, married for a few years, had two kids, and then just no moths. And I ask, I obviously ask for it, and the answer is always like, it's too much mature, I'm not in the mood, we've done lube, all this stuff and there's just, I don't know what to do. I feel like there's no fighting against biology, Like if it hurts and it sucks, it sucks.
Starting point is 00:27:05 And like, who wants that sexual sonar doesn't want to have sex with them. Any advice would be appreciated. All right, so it's not that his penis is too big. Sorry, dude, it's not that. Probably not. Right, so this happens a lot when women get perimenopause or menopause.
Starting point is 00:27:26 They've had two kids, so it's probably heading towards menopause. He's 40. Some women get it by that point. And she needs to get on some hormone replacement because she will feel a lot better with some testosterone and estrogen. And she, now also the other possibility is that if these were vaginal deliveries, these kids, there could be some architectural or structural problems down there left over from those
Starting point is 00:27:49 deliveries. That ought to be evaluated as well. What she's telling you is that it hurts, and she has no sexual desire, both. And both are usually a hormonal issue, and they are extraordinarily poorly attended to by doctors, and relationships are just destroyed because of not paying attention to this easy to solve problem, or she being against a medication making this all worse. So it's all got to be taken seriously and evaluated medically. But it's not the penis. Yeah, I mean, look, well, look, it doesn't, it doesn't have to be all one thing or all
Starting point is 00:28:23 the other, but it sounds to me like she's not into it. And, you know, that's, I agree the testosterone stuff, but there's also like a sort of an emotional side, and then you start arguing about, you know, when you had it last, and then you so, you know, you go, well, Mark and his girlfriend have sex twice a day. And then they get angry. It's just you exacerbate things.
Starting point is 00:28:54 We've gotten into this many times, but try romantic evening, dinner in a movie, whatever, we don't ask for sex. Right. Just go out. Connect. Go to sex. Right. Just go out. Connect. Go to dinner, connect, have a conversation, go home, go to bed, don't ask. Just see what happens, and then next weekend,
Starting point is 00:29:15 go out to dinner and try for sex. But do the one with no, no ask. So she doesn't think that dinner's only to get this. Yep. Yes? Agreed. Agreed. Take that heat off the table and see if you can get it.
Starting point is 00:29:28 And I'll check in with her, make sure there's not something wrong in the relationship. That is always a possibility too. All right. I have a quick question. Might the simplest solution just be more lube as asking for a friend? No, it won't work. It doesn't work. That's because atrophic vaginitis is the classic first symptom that women are
Starting point is 00:29:45 perved is I'm allergic to my boyfriend's semen because they get burning when the semen is in there and once you have that kind of irritation and burning of the lining of the vagina that is from estrogen deficiency and no amount of lube is going to make that more less friable. So yeah I mean a little bit initially but ultimately you still have pain. All right. Go to AdamKerrola.com for all the live shows. Gonna be at Salt Lake City, Wise Guys in May.
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