The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - #1872 A Political Earthquake
Episode Date: May 30, 2024Adam continues his deep dive into Nithya Raman and the tragic loss of General Hospital actor, Johnny Wactor. Also, they explore the potential beach hate going on in Malibu, and a search for the hero w...ith a sign. Plus, Dr. Drew's depressed, an urban planning force to be reckoned with, and they take a voicemail on a sudden, unspoken fetish amongst marital couples. Please Support Our Sponsor: Aura.com/Trust
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Yeah, get it on. Got to get on a choice. We're gonna mandate, get it on! Dr. Drew's board
certified physician. All right, I got more to do on Nithya. For those who don't know,
there's an actor. He was on the Young and the Rest and the restless I guess or the soap opera. He had a
Nighttime gig doing some bartending. He they asked him to stay late and help clean up. He was in downtown LA
I don't know 34 36 year old guy. Yeah came out about 3 3 30 in the morning. There was guys
Sealing his catalytic converter and so then they shot him, but I guess that's on Toyota
Yes, but I don't know that he was driving a him but I guess that's on Toyota yes but I don't
know that he was driving a Toyota oh that's interesting this could be on
Honda or Ford or Chevy because all cars have catalytic converters is it really
on the state of California for requiring catalytic converters well now you've
gone too far sir yeah General Hospital was a show he was from.
It would be interesting to know what kind of car it is so we can laugh at Nithya some more.
And I'm also trying to figure out like first off, by all accounts he walked up on the car and thought
it was being towed or something
He didn't know what what was going on initially and then shot it
But there wasn't a he didn't dive on anyone and try to wrestle the stuff away according to the account
He was sort of walked up on it. So yeah
So I don't know why it was your car. Don't walk out. Yeah. Yeah
And we can be I'm also curious
if they have any description of the suspects,
Emmy, you can try to figure that out.
But anyway, and we'll give you something
on Nithya's background.
I also, speaking of the beach, there is something.
So Malibu can't see fit to clear the dirt or anything
on the lane or clear Topanga Canyon
or they can't do any of that stuff.
But they can change the signs on the lifeguard towers
which I saw one a couple days ago driving down PCH.
There's a big, it's three foot by three foot
and they just sort of put them on the side,
advertising whatever they want to get across.
This was, stop hate at the beach.
And for incidents of hate, you called 211.
Okay.
Now, I don't know what's going on in Malibu on the beach
in terms of hate.
It's pretty much the beaches,
the gentry,
whitey essentially that
At the beach.
That owns all the houses there.
Oh yeah.
They don't really hang out at the beach.
Right, right. They're sort of sit On their decks. On their decks, you don't really hang out at the beach.
They're sort of sit on their decks.
You know what I mean?
The beach are, I'd say predominantly Hispanic people
who are basically trying to beat the heat.
Sometimes they don't have air conditioning in the valley.
When I was a kid, if we did make it out to the beach,
it was to beat the heat.
Like it was, we're burning up,
we're living in these shacks in North Hollywood,
there's no air, and we're just gonna sit here
where it's 30 degrees cooler.
And, but anyway, evidently there's a problem
with hate on the beach.
I've driven up and down PCH 200,000 times,
I've not seen any nooses or hate crimes
or anything of that magnitude, but there's a thing.
And we're gonna stop hate.
And then people would say to me.
I gotta move out of this country, forget the state.
I know, people are like, what's the sort of, so what?
And I would say, well, here's the deal.
When you put hate and racism everywhere,
then people think it's something that it isn't,
just like if you swapped that out with malaria.
If you just kept talking about malaria,
you'd look around and go, I guess we have an issue.
I'm unaware, I'm not experiencing this malaria thing,
but every time I turn on the TV,
it's in the end zone of turn on the TV it's in the
end zone of the football field, it's on the lifeguard stations. I mean we must
live in a malaria-filled nation in order for this to be a thing.
Emmy, you can find that sign. It is stop hate at the beach. I even went and looked it up.
I like slowed down and wrote it down and was like.
What if we called 2-1-1, let's hear what comes up.
You wanna call?
I'd like to know who answers the phone at 2-1-1.
Well there's gonna be a recording.
You can't get an answer at 9-1-1.
Oh no, no, there's not gonna get an answer.
But what would I say?
Like hey, I was just
cook, I was there doing some surf fishing, going for like walleye and some,
and then I saw a Jewish guy get punched by a Mormon. So heads up.
And I'm old and they told me to get out of the way.
Yeah, yeah.
Or I'm just reporting the crime I saw, you know.
I don't know.
Yeah.
All I know is somebody had to manufacture this sign.
And the sign was galvanized and laser printed.
It's by the beach, it's not cardboard.
Somebody paid $3,600 for this sign
that we then had to pay another guy
to put on the side of the lifeguard station.
And by the way, there were what,
30 lifeguard stations, 20?
Each of them had one of those, two of those?
Wow, they have different signs, and this was one of them.
And I kept, and it's been,
they've been swapping them out for others.
It's, I, yeah, here it is.
This is a sign I found.
Oh yeah, there we go.
Keep our beaches hate free.
Okay.
It's just people laying around in the sun and swimming,
and we have to talk about hate.
What is this obsession, Drew?
And why is it only in progressive places? We have to constantly, in 2024...
Well, Adam, you don't understand. You're a white male. You don't understand whether people
have to withstand in this country.
Yeah, yeah.
So your privilege and bias and your white supremacy makes it impossible for you
to see right in front of your face.
What I'm saying is keep our beaches... Do I have to be reminded of the hateful society
we live in all day everywhere?
I mean, what's about hate? The Coast Guard getting the guy on the surfboard, that was
pretty hateful.
Paddle board. Yeah, that's pretty hateful.
Yeah.
It's shutting down the swing set at the at the Beach Club is pretty hateful
I yeah, or just not or shutting the beaches completely in general is an act of hate. Yes
Is that what they're talking about? I hate crimes
I'm gonna desecrate a synagogue with my boogie board
Fuckin idiots. What the fuck, what happened?
What happened?
By the way, is there anybody, like somebody has to float this.
I say that we have signs made up.
Can anyone raise their fucking hand and go, Bob, that's a stupid idea.
PCH has one lane closed, northbound, 50% of northbound is closed.
Don't worry, nobody's going to the beach,
they can't get there.
Why don't we use your fucking sign
to shovel some of that dirt off of fucking BCH?
We'll put the sign up after BCH opens fully,
how about that?
Let's compromise.
BCH is 50% closed Northbound,
but they're swapping out signs.
They're paying people for this.
You know what's interesting? It's weird. Tell me if this is a thought.
Shit thing. Yeah. Sorry. I was in New York City last week and I think I mentioned
this a lot in one of the last shows. They just sort of get shit done there eventually.
They do do dumb stuff but eventually it's too concentrated and the price is too high
for them to do stuff like this.
Yeah, you couldn't have one lane closed indefinitely.
They do dumb stuff like that, but there is like...
No, but this is indefinitely closed.
Yeah, well, not for no reason.
Not just because of the rocks on the road.
I drove past the pile of dirt and there's actually weeds growing out of the dirt because
it's been there too long.
Or it's going to be trees soon.
What are you talking about?
Yeah, there'll be trees soon.
There is, God bless, one hero patriot who keeps putting a fucking sign up that says,
do your job, Caltrans, clear this.
And then they take it down and then he comes back and puts another, it's a Wiley Coyote type sign and he just mashes it
right in the dirt.
Now, I think they'll set up cameras and like arrest this guy
before they move any dirt.
You gotta get your team together,
your mob that you're organizing in Malibu
to regularly visit that pile.
It's so weird. It's so weird.
But literally across the street from the pile, they're putting up to stop the hate at the
beach side.
Literally the two signs at one guard tower would easily cover the cost of getting rid
of the dirt.
Easily.
Oh, it's not a matter of cost. There's something, there's some regulatory
holdup. They're not going to get a permit issued to remove the dirt.
That's right. It's some regulatory thing. Or, I keep worrying it's the Coastal Commission
that they're saying, well, talk about this because the mountain is reclaiming the street
and we have a reclamation policy. The amount of barriers and lights and stuff, they have to set up stuff a mile in advance.
Blinking lights and barriers and signs and mobile units saying down to one lane. The amount of
effort and money they've already put into this thing, they haven't touched any of the dirt.
They haven't touched any of the dirt. Jesus Christ, it's so weird.
But again, for me, it literally happened as I was moving full-time to Malibu and simultaneously
as they cut off Topanga Canyon.
Yeah.
Now, that's the lane on PCH?
Yep.
Yep. Why? You don't think that's the lane on PCH? No, it's not lane in on PCH. Yep. Yep. Why you don't think that's a lane on no
I it's that's not the Topanga can you think is it and I was at the one where the sign gets put for the Caltran center
Is it the other one?
What are you talking about? You think the guy the why the coyote sign? Oh, no, that's the keep
No, yeah, that's the guy. Yeah, there's a guy who plants the yes, there's some resident who's fucking tired of sitting,
because all you do is sit, you sit in a bottleneck,
PCH is bad enough, now you just sit there,
there's nowhere to go.
And then Waze just starts taking everyone
all the way around the like lost virgin,
is there something, you gotta go to Pepperdine
and go around it if you're coming from here,
and come back and then backtrack,
because they won't do a half day's worth of work.
It's really weird.
And the amount that people pay in property taxes there,
I mean, I was driving down with Natalia the other day,
we just passed the big house on PCH.
I was like, is that Cher's house?
Yeah, I said yeah.
I said it was for sale.
I don't know if it's still for sale.
I said they want like $70 million for it.
She was like, huh?
I'm like, no, Google, fucking look it up.
75 million.
Later on, we're just going down PCH.
She's got her phone out.
She likes real estate and that kind of stuff.
We just passed the big sort of double lot place on PCH, she's got her phone out, she likes real estate and that kind of stuff. We just passed a big sort of double lot place on PCH,
a mile from where the slide is.
And I go, just Google it in.
Hit Redfin or whatever and see what it is.
Zillow or something.
Zillow, yeah, we went by the address,
I was just popping in.
I was like, oh, 55 million.
So I was like, you know what that guy pays in property
taxes?
Oh my God.
To not have a lane. If this was in fucking Arkansas, they would have cleared this thing
out months ago, or dayya, and she went to Harvard and got a degree in political
theory and then a master's from MIT in urban planning.
Urban planning, ugh.
Yeah, since 2020.
Oh, she's a socialist, amazing.
Yeah. Oh, she's a socialist, amazing. Yeah, she's a socialist and she likes,
she's working with the homeless,
but it's a housing issue.
She's described as a political earthquake
being a member of the city council.
Oh boy.
She is such a dumb shit.
It's incredible.
Well, all right.
So again, wait a minute.
We'll blame Toyota for the death.
Did she get reelected, Emmy?
Check this out.
Yeah, I think she gets reelected.
This is what we do.
We like these people.
But by the way, we don't know their horrible policy.
We just like the idea of a strong woman of color and you know that my mom would vote for her because she'd go
She's a strong woman of color and your and we need more of that is what I'm saying
That my mom would say we need more
Strong women of color and then if I said she's got a ten cent head and makes bad policy they'd say oh so you're intimidated by a strong woman of color, and then if I said, she's got a 10 cent head and makes bad policy, they'd say, oh, so you're intimidated
by a strong woman of color.
That's how they would, yeah, she was,
and she's got some advocacy for homelessness
or whatever she's got going too.
I would love to see somebody look, show me please,
I really would like to see some good policy.
Urban planning, Drew.
That's what I wanna see, I mean, that's, MIT good policy. Urban planning, Drew. That's what I want to see.
I mean, MIT is not a feelings-based institution.
You're going to have to quantitate and quantify everything.
I want to know what that's done for her
and where she's applied that.
I want to see that in action somewhere where I go,
okay, well, all right, at least I'm not scared of her
as I would be if this kind of be bullshit was all she did
Yeah, I don't I don't know. I just know that I found this page and it's some of the greatest
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Yeah. You know,
this never going back stuff on things is really starting to bug me right now.
I talked to a guy who's a political type and he said, Oh yeah, politics. You never,
you never go back. You never just change direction. You never say you're wrong because that's weakness.
Right. I call that just dumb. It's foolish. You should go back.
You should crack chorus. You should say, here's what I did wrong.
Well, to be fair,
Especially when so much wrong is going on.
They're all against, you know,
Joe Biden and Obama's against gay marriage and now they're for gay marriage, but they don't go back. They just go, I'm for gay marriage. Always been, you know, Joe Biden and Obama's against gay marriage, and now they're for gay marriage, but they don't go back.
They just go, I'm for gay marriage, always been, you know.
They just lie.
Countless hours of tape of you being against it,
but now you're for it, but that's not you changing.
Oh my God.
Yeah, but by the way, to be fair to Joe Biden,
when he was against gay marriage,
he was a young 73 yearyear-old man with thoughts
of – you know, I think there's some proverb that when I was a child, I thought as a child
and I acted as a child, but when I became a man, I put down my childish ways. He did
that, but he was 73 and a half.
When he put down his childish ways, yeah.
Yeah, he was a young – Drew, you don't know what you're gonna be thinking about when you're
73 and a half and then how it could change when you're 82.
Yeah.
Could change dramatically.
I mean, to be fair, too, he could have been 70, you know, a kid, fresh, idealistic, you
know what I mean?
Yeah, 50 years of thinking one way that was just, you know, a young man's thought. Yeah folly
Gay folly. Yeah, and now he's changed his thoughts as he has on many issues
But he was young, you know, he was in his 60s 70s. Yeah
By the way again no problem people change their mind, but let's discuss it talk about it admit it apologize
Just I mean I I don't get this not
Maybe I'm wrong again. I don't know you're depressed true. Yeah, am I well, I'm depressed too because I you know, I think that's true
I think I am well normally for me. I'm just depressed
From a distance.
You know, like I see trash everywhere.
And I go, why do I have to live in such a trashy city?
Why does it have to be so trashy?
Why does it have to be graffiti and garbage?
You know, you go along the freeways,
there's garbage and graffiti everywhere.
And I'm like, seems solvable.
You know what I mean?
Like, why?
Why are we doing this?
And then you go, oh, they squandered 40,
sorry, they squandered $24 billion on homeless
and they don't know where the money went, you know,
and stuff that they were supposed to build,
low cost housing and that was a year ago
and that's 100 million ago and there's no housing, you know?
And I go, okay, I'm depressed, but I'm not homeless
and I'm not counting on a small house,
and I don't, whatever this high-speed rail it is,
you're building from Merced to Bakersfield,
I'm not gonna be on it.
I'm depressed I have to pay all the taxes,
but I'm just, I'm not.
But now, as I sit on a bottleneck PCH in Malibu,
I am, now it's hit home.
See what I'm saying?
I'm now being directly affected by this.
I've noticed is that young people seem so unhappy.
We've talked about this before and COVID
was a major contributor to that predictably,
but that really bothers me too.
That I, it affects my mood sort of massively.
I, well, I like to see young people engaged,
dynamic, doing stuff, you know what I mean?
Thinking about things. It makes, you know what I mean?
Thinking about things.
It makes me feel good.
I mean, why are we here except to hand off to the next, you know, do stuff?
Yes.
No.
Resentment, grievance.
Well, they go to the beach and they think we have a hate problem, you know, which is,
people don't think, see what people don't understand, I don't think they fully understand.
They say, okay, walking through nature, convening with nature, you know,
listening to classical music and being outdoors
in a wooded area or with nature
is very good for the soul and the mind
and it'll lower your tension and cholesterol,
and you know, all the benefits from being with that, right?
Well, what's the opposite of that?
Being in the midst of, well, urban environment,
but anything where there's negativity coming your way.
Yeah, but what's the difference?
No, but what's the physical difference?
You're just walking in nature.
You're not physically climbing a tree.
You're just walking, you know what I mean?
So what is going on?
Your brain is, chemicals are going up in your brain.
Right, now what's the opposite of that?
The opposite of walking in nature?
Yes, Drew.
Walking in an urban environment is the opposite of that,
or a stressful environment.
Right, but no, but it doesn't have to be stressful.
It could be an urban environment that's clean and orderly
and has nice shops.
Come on, get your shit together, Drew.
Driving down a fucking freeway
and seeing graffiti and garbage and homeless and stop hate.
That's the opposite of that.
That's the opposite. The part where there's development
is not necessarily because you could be at the promenade on 12th Street or whatever it is and
enjoying the libation while music is playing. Yeah, and yet though there's very few places
right now where there's not some sort of something, you know, where you feel uncomfortable
Well, there's one place
No, there's there's two or three places and
They were all developed by a guy who ran for mayor who did not win
We wanted the black check who likes the status quo
The guy who did all the developing in the Grove
and all the security and the nice and urban environment,
the guy Rick Caruso said, second I'm hired,
first thing out of his mouth was, day one,
I'm hiring a thousand sanitation workers,
we're gonna clean this town up.
There's too much garbage everywhere.
I was like, okay, good, I'm for that guy.
What's that broken windows policy,
which we know is for real.
We know that has an effect on people.
Right, but we don't want that guy.
We want Karen Bass, the career politician
who's gonna blame homelessness, as I've said,
on inequality of income. That's, some people make more than other people. I thought it was just straight up lack of income.
That's, some people make more than other people.
I thought it was just straight up lack of homes.
No, you gotta understand, it's not,
it's not just lack of homes because they can't build homes
and they can't blame, they have to kind of blame themselves
on that, so.
So they gave up on that one.
It's income inequality.
That's why.
Cause somebody, well, because Cher
is living in a 75 million.
Well, she might have to take 71.5 for it.
I don't know.
You know what I mean?
Like she wants 75,
but I think I could get her down to like 69.8 or 77.7.
Who would buy that?
For $75 million?
Oh, there are plenty of those places up and down that.
Really?
It's just so...
I would argue that there are above $40 million, there are 40 residents that are above $40
million, like a three-mile stretch in there.
And well, now they can't get there because the lane is closed.
Cher can't get to her house with her young boyfriend.
Yeah, that's upsetting.
I have no idea what Cher would say,
because I know she would be totally progressive, right?
But I'd go, who the fuck are all these people
you voted for and now nothing moves, you know?
I am depressed, you're right.
You're depressed.
Good, we're all depressed.
All right, but.
Thanks for a good partner on a podcast.
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right, well everyone should tweet Nithya
or whatever her name is and tell her all about
this poor guy.
So, hey, a couple quick things.
Apparently they've trained children in Finland
to be able to pick up propaganda in news.
Mm.
And I thought, oh, that's the future. If we can take it.
Wow. I train my kids. I'm like, anytime you hear Joe Biden go, true story. Okay. If you
ever hear Joe Biden say this is true or serious, if he says true story or seriously, reject
whatever came out, whatever's after that, don't listen to that one.
It's real, man.
It's a real thing, man.
Anything like that, anything in that zone.
Yeah.
And then I'm gonna say something,
I feel a little guilty saying this publicly,
but I wanna ask you this.
I have this feeling Howard Stern's
not physically well right now.
Do you pick up anything like that?
No.
Okay, well let's just put that on, put a pin in that.
You have a feeling as a doctor.
Yeah, I can't even tell what it is.
I woke up thinking about it, I was like, it's okay.
Weird.
Yeah.
Yeah, good, well listen.
Well here, I'm saying publicly just for to put a pin in it.
Women's intuition.
Exactly.
Oh, you know, it's weird, I feel bad,
but Bill Walton died.
Yeah.
And there was this clip, Emmy's got it somewhere,
maybe, or Chris had it, I played it,
but it's a douche of me, but it was funny.
The douche of me.
Well, he was being interviewed for the record,
I think I like Bill Walton. Yeah. I don't know any reason not to like him. Okay, but he was getting interviewed and
and the guy said like
God was some all paraphrased but it's basically when he was
playing
for this
Celtics or playing for Portland or something like back in the day,
he was injured all the time.
He had foot problems, I think, was his, maybe knee,
but foot was kind of his big problem.
And then they said to him, well, you're not playing,
but still getting paid.
And he was like, what, sort of how dare you?
And it was just a weird exchange,
but it was like, well, you are taking the money,
you're just not playing.
And he was like, I can't even believe
you'd think that's what I would do.
And it's like, listen, I've been in that position.
I got fired from a radio job and they paid me to stay home.
And I told them, yeah, good, thank you. You know what I mean? I've been in that position, I got fired from a radio job and they paid me to stay home.
And I told them, yeah, good, thank you.
You know what I mean?
Like I've not.
Yeah, it was, if someone said.
The employer takes that risk when they sign a contract.
No, what I'm saying is, is if somebody said to me,
yeah, well, you're still getting paid.
I wouldn't go, how dare you?
I'd go, yeah, I do, I am.
This is my contract. This is, by the way, yeah, I do, I am. That's my contract.
By the way, it's a Corolla I've dreamt of this moment.
My forefathers, and I mean, come on.
Many generations of Corollas have dreamt of this moment.
Of Corollas, but it was a weird exchange,
and I thought this weird, but I understand that he was a fun dude and
he was a personality, a cancer I think. And we need more of him. Those kinds of, you know,
guys are just different. You know what I'm saying yeah now we have different bad do you know what I mean
no I don't I mean it's like there's you know there's there's only one Nancy Pelosi yeah but it's bad
yeah you know what I mean yeah like you have to hear her all the fucking time not make sense
Yeah, like you have to hear her all the fucking time not make a many versions like that
Right, right that that's she's I'm saying she's not Nithya. No, it's another version of bad. Yeah. All right
The other oh I had another thing for you. But all right
next show Yeah, you want to answer a question?
Yeah, let's answer a voicemail. Pick a line there. Emmy, who you got?
Let's see.
Let's do Brandon.
All right.
Brandon.
Hey, what's up, guys?
This is Brandon from Yonkers, New York.
Here's my question.
So I've been with my wife a long time.
Started out a few years ago, she started asking me to give her gentle love taps when we were
doing the deed.
Eventually it started getting a little further.
She wanted me to smack around a little bit, give her spankings, and now it's to the point
where she doesn't finish unless I full on choke her out.
And so far we haven't had any incidents,
but it's super crazy.
And then we go back to our normal lives
and no one ever talks about it until the next time.
We have sex and she demands this type of treatment
and then she's able to finish.
Is this normal?
What do I do?
Thanks guys.
Yeah, that's rough.
People die doing that.
It's much more common than you imagine.
But both the behavior is more common than you imagine,
and the murder is more common than you imagine.
But it is not an uncommon behavior.
I was also reviewing some statistics.
I can't quite get them off top of my head,
but it's around 30%, 40% of people
experiment with this stuff.
Really?
Yeah, it's way high now.
But the fact that she can't get aroused without it is concerning.
Yeah, I would be worried that something more is going on with her.
It speaks to maybe some abuse in the past.
But if she would have started with that though,
you know, opiate addiction is the number one thing that makes people need that for
the return of the word. Because their brains don't respond the way they want.
But the fact that she got to it over time means, cause he,
he didn't say she could never have an orgasm without this. He said,
now she needs it to have an orgasm. So, which means something is shifting,
something is changing. And I worried that the changes between them.
And so I worry that there's something going on here. And you know,
there's a lot of that out there these days.
There's a lot of childhood trauma that's getting, um,
sublimated into all kinds of stuff, uh, in, in long-term relationships,
including various kinds of acting out.
What do you think about that ketamine therapies?
Ketamine's very good if you have a recalcitrant depression.
That's what's really good for it.
They're using it for guided therapy,
guided sort of psychotherapy.
I'm not convinced.
Colon cancer, so Mr. Walton passed.
All right, what if we call 211?
Is that the number?
Yes, let's do it.
Try calling 211 and see.
Yeah, it's LA and no one's gonna pick up.
But we'll do it in the next show.
We'll see about the hate hotline.
Yeah.
But maybe 211 is just a generic like,
well, if you're gonna dig in the backyard
and you wanna know if there's wiring,
you know, wires in the ground, you call 211.
It might be a more general number.
We have it limited for hate, push nine.
It'll be interesting to hear that.
You Jewish or Arab American?
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