The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - #1915 Sociological Axioms

Episode Date: September 13, 2024

To end the week, Dr. Drew recaps what's happened with Bret Weinstein, Adam talks about the chaos and compliance amongst the population, and California's new housing regulations. Plus, producer Joe sha...res his thoughts on police compliance, and Drew shares his recent go-arounds with the opposite gender. Leave us a voicemail: SpeakPipe.com/AdamandDrDrew OR Click the microphone at top of the homepage. Please Support Our Sponsor: This Episode is Sponsored by BetterHelp: BetterHelp.com/AdamandDrew

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Starting point is 00:01:53 I don't know, like I say, I'm always upset about Sue much. You were talking about, I just got a few things I want to kind of strike at. One is you were talking about how the street takeovers have been such a thing. You know, with the particular Los Angeles area, these people come out in big groups and do donuts in the middle of the street and the cops just stand by. And there are sociological sort of axioms. I have told you our entire relationship, if a certain percentage of the population decides it's a good idea to do something, kill, street, whatever, if enough decides it's a good idea, then there's nothing cops can do.
Starting point is 00:02:40 We're getting to that saturation point now. I mean the street takeover is the same as a smash and grab. They just stand back and watch. Well, it's interesting the same as the Bret Weinstein story, right? He and his wife were being sort of tracked and hunted. And the cops said, no, we can't help you. Well, you should explain the story.
Starting point is 00:03:00 Bret Weinstein was at the. Don't just do it that. All right, Bret Weinstein was at the Evergreen College. He was a decorated professor and so was his wife. He was known in particular for this really an evolutionary biology symposium he would had. He was very happy with the school and they had a one day a year where the African-American Student Union or the African American students would sort of stand down and not go to school and it got to the point where and I don't know what it was representative of or what it was celebrating whatever but it was
Starting point is 00:03:32 just something that the school student body did and eventually they started demanding the professors do the same and Weinstein stood out said no no I'm gonna teach my class you can come or not come this up to you but I can't do this that's not that's ridiculous. Once. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point.
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Starting point is 00:04:07 well, what did they want, Drew? Progress. Yeah, so now they wanted to attack someone who came to school, who wasn't black. Right, and so he stood up and there was a huge, sort of a scary reaction. But that wasn't really, that's not analogous to what I'm talking about.
Starting point is 00:04:26 The school did nothing to protect him or save him. Well no, he told a story about going to the cops and them going, we can't do it, we got nothing. So. Yeah, I mean it's kind of both, because the school and the dean and the whoever, they didn't protect him at all. They didn't call the school police
Starting point is 00:04:43 and they didn't call the police police. They just left him alone. And yeah, then once it gets to critical mass, small town, evergreen. Anyway. And you know, yeah, I mean, you interviewed him, you know better than I, but I've interviewed him before too. What is it, Leviathan, he calls everything now.
Starting point is 00:04:58 He has a theory for this, the blob, like Mike Benz calls it. Yeah, yeah, the blob, yeah. Soz calls it. Yeah, yeah, the blob. So speaking of complying, did you see the video? I'm gonna ask you guys to do this. I forget if I sent this to you or not. Not just of Newsom, but of his attorney general talking to the city of Huntington Beach because they were suing the state for these housing laws
Starting point is 00:05:25 that they were requiring. They were requiring them to put in 40,000 new units in a city that has something like 200,000 or 300,000 people living in it. And the itinerary general just gets up and goes, we're coming after you. I said, but just comply, just comply. And I thought, oh man, this is, here we are.
Starting point is 00:05:44 This is a totalitarian system. And then Newsom, I didn't see the tape of Newsom saying something very, very similar apparently, but this guy, I don't know if I mentioned him before. Rob Banda. Banda, I think, is the AG. But the city attorney for Highton Beach, you need to talk to him. Oh, that guy. Michael Gates. And he has been fighting back. He fought off beach closures. Yes
Starting point is 00:06:09 He fought off every excess. He's been successfully, you know I you know, it's so weird because when I was listening to Stern the other day He was explaining that the reason you had to vote for Kamala Harris is that so if you have grandchildren so that they can live in freedom which is a weird i mean he's very earnest he's so earnest about it yeah and i have no idea what he's talking about brainwashing i guess i i guess it's trump derangement syndrome but it's what freedom are we are we speaking of ron de sandis tried to keep things open and gavin news Have tried to shut everything. What what are you talking about? By the way? I was
Starting point is 00:06:51 Astonished that I was a french radio this morning and they're starting to have questions about code. They're like hey, it's been four years Why do we know where this thing came from? Oh? COVID yeah, and I thought and then they expressed how the the two years, Europe was under a two year lockdown. Yes. It was terrible. Yes. And in Greece, we visited there after about a year and a half of it,
Starting point is 00:07:13 and the citizens there were telling us that they had to check in with the government to leave their house, to go to the grocery store. Oh yeah, oh no, the sort of, the more Anglo it was, the more aggressive it was. Like Australia, New Zealand, you know, I don't know, Greece, I think of them that way, but I mean Canada, like sort of the whiter in English,
Starting point is 00:07:35 the fucking harder they went down, which is interesting, and you tell me, because you know I have a theme, but a lot those places Were more progressive and had like more women running, you know things and you know Prime Minister New Zealand was a woman You know what I mean? I look she wasn't she's like she had that famous unless you hear it from us. It's don't believe it You have to hear it from the government She literally said like the information has to come from the government.
Starting point is 00:08:05 If it comes from anywhere else, don't believe it. Jesus. Yeah, yeah. But it was the more progressive places, the more Anglo-y, English-y, Canada-y, Trudeau-y, the more... Look look I'm not making this up the theme is this Trudeau is very progressive he hit his citizens the hardest New Zealand is very progressive they hit their citizens the hardest California has a very progressive governor and Gavin Newsom he came down the hardest. That was the theme. I did not notice the red states with the red governors coming down. There was compliance and shutting and distancing and all the whatever, but there was not the theme of coming down on the citizen. Yeah. The extreme overreach, the extreme, you know, keeping people off the beach.
Starting point is 00:09:03 Right. So that seems to be the theme. Here he is. Let's see him up there. This is our attorney general. This is the guy that replaced Kamala Harris, by the way. So interesting. One of our messages today is whether you are Huntington Beach or Elk Grove or Woodside or
Starting point is 00:09:22 Pasadena, whatever city you are, you have a duty and an obligation to follow the law of the state of California. We will remind you what it is. We hope you will comply when we point that out. But if you don't, we will sue you, we will take you to court, and you will comply one way or the other. Unfortunately, today, it was the other. But they are
Starting point is 00:09:45 complying even more so. There's going to be more housing built because of our settlement than if they had just originally approved the 66 unit housing project at Oak Rose. I'm grateful for more housing, but we shouldn't have had to go through this process. The homes that are being built are homes that the city needed. As leaders at the city of Elk Grove, the council and the mayor should know that. Our housing laws are not suggestions. They are not recommendations.
Starting point is 00:10:19 They are not optional for your consideration. They are the law. They are a shall. They are a must. They are a mandatory. mandatory says something really egregious at the end though No, you already got the part. No, no It's 40 minutes long. So you're gonna have to figure this one out He says we've discussed just comply just said that no not the way you said the way I've seen Oh look. All right. Well, I'll do Drew's show prep for it
Starting point is 00:10:42 All right There's a clip on the internet like a Twitter tweet out there acts out there with a 35 second version of this where he says just compliant if you already saw it drew but in your head it was more egregious So you think it's coming but you already saw it could be no it did be okay Did it did be it did be all right you got that now speaking of compliance? Here's an interesting thing We were I was just talking to I got to get you in with Michael gate So he'll give you some hope for the future against do some of the excess
Starting point is 00:11:15 Well, what you can do is you can find his reply to comply Which was tweeted out and then we can hear his response but this is stuff you should prep should have prepped for drew all right now speaking of compliance so I'm gonna change my tune yeah about the Tyree kill thing I was just talking to Joe oh wait do you have the the the one that got pushed out there and then the response? Maybe we do. Or Elk Grove. We will sue you and we will win as we have if necessary.
Starting point is 00:11:54 And again, we don't want it to be necessary. We have better things to do than to sue cities who know better from failing to comply with housing laws. So just comply, do your part. But this is a strong settlement. We're proud of it. We're gonna see more housing. All right, the same as you already said. All right, speaking of complying, now I'm gonna fly in the face of my complying.
Starting point is 00:12:16 Because I like not complying with these guys. But Joe Prano and the other rooms on Tyreke Hill's side. Okay. Joe's kind of progressive. Okay. And I know how everyone's gonna land on this story. Okay. The progressive guys are gonna land on Tyreek Hill side,
Starting point is 00:12:33 and the non are gonna land somewhere else. Okay. But I still feel like I... My argument is always don't argue with the cops and you'll be fine. Yeah. But he disagrees. Okay. Or he's on But he disagrees. Okay.
Starting point is 00:12:45 Or he's on Tyreek's side. Okay. But I don't know what his argument's gonna be, but I'm curious. I wanna be on Tyreek's side. I think the argument is gonna be the cops overstep their boundaries. Which is true.
Starting point is 00:12:58 Which is true. Yeah. Right, but my argument still goes back to don't roll your window up when the cop's talking to Yeah, and he definitely did not comply and he instigated I mean the cop instigated by pulling him over but that's what cops do Yeah, right. Yeah, and then he rolled this window up. So see if you can get Joe to come in and Say something. I'm so curious. He's a bright guy, Joe is, what the angle is for Joe. I'll voice my only concern with it is, I do agree with you, the non-compliance was in the face of the cops,
Starting point is 00:13:39 it was their reaction. And it's kind of tough to watch when there is there's guns and boots and violence in their favor and it's legal violence. It's just it's it's a difficult thing to watch. I think they took it to a level that wasn't necessary. We're saying yeah. Same thing we're saying. Although more physical stuff happens to them on the football field if you really want to break it down. But Joe, what's your angle?
Starting point is 00:14:01 I'm sorry. I missed I missed the bring me. The argument for Tyree Kill. I don't know if I have the argument for Tyree Kill. I guess the thing is we live in a world now where, and you guys have been fantastic about it, which is not complying with every little whim that the government puts in front of us. So it is weird that whenever we get pulled over by the police, then we're supposed to do it exactly
Starting point is 00:14:33 as they say, when they say it, and if we don't, it can immediately escalate, and the answer from everybody is, well, why didn't you just comply? It's like, I rolled down my window, I got your thing, he says give me my ticket, let me go on my way, I'm gonna be late to the game. The guy didn't like that, now he's knocking on the window, now they don't get along and now all of a sudden
Starting point is 00:14:54 he's pulled out and he's thrown on the ground. It just feels, it feels like for all of us who kind of agree that the government is taking a little bit too much control that That don't tread on me crowd and the blue lives matter a crowd sure do cross over a lot Well, I I mean I don't like I don't like cops and I don't like that their reactions and their controls right either, but if you if you have to let's say
Starting point is 00:15:29 It's like I don't like that. I have to take my belt my shoes off at the fucking airport. That's like I don't like it It's a huge waste everyone. It's a big waste, but there's no real Negotiating that like if someone goes all right next step through the metal detector go, no, I'm just gonna go around the metal detector. And then the guy goes, sir, you have to come through the metal detector. And then I go, I'm a citizen and I have no criminal record and no attachment to Al Qaeda. At some point, I'm gonna get tackled. And it's kind of unfortunate, but it's also kind of baked into this thing, you know. again, the airport security is 100% innocent people 100% of the time forced to do a bunch of rando shit with people that are
Starting point is 00:16:15 sometimes in a good mood, but sometimes super shitty. And we all just hang our heads. And we just shuffle through the thing. And you get randomly whatevered for a search and a pat down, and you're, it's all a ritual, it's all a waste of time, it's baked into society and there's really nothing we can do about it. And my feeling is, is if you're willing to put yourself through that at the airport, then you have to be willing to suck it up and kind of put yourself through it on the streets of Dade County. It's the same thing to me. It's some fucking idiot who makes the tenth of the money I make hassling me. Like I had to go back and check a bag that I'd been carrying with me all through the United States because some 23 year old woman of color goes,
Starting point is 00:17:07 you're not getting on the plane. You can't do that. And I'll go, let me just take it, it's fine. Put it in the template. I put it in the template and it fit. She's like, it's hanging out like a Dodger dog over the bun, you know? And I go, I've traveled here with,
Starting point is 00:17:19 I travel everywhere with this case. Take it back to the counter and check it out. It's like, I could have made a thing. Like I could have, but- I feel like it's in the same realm, but do you see how police in America, it's hanging out over the side is now, it escalates so much faster.
Starting point is 00:17:39 It feels like the people who become TSA agents are like one type of person, and the guys who decide to sign up to be police in America today have a whole other lack of patience and quickness to react. The reality is we see footage of it when it goes wrong. There's millions of interactions every day where the fucking Karen behind the wheels being a bitch to the guy, the guy's just kind of eating shit and writing and he's
Starting point is 00:18:09 and she's, there's tons of that that we never really see where like the average cop is getting shit from the chick, the soccer mom, oh nobody robbed any banks today while she's handing stuff and he's just like, yeah, okay, just suck it up. So I think if we only see snippets of when it goes south, then we get a little polluted or skewed at least. I'm just saying, I don't like it. I don't know that there's any alternative for like, well, in the interaction, like let's say the guy rolls his window up, you should be able to do that as a citizen, that's gonna lead to just weird
Starting point is 00:18:51 chaos. It would lead to the same thing of me at the airport going, you can't prove I'm a terrorist, I have no criminal record, I passed clear, I'm not going through the metal detector, I don't like the radiation on my nut sack, like, it's to get pulled out. I'm going to be told to leave. I'm going to then explain I'm an American and I have my rights. And at some point, there will be a headlock. There will be a chokehold involved with that, and it'll get a little dicey when the chokehold kicks in. It also feels like cops even sometimes get their way these days and they still react.
Starting point is 00:19:25 Like he was just like, cool, you got me for my seatbelt and my speed. Give me my ticket. I'm going to the game. And that's not sufficient for the cop. I mentioned it on the show on ACS yesterday. I was tackled by a cop at the Port Authority bus terminal in New York because I came in a door, I tried to go back out the door and the cop's like, this door's closed and I was like, I came in at five seconds ago.
Starting point is 00:19:48 He's like, well it's closed now. I was like, I'm gonna miss this bus. I said it's fucking closed and I was like, all right, you're being a fucking asshole. And free speech, turned around, walked away. He now abandons the very important post that he has to guard, follows me through the port authority and is like, say it again,
Starting point is 00:20:04 say it again, say it again. I'm like, you just got your way, I'm not using your door, now all of a sudden, you wanna keep escalating, and it's like, you know. Give Tyree Kill his ticket. We can't argue if some cops are dicks or not. Which, that just is. I feel like it's a barred entry.
Starting point is 00:20:22 You're like, I wanna be in it. You know what though, I really think all we do is see footage of black men being abused by cops. That's really it There's there's a lot of good cops. There's a lot of polite cops. I've dealt with decent cops I've you pull over and it's yes, sir. No, sir. You can get out of a ticket if you're super Submissive, you know and then people, why should you have to kiss their ass? I don't know, because you don't get a $821 ticket, maybe. It was right. All I'm saying is, is he rolled the window up
Starting point is 00:20:54 mid-exchange and sorry, that's on him. That's not compliance in any sense. But why should you have to kiss their ass? It's like, well. You shouldn't have to kiss, look, look, you shouldn't, when I was, I always liked it, but when I was leaving Seattle, I think I was in Seattle a million years ago, and I was going through TSA, and there was this old Aunt Esther woman
Starting point is 00:21:10 sitting at the very end on a bench as I was entering the security line. And I brought a brand new Starbucks iced coffee for like $8, and it was like seven in the morning. And I was walking past her just showing the ID, but I was getting an idea, and I was like, oh, I'm gonna go get some coffee. And I was like, oh, I brand new Starbucks iced coffee for like $8 and it was like 7 in the morning and I was walking past her just showing the ID but I was getting in line
Starting point is 00:21:30 and she goes, you throw that coffee way right here and I go, oh I'm going to finish it and then I'll throw it away before I go through security and she goes, or you can throw it away here and I go, yeah I just got, I'm going to drink it in line, I'll throw it away and she goes, well then go on, get. She yelled get. If she had a shotgun, she would have pumped it. And I was like, God, she's been a fucking bitch to a person that's a traveler's paying or whatever.
Starting point is 00:21:55 I was like, she's fucking rude and she's a bitch. And I didn't get into it with her. I didn't, whatever. There's just, you better adopt that. I don't think she's right. I don't think the cops are right. I'm saying that's the society we're living in. Well any society. That's it. One of the functions of government is a monopoly on violence. That's a function of all government, period. Whether it's military or police, that is one of the features of human government.
Starting point is 00:22:24 whether it's military or police, that is one of the features of human government. And given that that's how we roll as human beings, part of that contract is you grant them that and comply with that. Listen, here's my inconsistency. Here's my inconsistent. When Gavin Newsom says we're closing the beaches, I want everyone to go to the beaches. That's a non-compliance. If a in the beaches, I want everyone to go to the beaches. That's a noncompliance. If a Coast Guard guy physically confronted me at the beach, I would not fight him. That's a sort of micro-macro, but yes, it's inconsistent. Now you're talking about civil disobedience.
Starting point is 00:22:55 When a government unjustly applies their authority. Well, I've decided it's unjust. He decided it was just. That's the problem. That's right, and so you go to do civil disobedience and the courts may have to decide. Hey, a reminder, this show is sponsored by BetterHelp. You like to learn stuff? Of course therapy can help you learn a lot. As adults, we don't make the time. We lose our childhood curiosity. Therapy helps you get that back to school mindset at any age.
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Starting point is 00:24:14 All right. What else are you thinking about, Drew? Well, I was thinking I had some interesting interactions with some young ladies and there was a certain aspect that I think you have mentioned, and I just wanted to sort of shine a light on it, which is the repetition, the perseveration, like the going around, going around, going around on a topic. With women. With women.
Starting point is 00:24:40 Yes. Where they're describing to you something like, my wife, we need to go to dinner tonight and we need to leave at six o'clock. Got it. Yeah, well, I tell you what, we gotta get going. We gotta get a 5.30, we're gonna have to leave at six o'clock. Six o'clock is when we're having dinner. Do you understand that that's when we're going
Starting point is 00:24:57 and they're gonna wait for us. Well, okay, so you and I look at it as a waste of time. Yes. For them, they're not satiated. Their anxiety. Enough. The anxiety has to be projected onto you. Well, is it all like, I just ran into this too,
Starting point is 00:25:17 because I had my lady friends say, you're spread too thin, you're doing all these shows, you got this special coming up and here you go doing Cuomo again. And I go, and you do Cuomo all the time, you know? And I go, I've done Cuomo three times in my life, probably, but the last time I did it was in New York for the first debate with Biden.
Starting point is 00:25:40 That was the last time I did Cuomo. Yeah, well now you got it again. I'm like, okay, but it's not, they send a van to the house, it's not really being spread thin. Well, you can't just keep doing Cuomo, you know, I go, I don't, but I don't do that. But I won't, fine, I won't.
Starting point is 00:25:56 But the theory of I just keep doing this thing that I rarely ever do is not a thing. So I just go, this is fine, all right, well, I'll do it this one time, because I'm booked, and then we'll not a thing. So I just go, this is fine, all right, well I'll do it this one time, because I'm booked and then we'll take a break. Yeah, because you keep doing, I'm like, okay, first off, the premise is flawed, I don't do it that much, but then,
Starting point is 00:26:15 but there's energy. Yes, it has to be discharged. And it has to be discharged. And I'm like, okay, first off, it's not really a thing. It goes, it never less than four go-rounds. Always four go-rounds. No, sometimes six or eight go-rounds. I don't think the point is Cuomo. I think the point is energy being dispelled.
Starting point is 00:26:36 That's my point. That's my me point, which is that we fear, you and I feel it as a waste of time because I got it the first time. Got it. Check. Delivered. Well, but there's two types of got it's.
Starting point is 00:26:50 There's, you know, don't leave your smelly socks on the rug under the coffee table because it makes the whole room smell like smelly socks and it gets into the carpet. A little too specific, but okay. No, no. I'm pretty good at socks. But. A little too specific, but okay. No, no. I'm pretty good at socks. But the point is, okay, got it, get what it is. The Cuomo thing is not that practical.
Starting point is 00:27:13 I disagree with the premise. I rarely ever do Cuomo show. It's not something, the premise is you're doing Cuomo so much you can't focus on other things. And I'm like, I almost never do Como. So I disagree with the premise, but I will still go along with the premise in order to extricate myself from this conversation.
Starting point is 00:27:35 Which I don't really, I look at it as a waste of time because the premise, I get a lot of like, you know, a lot of like, you know, a sort of like, if somebody said to me like, oh my God, you're eating baked beans again for dinner. And I'd go, I never eat baked beans for dinner. Again with the baked beans, you know, and then you're like, I've done it twice.
Starting point is 00:28:04 You know, it's sort of like when people go, oh, why don't you have your best friend, Dinesh D'Souza back on the show? It's like, Dinesh D'Souza's done the show two times in 15 years. I don't have his home number or cell. He's not my best friend. I've never spoken to him outside or whatever.
Starting point is 00:28:22 Oh, I got a premise. This premise is this thing Yeah, and my feeling is with women most of the time. I Disagree with your premise because it's what your premise is flawed oftentimes off. Yeah all the Times often the premise is flawed. Yeah, but I'll go along with it just to try to get out of this thing. Yeah, that does happen. But even once you comply and agree, there's gonna be two more go-rounds at least. Well, the reason is...
Starting point is 00:28:56 You're gonna find yourself saying, yes, I agree, I got it, we'll do that. More than a few times. No, because this is the situation that I've explained to you many times all those years ago when I was backing my car out from Hollywood Center Studio and almost hit the pussy he, she fucking idiot douche never played high school football guy who was walking behind me who was like, oh my God, you almost hit me, and I just went, sorry, I didn't see you, my fault. Well, he wasn't done because he was emotionally charged. So he had to come around and say, you almost hit me again,
Starting point is 00:29:38 and then I said, sorry, again, and then he had to circle back a third time a little bit, few moments later, and explain again that I was him. Because... That's a certain personality. Well, it's chick wiring, but it's also puss wiring, and that's how those guys feel, and women. And so they're not done with the emotional part of it.
Starting point is 00:30:00 You could have been done with the practical part of it a long time ago, but they're still going with the emotional part of it. And I don't know that this is. And all it does is agitate them when you go, I heard you, it's not gonna happen again. That's what's also troubling. And then you start walking out of the room,
Starting point is 00:30:14 and then you hear them yelling from behind you because they're still not done. Which, by the way, when I was explaining, like you were talking about Brett Weinstein and Evergreen State, the grievance, they're not done. Right. It's a grievance thing, it's not a practical thing. So, but they never go, I have a grievance,
Starting point is 00:30:38 I'm airing my grievance. They go, I have a practical application. The LGBT community has a thing, and then you satisfy that thing, and then they have another thing, and then at some point you go, I don't want middle-aged trannies shaking their moneymaker in front of three-year-olds
Starting point is 00:30:55 at a library reading Cat in the Hat, and they go, oh, okay, now we got a grievance. But that grievance is only because they want a grievance. I would argue the grievance thing is a little different. That's like a posture that never goes away while what we're talking about with the go rounds of emotional content. I always conceptualize that this is not technically accurate, but I think of it the way I think of the phenomenon of projective identification.
Starting point is 00:31:22 Certain personality styles need to project their unpleasant feelings into you and then monkey around with them, amplify them. No, I know it is true. I could always hear my mom going, my mom would always be that thing where I'd go, oh, I'm doing Letterman this weekend. So much stress, so stressful. I'd go, no, it's kind of cool, I get to do Letterman.
Starting point is 00:31:42 Lot of stress, it's very stressful, stressful. And whenever I would sort of explain to her that I was working or traveling, it's a lot of stress, very difficult. Chip your bottom with a wheel. A lot of energy, a lot of energy being expelled. Yeah, I know, I know, I wish I could be comatose. And hooked up to a fuckin' drip of saline solution.
Starting point is 00:32:03 Like, yeah, but oh, that's stressful, very stressful. You know, and I would always go, no, no, that's what I wanna do. So it was a lot of projecting. I think women probably project, they do a lot of that. You know, my dog thinks he's a person. You know, look at him. Look at Mitz, he thinks he's a person.
Starting point is 00:32:21 Put him in a stroller, put shoes on him. Put a sweater and shoes on him. He needs a sweater and shoes. He thinks he's a person. Put him in a stroller. Put shoes on him. Put a sweater and shoes on him. He needs a sweater and shoes. He thinks he's a person. Yeah. Yeah, it's a lot. Mitzi thinks that. Mitzi.
Starting point is 00:32:31 Maybe you think that about Mitzi. Hmm. Yeah, so yeah, I mean, that's kind of what you're dealing with. The fastest way to shut me down, which is funny because most of my arguments with people are just because they don't go, will do, won't happen again. Oh boy. But they don't. They just keep going and going and going.
Starting point is 00:32:52 But I would like the will do, won't happen again, because I don't come back for round two. Because why would I want to come back with round two? You just said will do, won't happen again. That's how I work. But it's a kind of a pragmatism, but it's also kind of based on extra superfluous kind of speak, you know?
Starting point is 00:33:19 And it's a weird, and energy. You're speaking to communicate something. Once it's communicated, it's done. I don't even you know, it's so funny it's like and I guess we just do it, you know, like when they have the Mother of the fallen soldier from Benghazi they get up there in front of Congress and they have it like a prepared statement And they go, you know my Stevie went he enlisted and the Marines in 1992, and there's nothing I can say to bring him back.
Starting point is 00:33:53 And I wish he was here today. And no matter what we do today, I'll never be able to hug Stevie again. And there's no amount of congressional oversight that can ever bring, and it's like, I always just wanna go, yes, yes, of course. No shit, I get it. Like it's a shit position for you to be in. But all the kind of extra talk,
Starting point is 00:34:20 it just bugs the shit out of me. And when politicians do it, it really bugs the shit out of me. And when they do it, it really bugs the shit out of me. And when they do it during, also there's just a lot of redundancy talk where people just go, I believe that people need to be treated in a fair and not an unfair manner. It's like you just had it with fair. fair and not an unfair manner. It's like you just had it with fair. We didn't have to circle to the next thing it wasn't.
Starting point is 00:34:51 Like it's a lot of just extra kind of dressing talk which I think exclusively is kind of coming from dumb people. And I kind of get insulted by it. Because I might have got it. So the grieving mother from the embassy tragedy, I don't, because she drives a school bus for a living and this is not her realm. And so she's baked in some platitudes to kind of pad the speech a little bit and make things a little easier on herself. It's the politicians who do, you know, a little easier on herself. It's the politicians who do, you know, after the school shooting, they go, it's never okay.
Starting point is 00:35:31 This is 100% unacceptable. This is not unacceptable. It's like, it just happened. It's already done. You can get up there and talk about it never being okay. You can talk about how unacceptable it is. But it's 20 minutes old. So it did happen. and talk about it never being okay. You can talk about how unacceptable it is. But it's 20 minutes old.
Starting point is 00:35:47 So it did happen. I mean, you could say that about, you could say that about the 49ers losing the Super Bowl last year. But KC won the Super Bowl. But it could be unacceptable, I guess. I don't even know that- I don't even know that. It's interesting how we get back to this.
Starting point is 00:36:06 I don't even know what unacceptable means about things that already happen. Right. Which is another weird world we've drifted into. But as usual, looking at sports helps clarify things. Yes. And it doesn't exist.
Starting point is 00:36:18 It doesn't exist within sports. All right. Das Lagos Amphitheater. That'll be this Sunday. Be doing stand-up there. Selena's be over there at Selena's Sports Complex. That'll be September 18th and then September 19th be over at Jimmy's place for two shows.
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