The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - #1918 No More Folklore Around the Campfire

Episode Date: September 20, 2024

Ending the week, the guys discuss A.I's possible involvement in news outlets, Adam recaps his recent interview with Bill O'Reilly, and the alternative media's fight for freedom! Plus, they try to figu...re out what 'Economy Class Syndrome' is, Dr. Drew explains Lupus, and an appreciative voicemail from a former caller. Leave us a voicemail: SpeakPipe.com/AdamandDrDrew OR Click the microphone at top of the homepage, AdamandDrDrew.com Please Support Our Sponsor: This Episode is Sponsored by BetterHelp, BetterHelp.com/AdamandDrew

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Starting point is 00:01:47 Sure they're gonna be able to get it on. Dr. Drew's Board Certified Zist, Nixameth Specialist. B-b-bill. What's going on, man? Yeah, you walked in here, got me all upset, talking about the distortions that have been going on for so long by our press, that reality has become reality itself. They've actually imprinted reality.
Starting point is 00:02:07 They haven't just distorted people's perception of it. They've changed it because people then act accordingly based on a disturbed bullshit notion of what the world looks like. And it's really kind of disturbing. You know, when COVID was breaking out, my impression at the time, now what did we have, five years ago, 19, wasn't it? Yeah. Well, end of 19, yeah. Yeah. Was that it was all press generated. I was convinced that the press were doing their thing. I was in New York before a, I guess there've been a couple cases somewhere in the United States, but essentially none. And Italy had had a bunch of an outbreak. And I remember I went on one of these new shows in New York and already, but how about the staggering numbers? I said,
Starting point is 00:02:58 they're not staggering. And I said, by the way, they're going to be huge. What word are you going to use then? And then immediately, Grim Milestone. Is there like a, you know, back in the day, this is what I'm wondering now. When I was in college, I read a, my first radio experience was as a freshman in college, somebody asked me to read the news for someone who was jobless, to read the news every night. And you'd go into the college radio station and you would pull off the AP report off the teletype, the thing in the back, it's typing, typing, typing, typing. And you'd pull it, you'd rip it off and here would be a bunch of stories written by the AP complete. The stories were, you just read the AP report.
Starting point is 00:03:47 Is that still how they create news? Somebody prints out a bunch of shit and then the producers just give it to ChatGPT and it's just parroted by all the news agencies. What we're dealing with in this era, and it's an era of videotape and microphones, is a overcompensation and battle to fight for a theme when it's more difficult for a theme to prevail. And it's interesting that the videotape and the audio tape doesn't prevent people, doesn't seem to interrupt the people's theme thinking. But here's what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:04:33 I gave the metaphor a million times. It's no more folklore around the campfire. This is, we have the tape. We can read the transcripts. You can see what the person said and you can read the transcript. You can read what the person said and you can read the transcript. You can see what read what the person said. You can listen to it. It's all there. You know what I mean? So, you know, it's like it's sort of interesting stuff. So now you
Starting point is 00:04:55 go, well, what are we dealing with here? Now, what I always said, which I stand by, is when we elected the first black president to a first and then second term, the folks that were looking for racism had to look harder and triple down their efforts, and they did. And they worked harder to convince us that we were a racist nation. And you saw it was palpable. It started right about the time we elected a black president. We went hard, and we're going harder now. So we're, you know, in the face of evidence and video, we're having to go hard at it,
Starting point is 00:05:39 which is something we're dealing with. There's also like a thing where like, when as it pertains to the debate, you have the moderator, Muir, I believe his name is, and he's trying to correct Trump and he's saying, you weren't sarcastic when he said you barely lost the race and I checked the tape, I watched the tape, I watched a lot of tape
Starting point is 00:06:04 and you didn't look that way. Oh, so you prepared for this debate by watching a lot of tape. Well, perhaps did you see the bloodbath comment that he made pertaining to car sales? Did you watch that tape? Did you prepare? That was about a 30 second clip. Is that part of the tape you watched to prepare with? Because I don't think you saw that tape because when she just quoted the bloodbath lie meaning Kamala Harris You didn't try to correct her on That so what tape are you watching? and My thing is at this particular point in time, I know what you're doing.
Starting point is 00:06:45 If you're in earnest watching tape of both candidates in order to correct them or jog their memory or something, then you would have also explained to Kamala Harris that you were watching tape of the bloodbath and he was not pertaining to a bloodbath in this country he was saying it was a metaphorical bloodbath if we don't you know we let China import all these cars or it was pertaining to the auto industry right so why didn't he say that why didn't she say right they studied the tape but you're very studied on his other interviews when he said he was
Starting point is 00:07:27 being sarcastic by losing by a whisker, right? So that's funny that you studied all this tape, but you missed this one. Isn't that interesting? Yes. And you would have seen it because it was all over the news, all over your news. Perhaps he reported it on his evening news, but he missed that and he missed He also missed the tape where kamala hairs was talking about Mandatory gun Confiscations or buybacks or whatever. Did you miss that tape as well when she said i'm a gun owner and i've always been pro gun
Starting point is 00:08:01 That was that part of the tape package you watch so now color me suspicious. Because you just admitted to watching tape and studying for this, but you didn't watch all the tape, did you? Well and so it begs the issue what the F is going on, right? Do you have a theory? The theory is they are openly, almost at this point, rooting for one candidate over the other, and they don't really seem to care anymore if you get a peek under their skirt. They're laying their cards on the table now. They still do a bizarre
Starting point is 00:08:50 ritual Dana bash will do it and stuff should go. Excuse me, sir. You don't know my politics. You don't know how I vote You know, we don't yeah, you've made it clear a thousand times I'm just gonna do a hundred interviews with Trump versus Hillary Clinton. Yeah. Yeah, so there's a difference All right. So there's a difference. All right, so There's that now as far as people go It is just a thing that I told you a lot of it is is a feminization sort of thing Well, hang on though before you get into that Not getting into it. I'm just saying
Starting point is 00:09:21 Women have the capacity to say this and then you explain that's why it wasn't that, and then six months later they go right back to this, and they believe it. Right. Because that's what they had. You can't disavow them of it. Right. There's a feeling left behind by it that they go back to, even though the facts were wrong. But I saw a guy the other day was claiming, it might have been Mike Benz, was claiming that what's going on now has been going on since the Kennedy assassination.
Starting point is 00:09:52 That he was connecting it really to the intelligence agency kind of taking over everything. And the kind of final blow was Biden calling white nationalism and domestic terrorism the greatest single threat to this country. That allowed all the foreign anti-terrorism techniques to be turned inwardly. So of course they can control the press too. Yeah, I think that, you know, I spoke about this with Bill O'Reilly on my... By the way, I couldn't tell what his position was. O'Reilly? Yeah. He was very harsh on Trump, he was harsh on everybody.
Starting point is 00:10:37 Yeah, he's a balls and strikes guy. He's a conservative guy who's a Republican, but he's balls and strikes. He'll tell you if his guy didn't do well or he thinks he doesn't like and Trump's not his guy He's just the guy who's better than that the girl got in this case or buying a look a Feather duster is better than Joe Biden. I mean, that's what I'm saying I mean, that's sort of the thing I have with their test. I do have this with people all the time They're like I can't believe you think Trump is oh You can wait first off. It's a choice you get a or B. Mmm. A is a complete
Starting point is 00:11:15 addled disaster what do you mean? Yeah, I know you're turning your nose up at me, but Who did you vote for and then what he do? And then how did he do? Then how is this going? Where's he going? You know what I mean? Like, oh, you got a fucking lot of nerve, like sort of looking down on me when this is your choice. And by the way, it's not just, you know, addled and old and bad decision-making. There's all the corruption baked in there, too, if you care to look. The corruption, but also the people doing the governing are the actors in the Twitter
Starting point is 00:11:52 files. Right. And I just had a flash just this minute on somebody I knew who was... I've always been involved with the, obviously, the drug and alcohol stuff in every administration. I knew a couple, I don't know if I introduced them to you or not, but a woman judge who ran a court in Texas became part of the, I don't know what actually department she was in, but she was really a significant force in helping the homeless and whatnot. She brought me in to help out. And when she left the White House
Starting point is 00:12:26 and the administrative offices, she said something that just caught my ear. She goes, oh, they swept in these new, it's just all new people, and they love to govern. And I thought, oh, love to government, that's not a good look. I want them to leave the F alone. Leave everybody alone. Don't be busy governing.
Starting point is 00:12:47 And that's what gives you the Twitter files. They think they know better. I can't remember what, oh, I was going to do something with O'Reilly and then you cut me. I'm sorry. That's not your fault. You were talking about he was calling balls and strikes and that he was on your podcast. Yeah, he was on your podcast. Yeah, he was on my podcast. And I said something that led me, or something led us into O'Reilly.
Starting point is 00:13:10 And I forgot it. But he's basically saying, look, the government's been run this way for a while. Biden's not in charge. Kamala's not in charge. None of those people are in charge. You were responding to my talking about it being all the way back to the Kennedy assassination and I hate to think that that is so but Eric Weinstein, Brett Weinstein, I don't know if I told you, you and I talked a little bit about this but he has a theory that the reason it's so
Starting point is 00:13:38 vigorous is they didn't anticipate things like what we're doing right now that there'd be alternative media out there fighting back for freedoms. Yes. And I wasn't responding to the Kennedy thing. And I don't know. It'll bug me because I can't remember. But I was, I was bringing up O'Reilly for a reason and now it escaped me. How was that appearance with him? Oh, O'Reilly's a great guy. He's very animated, it seemed to me.
Starting point is 00:14:04 He's very bright. He's also animated it seemed to me. He's very bright. Yeah. He's also, it's also interesting which is the day before I think I did Megyn Kelly. Oh yeah. And we were laughing or sort of talking about Kamala Harris with her crazy crazy head nodding and laughing and she goes, and I've been saying it's a theme on my own trust these people you know what I all hairs with a crazy, crazy head nodding and laughing, laughing, and she goes, and I've been saying, it's a theme on my own, trust these people, you know what I mean? And she goes, oh man, that's the thing about Bill O'Reilly,
Starting point is 00:14:31 just come in and, Kelly, how you doing? Good, here we go, let's go, and Coral, good, here we go, good start, and I go, yeah, that's the way I like it. So it's the same with him, and I feel the same way. We don't pretend to like each other. We like each other. I like Megyn Kelly, but we don't get all cackly. Drew's going to do a spot, but I'm going to tell you guys, I liked a tweet that reminded me, was that Biden doing a creating black jobs thing, but it was a weird thing because he got caught up a little.
Starting point is 00:15:14 You mean the way he does where he loses track? Yeah, he stumbled a little and he just went like, our administration created more black jobs, black, black, black. Like he was like, I picture him, that's what he does when he wakes up at 4 a.m., you know, like a bad dream. He's like, oh, black, black, black, black.
Starting point is 00:15:39 I mean, when he's, when he's in the full throes of dementia, and he's in his bed, and the nurse is tending to him, he's just going to be going, she's going to be, you want more pudding? Black, black. I mean, that's really- My wife's, my mother-in-law, my wife's mom, when she got dementia, she would just say, four, four, four, four, four. He's just going to say, he's's gonna be saying black over and over again,
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Starting point is 00:17:28 They don't care. I mean, the press doesn't. But the thing that it's not so they're going, oh, gotcha. You just did a whole thing where you got Trump saying, what is a black job? What do you mean black job? They made fun of him saying black job. I by the way, agree in the sense that When you have the you know mayor of Los Angeles going you want to deport these people who's gonna clean your toilet
Starting point is 00:17:58 Who's gonna wipe your ass who's gonna clean your snot rockets off the sidewalk? Who's gonna slice your papaya? Picking really bad jobs for these people. You know what I mean? I personally would have said build your homes, you know, but- Attend to the masonry. Clean your toilets. It's kind of racist, you know.
Starting point is 00:18:18 So I don't like black jobs or Hispanic jobs or whatever jobs. Now, I get low income jobs and there's more low-income blacks than there are asians so that when migrants come across here and take jobs they're taking black jobs again within that context you know anyway this was just funny just three and a half years we created over two million new black jobs for black
Starting point is 00:18:46 Americans and black... In just three and a half years, we created over two million new black jobs for black Americans and black... Black! I hope his nurse isn't black. Because it's going to be nothing but black talk. Black, black, black. But I mean, if you said to me,
Starting point is 00:19:13 you gotta just summarize his entire presidency, I just go, well watch this 18 second clip. That's about, that's what I got. I mean, that's what I learned. Black, black, the black, here's what I got. I mean, that's what I learned black black The black here's what I did, but he he oftentimes fucks up He can't get through what he did know and by the way, it's it's it's like That's from black appreciation day or like black achievement day at the White House
Starting point is 00:19:40 I don't know again. I don't think that people fully understand how weird and condescending and all this is flowing. You know what I mean? It's borderline gross and it's 2024. Somehow it just, whatever it is that strikes me as grotesque does not bother most people at all. And it's maybe the opposite. They kind of like it. You know what I mean? Yeah. What's wrong with black, you know, whatever? I don't know. Because, for some, they don't care and they don't mean it. Yeah. All right. What do you got? Well, it turns out turning left to get onto your aircraft is more important than you once thought. turning left to get onto your aircraft is more important than you once thought. There's a whole... Not me.
Starting point is 00:20:27 Well, it's... It's not more important than I thought. Nothing's more important, I guess, from your standpoint. You're not flying in real first class unless you turn left. If you turn right, you're not in first class. I've been telling you that for over a decade. Although I was in a first class, a, one you would consider a first class the other day, I think I called you because I turned right to get onto it and it was really odd.
Starting point is 00:20:57 It's not impossible, but rule of thumb, if you turn left, you're in real first class. So economy class turns out as dangerous. Well listen to syndrome. Yeah we have economy class syndrome. That's what it's colloquially known as. I cannot speak. But what happens is deep vein thrombosis or DVT is a life-threatening medical condition that occurs when a blood clot forms in a vein located near the center of the body. And this happens to be an endangerment when you fly economy class. It's on the rise. So DVT is a well-known problem. This is an oldish story. This has been around for a while. Hold on. Hold on So as the space has narrowed, yeah, we're moving less
Starting point is 00:21:51 No, and it gets what people are fatter people are fat and the vaccine may be doing something in terms of clodding What is what does what would do what would alcohol do to your blood versus? What would alcohol do to your blood versus buttermilk versus a sandwich? You know what I mean? Like if you weren't able to exercise, should you go, well, don't drink? You know what I mean? No, take an aspirin. An aspirin. Yeah, take an aspirin. So an aspirin would be good.
Starting point is 00:22:16 Useful, helpful. Helpful in this equation. They would say, get up and walk around every hour or something. That's not the practice. 180 people. Not only that, in economy class, extracting yourself from those seats, if you're not on the aisle, it's an ordeal to get out. Yes, you have people getting larger by the year
Starting point is 00:22:38 and seats getting smaller by the year. And that's what we're running into and we have not made the adjustment for that. We have a couple of voicemails. We do you want to talk to Amanda? Well we're not gonna talk. I mean hear from Amanda. I beg your pardon. I'm only sounding kind of cynical because you're at this conversation twice. Hello I'm big fans of you both. I developed lupus after my first Pfizer vaccine. And my question is, do I just follow my rheumatologist's
Starting point is 00:23:15 advice, which is taking a biologic? Or is there something more COVID related that I should be doing, such as taking ivermectin. Thank you so much. Interesting question. Do you take hydroxychloroquine when you have lupus? You do. People... Oh, but that could kill you. Yeah, right. So there's an interesting combination there, but it sounds like she has very serious lupus if they're going to give her a biologic.
Starting point is 00:23:43 And in young women, lupus... What's a biologic? Like, these immune regulators, immune suppression medicine, they're more very specific to certain inflammatory components. And it's pretty... it gets very serious in young women. And they're going to be mild lupus in a young woman, but they wouldn't really be talking about it
Starting point is 00:24:02 biologically, I don't think. So, definitely do what they tell you for sure. I, you know, people are trying to make an association between the Vax and the lupus. I'm not convinced, but okay, I mean, certainly ask the questions. If you want to do other things, if you think it's a post-vaccine reaction, the post-vaccine reaction is really all related to continued spike production and continued immune response to spike. And Dr. Peter McCullough has some really interesting protocols.
Starting point is 00:24:33 You could look online for the McCullough Method and you can get some ideas. The wellness company I work for, TWC, has I think it up on their website. And he's, I've spent a lot of time with him and he's working very hard. He's a decorated cardiologist. He's one of the most published physicians in the country. He's got a deep platform that dude. I know. He's causing injuries.
Starting point is 00:24:52 I know. And he's coming up with some interesting ideas though for helping with this. But definitely also, you know, don't just do that. By all means follow what your rheumatologist is saying. And make sure nothing is interacting with anything. I'm not aware of an interaction and you could ask about hydroxychloroquine as well. Do we have a second? Yeah. This doesn't have it I don't think. No there's another one. Oh Amanda? Yeah no no well it might be
Starting point is 00:25:17 Amanda but there's another one. Wait who do we just hear from? Amanda we have Dominic next. Dominic. Is that not represented on this? It is not confused. It is okay All right. It was in the episode two. We just didn't get to it. Oh, okay. Here we go Get it on guys. You're not gonna care 49 from New Jersey I really enjoyed your episodes about difficult people and opposition to science I used to think my Russian wife was one of those difficult people and in fact I called you guys about it several years ago when we were fairly newly married and had our first kid She would give me a really hard time for things like leaving the baby wipes open
Starting point is 00:25:54 And I thought she was just being a hard ass and she should let it go But dr. Drew you said she sounds like Adam and Adam said yes, she sounds practical Baby wipes open they'll dry out, and they're wasted. So someone like your wife, Adam, who may have experienced you as difficult, in reality could have seen you as pragmatic, and someone who doesn't like waste.
Starting point is 00:26:14 And I've actually had that shift. My wife and I are gonna be having our 10 year wedding anniversary. We've got three kids in December. Well, we've got three kids, our anniversary's coming up in December. And you really helped me to appreciate her, see her for what she is, and perhaps looking at myself as having an oppositional defiance issue.
Starting point is 00:26:32 Oh, fascinating for multiple reasons. One is, this is kind of how CBT works, right? You can shift the frame. What's CBT? Cognitive behavioral therapy, which is sort of, which is what we can shift the frame. What's CBT? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which is sort of, which is what we did with the guy. And you shift the frame and everything changes. You're looking at it differently, you're motivated differently, you're seeing her differently,
Starting point is 00:26:55 you're seeing yourself differently. But I think the other important thing about that call is all you can change is yourself. You cannot change your partner. And so sitting and trying to, I mean you could ask her to do some work if there's really something going on pathologically that you can't hang with or is threatening your relationship,
Starting point is 00:27:15 but you really gotta regulate yourself, take care of yourself. And that's kind of what he did. And it's interesting that things are better, isn't it? Yeah, they can be easier if you absorb it a little and be less of a backstop or everything bounces back to them. That's the problem with people's have a default setting, which is prominent and voluminous and it seems to lurk around every corner with almost every individual. And it doesn't, it's effect, dumb people do it more than smart people, but smart people do it as well.
Starting point is 00:27:55 They just offer up something and anything you offer to them gets met with some sort of opposition Regardless of how basic it is now. It's like I have certain there's certain things where you go Yes, put the cap back On the baby wipes because they dry out now to be fair to the cap snappers on the baby wipes and those of Us who don't they don't make it easy They want that shit to dry out because I swear to God you have to stuff the stuff back into the package before you get I think they know what they're doing. I I do believe
Starting point is 00:28:35 They want it to dry out It's like I the iPhone is shaped like a bar of soap and It's two billion dollars worth of repair they get every year because they slide out everyone's hand. I said when society, you know, when you manufacture a Glock, the pistol, the handle is knurled. It's not meant for you to fire it then have it spin around in your hand. Picture what the handle of a handgun feels like. There could be no more better design in terms of,
Starting point is 00:29:10 I wanna keep this in your fucking hand. iPhone is meant to fly out of your hand. If you think about it. Now, you can go, people like it sleek, or they like it whatever, but they do get a lot of money in repairs. So, all right, here's the point. leak or they're likely whatever but they do get a lot of money in repairs so alright here's the point you push the the snap top down on the on baby wipes
Starting point is 00:29:34 because they will dry out you should do it and when the person who tells you to do that is doing you and the baby and the baby's ass and her a favor and especially anyone is paying for them is getting some benefit out of it. Now there are other ones that are weird with women like keep the toilet seat down. I do not understand why it's incumbent upon us to keep it down after we urinate into it and then put it down. Why can't you put it down before you sit on it? You're the one who's sitting on it. By the way, if we're going to play that game, why don't you put it up so when we come in,
Starting point is 00:30:13 we don't have to lean over and screw our backs up? It's a weird thing. The toilet seat is up, correct? In order to put the toilet seat down, you A, reach down to a little about waist height, and then you flip the top of it, and then it makes its way down. It'll fall or it'll fall slowly or whatever. To get it up, you have to go down low and go under and lift it up. But it's the same difference. You use it when it's down, I use it when it's up.
Starting point is 00:30:45 I don't know why it's incumbent upon me. It's certainly not incumbent upon you to raise it when you're done, as you just stated. So I don't get that, but I will just eat a dick and do it anyway because I don't wanna get into it. Well, my wife fell in when she was pregnant with Tripla because I didn't put it down. That was not good.
Starting point is 00:31:04 It's also kind of up to them to make sure it's down before they sit down on it, you know? So then there's stuff that kind of falls under the heading of, in my world, if I'm living alone, I will take a piss in a toilet and I will leave it there. And then two hours later, I'll take another piss in a toilet and I will leave it there and then two hours later I'll take another piss and then I'll flush it I don't see the need to waste that much water it's a pot full of piss you know I may in my world I could piss in it three times and then flush it when you live with someone that wants
Starting point is 00:31:37 you to flush it okay adjust adjust accordingly but there's a lot of stuff that people do that is literally just a, they just come back at you, which is, it's really prevalent and I don't get it. I've spent probably my adult life saying to people, men and women, mostly women, look, I'm just telling you the best way to do this. I'm not trying to lord it over you. This is not a critique. I'm just asking that you do it this way. It'll save you time and it makes more sense. I don't know why, why does this feel like an attack? And what's it say about you that everything feels like a personal attack and as I always tag it I Would like to not have this conference. I don't want to have this conversation you're Leaving the pool gate open and we have toddlers so I worry but I don't want I don't want to have the conversation
Starting point is 00:32:40 I would just like it if you shut the pool gate every time. But that's not what's happening. So now we're having this conversation. Why it feels like an attack is all on you and your whatever insecurities you possess, which must be great. Because I never feel that way when people tell me stuff. No, I will I oftentimes offer up some You know marginal explanation You know someone will go I've told you before like you put the pot of goulash You know the Tupperware full of goulash in the fridge and now it's sweating because it was hot, you know And I'll go oh, I just thought was left out. So I put it away
Starting point is 00:33:21 No, I think I'm gonna get yelled at for putting something away. But now I've learned. Yes, let it cool down I put it away. You know, I kind of want to get yelled at for putting something away, but now I've learned. Let it cool down, then put it away. But it's rampant. Don't let the goulash sweat. It's rampant, man, that's the title. Don't let the goulash sweat. It is pervasive. So much to the point for with me,
Starting point is 00:33:40 I oftentimes don't tell people stuff that they need to hear. It's defensiveness. And defensiveness is not a good thing. It's just a pathology. I mean, you can't learn anything, you can't respond to anything, you can't adjust to reality, you're negating the other person. It's not good.
Starting point is 00:33:58 Yes. And we all have a little clap back in us. We all have a little push back. You know what I mean? Like you know if somebody says to you and I'm this way I'm definitely this way you know someone goes hey listen you sitting you sitting here doing whatever playing a video game is not healthy it's not healthy I'll go you're eating a hamburger yesterday right and I do it I will right and I don't know if that's good or bad it's probably it's probably not it's mind your own business I mean I guess you feel like you're being jant we've been poked a little yeah you poke back a little but that's that's a
Starting point is 00:34:37 defensive thing that you shouldn't oh no everybody does it but but it's really pervasive these days right but when somebody says you know I came up the driveway and the hatch was open to your car you should shut it but but it's really pervasive these days, right? But when somebody says, you know, I came up the driveway and the hatch was open to your car You should shut it, you know, if someone could steal that I don't go back at them I go like oh shit. I left it open stupid. I'll fix that Alright, Pasadena, maybe Drew will be in the audience. Ice House and crawling friends September 22nd 8 p.m. That's coming up Provo Utah at the Dry Bar doing a clean show that'll be 7 p.m. show and also a 930 p.m. show Drew what do you got dr. com dr. TV subscribe with the rebel channel ask dr. Drew on TV, subscribe to the Rumble channel. Ask Dr. Drew. So, until next time, Adam Crow for Dr. Drew saying,
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