The Bechdel Cast - We Are the Best with Margaret Killjoy
Episode Date: August 4, 2022Hate da sport! Jamie and Caitlin recruit true punk Margaret Killjoy to teach them how to play their instruments and talk Swedish youth punk masterpiece We Are The Best! (This episode contains spoilers...) For Bechdel bonuses, sign up for our Patreon at patreon.com/bechdelcast. Follow @Magpiekilljoy on Twitter. While you're there, you should also follow @BechdelCast, @caitlindurante and @jamieloftusHELP.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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On the Bechdelcast, the questions asked if movies have women in them. Are all their discussions just
boyfriends and husbands or do they have individualism? The patriarchy's effing vast.
Start changing it with the bechdel cat jamie caitlin i i want to hold the microphone and and
host the podcast i i i want to do the recap what do you mean there on day one we said i was gonna
do the recap and then you were gonna not do the recap and you said you were fine with that well
i was lying okay well it's too late. You can't...
Damn it.
You can't date my brother.
You can't...
But he's so cute.
What about my...
No, maybe...
What about my dad?
He plays the clarinet.
I loved clarinet.
Clarinet dad.
No longer passing the Bechdel test, but...
Clarinet dad.
Clarinet dad had me... Oh, God. I love clarinet dad. He just... I'm like, love clarinet dead he just i'm like i don't even know
if he was a good parent but i loved clarinet hard to say you did laugh at them when uh the other
girl's mom was like i'm gonna call the police um yeah he's like you can't call the police about a bad haircut. Anyways, I'm off to go play the clarinet.
Anyway, welcome to the Bechdel cast.
My name is Caitlin Durante.
My name is Jamie Loftus. And this is our little podcast where we have guests bring a movie that they love.
And then we look at it from an intersectional feminist lens.
And we use the
bechdel test as a jumping off point sure and of course that is a media metric created by queer
cartoonist allison bechdel sometimes called the bechdel wallace test and there are many versions
of the test the one that we use is this Two characters of a marginalized gender have to have names.
They have to speak to each other.
And their conversation has to be about something other than a man.
And for our purposes, we like it to be a substantial conversation.
One that is many lines of dialogue and narratively meaningful.
Arguments about God at the dinner table if you will uh but isn't god a man and therefore wow okay does that pass i mean i don't
think not marginalized gender yeah i was i was like i mean we could really get in the weeds on on that um that that's true yeah
look i don't let's not get it but you know but i'm like you know we don't have to talk about
i don't assign gender to god who god is to us right and you know there's anyways okay uh today
we and and also the bechdel test is just a jumping off point for discussion.
Imperfect metric.
It's been a wild summer for the Bechdel test.
It really has.
Things have just been, the discourse, it's been wild.
And, you know, leave us alone is what I would say.
We're just here to talk about movies and have some fun.
And we have a hell of a movie to discuss today.
And a hell of a movie to discuss today and a hell of a guest our guest
is the host of cool people who did cool stuff the podcast from cool zone media and she's an
author and musician and she's margaret killjoy hello welcome how are you i'm good thanks for
having me on i'm really excited oh my gosh thanks for being here
look we know that uh podcasts are an audio medium but i do want listeners to know that
margaret has dressed for the occasion of the movie that we're talking about today
which is we are the best aka oh god v vr boss are you gonna try to say this in vr boss look uh-huh i did uh i i i did a little bit
of do you remember when i was doing i was trying to learn swedish duolingo for two whole months
yeah it didn't get far uh but we're covering a swedish movie today called vr boss aka we are called VR Boss, a.k.a. We Are the Best. I'm very excited to talk about it.
And Margaret, what is your relationship with this movie?
So I did first see this movie not all that long ago,
maybe five years ago or something or so.
I basically went through this period where I was like,
I'm going to watch all the girl punk movies,
and then kind of expanded out to like,
I'm going to watch all the punk movies but and this is the one that I remember um you know
I have I have many thoughts about the representation of uh punk in in media but but we are the best
like um lives up to its name in terms of representation of punk as far as I'm concerned, especially like punk girlhood.
So hell yeah.
Oh,
I'm very curious.
I know very little about that.
I'm curious about your opinions and other,
what are the other,
not to put you on the spot,
but what are other good punk movies?
So I actually think that the other best representation of punk in fiction is Green Room, which is a horror movie.
Oh, I love Green Room.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Have you all seen it?
Yeah, okay.
Yeah.
I think the fact that the punks in it don't dress like punks, I'm making air quotes here, and end up at some Nazi venue and then play, I don't remember if you cuss on this show or not.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh, yes. And then play Nazi punks fuck off if you cuss on this show or not oh yeah yeah yes and
then play nazi punks fuck off to a crowd full of nazis right i feel like it's one of the punkest
moments in cinema and and very much i get the sense of like okay the people who made this like
know what the hell they're talking about um i can't like wildly recommend it right because
this horror movie and um but it's a difficult watch and then also the fact that
in green room they all secretly also really like non-punk music and like only one of them like
actually has like their favorite band of all time is punk and all the rest of them
are not punk at all and i i think that is so accurate in rules um and then the other the
darkest if you want to if you want to hear all of my negative thoughts about punk i think the movie suburbia is really accurate um the one that has flea from red hot chili peppers
uh and his own non-actors i was fully thinking of dysterbia and that's on me so was i was okay
i was like what the shia labeouf movie right no there's this no there's this movie i think it's
from the 80s it's called suburbia and it's about these squatter punks in california and they're all racist and misogynist and uh from
broken homes and it's very accurate in a very disturbing way um in a lot of ways and it's a
lot of like non-actors in it so you get this like weird sense of realism from watching these
non-actors who kind of look like they're just being themselves
and slightly awkwardly um so if i were to pick accurate representations of punk uh we are the
best would be the one that i would be like look punk rules and then suburbia would be the like
also it's really dark and bad sometimes
i have a good to know.
I didn't prepare this list.
There's probably others that people are going to get mad at me for.
Caitlin, what's your history with this movie?
I saw it probably also around five years ago.
And I don't remember exactly what brought me to it.
Maybe aside from, I i think someone just recommending it
to me and saying that it was really good and that i'd probably like it and they were right
uh i think this movie rules and i think it is because i can't speak to punk at all. I'm extremely un-punk,
at least as far as punk music goes.
I would say I'm punk in other ways,
which is the maybe least punk thing to say.
I don't know.
But I think it is one of the most authentic
and accurate depictions of just being a 13 year old
girl that I've ever seen.
And like the things that you talk about with your friends,
the things that you care about,
the little,
just like the little things you do and say,
and just like,
yeah,
all that stuff.
When the moment where clara and whatever the punk boy are on the
roof bobo's like ellis yeah and bobo is like i'm gonna jump off the roof just kidding i was like
oh that it's like such an uncomfortable moment of feeling like oh no i've been that person that's
like haha hey guys i'm gonna jump off the
roof is this cool they're like we're leaving stop stop embarrassing uh yeah so i just loved
the depiction of of girlhood in the movie jamie what is your history and relationship with it?
Very short. I had not seen this movie before.
It had been recommended to me
before, as have a lot of
Lucas Moodison
joints.
But this was the first one that I've seen
and I had such
a great time with it.
It's so cool watching
kids like Bobo and Clara such a great time with it. This is like, it's so cool watching, uh,
kids like Bobo and Clara,
because like I was,
my dad is a huge punk fan and like I grew up with punk,
but I never had the,
um,
self confidence to like do it myself.
Like I was like a kind of a closet punk fan where I really liked it,
but I was like, aesthetically I, I fan where i really liked it but i was like
aesthetically i i just i could never i can't pull it off and i like used to i know i've talked about
this on the show before but like in at like this age i was like so taken by like punk kids hot topic goth kids and like juggalos and i just like i loved them all i i would i went and
but i like wore a back brace when i was 13 i was like they're they'll never accept me even though
they were so nice like tended to be really really nice groups of kids um but yeah i've been uh a
sideline lover of um of the punk aesthetic and I loved going to like man the Boston punk scene
in the early 2010s if you were there you were there and it was beautiful um so this was so
cool I wish that I had a more punk childhood um so seeing this was very awesome and also like
like you're saying like just the like being a 13 year old in general
is like represented in such a cringy good way here where i'm i really admire writers that can like
still access that part of them i feel like i really buried it. Cause when you see it, you're like, Oh, Oh yes. Oh,
this is too familiar.
And I hate that.
I used to be this awful way.
Yeah.
It's like memories.
You tend to,
I was like,
Oh,
right.
But yeah,
no,
I,
well,
cause this was,
this is directed by Lucas Moody.
And adapted from a graphic novel by coco
his wife his wife his wife um coco moodyson yes so um so shout out to coco who uh was really able
to tap into a lot of the very uncomfortable cringyy ways that 13-year-olds behave,
but in a way that's like...
I find myself when I write young characters,
if I want them to seem good, I want to sand off the rough edges.
And I'm like, I shouldn't. I really shouldn't.
Yeah.
It's like so endearing when, oh man,
there's just so many bobo moments
where you're just like buddy buddy yeah and how should i oh go ahead oh no you go just how hard
um uh not bobo not head vague what's the third punk clara oh clara how hard clara is trying to
be so hard and so punk and she just
has this loving, supportive
family who just wants what's best for her
and her post-punk
brother who's a sellout because he's post-punk
and she's just like
I don't see myself in her
I would have wanted to be best friends
with her. Yeah, right.
I get the feeling that the
writer also kind of probably is most self-insert bobo i was definitely more of a bobo myself
yeah i was a bobo and i also had some notes of hedvig where i was like, no swearing. Drinking is bad for you. Stop.
Clara.
Man, we all want to be Clara. But then also, you know, not everyone can have a clarinet dad.
It's a game changer.
Also, it turns out that Coco Moodyson, what is the word I'm thinking of?
Like lemony snicket.
Oh, a pseudonym?
A pseudonym, yes.
Wow, okay.
Sorry for just throwing lemony snicket.
But her first name is Hedvig.
Oh.
Yeah.
So I don't know.
Maybe Hedvig is her insert.
I don't know.
Well, I know that the director is Christian.
Oh, I did not know that.
Interesting.
Me either.
I would not have guessed that necessarily.
It was in a very positive way.
I get really excited when I'm not really personally attached
to any particular religious affiliation,
but I get really excited when people use religion as a reason to be good.
Sure. And so I actually didn't know it the first time i watched it but i i did more research before i watched it this time and i was like kind of looking for that and i was like oh i
totally see that hmm that makes sense i mean it's like the religion i feel like the way that
religion is treated in the movie is very like even keeled
and like what you see
present of Hedwig's religion
seems to be like generally
positive where like she just
shows a lot of empathy
and like doesn't
you know I guess doesn't drink
a whole bottle of wine when she's 13
you're like these seem like generally good things
I guess
but I also love hearing clara be like uh i don't believe in god i believe in ketchup so
you know a lot of points are made uh a lot of good points oh i want to say that you're you're
you're worried about not being cool enough for the punk aesthetic um just to out myself as a poser i got my first punk fest in my 30s okay because i didn't think i was punk enough even
though i was like a squatter who spent all of her time at punk shows i was like because i wasn't a
teenage punk i was a teenage mall goth essentially um ah still very cool yeah and so uh so my mother actually I asked for one for Christmas
and my mother got me a vest and then I put a patch
on it
so it's never too late
that is very motivating
because it does feel like
and then I'm like maybe this is a construction
of my mind it does feel like
teenagers really gatekeep
the punk aesthetic
but it's never too late So like teenagers really can't keep the punk aesthetic.
But it's never too late.
Jamie, I think we should pivot to being punks.
I would be very into that.
I really would.
And also the punk outfits in this movie,
they're all so good.
They're all, especially when the boys are trying a little too hard and the girls have it just right and uh it just it's great it's great who is ellie
and they're like gatekeeping they're like yeah isn't that really kind of prog of you
yeah they call them a progger which i don't know what that meant and i forgot to look it up but i assume she's like
no but i'm not sure yeah oh i thought i just was like they're in europe they're talking about the
city i don't understand but but yeah i i looked it up and they're like um hey goofus they actually
mean prog rock you're like oh yeah 82 that makes sense i love they i love when they
bring up joy division as a pejorative like there's just so many good so many good moments it's very
fun should i recap the story no i wouldn't know wait fine it would be so hot the recap i okay wait one more thing because my favorite movie
growing up was school of rock like far like i just loved it so much and this movie i i love that
both of these movies exist because this is like an accurate depiction of what a children's band
would be which is very bad they are not very good at their
instruments so bad their song absolutely sucks i felt mean i had like an inner like i don't know
if this is like my inner aunt or whatever but i'm like hedvig should go solo i don't know what she's
doing hanging out with these dorks like and then i'm like wait no no no they need each other but i'm like yeah they're such a town they do they
need the energy you know they do yes and and they give hedvig her edge and hedvig brings the the
christ like brings the talent mediation and being able to play the guitar so yeah everyone's got
there we you all we all bring something to the table it's true oh except bobo to be honest
bobo you gotta love bobo but she is bobo brings heart which is like a really nice way of calling
someone a flop they're like no no no she's she's the heart we gotta have her gobo does improve at the drums later on it's true and in her descent she never wanted to
play the drums and still doesn't seem to want to at the end no true oh okay so here is the
recap again so not punk of me to recap the movie but here we go very joy division of you caitlin
all right so we are in stockholm sweden ever heard of it in the year 1982 we meet bobo she is a 13
year old girl who is bored at her mom's birthday party so she goes into her room
and she calls her best friend clara they both love punk music they've both got these punk rock
haircuts and they are trying to figure out which of them is the most oppressed by their parents
right who both come from supportive families but they are very typical teenagers in
the way that they have you know difficult relationships with their parents and their
families and we see them not really fitting in with the other girls at school who tell them that punk is dead and they're like no it's not
those uh i i they're also just like i don't know the specificity of how they
wrote this movie where like clara wants to be political in the way that like
punks are political but she like doesn't quite know what she's talking about
but like no one around her has enough information to say she's wrong and i was like oh this is a
very 13 year old experience where she's like nuclear and you're just like's the same as god yes right um okay so bobo and clara go to a youth center
where they hear this band called iron fists which are like older maybe like late teens early 20s perhaps um boys who are playing and bobo and clara want to play music too
so they tell these uh the one of the adults at the youth center that they have a band and they
sign up for a spot to play and the way that they bury these adults those two guys i don't know what their characters names are but they are such goofy like dudes in
their 40s who like probably wanted to be musicians but it didn't work out for them
and they like establish a genuine rivalry with 13 year
olds and get shown up multiple times it's so fun to watch um so bobo and clara start messing around
on the only instruments that they have at this youth center which is a drum set and a bass guitar. And neither of them know how to play these instruments.
So they're, they sound terrible, but they have a ton of fun.
And they start talking and they talk about like starting a band for real.
They both want to play bass, but Clara is like, no, Bobo,
you are really good at the drums. You should play the drums.
And she's like, okay, I guess.
So then back at,
so then back at school, the girls are in gym class,
which they hate.
And the gym teacher gives them a hard time.
So they start writing lyrics to a song called hate the sport.
And it's still not to continually draw comparisons between we are the best in School of Rock,
but it really reminds me of the first song they write in School of Rock where the legend
of the rent was way hardcore.
Right.
I almost forgot about that.
Um, so they are writing lyrics to Hot the Sport.
And they try to get a spot on their school's upcoming, like, fall concert slash talent show thing.
But there are no open spots.
So they can't play.
But they go to the show and make fun of most of the acts, which was fun to watch.
Except for one girl, Hedvig, who plays a song on the acoustic guitar.
And she plays it pretty well.
Hedvig is the most punk of them all.
When they're like, why does she keep doing this?
They're always booing her.
And then she shreds on the Christianian guitar and uh i love hedvig
um so seeing her play well bobo gets the idea to have hedvig join their band the only trouble is
that she is a christian who doesn't play punk music and bobo and clara tell hedvig that they like her
music and they ask her to be in the band um and hedvig is like well i also hate sports so sure
so she joins the band she teaches them a couple things and then they start to hang out and become friends there is a scene where
they find some yarn that was thrown away in these big garbage bags so they like
pick it up and they start playing with it and cutting it up and then bobo cuts her hand um
there's a scene it's so sweet okay oh no i was just thinking about like i've only been to sweden once but it is
interesting when you spend time in a country that has health insurance the way people navigate the
world is just a little bit different they're like yeah you know if i get hurt i'll just go to the
doctor like they're just like i don't know like watching how they were just
like yeah let's bring some trash home why not let's use a knife like I just I remember once
um staying with a friend of mine in a squat in France and she caught her I can't remember what
something was wrong with her hand like something fairly bad and we're like oh no how are we gonna
handle this we're like I'm like googling things I I'm like, I'm going to I'm going to reach out to my ex-boyfriend who's kind of a doctor now.
She's like, I can just go to the doctor tomorrow.
And I'm like, what do you mean?
You're like a squatter punk.
Like, how are you going to just go to the anyway?
Yep.
Yeah.
Punks can go to the doctor here.
It's so wild the one uh that i went to like when i went to stockholm we went to like this
swedish theme park and i'm like there's no rules here you can just fall down and like it was just
like it was so fun but you're just like wow i didn't realize how american health care brain
i was where i'm like we need we needed better safety procedures these children are just
taking like hard falls right
and left but just take them to the doctor they're all fine well the only thing though is that bobo
cuts her hand pretty severely but then they don't go to the doctor yeah that's a good point yeah
that's true yeah they just wrap her hand in some gauze it's messed up for months for a long time yeah i i mean i'm i'm excited to talk about
bobo's relationship with her mom because i was like i i there's a lot of ambiguity going on
there with her and her mom i'm interested to talk about it but i was just like oh no
bobo got boba should have gone to the doctor but they're very punk. They're too punk for that.
Too punk for the pediatrician.
That should have been one of their songs.
Pediatrician, fuck you.
Oh my gosh.
Well, speaking of Bobo's parents, Bobo's dad comes to visit um it's clear that she and him are not close and she wants to hang out with Clara instead when they're supposed to be having like a nice family
dinner with her with Bobo's dad and mom but she's like I want to go hang out with my friends screw
dessert another great screw dessert another could have been song yeah um so then bobo goes to clara's
place where clara's brother linus is having a party um bobo and clara get drunk and they
pressure hedwig hedwig into drinking also but she doesn't want to and she leaves meanwhile Bobo has a crush on
Linus and she expresses concern that she'll never find a boyfriend and nobody thinks she's cute
um another then there's like all these specific 13 year old moments but like
when like an older sibling that you have a crush on like when he like touches her hair and you're like oh my god
i love how friendly all of his all of his friends were like yeah concerned about the 13 year olds
they weren't like trying to hang out with the 13 year olds but they're all like right oh oh are
they okay like what's up they were all they weren't like uh can't believe your sister's here
you know they're just like right out of here yeah i like when they're like are what's up? They weren't like, I can't believe your sister's here. You know, they're just like, get out of here.
But they're like, are you drunk?
Are you okay?
They're just, everyone's so wholesome.
Clara's whole family.
I'm like, what a sweet family.
They really raised some weird punk kids.
Even like the youngest sibling.
I forget what his name is is like kala
or something i just oh man i younger sibling i mean you could write a whole thesis on younger
siblings in cinema because usually they're just like annoying and suck and are like always
planning you know elaborate schemes but i like that he's just like a doorway brother
and he's always just kind of like and then he just leaves like that's a more realistic younger
sibling to pick just someone cackling while you're getting in trouble from the doorway
working and cackling
then bobo and clara go over to hedvig's house and they have a they have a discussion about whether
or not any whether or not they believe in god um they kind of peer pressure hedvig into cutting
her long hair which hedvig's mom is very unhappy about when she finds out and she tells them that
she's going to report bobo and clara to the police
unless they start going to church with her and believing in god and becoming christians
and bobo and clara are like work
and at first you're like oh my god is she serious and bobo and clara are like you can't do that you
can't force us to go to church and her mom was like well you can't well you forced my daughter to get a haircut
and we think that's what's going on and then so the next day at school Hedvig doesn't sit with
them at lunch but it's because she thinks Bobo and Clara are mad at her because of what her mom did
and she's like like I was just so embarrassed of my mom. But you're also like, she probably also didn't want to cut her hair.
Right.
Did you ever have a parent moment where, I feel like I rarely went through with it,
but when your parents are like, just blame it on me.
I don't care.
My mom would be like, i don't care if i look
silly to your friends just don't do a bad like i would have totally blamed that all on my mom
even if i secretly was like i did feel peer pressured into getting the haircut
yeah um and and not good good for moms for doing that you know you know moms don't need other 13 year
old girls to think they're cool and i celebrate that so true the three girls make up and they
have a little food fight at lunch they have more brand they and then they have more band practice
and they start to write another song they ask strangers for money so that they can buy
an electric guitar which they don't make enough money for so they instead spend the money they
did make on a bunch of junk food that they pig out on can i tell a story about uh women asking
for money in sweden that's a really random story. Yes, please. I was, I was hitchhiking
through Sweden in my early twenties and I didn't have any money. And I was like in Helsingborg
and I was trying to get to Stockholm, sitting in a park. And these, this group of young women are
like, Hey, Hey, Hey. And I'm like, I don't speak Swedish. And they're like, well you, and I, I'm
not out as trans at this point. Um, I actually don't remember if I'm wearing a dress or not.
But I'm like presenting as a boy, even if I'm wearing women's clothes.
And they're like, will you wrestle us for money?
You give us money and we wrestle you.
And that's how we're raising enough money for her wedding.
And their wedding was that they were wrestling random boys in the park.
Oh, my God.
I explained that I did not have any money and they promptly moved on.
That, I can't even begin to wrap my head around all of it.
I have no idea what happened there.
Is this a normal thing?
Were they hitting on me?
Was it just a weird begging thing?
I don't know.
I have no idea what happened.
Is that just a very common Swedish thing?
We don't know.
Yeah, do Swedes just have very inventive ways of making money?
That seems possible.
How far do you think they got in this venture?
It makes it sound like the way you describe it makes it seem like they felt there was
some sort of demand for this.
You know, I, yeah, it seems like they're gonna like pay
for a wedding with this yeah tens of thousands of dollars that a wedding costs they were gonna
somehow raise that by challenging people to wrestle them yeah especially in public
i don't know the whole thing made no sense to me.
That's fascinating.
Brilliant.
Okay.
I hope that they had the best wedding ever.
I hope so too.
So the girls, they eat a bunch of junk food.
They are also gushing over this article by this punk band of teen boys.
So they call these boys and arrange to meet up.
They're like, you're punks, we're punks.
We have to meet up.
It's fate.
And they're like, exactly.
So they meet up.
They think it's going to be three boys in this band, but it's only two of them.
Right.
Because they've already divvied up the boys. Yeah. And that're like you're gonna get with this one yeah and one of the boys
was a poser is the biggest problem right because he liked some other band yeah no noise yeah that's
right yeah couldn't even spell it right so they kick him out so it's just the two boys and the three girls and they go to their
and they go to the boys rehearsal space they hang out and i like the boys song
the actually was a better song
yeah fuck off um it was it was it was fun um so but because they're out kind of like outnumbered
bobo is left out and she's sort of like the fifth wheel and she's jealous because she clearly liked
the boy ellis well and that was also claims the agreement right clara clara's like ellis will be yours and david will be mine but david's the guy
who's not there so clara kind of claims ellis for herself and now bobo is the awkward fifth wheel
well the boys called called it too the boys have their conversation where they divvy up the girls
which they don't remember the names of and they're just like oh yeah the one with the scarf like i'll take her fucking 13 year old boys fuck you i do think
that is how boys they're like oh at least they did it by like scarfs and not like hair color
because i feel like so many men are just like so reductive about women they're like oh the blonde yeah the brunette um okay so they're in sweden you can't do that
never mind everyone's blonde this is not true at all but i apologize
yeah but a lot of you are blonde, to be fair. Shots fired.
The youth center that the girls go to says that they've been invited to bring a few bands to play at another youth center's winter concert.
And they want Bobo and Clara and Hedvig's band, who I don't, do we ever learn the name of their band?
I don't think so.
I was wondering the same thing.
Okay.
I was like, did I miss something? they didn't get that part yeah so they're so punk that they don't even need a name so their band is invited to play and those two guys at the youth center um they bought an
electric guitar finally and we see hedvig showing off her guitar playing skills and everyone is very
impressed wait wait it's another great scene the the thing about being an all-girl band
this is one of my favorite moments of the whole movie so I want to interject because it's like
I mean I guess the only thing worse than being a girl band is to be a female fronted band you know
in terms of just like the annoying thing i just as someone who's in a girl
band um i'm really excited that they just were like immediately they're 13 and they're like no
no we are girls who are in a band anyway it's like my favorite feminist moment of the movie
it does kind of remind me a little bit of just because it's still it's like so ridiculous that like
whatever this movie takes place in 82 and this shit still happens all the time it's just so
annoying or just it's the same as like women in comedy questions and i was just gonna say yeah
you're like yeah not great stop like and this is a part of why it's not great like
yeah oh my gosh i can't tell you how
many times i've been asked like is it hard to be a female comedian and i'm just like right now it's
hard to be a comedian it's hard to be a woman so yeah like what do you want me to say like yeah
shut up what the fuck off i mean what the fuck do like cis white straight men have to make jokes about?
Because isn't one of the main, I'm not a comedian, but it seems like bad things happening based on people making assumptions about you is one of the main sources of comedy.
Like.
Yeah.
It's a big one.
Well, now.
The well is deeper for everyone else.
Now with straight guys, you can't say or do anything anymore it that's the new
oh right that's the well i forgot that here's the thing pc culture is ruining comedy so yeah
they can't really talk i don't even know how to like start a conversation anymore
like how do you even start a conversation i even talk to a woman
the answer is no if you're thinking about it if you're woman? The answer is no. If you're thinking about it, if you're not sure, the answer is no.
Leave us alone.
Probably not, yeah.
We are bossed.
I can't even just hang out in someone's DMs unanswered,
send them a new message every day without people getting upset.
You really just can't harass people like you used to, you know?
So they get invited to this winter concert um but bobo is still sour about the um clara and ellis thing and clara's like well
ellis never calls me cut to bobo calling ellis and arranging to hang out with them, just the two of them, with him, just the two of them.
I was floored.
I was floored when this happened.
I truly gasped.
I didn't know Bobo had that in her.
I didn't know she had that rage.
I did know because I feel like I did something like that as a teenager.
Really? Oh, God. You're so much braver than I am.
I would have just fumed in silence for 20 years and then brought it up on this podcast at some point.
So do you want to shout someone out right now from seventh grade?
By the way, wait, Caitlin, you did something like this?
That's so, what did you do so okay I had so my best friend
in high school we both so there was a group of three a trio of boys who were a year or two older
than us and they were best friends and me and my best friend were a little duo and we all like basically just all dated each other but like
but at first it was like well I like this one so he's off limits to you and then and then eventually
we just like worked both worked our way through all three of them but to start it was like well
no I've I have staked claim on this one but like, I kind of moved on to the guy that she
briefly liked and dated and then, but he was off limits to me, but I was like,
you know what? He likes me. So what am I going to deny myself happiness? And it was,
you know, it wasn't great. I don't, I'm not proud of myself.
Look, it happens. It, I, I think the only thing I've done that's approached, I didn't I'm not proud of myself but look it happens it I I think the only thing I've done
that's approached I didn't do that in like when middle school in high school I started dating
someone who was off limits and someone threw a watermelon on my lawn well to send to send a
water bong is that what you said no water full watermelon a watermelon I thought you said water
bong.
No, I think they just went to Shaw's and bought a watermelon and just chucked it on my lawn to let them know that they knew that I was dating someone off limits.
Hmm.
But.
Well.
It sent the message.
I don't know.
Pretty punk thing to do.
Throw a watermelon.
It was pretty cool of them to do. Throw a watermelon? It was pretty cool of them to do.
I didn't stop dating
the person after that, which
that's on me.
It's one thing to be like,
I'm doing something that's wrong.
But then in the back of your head, you're like,
but I haven't experienced a consequence, so maybe it's not wrong.
And then the watermelon lands, and then you're like,
no, this is wrong.
What interesting stories we're all sharing oh yeah we're really all letting it rip i've never done anything wrong so i well obviously yeah yeah um okay you are the head of the group oh wow um okay so uh so bobo and ellis hang out and it's
a little flirty he puts his arm around her he tickles her wrist um and and he's like but I have to break up with Clara first which he never does and then they're heading
to the new year's party that they're kind of not invited to anymore he ghosts them both and then
Bobo tells Clara that Ellis cheated on Clara with Bobo and they get in a huge fight and Clara is
furious but at the encouragement of Hedwig
they eventually make up and become friends again and then it's time for the concert so they go to
this seems like kind of like a remote far away town and it's like some sort of like a distant ymca kind of vibe right yeah and then so they start playing their song hot the
sport and everyone screams at them and calls them ugly and says that they're common communists and
they're like you suck and the girls in the band are like we don't suck you suck and we are the best. And that is the name of the movie. And then the movie ends with like the girls talking to those two youth center guys.
And they're like, you need to show some respect.
And the girls are like, screw you.
And then there's a scene at like a fast food place where they're like goofing around.
And that's the end of the movie.
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Where do we want to start?
I mean, there's a few different kind of thematic cornerstones,
I suppose, of the movie that I really enjoy.
Okay.
What do I have, a master's degree in screen
writing or something I would never bring it up but um I mean I love that female friendship as it
is at the center of this movie I love that like kind of beauty standards and the rejecting of beauty standards is a large component of this movie.
I like that kind of like the men around them often assume that they can't really do anything
or that they're not good at things because they're girls. That's a component of this movie again i love just the what feels like a very authentic uh depiction of the horrors
of being 13 and uh just all the nuances you get that you normally don't see in a movie about 13
year old girls one because there are hardly any movies about 13 year old girls and two if they are uh if there is a story about them it's it
just feels like a very like cartoony hollywoodized version right which can be fun but it's like
there's just not enough of projects like this around right it also appeared to be played by
13 year old actors yeah exactly actual kids yeah because i feel like 13 year olds you
just add three or four years in like listen which is like part of why eighth grade i feel like was
such was so cool for a lot of people to see because you're like oh yeah this is what an
eighth grader looks like where it looks like yeah and again, not to, I feel like I've been bringing up Degrassi on every single episode recently.
I don't know why,
but like that was my only yardstick as a kid for like media for kids that were
played by kids that were the correct age and weren't like CW teens who are like
my age.
Yeah.
There's,
there's a lot to love about it and not really anything that i have any
complaints about one thing i really liked uh because we recently covered margaret have you seen
turning red i haven't no it's cute it's a new disney movie it's also like a girlhood coming
of age movie and one thing that like i've i liked that these movies I mean the movies have very not a lot in common.
Turning around is about turning into a panda.
But but I did like the way that like the the girls are like are like going through period.
They're like starting to feel like come into their own in terms of their sexuality.
But they also like, I like that the movie doesn't ignore that, but it also doesn't do what I think a lot of teen media does, which is like push them into situations that they're not ready for or able to handle, which is such a tough line to toe i feel like you see a lot of that in
bobo where she like has a crush on an older boy but like isn't gonna do anything about it like
she's just gonna be weird whenever he's around and when the 13 when you know she hangs out with
um i keep wanting to call him elon which is awful yikes ellis ellis when she hangs out with, I keep wanting to call him Elon, which is awful.
Yikes.
Ellis.
Ellis.
When she hangs out with Ellis, both of them have no idea what to do, but he still manages
to be an asshole, which is a hallmark of 13 year old boys.
But he like.
I just liked it.
I don't want to defend him super hard, right?
Because he goes both of them or whatever.
But it's like there were so many ways that if this was a Hollywood movie, he would have been way the hell worse, right?
Sure, yeah.
He was, he, like, I think most ghosting is people being like, I don't know what I'm supposed to do here, so I'm going to not think about it.
Right?
Right.
And so he's like, I don't know.
I don't know how to date.
I don't know what I'm doing.
So I will be distant in a way that hurts people. But, you know, like I'm worried I'm cheating because I like touched your hand.
You know, I know the 13 year old definition of cheating and also of being together is like, oh, we hung out one time.
We're we're dating.'re together yeah you know normally we examine a movie
that has like a hetero romance and we're often like why is this here or like it'll feel very
wedged in or we're just there's a lot to the mary kit and ashley syndrome right but in this movie it just it feels very true but in this movie it just feels very
organic organic and like it belongs because we are seeing these girls and their friendship and
like the whole spectrum of what it is to be uh someone of that age which is yes having interest in something and for them it's music
um whether it's like to listen to it and then eventually to start playing it um it's uh issues
or just whatever complications anything like that with your family and we see that in all of the girls. And it's an interest in whatever, like in other people romantically.
And we see that.
So it's just like, and it's like, you know, going to school, it's going to your youth center.
It's like all the things that kids do.
And we just see that entire scope of their lives versus a lot of stories will be like, oh, well, they're a teen girl.
So the only thing they think about is boys.
But it's like, no, we get the whole spectrum of their lives here.
There's just as much time spent on them trying to figure out how they feel about religion as there is right on like on yeah figuring out how they feel about like different
romantic interests which is cool yeah it's like i i like how this movie is very like
vignettey and they're like here's a here's a kid thing remember this and it's like slowly
leading up to something it's probably how like because it you know is based on this sort of autobiographical graphic novel and you know i assume the yarn incident right like the yarn
incident doesn't narratively tie in i mean they managed to pull it off because at the end they're
like fishing with the yarn out the window for fun and like yeah and you know getting cut while
cutting up random yarn you pull out of the trash scene is like very emotional and impactful but it's such a a random moment that i i assume that this has happened you know right
right it's like too specific to not be real and they still managed to get like that awesome
moment out of um out of it too where like that's their like huge that's like i isn't that that's like the first
moment where you're like oh hedvig is like permanently in the group part of the group
yeah even though she was the one who didn't want to go dumpster diving or whatever you know and was
afraid of stealing someone's thrown out yarn yeah she's like this is someone else's and it's wet
why are we playing with it like okay hededwig had some points she made some points
some better boundaries than I feel like a lot of movies would go down a route of like oh well a new
friend gets introduced so one of the others gets really jealous or like this new friend comes along and she feels like the odd one out because there's
already an established friendship with these other two which is a real thing that does happen
but I like that it's just these three girls who share a common interest in music and they bond over that and their hatred of gym class and
sports so they're like well yeah obviously we're all going to be the best of friends and even
though one of them is a little older than the other two even though one of them is christian
and the other two are not so much taller maybe that's why i also feel very connected to hedvig taller friend energy
where they're like is she older you're like no they're all the same age relax
no she is older i think right because she says she's in grade eighth grade nine i thought
she's good i think all these characters are great um and again and they're very they're
very distinct they're very again like i knew people like all three of them.
And I saw myself in different ways in all three of them.
And they're just like very, again, well-written, well-crafted very relatable very authentic characters that again we
don't see in media very often i just like i loved it clara because clara is like the headstrong
like decisive like like in your face like i'm gonna advocate when someone needs to be advocated for right to the point where
it's like occasionally inconsiderate to people around her and i just i i like again i'm just
like oh i can't think of the last time i saw like a movie i don't i mean i guess i don't really know
what this who this movie was marketed towards because we famously don't live in sweden but i hope that it
was like marketed at like kids because it would have been so i mean it's really cool seeing like
kids that aren't like classic you know like hollywood cool girls that there's like a movie
about them being awesome and like still bullied but ultimately like really really fucking cool
um but but clara i liked that with clara and bobo they like it ends with them all being friends but
you can also tell in a way that i felt kind of satisfying like clara still has a long way to go
you know clara clara has some shit to wear. Like literally in the,
in the last season,
it was just like such a 13 year old,
like,
yeah,
she still hasn't like quite gotten over herself where she's like,
I am the best.
And then the other two have to be like,
that's not the name of the movie.
Yeah.
I,
I totally agree,
but not in a way that like makes that character unlikable or irredeemable
it's just that she's a 13 year old girl and this is how a lot of 13 year old girls are or just 13
year olds in general because you're 13 and you have not fully formed as a person yet your emotions
are confusing you are your self-esteem is all over the place and yeah it
just feels like yeah she's quite self-centered and yes she is sort of like staking claim over
a lot of things and like you know not being as super considerate toward especially her best
friend Bobo in a lot of ways where she's like no this boy is mine the
playing the bass is my thing in a way that again like this is an immaturity thing that she will
probably grow out of not like she's a bad person thing it is yeah it feels like I don't know I mean
like every 13 year old has like that that friend structure where it's like there's a friend that just can
steamroll everybody and you're like you don't have the confidence or the life skills to be like
stop like uh i like and and you know having an alpha friend like clara because it's not i mean
she still like loves her friends and family she just doesn't always consider them first
and you know there are moments that i mean it's like you still really like clara she's like the
most she's trying to be the most overtly political of the group she like wants to be able to say
something even though she's like not quite at a place where she knows how to say it. And, and I liked that she,
I don't know,
just like reflecting on my own child.
You're like,
Oh,
you need that alpha friend.
Cause who else is going to like get you French fries or like who else is
going to,
you know,
push until you get the rehearsal space or like Clara does a couple things in
this movie that it's like,
Oh,
if everyone in this group were the same kind of shy 13 year old i
would i was you don't get the french fries you don't get the you don't get the rehearsal space
and the movie doesn't happen um so right exactly yeah yeah again everyone's bringing something to
the table it's true um and then on and then with bobo uh i mean again like yeah with clara she's like
very very confident or at least puts on the air of of confidence um on the other hand you have
bobo she loves to bully adults too i love how she bullies the shit out of most adults and and it's so punk of her it works um but then bobo has
some pretty obvious self-esteem issues um that i think again are just like a product of
she's in a society uh where there are certain beauty standards and these girls as punks are like
trying to actively uh reject a lot of these like western beauty standards where they
have cut their hair short they are anti-makeup yeah that's cool they their style like their
clothing is like pretty gender neutral a lot of the time and they have a lot of people calling them ugly and uh it very clearly affects bobo um because she says things like oh i'm never
gonna get a boyfriend no one thinks i'm cute i was never invited to the parties and so even though
like they're taking this like punk stance of rejecting beauty standards like just like anyone wants to be
desired and desirable and like wants to be attractive to someone and you can just like
tell that and and so Bobo is uh kind of in this trying to doing is like kind of doing this
balancing act of like yeah well i i want to like
i want to seem punk and i i cut my own hair and all this stuff but she also like wants cute boys
to like her in a very again relatable way especially for that age and well it's like
yeah and then i just i love that with i love when clara wears the makeup secretly yeah and then to go meet the boys who wear makeup yeah yes and and bobo's all pissed
off she's like wait a second you're supposed to be you're it's like i don't know again clara is
so fascinating to me because i used to be fascinated with kids like this where it's like
they're making all of the rules but also the rules don't apply to them in most circumstances where I'm sure Clara was the
one that was like we're anti-makeup and Bobo's like okay we're anti-makeup but then like but
Clara can wear makeup sometimes right but this is like one of my favorite I wrote down this chunk
of it too about makeup and stuff and how the boys at the beginning, the slightly older boys, like call them all ugly and stuff.
And it it's one of my favorite iron tensions within punk feminism, you know, is this idea of like and I I've at least read essays about punk feminism going back further than like I've been aware of punk, like going back in the 80s and 70s and stuff where so much much of it was about especially actually when punk when when
punk women first started wearing makeup a lot of it was like intentionally over the top in a way to
try and draw attention and be like you said this is supposed to be pretty but i'm wearing so much
that it's obviously ugly and like a way to go so overboard that it becomes ugly and and then you
know but then that that falls back and like becomes more
moderated later in punk where then it just sort of becomes like punk women
wear makeup and it's just like like everyone else or whatever and I was like
trying to be conventionally attractive and but just with like ripped stockings
or whatever I'm not I'm not trying to talk shit on either of the conclusions
that girls and sure sure right but I find this tension really
interesting and I like that this one is situating this like third one that is
actually I think more probably tied into the broader feminism of the like we're
anti makeup you know as compared to just the like we're gonna go over the top
with makeup right I don't know right well that's a thing that has been like
something that I've honestly grappled with throughout my life where I'm like, obviously a militant feminist and I'm not I'm like, I'm not going to do anything that like just because society thinks I should or a man thinks I should.
But then I'm also like, well, I do want to be sexy mascara looks so
good on everyone like right so like there are some indisputable facts yeah so it's complicated so
like I do wear makeup pretty frequently I like shave my legs and shave my underarms and things that I do that because like that's what the beauty standard is.
But I but like I think what a lot of people have kind of grappled with when it comes to feminism and beauty standards is like, well, feminism says that you it's your choice.
Like you can do whatever you want with your body so if you want to
well you know wear a lot of makeup and you know present in a very like hyper feminine way that
historically and traditionally is the thing that like appeals to like the heteronormative
male gaze if you want to do that absolutely fucking go off if you if you want to reject that and uh you know
not do any of that absolutely go off also like it's just it's all about like choice and doing
what you want and that's punk and that's why vr the best i always find it interesting to watch um women not of my generation try to navigate these issues
and like how I don't know like my mom's pretty open to stuff but sometimes she genuinely is like
wait I'm confused where we were hanging out I was poolside with my mommy incredible um and she like noticed that I had
shaved my armpits which usually I don't but I just sort of like I don't know I just like felt
like it so I did and I didn't think anything of it because I was like whatever and she was like
wait I thought you didn't shave your armpits because you're a feminist. And like, she was like coming from a good place.
She's like, I'm confused.
I thought that you didn't do that because, because of your rights.
And I was like, and then I was like, weirdly having a hard time.
She's like, why did you do it?
I was like, I don't know.
I just wanted to.
And then I was like, wait, no, that's what I was saying.
That that's what, that's what I mean.
I just should be able to do whatever the fuck I want and not think about it. So, but for a second I was in my head, I was like, have I regressed? And I was
like, no, I think I was just like a little uncomfortable one day. It's just that you can
do whatever you want with your body. So I just thought it was fascinating to like have that be something that like
Bobo is very clearly grappling with.
And like the scene where she goes to meet up with Ellis one-on-one,
she has like spiked her hair the way that the other boy she likes taught her
to do it. And she takes off her glasses, I think,
cause she perceives like her glasses as something that like makes her less attractive.
So like she's making these conscious choices to, you know, appear more attractive because she is in this like kind of like between a rock and a hard place kind of thing where she's like, well, I want to be punk and I want to reject beauty standards.
But I also have this boy that I want to think thinks i'm like this boy that i want
to think i'm cute so margaret like you were just very relatable oh sorry and like you were alluding
to margaret like a lot of punk boys like still uphold those same standards while like technically
being like oh yeah like punk but with the asterisks of like unless I personally don't
think it's hot like kind of stuff again it's it's funny because like I have this very you know this
conception like I'm going through my like teens and 20s like as a boy even though my 20s was as
a boy named Margaret who wore dresses um but people would basically be like really shyly like
I've seen people both be afraid of being rejected.
I've seen women in particular be afraid of being rejected for not shaving and
for shaving,
you know?
And like,
and most of the people that I'm talking to have had the experiences of being
rejected for one or the other,
because you will meet these like punk boys who are like,
I can't believe you shave,
you know? And I don't know. It like, I can't believe you shave, you know?
And I don't know, it's really, it sucks to be a girl in our society.
I just really like the way that this movie examines that in a way that's like not even a huge part of the story, but it's just like like it's something that's obviously on like any teenager's
mind or like it just like especially girls who are conditioned to think that they need to be
attractive and like do things to make them seem attractive especially to boys so again i just yeah
i liked that that was a part of the movie and then that scene where they like
give the electric guitar to hedvig to like that play but they're like well first let's show you
we have to show you how to do it and then she's just like okay and then they give it to her
and she's like first of all it's out of tune and then secondly she and then she like plays it so well and you just like see the faces of those two
guys and they're like oh shit like in in such a satisfying way and they do that awesome thing too
where they like try to like weirdly play it off and act like they knew she could do that the whole
time in a way that's completely impossible they're like yeah yeah cool good what's like because even those people are like
overly earnest right they're still yeah they're being uh they're making unintelligent decisions
um but they're like not bad people they're like you know they're just like being misogynist right
but they're like i don't know it's just they're so earnest about that they're like you know they're just like being misogynist right but they're like I don't know
it's just they're so earnest about that they're like oh really excited for this thing and you
know and they're so excited that they got the electric guitar like you know that they like
went through a bunch of work to like right get the girl band the electric guitar or whatever
um yeah and I have them shipped just for full disclosure. Ooh, those two men.
Oh, yeah, I like that.
I like that.
Establishing rivalries with locals and being in love.
Yeah, it's like it's misogyny and not necessarily a hateful way,
but it's just like they assume that because they're girls,
they can't do anything or
they assume that like you know oh you're you're a girl you're girls in a band so you're a girl
band and it's like they want to like help like include and like be inclusive and like yeah girls can be in girl bands sure but it's but their their misogyny
manifests in a way that um they just like don't trust that a girl could do anything okay although
i i hate to say in their defense because i i don't really mean it but they've heard bobo and that is true yes they do are not so good
that's true that is fair that's true
it's i do love that they're just bad like they're they're not and well that's also like like very realistic yeah they have never
really taken a music lesson they don't know how to play the instruments they're playing
and their band absolutely sucks Hedvig's carrying the whole band on her back but it's like that's
also why punk is so revolutionary like not in terms of actual social change but no offense to it um but because
that's the whole thing is i love that punk and like other genres do this too right but i love
that punk is like you can be awful you can be just absolutely awful and you can still play shows
like you can have fun and you can play shows one because some of the music is dead simple
and two because no one cares if it's really bad um because
it's about the aesthetic that you're creating it's an aesthetic that is that you can create
easily you know and then at the same time like they still also really like these really good
bands i do i will say though that the part where i'm like i expected the boys that they go meet up
with i'm wondering if you all had this i expected them to be like at least 16 or 17.
I did not realize that they were all the same age.
And then when they were like 13, I was like, whoa.
Because they're in a magazine.
Right.
And then you see them and you're like, I thought they were going to be like, oh my God, what are we going to do with these 13-year-olds who showed up?
And I was expecting this either very dark turn or just lots of awkwardness um but then they're also yeah yeah totally who are who are a
little better at their bands a little better as who do play better music but yeah although i like
the i like the intellectual criticism that bobo offers person sorry like he's dead and clara's kind of like you can tell a dead guy to fuck off
you're like that's true you can ronald reagan fuck so true and then like the big concert at
the end of the movie the way that like the third act of most movies have like that big event that
you know everything's been leading up to this.
And usually it's like this big, epic, like extremely climactic like moment in the movie.
But the big concert, quote unquote, at the end of this movie is maybe my favorite version of this that I've ever seen because it goes horribly.
They're they don't play the music well everyone's yelling at them and
calling them like communist cunts and then they say well fuck you fuck you and your shitty town
we are the best and it's just like such a beautiful like climactic moment of like of the movie and
oh i'm obsessed i do and I feel like. In a way.
They kind of like.
They started like a small riot.
Like they did a very punk thing.
It's so punk.
So.
It's great.
Like.
And I love that they.
Like.
It's not even like.
It's a contest.
Again.
I'm just school of rocking it.
But it's like.
They.
Like.
They had an awesome.
I did.
There. There's. There's. there's so few like examples of like i don't know just like kids doing stuff to because they want to and like it's fun and like
that's i don't know i mean i think i know that that's like somewhat of a generational thing too
but like uh you know being raised to like excel at stuff and like if
you're not good at it there's no point in doing it i feel like that is like a very
more modern and it seems to be like dissipating a little bit but definitely like a very strong
millennial like instilled in you of like well you do things be to become a resume like not because
you just want to kind of fuck around and have fun.
If fucking around and having fun is a waste of time.
And to see these kids like be not very good,
kind of know that they want to be better,
but it's not like they're not like losing sleep over being better.
And they're just like fucking around and having a good time.
It's just,
I don't know.
It shouldn't feel so refreshing to see kids fucking around and having a good time it's just i don't know it shouldn't feel so refreshing to see kids
fucking around and having a good time without like having a meltdown of like i'm not good enough at
this but it was i mean it was it was cool we normally would see like the mary sue version
of like well they start playing instruments and they get so good so fast and i know there are
criticisms about like to criticize something because it's a mary sue thing i don't know we'll
get we'll get into it in another episode but normally you'd have like oh they're they start
playing music and yeah they're kind of bad at first but then we see a training montage and then
they're really good afterwards and that never happens in this movie because it takes really
long because it takes a really long time to get good at an instrument and they're working in a
genre where they kind of like don't have to if they don't want to anyway like yeah girls and women
being mediocre we should see more of it yeah it's something to celebrate. So one time I was a drummer for a band on tour.
I'm not a drummer.
I do not play drums.
I technically, I have some drums I built
that are actually within,
but I hit them and I record them
and then I program the sounds that they make.
But one time, 10 years ago or something,
my friend who's in this golf band that's fairly punk
we're like hey come um we kicked out our keytar player we need a third person for our band come
on tour with us i was like i'd love to play keytar and they're like no no we want a drummer
and i'm like i'd love to play keytar for you and they were like we'll fly you out two weeks early
and you have two weeks to hang out in our apartment and learn how to play drums and we're
gonna go on tour.
But there's another way that you can get away with being mediocre,
which is electronic music.
And so, because I was playing this electronic drum kit,
but there's so many backing tracks going on that on my friend's wedding anniversary, it's this power couple band.
We're playing in Providence, Rhode Island,
and I just start fucking drifting off.
I've like lost everything. I'm just fucking drifting off. I've like lost everything.
I'm just like drifting off.
I'm like fucking lost.
And the guitarist.
Lost the thread.
Yeah.
And he walks over and he presses this pedal that he never told me about that mutes me and brings up backing tracks of exactly what I'm playing.
Oh, my gosh.
For the rest of the night night I'm a glorified
stage dancer
pretending to play drums
oh yeah
absolutely
the rest of the time I'm just miming playing drums
you're lip syncing
the drums
and I was so grateful
because I was like I told you i'm not a fucking drummer
right so you can learn to play drums in two weeks all you have to do is uh fail
yeah pretend to play fail on stage always fun yeah oh my god i love that story I get to listen to Margaret stories all day
like
okay wait I have one more about
I wrote this one down because I have to figure out how to shoehorn this in
it's about a Swedish
punk girl
and one time I'm in
Sweden and I'm
staying at this cooperatively owned
I've only spent like maybe a total
like three weeks in Sweden but I'm really impressed by a lot of
stuff that's going on. I'm in town for the Anarchist Book
Fair, and the anarchists also own this entire
apartment building that's cooperatives.
Sorry, it's co-op owned, so instead
of having to live in a communal house, you
get your own whole apartment, but then the whole building
is a cooperative. So there's some
shared infrastructure. And
these like more hippie-ish
anarchists or whatever they have this
punk kid who's like nine and she's like she's convinced her best friend who's this boy to be
in a band with her and she's like mom mom mom and she doesn't speak english and she's like mom you
have to interpret for me because i'm going to play margaret a song and so i got to see this, uh, this band of two nine-year-old, maybe 10-year-old, um,
Swedish kids. And, and it was like, one of them has a keyboard and I don't know if the other one
even had an instrument and they're just like, I don't want to go to bed. Uh, I hate bedtime.
I want to go to bed. And it ruled, it was the most punk thing i've ever seen it was a it was just me and mom in
the audience um and i it's like i wrote this down just like i don't know where to shoehorn this in
but i really am excited to tell this story that's the perfect oh my god and what what actually it
broke my head a little bit just realize that those two kids are now adults um and so if you ever played this please reach out to me
they are our biggest fans and listeners of the bechtel cast i mean stranger things have happened
in regards to this show like people just pop their head out of the woodwork wait that is so
that's beautiful and they also were teaching
me swedish um as we would like walk through the forest they were basically like what's wrong with
this idiot why doesn't she understand swedish which is a perfectly legitimate question when
i'm in sweden um and so they're just like pointing out objects and telling me the word for them and um and all i remember is hoppa and skip
up this is the like which is jump and run um but oh but that sounds similar to english words yeah
and i remember it because it was like nine year olds jumping up and down going hop on
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i had i read like a bunch of like little things that you're just like wow
great childhood okay let's finger toothbrush culture loved yeah impromptu sleepover finger
toothbrush been there done that been there done that still
go there every once in a while you never know when finger toothbrush is going to come back into the
mix uh i wrote down a bunch of things that i loved here let me see um the so there's that scene where
they're thinking of recruiting helvig, but they're
like, but she's a Christian and we're, I'm not sure if this is going to work out.
And then Bobo says, we'll, we will influence her away from God.
Funniest line of dialogue in the world.
And then they're like, actually, it'll be really like political of us to hang out with
someone less fortunate, um, because she doesn't have any friends.
And so she's less fortunate.
And then,
and then they say,
if she doesn't stop being a Christian,
we'll kick her out.
And then Clara plays her,
plays Hedwig a song called hang God,
and then tries to convince her that it's a Christian song.
That whole string of events was so really great
funny and i also like that hedvig in spite of and now it makes sense i i'm seeing now
that the filmmaker is um a pretty devout christian but also a feminist and like
that that they don't talk hededwig out of being Christian.
I think that she remains a Christian punk the whole time and like stays true to herself and her friends accept that about her, which is like just another fun, like little thing that they don't draw a ton of attention to.
But God, I love that's like where you're like, man, kids like kids like Clara are the best. They go so hard and they're so reckless.
And they're like, I'm going to kill God.
Ketchup is God.
Ketchup is God.
I love when Clara calls her brother a fascist and a cop because he doesn't want her and Bobo to stay in the room during his party.
He doesn't want a 13
year old to get drunk and so he
is a fascist cop.
She's like, you're a fascist and a cop.
And the drinking age is probably 16
in Sweden for beer and wine at this point.
I'm not 100% certain. I know that
in the Netherlands
at least, the beer age
was 16 at some point while I was there
and I was really confused.
My biggest, not criticism of this film,
but the hardest part to connect for me
is that these are their biggest problems.
Yes.
It's like...
Sure.
And it's kind of interesting to me
because punk is this music of the rejected,
the music of rebellion or know, rebellion or whatever.
But it's actually kind of cool because I think it has like an inherent almost critique of punk within it
in that it's like Clara is the most punk and she's rejecting her perfectly loving family.
And that's useful to her, right?
It's like useful for her to, you know know separate herself out from her parents or whatever but like you know you can see why this might not connect with the uh the modern person
coming up into a like will there is there a future right um and which which is part of the
crucible of punk being formed as you know cold war lack of future or whatever and and i don't know
but it's just it's really interesting because it's this very uh it's a very middle class punk
setup although you also get the impression that the only reason it's middle class is because of
a strong social net like because a single mom is also totally fine at least appears to be totally
fine financially obviously she has
emotional issues that um her child is perfectly willing to help her deal with which is very sweet
um i don't know anyway that was the part for me that i was like it actually made me kind of sad
like nostalgic for when there's a future yeah i yeah i did also kind of want because
i also was like i'm maybe just not familiar enough with the economics of Sweden.
But it did seem to be like a lower middle class.
Yeah.
Like they weren't, their immediate needs were always met.
They didn't seem to encounter people whose immediate needs were not being met.
Right.
Which is fine.
But yeah, like that is like a very specific class sliver of punk kids to show
um i wanted to i i wanted to talk really quickly uh about the parents too because bobo
um i mean clara i kind of like that clara's family structure it's like almost presented in a jokey way of like Clara wants to have more problems than she maybe actually does.
Her family is really sweet and her biggest problem is her brother likes Joy Division now.
And like her dad is annoying when he plays the clarinet.
Like very, very sweet family um Bobo's uh I I liked that Bobo is I think my impression anyways
was that like her introvertedness and her like insecurities probably are connected to her home
life as well because like I don't know I I found this to be kind of like a relatable dynamic of like, she's like her mom clearly loves her very much.
Like wants to be supportive,
wants to be there for her,
but needs parenting herself.
And so like,
just like the Bobo knows way too much about her mom's personal life.
And like her mom sometimes treats her more as a friend than a guardian.
She doesn't always know where she is like stuff that it's like but i also like that it's like it's she's not positioned as like a bad
parent but it's like clear that their relationship is complicated and that she can't be there for
bobo in all the ways that bobo you know needs an adult Hedwig's mom too like
embarrassing uh two religious mom culture she was like my friends are gonna disown me because my mom
is threatening to arrest them uh and drag them to church calling like calling the mr police right doesn't ever say you can't hang
out with those two they're bad influence yeah yeah so like there there's a lot of gray area
in people in the way that like exists in the real world and also feels so like
small community vibes where it's like they like you were saying earlier margaret with the like
the two guys who run the youth center it's like they are not bad people but they just have some
ingrained behaviors that these kids are challenging in them that they're like not quite ready to
unlearn and like but this is the youth center so where else are they gonna go they have to like learn how to
talk to each other because this is the only place where there's one bass guitar and one drum kit
and like yeah yeah i also love that the that scene where hedvig's mom like fixes bobo and clara
like cookies and milk and tea like cookies and tea and drinks and snacks and then she sits them down
she's like i'm gonna pour i'm gonna report you to the police
before that she's like can i get you anything do you want more cookies
do you think it was all a faint like do you think because because clearly that you have to go with
church with me was just a moral lesson right not an actual attempt to force them to go to church do you think that the i'm gonna call the police was like a an actual threat
or a way to make them take it so seriously that they had to come over to talk i think it was the
latter i think it was just like these kids need a wake-up call right and i'm gonna best case scenario
she scares them into going to church yeah totally yeah like that's the best case scenario for her yeah but yeah i i also did
really appreciate i i fully thought just based on like movie logic that that would result in
hedvig not being allowed to hang out with them anymore um totally but you know they put her in
check and i like that it kind of remained a little ambiguous whether like Hedwig 100 percent wanted that haircut or not.
Like she didn't end up being upset about it.
And it looks great.
But there I mean, that's like a very another very middle school thing where like you like you're like, I'm not 100 percent sold on this.
It's not going to hurt me,
but I don't know.
And then,
you know, maybe you talk to an adult later and you're like,
I'm bummed out.
And then they,
you know,
and then hopefully they don't threaten to arrest your friends,
but sometimes that will happen,
I guess.
Well,
it also is like,
you know,
because little sister is the snitch.
Little sister is the only bad character in the,
um,
only villain. The villain is the little bad character in the... Only villain.
The villain is the Little Sister who snitches them out.
And you get the impression that it was Little Sister says,
I saw her trying not to get her hair cut,
which is like true, you know, but it's like not the whole story.
It seems like she probably was...
And you all were talking about this earlier,
and I really resonated with it it's like i really needed my friends who kicked dragged me kicking
and screaming into trouble um i a little bit lucky that it worked out as well as it did
but i i really appreciate it because i was also the like you know like i don't know guys if we should really crime right now right sometimes you
need the friend that's like this is this is a good crime we're gonna do this one yeah totally
and you're like oh okay cool yeah yeah and then i love that it's it's Hedwig at the end when um Clara and Bobo are fighting over Ellis
which again like on the surface that just might seem like a oh two girls fighting over a boy
like but like I don't know the way it's handled in this movie it's just more than a boy I like
that it's like clear that's like they're fighting about the bass guitar. Yeah, basically they're fighting about how Clara always steamrolls Bobo and tells her what she wants.
Exactly.
Right.
Totally.
But on the surface, yeah, it just kind of seems like, oh, they're fighting over a boy.
And I love that Hedvig facilitates their makeup.
And she's like, now you look the other one in the eye and say i like
you and then now it's your turn you do it you say i like you to your friend and then they do it and
it's so sweet and i just their bond their the friendship between the three of them is just so
precious and i love it because i i wrote down in my like my notes
uh one of the lines is a feature-length exploration of being white heterosexual is a shame
because they're like they're all like fighting over these boys that they don't actually like
and they but then i i actually later after really sitting with it i was like you know i actually
this works really well.
Like it's not it's not declaring any of these characters heterosexual, but it is definitely saying that like at least at least two of them have heterosexual love interests.
We don't. Hedwig has like a moment. Right. Which could mean anything when you're 13, like when you're 13.
And so I and I actually realize in some ways, I think if it was made now in the U.S., it might end up like more directly a queer film and that wouldn't be inherently bad.
But there's actually something really pure about the fact that they just sort of don't know what they're doing within this context.
I don't know. I had this moment where I was like, wait, am I glad that the anyway, I don't know where I'm going with this. I'm just done now.
Are you saying you're shipping more of the characters?
Well, like perhaps. No, but it's like you see the way that, you know, we think so much in society or at least I do, like especially since I do a lot of like history research and and no one ever writes about the homosexuality of people before like 1920 or
so.
Right.
And you,
you have this like gal pals problem where it's like,
you cannot tell who's gay in history because is she just a cat lady who lives
in a tower by herself?
Or is she a cat lady who lives with her best friend in a tower by the two of
themselves?
Like that still doesn't actually tell you whether or not they were dating or whether or not this person had no interest in men. Like ace characters are also,
people are written out of history. And so, no, I lost my train of thought here.
But it's, oh, okay. So they have a lot of like gal pal energy, right? But that's also just an
honest way that humans can interact.
Like one of the things that I think is one of the biggest shames about patriarchy,
clearly the treatment of women being a bigger deal,
but you see old pictures of men and they can interact with other men
in ways that are affectionate without it saying anything one way or the other about
their sexuality um we talk about this quite a bit on the show where like different how like
i think we talked about this most recently on top gun the top gun episode where everyone's like this
is the gayest movie ever made and it's like well that might be true and
maybe those characters are queer and interested in each other or that queer and not interested
in each other like it could be or they're just friends who have male affection toward each other
it could be any number of things but people automatically look at male affection and ascribe,
oh, they must be gay to it.
So, which is like, you know, it's more complicated than that.
And, you know, there's a lot, there's a bigger discussion to be had.
But yeah, let people be friends, you know? And speaking to what you were talking about, Margaret,
I mean, it's like, yeah, we have no idea where these kids are going to land in terms of their identity.
And I like that you kind of get the feeling, even like every single party between like the two middle school punk bands, like it's fully like they're performing for each other of like oh we
are in we're we are dating no we're not and like i'm putting my arm around you what does it mean
yeah i'm touching your hand like there's it's like like any kid yeah it's almost like okay well this
is how i have seen heterosexuality laid out for me, especially in like 82, I can't imagine.
And like, now I am doing it.
And then it's like, who knows what happens down the line when,
yeah, it's sweet.
And the way it's presented is like innocent,
even when, you're right, with Ellis.
And also, I mean to ellis's credit you know way
easier to ghost someone in 1982 you just fucking fall off the map it doesn't matter
especially because he appears to live in a suburb which they make fun of him for
they're like where what is this there's a forest
over here and he's like no it's a city the last thing i kind of wanted to touch on and i think
this might go back to sort of that like beauty standards conversation but um there's that scene
where clara and bobo are talking to two girls it's toward the beginning of the movie
the girls and i think they're maybe like working together like the spandex like the the leotard
very spandex like yeah do do do do do um yeah the dance at the at the talent show um yes they
because those are girls who like they're wearing pastels and their blonde hair is
long and they're kind of like giving Bobo and Clara a hard time for just like looking the way
they do and behaving the way they do and I feel like uh this this is reminiscent of the like, well, our characters are not like the other girls thing.
But again, the way it's presented in this movie, it's it's it just it felt more like, yeah, these two characters are, you know, kind of, they would
be considered oddballs, quote unquote, by like mainstream society because they're very
intentionally doing that.
Like, you know, try, you know, like rejecting society's standards um and while they are kind of casting judgment
on these like quote-unquote normie girls it just i don't know i cannot explain why it feels
different but the way we criticize they like it didn't feel like you know like oh they're not
like the other girls well it didn't feel like movie bullying.
That didn't even feel like even like a movie bullying interaction.
Like that felt like kids that were like, like the girls were being mean to Bobo and Clara.
And gatekeeping them about punk.
Yes.
Right. bobo and clara and gatekeeping them about punk yeah yes right i was like oh god these mini olivia newton johns are telling them that punk is dead that's that's gotta hurt that's gotta sting
um but it did feel like i don't know it just felt like a very like kid interaction of like
no one really knows what they're talking about in this interaction um it didn't feel like the like overwritten middle
school bullies that you're used to saying in movies it was like kids that like yeah these
kids are not going to be friends they don't they don't have a lot of respect for each other but
it's not like i don't know yeah i i agree and and and i feel like it's you avoid the like not
like other girls trope by just like getting to know that character, which is what this this entire movie is.
It's like we know so much about their background, like what draws them to punk, what draws them to each other and all this stuff.
Like, you know, it all makes sense.
It does. So, yeah, that was the last thing I wanted to touch on.
Is there anything else?
I think that, I guess like from a intersectional point of view, it's like worth pointing out that I believe the entire cast like is entirely white.
And yeah, I kind of like did a little bit of, but not a ton of digging to like, you know, it's just like, there's a certain amount you can just sort of say like sweden 1982
you know right i feel like sweden is kind of famously rather homogenous in terms of but not
entirely the demographics not entirely but like it is not quite the like cultural melting pot is like other places um but yeah i i definitely
um um i was curious about that too because i'm like is this just what the demographics of sweden
were at this time but they're also in a major city and it did feel like this is this is especially white even for sweden my understanding
and i i'm not an expert in this i know a little bit more about finland than i do i avoided all
of the problems that you all were talking about about accidentally causing drama within your
friend groups by dating people by i just um dated a finnish girl all throughout high school who
lived in a different country and so i got to be be like, you wouldn't know her. She doesn't go here. She doesn't even live in this country.
Love that. Yeah. And which honestly was probably my like low key way of just being like, I don't
actually want to date. This all seems weird and messy. I'll just stay out of it. So I don't know
as much about Sweden and probably some of the listeners do but I'm under the impression one that at least more recently the suburbs versus city thing
is inverted in Sweden and a lot of places in Europe the suburbs would
actually be more of a marker of being poor and also be more likely to have a
more stronger culture to to my understanding and this does not reflect
back to the 80s.
And then also a lot of the waves of immigration from I believe mostly North Africa and Swana,
is that the way that I'm new to this terminology?
Southwest Asia and Northern Africa. um southwest asia and north northern africa um folks i mean i believe that was more like the
mid to late 90s um but i again not a demographics expert and i but one of the only reasons worth
bringing it up is one there's a coziness to this particular punk fantasy or whatever that that's very sweet but is like complicated by the the
current rise and i'm really not trying to hold this movie to these standards but it just like
feels worth pointing out that like um there's a lot of problems with racism in particular in
sweden uh again i'm not trying to pretend like i don't live in a country full of racism but like
so there's a certain amount of like the the all whiteness is feels it's like marked to me because of the current context but
I don't have enough information to know whether it feels marked to the context in which it was made
or the context of the time it represents as always if there are any listeners who can shed more light on this, listeners from Sweden,
or just anyone who has more information,
feel free to share.
No, I'm glad you brought it up, though,
because that's something that I think sometimes
we are guilty of, of being like,
well, yeah, this movie sucks on the issue of race,
but we don't have enough information,
so we're not sure.
And then we kind of drop it in a way that we probably should not we should continue to to research and and
have a better perspective um on the whole because i mean like so many movies there is no reason that
the cast to this movie should be all white you're making a fucking movie and also there's no way that was true that that could be true so um does that bring us to the backfill test of which which this movie
passes very handily almost constantly mostly between bobo clara and hedvwig and um but yeah there's there's other combinations but yeah it's uh
girls talking about punk music it's girls talking about uh religion it's girls talking about
sometimes you know boys and Ellis and stuff but um yeah it's it's a whole handful of many different things i know and it's
it's so effortless it's just like what the story is and i love that we get to see every kind of
facet of these kids inner world it's awesome i love it i'm excited to watch it again and to
recommend it it's also like if you haven't watched this movie it's streaming on goddamn tubi it's
oh is it oh amazing great so if you haven't watched it and you enjoyed this episode get to it so let's get let's get to our uh our nipple scale nipple scale zero to five nipples
based on how the movie fares when we examine it through an intersectional feminist lens. And I would say,
I would give this, I think like a 4.5, um, because docking it a little bit for, but again, like,
uh, it's that tricky thing where it's like, maybe these just were the demographics of Sweden in 19 early 1980s or maybe it was just
that they you know didn't think to be more inclusive so um I'll cautiously give it four
and a half nipples um because I think that otherwise it's doing a lot of really amazing things as far as just like centering a female friendship, centering just like girls in punk music.
Like there's just not many stories about that.
I think the examination of how different things like beauty standards and romance and misogyny and like
because they're in uh in like music uh which is often kind of like a male dominated thing and they
are dealing with those youth center guys and the iron fist band and like being misogynist
toward them in kind of subtle ways and not like overtly hateful ways but like things that they
still have to deal with and just like all of those interesting nuanced things that the movie explores
in a very like seamless and effortless and authentic way i
thought was really awesome so i'm going to give the movie four and a half nipples
i'll give one to each of the gals in the band um i'll give one to the child acting in general
which i thought was incredible um i famously am very critical of child acting
on the show uh and maybe it's just because it's in a language that I don't speak but I
I think you can you can still tell when acting is good or bad uh even if you're not speaking
that language and I think it was really good acting and then i'll give my half nipple to
um clarinet dad clarinet dad's clarinet as a former clarinet player myself
i gotta show the clarinet some love for sure uh i'll go i'll go 4.5 as well. Do you think it's worth bringing up that there's no country that having a completely white cast,
especially in a coming-of-age story where there was room for diversity in the story,
there's no reason it needed to be the way it was.
I'm glad that we got to discuss that.
And I really love this movie. I feel like it's representation of girlhood and
like just the i don't know the like kind of like incredibly specific specific specific specificity
let's go with that uh of but of of like uncomfortable coming of age experiences and
like trying to figure your shit out and contradicting
yourself all the time and your parents suck but they're trying and like it just there are so many
like universal cool themes being explored here i really love it i'm gonna give it four nipples i
give one one each to hedwig bo, Bobo, and Clara.
I'm going to give one to Clarinet Dad,
and I'll give the last half nipple
with a vote of faith that she'll do better in the future
to Hedwig's little sister, the villain of the story.
Yeah, maybe she was just actually really concerned
for Hedwig's sake.
Yeah, she really thought Hedwig was was gonna go to hell for that i know
i mean speaking of calling a sibling a fascist and a cop yeah she was the fascist song about her
uh i'm also going to take the cheap way out and copy the same number of nipples that you all give it but i do feel like hell yeah it feels feels right to me um i will give and 4.5 is like the punkest
right number to yeah because you're like i really liked it but i can't not be critical yeah exactly
it's not perfect um and oh my god i used to review things on goodreads before i had published books
and i used to like i didn't know that the internet meant five stars is good and everything below it
means it's absolute garbage and so i used to like accurately rate things and then people
get mad at me like after i started publishing books people would go to my goodreads and be like
i can't believe margaret killjoy gave four stars to this other book as if as if her books are better
and i'm like no i would have given my book four stars like I know what's wrong with it I wrote it
you know um but anyway um from anyway so uh One Nipple goes to Clara's Suit uh One Nipple goes to
it being top three punk movies um one to the fact that they're not i'm not giving them to people i
apologize uh one is to the fact that they're not a punk band sorry they're not a girl band
sorry terrible slip um one is to the fact that there is no doubt in my mind that these girls
would have taken in a trans girl there's no part of me that thinks that they would have rejected
me from their crew um hell yeah and uh my half nipple goes to them fishing for people with yarn out the window.
That's true.
We cannot forget the absolute critical nature of that.
And then shout out to, have you all seen Together?
This guy's other movie about a, it's the best movie about a communal house that I've ever seen.
Like in terms of like how communal living works.
It's a very similarly overly earnest, beautiful film.
I've also only saw it once like five or six years ago.
I didn't know it was the same director.
I just thought Swedes were particularly good at making cozy films about things that I like.
Anyway, sorry for shoehorning and everything that I wanted to talk about.
No, not even a little bit.
Margaret, it was such a treat having you.
What would you like to plug?
Where can people follow you on social media?
All of that good stuff.
Well, if you like hearing me talk about
things i like i have a podcast called cool people who did cool stuff you can hear me tell jamie
loftus about the time that spain um stole itself back from the bosses and the fascists for a little
while an absolute treat and that is a good place to find me it's on cool zone media and you can follow me
on twitter at magpie killjoy you can follow me on instagram at margaret killjoy and i guess if you
like google my name plus book or music or something you can find the other stuff i do
hell yeah yeah thank you so we're we're so, I'm like just genuinely thrilled that you're on the show.
I'm so glad we got to talk about a punk movie.
I don't think we've ever covered a punk movie on shows.
So I think it's good and important that we brought an authority in for the occasion.
Thank you so much again for being here.
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