The Daily Stoic - Are You Self-Aware?

Episode Date: July 17, 2019

Evan Thomas, in his incisive and humanizing biography of Richard Nixon, asks a penetrating question: How many great men of history were truly self-aware? Nixon surely wasn’t. Bill Clinton, caught red-handed—or rather, blue-dressed—philandering in the White House, surely wasn’t either. All one has to do is watch the video from his grand jury testimony, where he sought to litigate the definition of the word “is,” for evidence of that fact. Few presidents have been self-aware. In a way, the job selects against it: The kind of person who thinks they deserve to be the most powerful person in the country—or in the world—isn’t usually the one who stops and thinks critically about themselves. Marcus Aurelius had a little bit of an advantage. He didn’t exactly choose to be emperor. It was thrust upon him. He knew he was a regular person—not a god—and this allowed him to escape what he called imperialization, being changed by the office. And still, Marcus, like all of us, struggled with self-awareness. Surely his trusted advisors talked privately amongst themselves about his flaws, and had to try to work around his ego, or convince him not to react emotionally or personally to things, in order to do what was best for the empire. The battle for self-awareness is an endless one. The ability to step back and see yourself from a distance, to analyze your own flaws and weaknesses, to understand your own motivations? This is not only not easy, it’s basically not natural. We were given—cursed with—all sorts of biases and blind spots that work against self-knowledge on a daily basis. Yet we must continue to aim for self-awareness, at knowing ourselves as fully as possible. Nixon’s lack of self-awareness might have helped him become president, but it also cut his second term painfully short. Marcus undermined his own legacy with his persecution of the Christians and his helplessness when it came to choosing a successor. And so will we destroy ourselves and undermine our own legacy if we are not always working to understand ourselves better, to question our biases, and to look at ourselves...objectively.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Bill Clinton caught Red Handed or rather blue dressed, flandering in the White House surely wasn't either. All one has to do is watch the video from his grand jury testimony, where he sought to litigate the definition of the word is for evidence of that fact. Few presidents have been self-aware. In a way, the job selects against it,

the kind of person who thinks they deserve to be the most powerful person in the country or in the world, isn't usually the one who stops and thinks critically about themselves. Marcus Aurelius had a little bit of an advantage. He didn't exactly choose to be emperor, it was thrust upon him. He knew he was a regular person, not a god, and this allowed him to escape what he called imperialization, being changed by the office, and still, Marcus, like all of us,

struggled with self-awareness. Surely his trusted advisors talked privately amongst themselves about his flaws and had to try to work around his ego or convince him not to react emotionally or personally to things in order to do what was best for the empire. The battle for self-awareness is an endless one. The ability to step back and see yourself from a distance to analyze your own flaws and weaknesses to understand your own motivations.

This is not only not easy. It's basically not natural. We were given cursed with all sorts of biases and blind spots that work against self-knowledge on a daily basis. And yet we must continue to aim at that self-awareness, at knowing ourselves as fully as possible. Nixon's lack of self-awareness might have helped him become president, but it also cut his second term painfully short. Marcus really undermined his own legacy with his persecution of the Christians and his

helplessness when it came to choosing a successor. And so we will destroy ourselves and undermine our legacy if we are not always working to understand a successor. And so we will destroy ourselves and undermine our legacy if we are not always working to understand ourselves better, to question our biases and to look at ourselves objectively. In exciting news, we now have an obstacle is the way pendant, if you wanna carry this idea with you everywhere you go, it's a necklace you can wear, it says the obstacle is the way in the front. It has a mountain path carved through the steep

mountain up to the top and on the back it has that quote from Marcus Reelies, the impediment to action, advances action, what stands in the way, becomes the way. You can check it out at dailystilic.com slash store. Hey, prime members, you can listen to the daily stowic early and ad free on Amazon music. Download the Amazon music app today, or you can listen early and ad free with Wondery Plus in Apple podcasts. Add free with Wondery Plus in Apple Podcasts.