The Daily Stoic - Ask Yourself These Crucial Questions | Practice True Joy

Episode Date: May 22, 2023

There’s a story of Musonius Rufus paying a thousand sesterces to a charlatan posing as a philosopher. When an observer stepped in to say that the man was a liar unworthy of the payment, Musonius replied, “money is exactly what he deserves.”It’s always revealing to look closely at those who seem to prize financial success above all else. The writer Anne Lamott jokes in Bird by Bird, “Ever wonder what God thinks of money? Just look at the people he gives it to.” Marcus Aurelius writes in Meditations, “Robbers, perverts, killers, and tyrants—gather for your inspection their so-called pleasures!”---And in today's Daily Stoic Journal excerpt reading, Ryan meditates on the unique aspects of Stoic joy, and why it should be practiced every day.💵 Visit dailystoic.com/wealth to sign up for The Wealthy Stoic wealth management course today.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoke Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes, illustrated with stories from history, current events, and literature to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoic intention for the week,

something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about whatever it is you're happy to be doing. So let's get into it. Ask yourself these crucial questions. There's a story of Musonius Rufus paying who awarded a sum of money to a charlatan who posed as a philosopher. When an observer stepped in to say that the man was a liar unworthy of the payment, Musoneus replied, money is exactly what he deserves.

It's a great line, and it brings up a point. We all want to have money, but when we look at people who have money, they're not always who we want to be. The writer and Lamott jokes in bird by bird, you ever wonder what God thinks of money, just look at the people he gives it to. Marcus really is in meditation's rights

of the robbers and perverts and killers and tyrants. He says, gather for your inspection. They're so called pleasures. I think the idea when we think about money, when we think about wanting to be rich, when we think about what money might do for us, is to really be sure that we have clarity about what we want to do and what we think is going to happen. Here are some important questions that you need to think about when it comes to your own

ambitions and desires. Are you sure that the goals you are pursuing are what you truly want? Are you sure that money will fix your problems? Are you sure that you have correctly defined financial freedom? Are you sure that you can handle success? Are you sure that you deserve that success? Are you sure you're going to do things differently than the many cautionary tales out there? Are you sure you're going to do things differently than the many cautionary tails out there? Are you sure you're going to be happy with what you get? Are you sure it's going to be worth it? In the wealthy stoic, our new course, a daily stoic guide to being rich and free and happy,

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sort of weekly meditation that we do inside the journal. And it's always been weird for me. I don't know if I should call the journal that I wrote a book. It's 20,000 words. It's got writing in it. Is it a journal? Is it a book? In any case, here is today's meditation. The Stoics held joy to be one of the good passions worthy of practice in everyday life. But Stoic joy isn't about the delights of the senses or material pleasures. To mark its realies, joy was being kind to others. To Senica was freedom from fear or suffering and death. Let's laugh with Democritus, as Senica says, and engage in our proper human work with joy.

with Democritus, Asenica says, and engage in our proper human work with joy. So consider making your study of philosophy this week around the idea of where you might find joy and what good you might find to do with it. And here's Mark's Relious on Meditations. Joy for human beings lies in proper human work. And proper human work consists in acts of kindness to other human beings, disdain for the stirring of the senses and identifying trustworthy impressions and contemplating the natural order in all that happens in keeping with it. Then we have Seneca and his moral letters. He says, trust me, real joy is a serious thing. Do you think that someone can and the charming expression blithely dismiss death with an easy disposition,

or swing open the door to poverty, keeping pleasures in check, or meditate on the endurance of suffering. The one who is comfortable with turning these thoughts over is truly full of joy, but hardly cheerful. It's exactly such a joy that I would wish for you to possess for it will never truly run dry once you've laid claim to its source. And finally, we have Seneca in on tranquility of mind. He says, Heraclitus would shed tears whenever

he went out in public, demo-credits laughed. One saw the whole as a parade of miseries, the other of follies. And so we shall take a lighter view of things and bear them with an easy spirit for it is more human to laugh at life than to lament it. There is this sense, right, that the Stoics are joyless, that the Stoics are humorousness, that the Stoics don't appreciate existence, that they're just here, beasts of burden, unfeeling, and ready to face death with barely a whimper. But I think there's first off too much humor in the Stoics,

whether it's Marcus Aurelius or Seneca, or of course, Cricipus, who allegedly died laughing at some inside joke who's meaning barely even survives to us. I just don't think that the Stoics were without joy. You could look at Seneca's enormous parties. You know, he famously has like 300 ivory tables as hypocrisy or it could be an insight to a side of the Stoics that perhaps doesn't appear

in their writing very much, but clearly was a big part of their existence, which was, you know, socializing and connecting and having fun with people. But I think what the Stoics, what Santa Camos of all is trying to say here, is that joy is not hedonism, it's not just pure happiness and lightness. The joy comes from that place of resilience, from removing the unnecessary disturbances that cause misery.

I'd probably define Stoic joy as the absence of misery that a lot of people experience, whether it's fear or anger or jealousy or anxiety. Instead of like, joy is drinking, joy is luxury, joy is parties. I think for the Stokes, it was joy was the absence of the longing for those things or anything that made you unhappy. But then we have to add in Marcus Aurelius' Rinkle, which I think Marcus truly found, although he seems to be an introverted quiet person who loved his books, he clearly found joy in being of service, helping people of making the world better. And we have to see that as a key part of our role,

you know, as an introvert myself, I do empathize with that expression that hell is other people, that life is easier when you focus on your stuff, but this is also its own form of misery, ultimately, because it makes you lonely. It deprives you of purpose. It deprives you of connection. This Dox did celebrate joy. They did believe it was an important passion, an important part of life. They just would have disagreed with the Epicurians who seem to find joy in external things,

external pleasures, external pleasures, external experiences. I think for the Stoics joy was something deeper. It was a way of living, it was a way of thinking, it was a deeper emanation of self-sufficiency, but also connection, a locking in on one's purpose. Doing the work that one is put here to do. When Mark really says, the fruit of this life is good character and acts are the common good. I think he's also talking about what gives him joy

and what makes him happy in this life. And I hope you find the same thing. Seek out joy. Certainly don't disdain joy and certainly don't think that this philosophy is about not experiencing the joy. I wish you much happiness and joy you deserve it. My life is better when I have it and it's something that I actually actively have to work on and so do you. Hey, Prime Members!

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