The Daily Stoic - Dave Asprey on Fasting and Optimizing Your Life | You Just Had A Scare
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You just had a scare. We can think about what would change if we found out we had cancer.
We can think about what it would be like to see one of our kids in the hospital with tubes coming
out of their nose. We can think about the anguish of waiting to hear from the authorities,
was our spouse involved in that car crash.
Or we can imagine what we'd be thinking in those moments when the news was finally delivered.
Our hopes, our life flashing before us, the prayers, the promises, the bucket list of everything
we do if we could just get through this, okay.
And it's important for you to realize that this exercise,
this stoic practice of memento mori,
it is not just hypothetical, not anymore anyway.
You just lived through a year-long version of it.
You're living through it right now.
There is a deadly pandemic floating in the air,
accumulating in the invisible
aerosol particles that have claimed the lives of millions. It's been in rooms you have been in.
It's been inhaled by people you have passed on the street just as they've excelled. It's been
incubated in and transmitted from people you've hugged, people you've served as part of your job.
from people you've hugged, people you've served as part of your job. Maybe it's even been inside you.
Maybe you got COVID, a serious case or a mild one.
Everyone reading this, everyone listening to this,
however, has something in common.
You survived.
Maybe you were aware of how close you came.
Maybe you had no idea.
Maybe you refused to see it.
It's true though, you dodged death.
We all did.
Do not ignore this brush with mortality.
Think on it, instead learn from it,
let it sober you up.
Keep those promises you would have made
had the diurnist of the situation been clearer
or closer to you, change because of this.
As Marcus Aurelius said to himself during the playing that dominated his own time,
imagine that you nearly died because it's true.
Now take what's left of your life and live it properly.
This memento mori thing we talk about and we've been talking about it for years.
Again, it's not theoretical. We just went through it. You just vividly saw how life can change in an instant, how time
can be taken from us, how people can be taken from us, how easily it could have been 10,
100, 1000 times worse, as it was for Marcus Aurelius in the Antonin Plague, which many people think he ultimately succumbed to.
This idea of Memento Mori, I'm holding my Memento Mori coin right now,
you could leave life right now, let that determine what you do and say and think.
This is what Stoicism is about.
I mean, look, there's even a book, an edition of Seneca's writings called How to Die.
This stuff is real, take it seriously.
If you wanna remind her, go to store.dailystoke.com.
But just write it down on a piece of paper.
I don't care.
The point is, momentumore, you could leave life right now,
let that determine what you do and say and think.
Ignore that at your peril.
Hey, it's Ryan.
Welcome to another episode of The Daily Story podcast. I think I mentioned
this that I'm hard at work on the next book, but I'm also putting the final touches on the book
that comes out before that. This is the Courage Is Calling book, which I'm very excited about. But
these are the last days before it goes off to the printers, I go off to my studio to do some audiobook
recording, one of the nice parts about doing the podcast, I now have my own little studio
here, so I don't have to go into a studio. I didn't do it for lives of the stoke, I
didn't go into a studio because it's a middle of a pandemic. And now I don't want to spend
three days commuting somewhere to record, I want to do it in the privacy of my own house
and at my leisure.
So I'm going to record the audio book for Courage
is Calling.
But I'm already hard at work on the next book
in the series, which will be about Temperance.
And as it happens, that's a theme in today's conversation
with the one and only Dave Asprey, founder of the Bulletproof
Diet, Bulletproof Coffee.
I've known of his stuff for a very long time.
I've taken a bunch of his stuff.
I know my wife loves a bunch of his stuff.
We met each other for the first time.
I believe at Jason Gaynor's Mastermind Talks,
they're in, I think the first one was in Toronto,
and then you did one in Ohai that I went to.
So anyways, I've gotten to know Dave over the years.
He's been nice enough to have me on his podcast
several times.
He's a fan of Perennial Cellar,
and he's been very generous to me in his platform.
But the new book, Fast This Way,
How to Lose Weight, Get Smarter, Live Your Longest,
Healthiest Life with the Bulletproof Guide to Fasting. I wanted to talk about, Fasting, this way, had a lose weight, gets smarter, and live your longest, healthiest life
with the bulletproof guy to Fasting.
I wanted to talk about because Fasting
is, although sort of a modern trend,
obviously it goes way back.
There is, as we talk about in the episode,
both a sort of health component to Fasting,
but also a spiritual component to Fasting,
and I think a philosophical part,
there's a reason that fasting
tends to be a part of some of those sort of vision quests or purification rituals that people might
go through. And we talked about all that. I do intermittent fasting. So Dave gave me some great
advice that I think will be helpful to you. If you haven't tried fasting, look for me, it was certainly a breakthrough.
It's an important part of my routine as I've talked about quite a bit because it just
makes me think less about food, makes me more regimented about food, sort of contains
the role that food plays in my life. And that's what we get into in today's episode.
Dave is a long time Silicon Valley Tech entrepreneur,
professional biohacker,
New York Times best selling author of now four books,
Game Changers, Headstrong, the Bulletproof Diet,
and of course, Fast This Way.
He's the host of Bulletproof Radio, his podcast,
and like me, he lives out in the country
in Victoria, at British Columbia. So at the end, he lives out in the country in Victoria, British Columbia.
So at the end, we nerd out about country life, which the Epicurians said was an important part of our philosophical pursuits.
So here is my conversation with the one and only Dave Asprey. Hope you enjoy it.
So I do intermittent fasting ish, not at the level that you're at. So I'll start where I am and then maybe you can sort of walk me through, you always take
these things to the elite level.
You can tell me what I'm not doing well and what I should do better.
So basically, my day is, I wake up around like six ish. I work out,
usually a walk or run. I don't eat until 10 30 or 11. And then that's like my one meal.
Maybe I have a light snack in the middle of the day. Then I have dinner with the kids
between five and six. So I'm usually done eating at
six. And I usually do kind of like a second workout in the evening, or if I haven't done
the first big workout, then I work out again. And then that's it for my eating window. So
I basically do like two, two and a half meals a day. And my eating window is 10.30 to 11 from 10.30 11 to 5 to 6 p.m.
Okay, so you're finishing dinner at 6.00. So you're basically going, you're eating between
11 and 6, which is a seven hour eating window, right?
Yes. So like 16-ish hours of fasting, basically.
Okay, so you're doing a classic 16-8 or maybe a 17, 7, but honestly, who's counting
it, like the small differences don't, don't matter.
And I love it.
It was a total game changer for me in the sense that I used to think about food a lot,
and I would just eat a lot more because I could eat a lot more.
And I found, like, I do all my writing in the morning, and I actually have found one
by not having a meal that I have to eat in the morning and I actually have found one by not having a meal that I have to eat in the
morning. It allows me to go like right into what I have to do without like a just logistically
like the time it takes to eat. So I like that. But I just found that I'm also more focused and locked
in before I eat like when I give a talk. I don't I never eat before the talk, because I find that the hunger is good,
but the opposite of hunger, like being full,
doesn't seem to get good performance for me.
It turns out it doesn't get good performance from anyone.
And so this idea of breakfast
is the most important meal of the day.
It actually doesn't work.
So if you wanted to do really good writing,
stuff your face and sit down
to write, at least for me, I haven't written as many books as you and I actually think you're
a better writer than I am, but only four New York Times here. And I'm not saying that to
kiss your ass, I actually like you're one of my favorite writers. So there's that. But
you know the cognitive load when you go into the writing zone. Yeah. Look, some percentage of your energy goes into digesting food.
And it can be like 30% of the energy that's in a stake gets eaten up just digesting the
stake.
And that means blood flow and electron flow that could have gone into thinking goes into
your gut.
And a lot of systems in the body shift.
When you have nothing in your stomach, and this gets a little bit esoteric, but some energy
goes into looking at the environment differently, and this is very subtle energy.
So imagine there's all these ancient bacteria running your body, your metocondria.
They're not just power plants.
They're environmental sensors that make individual decisions about what to do based on what they think is happening.
And when you combine those quadrillion sensors, all their input, all their network decision making,
it eventually rolls up, and then you get to experience all that about a quarter second after it actually happened.
And they'll make sure you jump if something scary happens
within that quarter-second window, but they'll jump,
and then you'll take credit for the jump afterwards.
A lot of this is tied to the ego as well.
So what's happening is if they're going,
hey, there's no food in here, maybe we should turn
our sensors outward, and we should be more open.
And this is why I have to go for a walk when you're
fasted.
In nature, you sense the forest differently. And I walk when you're fasted in nature. You sense the
forest differently. And I think when you're doing a supreme act of creation that you channel things
differently, like your brain works differently because you're looking at the world as in what's
here in the world for me versus if you're already full, you're more internally focused, which is
maybe not where you want to be when you're writing. That makes sense. So, I also just find that you can get sleepy after you eat,
depending on what you eat,
that there's also just none of that.
So, it's like, I want to do the important things
before sort of food is interacting with my mind.
I think you're onto a really good track there and I do it exactly
the same way I can imagine writing on a full stomach or giving, you know, a Tony Robbins level,
you know, you're on a big stage somewhere. It's just not for me. Good idea to have one try
before hand. No, and I think like if you're an athlete, if you're a basketball player, you know,
sometimes they'll have like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich beforehand.
You're using such an inhuman amount of energy.
I think that probably is a different scenario than the sort of what most of us are doing,
which is like knowledge work or needing to focus or needing to be alert.
I don't think you want, you know, it's like you have a big meal, you can have that crash afterwards. You don't want that while you're trying to
do something.
No, you don't want it athletically. You don't want it cognitively. And for an athlete,
what's ideal is that you're full of energy, but your stomach is empty, right? So that's
how, what did you eat, how long before? And then what are the two fastest sources of energy that you can get?
One of them, surprisingly, is MCT and small droplets, you've blended into a coffee maybe.
The other one, obviously, is sugar or carbohydrates.
And so a lot of, especially endurance athletes who've, or high altitude athletes, who've
endorsed or embraced, as probably a word, the bull-proof idea
there, they'll start out in keto and then halfway through a marathon or something, they'll
kick over to glucose.
Because you just got to be able to get enough energy in because you're combining air and
food.
When we're dealing with it cognitively, you probably don't need to go to glucose, but
if you were, say, giving a three-hour talk and a super high-energy talk where you're
whipping up a crowd, two hours in, if you had something with a little bit of glucose in it,
I wouldn't blame you, and it would probably help your brain. You get short-term boosts,
but you don't get a long-term boost from glucose. So there's an argument there.
So walk me through the history of fasting then, cause what's fascinating about, to me, about fasting
is that it's both sort of,
there's like a performance argument for it
and a diet argument for it,
but there's also, you know, sort of going way back
like a spiritual element to it,
which I guess doing it regularly, the way that I do it,
I don't experience, but obviously it's sort of
entwined with it.
The spiritual history of fasting goes back as long as there's been humans.
One of the chapters in Fast This Way, I went back and did that kind of deep research
on it, maybe not to the level that you were Robert Greenwood, but to a pretty deep level. And look at, there's Jewish traditions.
There's traditions in the Muslim world.
There are traditions in ancient Christianity and shamanism.
And what you find is that that thing I mentioned earlier
with sensors opening up, they're a part of getting
into certain spiritual states, things like Samadhi, which is a state described in India, but a state, people experience where you become one
with a universe. And it's hard to do with a full stomach because of that sensor network.
What's missing in popular culture, though, is we say, oh, fasting equals suffering. And sometimes
there is suffering on a spiritual fast.
If you're doing a vision quest the way I did in a cave where a shaman drops you off in
the desert, you're not going to see anyone or any food for four days, you're going to
face your hunger, you're going to face your fears, you're going to face loneliness and
do what you're going to do.
That's not what fasting is for most people listening to this right now.
There is a working fast, which is what you do,
where it's a performance enhancer and a time saver and a money saver.
And there is a spiritual fast, which is when you actually rest,
you journal, you do not exercise, you might go for a walk,
but you don't push yourself hard, and you do it for a longer period of time.
And that's when you're using all that energy to do your work,
your personal development work. So when you have those two ideas mixed up and you're trying
to use spiritual fasting techniques, or you're doing it, and you're overexerting yourself
physically, and you're saying, I wonder why I'm having such a hard time this week, and
I'm hangry, and I'm hypoglybitchy, I have a headache, and this is not what I wanted.
Well, okay, it's time to say performance was the goal,
how do I fast for performance?
You found a pretty good way.
I have some concerns about your exercise timing
with food that we can get into.
Okay.
But you're doing it in a really good way.
I also wonder if doing it every single day,
including Saturday and Sunday, is serving you,
or if you should shake it up,
because if you teach the body to always expect the same thing, it doesn't
always work.
So I have breakfast Saturday morning, I have brunch with my family specifically, so I don't
always get used to not having breakfast.
That metabolic flexibility is important.
So you know, have some gluten-free muffins on Saturday morning.
I have a million questions now.
So first off, what was the word you said
try so quite blitchy or bitchy?
It said that again.
Hypoglybitchy.
Well, that's like hangry, but more scientific.
Pretty much.
It's a hypoglycemia is when you get low blood sugar,
which makes you act like a jerk.
Right.
And I describe myself that way,
because when I weighed 300 pounds,
if I didn't eat six times a day, I was afraid,
there's one of the reasons I had
that put me in a cave to fast,
I turned into such a jerk
that I didn't wanna be around co-workers
and I ended a meeting once in my mid-20s
and it was my meeting with 10 people.
And it's the guys, it's 11.45,
I know we're supposed to go till noon,
but if I don't eat right now,
I'm gonna have to eat one of you.
So I'll meet you in the cafeteria and I just walked out of the room because I couldn't
hack it.
And I look at that and I kind of roll my eyes.
I was younger.
I should have been healthier and stronger than I am now, but now I could go two days of meetings
without eating and I'd be just fine.
It is funny with kids, you realize, especially young kids, like 90% of all behavioral issues,
it's just that they're like food routine.
It's been messed up in some way.
Totally.
And they're, they're angry.
And that here, if you give them a squeezy pack,
they'll, they'll, they'll, they'll chill the hell out.
But I love that word.
That's great.
I think hangry is the root of, you know,
most conflict in the modern world. I think you're onto something there. I mean, there's always the role of past conflict in the modern world.
I think you're onto something there.
I mean, there's always the role of past trauma and all that,
but one of the things that I think ties back to stoicism
is the root algorithm for how all life on earth works,
including us.
I think that's worth talking about.
It's definitely in the book. Is that worth
covering quickly? Yeah, of course. Are you talking about everything you want?
All right. So imagine that you're playing a video game, one of those Sim City type of
games, and you're going to create a life form that can live forever, and it's single-selt.
So what are the things that has to do to stay alive forever for billions of years. Well, the first thing you would have to do is run away from kill or hide from scary things.
But it's fear.
It has to have a defense system, so that's because you lose in the first round of the
game if something comes along and eats you.
So there you go.
First effort is fear, and then it gets ten times more energy and focus than it really
needs.
And the second thing that you have to do
is you have to eat everything.
Because famines and lack of fuel kill most animals,
most species, most of the time,
if you look at over the course of years
or decades or generations, including humans,
you go back 10 generations,
a lot of our potential ancestors died of famine.
So it's wired into us to eat everything.
And this is why when you're not paying attention,
you'll take a bite of whatever is in front of you.
And so let's say that it gets five times
of energy, then it's really necessary.
So this is the first two upwards.
Fear is 10, food is five.
What's the third thing all life has to do
to stay around forever that's enough for it?
Right, you can get this one.
Yes, FUCK. I was thinking fertility.
Okay.
God, man.
I love that one.
So yeah, you said it right.
And that is going to get about three times more attention than it needs because your cells
believe that if you don't have sex with everything that you could have sex with,
that the end of the species might happen.
Because remember, they're small little cells, they don't know time, they don't know context,
they don't know you have a refrigerator, they don't know there's billions of people on
the planet.
They just know I'm playing the game according to these three rules.
And there's a fourth effort that comes after that, which is friend, and all life does it.
You farm a community, you take care of your elders,
you form a biofilm, you make kombucha, you make a forest,
you make a herd, you make an ecosystem.
So interoperability is part of it,
but it comes after the first three F words.
And then you look at stoicism, you're like,
oh wait, are we dealing with the interchange
between our prefrontal cortex, the part of us
that we identify as ourselves
and this automated ancient defense system.
Yeah, and hangry and hypoglybicci,
when that system says, I don't have enough food here,
it immediately triggers the fear thing,
and you stop paying attention to the friend thing,
and that's why we end up acting like jerks when we're hungry,
unless we're trained to be hungry.
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on the Amazon or Wondering app. I was thinking about this because the book that I'm working on now
is about this idea of temperance or self-discipline. I love it. And what I think is all the things that
you just talked about, if you really think about what it was like to be primitive man,
part of the reason we have those sort of adaptions
or those urges or those sort of insatiabilities
is that the things were relatively rare.
Like how many berries you have to eat
to get like a large load of sugar, you know, compared to like what
you can get in one skittle, you know, is immense, right? So like our relationship to sex or
to food, or even to like any kind of sort of pleasure comes from this idea, this biological
understanding that generally these things are quite rare,
and you should get them while they're here.
And so the virtue of temperance really,
not only does it exist, but it's most essential
in societies or environments of plenty.
And we live in an environment beyond plenty.
It's almost like preposterous abundance.
And so it's like where natural difficulty or obstacles
might have created discipline or temperance before
what I think you talk about and what I talk about is like,
no, now this has to be a deliberate, intentional thing
because you can have as much sex as you want
or eat as much as you want or whenever you want
in a way that would have just been like literally impossible
before Tinder made it as easy as swiping on your phone
or door dash made it as easy as having it delivered
directly to you.
or door-dash-mated disease, he is having it delivered directly to you.
Temperance is a really interesting word.
And you look at where a temper comes from,
it's what you do with steel and a fire.
It's a brief period of exposure to heat,
and then cold is how you temper steel,
which makes it harder.
And what we're talking about,
and a lot of this is what I call slope of the curve biology.
And it's a new theory, but it says the body responds more quickly and more adaptively
when the speed of the change is increased rather than the volume of the change.
And this is why high intensity interval training works better for creating change quickly than a larger amount of
slower running, for instance. So what's happening with temperance there is it's teaching the body
to be able to handle stresses for brief periods of time without freaking out. And one of those
stresses is hunger. And there are other things like being in a sauna for longer than you want.
And in fact, I talk about fasting as the real definition of fasting is to go without. And
you can fast from sex, you can fast from porn, you can fast from hate, which is the hardest
possible fast.
We're outrage. Yeah. The emotions that stir you up.
Yeah. And to say, I'm going to go four hours without thinking a bad thought about myself
or other people.
Try that one.
That is a seriously hard fast to do.
And what you realize is that the word need comes up in your head so much I need to eat.
Oh, it's lunchtime I'm starving.
It actually takes you 90 days to starve.
So there's some kind of a program in there that's telling us we need all sorts of stuff
we don't need and need means you'll die if you don't get it.
And it's that same system where you lean on a hot stove, you pull your hand away, but
you didn't decide to pull your hand away.
It just pulled itself away.
I think it's that weird fine line of arguing between that system that pulls your hand away
from something that would have caused real harm.
And that same system when it pulls you towards things that are not of service to you,
and temperates as the ability to sit down and say,
hmm, I'm just not going to feel stress or anxiety
when I get that sensation.
And suddenly that sensation goes away
because your body realizes it didn't need it
in the first place.
I'll give you Marcus Aurelius' definition of temperance
that he is applying to his adopted
stepfather Antoninus, which I think you will like. He doesn't quite say bulletproof, but he says
something close. He says, you could have said of him as they say of Socrates that he knew how to
enjoy and abstain from things that most people find it hard to abstain from and all too easy to enjoy.
Strength, perseverance, self-control in both areas, the mark of a soul and readiness,
indomitable. Wow. I feel like that's the wavelength that you're talking about.
It's exactly the wavelength. I want to say thanks on your show to you,
It's exactly the wavelength. And I want to say thanks on your show to you.
Because I was writing fast this way during,
people, my kids being sent home from school
and no play dates and all sorts of pandemic stuff.
So my son was 10 at the time.
And every morning he would come and we'd sit
in my infrared sauna and we would read one page
or one section of the daily stomach.
Oh, wow. And so every morning we'd read that, and several quotes from it, I crede
you in the book, several quotes from it in the book are from your translations.
Oh, amazing.
Of these. So thank you for that, because it really helped, especially being 10 years old,
and we just needed some father's son time, and it gave us something to focus on when we were doing
it. And I know it influenced some of what I was writing. So thank you.
Well, I'm going to send you, I did this kid's book about Marcus that I'll send you
for your son. What's your son's name? His name is Alan with one L.
One L? Yeah. All right, I'm going to send this to you. But I think, I think when you were talking
about fasting earlier, one of the things that you were saying
that it's sort of about suffering on the spiritual side,
what to me is so interesting about the work fasting
that you're talking about, the working fast,
is it's weirdly decreased suffering.
So a lot.
So I used to wake up hungry.
And you do wake up hungry a little bit
when you start fasting because it's different.
Anytime is different, there's tension or adjustment. But I found that like, you know, when I used to eat breakfast, if you told me that I was
pushing breakfast till 11, I'd have been hungry. Now it's like, my body just knows this is when food
happens and I just don't seem to need it in the morning. So it's had this weird effect of just shrinking the amount
of time and energy and pining that I feel for food
in general by putting it in this box.
Not in like a, I mean, I'm sure people with anorexia
or bulimia are also putting their eating habits
in a box.
So it's how you do it that matters.
But by sort of shrinking it from any time you want
to like, here's
the window, it's been really helpful.
That works really well.
The difference is that you're doing it because it's liberating.
If you're doing it because you can't or out of a sense of shame or being good, that's
when you're going into the sense of an eating disorder.
The thing to know about intermittent fasting is you don't have to do it the same way every
day.
In fact, I would tell you that if you lifted really heavy yesterday and you went for a
run and you had an emotionally stressful day, you know, fight with family or whatever,
and you woke up feeling a little bit hungover and your sleep score was low.
If you tracked your sleep, I would say, have some protein and some fat at breakfast and have three meals that day.
Sure.
And you'll actually recover much better.
And so maybe tomorrow you do a 12 hour fast and then most days you do a 17 hour fast.
And that's kind of what I do.
The vast majority of the time, I'm around 16 to 18 hours just like you.
But some days I'm like, man, I just feel like garbage this morning,
something I ate wasn't quite right.
I'm gonna have breakfast or like today,
I'm really so I ran electricity over my whole body.
Like all of my muscles are sore and growing.
And so I'm probably only gonna do a 13 hour fast today.
And I'm gonna have an extra bunch of protein
because my body needs it.
So there's that tradeoff between putting it in a box and then saying, you know, I put
in a box, but today the box didn't fit right.
And just being cool with it where either way, you still got a bunch of benefits.
And then not doing that slippery slope over time or you said, well, I actually went
back to only having breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks because I slowly let the kettle get warm
and something I'm boiling water.
So having a box where you're like,
that's where I usually live, that works.
No, I think there certainly the variability is important.
I just find it's easier just to sort of,
I'm much more of like a consistent person.
I write the same way, I like it consistent,
but I think what was most compelling
to me and I think it's worth pointing out to people listening is like you should never
let something like intermittent fasting or this is my routine or whatever get in the way
of spending time with family. I was reading this book about Queen Elizabeth the second
and you know she's obviously a big stickler for protocol. This is what the Queen does.
And there's this famous story where Prince Charles,
she's been gone for like seven months traveling the world,
and he's meeting her on the royal yacht,
and he rushes up, and the way the Queen is supposed to land
is she's supposed to say, hide these dignitaries,
and then embrace her family.
And her son, who's like five rushes up not knowing this and she sort of pushes him away and says,
not you dear. And then first shakes all these people's hand before embracing their child.
To me, the moral of that story and apparently Prince Charles, one of the titles of a chapter in
Prince Charles memoir is not you dear because it's just emotionally scarring moment.
But the point is, like, if it's a Saturday morning
and I normally don't eat till 10.30,
but everyone in the house is sitting down
to have breakfast at nine.
Like, you're being a real idiot
if you deprive yourself of that opportunity for a connection
and an experience because you're like,
oh, now you've taken rigidity
and you've made it fragility and you're missing the point.
Well said.
And if you're doing a multi-day fast
or you have somebody really big,
you can sit down and have a cup of coffee
and be social and be connected.
But I tell you, even then, if you know your young children
made you pancakes for the first time,
you eat the damn pancakes.
Right.
That's what you do.
Yes, I love that.
Right.
And if you can't do it, it's a sign that you might be veering in, okay, look, if you're
a professional athlete and you're training for way in at your fight, of course, again,
exceptions.
They're exceptions. But if you can't make exceptions for important things,
you've probably veered into the unhealthy coping mechanism territory as opposed to
using this strategy of fasting to be better. There you go. There's another part of fasting
in that we just assume you're supposed to be hungry
and that you're supposed to suffer.
And what I found over the last 10 years
of working with people doing intermittent fasting
is it's a core part of the bulletproof diet,
which I first put online in 2011.
So there's just a lot of experience with this.
It was one of the earlier intermittent fasting books of this generation. I'm sure there's some
I interviewed some of his intermittent fasting for 50 years on my show recently. So
it's not like we're the first people ever to think of this in this generation.
But what I found was that the biggest thing that drives hunger during a
fast is what you ate for your last meal, and so many people eat food that's not compatible with their biology.
And if you wake up really hungry in the morning, I promise you that it was your dinner that
did that, or maybe you have some sort of infection or some other thing going on, but it's usually
dinner.
So fasting teaches you to notice, oh well, my biology is off a little bit.
Let me see what I might have done that was the trigger.
And I point out a bunch of the common triggers in the book, and then I tell you what to do.
And so, a, someone who's primed to say, I have to suffer to be good, to be a proper faster,
I'm just going to muscle through it.
Well, you're already muscling through your day.
So there's, I call them three fasting hacks, but things you can do during a fast to increase
energy or turn off hunger that don't break the biochemistry of a fast.
And at this point, about 70,000 people have done my fasting challenge.
I spend a couple of weeks training them for free on how to do this.
So if you wake up, and today I'm not going to be able to go through the day.
What do you do that still let you go through the day and perform at the level that life requires?
And that's new in the world of fasting, saying, how do you mimic a fast?
There's a guy who has a fasting mimicking diet with some bars, one of the guys who studied it most ultra long go. And then there's the approach that I take that says,
well, a protein is going to break afast.
And almost all carbohydrates will break afast.
But smaller amounts of fat don't break afast.
So if you were to have some fat all by itself,
your body still thinks you're fasting.
Like what's the example of that?
Well, the most famous one is what I'm well known for,
that bulletproof coffee thing.
Yeah.
But I will tell you, if you were to blend grass-fed butter,
even if you didn't use MCT oil into tea
or even hot water, what you're going to find is
that really suppresses hunger.
Even coffee, just by itself, black coffee
or a strong green tea, caffeine doubles ketone production all by itself as a coffee or a strong green tea.
Caffeine doubles ketone production all by itself as study at a UC San Diego.
So if you were to wake up and say to me, I'm not having breakfast, I'm going to have coffee without artificial sweeteners without sugar and without milk, then wow, that alone will help to suppress
hunger because when ketone levels go up, they go up when you fast and then coffee
and sell it's that as ketones go up hunger goes down be a two different mechanisms. So suddenly you
didn't suffer as much during your fast and you got to have a cup of coffee. And then you say, okay,
today is going to be a really high energy day. Maybe I add a little bit of fat to that, especially if
I'm a new faster because it makes metabolic flexibility easy. The body says, I've got nothing to do here, but burn some fat.
Let me learn how to do that.
And then for other people with gut issues, you can take prebiotic fiber, which is a
carb that you can't digest, but makes good gut bacteria form.
You can have that during a fast, since your body can't digest it.
It says, I guess I didn't get anything, but your gut bacteria transform that into proketogenic
molecules.
So these are three things that are shown in many studies
to suppress hunger and give you energy without breaking it fast.
And we have permission to use those because of our job
is to show up and not be hangry today
and to be able to handle both whatever work brings us
and kids bouncing around the house.
And I know you have a farm, we just got our first cow this year, we've had about 25 sheep, 25 pigs.
And okay, you got to manage those guys and if you know an eagle's eating the chickens,
you got to deal with that. So life rings, whatever. And if you're saying, well, I was trying to
intermittent fast today and I'm new to fasting and I'm already weak and shaky. Maybe you should use a
hack to get yourself so that you got the results shaky. Maybe you should use a hack to get yourself
so that you got the results you wanted,
and you still didn't let anything get eaten on your farm.
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Sure, sure.
It seems like at the core of obviously fasting,
but then your bulletproof stuff,
maybe it sounds
like we're on the same wavelength also that it's like, it's all about how you start the
day.
That sort of well begun is half done.
You know, that if you start the day off strong, if you get the morning right, a lot of
stuff can flow out of that.
But if you fuck up the morning, you're, you're unlikely to get control
later in the day. You know, I used to really oppose what you just said.
I am biologically wired to be a night owl. Most of my books are written between
O 1030 or 11 p.m PM and 3 or 5 AM.
That is when the magic zone for me happens.
And I've learned how to write under all red lights
so I don't break my circadian biology.
But I was wired to be one of the people's stayed up at night.
I was the night guard.
And about 15% of people are wired that way.
And so I was sort of rejecting this early bird thing.
But what I didn't understand was that I could use food
and light exposure.
And there's actually a chapter in the book about that
to move my circadian window.
Because the body listens to light first
and food timing second.
So there's a way to become more of morning person.
So I wake up at about 6.30, 6.40 every morning now,
naturally, which is something I've never been able to do
my whole life.
And so part of it was the timing, but then what do you do in the morning? And I'd say, well,
I got to drop the kids off at school, and I'm at least not going to turn my phone on until that's
handled. So it was all family time, but it wasn't you getting myself in order. I've been following
the work of Dr. Barry Morgan, who's the only guy with permission to actually
teach and write loud suites oral lineage for 5,000 years.
He's a former UCLA surgeon who's about 70 who teaches this stuff.
And he's been telling me for years, Dave, you need to just wake up and write your goals
first thing in the morning.
Do these little exercise things, listen to meditation.
And I've been doing it for the past oh, year and a half.
And the difference of sitting down and writing out
your goals first thing in the morning
before anything else happens and doing a little bit
of movement to get fully in your body,
I think I was missing out.
That will be a permanent part of my practice going forward.
In your case, you're definitely waking up
and you're going for your walk and your run,
which is part of it.
But what else do you do in the morning?
I do the journaling.
I do, you know, I'm...
It's mostly the journaling.
And then I go straight into...
If I drive to my office, that's about 20 minutes of music or whatever, and
then I go straight into whatever the main creative task of the day is.
I think for a creator, that is the best way to do it because you're putting all your energy
there.
I have a very carefully managed and optimized calendar, so I basically say don't talk
to me before 10.
Yes.
So I get my upgrades out of the way, all oftentimes write some of my content. But half my
life is not creator, it's executive, you know, managing a team at upgrade labs. We're
about to start energizing.
We have like Paul Graham talks about makerverse manager. The reality is a lot of us these days
are both.
Yeah.
And, but I do think if you're trying to do both simultaneously or you're flipping between
the two, you're going to do both of them poorly.
So I try to-
You can't flip.
Yeah, I try to do maker stuff in the morning when you're fresh and focused and before
the day has intruded and then the manager stuff, you know,
as the second half, like we're recording this
in the afternoon.
I guess it's technically maker stuff,
but it's more like it's not deep work in the way
that writing or coming up with a plan
or you know, trying to make a hard decision
is knowledge work.
Thinking of what you're going to say next as a good interviewer is way less work than
synthesizing a new idea and choosing the perfect language for it.
I'm 100% with you.
In fact, writing, it's losing out now because of social media.
I used to write a 3,000 word blog post
with 15 science recommendations.
But honestly, if you just dumb it down and write
a 400 word Instagram post with a picture,
that's what people are following.
And it's a lot less work to do that.
But something has lost there because it took,
you know, five or six hours to write that blog post for me.
But people don't wanna read that stuff anymore. I'm glad books are still popular. Well, no, and I would also argue that, like,
if you want to go back to this idea of what's sort of lindy or lasted longer, it's like the skill
to sit down and write something long for. And this is it, this is a, you know, renewing this for
5,000 years. Like a short little thing with a picture. This is like a relatively new skill. And so I think people are often abandoning
the sort of timeless and
we're abandoning one medium for the easier medium
and it's good for you in the short term.
Maybe it gets you more reach,
but in the long run, you're losing,
you're letting atrophy really important muscles.
And so, yeah, I think it can be really easy
to do what's getting the validation,
but you have to think about what's gonna last,
what's gonna stand the test of time,
what's gonna work.
And I would argue that this is something I was gonna ask you
about, as someone who's like, sort of always interested
in like new trends and a lot of what, a lot
of what you talk about, it runs counter to conventional wisdom, right?
Or conventional, sort of beliefs about health or diet.
Has it been interesting to you to watch certain people in your community over the last
year with this pandemic where we're now faced with
some real scientific stuff, kind of spin off the planet.
You know, like it's almost like the contrarianness that they developed questioning what, you
know, big pharma or sort of the food industry wants you to think has made it hard for them
to take like a real thing seriously.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah, it's been fascinating to me and I wrote a post recently that was
really popular and I said, guys, I'm coming out as being vicarious. Okay. That's vaccine industry curious. And I just have to confess, I interviewed
the CEO of a company making mRNA vaccines before the pandemic because they're working on vaccines
for Alzheimer's and cancer and diabetes. And I'm really interested in that. I think this might be
a core part of anti-aging and longevity and biohacking in the future. So I'm not an anti-vaxxer. And I'm also not
what I was looking for the counter term to anti-vaxxer and it's vaccine promiscuous.
I'm just like, I'm not going to do any research. As long as a drug company says it's good,
I'm going to do it because the drug companies don't have a great track record of telling the truth
You know Pfizer paid a 10 billion dollar or 10 billion dollars worth of fines over the last 10 years for hiding information
So I'm like as a thinking person. I think most of us are somewhere in the middle where we're going to look at things and say what is the
For any medical condition whether it's I have a potential a potential cancer diagnosis, or there's a pandemic right now,
we're gonna look at our risk,
and we're gonna look at the potential treatment modalities.
And what's happened is,
we know that some companies lie,
and some governments lie.
And since we don't know when or how are which,
and it's amplified by social media and AI algorithms.
It's, who do I trust?
And what information can I trust?
And people in the health industry have been pummeled for saying things that were ultimately
true.
Like mercury and fillings is bad for you.
We know that now.
They finally admitted it.
But the people who first said that, they had 30 years of persecution from the industry.
So people are saying, I don't know who to trust.
And that's why we see people spinning out both into the, you know, everyone's going to
die if this doesn't happen, or everyone's going to die if this does happen.
So this divisiveness, what I find is there's about 10% of people who are going to be extremely keto carnivore
and extremely vegan plant-based and nothing's ever going to change them.
And everyone else is seeking the optimal path that reduces suffering, reduces death, and
increases quality of life and happiness.
But maybe we don't exactly know how to optimize that and how to take all costs into account.
And that's why there's so much questioning out there right now.
Yeah, I think ego plays a part in this too, where if you start, what happens is so you
begin to question something, some part of conventional wisdom or the status quo.
And you find that not all is what it seems, right? And maybe you even uncover something big and you come up with a new path, a new diet,
a new approach, and it has real impact.
So now you've sort of seen that in one area, the emperor has no clothes. It can be really tempting now to think you're a genius who you're instinct
about everything is always correct, right? It's always funny like when you look at people
who are conspiracy theorists, like sort of well known for certain conspiracies. What they
usually are, often, obviously there's complete whack jobs like Alex
Jones, but there's like, they'll be like, oh, this person's a Harvard professor. You're
like, wow, I should take them seriously. And it turns out, oh, you're not a Harvard professor,
you know, who was a, you know, an expert on the USSR. And that's why you think, you know,
Russia was behind assassinating, you know, JFK or whatever.
You're actually an expert in like pharmacology and your expert, your expertise is being applied to another thing.
So you're kind of, you're kind of extrapolating your expertise. Do you know what I mean?
And I think what we've seen in the health and wellness spaces, people who are experts at one little thing or present themselves as experts at one little thing, have suddenly made
themselves into experts at a different thing.
And the ego of like, oh, I know everything.
That's where you really get into trouble, I feel like.
It is exactly where you get into trouble.
And that's what drives you to the extremes.
Instead, just say, I'm curious.
And the nature of science is to look for things that don't agree with what I think, and
then research the heck out of them.
But that requires setting the ego aside.
And making that way more complex is that if you want to research something that doesn't
agree with what just got funded at your university.
You're going to be poor when you research that.
And you might be proven right.
You might get a Nobel Prize at the end of your life.
You have to be alive to get a Nobel Prize.
You're probably going to suffer greatly and you're going to take a lot of hits.
And even for the little thing I did, hey guys saturated saturated fat, in medical studies, it's not bad for
you.
I'm going to ring that bell because it brought my brain back online and it matters.
But God, the hate that I got, just the condemnation, even the calorie people say, it's all about
calories and a meal of corn syrup is the same as a meal of steak if they have the same
calories.
Those people are provingly wrong, but man, the ego and the hate that comes out from that,
it's shocking and it's become way easier in the world of the internet.
So I think we have like scientific bullying happening as well.
When someone stands up and says, I have a question about something that everyone is doing
right now.
They should be treated with respect instead of with bullying, shame, and cancellation.
So I'm really concerned about cancel culture.
It's hard, right? Because you're right. There is bullying, sort of consensus bullying that it happens.
And then there's also trolling, which is the exact opposite, right?
So like, one of my favorite subreddits, there's a subreddit called Ask Historians on Reddit.
And it's basically, you can ask historians any question you want.
You have to be like a qualified historian to answer.
So, there's always a really fascinating question about that.
That's cool.
I sort of nerd out about it all the time.
I love it there.
But they have this policy because they notice what happens is like Holocaust deniers, for
instance, will go in there.
And they'll, because you use the phrase,
so I'm just pointing it out to people.
The idea of, I'm just asking questions,
you have to be literate and smart
because that's also a tactic that trolls use
to undermine things, right?
So what they call it jacking off, like J-A-Q,
just asking questions.
So a troll who believes that,
or wants to so let's say doubt about
the existence of the Holocaust will ask some question about like, you know, how do they
know exactly how many Jews died in the Holocaust? Or, you know, what were the doors on the gas
chambers like? Like they'll ask questions that they don't actually care about. That they
know it's impossible to get sort of satisfying or
clear-cut answers for, or that perhaps there is no answer for, that will then so doubt
about whatever the thing that they're just trying to muddy the water.
So it's this tension, right?
Because yes, the consensus doesn't like people questioning it, and so people asking good
faith questions can get shut down.
Like, let's look at the lab leak hypothesis
with the origins of the pandemic.
Like, we didn't know where it came from.
People thought it was one thing.
Some people started asking some questions about it,
and that got like overreacted to,
and they sort of shut that down.
And the result was we didn't explore something
that we should have been exploring.
At the same time, there were people,
and are people who are propagating
the Wuhan Lab leak theory in bad faith.
They don't actually care where it came from.
And they don't know where it came from.
They just want to distract from the reality
of the horrible pandemic that is currently raging
through the population. So it's this tricky thing where you have to have the ability to question
and then also the ability to see when other people are trying to use curiosity as a means of
sowing down or distrust or confusion. You know what I mean?
Yeah. In fact, Robert Chaldeini, who wrote the book Influence,
which is probably in the top 10 books, I think people could benefit from reading.
He talks a lot about how you would go in and do that and how to spot when people are doing it.
And I feel like every high school student should read that book because they'd be more effective in their careers, but they'd also be harder to program and influence
without knowing they're being influenced. Yeah, a lot of Eastern European countries, like Finland
and stuff, they have, because they have been adjacent to Russia for so long have really active kind of disinformation and media literacy programs
for young people because it's such an essential part of their quote, it's such a, it's an intrinsic
vulnerability of their culture because this is sort of the soft power that Russia has always
tried to exert, right?
And I think America grew very soft, very fat, very stupid.
And that's why we have this sort of conspiracy theories
and nonsense and sort of anti-science on both sides.
That's the irony of the sort of anti-vax stuff is like,
it's not, it's largely partisan,
but there's also people on both sides, you know?
But media literacy, the ability to see through bullshit
and to see when you're being spun or manipulated
is really important.
And the irony is that the people who have the most foolish beliefs
are always the ones that say,
you gotta do your research.
It gets really slippery,
because I've seen so much what I'll call vaccine bullying.
Someone who's really close to me professionally had been to the emergency room four times
since being vaccinated because she has way overactive mass cells and knew it before getting
vaccinated. And I would have put her in the, we haven't done any studies on people
with your medical condition yet.
So it's okay for you to wait a while
before getting the vaccine while we gather data
about it for biological coroner cases.
All right, so this is not an anti-vax statement once a while.
This is a vaccine curious statement saying, okay,
if you're higher than average risk
because of whatever, no one has a right to say you're putting everyone at risk because you didn't
put yourself at risk.
And so it's that how do we pull the emotion and the ego out of that?
So when someone is in vaccinated, you say, you've got your medical freedom and you probably
have a good reason and maybe you have a polite
rational conversation about it, and realize that they're going to do what they're going
to do.
So I'm a little concerned about the use of those influence techniques to force people to
do things that might be dangerous for them, or maybe they're just had chemotherapy.
You don't know that, right?
And so there's all these conditions where I would say
it's probably okay to wait six months
and get a little bit more data.
And then there's the question of,
do we, you know, see what I'm doing here,
I'm spreading disinfluence here,
but do we trust what the people selling the vaccines
are telling us given their track record of lying?
And the answer is, if we have good accountability
from the government, I think we can,
but it behooves us, especially if you have a medical condition
to look at all the data.
And then to say, all right, there's a social good,
and then there's a personal protection value
that comes from this, like having a lower chance of dying from getting an infection,
like that's a value to you, which would be a reason to get a vaccine. And then you could also say,
well, I have this weird medical thing. Let's see if it's safe for me to take it first, because you
don't want to increase your chance of dying. And just there's an individuality here that I think
isn't being respected that I'm concerned about. I think people struggle with the idea of public health, right?
The idea, as an individualistic society, we struggle with the idea of both what our obligations
to each other are and what our liberties are.
So when you talk about someone who maybe is perhaps slightly higher risk to side effects
from a vaccine, which across the board have been
extremely low. I think it's worth saying that. But the point of vaccines is to create a large
enough herd immunity that those people who can't or shouldn't don't have to worry about exposure
generally from the thing you're being vaccinated by, right? Like there's never been a vaccine that you
you needed or were supposed to get a hundred percent distribution of. That's not the point. The
point is you get a large enough amount of it that then people who can't or shouldn't or you know
never heard of it because they live in a cabin in the woods somewhere. They're protected by the collective decisions of all the other people.
And it was interesting.
I've spent a bunch of time volunteering in a vaccine clinic here in the small town right,
which is only 40% vaccinated.
So way below any sort of herd immunity, even if you add it on the top ofate on top of it. And it struck me there's trying to be careful
of what I can say when I can't say.
But let's just say there was a member of a certain profession
that interacts with citizens every single day,
young, healthy, no medical conditions,
and interacts with people of the public
in a way that the public isn't allowed to not interact
with this person.
You see the profession that I'm implying, right?
A person with lights that they can flash behind you in your driving.
And it was interesting to watch this person get vaccinated like last week, knowing that
you know, this vaccines have been available to members of this profession in Texas since like December.
So it's like, this person's not anti-science
or they wouldn't be there.
They clearly have no real opposition to it.
They wouldn't be there.
But it's very clear that on their list of priorities,
never did it occur to them that, hey, like,
I'm interacting with these people, they have no
choice of interacting with them, I have no choice not to interact with them.
What is my obligation to other people?
So I think America is really struggling with the idea of public health in general.
And I think, let's get off-exing, this goes to some of the stuff that you talk about,
which is that public health is, you know, if you
come out with a product that people like, but is bad for their long term health, like,
let's say, I don't know, Cheetos or something, that also has public health consciousness.
Huge ones, right?
And we struggle as a society.
I think the idea of like, this is good for me, but I'm also very aware that it has negative consequences
for other people.
That shouldn't necessarily be illegal,
but it should be something that you choose not to do.
It should be.
And I look at the 6 trillion and counting
that we've spent on our pandemic response.
And I know we could have fixed school lunches
for the next 100 years for a tiny fraction of that to remove things that increased risk.
Right.
The fact that our response has been not overall increasing systems biology health.
And, you know, hey, everybody, let's get in shape and let's eat less crap.
And that there's been almost none of that, that's kind of shocking to me.
I was hoping that it would actually drive all of us
to make our decisions and to make the government
to help support that.
Yeah, we're expressing a lot of anger at individuals
who won't like say get a vaccine and wear a mask.
And I get that that's the thing they should not be doing.
But we should also be angry just as we were angry
at tobacco executives for deceiving generations of people into consuming a very harmful product.
You know, people didn't get morbidly obese in this country, totally out of their own lack of individual temperance. There were also, you know, massively deceitful and manipulative and, you know,
exploitative practices that contributed to that public health problem. And by the way,
I mean, if the number one cause of death in the United States is heart disease, it's a
massive public health crisis that is all that vaccine.
Of course, yeah, right, right. And actually,
it's way, you know, you had to invent a vaccine, you know, just not slowly creeping up the size
of the soda cup, you know, and deceiving people into drinking more of this, you know, sugar water
than they should. That's also, that's a, in a a way that's an easier problem to solve.
I guess it's what I'm saying.
It is much easier to solve.
If you really look at the public risk perspective, if it's okay to bully or shame someone who is
making their decision about a vaccine, in your saying you have to do it for my own safety,
it's equally okay to bully and shame someone for having the triple
venta extra whip, whatever thing, and a bag of cheetos, because when they make themselves
more likely to be infected by harming their metabolism, they're also making themselves
a breeding ground for new variants and other sorts of things that are infectious.
So like, let's not bully and shame people
about medical and lifestyle decisions,
but let's present them the information
and be rational and clear and calm about it.
And treating people with respect and with kindness,
if they're making really terrible lifestyle decisions,
and if they're making their decision
about things that they can do to make their community safer,
I just think we've got to be patient and kind and this sort of big media language around people
and some of the real hateful things I've seen both on the anti-vaxxer and the really strongly
pro-vaxxing, like no, part of temperance is kindness and patience and teaching your biology.
You can be safe if you don't have lunch.
You can be safe and at least feel safe in the world, the vast majority of the time.
By doing that, you increase your resilience.
That quote that you had earlier from Marcus Aurelius, that sensation that you're not going
to be the one rattled.
You've got to learn to not get rattled if someone doesn't do what you think they should
do.
That's the hard part, right?
Yeah, well, temperance also interacts with the virtue of justice and justice interacts
with temperance and they're all related to each other.
Last thing I wanted to talk to you about, because you mentioned it earlier, you live out
in the country like I do.
Make the sales pitch for country life. I do it a fair amount
but I'd love to hear your. Oh, this is great. One of the things you can do to make the world a better
place long term is you can build topsoil. It is the most important thing that is pulling carbon out
of the air, cooling the earth. And our friends at Monsanto killed much of the top soil in the country by spring antibiotics called glyphosate on it. So when you decide that you want to do some country living,
you're probably going to have some chickens. You're probably going to end up having some animals.
And your quality of life will go through the roof. The biodiversity around you changes your
gut bacteria, your calmness changes. You experience nature in the cycles of the world
in a way that your body absolutely loves
and where your brain loves.
You're more creative, you sleep better.
It's cheaper.
I pay an annual property tax on my 32-acre farm
on Ben Corr Island equal to a month's rent in Palo Alto.
Yes.
It is not even there.
I could buy an airplane for the cost savings delta between a similar house in a big city
and where I live now.
And so, like, you really can do it.
And it's one of the reasons I moved here is I couldn't afford to have two kids in the
places where I lived.
And now, all of a sudden, yes, I have two kids.
There's an intact community.
This is something that, you know, talk about, you're in a small town. have two kids. There's an intact community. This is something that you don't talk about.
You're in a small town.
Everyone knows everyone.
You know who to call.
You know who's reliable.
People help each other because they can.
And the distrust isn't there.
People don't lock their doors around here.
That sort of stuff happens.
And I will tell you, waking up and seeing the chickens and watching the sheep but heads and you know seeing the pigs
It does something good for you in your in your spirit
So you're helping the planet you're being kind to animals your
Experiencing life the way it should be done and with modern technology
You know I started a hundred plus million dollar company living in the country remotely
You can do whatever you want to do remotely.
Yeah, I think there's a reason that the tax rate is lower.
Part of the reason is they want you to have the property
and not use it for something.
They want it to not be an apartment complex.
Texas, for instance, Texas is only 2% owned by the federal property and not use it for something. They want it to not be an apartment complex, right?
Like Texas, for instance, Texas is only 2% owned by the federal or state government as
compared to like California. It's like 50%. So California, large swaths of California will
never be developed, right? That's good and bad. It's partly why housing prices are so
high, but it's also why there's so much natural beauty.
Well in Texas, because Texas the way Texas enters the union, that's not the case, it's all privately
owned, they want to keep some of it as nature preserves and as farms. And so in a sense by owning land
and not developing it, letting trees grow, letting birds live in the trees,
letting water collect on the ground,
and yeah, letting topsoil be created
and turned over by chickens.
You wanna talk about doing something about climate change,
like you could drive a Prius
or you could actually contribute to the biodiversity.
Very, very well put.
In California's gun nuts, I moved my, I have a biohacking
commerce idea over here. I moved it from California to Florida this year. Texas
was my second choice. It's happening in September. And it was a big decision, but
part of what you just described there in California, it's, it was, it's an out of
control state. And everything's gotten really expensive. And some of it has to do
with land use and land ownership and over regulation and all
So I think you're in a great state there you go the great state of Texas in order to be able to have it as long as you have enough water
And you said the core thing letting water build up on the land
We don't think about this when we live in cities and I certainly didn't
but you realize how vital soil and grass and bugs
and all these things that are invisible,
how vital they are to food because you eat the food.
I grow all the food my family eats.
I guess we bring in some rice and coffee and stuff,
but the vast majority of it is our animals
and our vegetables.
And you can tell, we screwed up,
there's no cauliflower this year.
Let's get it right.
So it's harder than you think.
And what you get at the grocery store isn't the same as what happens when you grow
it yourself.
There's something good happening.
And there's something just very, it's like, okay, so you cook breakfast and then you've
got the scraps and you throw them out to the chickens, then they eat the scraps and
then, you know, two days later, you're cooking the eggs that came from the scraps and then two days later you're cooking the eggs that came from the scraps that they just ate.
There's something, or you have a cow die and you sort of leave it out and then it's food for
the carrion birds, but then also the amount of decompt that goes in. Now that you talk about
topsoil, now the soil that comes out where this cow just disintegr you know, sort of disintegrated into it, it's
a more natural way to live. And even if your life is still relatively unnatural, you travel
a lot, you do stuff. It's good to be around it and witness it on a regular basis. I think
the other thing you learn is just the momentum worry of like all the death, you know, like as wonderful as it is and as much as you take care of the
animals, you just realize they're on a whole different trajectory than the rest of us. And they
die like a lot, whether it's from raccoons or, you know, we had a cow just get stuck in the mud
and die from being stuck and it was very old. We got stuck in the mud. We couldn't, we didn't see it
and it just died from being stuck in the mud, right?
And you're just like, there's just a reminder of life
and it's fragility.
I know you're a life hacker than that sense,
but I have like that.
You're right.
And some of these people say,
oh, animal cruelty and nature, man,
I watch Eagles take down our chickens on occasion,
and I've watched it, but I watch the aftermath
of a raccoon kill four of our turkeys.
I know, yeah.
He just killed them and just like ate their heads
and just left them, I was like, you bastard,
at least just kill one and eat the whole thing.
And, you know, we do our best to protect the animals,
but my animals live a damn good life.
Compared to what Mother Nature was gonna give them.
No, no, totally.
And there's a great D.H. Lawrence line that I like to quote where it's like,
I never has never a wild bird will die frozen on a bow.
Never was a wild thing. Sorry for itself. You know, like they do die,
but there's not the complaining and the weeping and the moaning.
It's just like, this is life, live while you can, be present.
Oh, or there's nacks.
There's, you know, that's how the animals operate.
There's something sobering about that too, I think.
It's also peaceful.
My wife will go out and show us sit there and the sheep will get in a circle around her
and it's like a weird kind of sheep meditation.
But there's a peacefulness animals,
with horses and cows and sheep, all the remnants,
humans connect with them, their heart rates
actually will change to match ours
when they accept you into the herd.
Horses are most compatible with us electrically.
But there's weird studies that show you
welcome to a stall with a horse,
the spacing between its heartbeats
will change to match the spacing between your heartbeats.
And this is why tweakers can't ride horses
because the horse will buck you off
because it feels you.
And so you connect with animals
and all people say, what, that can't be real.
I tell you, the chicken breast you're buying,
you know, at the grocery store is a very far cry
from the way it works in the real world.
Yeah, you realize that, yeah, there's just,
there's something about the wavelength that they're on
that's very good and that we co-evolved
with a lot of these domesticated animals.
So like, that's why we love dogs,
I think in a way more than cats,
cats sort of domesticated themselves,
but dogs were a critical part of our sort of
civilizing as a species and same with horses.
So there's this timeless bond and you could be the most green city person in the world.
And you step into that, you realize like you're stepping into a stream or a consciousness that goes back lots of generations.
Very well said. And when it comes to cats, the only reason we like cats is Toxoplasmosis,
which is a weird cat parasite that invades the crazy cat lady that makes us like cats.
Otherwise, I'm pretty sure we would have got rid of them a long time ago.
I mean, I guess they kill rats and stuff that's just full of that.
No, no, you're right.
You're right, we have a weird co-evolution with cats
that's almost like less, there's less consent at fault.
But no, I think, but you also, it's like,
oh, these animals have a job, they do a job,
and we do a job, and we're all animals.
There is something that I love about stepping out on the farm.
The acceptance of death is really tied to stoicism as well, right?
The fact that we are going to die and you can say, Dave, you're an anti-aging guy, you're
saying you're going to live to at least 180.
Yep, I actually think that's real.
I also know the sun's going to burn out in the universal collapse in on itself.
I'm going to die.
That's just how it is.
That's okay. But with the animals, like our older sheep is five now, his name is Riley. And he's
like the elder of our flock of sheep and he just kind of hangs around. But last year he started
getting a little bit unhealthy and he was limp in a little bit and he's fat and you can't tell
the sheep not to eat grass. They've been doing a retin fasting like you can with pigs. So
And you can't tell the sheep not to eat grass. They're gonna do intermittent fasting like you can with pigs.
So he,
we're thinking, well, we asked the kids,
should we eat Riley?
And they're like, well, we wouldn't want him to go to waste.
So, you know, we've taken care of him.
He's taken care of us.
And if it's time for us to kill him and butcher him
and eat him before he dies,
which would be a waste of all that
love we put into him.
Yeah, then it would be time.
And it turns out he recovered a little bit.
So we're like, I will keep another year.
But I didn't jump on it.
Just give the kids some knives.
They ran out there.
It's not like that.
Like it's a peaceful process.
Yes.
When it's done right.
And so there's so much just fear of death that happens in all humans, but particularly
people in cities
who don't see the cycle of life the way you just described it so eloquently.
There's something really good for humans to understand that fragility, because I think
it removes some of our fear of death.
And ultimately, fear of going a day without food, fear of public speaking, fear of everything
is fear of death.
And the temperance right there is not being afraid of death
when you're not gonna actually die.
I love it, Dave, the new book's great.
Thanks for the advice on fasting.
And I'll give people a spot to check out the new book
and all your stuff.
And I can't wait to see you again one of these days.
Beautiful, Ryan.
Once we can all travel again, let's hang out.
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