The Daily Stoic - Don’t Forget To Go Home

Episode Date: August 26, 2019

The busier we get, the more we work, even the more that we learn and read, the further we tend to drift from our center. We get in a rhythm. We’re making money, being creative, we’re stimulated and busy. It seems like everything is going well. But if we’re not careful, those other things grow and grow until they take over completely; and what once felt like a rhythm now feels like a rut. It’s true for us now just as it was true for Marcus Aurelius. He had an awful lot to keep him busy, to distract him, to push him further and further, which in turn afforded him less and less time for that which really mattered to him: philosophy. We get a good sense of how he thought about his priorities with this analogy in Book 6 of Meditations:“If you had a stepmother and a real mother, you would pay your respects to your step mother, yes...but it’s your real mother you’d go home to. The court...and philosophy: Keep returning to it, to rest in its embrace. It’s all that makes the court—and you—endurable.”His point was that you should return to that which nourishes you. Sure, you have to earn a living and contribute to society (or deal with the court or the demands of office, in Marcus’s case). You may have hobbies and other obligations too. That’s perfectly fine. Just remember that those are your step-parents. Important, but they don’t change who made you. Philosophy is the essential, centering pursuit. It challenges us. It requires work and reflection and self-criticism. It requires that we hold ourselves to certain standards and that we hold ourselves to account when we fail to. It’s the real work, not the busy work. Philosophy is what birthed you, raised you, and continues to re-make you as life goes on. Don’t let some momentum in your other pursuits fool you into thinking you no longer need it. It’s home. Make sure you’re paying the proper respects. Make sure you’re going back often, so that today’s rhythm does not become tomorrow’s rut.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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We get into a rhythm. We're making money, we're being creative, we're being stimulated and we're busy. It seems like everything is going well, but if we're not careful, those other things can grow and grow until they take over completely. It's as true for us now, just as it was for Marcus Aurelius. He had an awful lot to keep him busy, to distract him, to push him further and further, to make less and less time for that,

which really mattered to him, philosophy. And we can get a good sense about what he thought about his priorities, within analogy he makes in book six of meditations. If you had a stepmother and a real mother, you would pay your respects to your stepmother, yes, but it's your real mother, you'd go home to. The court and philosophy keep returning to it.

To rest in its embrace, it's all that makes the court and you, indurable. His point was that you should return to what nourishes you. Sure, you have to earn a living and contribute to society or deal with the court or the demands of office in Marcus's case. You may have hobbies and other obligations too. That's perfectly fine. Just remember that those are your step parents. Important, but they don't change, who made you. Philosophy is the essential pursuit. It challenges us. It requires work and reflection and self-criticism. It requires we hold ourselves to certain standards and own up when we fail to. It's real work, not busy work. Philosophy is what birthed you, raised you, and makes you.

Not once, but remakes you as life goes on. Don't let some momentum in your other pursuits fool you into thinking you no longer need it. It's home. Make sure you're paying the proper respect. Make sure you're going back often. You can leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think. That was Marcus Aurelius' line, one of the most profound quotes in all of Stoicism. If you wanna carry this with you, always if you wanna wear it on your hand, keep it always at hand, as the Stoics would say. You can now get a Memento Mori Signet Ring.

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