The Daily Stoic - How The Stoics Got Rich | Stop Caring What People Think

Episode Date: May 26, 2023

When you think of Stoicism, you don’t usually think of words like “rich” or “wealthy.”But you should.Before he founded Stoicism, Zeno was a wealthy and successful merchant from a family of wealthy and successful merchants. Seneca was so wealthy that when he called in some of his loans to the Roman colony in Britain, it crashed their economy and sparked a rebellion. Marcus Aurelius was born with ordinary bloodlines but–in part because of his serious study of philosophy–he became the richest and most powerful man in the Roman Empire.The point is most—not all, but most—of the Stoics, ancient or modern, built some kind of wealth.---And in today's Daily Stoic Journal excerpt reading, Ryan discusses how the Stoics handled the opinions of others, and why getting comfortable with being judged by others will help you maintain a healthy mindset.💵 Visit dailystoic.com/wealth to sign up for The Wealthy Stoic wealth management course today.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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How the Stoics got rich. When you think of Stoicism, you don't usually think of words like rich or wealthy, but you should. Before he founded Stoicism, Zeno was a wealthy and successful merchant from a family of wealthy and successful merchants. Santa was so wealthy that when he called in some of his loans to the Roman colony in Britain, it crashed their economy and sparked rebellion. Marcus Aurelius was born with ordinary bloodlines, but in part because of his serious study of philosophy, it became the richest and most powerful man in Rome. Caesar came from a self-made family and then made his own fortune

as he climbed the legal and political ladder in Rome. And more recently, Stoicism is guided entrepreneur and investor Tim Ferriss, people like Ariana Huffington, the billionaire founder and CEO of Shopify, Toby Lutky, CEO of the San Antonio Spurs, RC Buford, Global Popstar, Camila Cabejo. That's just naming a few. But the point is most, but not all, but most of the Stoics in the

ancient or modern world built some kind of wealth. And in fact, if you study any successful man or woman, you will inevitably find that they followed. Sometimes unknowingly, many of the principles and habits and mindsets, the core of stoic philosophy. This is not a coincidence. Stoicism was designed to help people live with the ancients referred to as the good life. And its foundational concepts and daily practices were designed to teach people how to thrive

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I'm constantly amazed by how easily we love ourselves above all others, yet we put more stock in the opinions of others than in our own estimation of self. How much credence we give to the opinions of our peers and how little to our very own. Then the meditation says, how quickly we disregard our own feelings about something and adopt someone else's. We think a shirt looks good at the store, but view it with shame and scorn if our spouse or our coworker makes an off-handed remark. We can be immensely happy with our own lies until we find out that someone we don't like

has even more. Or worse or more precariously, we can feel good about our accomplishments or talents until some third-party validates them. Like most stoic exercises, this one attempts to teach us that, although we control our own opinions, we don't control what other people think about ourselves, at least of all. And for this reason, putting ourselves at the mercy of these opinions and trying to gain the approval of others are a dangerous endeavor. Don't spend too much time thinking about what other people think, think about what you think, think instead about the results, about the impact, and about

whether it is the right thing to do. I think about Kato when I think about this idea. So Kato famously is very wealthy, but he lives quite frugally. He doesn't wear a hat. When he walks outside in Rome, he doesn't wear a fancy toga. He's often barefoot. These are things that people would have thought to be low class or out of style. So Kato sort of marches to the beat of his own drummer. And I think those things he was pursuing were good unto themselves, but

what I think he was really doing is practicing not caring what other people thought about him, not caring about his reputation. And so famously, when public opinion changes in Rome, Caesar appeals to the masses, Rome is going in a dangerous direction. Cato doesn't go with the tide. He stands for what's right. He stands for what he believes. He doesn't care that he's often the odd man out. The people are questioning him, the people are judging him.

He's practiced for this very moment. And I don't think it's just big stuff like this. I mean, it's about cultivating that sense of what you need to do, what you think about, what's right for your family, what's right for yourself. And then being okay, being judged, or looked at, a scance, or whatever. I mean, being a parent has been very good for me in this, right? Like, you know, maybe you're, you don't like to hurt other people's feelings, you don't like to say, no, you don't want people to know how you think about things. But with a kid, you're like, oh,

no, this isn't about me. If I say yes, yes, yes, all the stuff I don't want to do, that comes out of the time that I spend with my family. Or if you are really conscious about what other people think about you, if they think you look silly or stupid, think about the laughs that deprives you of with your kids. Think about the memories that this deprives you of with your kids. Think about how buttoned up and restrained this makes you. I'm thinking about this actually right now. I'm about to fly. I've got to go to a talk, then I'm back, then to talk, and then back for a day and a half, then to talk. It's a lot of travel. It's lucrative.

So, look, it'd be fun for me to go do stuff on the trip, but I have to think about what my obligations are to my son. I have to be okay, people not understanding what I'm doing, maybe even as I'm saying this to you, right? I could have chosen another example and probably one that more people would have agreed with or approved of, but that's sort of the point.

I don't care what you think. I care what I think. But the point is, I've come this far, I'm not gonna give up on that because I feel like I have an obligation to my son and it doesn't cost me much, right? Besides what other people think, which't cost me much, right, besides what other people think, which I don't control, right.

And this is what Mark is saying. We respect ourselves. We know it's important to us. We know what we value. So why do we care what other people think, right? We don't control it. And we have to get comfortable being judged. We have to be comfortable sitting with our own self-estimation.

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