The Daily Stoic - How to Beat Procrastination With Stoicism

Episode Date: March 7, 2021

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the weekend edition of the Daily Stoic. Each weekday we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoic, something that can help you live up to those four Stoic virtues of courage, justice, wisdom, and temperance. And here on the weekend, we take a deeper dive into those same topics. We interview stoic philosophers. We reflect. We prepare. We think deeply about the challenging issues of our time. And we work through this philosophy in a way that's more possible here when we're not rushing to worker to get the kids to school. And we have the time to think, to go for a walk, to sit with our journals, and to prepare for what the future will bring. Is this thing all? Check one, two, one, two.

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you can listen early and app-free on Amazon Music. Download the Amazon Music app today. Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another weekend episode of the Daily Stoic podcast. Here I am on a weekend out a couple weeks ahead of where you're listening to this. I've battled procrastination enough in my life that I try to actually anticipate and get ahead of things. So one of the ways I record episodes of these podcasts is in advance in a batch. So I'm not like having to do it every single day.

There's less room for procrastination. But, you know, that word procrastination, it is a timeless concept, as we're gonna talk about in today's episode, the greats have been battling it all through history, the Stoics fought against procrastination just as you fight against that impulse to put off to delay, to get out

of things you don't want to do. And so today's episode is how we beat procrastination with stoicism, how you get to a place where I was as a teenager and at different points in my life where I put off things, I delayed, I tried to shirk, you know, responsibilities or duties and got to a place where I'm always got a surplus. I'm always ahead of where I need to be. I enjoy the work of it. I've beat the resistance to you, Stephen Pressfield's phrase. And so here today is how we beat procrastination with stoicism. People have been procrastinating for thousands of years. That's just part of the human condition.

20 centuries ago, Santa Claus is the one thing that all fools have in common, that they're always delaying to live. They're always putting it off. They're delaying getting started because they'll get to it later. It's not that important. Someone else will take care of it. This is no way to do it, right? Procrastination is a very real thing.

We've always struggled with it. We continue to struggle with it. But that's not who you want to be. The things you want to do, know you have a limited amount of time. You know there are things you've been put on this planet to do. How do we beat procrastination? I think you start with this joke idea

of tackling it in action by action. Mark Sures says, don't get crushed by the whole of life. Don't let your imagination get carried away. Stick with the situation at hand. Say, why is this so unbearable? Why can't I endure? This is what you'll be embarrassed. So I think oftentimes we get intimidated by stuff because we make it bigger than it

needs to be. We think, well, what about this, a miss, a miss, a miss, and then of course we don't do it. We put it off because we're scared, but we've made ourselves scared. And so I think if you can zoom in your focus, you'll have a lot more luck, right? So Nick Sabin talks about the process. This is the average down in footballs like seven seconds. Just do your job seven seconds. Don't let the timeline get carried away.

And I think if we zoom way in on the task, we're going to have a lot more success. This ties into another stoic idea. Just do a little thing. Zeno says that a well-being is realized by small steps, but it's no small thing. Markz really says, you know, assemble your life action by action.

If we can just do one little thing every day, and remember, Sena is saying that the path to wisdom is just acquiring one quote, one insight, making one bit of progress every day. If you can think that way, then the task is not so overwhelming. When I tackle a book, I don't go go, oh I have to write this huge book, it's going to be 80,000 words. I'm going to have to go through multiple rounds of edits. I break it down into many, many different small composite pieces. The obstacle is the way is 32, 33 chapters, but I

broke that down into three parts and then 10 chapters in each part, and then, you know, the beginning of the chapter, and the end of each chapter, and I just try to tackle each one each day. It's a great rule in writing just two crappy pages a day. You do two crappy pages a day, if I show up and write every day, publish pages come out of the back side.

That's like a reality of the business. And realizing that, hey, crappy pages come out of the back side. That's like a reality of the business. And realizing that, hey, crappy pages come out of the back side if I show up, tackle a little bit each day. That's a really important thing. But I think this is another part. People are intimidated by their sense of perfectionism. Churchill is totally right when he says perfection can also be spelled paralysis. It's when we obsess over getting exactly right that we don't get down to do the dirty work of it, right? So I don't focus on the results as they say in the Baja Vagida, you're entitled to the work, not the fruits of the work. So my job is to

just get to work every single day. I'm very routine focused. I think you have to be routine. I think a lot of the reason people procrastinate is because they're overwhelmed, right? They have a chaotic life. They have a million things that they're doing. And because they have a million things that they're doing, they don't focus. So Mark's realises every day,

every minute we have to ask ourselves, is this essential? We eliminate the essential things, from our life, from our routines, from our to-do list. Again, I have a short, our to-do list. Again, I have a short, tight to-do list every day. I'm writing Chapter 6 Part 2 of the next book, right? That's a big part of it for me. I'm not thinking, I've got all these million things to do. No, I have my little piece in front of me today, and I'm going to tackle that thing. And by knowing what I have to do today,

and what I don't have to do, as Marcus says, we get the double benefit of doing less better. Got a quick message from one of our sponsors, and then we'll get right back to the show. Stay tuned. Hey there listeners. While we take a little break here, I want to tell you about another podcast

that I think you'll like. It's called How I Built This, where host Guy Razz talks to founders behind some of the world's biggest and most innovative companies, to learn how they built them from the ground up. Guy has sat down with hundreds of founders behind well-known companies like Headspace, Manduke Yoga Mats, Soul Cycle, and Codopaxi, as well as entrepreneurs working to solve some of the biggest problems of our time, like developing technology that pulls energy from the ground to heat in cool homes, or even

figuring out how to make drinking water from air and sunlight. Together they discuss their entire journey from day one, and all the skills they had to learn along the way, like confronting big challenges, and how to lead through uncertainty. So if you want to get inspired and learn how to think like an entrepreneur, check out how I built this, wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen early and add free on the Amazon or Wondery. I'm a big believer too of tackling the big, hard parts first, right? So I wake up, I tackle the hard thing for the day first. I think it's

also when you're pushing things off till later, I'll do that in a couple weeks, I'll do it when things slow down, I'll do it in the afternoon when I feel more like it. That's a recipe for never actually getting around to do it. Epic Teeth talks about how every situation has two handles. Grab the heavy handle, get the hard thing out of the way, don't even create room for procrastination to creep in. So this is a really key part of it, I think, is creating a schedule, a routine, a set of habits, or systems that don't allow that procrastination to leap in. Seneca says, life without design is erratic. As soon as a system is in place, principles become necessary,

and look, if you're all over the place, you're not going to default to doing your best work. The small wins really important, as I was saying, a couple crappy pages a day, I know that if I do that day in and day out, I will get a manuscript which I can then refine. If I am obsessed with the results, with what other people think,

I'm not going to be in the best headspace, by obsessing about what other people think by the results, with what other people think, I'm not going to be in the best head space, by obsessing about what other people think by the results, that also contributes to being intimidated or overwhelmed because I'm nervous, right? I'm thinking, what are they going to say? What if I don't get it right? What if I don't do it right? And that's not a place you want to come from.

So again, by zooming in and saying, what's in front of me? What do I control? What can I do well? What can I do to the best of my ability, even if that's just a couple crappy pages a day, I've narrowed in what I'm supposed to be intimidated by. I think Stephen Presley's right. He says, you experience the most resistance on the most important things.

I don't procrastinate brushing my teeth. I do procrastinate starting the know, starting the next book. Because it's gonna push me. It's gonna be scary. It's gonna challenge me. So in a sense procrastination, the more resistance you feel, it's probably a sign you're onto something. It may be a sign that this is the most important thing that you could ever do in your life. And so, as we're delaying Asenica says, as we're putting stuff off, we should almost go towards that. That hesitation, we're feeling that's confirmation that this is a good thing for us to do.

There's a great video that Arnold Schwarzenegger did, who someone was asking how is he still in shape, he says, just that you do one thing every day, that's what counts. So I know if I'm just putting points on the board, putting my ass in the seat, doing some writing, that's gonna cumulatively add up to where I wanna get, that's to cumulatively add up to where I want to get. That's going to cumulatively add up to the pages which can be

edited and eventually published. I think we can often be so paralyzed by what other people think by our own standards that we don't do the work and because we're not doing the work and we don't feel good about ourselves and we lose confidence. It's a momentum thing. I try to keep myself as a writer always at my fighting weight. What I mean by that is I always want to be writing a book. Starting a book is really hard, especially if you've not been writing a book. So to always be in the middle of a book that prevents procrastination, laziness, complacency from creeping in. My last book lives in the stokes. When it came out, I was just in the middle of winding down the next book. And then I'm in the middle of the next one now. So I'm always writing,

and my routine is a big part of, you know, it's sort of a defense mechanism from that complacency or procrastination creeping in. In Zen in the art of archery, you hear you Jen Herrigel talk, very similar actually to something that we get from Cicero, the image of the archer, when he talks about you aim it, you let it go, but then it leaves your hands. And so the understanding that at a certain point, this project leaves your control,

and that you can't care about that as much, I think also reduces the stakes a little bit and helps you see this calmly and clearly and be a little less intimidating. Everywhere is nowhere is a great thing. So if your life is chaos, disordered, or trying to do a million things at the same time, that's a way of procrastinating. Busyness, being overwhelmed, not having the bandwidth to do a thing as just as bad as sitting

on the couch and saying, oh, I'll get to it later. So you have to really ask yourself, what matters, what am I really trying to do, what are my main priorities, and then focus ruthlessly on those things? Procrastination is real. We all suffer from it. We all deal with it. Mark's really a centica, me, you. Procrastination, as I said, is part of the human condition,

but we beat it with systems, with routine, by focusing on what's essential, by making a little bit of gain every day, putting one foot in front of the other. There really is no other way. But the final part of memento more you could die, who knows how much time you have left. Why would you waste it? Why would you put off till tomorrow when tomorrow is uncertain to me is the ultimate way of battling procrastination and concentrating like a Roman as Marcus really has said, doing this as if it is the last thing you were doing in your life.

Let's do it like that and I think we'll be amazed at what we're able to accomplish. Thanks so much for listening. If you could leave a review for the podcast, we'd really appreciate it. The reviews make a difference and of course every nice review from a nice person helps balance out the crazy people who get triggered and angry anytime we say something they disagree with. So if you could rate this podcast and leave a review on iTunes, that would mean so much to us and would really help the show.

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