The Daily Stoic - It’s Easy To Forget This… But You Can’t. | Watch Over Your Perceptions

Episode Date: February 15, 2021

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon Music. Download the app today. Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wondery's podcast business wars. And in our new season, Walmart must fight off target. The new discounter that's both savvy and fashion forward. Listen to business wars on Amazon Music or wherever you get your podcasts. on music or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to the Daily Stoke Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes, illustrated with stories from history, current events, and literature to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of Stoke in tension for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on,

something to leave you with, to journal about whatever it is you happen to be doing. So let's get into it. It's easy to forget this, but you can't. You have so much to do, so much going on. There are only so many roles of toilet paper left at the store, only so many jobs available, only so many kids get accepted to the Ivy League, only so many spots on the best other list. So you fight, you claw, you might even kill to get what you want. What

choice do you have? This is a lie we have been believing since time immemorial. Alannis Morissette sings on her new single. It is why we're in conflict with each other. It's that we believe that life is zero sum. One became two she sings and then everyone was out for themselves. Everyone was pitted against each other. Conflict ruled the realm. All of our devotions and temperaments are pulled from different wells. They seem to easily forget we are made of the same cells. We have been struggling with this since the beginning, since the Stoics and beyond. Cricypus, a competitive athlete, was writing more than 2,000 years ago about

what scholars now call the no-shoving rule. Yes, we're competing with each other, he said, but we're all on the same team, to cheat or trip or push an opponent to do this is to lose even if you win. Marcus Aurelius, the emperor of Rome continually stressed this to himself. I am a citizen of the world," he said. We are made from the same material and revert back to the same material, we all have an important rule to play. This is what sympathy is about. That's what we can't forget, even as we try to get ahead, even as we try to survive in this crazy messed up world, as different as we all are, we are made of the same cells, as different as our interests and needs are, in the end we

are all aligned. So be good to each other, be humble and kind, be generous. If you fight for anything, fight for justice and fairness, that's what we were put here to do. Watch over your perceptions. Every moment brings a flood of impressions of the world around us, and our minds are filled with the perceptions that arise with them. The stoics teach us that we must keep a constant watch over this flood, as if we are standing guard to protect something of vital importance. What is it that we are protecting? Our peace of mind, clarity and freedom, all of which are anchored in our perceptions. Epic Titus reminds us that we need to pay attention to what matters and learn how to

ignore so many of the relentless provocations that come our way. That's from the Daily Stoke Journal, obviously. And here we have Epic Titus telling us, keep constant guard over your perceptions for it is no small thing you are protecting, but your respect, trustworthiness, and steadiness, peace of mind, freedom from pain and fear, in a word your freedom. For what would you sell these things? Epicetus discourses. An important place to begin philosophy is this, a clear perception of one's own ruling

principle. That's Epicetus discourses as well. I don't agree with those who plunge headlong into the middle of the flood and who accepting a turbulent life, struggle daily in great spirit with difficult circumstances. The wise person will endure that, but won't choose it, choosing to be at peace rather than at war. Seneca moral letters, 28.

It's tricky, right? I mean, the Stoics ask us to be active, they ask us to be involved, they ask us to be engaged, and then somehow they expect us to be at peace, to not be bothered by what's happening in the world. That's the tricky thing, right? Like you can go off in your cave, right? You can go on your 10-day meditation retreat and

get some semblance of peace or stillness. A tricky thing, and this is what I was trying to write in that book as well, the tricky thing is to find peace now within yourself, while engaged, while fully aware of what's happening in the world. What you don't know about, what you tune out, what you pretend doesn't exist, you know, it's easy not to be bothered by. But the key to stoicism is finding the ability, the strength to have that peace and stillness, despite everything that's happening. I hope in stillness is the key with the story of Seneca trying to write a letter to Lucilius,

and he's in this noisy apartment in Rome. And he's trying to, you know, he's saying, look, you know, I didn't choose this. I had to do it. That's the cost of what his philosophy is demanding to him. The Epicurians said, hey, go flee to the gardens. Seneca has to be engaged. Yes, the live in the city has to be involved. But can he find peace within that? And he says that you can't. You can find peace. You can become as Marcus Aurelius talked about.

The rock that the waves are crashing over, but eventually become still around. And we do this by keeping guard over our perceptions as Epictetus is saying. It's knowing what to care about and what not to care about. I've had Mark Manson on the podcast before. The subtle art of not giving a fuck is not caring about anything. It's about finding the right things to care about and things not to care about. So that sort of discernment is really essential to managing our emotions and our perceptions, which is the theme in the journal this month. As we say, every moment brings a flood of impressions, a flood of news, a flood of interruptions, a flood of things that we have to, that we're called to have opinions about, to react to, that are vying for our attention and our our ability to stand guard against this to let

the good things in to keep the bad things out. That's that's the key. That's the struggle. That's the fight that we're all engaged in. So you know, even me, obviously I live out in the country a little bit. I live the life of a writer, which allows me, you know, some shelter from the country a little bit. I live the life of a writer, which allows me, you know, some shelter from the craziness of, you know, a person who has to commute into a, you know, a major city and work in an office with dozens of other people or hundreds of other people and TV's, blurring and phone calls and meetings. And yet even there, even even amidst my sort of privileged situation, I have to decide what to

let in and what not to let in. What role does the phone play in your life? What role does your colleagues or your partners play in your life? How disciplined are you about staying on task while you're in it? How long are you able to maintain your focus on what matters? Even if nothing's going on, is your mind the enemy of itself? Are you drawing yourself towards here? Are you drifting or you're daydreaming? How to stay focused? How to concentrate like a Roman, as Marcus said, that's the most important thing. And so having a clear perception about our own mind, our own limitations, our own temptations, this is really the key.

That's what we're working on here. That's what I want you to think about today and this week. Remember, keep constant guard over your perceptions for it's no small thing you are protecting. You're protecting your respect, your trustworthiness, your steadiness, your peace of mind. Freedom from pain and fear, in the word what you're protecting is your freedom. And remember as Marcus really said, the fruit of this life is good character and works for the common good. He talks about common good over and over and over again in meditations.

That's what this idea of sympathy is about zooming out, seeing how we are far more the same than we are different. That's why we make our sympathy a challenge coin in the Daily Stoke store. It's a great reminder to put on your desk, carrying your pocket. I know a lot of people that do that. You can check that out at store at dailystoke.com.

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