The Daily Stoic - The World Wants To Know | Pain Is Self-Inflicted Harm

Episode Date: September 27, 2021

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke podcast early and add free on Amazon music download the app today Welcome to the Daily Stoke podcast each day. We bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes Illustrated with stories from history current events and literature to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about,

whatever it is you happen to be doing. So let's get into it. Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wunderree's podcast business wars. And in our new season, Walmart must fight off target, the new discounter that's both savvy and fashion forward. Listen to business wars on Amazon music or wherever you get your podcasts. The world wants to know. Farlem Shalimov was a brilliant writer who was sentenced in 1937 to years of

hard labor in a Soviet gulag. What were his crimes? The same crimes that brought most people to those frozen hellholes, finding themselves on the wrong side of a totalitarian regime, random bad luck, daring to criticize the powers that be, for not being communist enough, for not confessing, though, that would have hardly saved him. And there, in one of the darkest places a human being could be, what did he find? He found deep insight into the human condition. I discovered he said that the world should be divided not into good and bad people, but into cowards and non-cowards. 95% of cowards are capable of the vialist things, lethal things, the mildest threat. When we ask about courage, we are thinking about it precisely wrong.

It's not our question to ask, for it is we who are being asked the question. In Cormac McCarthy's dark and beautiful novel all the pretty horses and a dark prison not unlike the one that Shalema found himself in, Emilio Perez puts the question to John Grady like this, the world wants to know if you have Cahone's, if you are brave. That's perfect. With the obstacles that life puts in front of you, with the decisions it requires of you, the world is always asking about your courage, friend and enemy alike every minute of every day because it needs to know, are you one of the cowards? Are you someone or are you someone we

can count on? Do you have what it takes? Sennaka would say that he actually pitted people who have never experienced misfortune. You have passed through life without an opponent, he said. No one can ever know what you are capable of, not even you. And the question to you now and forever is when things get difficult and the chips are down, who will you join? Will you be a coward? Or will you defy them and be brave?

Be courageous, have cajones? Or perhaps less gendered, will you have a spine? We stand up or roll over. So today, answer these questions, not with words, but with actions. Of course, that's what the new book is about. Courage is calling the first in a four book series I'm doing on the four virtues courage temperance justice wisdom.

It's out tomorrow. I would love for you to pre-order it. We have a bunch of bonuses that you can still qualify for. Just go to dailystilic.com slash pre-order. Pick up a copy of Courage is calling anywhere. Books are sold. If you go to dailystilic.com slash pre preorder, click the link in the show notes today. You get a bunch of awesome bonuses. You can even get signed copies for me. You can get book copies for me.

You can even get signed copies of the manuscript pages I used to do the book. I'd so appreciate your support. The first week's sales matter, a great deal. So if you go to DailyStoke.com slash preorder, we really appreciate it. pre-order. I really appreciate it. Hey, it's Ryan Holiday. Welcome to another episode of the daily stoic podcast tomorrow. My new book is out. Courage is calling is out. Courage is calling Fortune favors the brave. It's the book I've been working on now for something like two years. It's the first book in my four virtue series on the Cardinal Virtues Courage Temperance Justice and Wisdom. Really proud of this one.

We have a bunch of amazing pre-orders. You can check out at dailystowach.com slash pre-order. But we'll get into this today, because today's episode is a little bit about courage, or at least it's about fear, which is the first third of the book. Panic is self-inflicted harm. This is from today's entry in the Daily Stoke Journal,

where we riff on, we have a weekly meditation and then daily journaling. But let's think about it, right? Name one situation that is improved by panicking. Go ahead, like seriously, can you think of something where panicking makes it better? Sennoncom used often about the problem of panic both in his letters and his essays.

The problem with panic is that it creates danger and it limits our ability to function effectively. Prevents is from finding success and seeing objectively, and worse, it makes us weaker over time. Because we've never truly faced the danger that we're worried about. We're always running away and then we're weaker as a result. So spend some time today meditating on scary things that might make you panic. Think about them in advance. Think about what's so overwhelming about them, come to understand them, get familiar with them. One of the chapters I have encourages calling, is I talk about this dictum that Napoleon had for his generals. He said,

ask yourself three times a day, what would I do if the enemy appeared on my left or my right or at the center? Obviously, the idea here wasn't to create anxiety. It was precisely to prevent panic by thinking about what scares us in advance, by familiarizing ourselves with it, Napoleon was saying, we can respond to it, we can have a plan, a general who has a plan

who has an understanding, who has contingencies, who has backup plans and backup plans for the backup plans, and they understand that no plan survives contact with the enemy, that's the general who can endure things, that's the general who's less afraid. Fear makes us worse, familiarity makes us less afraid, and that's what I talk about in Courage is calling. Again, Courage is calling. You can check out the preorder at dailystoke.com slash preer.

But we have three quick quotes from Senaika today. For even peace itself will supply more reason for worry. Not even safe circumstances will bring you confidence once your mind has been shocked, once it gets in the habit of blind panic. You can't provide for its own safety. For it doesn't really avoid danger, it just runs away. Yet we are exposed to greater danger with our backs turned. There's another great quote I have in the book from Chris Hadfield, the Canadian astronaut.

He says, remember, it's always possible to make a problem worse. Panic does that. Worry does that. Fear does that. Makes us worse. As Seneca says, we're actually more in danger as we're running away than when we face our problems. Then he says, success comes to the lowly and to the poorly talented, but the special characteristic of

a great person to triumph over the disasters and panics of human life. And then he says the unprepared are panic stricken by the smallest things. Another quote I have from Seneca and courage is calling that I really love. He says the only inexcusable thing for an officer to say is I did not think that could happen. So you can't panic just because it's a surprise just because it came out of nowhere just because it's a black swan. In fact, your whole job is to be prepared for exactly this. Your whole job is how do you perform under pressure? How do you perform when the enemy is up close? How do you perform when other people are running away when other people are scared? This is why courage is so important.

We have to see panic and fear as something that makes us worse. It's a competitive disadvantage. It's not that we never have fear. It's that we have the fear. We are alert to what it's trying to tell us, and we try to get to work, breaking it down. We try to get to work, preparing for it, we try to get to work preparing for it, we try to get to work anticipating it, we try to get to work,

putting ourselves in a position where if it does happen and it probably will happen, we'll be able to respond, we'll know what we can do, we'll have something, and that's, you know, as Napoleon was saying, what would you do if they were on your left, what would you do in your front, what would you do if they were over here, what would you do if they were on your left? What would you do in your front? What would you do if they were over here?

What would you do if all of these things happened at the same time? Even now, as I'm putting out courage is calling, I'm thinking, what are the things that can go wrong? What's my preparation for them? What would I do if it got a negative review? What would I do if I got attacked? What would it do? What would I do if, you know, the books suddenly didn't arrive, right?

All the things that can go wrong, they do go wrong on launches. I've been around long enough to experience that. Not afraid of it anymore. I'm focused instead on solutions. I'm focusing as a stoic must on what you can do about it. That's what confidence and courage gives you. I hope you check out the new book dailystoke.com slash preorder. Courage is calling fortune favors.

The brave available everywhere. And I hope you spend some time journaling about panic and fear this week. I hope it makes you better stronger and braver. Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke early and add free on Amazon Music. Download the Amazon Music app today. Or you can listen early and add free with Wondery Plus in Apple. And you can listen to the Daily Stoke app. And you can listen to the Daily Stoke app. And you can listen to the Daily Stoke early and ad-free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music app today, or you can listen early and ad-free

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