The Daily Stoic - These Are The Luckiest People | Take A Walk

Episode Date: June 20, 2022

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Or you can sign up for the email one of my favorite things to write at dailydad.com. Marcus Arellius was cursed by fate in many ways. There were wars, there was palace intrigue, there were floods, a pandemic, he grieved the loss of his father, then several children, and then he outlived his wife. As the ancient historians noted, he did not receive the good breaks he deserved. And still he was the luckiest man in the world, in what way?

In that as Marcus writes in book one of meditations, the gods gave him Antoninus as a ruler and a father. The ancient world was a brutal, violent place. The entire history of emperors and kings was basically an endless parade of errors getting rid of other potential errors. And yet, despite this precedent, despite being given the unambiable job of preparing a boy to replace him, Antoninus broke the mold and facilitated one of the great mentor relationships in history. More than not assassinating his rival, Antoninus committed fully to shaping and guiding the young boy towards greatness,

a kind of greatness that stretches the imagination. And what exactly did Antoninus teach his steps on? In Marcus' own words and meditations, he learned the importance of compassion and hard work and persistence and altruism and self-reliance and insurefulness and constancy to friends. Marcus said also that he learned how to keep an open mind and to listen to anyone who can

contribute, how to take responsibility and blame, how to put other people at ease. He learned how to yield the Florida experts and use their advice, how to respect tradition, how to keep a good schedule, how to never get worked up. Antoninus taught Marcus how to be a good schedule, how to never get worked up. Antoninus taught Marcus how to be indifferent to superficial honors and to treat people as they deserved to be treated. It's quite a list, isn't it? But better still that the lessons are as we recently talked about embodied in Antoninus'

actions. There is no better way to learn than from a role model, and there is nothing luckier than getting to be in the constant company with someone that we would one day like to be like. And as any parent knows, there is no better gift than the opportunity to be for our children what Antoninus was for Marcus. As we talk about over at Daily Dad, it is here that we can have true multi-generational impact.

We can embody the principles we write and read about here. We can use this philosophy in guiding the example we set for them. We can be the person we want them to be. We have to. And as I was saying, I really love doing daily debt. It's my favorite thing. It's going to be a book soon enough just teasing that here. But in the meantime, I would love for you to sign up for the daily.emailtdailydead.com. It's called dailydad because I'm a dad. It's not just for dudes. I promise, I talk about parenting generally, I talk about the lessons I've learned from the ancients that I am learning from my own kids and a bunch of other stuff. I'd love for you to sign up or you can just listen to the daily dad podcast, just add it on Spotify or Apple iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts. I'd love for you to check it out. DailyDad and the DailyDad email at dailyDad.com.

Happy Father's Day everyone. I hope you're spending some time with family and friends and be good to your kids as we said. That's how we have a multi-generational impact. Take a walk and this is from this week's entry in the Daily Steuord Journal, 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living by yours truly and my co-writer and translator, Stephen Hanselman. I actually do this journal every single day. There's a question in the morning, a question in the afternoon, and then there's these sort of weekly meditations. As Epictetus says, every day and night,

we keep thoughts like this at hand, write them, read them aloud, and talk to yourself, and others about them. You can check out the Daily Stoke Journal, Anywhere Books or Sold, and also get a signed personalized copy from me in the Daily Stoke store at store.dailystoke.com. Sennaka believed that we should take frequent,

wandering walks because constant work will fracture our minds. As a writer, he would have agreed with the novelist Helen Dunmore, a problem with a piece of writing often clarifies itself if you go for a long walk. So take some good time this week to take some walks and watch the dullness and feebleness to part. Enjoy the scenery, enjoy being away from your work, make them part of your morning and evening riding routine, return with a stimulated mind that's ready to journal about and follow the philosophy you know.

You think that it's taking a break but really you end up smarter and clearer than you were when you left. And that's from this week's entry in the Daily Stoic journal, 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living by me, Ryan Holiday, which you can pick up, signed versions of in the Daily Stoic store. And as Sennaka says, we should take wandering walks so that the mind might be nourished and refreshed by the open air and deep breathing. That's in his essay on tranquility of mind. But Marcus Aurelius has passed through this brief patch of time and harmony with nature and come to your final resting place gracefully, just as a ripened olive might drop, praising the earth that nourished it and grateful to the tree that gave it growth.

That's Meditations 448. And then Sennaka again in on-transquility of mind. The mind must be given relaxation. It will rise, improved, and sharper after a good break. Just as rich fields must not be forced for they will quickly lose their fertility if never given a break. So constant work on the anvo will fracture the force of the mind. But it regains its powers if it is set free and relaxed for a break. So constant work on the anvo will fracture the force of the mind, but it regains its powers if it is set free and relaxed for a while. Constant work gives rise to a certain

kind of dullness and feebleness in the rational soul. I actually just posted this the other day, I was saying there's no problem so bad that taking a walk can't at least help you solve a little bit of it. And I also feel like I've never regretted deciding to get up and take a walk can't at least help you solve a little bit of it. And I also feel like I've never regretted deciding to get up and take a walk. My morning routine is built around it. As I've said before, I don't touch my phone in the morning, strap my kids in this stroller and we go for a walk. It's about a mile and a half to the mailboxes at the end of the road, a little PO boxes for everyone there.

And we've done this hundreds and hundreds of times now. It occurred to me that since my kids were born, I've probably walked, ridden or run, several thousand miles with them. And this distance we covered, it's not just good for health, it's not just getting out and getting sunlight, but it's refreshing, it's quality time together, it's time not spent struggling with some work thing.

And yet, I almost invariably return with something to write down with something I remember I need to do during the day with some sense of purpose and energy for the day. And during the pandemic, we got so into these walks, not only do I do the one in the morning, then I sometimes do walks on phone calls during the day around the daily stoic offices and the painted porch book store here in Bastard, Texas. I love walking through these little southern towns. It's always beautiful and shady, because they planted the trees so long ago.

But then we usually go for a walk after dinner. Sometimes our kids take a popsicle or my wife and I have a piece of chocolate. During April and May, we like to pick blackberries on the walk, but we just, we walk around. Sometimes we watch the sun come down. You know, we watch the deer run or we look at the cows or pet the donkeys. Sometimes we bring the donkeys carrots, although most of the time our kids eat the carrots before we get there But the point is this time outside is wonderful and it's philosophical and it's Refreshing and it's one of the most important things that I do. So I hope you will take some walks today

It's one of the most important things that I do. So I hope you will take some walks today. It's one of the best exercises you can do. It's also one of the best forms of exercise for your mind. So take a walk, the Stoics Demandit. You know, the Stoics in real life met at what was called the Stoa, the Stoa Pocula, the Painted Porch in ancient Athens. Obviously we can't all get together in one place, because this community is like hundreds of thousands of people, and we couldn't fit in one space.

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