The Daily Stoic - This Choice Is Everything | A Cure For Procrastination

Episode Date: August 30, 2021

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke podcast early and add free on Amazon music download the app today Welcome to the Daily Stoke podcast each day. We bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes illustrated with stories from history Current events and literature to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about whatever it is you happen to be doing. So let's get into it. Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wunderree's podcast business wars. And in our new season,

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He comes to a fork in the path. Beside each one stands a beautiful goddess. They beckon him. One offers a life of ease, complete freedom and absence from struggle or want. The other makes no such promises. In fact, she warns there will be struggle, sacrifice, and hard work. But, and this is the big but, she says that her path is the path to greatness, to the heroic destiny that Hercules was born to fulfill.

Was this real? Did it really happen? If it's only a legend, does it matter? Yes, because this is a story about us, about our dilemma, about our own crossroads. For Hercules, the choice was between vice and virtue, the easy way and the hard way, the well-trot path and the road less traveled. The same goes for us. We face this choice right now and in every moment.

What we choose the easy life, or the virtuous life, will we choose principles or pleasure, distraction or focus, temptation or discipline, will we be Seneca who fell short or Marcus Aurelius who transcended will we be Nero or a hero? All of my writing and work has been building towards producing something that seeks to answer this question, not just for myself, but anyone's driving to reach their full potential personally and professionally. And it's been an incredibly challenging endeavor, but I'm now well underway in what will be a four book series on the four Stilic virtues, which if you remember, a courage, temperance, justice, and wisdom.

Marcus Aurelius called these four virtues, the touchstones of goodness. But you might look at them as the paving stones of the path of Hercules. And the first book in this series is now available for pre-order. It's called Courage Is Callin, Fortune Favors to Brave. And like my trilogy, The Opsicles, the way you go as the enemy in stillness is the brave. And like my trilogy, the obstacles, the way ego is the enemy and stillness is the key. This is a book of ancient wisdom illustrated with stories designed to both inspire and be applied to your actual life. This though, it's believed that a life well lived was one which always countered adversity with virtue. And they believed in four aspects of virtue, courage,

temperance, justice, and wisdom. And to millions, these are known as the Cardinal Virtues, four near universal ideas adopted by Christianity in most of Western philosophy, but they're equally valued in Buddhism, Hinduism, and just about every other philosophy you can imagine. And they're called Cardinal, as CS Lewis points out, not because they've come down from church authorities, but because they originate from the Latin Cardo or hinge. It's pivotal stuff, these four virtues. It's the hardware upon which the door to the good life hinges. And none of the other virtues are possible without courage.

It's the backbone of the others. And this is why you can't find one good thing that did not require courage. It's the backbone of the others. And this is why you can't find one good thing that did not require courage. If you wish to do great things, you're going to need it. And so the aim of my newest book is how to teach you to conquer fear or at least rise above it in the moments that matter. And I'm so excited to share it with you. I'm confident that it's my best book to date and I think the blurbs and early reviews already hint that my confidence isn't misplaced. And because I'd like to encourage you to pre-order courage is calling right now, I've got a whole bunch of super exciting bonuses including a signed and numbered page from the original manuscripts that I made as I was writing the book. You can learn about all this over at dailysteoic.com

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Go to dailystoke.com slash preorder to pick up courage is calling. A cure for procrastination. Today's episode is about a cure for procrastination and I will say one thing before I get into today's episode, if you have been procrastinating, picking up a copy of the new book which is now available for preorder. I hope you do so. Courage is calling, fortune favors, the brave is a book that like all books was a battle against procrastination. For me, it was about showing up every day, it was about doing the work, work even when it was hard even when there was other stuff I wanted to do even when the world felt like it was melting down

Every book as Stephen Pressfield says is a battle against the resistance I'm glad to say well, I can't say that I won But I do know I came out the other side with the manuscript and it is now imminently coming out and I hope you check it out. We got a bunch of awesome pre-orders. This is the first book in a series of four books I'm doing on the Cardinal Virtues. It's a big launch for me. I'm so proud of this book. I can't wait for you to see it. You can check it out.

Courage is calling. Fortune favors the bold. Anywhere books are sold and we have a bunch of awesome pre-order bonuses for you at dailystoic.com slash pre-order. But let's get into today's episode. To the stoic procrastination almost looks like a form of delusion and entitlement. Who is to say you'll even be around next month, next month, or next week to deal with it?

If it's important, they say, don't wait, do it now. As Mark really says, if it needs to be done, do it with courage and promptness. And we're getting courage. Procrastination seems to make things easier, but it damns us to a low grade, nong state of anxiety. Is that how you want to spend this week? Any week? Your last week? Ask yourself, what am I avoiding? What can I handle today instead of tomorrow? What can I do promptly and bravely right now? And then we have one quote from moral letters from Cedica and two from Marcus Realius.

From Cedica, we have anything that must yet be done virtue can do with courage and promptness. For anyone would call it a sign of foolishness for one to undertake a task with a lazy and begrudging spirit, or to push the body in one direction in the mind and another, to be torn apart by wildly divergent impulses. It can be done well, it can be done well now. That's the idea.

And then Mark Surrealie says, this is the mark of perfection of character, to spend each day as if it were your last without frenzy, laziness, or any pretending. And then, Mark's realist again, Meditations 822, you get what you deserve. Instead of being a good person today, you choose instead to be one tomorrow. You know, this idea of this four virtues series, the first book is courage, so it's funny, you know, they're saying do it with promptness and courage. That's the first virtue, the second virtue

is the virtue of self-discipline or temperance, which is actually where I'll be writing about courage a bit more, but I was actually just working on the procrastination chapter yesterday. And this idea that I really like this frame of reference, thinking about procrastination as a form of arrogance. Who says you'll be around to get to it tomorrow? Who says you can afford to put it off?

And so as I'm writing, I tell myself, look, I don't know what's going to happen. All I know is that I got to put a close, I got to close it up today. I got to do everything I'm capable of doing today. I got to wrap it up, give my best, do my best, do as much as I can, so that if I do die tomorrow and someone comes someone I love pulls up my laptop and goes, where was Ryan on that book? It won't be finished, but they'll they'll see that my stuff was in order, that I got as far as I could, that it wasn't a scattered mess, that I hadn't been putting stuff off, that I hadn't been waiting until later. I think I'm proud to say that as a writer, I've never missed one of my publisher deadlines. In fact, I almost always deliver early. That's, I think, one key to procrastination.

Set good deadlines, generous deadlines, that you're capable of beating and then work every day. And so you beat them, people are impressed, but really you budgeted some extra time there. I think that something that strikes me when I deal with people who procrastinate, right? It's like you assigned something with someone that, you know, they've got to do this or that. And then, you know, it's like, it's due on Monday. And then Friday, they're like, oh, I couldn't get the file open. They're like, what have you been doing the last week?

Right, you should have known that the file didn't work, the second you started this project. And so you often find that people, and this is where that idea of the resistance comes in, people delay getting started. Stephen Pressfield says, it's not that we say, I'm never gonna write the novel. We say, I'm going to write the novel tomorrow, right?

So we put off the start date over and over as the procrastination. We tell ourselves we're gonna do it or it's lying to ourselves about when we're gonna do it. And I think this is why the practice of momentum or is so important if you go, I don't know if I have tomorrow, but I do have right now. I do have 20 minutes that I can dedicate to this. I do have 20 minutes that I can dedicate to this.

I do have an hour that I can dedicate to this. I can have that conversation that I needed to have with the person. I can close this thing off. I can get caught up on this or that. Don't do it later, do it now, cross it off. Anything that can be done today, anything that could be done tomorrow must be done

today. That was MacArthur's rule as well. The Stokes and successful people forever have been battling against procrastination and the resistance. It's a fact of life. That's why Pressfield calls it a war of art. But I hope you're winning the battle a little bit today. I'm proud to say I won the battle enough to get this book out there. I'm happy to tell you about it. Check it out. Courage is calling Fortune favors the brave. Check it out. Anywhere books are sold. You can pick up a copy for me. My book store the pain and porch. I'm going to dailystoke.com slash pre-order. And I hope whatever it is you have to do today. You take this message seriously and you go do it. Hey, Prime Members. You can listen to the Daily Stoic early and ad-free on Amazon Music,

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