The Daily Stoic - Try To Be Less Like Yourself

Episode Date: May 31, 2023

A classic episode of Seinfeld begins with George Costanza having a revelation. "Every decision I've ever made in my entire life has been wrong," George says. "Every instinct I have in every aspect of life...is often wrong." Then just do the opposite, Jerry says. "Yes," Costanza says with excitement, "I will do the opposite!" For the rest of the episode, George has great success doing the opposite of what his instincts tell him to do.This is now known as The Costanza Principle. And it turns out to be scientifically-sound advice.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom every day life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2, old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us dailystoweth.com. Try to be less like yourself. A classic episode of Seinfeld begins with George Costanza having a revelation. Every decision I have ever made in my entire life has been wrong. George says,

every instinct I have and every aspect of life is often wrong. Then just do the opposite, Jerry says, yes, George has with excitement. I will do the opposite. And for the rest of the episode, George has great success doing the opposite of what is in the stinks, tell him to do. And this is now known as the Kistans of principle. And it turns out to be scientifically sound advice. On a recent episode of the Daily Stoke podcast, the positive psychiatrist Dr. Samantha Bordman said, There's so much messaging today about like, you've always got to be yourself and trust your

feelings. And so I asked people, be on you. Like what is the opposite you feel like doing right now, or who is somebody you really admire? Like what would they do in this moment? And I think that that can get us closer to that version of ourselves we would like to be separating oneself from one's impulse.

You know, taking that healthy step back and breathing for a moment and gaining some distance between what you feel like doing and what's actually going to help you feel strong and better and to make a better choice. As we've talked about before, this is ancient advice. In his essay on Clemence's, Senika tells the story of Emperor Augustus' wife advising him, do what doctors do when the usual prescriptions have no effect. Try the opposite remedies. Strictness has gotten you nowhere," she says. Now try and see how far

clemency gets you. And Epictetus's line was, what assistance can we find in the fight against habit? Try the opposite. When the Stoics win science, when a wise wife and a sitcom agree on something, only a fool would decline to listen. Try the opposite today. Be on you. Hey, Prime Members! You can listen to the Daily Stoic early and ad-free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music app today, or you can listen early and ad-free with Wondery Plus in Apple podcasts.