The Daily Stoic - We’re Broken…But Not Fixed | What Little Wins Can You Find?

Episode Date: August 7, 2023

We all have bad habits. Some of us procrastinate. Nearly all of us, as Seneca said, are slaves to something–food or sex or booze or ambition. We don’t work as hard as we should, or we work too hard. We’re too quick with our temper, we’re too slow to ask for help.It’s easy to be cynical about ourselves. We know, more than anyone, how long we’ve been struggling with things. We know how ingrained our bad habits are, how hard it’s going to be to get over them. But we can’t give up.---And with today's Daily Stoic Journal excerpt, Ryan explains why the key to maintaining a healthy mindset over the long term is looking for small victories every day.💪 Good habits make success possible. Whether you’re trying to get a promotion, meet new people, or look and feel healthy, a regimen of good habits is the surest path forward.That’s why we created Habits for Success, Habits for Happiness. Over the course of six weeks, we teach you the perfect slate of good habits that will help you achieve success and happiness in your life. It’s currently discounted $50 off, so head over to dailystoic.com/habits to sign up!✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wonder Woman's Podcast Business Wars. And in our new season, two of the world's leading hotel brands, Hilton and Marriott, stare down family drama and financial disasters. Listen to business wars on Amazon Music or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoic podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoics, illustrated with stories from history, current events, and literature

to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of Stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about, whatever it is you're happy to be doing. So let's get into it. We're broken, but not fixed. We all have bad habits. Some of us procrastinate. Nearly all of us,

Asenica said, are slaves to something food or sex or booze or ambition. We don't work as hard as we should or we work too hard, too quick with our temper or too slow to ask for help. The point is, we're not what we could be. And in some cases, we're quite messed up. Indeed, we are all quite flawed. In a recent episode of the Daily Stoic podcast with Tim Urban, he's the creator of Weight But Why and he's the author of this new book called What's Our Problem, I talked to him about his lifelong struggle with some of these very habits, namely, just, namely, distraction and procrastination. And Tim was quite aware about how his weaknesses in these areas have made things harder for him over the years.

But he also expressed a sincere belief in his ability to change and grow. In other words, he was broken but not fixed. He retains, despite this discouragement, a growth mindset. He refuses to relinquish what the still beliefs believed was our ultimate power, our sense of agency over our own thoughts, our emotions, and our responses to life. You know, it's easy to be cynical about ourselves. We know more than anyone how long we've been struggling with things. We know how ingrained our bad habits are, how hard it's going to be to get over them. But we can't give up, we can't quit on ourselves. If we don't believe we're capable of change, who will? And if we don't believe we're capable of

change, then we are definitely not capable of change. We must remember the hopeful note that Marcus really strikes at the end of meditations. Within 10 days, he says, you will seem a God to those to whom you are now, a beasticed in an ape if you return to your principles and the worship of reason. And I really wanna tell you about the Daily Stoke Habits course that we have, we're calling it, Daily Stoke Habits for Success, Habits for Happiness. It helps you do what the Stokes are talking about,

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What little wins can you find? Zeno, the Phoenician merchant who founded the Stoic School on the painted porch, the Stoic Poquille of the Agora after a shipwreck, said that happiness was a matter of small steps. While the Stoics believed in the perfectability of human beings, they knew that so much stood in the way of realizing that potential. So they would be skeptical of the so-called epic winds and quantum leaps that our culture obsesses over today. Instead, they would urge you to focus on your daily duties, on making incremental progress. Spend your time this week thinking about small wins. What little gains can be had from this improvement or that one. A decision here or a decision there.

Be satisfied with each small step. Keep moving and don't give up. This is from this week's entry in the Daily Stoke Journal, 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living from yours truly. But we have a quote from Marcus, a quote from Epititus, and a quote from Xeno today. Do what your nature demands, Marcus really says, in Meditations 929. Get right to it if it's in your power. Don't look around to see if people will know about it. Don't

await the perfection of Plato's Republic, but be satisfied with even the smallest step forward and regard the outcome itself as a small thing. Then, Epictetus says, we don't abandon our pursuits because we despair of ever perfecting them. That's discourse is one, too. Well, being is realized by small steps, Zeno says, according to Diogeny's laertis, but it is no small thing. I was actually just thinking about this this morning. I'm in the middle of writing the book that I'm working on now. And there's a great writing rule, just a couple crappy pages a day. Just put in the time, put in the work, that'll get you to a manuscript, a draft one. Then you can edit draft one, but you can't edit what doesn't exist. So people, as a practices who despair of progress because it's not perfection, they never get there.

But the person who shows up and does work every day gets there. So I was actually writing this in my journal today. I was saying, okay, just show up, put your ass in the chair, do a little work. And as I was writing this in the journal, I was thinking like, put your ass in the chair, be at the desk. And then this story popped in my head because I've been trying to write this chapter about like keeping your work station clean. That'll be in like two books from now. But the point is, as I was thinking about this, I remembered this little thing that I'd read about Robert Moses in Robert Carlos book, The Power Broker. And I wrote down my no card and I just boom, the chapter just unlocked itself.

So my point is I was thinking about the process, when the process got to work and solved a problem that I was having trouble solving, I got to my desk, I got to sit down, I pulled the power broker off the shelf, started going through my folded pages and there on about page 280 something, was it the exact story that I needed and about an hour, I busted out the first draft of this chapter and that was all I have to do for today's contribution to the book. Now, a lot of days like this, add up, as George Washington was fond of saying,

many nickels make a muckle. You show up enough days, you do this enough times, gets you to phase one, then you improve, then you go on to phase two, phase three, and finally you get your completed product. So today, it's not about sort of big huge wins. Like this was a minor, minor win. This is maybe three paragraphs of a book that's going to be 60 plus thousand words.

It's going to have to go through lots of rounds of editing that won't come out until 20, 23 probably. And who knows maybe it'll even get cut from the book. But the point is I followed the process, I showed up, I did the work, I didn't wait around. I put my ass where I wanted my heart to be, quote, Stephen Pressfield. And I made the smallest step forward, as Marcus said,

I'm not gonna get too high about this, I'm not gonna get too excited. I'm gonna, as Marcus says, regard it as a small thing, but I'm also confident enough, experienced enough to know that these small things add up, and that's what I'm excited about. And I know that I just have to do this enough times for long enough that I'll eventually get to the other side of where I need to go. And that is true for your problems, for your projects, wherever you are, whatever you're doing. Show up, put your ass in the chair, do the work, let the process guide you to the eventual, inevitable accomplishment. Hey, Prime Members! You can listen to the Daily Stoic early and ad-free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music App today, or you can listen early and ad-free with Wondery Plus in Apple podcasts.

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