The Daily Stoic - Yes, This is Unfair, Yet... | Keep the Rhythm

Episode Date: December 14, 2020

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stood Podcast early and add free on Amazon Music. Download the app today. Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wundery's podcast business wars. And in our new season, Walmart must fight off target. The new discounter that's both savvy and fashion forward. Listen to business wars on Amazon Music or wherever you get your podcasts. on music or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoics, illustrated with stories from history, current events, and literature to help you be better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoke intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave

you with, to journal about whatever it is you're happened to be doing. So let's get into it. Yes, this is unfair, but you didn't cause this pandemic. You might have even been one of the people who was vocal about the dangers early on. Perhaps you didn't vote for the leaders worldwide who have so failed us in preventing it or protecting us. Yet here you are stuck dealing with the fallout. You're healthy. You're unlikely to have health complications from the virus. Your grandparents aren't around anymore. Yet here you are at home under legal restrictions

prevented from working or living your life as you like. Maybe unlike some businesses you've kept large cash reserves. Maybe unlike some investors You didn't over leverage yourself and you don't have large debt payments to service Which means that on top of this pandemic, which again is not your fault, you're not in a position to be bailed out by hastily constructed government stimulus plans. It's unfair, it's frustrating, but it's reality. The Stokes would say, so what?

Whoever promised you fair, whoever promised you that you'd be made whole, the reward for being right, for being prudent in your affairs, Marcus Aurelius said, is not external. Don't look for the third thing, he said. Don't look to be looked after first. That's not how this works. You do what's right because it's right.

Of whom much is given, much is expected. Remember that. That is what is fair, even when it isn't. Keep the rhythm. Marcus Arelius must have known that as Emperor, he was part of a grand and great history. As a philosopher, he also knew that all people are part of a rhythm pulsing through both history and their own lives. He liked to remind himself not to lose that beat, return to your philosophy he would tell himself when he drifted. Don't give in to distractions.

In fact, he tried to constantly return to this rhythm. That kind of awareness, paying a special attention, is something he learned from reading epictetus, who told the students that, well, none of us can be perfect. We can catch ourselves when we begin to slide, when we drift from where we should be. So can you feel that rhythm this week? Can you connect to it? Can you think of the times when you really were locked into it? Can you do that again?

Walk the long gallery of the past of empires and kingdoms succeeding each other without number and you can also see the future for surely it will be exactly the same Unable to deviate from the present rhythm. It's all one whether we've experienced 40 years or 40 million what more is there to see? Marcus Aurelius 40 million, what more is there to see? Markets are really as meditations, 749. When forced as it seemed by circumstances into utter confusion, get a hold of yourself quickly. Don't be locked out of the rhythm any longer than necessary. You'll be able to keep the beat if you're constantly returning to it. It's Marcus Eurelius Meditations 6-11. When you let your attention slide for a bit,

don't think that you will get back a grip on it whenever you wish. Instead bear in mind that because of today's mistakes, everything that follows will be necessarily worse. Is it possible to be free from air, not by any means, but it is possible to be a person always stretching to avoid air, where we must be content to at least escape a few mistakes by never letting our attention slide. This idea of the rhythm, this idea of philosophy being sort of a place that you return to, is a really beautiful idea to me, and I think it's something to think about this week. You know, the Stokes talk a lot about water and Mark Sris talks about stepping in the same river twice.

So that's impossible. But I also think of sort of the rhythm of life as you know, talks about a smooth flow of life. I think when we're unhappy, when we're distracted, when we're bored, when we're disconnected, when we're detached, it's because we sort of lost that rhythm. We've stepped out of it. We've gone into an eddie era, you know, a shallows, and we've lost, you know, the current of that river that should be pulling this song along. We've lost the rhythm, right? And so this idea of there being sort of a flow

is really important. And so that's why, like as a writer, I'm kind of like, I'm never not writing. I'm trying to always kind of keep the same routine, keep my attention focused. I'm not sort of on off, on off. To me, that's that's really a recipe for being kind of like a hit or miss, right? That's a that's a recipe for feeling that some days, not feeling that some days for losing losing track of where you should be. I kind of prefer to just sort of always be in the rhythm. It's kind of been a weird thing from the pandemic where it's like all the days have blurred into each other, but not in a bad way.

It's kind of been in a good way. It just feels like I'm just doing what I'm supposed to do. I'm just locked in always. Like I'm just, you know, I'm just showing up, doing what I need to do, then coming home showing up, doing what I need to do, and then coming home and doing the other things I need to do. And there's parts of it that are boring, parts of it a little disdorienting.

You know, I heard a joke, I was listening to them, Pete Holmes' podcast the other day, Kumail Non-Johnny was talking about a movie that he'd seen and he goes, because this is the pandemic, I either saw it yesterday or four months ago. And I think that's right, you sort of lose the perception of time, but that's because you're so in the rhythm. Like, I've always thought like when you lose track

of what day it is, it's usually a sign you're doing something you really like. Man, what day is it? That's because things are going well and you're just locked in and you're present. So, this idea of the rhythm is really important, but I also wanna balance that with what Mark Serrily is just talking about,

which is when you slip, when you mess up, don't let beat the crap out of yourself, just get back to it, right? Like I do intermittent fasting, right? And on election day, we were like, okay, we're gonna gorge ourselves, just we're gonna stress eat, get this done, watch what happens.

But I think in past parts of my life, that sort of deviation from it, it would have really messed me up, it would have been hard to, no, it's that you just come back to it, right? You just adjust, you come back to it. The idea of the rhythm, it's like, okay, so you did have a bad day.

Now come back to it, Start again, fresh, right? Journaling too. What do you do? I used to journal and I stopped. What should I do? Start journaling today. It's not that complicated, right? You can start again now.

You can come back to the rhythm. Because the rhythm is like, it's outside you. It's there. It's always going. It's independent of you. And you can tap into that energy anytime you want. Grab water from the stream, whatever Metaphor or analogy you want to use. So don't be too hard on yourself at the same time. Again, there's attention always

I think Epicetus' point is If you let your attention slide it can be harder than then it's certainly although it's always possible to come back to the rhythm It's easier just to stay on the beat and never leave it. So that's where habits come from, that's where accountability comes from, that's where consistency comes from. Keep yourself in the rhythm, lock into it, that's what we're doing here.

I wish you a great week. Stick with your habits, stick with your routine, let the flow take you, and then if you mess up if you fall off don't kick yourself just come right back to it, return to philosophy, let it guide you, let it teach you and keep going and I'll see you on the other side. Hey everyone, thank you so much for listening to this podcast. It's incredible to think that these episodes have been listened to more than 3 million times.

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