The Daily Stoic - You Can Admit You Were Wrong

Episode Date: April 30, 2019

A Stoic is determined, but not obstinate. A Stoic controls what they can, recognizes they cannot change that which is out of their control, but that they can change their mind. Not because it’s convenient, but because they are open to learning they were wrong or misinformed.“If anyone can refute me," Marcus Aurelius wrote, "I'll gladly change." He wanted to be told when he had made a mistake or seen things from the wrong perspective. Because it was truth that mattered to him. Truth, he said, “never hurt anyone.” Persisting on a course or holding steadfast to a belief only because you’re afraid of losing face? That’s where the real damage comes from. Yet we actually fear the former more than the latter! Politicians pretend to still agree with positions in public that they disparage in private...because they don’t want to be branded a flip flopper. It’s madness. Changing your mind is a good thing. Holding different beliefs today than you did ten years ago? That’s called growth, maturity, evolution. Being won over by someone else’s argument is not a sign of a weak mind...it’s proof of an open mind. The best kind to have! The only kind to have if you are at all concerned with fortifying your inner citadel against the vagaries of Fate and Fortune. The Supreme Court Justice Felix Frankfurter once said that “Wisdom too often never comes, and so one ought not to reject it merely because it comes late.” Well put. Don’t reject refutation today. Don’t be afraid to admit you were wrong. Gladly change. It looks good on you—on everyone. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoke. For each day, we read a short passage designed to help you cultivate the strength, insight, wisdom necessary for living good life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at dailystowic.com. You can admit you're wrong. A stoke is determined but not obstinant. A stoke controls what they can, recognizes they cannot change that which is out of their control. But they know that they can change their mind. Not because it's convenient, but because they are open to learning they were wrong or

misinformed. If anyone can refute me, Marcus Aurelius wrote, I'll gladly changed. He wanted to be told when he had made a mistake or seen things from the wrong perspective, because it was truth that mattered to him. Truth, he said, never hurt anyone. Persisting on a course or holding steadfast to a belief only because you're afraid of losing face, that's where the real damage comes from. Yet we actually fear the former far more than the latter. Politicians pretend to still agree with positions in public, they disparage in private, because they don't want to be branded a flip flopper. It's madness. Changing your mind is a good thing.

Holding different beliefs today than you did 10 years ago? That's called growth, maturity, evolution. Being won over by someone else's argument is not a sign of a weak mind. It's proof of an open mind, the best kind to have. The only kind to have, if you are at all concerned with fortifying your inner citadel against the vagaries of fortune and fate.

The Supreme Court Justice Felix Frankfurter once said that wisdom too often never comes and so one ought not to reject it merely because it comes too late. Well put, don't reject reputation today. Don't be afraid to admit you are wrong. Gladly change. It looks good on you on everyone. Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on iTunes or your favorite podcast app. And if you don't get the daily stoke email, go to dailystoke.com slash email. Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic early and ad free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music app today, or you can listen early and ad free with Wondery

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