The Daily Stoic - You Must Tame Your Temper

Episode Date: September 24, 2019

You try to turn on your television, only to find that the batteries in the remote are dead and no one bothered to replace them. Your computer freezes in the middle of finishing something important and you lose hours of work. You’re running late for your child’s soccer game because they’ve been fooling around instead of getting ready to play. You’re trying to change lanes on the freeway, but another driver is too close to your car and won’t give you room to maneuver. And the worse, they flip you off. What’s the natural response to all of these situations? To get angry. But, remember, to the Stoics, our “natural” instincts and emotions were something to always question. And sometimes, something to regard with outright skepticism. “The cause of anger is the sense of having been wronged,” Seneca wrote, “but one ought not trust this sense. Don’t make your move right away, even against what seems overt and plain; sometimes false things give the appearance of truth.”  Not everyone has an “anger problem” but anger is a problem for everyone. We all cause ourselves harm through it. We drive people away. We act unreasonably. We say things we regret. We shave minutes off our life–or in some cases, put ourselves in outright danger. Anger is a problem that people have dealt with for thousands of years. Marcus Aurelius struggled with his temper, and surely his wife did too. Nuns and saints–for all their good work–also had to work at pushing anger away, at making sure they didn’t make themselves miserable. The good news is that all these wise–and very human figures–have developed some pretty brilliant strategies for dealing with their excessive anger. They discovered real insights on how to keep your problems in perspective; how to cool down in the moment, when your anger is pushing you out of control; how to tame your emotions and stay in charge of your temper. And as usual, the Stoics have some of the smartest and most applicable insights. That’s why we created Taming Your Temper: The 10-Day Stoic Guide to Controlling Anger. 10 days of challenges, exercises, video lessons, and bonus tools based on Stoic philosophy. Materials to help you deal with your anger in a constructive manner. We will give you the tools that you need, not just to manage your anger, but to leave it in the past, so that you can focus on what’s important–living a virtuous and fulfilling life.Learn from the wisdom of the great thinkers and leaders of history: Marcus Aurelius; Seneca; Abraham Lincoln; Mr. Rogers; and others as well. Use our unique exercises to break free from the cage that anger has built around you and see the world, and yourself, in a new light. Each day, watch a new video from Ryan Holiday, author of The Obstacle is the Way, Ego is the Enemy, Stillness is the Key, and The Daily Stoic, as he explains the ideas behind the words and sheds light on our path.Being able to control your anger is a difficult but worthwhile goal. It will take time and effort—and it won’t be free—but by changing your perspective and developing techniques to control your temper, it will ultimately be achievable—and life-changing. Take the first step on the path to a calmer and more fulfilling future. Check out Taming Your Temper: The 10-Day Stoic Guide to Controlling Anger today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoke. For each day, we read a short passage designed to help you cultivate the strength, insight, wisdom necessary for living good life. insight, wisdom necessary for living good life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at dailystoic.com. You must tame your temper. You try to turn on the television only to find that the batteries in the remote are dead and no one bothered to replace them. Your computer freezes in the middle of finishing something important and you lose hours of work. You're running late for your child's soccer game because they were fooling around instead of getting ready to play.

You're trying to change lanes on the freeway, but another driver is too close to your car and won't give you room to maneuver. And worse, then they flip you off. What's the natural response to all of these situations to get angry? But remember, to the stills are natural instincts and emotions, or something always to question, and sometimes something to regard with outright skepticism. The cause of anger is the sense of having been wronged,

Senna Karot, but one ought not trust this sense. Don't make your move right away, he said, even against what seems over and plain, sometimes false things give the appearance of truth. Not everyone has an anger problem, but anger is a problem for everyone. We all cause ourselves harm through it. We drive people away. We act

unreasonably. We say things we regret. We shave minutes off of our life or in some cases, put ourselves in outright danger. Anger is a problem that people have dealt with for thousands of years. Marcus Aurelius struggled with his temper and surely his wife did too. Nuns and saints for all their good work also had to work at pushing anger away and making sure they didn't make themselves miserable. The good news is that all of these wise, very human figures have developed some pretty brilliant strategies for dealing with their excessive anger. They discovered real insights on how to keep your problems and perspective,

how to cool down in the moment when your anger is pushing you out of control, how to tame your emotions and stay in charge of your temper. And as usual, the stoics have some of the smartest and most applicable exercises when it comes to anger. That's why we created Tame In Your Temper, the 10-Dayday stoic guide to controlling anger. 10 days of challenges, exercises, video lessons, and bonus tools based on stoic philosophy. Materials to help you deal with your anger in a constructive manner. We will give you the tools that you need not just to manage your anger, but to leave it in the past so you can focus on what's important, living a virtuous and fulfilling life.

You can learn the wisdom of the great thinkers and leaders of history through this course. Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, Abraham Lincoln, even Mr. Rogers and many others. You'll be able to use our unique exercises to break free from the cage that anger has built around you and see the world and yourself in a new light. Each day, you'll be able to watch a new video from me, Ryan Holiday, author of The Ops Goes The Way, he goes to the enemy stillness is the key, and of course, the daily stoic, as I explain the ideas behind the words

and shed light on the path that you're on, but that I am also on, because again, we are all struggling to tame our temper and we will all be better if we can get closer to that. Being able to control your anger is a difficult but worthwhile goal. We'll take time and effort, won't be free, but by changing your perspective and developing techniques to control your temper, it will ultimately be achievable in life-changing. So take the first step on the path to a calmer and more fulfilling future, check out Taming Your Tempor,

the 10-day Stoic Guide to controlling your anger. You can click the link below or you can just go to dailystoic.com slash anger. Hey Prime Members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke early and add free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music app today, or you can listen early and add free with Wondery Plus in Apple Podcasts.