The Dan Le Batard Show with Stugotz - Local Hour: The Land of the Free
Episode Date: February 15, 2024TODAY'S CAST: Dan, Stugotz, Chris, Jessica, Lucy, and Mike. Dan begins a somber Local Hour discussing the details of the mass shooting at yesterday's Super Bowl parade in Kansas City as he and the cre...w discuss the helplessness of living in America with mass shootings as rampant as ever. As yesterday's tragedy took place on the 6-year anniversary of the massacre at Stoneman Douglas High School, we speak with Manuel Oliver, the father of Douglas victim Joaquin Oliver, about gun laws in America, his activism, and his new program for advocacy called The Shotline. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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This is the Don Lebator Show with the Stugatz Podcast. ["Stoogatz"]
So Stugatz, right before the microphones came on here,
through soundproof glass, I can hear Jessica's laughter
as if she was drunk at a Las Vegas airport on a Monday.
She would never do that.
Because this place can be medicine.
And I come here for many of the people listening to this
over the last year who know some of the details of my life.
I come here more than ever in search of that laughter,
in search of the silly,
please dear God, let me talk about just sports
because it feels like the world is falling apart.
And it feels somehow in America
that I never thought I'd see more unsafe. because it feels like the world is falling apart. And it feels somehow in an America
that I never thought I'd see more unsafe
and by extension less free than it's ever felt
because I could go to a parade and die
or I could see football players consoling children
at a parade instead of celebrating something
that is in our silly playground.
So yesterday in Kansas City,
you get 22 people hit by gunfire. One fatality, eight life-threatening entries, nine of those
22 are children. And it's the apocalyptic scenario of it's the sixth anniversary of
Parkland, your neighborhood 50 miles from here, when we said this is enough, you
can't slaughter children, adults can't be okay with that, a country can't be okay with
that, America can't be okay with. We're worse at this than anybody. We can't protect our
children because we say that our gun laws are about freedom and you can't have the freedom
to go to a parade and know you're gonna come home with your children safe and
So I ask you again as we're laughing stew guts in the sports
playpen
when
Are we gonna stop being okay?
With the slaughtering of kids and not turning it into a political
Conversation, what's the visual I have to present to you?
Football players supposed to be celebrating at a parade, consoling children, doing a great
job incidentally of consoling children, because how the hell do you explain later in life
that's to scarred kids? Yeah, I don't know what those three gunmen were doing. What can
possibly be the explanation
that would make sense to anybody
that it's okay to start shooting at a parade?
Dan, if you're searching for a tipping point,
I'm not certain there is a tipping point
as to when people are gonna take this seriously
and actually instigate change
rather than speak into microphones and yell about it
because Dan, if Sandy Hook wasn't a tipping point,
if Stoneman Douglas wasn't a tipping point, I don't know what it is.
All right, so I feel helpless with these microphones and this voice in a way that's super unusual
because usually I feel like the words and the platform can mean something.
So I'm just going to read the numbers to you and ask you again and again, wherever it is,
you sit in the political divide.
Are you okay with this? What I'm about the political divide are you okay with this what i'm about to read are you
okay with all of this
so twos days the sixth anniversary of the massacre fifty miles from here
killed fifteen people
fourteen of them teenagers injured seventeen more
so it's been like two thousand days and since then according to the gun
violence archive there been
three thousand three hundred and seventy mass shootings in america thousand days and since then according to the gun violence archive there have been
3,370 mass shootings in America. That's one and a half a day.
Since Parkland the past six years since Parkland guns in America have either killed or injured
5,355 children
children ages 11 and under.
Also 25,000 between the ages of 12 and 17. That's 5,100 kids a year.
How is America worse at this than everyone else?
49th mass shooting this year, Stugatz, was yesterday.
Lisa Lopez Galvin was a mother of two, a radio host,
a chief's fan. And so
now you've got 21 injured people in a hospital, said it was treating 12 patients, 11 of them
children between the ages of six and 15. And I have done this show long enough, Stugatz,
to see Mike Ryan and Roy and Chris and Billy go from not having kids to having kids and now afraid when
they take their kids out. Mike Ryan talking of the horror of when I go to a public place
since Las Vegas basically. I'm looking where are the exits, how do I shield my child in a free and
allegedly free America, how do I get before I go to the celebration, let me put in, let me check the perimeter as a father and make sure I
could get my child out of here.
And I ask you as somebody who came in here heartbroken when it happened in your neighborhood
and we heard from the parents, Stu gots, that day who had to spend these soul killing hours
of not knowing if their kid was okay.
There's a shooting
social media is fast it's not this fast is my kids still alive did i send my
child to school is my child now coming home i don't have that certainty anymore
i i swear to you as i as people get mad stew gots that again and again this
leaks into the stupid playpen of sports
i ask you
am i supposed to ignore this today
when it happens at a parade? Am I supposed to go to the usual laughter in the fun places?
Because I know people want to escape here. I know they don't want the gun argument here,
too.
This is pretty damning for the United States in that we can't really get anywhere in terms of gun control.
And this is not a minority opinion in this country.
And it happened in a state with some of the loosest gun laws.
A Fox News poll found that 87% of Americans support criminal background checks on all gun
buyers.
81% support improving enforcement of
existing gun laws. 80% support requiring mental health checks on gun buyers.
There were plenty of good guys with guns at this parade.
800 police officers.
Plenty of good guys with guns and we're living in a country now. This is
courtesy of Cave and Shroff. This is some of the locations of the most recent
mass shootings in this
country.
This is places where you can't go live your normal, free and American life.
A bar, your home, your office, an airport, a temple, a church, a mosque, a concert, a
hospital, a nightclub, a newsroom, a restaurant, a preschool, a synagogue, a yoga studio, a high school, a military base, a bowling alley, a street corner, a movie theater, a political event, middle school, college campus, elementary school, now you can add a Super Bowl victory rally to the list.
Where didn't he just name? Like, that is not by the way the first sports incident
It's the latest shooting there were shots fired in downtown Denver following the championship when the summer 10 were wounded
There were shots fired near the parking lot in the Texas during the Texas Rangers parade
But Dan we do this all the time. No, we should cover these every single time it happens
But the word no, we can't do it. So, Guts, if it's happening one and a half times,
so Guts, if it's happening one and a half times per day,
then we have to stop programming all the time
to mention it.
If it's happening one and a half times a day.
The problem is people speaking into microphones
is not having enough impact.
But neither is what the people actually want
by almost consensus in a divided America.
Yeah, but the politicians don't want that because they're taking money from the NRA.
Okay, but that's the problem.
But we can't, we can't be okay with that infringing on freedoms in America that way.
We, the group of people listening to this who are close to consensus on there is no sane explanation
for what these three shooters were doing.
It doesn't matter what it is that they say nobody's going to accept whatever the explanation
is.
And so it has to be harder for those three shooters to get guns in their hands.
Not easier.
Not easier because they live in a state where people can just walk around
with guns
like we are now going to have to do metal detectors at these things we are
going to have to be in america stew got that feels like it has vastly less
freedom because you're gonna have to use more surveillance like you're gonna
have to make sure that the crazy people are not the ones with the guns this
wasn't one shooter stew got i don't God knows what the explanation for this is gonna be
How three people planned and thought this was a good idea to just open fire on a parade
But like were they were they thinking of children? Was there any?
Consideration about the fact that wherever it is that your insanity lies. It can't be the slaughtering of children
I don't think the gun laws are gonna change. So to your earlier point, yes, it would take extreme security measures
at every single event and every single place
where people gather into big groups.
And yes, that's what it would do.
It's not the land of the free.
Mike, do we want to protect?
No, but still we want to protect our children?
This is where the...
No, I'm just highlighting that...
What other option is there?
The Second Amendment is usually about, you know,
freedoms and protecting a document that was written several generations ago. This is where I'm just I'm just highlighting that what other option is there second amendment is usually about you know
freedoms and and
Protecting a document that was written several generations ago for a bayonet and
That doesn't sound like freedom. What's your what's your what you're outlining? It sounds safer. That's okay
No, it's undeniable. Yeah, but this is how the freedom gets taken stu goth stu goth
I was at the airport flying to and from Las Vegas, and I had to, in order to
remove the inconvenience of standing in the line with everybody else, I had to give the
government and the airlines all of my information, my retinal scan, so that I can just get in
exchange for convenience.
Now the government and the airport has all of my information and giving that over felt
like an invasion of freedom because our airports are now allegedly safer because we're checking
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Let me bring in Manny Oliver, okay, because I'd like this to be something that is felt
in a human way because if I feel helpless, I can't imagine how he feels as an activist
here locally, Stugatz.
He was on television yesterday.
He lost his 17-year-old son when Parkland happened six years ago, and he was keeping
Joaquin alive and what happened to him alive with his activism, where he goes to Washington
and continues to fight
for the memory of his son saying this is not okay and he's live on TV yesterday and while he's
live on TV talking about Parkland the shooting happens and so Manny's joining us now thank you
Manny he's uh he's local and as I said Stu Gunn came in here heartbroken just broken six years ago
because it happened in his neighborhood and this is even more personal so many thank you for joining us thank you for
making the time I I'm sorry that this is again the reason that somebody is
talking to you but what have the last six years have been for you and you're
still out here making sure that you're not helpless but you must feel so
helpless that as you're on TV
talking about your late son,
another shooting happens in Kansas City.
Thank you for joining us.
Thank you.
And let me tell you something.
This is the only reason why people talk to me.
So don't feel bad about that.
I always am used to get that intro like,
sorry for the occasion, but no,
this is the occasion and it's permanent in my case.
You just said it we're overlapping tragedies okay I'm in DC with my wife and a group of young
people are trying to launch a campaign I was yesterday honoring the legacy of my son and the other victims from Pogman.
And then suddenly, I thought that anything could somehow
vanish my story because the media, you know,
it's always moving with the political changes
and electoral and everything that is happening
on the political side.
But I never thought, again, me not thinking enough
that another mass shooting could happen and actually move
away the story that we were trying to tell for the six year in a row.
It's incredible.
I'm not surprised.
I gotta tell you, I'm not surprised.
It's an American tradition.
So this is the thing.
We were all watching, but we think it's the most American tradition and that was a super thing. We were all watching what we think is the most American
tradition and that was the Super Bowl. And guess what? This is the most American tradition.
And now other people will be suffering what we suffered and they will honor this day,
February 14th, next year in that location. So we're actually fighting for dates in here. I thought February 14th
was mine and I could talk about my kid. This is a reality guys and we can talk as long as we want
but it's bad. It's a terrible reality and no one seems to care enough. Another shooting will happen
and another show will go on and another guest will be popping to you.
Well, you say no one cares enough, but you do
because the closer this gets to home, the scarier it gets.
So you have started a platform, it's called the Shot Line,
it uses AI to recreate the voices of victims
who have been lost to gun violence
and you are rattling the cages of lawmakers.
Are you having any success?
Are you, are you winning in any way or do you feel as helpless as everyone else does?
No, I'm not allowed to feel helpless.
Okay.
I lost my son and then his dad.
So I have to be here fighting and the frustration is not an option.
It happens, but not this time.
So let me tell you about what we did yesterday. Very often we get an advice of call your
representative. If you want things to happen, just call your representative. We decided to
put together voices of victims using artificial intelligence, very common today and polemic.
And we were putting voices of our loved ones.
So, in other words, Joaquin will have the opportunity to call our representatives.
And we did the same thing with other victims, of course, with the blessing of the families.
Guess what?
Yesterday, we had 20,000 calls.
Close to 20,000 calls.
Last time I checked was 16,000 and something.
Calling our rep.
These guys are receiving calls from Joaquin Oliver today.
Not from me, not from Patricia.
We tried.
We went to their office.
We had meetings.
They ignore us.
I was in the Oval Office with a president in front of me
talking about this and things did not happen. So now it's time to hear the voices of those who are not here anymore. And I want to
reach a thousand voices if possible. The platform allows more people to get involved.
And that's a small victory, you know. I cannot say that I have one solution for this,
victory, you know, I cannot say that I have one solution for this, but I have a long fight, a long journey that is going to be packed with small solutions. And at some point,
they will need to give up because freedom is not what we saw yesterday. Freedom is going to
operate and enjoying, not kids being shot randomly, because we want the freedom of owning arms and owning gongs. That's not freedom at all.
That's a lie and we are the only nation that is believing that lie.
Manny, I cannot possibly know your pain obviously and you say you cannot be helpless because hope
cannot die but your son was 17 and he's been dead for six years and I don't see progress.
17 and he's been dead for six years and I don't see progress
Do you do you like I I see people like you fighting with their heart?
But I and I feel them getting microphones, but I don't feel that
Translating into the activism translating into action that is meaningful that changes results
Because this needs to be constant, you know? Gone violence is hitting us every day.
So I'm hoping that the same way that Joaquin
would have been with me watching the Super Bowl
and celebrating Travis Kelsey and everything
and the whole party.
I'm hoping that Travis gets behind a microphone
and becomes constant in this fight.
And his girlfriend too.
Like why not?
This is not something that you can show your face,
say a few things, even if you're an influencer,
just a powerful voice, which I'm not, but we need those powers of
powerful voices out there. If you just show one day, it's not going to work. You cannot
wear an orange t-shirt one day, and then think that you did something to solve the problem.
You did not. It's even worse because now you think you did something and you did nothing.
So this is about getting out there every single day.
It's hitting all of us, okay? It's not a blue or red thing. There's no distinction. It's hitting
all of us. It's not the Latino or the American or the Asian. It's hitting all of us in every single
space. There is no safe spot in here. What are we going to do? We're going to arm everyone.
We're going to give that gift to the
government manufacturers. Now we need more guns on the parades. No one will go to a parade feeling
the same way since yesterday. We all know that. So we need to hit the root of the problem.
Travis, the whole team, athletes in general. You know who was a great athlete? My son Joaquin. Very athletic. Not
like me just talking here. The old guy. No, very athletic, very into football and everything
in general. He will love to see this reaction. So I'm doing my side and I'm doing my side
after losing my son. And I think and I suggest that everyone does their side before losing
a loved one. That will be way better than what I'm dealing with.
Manny, when you say constant, what can people do on a consistent basis and do constantly
to help change, to instigate change here?
Well, number one, and the most important, don't ignore these problems. Don't
underestimate these problems. Don't think that you are safe because you are not. It's not about
carrying a gun or not. So you are part, you're a potential victim, all of us. Everyone in that
room is a potential victim. You just don't know when and where. That's it. As long as you're in the United States,
you are in danger of being hit by a bullet. And I'm giving you tools. I have specific answers
for that. I'm not fighting for peace and love. No, I'm telling you, go to right now, theshotline.org,
and you can send a message to any representative.
It's easy.
It's two steps.
You put your zip code, and it will tell you who's representing you.
By the way, it's also interesting because some people don't even know who's representing
them.
So you will put your zip code, you will see these names, and send them a message from
Joaquin, from Uzi, from Mubaldi, that beautiful voice of a nine-year-old kid
telling you, can you please do something about this so no one else goes through the same situation that we did?
That's constancy, okay? Leaders and politicians, you know what? They do what they can
according to their negotiations and benefits.
And so I'm trying to hope more on the people in general, people like you,
shows like yours, and of course, influencers.
I want to see those players complaining about this on a daily basis.
Manny, before and thank you for your time, before you leave here,
I don't know the entirety of
your family history. I am just curious based on your accent though, if you're someone who thinks
or ever thought at any point in his family's past that America would feel like this.
Let me tell you what I thought and I'm surprised that you heard my accent. I thought it was getting better with my English.
But let me tell you what I thought 20 years ago.
I thought that my kid deserve a better future.
We are from Venezuela.
I thought that my kid should have chances
that I was not seeing in my country.
And for that reason, I left everything behind,
me and my wife.
We came all the way here, start from scratch, from zero.
Very low options of job and opportunities for us.
But for the kids, we do this for the kids.
This is the future.
Now, you're looking at the future that I was hoping for my kid.
He's a legend. He's not here with me. He is a legend that is
motivating me to fight against God-vainus along with his mom. That was my
dream, was not accomplished, but I'm not gonna go anywhere. I owe that to Joaquin.
So I'm here until this gets done. It has to be so odd to you to flee all sorts of horror and this is your reality.
Like this could not, this had to seem at one time in your life like something that was
not possible in America.
No, of course not.
It was the land of opportunities.
That's the tagline, right?
Land of opportunities.
The American dream.
Well, I'm living in an American nightmare.
But it's not about me.
It's not about how I feel, honestly.
And I'm being honest with you.
I'm not trying to sound like a victim here.
I am not a victim.
Every time I feel bad, every time I feel sad,
that is very often, I try to remember
what happened to Joaquin that day.
Because I know details about that.
The suffering, the fear, running away.
The way that Joaquin was shot four times with an AR-15, that should be impactful to everybody,
not the campaign that we're putting out.
That should be impactful, the way that that lady died yesterday during the parade.
Those kids that are, we don't even know if they will be able to survive right now.
That's the pain.
So however I feel today, it's irrelevant.
I'm here, I'm talking to you, I can breathe, I'm having my coffee and I'm going to continue
doing this.
Manny, thank you for your time.
I will tell the audience again, it's a couple of easy steps. If you want to feel slightly less helpless,
the shotline.org is how it is that you can contact your lawmakers. Thank you, Manny.
I appreciate the time.
Thank you. You have a great day. Thank you, Manny.
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This show, and I think Lucy can speak to this because she tried to clear the vibes in the room the other day when an argument broke out because the Super Bowl really was decided.
We've got the audio now. We hear the chiefs on the field. It really was decided by a coach, evidently, not knowing the rules.
Oh, I told you.
And we argued about it and argued, you know, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday and argued so much that Lucy arrived and tried to clear the vibes of the room,
and successfully did with breathing exercises
and assortment of things.
Thank you.
How do we clear the vibes now to try,
because this is, Stugatz knows this better than anybody.
Like, the first couple of minutes of the show,
just in terms of temperament, can derail me.
And I don't want to spend four
hours today in the emotional space that I imagine a lot of people will just fast forward
through when they get to this later because they don't want this in their face. Why? Who
would want this in their face? Who would want Chiefs players, drunk Chiefs players who were
having a fun and funny celebration as they always do? They're going to own those over the decade because of the quarterback they have. They were having a fun and funny celebration, as they always do, they're going to own those over the decade because of the quarterback they have. They were having a fun
and funny celebration, and we live at the beginning of a 2024 that's about to get violent and dangerous.
Like, get used to this because it's not like it's going to get better this year. It's not
like we're getting less divided. It's not like we're getting less armed. How do I change the
mood to just talk about
the Miami Heats victory in Philadelphia last night?
Because I don't know how to segue
or transition into better vibes.
You're putting a lot on Lucy, I mean.
I know, that's a heavy stuff.
How about breathing exit?
Okay, but I need to.
Perhaps opening there?
I need to, opening on.
You could have just said that.
Not asking.
Okay, well now the heat, and now it's my job
to just clear this all
I think I'm making it worse or so either so back you do your thing
Anyone who doubted them no easy way to transition you know you do that thing that would have been great
I would have been polished you think you think I should have led either right here with just perk thinks the heat aren't getting out of
The first round you think that way to do this, but we will try to move on with our lives
And again, we will put out that information as the show goes on.
You know, little politics.
Stugatz...
You've done it before.
...during the break had his head in his hands.
Like Stugatz doesn't feel human things.
He's off to the next grift.
Life is something that...
It's not nice.
Not trail.
Right.
Stugatz felt something deeply.
How can you not? I'm a human being.
I know, but you're like, okay.
I got emotional, you're right.
I was crying during that segment
and my heart breaks for him
and breaks for any family that has gone through this.
Of course, it's tough to listen to.
I'll take your word for it that you were crying.
I was looking at you, I didn't see tears either.
I didn't see tears either.
But I think that life, your life, maybe you can feel human things, but it is second on the metal stand to how do I get to the next grift.
You gave him the credit for being emotional and he's like, oh shit, I cried Dan, I was over here.
I weeped. I think part of the brutal thing in this country
is that occasionally.
You just be lying about my tears.
Occasionally, there will be tragedies.
You didn't cry.
No one saw you cry.
My eyes were stinging.
I had one.
We saw it.
Look.
Your head was in your hands and you were emotional.
You were emotional.
You did not cry. It was an unnecessary
lie. Continue, Mike. No, I'm good. Continue. I would just say that occasionally, look, this is
a part of everyday American life. And I do think that it is perfectly human to not have it emotionally
register the same way each time. That's just how life goes. Occasionally there'll be something be it at an elementary school, a high school, a place
that you see yourself at that registers a little bit differently.
I think especially given Stu's proximity to Marjorie Stoneman Douglas and being that
it was the anniversary of that, I can understand how this was triggering and traumatizing and
certainly brings out a little bit more emotional
emotion than usual.
Advocacy is important.
I kind of, when we workshop, how do we do today's show and you see the guest list and you're like, yeah,
this is a drag. No one wants to do this, really.
No one wants to stay there
But with the platform that we have with the passionate audience that we have I do think it's important to
persist
You can't stop you can't be fatigued with something like this
Especially when the majority of the nation the vast majority of the nation wants something done
It can differ what that something is across party lines.
I think most people just want something.
If you want more good guys with guns in school,
if you think that's the answer, fine.
That's in some way, shape, or form, that's progress.
If you think that this is a mental health issue, fine.
Let's do something there.
If you think it goes far beyond that, fine.
See if we can make some inroads there. I
just
get broken by it
but I do think that what you did in having that gentleman on was important and we shouldn't stop.
One of the many heartbreaking things about that conversation, Stugatz, because I don't know if you could get a lot more heartbreaking
anywhere than losing a child. One day you're not thinking about it at all and then he doesn't come home
and your American dream, you're spending the next six years advocating because the pain
does not leave you because you didn't get a chance for goodbye, you didn't think that
would be it and for him to say, because do say because to us this feels like something out of the apocalypse
that he's on television talking about the six year anniversary and there's
another
shooting and he realizes now i'm gonna have to fight for this date
my son is going to get a race by the time that it hit the super bowl
celebration valentine's day to him going to get erased by the time that it hit the Super Bowl celebration. Valentine's Day
to him is not what it is to anybody else. Valentine's Day is the day he lost his son,
his teenage son, a 17-year-old, without expecting that morning that he would ever lose his son.
And now he's got to fight for that day on activism because there are more deaths and when Mike Ryan says, Stu Gantz, that you
have to keep doing this, I do believe a numbness sets in.
I do believe we react to these differently each time and the more they happen, the less
the outrage is because the outrage isn't creating any difference in the results.
So if it's happening one
and a half times a day, like this one happened at a Super Bowl celebration, but if it had
happened in a mall somewhere in, in, in Des Moines or hell, Lucy got attacked the other
day because it happened in Iowa and she's just like, this is not okay. How can we be
okay with this? But the outrage nationally wasn't for Iowa, the same
that it is now for Kansas City because it happens at a celebration and we were all like,
wait a minute, this was a party, how can this be America?
The numbers are going in a direction that at some point everyone's lives are going to
be touched by this. Hell, our previous studio, the Cleveland area, there was a shooting at where panicked hotel visitors ran into our studio
by the dozens seeking refuge.
This is now a part of everyday American life
where you put yourself in the shoes of the victims
and understand that the reason why it hasn't happened to you
is now feeling more like a look of the draw
rather than anything else.
We won't do this every day, Dan.
We won't. We won't do this in an else. We won't do this every day, Dan. We won't.
We won't do this in an hour.
We won't do it in three hours.
In another day, something else is going to happen elsewhere,
and we'll forget about the one that just happened yesterday.
That's the cycle.
That's the rinse and repeat cycle.
Manny will be there doing it every single day.
Dan, I'm sorry.
I'm not being critical of you.
I'm just talking about the media in general. We do this. this I react to it and then we move on with our day. Okay, man. He will be there tomorrow
We won't so Stu gots
The part of this that I'm having some difficulty with for obvious reasons, okay?
This year is going to be whatever sides you're on politically and there are
nothing but taken sides now. This year is going to have more danger and
volatility in it than any we've seen and in the divisions you've got more and
more people armed and more and more people arguing about people being
armed.
Further radicalized and set in their beliefs.
Okay, but for the radicalized, three of them were at a parade yesterday
thinking differently than everyone else at that parade.
The radicalized, willing to give up whatever remains of their freedom
to try and run away from 800 police officers
because they thought they were doing something yesterday
because that radicalization in whatever the echo chambers are
whoever was reaching them was reaching them enough i think we can say this
without knowing what these
these uh... these madmen were doing i think we can say this
whatever news and information they were getting
wasn't pulling them back to be less radicalized they made a choice to give
up their lives yesterday for whatever it is they were fighting on behalf of which
is much different than the echo chamber i'm in and makes me feel unsafe as i'm
running away from these people and people are running into our studio at
the cleveland air
and i'm paying a thousand dollars a day for security because i'm scared
because how can i not be scared
because i'm having conversations for the first time with my wife of
well what happens do i need to get like rubber bullets in a gun what am I gonna do if
I run up against somebody trying to take my life and I don't believe in guns and
I don't I don't want to live in America where I have to have a gun to feel safer
I prefer to just feel safe I don't want to have the politics argument with you
about gun control I don't want to talk the politics argument with you about gun control.
I don't want to talk to you about whether or not most of gun deaths are actually suicides
instead of Chicago.
Yeah, I got exhausted by the politicization.
Politicization.
Yeah, it's a tough one.
I apologize.
I get exhausted by that because ultimately I just want more done.
And I don't think that that's a stupid retort when someone asks you, well, how did you solve it? Do more, more. What do you want done?
What do you think the solution is? Cool. Let's do some of that. Let's just do more,
do more. But in a two party system in this country, as a,
so you got highlighted earlier right now,
you're incentivized to promise that something will happen,
whether now that's something that's gonna happen,
maybe good or bad, and may bring about change or may not.
And I think you know where the candidates stand on that.
I am team do more with this,
and I'm not on a losing team here.
I'm not getting the results,
but the process says 80% of this country is with me.
In do more.
But 80% of this country, do you understand
that this is the part about America
that is really confounding to me
as somebody who has believed in whatever
the utopian ideals of America are supposed to be?
It doesn't matter what the 80% wants.
No, it's not just that.
It's that the 80%-
One of the problems.
It is one of the problems, but it's not- I mean, look at abortion statistics no, it's not just that. It's that the 80%- One of the problems. It is one of the problems, but it's not-
I mean, look at abortion statistics too.
It's not just that though.
Yes, of course, the leadership isn't doing what the people want,
and that is wrong.
But the next step on that that mortifies me
is that those 80% of people that have gotten to the point
where they're saying,
yeah, yeah, yeah, slaughtering of children,
that's not okay with me,
is that 80% of those people feel unsafe in America.
And should. Like, that's not okay with me is that eighty percent of those people feel unsafe in america and should
like that's not that's not seventy five percent of those people feel unsafe
all of those people are seeing children slaughtered in school in the result of
that is can my child be slaughtered at school and the answers yes and the
answers yes in america more than any any other country
like more than any other country you Like more than any other country, you risk sending your kid to school
and bloody photos.
And six years later, you're in Washington
creating AI of your son's voice
because you want a lawmaker to keep his voice alive
because his voice has to remain alive.