THE ED MYLETT SHOW - The Psychology of Money | Simple Money Rules That Will Make You Rich with Morgan Housel

Episode Date: March 25, 2025

Are You Making This Huge Money Mistake? Most people think they need to make more money to get rich. But what if I told you that’s exactly why they’re broke? Today, I’m sitting down with Morgan ...Housel, the author of The Psychology of Money, to completely rewire the way you think about wealth, security, and financial freedom. If you’ve ever wondered why some people who earn millions still end up broke while others with modest salaries quietly build real wealth, this episode is for you. We break down the difference between being rich and being wealthy, why chasing status is a financial trap, and how most people dramatically underestimate how much money they’ll need to stop working one day. Morgan shares why simple beats complex when it comes to investing, the real cost of debt-driven wealth, and how saving money isn’t just about you—it’s about being ready for life’s inevitable curveballs. I also open up about my own financial mindset—how fear of being broke has been a bigger driver for me than the excitement of getting rich, and why even after years of making an eight-figure income, I’ve stuck to a strategy of endurance, not shortcuts. Whether you’re just starting your financial journey or trying to level up, this conversation will challenge what you thought you knew about money. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why most people who want to be millionaires actually spend like they already are—and that’s why they stay broke The #1 habit of the wealthy (hint: it has nothing to do with income) How compounding works in real life and why it’s the most powerful tool you’re probably ignoring The psychological traps that keep you from saving and investing Why financial independence is really about having options, not just money The hidden cost of chasing status and external approval How to prepare for life’s financial curveballs—because they WILL happen At the end of the day, it’s not just about how much you make—it’s about how long you can keep it. Don’t miss this one. Listen now and take control of your financial future! 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:12 So probably the number one topic that trends on our show and we do it about once a quarter is money. And so I know today's podcast is going to be so rewarding for so many of you with new information that you've not heard before. And so we're going to talk about today really the psychology of money, but a bunch of tactical stuff too if I'm being honest, after having read this man's book. And by the way, the title of his book is the psychology of money and it's blowing up and
Starting point is 00:02:41 you're going to see why it's blowing up here in a minute because we've got a ton to teach you regarding your mindset on money. And it's blowing up and you're gonna see why it's blowing up here in a minute because we've got a ton to teach you Regarding your mindset on money. I don't know if we could cover anything more important during these times right now Which are pretty tumultuous when it comes to markets and interest rates and things like that. So Morgan hausel welcome to the show brother. We got a lot to talk about today. Thanks so much for having me ed It's good to have you. Let's start out with something very basic. Most people are broke. They don't know they're broke, but they're broke because they get a paycheck
Starting point is 00:03:11 every single month and they spend it at the mall or they blow it on Amazon. But they are broke, meaning they are a couple missed paychecks away from devastation in their lives. Why are most people broke? Well, there's two, two different ways to look at this, Ed. One, at the very high level, you know, there are 8 billion people on this planet. My guess is probably 5 billion of them are well fed. They have adequate shelter. They are adequately closed. And to the extent that that is true, virtually all of their problems in life come from their expectations, because their definition
Starting point is 00:03:46 of what a good, happy life should be is above that. Now that is how it should be. We live in a modern world where people should have more than basic food and shelter. But the point I'm trying to make is that for a lot of people, their financial misery, if they have that, or their financial disappointment, is because they are expecting a life that is in excess of what they can have. And therefore, the key to their problems is not always to earn more money, although that can be a huge component of it. It's to put as much emphasis in managing your expectations
Starting point is 00:04:14 as you do in improving your circumstances. And there are a lot of people who are, by any definition, rich. They might earn millions of dollars per year. And to your point, they are broke. They are financially and psychologically broke. They are financially broke because they spend everything that they earn, if not more, and they're psychologically broke because despite earning that much income, they expect to earn that much, to live a lifestyle that is in excess of that. Millionaires look up to billionaires, billionaires look up to centibillionaires,
Starting point is 00:04:42 et cetera. The other point here is I made this point in my book, and I made these definitions up myself. This is not academic research, but the difference between rich and wealthy and rich in my definition was you have a paycheck to make your car payment and your mortgage and your rent and you go out to dinner. That's like that's rich. Wealthy is the money that you didn't spend. It's money in the bank that is invested, that is saved, that gives you a sense of independence and autonomy. It's the money that you did not spend. And
Starting point is 00:05:08 I made this point too, that when most people say, I want to be a millionaire, what they actually mean is I want to spend a million dollars. And that to me is, that's literally the opposite of a millionaire. A millionaire is somebody who made a million dollars and did not spend it. And look, I'm not, I'm not a complete, uh, miser, save everything, don't go out to dinner, buy your clothes at Kmart. That's, that's not my philosophy at all. But to me, the highest calling of money is independence and autonomy. That's what's going to give you the best life. And I'm a fan of nice homes and nice cars and nice clothes, all of it. But what I, what I want out of money and what I think most
Starting point is 00:05:44 people actually want out of money too what I think most people actually want out of money too is independence. And you're going to get that from what you don't spend. Well, I think you're right. And I, I think about my own mindset, by the way, I know what everybody thinks. They think, well, once I make more than I'll establish these patterns, these savings patterns. And that is one of the great lies of life that if you
Starting point is 00:06:05 can't believe it or not, even on minimum wage, find a way to put $10 a month away $15 a month away just creating the habits of what a wealthy person to your point does. You won't do it when you're making $75,000 a year. You won't do it when you're when you make $75,000 you're driving a Honda when you get to, now you got a Lexus, and maybe you own a house instead of rent. And then when you make 150, you're gonna get around to it then, except now you got a bigger house,
Starting point is 00:06:31 and now you drive a Mercedes. And this number, this finish line keeps moving. And so it really is what you teach in your books, which is the mindsets of wealthy people. And it shouldn't be predicated on your income. You either pay yourself first and save some money or you don't and I have friends to your point Morgan who makes $600,000 a year who are broke they do have a Bentley and they actually have a second little beach house but they are broke stressed
Starting point is 00:07:02 and heading for the wrong place and I have other friends who are school teachers. In fact, I was just thinking of my brother-in-law. He's an airplane mechanic, and his wife is a part-time nurse. They're now in their 60s. They have their home paid off, and they have seven figures in their 401k, and seven figures outside of their 401k. They are wealthy people who have never made lots and lots of money. So, now that we know what the broke people do whether the top three patterns that rich people do what do they do?
Starting point is 00:07:30 That's different paint the contrast. I Think if there's the biggest one and it would be that their benchmark of success is internal It is it stays confined in the walls of their own house and their level of success is, am I, my spouse, my kids, maybe two or three of my friends, do I use my money to make them happy and give them a better life? I've called this the humble bubble, where it's like, I want to live inside of a bubble where my measure of success is confined to the walls of my own house. And the reason that's the case is because as soon as I start looking at you and other people and people on Instagram and Twitter and saying, do I have more
Starting point is 00:08:08 than they do? Is my house better than theirs? That's a game that you can never win. And I think the people who are actually wealthy, who can use their money for independence, they measure their success relative to a very small group of people who they actually love and admire rather than an endless group of strangers online. That's a big part of this. The other thing is like how relative wealth is. Chris Rock made this joke and like most comedy, it's funny because it's true. He said, if Bill Gates woke up with Oprah's money, he jumped out the window.
Starting point is 00:08:37 And it's so true that there are so many people to your point who might earn $50,000 a year and they are actually wealthy. They have more money than they will ever need to be happy. There are so many people to your point who might earn $50,000 a year and they are actually wealthy. They have more money than they will ever need to be happy. And then there are people who make literally billions of dollars who wake up every morning feeling inadequate. And if you consider that like some people are just much more efficient at turning money into happiness than others.
Starting point is 00:08:58 I've written about my grandmother-in-law, my wife's grandmother. She's now deceased, but she for 30 years, she lived off of nothing but social security. I think she made $1,700 a month and she had nothing else, no savings, no pension. And she was one of the happiest people you'll ever meet. She was so content. She loved going for walks in the morning and gardening and like talking to her kids. Like she had everything she needed and she had virtually no money, but she had psychological wealth.
Starting point is 00:09:23 And I think that is a point for a lot of people, whether you, no matter how much money you make, if you have this component of psychological wealth or psychological debt that can, that can add to a little bit of money, or it can subtract from a lot of money. Well, I, I'm loving this by the way. I think we've developed in our culture, an addiction to other people's approval. And if you suffer from that addiction, you're more than likely going to be broke. I mean, that's a bold statement to make. But for the most part, if you're addicted to gain the
Starting point is 00:09:53 approval of other people, particularly for shallow surface level things like your shoes or your purse or your car, you probably can end up broke. And although you come from kind of a different world, the Instagram way of getting wealthy that's taught by everybody now, and by the way, there's some validity to it, but I want to cut to the chase a little bit today for giving people the perspective that they just no longer hear. The Instagram way to get wealthy is to use debt to get wealthy. That's the cool thing now. Buy apartment buildings, buy rental properties, borrow borrow borrow borrow and they sort of poo poo the millionaire
Starting point is 00:10:29 next door, Dave Ramsey and I really come down somewhere in the middle. I have friends who have leveraged and used debt to become very wealthy but I have way more who tried to do that than went absolutely ass broke doing it at some point because they used to be wealthy but it's just one economic cycle away way more who tried to do that than went absolutely ass broke doing it at some point. Because they used to be wealthy, but it's just one economic cycle away from them wiping out everything they've made. I have far more friends who are wealthy, who did it the millionaire next door way. They live below their means.
Starting point is 00:10:58 They save. There's a huge amount of survivorship bias in the get wealthy with debt idea. Yes, there are people who have done it and you will see, you will hear their stories on Instagram for every one of those people. There are 10 people who went broke. Correct. Maybe 50 in my opinion. Yes.
Starting point is 00:11:13 And actually I know two thirds of them that teach it and they are currently broke as they teach it. And so I'm not saying that debt is not a pathway to wealth. It can be, but there's another pathway. And that's what I wanna talk about today. And I think that the understanding of compounding is something that should have been taught probably third grade, third, fourth grade.
Starting point is 00:11:37 And it's not even taught to most people who have an MBA. Compounding on their money. So let's talk about this so that people go, well, how else would I ever get wealthy? I mean, a hundred bucks a month, 300 bucks a month, that's never going to add up to anything unless you understand how money compounds. So let's talk about that a little bit
Starting point is 00:11:56 because it's in the book and it's awesome. Yeah, the first thing that I would say, Ed, and this might be a little disappointing for people, but I think there's a lot of truth to it. Warren Buffett has talked about what he calls the money mind. And what he says is like, some people have the money mind and some people don't. So when you talk about teaching compounding, I think for a lot of people, the people who do very well over it, who do very well with money, it's not necessarily because they were taught, it's because they are wired to naturally understand
Starting point is 00:12:20 compounding. Because really what compounding is, is just using time as your lever to get rich. And, and the takeaway from that, for me, at least in terms of investing has been, it doesn't necessarily make that much of a difference. What your annual returns are, how much your returns are going to be this year or next year. What matters is how long can you keep it going for? And the secret is if you can be merely good for a long period of time, you'll end up excellent. That's like, that's the disconnect that I think that most people
Starting point is 00:12:49 miss. It's like, if they want to become wealthy, their solution is how do I become excellent, excellent at investing, excellent at business, excellent at, at their career. And there's some validity to that. But the way more important variable there is just how long can you keep it going for? If you can be average for an above average period of time, you will lead to excellence. And it is a much higher odds of it coming true than trying to get rich with debt, let's say. And so that's, I think that's the biggest thing about compounding is like you are like, what lever do you use in life? Are you trying to use intelligence, grit, grind? Yes, those
Starting point is 00:13:21 can work. There's another lever here, which is just time. And people don't want to do that because people are impatient. And the social media world has made them even more impatient, but there is no stronger lever that exists. And there is no lever that like puts the odds of success in your favor more than time. Really, really good. I'm loving this. Okay.
Starting point is 00:13:39 I've had a lot of money experts on the show and one thing, none of them are ever willing to answer. It's okay if you're not. I can't because I'm licensed. Where should they put their money? Like where should they put it? So this is a tough one and I know everybody, there's no guarantees of anything.
Starting point is 00:13:54 But if someone's listening, okay, I need to live below my means. I need to have time work for me. I need to not have the addiction of other people's approval. And I got to set a little bit of money aside, it sounds like here starting right yesterday. Where? Any thoughts on that? The reason that I will give you a wishy-washy answer is not because I'm licensed. It's because I truly think that everyone is different. And what works for me might not work for you,
Starting point is 00:14:14 not because we disagree with each other, just because we're different people. But I think what's true for most people, not everybody, but it's true for most people, is a financial and asset allocation that favors simplicity over complexity. The reason people want complexity with their investments is because they think that there should be an association between effort and results, that the harder you try, the better you're going to do. Everything we know about investing shows that it is the opposite, that the harder you try, the worse you're going to do for the vast majority of people. And so I'll tell you how I invest just putting my cards on the table. My entire net worth is this house, uh, cash and index funds and shares of a
Starting point is 00:14:52 company called Mark Hellworm on the board of directors, and that's it. It is the simplest thing you could possibly imagine. And the reason I keep it that simple is because the variable that I'm trying to maximize for is endurance. I just want to make sure that the stocks that I do own, I can hold them for the next 30 or 40 or 50 years. And if I can, the returns will be absolutely astronomical in terms of like the actual number of dollars
Starting point is 00:15:14 that I accumulate over time. And I think that's true for most people, that you can favor, if you favor simplicity over the allure or the appearance of complexity, that's where you're gonna end up doing the best. That is not to say that you can't make money in real estate or trading or crypto or anything like that, but I think you have the highest odds of success
Starting point is 00:15:32 of doing well over the course of your lifetime if you favor an investing strategy that is simple over complex. I also think there's an advantage to at least believing you have some measure of control over your destiny and your future and you stipulate in the book and that's why I just think having a strategy doing something you know look we can't predict a world event or an
Starting point is 00:15:57 economic crash we can't predict any of those things but the idea of having some control over your life and and I watch Friends of Mine, rare occasion if I'm at a mall or something, and this is my thought when I see most people. And obviously, anyone who listens to my show or watches knows I love human beings. And I'm shocked at the extent that it's become normalized to live out of control, just day to day to live out of control, and not even realize that it's abnormal because almost everybody around you is doing it. So let's talk about that because the psychology of money is really what we're talking about. What's the impact on that of living an out of control life financially?
Starting point is 00:16:44 Well, here's one thing, one framework that I've thought about this. What are the odds that at least one of the following will apply to you and me and everybody during the course of your life? Major job loss, divorce, cancer, wayward children. You know, going down the list, what are the odds that at least one of those will apply to you? The odds are virtually 100%.
Starting point is 00:17:07 And for a lot of people, all of those will apply to them. But most people, including me, by the way, do not want to admit that because it would be too hard to get out of bed in the morning. So even if we know that life is filled with like all kinds of curve balls and challenges, et cetera, et cetera, not even at the individual level, but the macro level, 9-11, COVID, all these things. It's too hard to admit that because we wanna wake up every morning and say, I'm making good decisions
Starting point is 00:17:32 and my future is clear in front of me. That's what makes it easiest to get out of bed in the morning. And because of that, I think people systematically underestimate the odds of financial hardship. So if you looked at my net worth, a lot of people, including financial advisors, would say, why do you have so much cash?
Starting point is 00:17:49 What are you saving for? Are you saving for a new house? And I would say, I have no idea. I'm saving for a world that I know is completely unpredictable. I'm saving for a world in which bad things that I don't want to happen are going to happen to me and you and everybody.
Starting point is 00:18:02 And so I think our tendency to just underestimate how challenging life can be leads people to live on the edge like this. And by the way, I think it's important to say, I'm absolutely an optimist, not just about my own life, my own career, but the world in general. Like I have very high confidence that my kids and grandkids will be living a much better life than you and I are. But you can believe that and at the same time say, look, in 50 years, the world's going to be way better than it is today, but it's going to be extremely difficult to get there. It's going to be a nonstop chain of landmines and bombs going off. And to get to that endpoint 50 years from now, I need to make sure that I have enough financial and psychological endurance to endure everything that's going to be thrown at me along the way.
Starting point is 00:18:49 And so that's like my ability to not live on the edge is not because I'm pessimistic. It's actually because I'm very optimistic and I want to make sure that I had the endurance to get there in the future. I'm really loving this just because it is sort of, it's crazy to say this out loud because 20 years ago before social media wasn't, but what we're discussing right now is actually counterculture. It's crazy to me, but it's counterculture. Not having a ton of debt and not spending everything you make is somehow counterculture today. And I will, I will just say this to everybody listening. I want to go back to that debt thing. There's a pathway with that, but I have to be candid with everybody.
Starting point is 00:19:27 Most of you know that watch the show. I made an eight figure income now for 20 something straight years. I've got a nine figure net worth, multiple, multiple, multiple, multiple, multiple nine figures. I don't say that to brag. I say that to acknowledge something he said and our portfolio sound very similar. I carry a ton of cash and I have money in my homes and some index stuff and then a sprinkling of investments in businesses that I'm involved with.
Starting point is 00:19:55 And anytime I varied outside of that, I've mainly lost money. Almost every single time I've broken that rule, I have lost money. And I say that to everybody just because that started at McKinley orphanage home for boys $6.50 an hour and I started putting $20 a month into a mutual fund at 21 years old That's where it started and I got excited when that thing got to 300 bucks And I got more excited when it got to 800 and I was showing my friends when it was at And I got more excited when it got to 800 and I was showing my friends when it was at
Starting point is 00:20:30 3,000 and they were buying their car and I was driving my Honda CRX with 120,000 miles on it and I had 4,800 bucks in that fund. I'm just telling you I'm acknowledging many of the things this man is saying So hey guys, I want to jump in here for a second and talk about change and growth and you know, by the way It's no secret how people get ahead in life or how they grow and also taking a look at the future. If you want to change your future you got to change the things you're doing. If you continue to do the same things you're probably going to produce the same results. But if you get into a new environment where you're learning new things and you're around other people that are growth oriented you're much more likely to do that yourself and that's why I love Growth Day. Write this down for a second
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Starting point is 00:23:43 of uh wealth? You talk about it in the book, but what gets worse when you make money? Maybe not wealth, but what gets worse when you make money? Yeah, I heard this amazing anecdote from Will Smith. He wrote about this in his biography. He said, when he was poor and depressed, he could tell himself, if only I had more money,
Starting point is 00:24:01 my life would be better. And it gave him a sense of hope. So he woke up every morning and be like, I gotta get the money, because once I get the money, my life would be better. And it gave him a sense of hope. So he woke up every morning and be like, I got to get the money because once I get the money, my life will be great. And then he said, once he became rich and he was still depressed, he had no hope. He could not tell himself if only I had more money because he had all the money he could ever spend and he was still depressed. And so, look, that's the ultimate first world problems.
Starting point is 00:24:19 But I think a lot of very wealthy people hit this kind of zone where they tell themselves, if only my net worth was X, all my problems will go away. And then they hit X and they're like, oh, I'm actually sadder than ever. And then once you lose hope, that's when it starts to unravel. Rick Rubin had this saying, he's like, you only become depressed once you've hit your dreams. Once you've achieved your dreams, that's when you come truly depressed because you realize it did not fix you. I think there's a lot of truth to that. That's one point. The other is what I call social debt, which is this idea that the wealthier you become,
Starting point is 00:24:53 it changes how people think about you in different ways. And you realize that people will pretend to be your friends and they look at you different and whatnot. I had this amazing experience a couple of years ago where I was doing some consulting with a group of young NBA athletes. They were like NBA rookies. And the idea was, Hey, go talk to them to try to prevent them from going bankrupt, which the majority of professional athletes do. And one of these, one of these athletes, he was, he was an NBA rookie.
Starting point is 00:25:19 I think he was 20 or 21. And he said something I thought was so profound. He was like, the reason professional athletes go broke is not because they bought themselves five mansions and a bouncing car. The reason they go broke is because they bought their fifth cousin, who they barely know, a modest house. And they had so much social pressure to take care of their family. A lot of these athletes come from inner city poverty.
Starting point is 00:25:42 And once they start making $10 million a year, they cannot tell their cousin and their grandma and their barber back at home, screw you guys, I got my money, best of luck to you. They have so much social pressure to take care of their family. And that's wonderful. Of course, taking care of your family is a wonderful thing. But that is what I define as social debt.
Starting point is 00:25:59 It is once you make money, the social pressures that you have to spend it a certain way and to spend it on others explode massively. And if you talk to any level of billionaires, they will tell you this. The number of letters that they get from very well-meaning people, you know, a single mother who has a five-year-old daughter with cancer and the mother says, please, I just need 100 grand to save my daughter's life. You get those letters all day long.
Starting point is 00:26:22 And of course, they're good people who want to do well in the world. But that's like, that's that's a downside. Now, I think we should all be lucky enough to have that challenge in life. But let's not pretend that it's not a challenge. Well, by the way, I think you make a great point there. I want to it's a correlated point. You describe the scenarios that are likely to happen to your life, a job interruption, a wayward child. But one of the other things that a lot of you don't realize is that your parents may need you at some point. Some of you are in a generation where you are gonna get to an age where you're gonna be taking care of your children and need to help your parents at the
Starting point is 00:26:57 same time. And so for a lot of you, you won't save money for you. You won't. But you might, I might be able to get you today to start saving money because you love your family so much. And there will be times in your life, I'm 54 this month, where the people you love truly do need you. I'm not talking about the fifth cousin who you barely know. And by the way, I've had a lot of those come out of the woodwork in my life. I'm talking about your parents, your children, your grandchildren, your brothers or sisters. And if you want to be there in their life, ask yourself, is that purse really
Starting point is 00:27:30 worth it right now? Are these pair of shoes really worth it? Is that watch really worth it? Or is your mom worth it? Is your daughter worth it? Do you want to be able to take advantage of opportunities when they come because you have a little bit of cash? So what do you think about all of those things? And there's just incidences in our lives that teach us money lessons in the book Morgan you talk about sort of a tragic incident that taught you One of your most valuable lessons about money if you don't mind sharing that with everybody. I think it's something people will remember Yeah, I grew up as a competitive ski racer in late, Tahoe, California And I had this
Starting point is 00:28:06 event happen to me when I was 17 years old. Myself and my two best friends at the time were skiing out of bounds, which is illegal. You duck under the ropes that say, do not cross, and that's where you get the amazing skiing and it was awesome. And I'll tell the shorter version of the story. I skied this run out of bounds with my two friends and it was awesome. And we get to the bottom, we would hitchhike back because it's out of bounds. There's no chairlift. And they wanted to do it again. And I said, Hey, rather than hitchhiking back, why don't you two go do it and
Starting point is 00:28:36 I'll pick you up so you don't have to hitchhike. I'll drive around the mountain and pick you up in my truck. They went and did it. And the short version of the story to get to the point was they were killed in a massive avalanche during this period. And of course, I, you know, I always have to make the point that I'm not unique in the sense that I've lost people close to me. Virtually everybody has that, but this was my version of it. And one of the things that it taught me early on was, I mean, two points about risk that I think have much broader meanings. One is that my decision to not go with them on that run was the most important decision I've ever made in my life.
Starting point is 00:29:14 Nothing matters more. 100% chance I would have died with them if I went with them. And so it's this reminder and indication of how ridiculously fragile life can be. That your decision, that a decision that you make that is to go complete, no, like you're It's this reminder and indication of how ridiculously fragile life can be. A decision that you make that is a complete no, like you're not thinking of it whatsoever. You're not making a list of pros and cons and whatnot. It's just a brainless decision that you make can be, can completely transform your life. Sometimes that's positive, sometimes that's negative, but it's this reminder to be a little bit humble about how ridiculously fragile life is. The other thing that taught me was we knew that skiing out of bounds was dangerous.
Starting point is 00:29:50 We knew it was wrong, but we thought the consequences of that risk might mean that we would get yelled at by our coaches or we would have our season passes revoked. Never in a million years do we think the consequences of the risks that we took meant that we die? We're 17-year-old boys. We didn't think like that. But once you start thinking about the worst case scenario for a lot of these things, you can't see it in any other light. And maybe I think that did rub off on me financially that I have no desire to take massive risks to get rich quickly overnight, because I want to avoid catastrophes at all costs. It's like playing Russian roulette.
Starting point is 00:30:27 Like there is no amount of winnings in Russian roulette that would be worth it, because everybody understands the downside. The downside is you die. And I think there are versions of that in finance. There is no gain that would be worth it for me if the downside is bankruptcy for my family and my kids. There's nothing that would be worth it like that.
Starting point is 00:30:45 So once you see the world in a worst case scenario lens, again, I'm an optimistic person, I'm optimistic about the world, et cetera, et cetera. But, but you avoid catastrophe at all costs and put endurance as like the highest goal that you have financially. Also, wow, that's, that's a crazy story, by the way. That is a crazy story. What a metaphor, too. You know, I think about people who make good decisions in their life until they don't.
Starting point is 00:31:18 My book, The Power of One More, I say you're one decision away from changing your life. And people always assume that means a good one. That, you know, if you make one decision, you can shift your life. It's also true to the negative. Oh yeah. Like that day, the decision you made not to go and not that they made the wrong decision, it just ended up being that decision. I just had someone who was driving me in an Uber and wonderful woman. We started talking about her children and she had a wonderful child, 23 years old. He made one decision one night to drink and drive.
Starting point is 00:31:48 And that night he hit somebody and killed them. And he's now in prison for 25 years and he took a life. But that one decision changed his life. And I make this point to lead to here, everybody. Some of you will get on track today. This, let me tell you what I've observed. And I'll let Morgan talk to it. And you're going to be like, Oh, I'm going to changed his life and I make this point to lead to hear everybody some of you will get on track today this let me tell you what I've observed and I'll let Morgan talk to it and you do start the right habits and psychology with money
Starting point is 00:32:13 you do start saving you take advantage of compounding you live below your means you allow risk mitigation to kick in until until the one temptation so you get a stack of money finally you get 50 50 grand or 100 grand and then I find once people do that, then they can't risk the temptation of blowing that on something. So they go five, six, seven, eight years, do the right things and then in a weak moment or immediate gratification moment, they blow their stack of paper on something and then they're broke. I have more friends as you say in your book that used to be wealthy than currently are. So talk about the consistency and resisting the temptation as the temptation gets bigger
Starting point is 00:32:56 because the temptation to blow 80 bucks now is far different than 80 grand later. It's a bigger temptation. Yeah, two things come to mind here. One is the idea, this is true for all areas of life, that good news tends to be very slow and bad news happens very quick. So good news is like slow compounding over 10 or 20 years where you look back individually
Starting point is 00:33:17 or at the economy or at the world, you're like, man, over the last 30 years, we've made a lot of progress. Bad news is not like that. Bad news is very quick. It's 9-11, COVID, Lehman Brothers goes bankrupt. Bad news happens in an instant. And there's no equivalent of 9-11 for good news. There's no equivalent where the world gets way better in 30 minutes. That happens on the downside, but not the good side. And so one thing that goes from that too is that in investing,
Starting point is 00:33:46 you do not need to make a lot of good decisions over time to do very well. You just have to avoid not screwing up. If you could just make a series of okay average decisions and never screw up, the odds that you're going to do well are extraordinary over time, particularly for investing in the stock market. And most people have the opposite approach. Their view is like, how can I be a genius every day? And in doing so, they increase the odds that they're going to make a catastrophic mistake
Starting point is 00:34:13 that they can never recover from. And it's so incredibly common. I think you see this kind of in the Robinhood investing mentality, which is geared around trading. There's almost no investing mentality that goes on in the Robinhood app. It's all quick trading. And that is enticing to people because of the idea that to do well, you need to be a genius.
Starting point is 00:34:35 You need to make a lot of brilliant decisions when it's almost the exact opposite. You just have to be okay and never screw up. I mean, that's true for relationships as well. I remember reading this study in psychology that was like most good marriages that endure and have a lot of happiness, not because the partners are making like tons of like great loving, like constantly reminding their partner how much they love them. It's because there's a lack of screw ups. It's a lack of mistakes.
Starting point is 00:34:59 It's not the good moments that they have. It's the avoidance of fights that leads to a great marriage. I think there are so many analogies with that with money. It's not the brilliant decisions. It's the lack of screw-ups Speaking of that. I'm just curious as your opinion is a timely thing I had it not added in my notes But when you said it it made me think about it just because the time of this recording It's starting to have some impact on the world But so this is a broader financial question nothing in your book. Just want to know your impact on the world. But so this is a broader financial question, nothing in your book,
Starting point is 00:35:25 just want to know your thoughts on it. How do you feel about this whole tariff thing that's taking place because it is now having impacts on the market? And could that be one of those really bad decisions in your mind or really good decisions in your mind for the economy? Just curious as your thought on it. Yeah. What's interesting is that the economics profession does not agree on that much because it's a very political profession.
Starting point is 00:35:52 It's hard to separate the, you know, being, you're talking about the economy from politics. So it's a very contentious profession. If there is one single topic that virtually every academic economist agrees on, it's that tariffs suck. There's virtually no debate about that among professional economic circles. single topic that virtually every academic economist agrees on, it's that tariffs suck. There's virtually no debate about that among professional economic circles.
Starting point is 00:36:10 I think what's interesting is that almost every economic crisis and recession happens from an outside event that policymakers and Congress can't control. 9-11, the housing bubble, it's like you got hit by an asteroid and there's nothing you can do about it. This is a situation, I think, where there's effectively a button on the president's desk that says, do you want to cause some turmoil? And the button got pushed. Now, that does not have to be a partisan thing because there's a long history of tariffs in the 1920s, in the 1960s and 70s. This is not the first time we've done this by any means.
Starting point is 00:36:45 So it's not to say that Trump is the first one going down this path and look at him doing the thing. A lot of people have tried this. I think there's a broader point though, that a lot of people from both parties have tried this and it always sucks. So I think that's that there's a point that that
Starting point is 00:37:00 does not dissuade me from being optimistic about the future. Economic volatility and policy mistakes is the entire history of economic history. Right. And by the way, everybody, I asked that question knowing that many of you believe, hey, but the tables aren't equal. And so I'm willing to go through some short-term pain to get some equivalency in how we trade with the world. I'm not asking the question as a political one. I'm asking it as an economic one, because I might even agree with some of you on that. I would like to see trade become a little bit more
Starting point is 00:37:27 equalized. But having said that, you should at least know what people that are smart think it's going to do to your money. And speaking of that, I got, it's like a random question, but I get asked it a lot and I ask friends of mine this a lot. And it's got to do with kids. Let's say you are a saver. You're listening to the show. Do you think you should be saving money for your kids? It's in the book, but I'm asking you on the show. Do you think you should save money for your children? It depends on what you're going to do with it. When I look back at my childhood, I think my parents used their money that they had to give me and my siblings a safety net, but never a fuel.
Starting point is 00:38:05 That was not explicit. It was just like looking back at how it worked where my parents, you know, by the time I was 17, it was like, best of luck to you. We're not going to give you money for rent or food or any of that. Like you're a big boy now, go do it. And I struggled in the early years as everyone would, but I always knew even if they didn't say it, that if I fell flat on my face, they would be there to help me. And so they didn't actually spend that money on me.
Starting point is 00:38:27 They didn't write me a check, but I knew it was there if I needed it. And that was everything that gave me confidence. It helped me sleep at night when things were rocky. So I think that is an amazing way to use money for your children without actually writing them a check, just knowing that they can go out in the world and take risks and experience life. And they're never going to fall too far. It's not that they're not going to fall at all, but they're never going to be homeless.
Starting point is 00:38:48 I always knew that my parents would give me a place to live and a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and health care if I needed it. And so then I could go out and do it. I think it is virtually impossible to give, to actually write your kids a check for money that they don't necessarily need, desperately need, and have it not impact their motivation in life or not like seriously distort their sense of progress and wellbeing and whatnot. It's virtually impossible. There are some examples of it. You know, if Elon Musk had inherited a billion dollars when he was 18,
Starting point is 00:39:23 it would not have slowed him down. We would not have slowed down his ambitions whatsoever. But 99.9% of people, it will. If you just give them money, it's going to slow down their ambition. And so there's a great Warren Buffett quote where he says, give your kids enough money so that they can do anything, but not so much money that they can do nothing. And I think there is a related point here that that level of money of giving your kids money that's going to slow down their ambition is not that much. It is not that much money. So a lot of wealthy families are like, Oh, you know, I give my
Starting point is 00:39:52 son, my daughter 2000 bucks a month to help them out. Well, 2000 bucks a month when you're 21 years old is a ton of money. That is a ton of money. So there's a lot of parents who mean very well and they desperately do not want to spoil their kids, but it's actually extremely easy and common to do it. Great answer. I struggle with that. I struggle with when do they get off the Amazon account? When do they get their own insurance?
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Starting point is 00:42:11 how money works on Greenlight. So start your risk-free Greenlight trial today at Greenlight.com slash ed. That's Greenlight.com slash ed to get started. Greenlight.com slash ed. When I say, when I think of money, I've got to be honest with everybody, my mindset, I've always been more afraid of being broke than excited about being rich and maybe that's a terrible thing to live in some sort of a psychological fear. I'm sure it's unhealthy actually.
Starting point is 00:42:42 I don't think it's unhealthy at all. I don't think, I think that's the right mentality. And I think you can use an analogy with health here. Would you, if you had a genie and the genie says, I can give you one of two things, I can either give you, like the first option is I'll give you the most incredible athletic body that is possible. You're going to be the best athlete, the fastest runner, the best weightlifter. That's one option.
Starting point is 00:43:05 Or option B, I can just make sure that you never get terminal illness. Which one of those you'd take? I think most people would say, I would rather cap my downside than have a ridiculous upside. Maybe some people would not. Maybe that's not black and white
Starting point is 00:43:17 as I just made it out to be, but that would be me. If I had those two options of, you can either be the most ridiculous athlete or I can ensure that you're never gonna get terminal cancer. I would absolutely take that. And it's true for my finances as well, that if that same genie said,
Starting point is 00:43:32 I can either make you a multi-billionaire or I can just ensure that you're gonna be really comfortable for the rest of your and your kid's life. Again, this is not black and white. Some people might take option A. I would probably take option B. And I don't think that's an unhealthy fear. I think most people, if you actually, you know,
Starting point is 00:43:51 give them some true serum and put a gun to their head, and you said, what do you want out of life? Like, if most people do not aspire, I think, it's interesting and curious to think about becoming super rich and famous. But what most people actually want is just like, I just want a comfortable life for me and my kids and my spouse and a couple of my friends.
Starting point is 00:44:08 That's, that's, that's actually way more appealing and realistic for most people. And by the way, I want you're right where I wanted to go. So this is what I mean, one of my favorite moments on the show this year, right here, I want to, it's been on my mind. What you just said. So I've thought a lot about our culture and even what I teach and what I do and I shared earlier my net worth done you know pretty pretty well. My daughter went because she's blessed she got a chance to go
Starting point is 00:44:35 study abroad for a month this summer in college she was in Italy and like many of my friends that have come back from there she goes daddy I think they get it over there. And I said, Honey, what do you mean? And she said, Well, I would never want to not live in the United States. But she said, It just seems like their quality of life is a little higher, daddy. And I and she said, Again, I want to live in freedom and I want to be in the United States.
Starting point is 00:44:58 But she said, The more I was there, the more I realized how much everything here is you get up and you hunt and chase all day. And then it's all about cold plunging and resting and recovering. So you can get up and fight and chase again and climb and climb and climb and climb. And she said, I felt like over there, you know, daddy, it's okay to take a two or three hour lunch and not everybody works six days a week. And they just laugh a little bit more and seem a little bit happier. And of course I went back at her with the normal per yeah but Bella
Starting point is 00:45:27 daddy's about the ultimate expression of himself and creating and expanding and and I am about that and I would be miserable sitting at three-hour lunches every day I have to be honest but there's somewhere in between the two and when I started the pursuit of becoming wealthy, I had equated wealth with freedom to choose to have that three hour lunch or that two week vacation or that round of golf where my phone doesn't ring.
Starting point is 00:45:55 And then quite honestly, I've never really gotten around to doing the freedom part, even though I've got a bunch of money and I'm 54 now. And so talk about money and freedom, what it means to you and maybe what the mindset ought to be or could be for somebody as they look at their money as opposed to what you just said about having the jet and the island, maybe it's more about having a great life.
Starting point is 00:46:22 What's interesting about American culture to contrast it with Europe as your daughter did, is I think in America, we wanna benefit the whole at the sacrifice of the individual. So we wanna create amazing new technologies and become more productive, even if that comes at the sacrifice
Starting point is 00:46:38 of our own individual life and spending time with our kids and sleeping well, we are willing to commute and work 100 hours a week to create a new technology that's gonna benefit the world and benefit the Europeans, even if it comes at the expense of our own life. And we've always been like that. That was true 200 years ago.
Starting point is 00:46:53 I think it'll be true 200 years from now. Whereas I think a lot of other cultures would say, we would rather the whole slow down a little bit and we're not gonna create a lot of amazing businesses or amazing technologies, but we're gonna spend a lot of time with our family and, and, and, and live a great life. I can see the pros and cons to each. Sure.
Starting point is 00:47:09 You get problems. Yes. You, I mean, just at the individual level, I am so glad that people like Bill Gates and Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg, I'm glad they exist because I get to benefit from the technologies that they've created. Never in a million years, when I want their life
Starting point is 00:47:24 because their life, because they don't, they want their life because they don't have personal lives. Their entire life is devoted to their business, their products. That's why they're so successful. And so I think the ultimate answer here is having a well-calibrated sense of your future regret. When you and I are on our deathbeds and we will be someday, what are we going to look back and regret? And some people would say, I would regret not taking the chance to start a business and create something great. That might be a regret.
Starting point is 00:47:53 A lot of people will look back and say, I regret that it worked so hard. I didn't spend enough time with my kids. There's an amazing study from a guy named Carl Pillamer. He's a gerontologist and he did a study on a thousand elderly Americans, most of whom were in their nineties. And he just said, you know, looking back at your long life, give me some advice. And there's a part of his book that's on finance.
Starting point is 00:48:14 And he says in his book of the thousand people that he interviewed, not a single person, not one person under the thousand looked back and said, I wish I made more money. Not one single of them said that. Virtually every one of them looking back at their life said, I wish I'd spent more time with my kids. I wish I spent more time with my friends.
Starting point is 00:48:32 I wish I accepted who I was rather than trying to become somebody that I wasn't. Virtually every one of them said that. So it's interesting for you and I who are not 90 years old trying to figure this out, look at what our aspirations are, knowing that there's a very good chance that when you and I are 90, we're gonna look back and not regret earning more money, but we will regret not spending more time
Starting point is 00:48:55 with the people who we loved. And we will regret not saving more. So I understand better than most both worlds. I probably land in the, at the end of my life, I want the tank to be empty. I want to have expressed and learned and grown and given everything I possibly give to have maxed out my life. Okay.
Starting point is 00:49:14 So I have been teaching these things for you, but as I get older, I also have an appreciation that I never had before for people who choose the other life which is the one about time with family and this is what I've concluded everybody and this is important for all of you there freakozoids like me they're like I'm gonna max my life out you need to save money let me tell you why you need to save money because at some point if you have it will give you the option to change your mind later and if you don't it will give you the option to change your mind later. And if you don't save anything while you're expanding and contributing and growing, you have no choice but to stay on this train until death.
Starting point is 00:49:53 But if you save along the way, it gives you the freedom to choose at some point to get off that train if you choose to, or to get off it for a while, or to just downshift. But if you don't save, you have made a life decision that you're going to run this thing till the wheels come off and maybe pass your capacity to innovate and create. You may pass your prime, your ability to expand and grow, and you have to stay on that train if you don't save money. And that's why Morgan's work matters so much, because you can be this crazy person like I am. But my savings has given me an off-ramp if I choose to take it at some point,
Starting point is 00:50:28 temporarily or permanently. So everybody make sure they have that. I want to ask you a kind of a powerful question, by the way, one of my favorite conversations ever because we've been able to go back and forth. Um, you say in the book why you should never check up on your investments. I'm like, really? I did it today. By the way, it was a disappointing day when I looked, um, Bitcoin's not doing so good today, neither was the stock market while we're recording. So maybe I shouldn't have checked, But is that why you say that?
Starting point is 00:51:25 Or what's the point of not checking up on your investments? Or what did you mean? Well, to the extent that when people follow their investments all day, that it might lead them to want to make a change, to want to fiddle with the knobs and the levers that's going to do that. I check my investments every day, usually multiple times per day,
Starting point is 00:51:41 because I think markets are so fascinating. They're a fascinating window into culture and incentives and psychology, but never when I check it, does it influence how I invest? Never. But I think for a lot of people, it's not the case. If they check their portfolio and it's down, they're like, oh, I should sell, I should change this, I should buy this and sell that. And everything we know about investing is that the more actions that you take, the more
Starting point is 00:52:03 levers that you're pulling, the worse you're going to do over time. That is true for almost everybody. And so if you are the kind of person who, every time you check your portfolio, is tempted to make a change, those are the kind of people who should set it and forget it and leave it alone. And people understand this. If you are growing an oak tree in your backyard, you plant a seed and if you check it every hour and you go, oh, it's not growing. I need to add more fertilizer.
Starting point is 00:52:25 No, no, no, just leave it alone. Let it grow. They understand that was something like gardening, but with money, there is this idea that the harder I try and the more fertilizer I dump on it, so to speak, it's going to do better, even if it's almost certainly it's almost, it's almost never the case. Do you think most people have a dramatic underestimation of how much money they're going to need to have saved
Starting point is 00:52:46 in order to choose to stop working and continue their lifestyle at some point? I do. Yeah, I think that's broadly true. I think we still have this 1970s idea that a million dollars is a fortune. And if you're a millionaire, you live, there's this great meme on Instagram,
Starting point is 00:53:02 sure it's been all over the place of like, when you were a kid, when you dreamed what a million dollar house would look like, and it's like, it's like the Playboy Mansion kind of thing, versus what, versus what one million dollars will buy you today, and it's like nothing in most parts of the country. And so I think that is true. That is just because we underestimate the power of compounding over time and inflation compounds over time. So if inflation is three or four percent per year, or whatever it might be in any given year, over the course of 20 years, that's a lot.
Starting point is 00:53:25 That is a ton. And then you mix that with an even more powerful idea, which is expectations inflation, which is that your idea of a good life when you're older might be very different from your idea of what a good life is today. So I remember when I was 19, my idea of a good life was like a Honda Civic and an apartment. That was rich to me. And now that I have two kids, idea of a good life was like a Honda Civic and an apartment. That was rich to me. And now that I have two kids, it's a little bit different than that.
Starting point is 00:53:50 So you mix in actual price inflation with expectations inflation. And it's a recipe for underestimating how much you're going to need. Expectations inflation. That's so good. Okay. Last question for you, brother. This has been so good today. By the way, the book is The Psychology of Money.
Starting point is 00:54:04 I think you can tell why you're gonna wanna get it because there really is a psychology around this. If someone ran into you at Starbucks, you're in Seattle, so it's an appropriate question in the suburbs there. So someone runs into you at Starbucks, goes, I heard you on the Ed Milett show about this money and the psychology of money. And is there something that you wanted to say on the show
Starting point is 00:54:26 that you didn't get out about life, mindset, the way you look at the world through the prism of money that he didn't get a chance to ask you that's in the book? What would you just share? You could grab one more random thing out of a book about money or mindset. What would it be? And I think the most important thing with money
Starting point is 00:54:44 that's so easy to overlook is that there is not one right answer of a book about money or mindset, what would it be? And I think the most important thing with money that's so easy to overlook is that there is not one right answer for everybody. That if you are the person who listened to this podcast and said, I disagreed with Morgan about X, Y, and Z, there's a good chance that we actually don't disagree with each other. That what's actually happening is that we're different people
Starting point is 00:54:59 talking over each other. And most people wanna find the answer for investing. Like, tell me how to invest. You're like, it depends on who you are and your risk tolerance. And people understand this with like food. If I say Mexican food is the best and you say, no, Italian food is the best, we're not actually disagreeing. We just have different tastes and different preferences.
Starting point is 00:55:18 It's not right or wrong. And I think that is so true with money, that the way that people save and invest and spend is there is no one right way to do it. And so rather than going out and trying to look for the right answer, you need to look in the mirror and figure out who you are, what kind of life you wanna live, what your social aspirations are,
Starting point is 00:55:35 what your personality is and build something around that. Even if there are friends and online commenters who say you're doing it wrong, if it's working for you and it's helping you sleep at night and it's making you happy, then it's probably the right thing for you to do. It's a great answer. It was a good conversation, brother,
Starting point is 00:55:51 over a topic that so many people are afraid of. And the reason I brought you on the show today is I don't want everyone to think this whole getting financially free, independent, starting to change your life financially has to be scary or complicated. You will find... you know what really smart people do like Morgan, you guys? They take really complicated things and they explain them in simple ways. And not-so-smart people take simple things and try to explain
Starting point is 00:56:18 you to them in complicated ways so that you're confused. This whole life thing and money and the psychology around it doesn't need to be complicated and I'm so glad finally someone's standing up saying you got to know yourself and your personality. You can tolerate taking on a bunch of debt and living with that stress every day. Go ahead and do it but if you can't there's another way and that's what we talked about today. Morgan Housel, the psychology of money. Thank you for being here today brother. Thanks so much for having me, Ed. Great conversation. Share this episode, everybody. I know you will. God bless you.

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