The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby - Zane on His Dating Life, Home Invasion & Quitting Drinking

Episode Date: October 4, 2023

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like front door, psh, no, scary. You're all sleeping. Was in the house for maybe 15, 20 minutes. Oh, we're sleeping. 15, 20 minutes? Yeah, I was just like very overexcessive with that lifestyle because I like, didn't have that college life.

So I kinda like went off on like the party. You know, a lot of us are like 27, 20, 29, I'm 30. This lifestyle will catch up to us. What's the look? Are you in the blondes for nets? Like medium, medium, 29, I'm 30. This lifestyle will catch up to us. What's the look? Are you in the blondes for nets? Like medium, medium rare. We're talking about burgers, right? I started having panic attacks from then till now.

I've been trying to figure out what medication to take, what should I be doing? That's why I started working out. That's why I'm eating better. I'm making these changes to just feel better. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. I've always felt like marriage was this construct that I feel like people were like pressure to do.

Yeah. Like I think marriage and dating are like the same thing. They're pretty much the same thing, right? They're like, when there's a couple that's a boyfriend or girlfriend, to me, they're married. Oh, yeah. That's how strong it is to me. I think I'm a very, like in my head,

I'm a very loyal person too. So does it take you a lot before you call someone your girlfriend? Yes. Oh my god No, no like meeting my family bringing them back home Absolutely out in my head. We are married already like this is who I'm spending the rest of my life with This girlfriend before he like asked me to be his girlfriend But that's how it be to like after the first day like I can like I can sense you're like I'm weak when I come to that you call it a date or do you like?

I'm like asking you questions that should be on the back. Oh yeah, we should wait. Oh, you see the way we record is that we literally start the podcast as we're setting on. You're kidding? Oh, that's genius. Yeah, just if you don't take it seriously, then nobody will ever like pick at it. We just press record. We started there, you know, sometimes people are walking through the camera. It's okay. Oh, whenever podcasts we say what's up, dude, don't ask why. I don't even really know why but yeah, we we just say that so if you want to join us You can you can say what's up dudes? What's up dudes? Yeah, here we go and in three two one And welcome back to the unplanned podcast

We are joined today by Zane from one direction Just so still honored to have you here Oh, no, don't don't don't do that man. I'll sing the whole song Wow, I can't believe we get to be grace by Zane Dude, I was looking at your YouTube channel the other day and I was actually like really blown away by how good your singing voice was. Because the first video that popped up was your rendition of WAP.

Yeah. And it was so good. So I cringe at that video now. Whenever I do a video like that, I'm like, it's so fun in the moment. And I post it now monthly and I'm just like, what did I post that? That's so bad.

I think that if I started practicing to sing when I was younger, I think I'd be really good now because I do have, I'm not a good singer, but I know. I can follow a no, right? So like when I'm in a car full of friends and we're all singing, I tend to be, I've never just discussed with my friends

if they watch this. This is embarrassing. They'll be like, what is he talking about? I feel like, out of most of my friends, I can like get as close to the artist singing as anybody else. Like when it comes to it, like they're no, they're like, like, you're right, Kerry.

Yeah, I don't, I don't, I don't even know the words for like, like with your notes and how you sang, but I can get the closest love. And then somewhere. I was watching that video, I was dying laughing. Like it was so funny. I don't know why you say you'd cringe at that, because I thought it was like the funniest thing. The production value was there.

I know, that's what makes me cringe. It's too high for nuts and I don't like high nuts and stuff. But you had like Addison Ray and the choir in the back like like See like just singing back there and you're on your knees like you another one put Matt and it he's a show choir Not show choir, but he's a Music guy I just I just released like my first two songs so hey if you if you want a clap. Oh you sing I do Yeah, my god, that's amazing. I wish I could sing but you can but you actually

There's a lot of work on those videos of me saying gang. Yeah, I swear there's like auto tune, there is a lot on there. You don't even notice. Well, Zane, actually, for those of you who don't know Zane, he's not part of one direction. He's actually, he got off with Vine and was part of the vlog squad.

And now he has a podcast with his best friend Heath. Yeah. We're just stoked to have you, man. This is a free shade. Thanks for having us in your living room, by the way. Oh, of course, yeah. We're in my house by the way, guys. Yeah.

All right, before this, I had to do an interview and it took so long. And I felt really bad. I really wanted to come to Malibu, but I made them come here. Bro, all good. Thanks for letting us in. Yeah, we came here with our two kids. We have our baby. One of our babies is with our sister-in-law. We literally pitched a 10 in your spare room. Yeah, no, no, no. It's really different. Yeah, we came here with our two kids. We have our baby, one of our babies is here.

We literally pitched a 10 in your spare room. Yeah, there's so much room here. We were actually gonna do this episode in my bed, which would have been really funny. Yes. But I think it would have been just more comfortable. Yeah, at some point I would have been like, are you guys okay?

Pages of love. We go to the floor. I low key thought it'd be so funny to do like our first ever podcast in a bed, but then once the living room opened up, I didn't want to be weird and be like actually You know what I should have at least offered it out of me like hey, we saw we have the living room now But we could do it in my bedroom. So if you want I should have said that that was completely my fault

And I feel so bad that you're saying that right now Because that'd be really funny that'd been really funny, but next time next time It's just me this time we can can get Heath, Matt and Mariah. Maybe we do all four of us on the bed. That'd be fun. That'd be really fun. Dude. On filtered on the bed.

Ooh, okay. Oh wow. I really like that idea. I just came up with a thumbnail for you. That's genius. Dude, you're on a fitness journey right now, right? Yes. You've been like,

I'm hungry. Did you quit drinking for this fitness journey? Did you, like, what all have you done to? So I'm very picky with when I drink right. Before I started, I was the, you know, every weekend type drinker I would not like drink at like kind of like a, you know, a couple drinks with the friends. I drink to get drunk. I like to have fun.

I feel like a lot of people I hang out with, we all drink to get drunk because, you know, we all get stressed out through the week with work and whatnot. So we'd like to let ourselves go. And I was just like very overexcessive with that lifestyle. And it was probably because I like, didn't have that college life. Back at home, I went straight from high school,

then got a job, and then I moved out here to do this. So I think it was just like almost like, when I moved here, I almost went into college. Like this was like my college years. So I, so I kind of like went off on like the partying. And so I wasn't as bad as I was eight years ago, but I was still like drinking every weekend. And I just, I just don't want to do it anymore. It's just a lot. It's a lot of my body. I don't want to be paying for it when I'm older. And if I have a wife and kids, I don't want,

I want to start recovering. I want to start working out, eating better. So I could just wake up better, get better sleep, be healthier, be happier, have a clear head, get my work done. And I want to be able to do that for at least a good amount of years before I have a family life. You know, because I don't want to be like, I don't want to have to have a sharp, like an immediate change in my life if I have a girlfriend or wife. Like you wake up all of a sudden, party life is over.

Yeah, I wanted to like kind of work my way and ease out of it where I'm not like, you know. Just like doing a like a really hard like 180 shift from like crazy partying to, okay, now I'm married with a wife and kids. Exactly, I wanted to get out of that before that part of my life started. Dude, I feel, I was listening to you talking about

like, you know, some of the challenges you're facing with the fitness journey and like, dieting, like, does it suck? I feel like I eat, honestly, eat so unhealthy. Like last night, I was listening to a podcast of you talking about being healthy, and I'm like, downing like cookie dough, just like eating half a bag of cookie dough.

Like, oh, I probably should do that, but. What I'm doing is very strict, right? Like, it's like, we're doing this in five, six months, so like, I have to focus, but I would say the first month is like, the hardest, right? It's I have to focus, but I would say the first month is the hardest, right? It's so hard to get past that, like those cravings and eating healthier stuff and not being able to eat pizza

and past on all that, it's like my favorite things to eat in cake, the big sugar addiction, and very addicted to sugar. So it was hard to get past that, but by the second month, I was starting to, I mean, your ads will just change when you start working out like that and dieting, right? Your ads will start giving you a ton of healthy stuff

and dessert, dessert, what's the word? Like your placement? Alternatives, for everything. And so I started finding all of these alternatives for like my favorite things to eat. And I've been implementing it in my diet and I don't even want to go back. Yeah. Because like the alternatives that I'm finding are just as good as like ice cream and cake.

What's the best alternatives that you found? I, I can show you after I got, I got some of my parents for you. It's like, do you like cake batter? Yes. Like, just like eating it from the strafe. Well, I found this peanut butter powder where you literally, it's just a scoop, a two scoops of the powder, you put it in a cup, you put a little bit of water in it, you mix it.

And it tastes just like cake batter. And it's like 45 calories of serving. And it's like a lot, right? Like you can eat a whole mug of this and you still won't even hit like 200 calories. I bet if you like have the actual stuff like later on like once you're down to this whole journey,

you'll like make yourself sick now. Exactly, I'll get, it's still good though. I mean, don't get me wrong. It still tastes yummy, but this makes me not want to feel like, like I need to. Like I'm just like, I got the good stuff, this is good. And it's healthier and I'm counting everything now, which I see myself like doing for the rest of my life.

I count everything I eat now. Like I have a scale, so if I get steak, I weigh it out. I'll put it in the calculator thing, like the app. You can have a restaurant. I've done it before. I've brought it to a halt. I'm gonna do that. Yeah, you're calculator at the restaurant

and you're putting it all the time. Yeah, the first month, month and a half, I was bringing it everywhere I went out to eat because I needed to, right? Like I needed to just, I needed to build a habit of making sure everything I eat is weighed out first. But now I'm able to like, I eat. Yeah.

So it's better. You can start to get a feel for it. Exactly. Like I kind of know around what I'm eating, it's not probably exactly the amount of ounces or grams that it is. But I always go a little more. I always, like, if I'm eating a five ounce chicken, I'll put in the cocktail like six or seven,

just to like, just in case. Yeah. So I don't like go over my calorie count for the day. Wow. Okay, what's up with this trend in like everyone getting fit and having this like massive like, changing their body? Because I keep getting, I would get recommended in my like YouTube feed, like Jason Nash, is trend in like everyone getting fit and having this like massive like change in their body because like keep getting out get recommended in my like YouTube feed like Jason Nash like

you see him like before like the before picture in the after picture like Natalie and then like all these like vlogs about people like look at what were they were and look at them now it was just like I think this gets started it helps because like ill our friend Ilia he started a fitness company called Ziele Fitness, and there was always a gym at the house, people were always working out. And then I think after Ilia did his first transformation with one of his close friends, John,

I think once we all saw that video, we all just kinda got this motivation to like, maybe we should hit the gym and try to watch what we eat too. And then I think we all started slowly. I mean, some of us were very committed. Some of us are just like kind of gradually getting into it. But I think honestly, I think that first video really just kind of like opened our eyes to it. We're like, oh, maybe we shouldn't like go out and eat like drink.

Okay. I mean, maybe like maybe take care of ourselves a little bit. We're getting older. And you know, a lot of us are like 27, 20, 29, I'm 30. This lifestyle will catch up to us if we just continue to live like that. a little bit. We're getting older and you know a lot of us are like 27, 20, 29, I'm 30. This lifestyle will catch up to us if we just continue to live like that. So that's why we're going to our health care. We're doing it too. I bet it like inspires you.

Yeah. Oh my, and it just feels better too. It feels so good waking up on the Saturday and Sunday morning and you're not hungover and you're just like, you know what, we're going to get some work done today. You know what, or you know what, let's get some brunch and then work on. So it's just like, because when you're hungover, that like takes out like two, three days of your week, like you are just so you feel like crap. I'm trying to, you see, I'm trying to take my words. You feel like crap. He's really answering us.

We were at a conversation with him saying before this, we were like, oh yeah, we don't really like, I've heard our podcast and he's like, okay, I'll really do my best. Which I like the challenge. I love the challenge of like trying to switch up the way I talk, because I don't have the best speech because I never, I was never going to in high school in middle school, but I like to challenge myself with the different rules on other podcasts.

Dude. It's for a girl. You were sitting you guys were all living together and you had a gym at your house, but then you just didn't want to be fit at that time or now you're finally getting into it. The gym, the gym that was at David's house is kind of newer. I think it's been there for a year and a half, two years. I would work out there sometimes, but definitely not as much. It was not a daily thing for me. I would maybe work out every three days. Did you guys ever all live together?

Or was that something that you guys all just, you kind of, you filmed content but then live in your separate houses? We did kind of like, maybe all of us all together lived in like two to three different houses, like some of us lived here, some of us lived here and then we started spreading out a little bit where like it started to become like three

or two people here, two people here. And that's 100% because we're getting older or just like we don't need to be living with eight people in one house. But right now I live with Todd and Danielle. Okay. I feel like I'm from Florida, right? So I feel like in Florida, if you're like 30 years old living with a 30 years old,

that's really weird. But for some reason, out here, it's like okay. We feel like it's okay to live together in a house. It's expensive too, to be like living on your own too. So it's okay to live together in a house. And it's expensive too, like, to be like, a living on your own too. So it's nice to like be able to like, save a little bit of money and- No, that sounds so fun.

Like, I was telling Abby a couple of years ago, it'd be so much fun to like, live with a bunch of different couples and just like, we get all hung out all the time. Because I miss those days, same house or like, same house. Just for real, not forever. Would you like that? I think so. We like, love hanging out. Would you like that? I think so. We love hanging out people.

I don't know. I just didn't. We also went to college together where we were both like living with people then and while we were still together. And sometimes the kids lonely. Like when you're at your house by yourself with your kids, like you love your kids so much, but you're like, I kind of want to talk to an adult

that speaks English. You know? You guys should try to find a cul-de-sac where you all live not in the same house because that could be a lot with kids. Yeah. You know, you guys should try to find a cul-de-sac where you all live, not in the same house because that could be a lot with kids. Yes. You live on the same dead end like cul-de-sac. I'm trying to convince him to do that.

Yeah, and then you get like a gate, right? Nobody, it's like your own private little section with you and your friends. I pulled Abby that, like the other week I was like, how cool would that be to be like wealthy enough to like buy a neighborhood? And you just like have a lot of love. You hate everybody that you like to live with you.

You have all of your friends moving. That's what those rappers do. When you're kidding. Yeah, I'm pretty sure those rappers will just buy the neighbor's house if they're complaining about the noise. They'll just buy the neighbors house, buy the neighbors house, move their friends in.

Just buy the money to do that. I can't imagine. Do these people have the money to just buy a whole street? That's crazy. It's wild. But because it's rare that there's two houses for sale that are neighbors, right? It's really hard to find mean heat.

For the past few years, we've been trying to find houses that are in sale, or either for rent or for sale, but neighbors or right across the street. And it's really hard to find them. Yeah. So hard. Especially because I feel like the market's so hot here, as as soon as it's up or down, it's gone. It is gone.

Yeah. You said you're from Florida, like, do you fish? Are you a fisher? Did you grew up in Florida? No, that's he, that's he, that's the conversation for you and he, he, yeah, he was like 100% like the fisher, like he's the guy that like would country music, love hunting, you know, that was his life.

So I just worked at the airport. Okay. That was like my thing in Florida. Nice. I didn't have much hobbies out there, but I also didn't have a lot of like friends to do hobbies with, right? I had like a few, but you know, like everybody constantly

worked and went to school. So like after high school, it was like kind of hard to hang out with people. Because a lot of people went to college and that's where you usually like, you know, everyone's together, you guys are partying, you guys have class, but I never went to college. So I went to like a community college. So I would go to community college,

go to work and then go home. Okay. It was just, I grew up very quickly. Wow. After high school. What part of Florida was it Miami or? For Laardelle. Oh, okay.

Okay. Okay. Nice. Yeah, that's worth. You missed it. Would you ever move back? No, I would never. I would never go.

Because I don't like living in Florida. I didn't, I never like living in Florida. Really? It's too hot. Oh yeah. It's like I'm a very, what is it, cold body? If I like cold, cold body or warm body. That sounds right. I actually have no idea. I like I like cold, a warm body. That sounds right.

I actually have no idea. I like to be like this weather is perfect because you get like, it's very hot sometimes and then you can get like that nice cold, like breeze, like chilly weather. You would hate peanuts. Yeah. Dude, you would hate Phoenix.

Oh yeah, no, I would not. I would not. It's hotter than Florida, bro. Yeah. Driving pregnant in that. No way. Absolutely. I'm like being pregnant at first.

That would not be fun. It's like I feel like my temperature was like 20 above what you had to experience. I think it was like 140 for me. Cause you get hot flashes, right? That's what I have like an oven. Does everybody get hot flashes or just pregnant woman get hot flashes?

Not to that's like menopause. Oh, so it's a people thing. Like I feel like I've had a hot flash when you're like walking outside is 120 and then the wind blows, but it's not just like a refreshing breeze. Yeah. You're like, you're opening up the oven and just like the hot air blows in your face. Yeah.

I get hot flashes when I'm about to have a panic about it. I feel like that's one of hot flashes. Oh. Like that film of heat. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. So I was listening to the first episode of your podcast with he.

Oh, no. And you know, it was, it was stuff, you guys are so, I wish, I wish he was listening to the first episode of your podcast with he oh It was it was stuff you guys are so far. I wish I was he was here But we'll have to do that another time But you guys are talking about yeah fishy together and then you mentioned something that I thought was so funny to me Because like where I grew up this just wasn't common But you guys mentioned like smoking or something like did you smoke at high school? I Don't know if I smoked at high school. Maybe we did like smoking cigarettes.

I never really did it until I met Heath. Then I started doing it a lot, but yeah, that was definitely a thing. That was definitely a thing in Florida. Like kids would go to the mall. You know, we thought we were cool. We were smoking cigarettes. We'd hide it like from like, you know, like the...

Inside the mall. No, not inside the mall. So the mall was an outside mall. Outside mall. It was a very outside. There was inside and outside, but the outside part is where the us seen kids would all meet together, right? All the big, all big my space,

like famous people would all go to Saga, Saga small. And this was like my space. My, remember my space? You were on my space? My space? My spot? Yeah, my spot. No, you're on my spot?

Yeah, my spot. Yeah, it was, yeah, you heard of my space my space my spot. Yeah Yeah, it was um, yeah, you heard of my space right? Yes You know my space. I mean like I just wasn't around when my space was the thing Okay, so my space was a big thing in the scene emo community and there was like you can leave that You have to leave our little branding on there it was You could be like my space famous and there was my space famous there. It was, you could be like MySpace famous and there was MySpace famous people. I was not one of them. You're kidding.

But it was like, you would get like, you have dropped dead Jade and she would show up to the mall and she's like, you know, has like that raccoon hair and you dropped dead Jade and you did have a little trademark in there sometimes and you could put like, you know how you you just look like little emojis next to your name on MySpace.

That's hilarious. Yeah, they famous for rainbow kitty. Right. They had Hillary Haywire. I would say I was literally never on MySpace. Oh my God, that time my life was interesting. I can't believe my mom had to deal with that. Like, having to drop me off the mall

every Friday and Saturday night, just to like be around these my space like seeing kids. Cause I looked up to these cause I wanted the hair like them, I wanted to dress like them. I didn't know where to get these clothes from. Do you have any pictures of this phase of your life? You should call your mom.

I could send it to you to put up on here, but I'm not gonna be able to find it right now. Oh, not, you're right now. I could give you guys something you could put up here. That's hilarious. Yeah, I was so try hard, it wasn't even funny. The first social media, I was old enough to have was Facebook. And I really wasn't old enough.

Facebook was right after my space. That's when everybody started moving from Facebook to my space. Yeah. My space to Facebook. I was in like six grade when I got a Facebook. Was that before Vine, was Vine even around when my space was like big? No, my space was long gone when Vine came around. Yeah, I think.

Were you in my, like, did you have any, any, like, followers or whatever? No, no, no, no, no. No, no, no, no. This was everybody else. This was like other people on Myspace. I was just a Myspace user. I just wanted to be seen.

I didn't want to be Myspace famous. That was not like a thing in my head. Like, how do I, I just I just looked, I loved their style. I just wanted to be like the kid with a hair like this. And the bell and like the vans with the shiny belt, remember the shiny buckle belt, like the studded belts. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That type of that was that, it was that like,

I think the kids like with like really dark hair and just like kind of the gothic style. I thought that was cool. Yeah, it was like, it's like a hat. It's a really, yeah hair and just like kind of the gothic style I thought that was like it was like a half goth Really yeah, it's not not full goth because full goth is like the you know full goth Halfway okay half goth and it was called scene and I don't even know how to describe it It's yeah see and what I'm my the you know, you know, I heard it I was like it's a, where are you from again? I'm from the Midwest.

I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I haven't heard of it. I've seen people. I probably didn't. That Midwest, Midwest they had like those like seen people. I think I just knew about it from the internet, honestly. Oh yeah. I've never heard that term, but there was a kid that died his hair black in my middle school.

And I thought he was so cool. And I asked my parents to let me dye my hair black too. And they would, like, you're here to pretty much black. No, no, no, there's a black. I can't. Yeah, you have to dye black if you want to be seen. Yeah.

So the first social media that you really like latched onto is Vine. I don't know what, my space. No, no, no, no, I would say like I was heavily, I was the one that was putting like the coding to make my page look cool remember that You do that on my space. Oh, you never had it. Okay, so you could like edit your profile, right? So I would go on the backend and I you could like edit your profile through the way you want to make it look like

But it was all through coding it wasn't like you know You don't just go on like edit profile and then you like edit edit edit right like we do now. Yeah, you like had to code it Almost like it was like you had like like we do now. Yeah. You like had to code it. Almost. Like it was like you had like had to code it. And you're like in high school coding. Yeah, but like this was just the way to edit it. It wasn't like a it wasn't like a hack or anything. That's just how you edited these programs.

Interesting. That honestly sounds like the dark ages of social media. Yeah. Yeah. I'm so glad I got to experience that because like younger kids out they just like don't understand like that we had to like yeah This episode is sponsored by better help we got issues. We're gonna be the first one to tell you that we got it You I feel like recently it's just hard to keep my brain clear with everything

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Like it was that type of reaction where I was just like, oh honey, you know, you can come back if you, if things get like, it was, she didn't have like enough faith in me. She just didn't fully, she didn't have like enough faith in me. She just didn't fully un, she didn't fully understand what he and I were posting on Vine for the past like a year and a half because we were it got to after posting for free for a year and I wouldn't, I'm saying for free as in like we just didn't even know it was like money in social media right but like we started like

getting paid from like brands like promote their stuff on a six-second video, where is this a thing where people do? Like for a job, or is this just for fun, and people just still have a real job? And it just started to get to the point where we were able to just save so much money, where we're like, oh, we can move out of our parents house, we can move to LA, and we could do what other vineyards are also doing, and just collaborate and see where that goes.

Yeah. And that's exactly what we did. But like, Heath and I still kind of stuck to ourselves when it came to like content creating. We would meet up with people to like hang out and just, but we would rarely like actually collaborate and make content. Like, Heath and I like to just do that on our own because we felt comfortable like doing it with ourselves

and just like doing it in the house that we felt, like we felt was like the most to just do that on our own because we felt comfortable doing it with ourselves and just doing it in the house. We felt like the most fun to do that, but we just felt like it was important to meet people out there and just find new friends and just see if we can make a life out there and just really have fun. We're the same way, we have so many friends that we'll hang out with

and then we're finally like, wait a second, we all do social media. We probably should make a video together at some point. Like, you know, it's just like, you forget to collaborate, because you're just having such a good time hanging out. Exactly. And that's what it was, right?

When I met Scott Todd and everybody, we were hanging out so much more than actually working that it got to know we were just like, oh, let's just make content together. Because I guess the best content comes out of if you everybody's comfortable with each other and not like to be funny. And I think that's how it kind of happened, right?

When people started watching us, we were all so close already that it looked like we were just best, we've been best friends for life, yeah, or forever. Totally. And what did your siblings think? Were they all still staying back in Florida? Like, okay.

Our siblings did really understand what we were doing, yeah, at the time. It was just our parents that were really kind of worried. And you were like 20? I was like 20, yeah. Yeah, I was like 21. I probably just turned 21 before I knew it. No way. Were you raised in a single parent household by the way?

No, no, I have a brother. Okay. So my mom and my dad had me and my brother. They both divorced when I was really young. I was like six years old. And they both got remarried maybe like a year or two years later. And then I would go back and forth between households. And it was very interesting with my parents

because they're both completely different religions. My dad is a Muslim and my mom is a Catholic, but she's not like strict religious. Well, my dad is a Muslim and my mom is Catholic, but she's not like strict religious, boom, my dad is. So having to go back and forth as a kid because the rules were so different, was insane. And to this day, I feel like I have like,

just permanent issues because I'm going back and forth. No, it's a lot because like, you know, you can't eat this here, but you can't eat it there. And there's just so many rules, and as a kid, I feel like those rules were just started becoming like, oh, I have to say one thing at this house and then lie to somebody at the other house.

And I was starting to do that when I was young. And it's really weird now because I don't lie at all now, but I lied. I had to lie so much back then, just to keep both parents happy. Oh, so was one pretty strict and one was not very strict? They were, they both pretty devout. In those four states. They were both pretty strict.

My dad was more religious strict. My mom was more strict as in, like, you can't be out past eight, he has nine. Yeah, yeah. She's a firefighter and she's so firefighter now that she has that, you know, she has that like, discipline. Discipline, yeah.

That's awesome. Really, really cool. Yeah, like, oh, sorry, good. I was just curious, like, when you're a parent, do you think you'll be strict too, or do you think because you're raised like that, you're gonna be like every fro. I think there's a perfect balance, right?

Like, my mom, I would say, I would say both, my mom and dad both had a perfect balance of strict, right? I think them every day with how they were strict on me because I felt like out of everybody that I knew in school, I've always felt like my parents were the strictest that I've ever been, like all my other,

of my friends parents, they let them, like go out, they would party, and I would always have to, and that's why I never got like, closer to any of my, like, any like high school people. Cause I never got to really hang out with anybody outside of school, which kind of sucked, but I feel like I would have completely lost myself

if I like, they let me do whatever I want. And because, you know, especially in high school, there's a lot of like, you know, drugs going on, a lot of drinking, a lot of, just a lot of that stuff that like now looking back and like, we're so really young, like that's a really crazy thing. It's actually scary how young high schoolers are.

Yeah, terrifying. What you're saying about, do you think it'll be a strict parent? I feel like after being raised by my mom and dad, I feel like there is a way I'm gonna do it. And I think I'm gonna do it. And I think I'm gonna do it right. Like I'm pretty confident with how I'm going to,

like how strict I'll be with my kids. You can be too strict, right? Like, find a balance. Find a balance, yeah. Like, we're still figuring that out for us. We're like, okay, who is gonna be the strict one? Who's gonna be so much strict? There's gotta be one that's strict, right?

I feel like there's always gotta be one that's strict. It could be either of you, maybe one of you could fake being very strict, but just. Well, okay, so today our son reached into a toilet to touch the water, he just wanted to play in the water and he just doesn't understand his toilet. And I go, no! And then Abby's like, you can't, you can't.

I'm like, I'm just making sure I don't want to touch him poop on his hand. That's kind of nasty, right? But a part of me is like, yeah, it scared them a bit, but like, I feel like now their brain knew that, okay, this was bad to do that. Yes. Like putting a hand in there and that, the, it's like dogs, right? Yeah.

When dogs, when you, it's like, when they hear the pot or when they hear the kibble or something and it's like, in their head, it's like, it's time to eat. Yes. When they're scared, it's like, that was not good. I think it's good since you have boys that you're the stricter one. It's so hard, those are freaking hilarious. He'll do something mischievous, and he knows that it's wrong. And he just looks at me and says,

He'll wait, he's doing something that. And I go, no. So that's why I had to do a stir-no with the toilet, because I'm like, dude, you can't touch poop in the toilet. That's okay. In the toilet. But there's probably poo particles in the toilet. You're just gonna say,

you gotta do it like scarily. But like not a lot, but like put a little, and still a little fear, right? So like when you're looking at your kidneys, you gotta do some of that. That's right, bottle. No, no, you just do this.

Just very lightly, you're very, like, it just be very scary. But like very quiet, right? So it's almost like, that kind of scared me. Just bring that doll out. That's a whole thing. Okay, can we, I need to take a video of this. This thing has been looking at me this whole time. Right, so that's almost like that kind of scared me Doll

I need to take a video of this Freaking me out. Oh my gosh, we should see if Griffin's afraid of that honestly What is that I've seen that from some like horror movie that can be heath for today My lines guys send me this because I'm doing I did we did a video with um that's terrifying that's so freaking that's really scary okay that's the movie this is why you've stopped drinking so much now and now we literally look like that we literally just have that mannequin like in the middle of the four wow that's hilarious

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Wow. And back to the episode. I love you. I have to get a certain amount of steps every day. Like, like, no. How many steps are you shooting for? I have to, like, 12,000 steps a day. Okay.

Wow. I can't be under that. Like, I need to get in. Anyway, either running, hiking, walking, even slow walking. Any way to get the 12,000 steps, I just need to get in every day. Wow.

It's sucks. I swear it's the secret though. Those steps really count. Even your walkers. I feel like it burns calories just like without even really thinking about it. It really though. I feel like when I walk I'm just like, eh, I didn't really do anything. I know it's but like all the as, as every day, just look at yourself after a month.

And it's like, oh my god, it's working. And I'm just walking. And I think you're just generally less lazy in the day too. Yeah, it really does too. It makes you feel like you're just like, you know, moving your body. You're like, you're like, you're like, the machine, you know, you have to like,

constantly move it. Totally. I try not to like, just lay down for like hours anymore because it like, it really, it tightens me up and like, I feel like I like my back. Can you give me a kid? They will literally not let you lay down ever. You should, yeah, if you have a kid

it's proven to actually make you know. I wonder how, check your health app right, how many steps you're getting because you're your kids. Well, my thing goes off every day. My goal is 10,000. It's good, that's great. I've been doing that. That's great.

Wait, does it actually do that? Cause I feel like mine never shows me. Oh, you have to have your phone on you though. Oh, okay. So I have the Apple Watch, which tracks now my stuff. I have 6,500 steps from today. That's good. That's pretty good.

My week is 7,000 on average. See, you gotta have that. See you're beating me though. You got a whole lot of stuff. You got a whole lot more. Exactly. A video that I thought was really, really fun to watch is you getting surprised

with the person of your dreams, Kendall Jenner. I mean, that's the person you've always looked up to, right? Like you're a big Kendall Jenner fan. No. No, no, I just did it on the podcast where I was high on this. It's, um, yeah, I was just a surprise. It was, I don't know what, it was for David, right?

David, I think David was close with her. He was like, oh, we should do this a surprise. And I mean, it worked, right? It was, yeah, it was honestly crazy seeing her, but, um? David was close with her. He's like, oh, we should do this a surprise. And I mean, it worked, right? It was honestly crazy seeing her, but it was not like, I wasn't like, it's not like my biggest idol. I'm not like me or Dreamgirl, I'm just getting a prize. If you got surprised with anybody in the world, who would it be?

Ah, good question. And that person would just be like the best. I feel like it's really hard to say now. Let me try to think of somebody that I want, like, you should someone that's married. Oh, no. Not someone that's married. Oh, I thought's really hard to say now. Let me try to think of somebody that... Oh, you choose someone that's married. Someone that's married? Oh, without you, it's not your choice. You're choosing someone that's married.

Like that you would like. I think it could be anybody. It could be a dude. I thought you were being surprised by it. Oh, I thought you were saying like dream girl. Oh, I mean, I think my question is like, if you could be surprised by somebody. Oh, did I get it right?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Really anyone. I'm gonna try to think of somebody like from like, when I first moved out here because I feel like now, I like just, oh you've like my team full of people like that. No, no, that's not even that. No, no, there's a, but like I think living here for the past eight years,

now I just like don't really wanna meet people anymore or meet, meet celebrity. No, no, because I feel like a lot of time is scary. It's like you don't really want to meet people anymore meet meet celebrity. No, no because I feel like a lot of time is scary It's like you don't know Like that that meeting could like completely ruin like your image of them. Yeah, don't meet your heroes Yeah, I try not to like when I see somebody like that I like I'm a big fan of I I just like look at them and then I'll like walk out never come up to them and say hi never Because you've had a few before so there's been people that you've like gone up and sent high to and just like look at them and then I'll like walk out, never come up to them and say hi. Never.

Cause you've just in case. You've had a really before. So there's been people that you've like gone up and sent hi to and they were just a jerk to you. No, that hasn't happened to me, but it has happened to other people. Okay. And there are moments when people have come up to me

and I probably wasn't in a good mood or I was in a hurry or I was in a rush. And then I'll see something, they say something like that was the worst experience of me as I've come up to me and I probably wasn't in a good mood or I was in a hurry or was in a rush and then I'll see something, they say something like, that was the worst experience of me as I've ever had. And when I saw that, I was just like, oh, okay, there's just like, it happens. And so now I just, I try to avoid that

because I don't wanna be let down. Like I let some people down. I'm sorry guys. I'm sorry guys. I'm sorry guys. There's days where you're either in a rush or having a bad day or you just find out something and immediately somebody comes up and it's like I'm not good at holding when I'm in a bad mood, I'm really bad at hiding it.

Me too. Really bad at hiding it. It's a big problem in mine. We've had dinner. I'm still working on it though. I feel like we've had dinners where like we're just not I don't know like I like with marriage comes up and down so there's like times where it's just like you're not in the best mood and then Someone comes up with like immediately like comes over and it's like oh my gosh

I love to watch your videos and we're like what up? Like how's it going? Which like I mean we're we're we're oh we don't like pretend that we don't like have problems and marriage like Yeah, like everybody, everybody does, every relationship has ups and downs, but, um, no, but like also people just like sometimes need to have their privacy and so. Exactly.

I try to remember that though, because I'm like, okay, this could be, this, this is, this person's like, impression to me, like, I want to make sure that every experience is like, really good. So I try to remind myself that, even when I'm like, feeling like crap, you know, I's like, oh, the stage sucks. That's good. I should be more, I should be more like you.

I should learn to do that more. I was like crying at the airport, though. Did you remember that? I was crying because we just left Griffin for the first time and I was like, no, I'm so sad. I was crying as someone comes up and asks for a picture. And there's a picture of me out there somewhere. He was just like down on my face.

He was like, it's like, it's like this person. That's just like down my face. He's like, that's right. This person. That's funny. Oh, speaking of Marzo, have you guys ever seen that clip? I say the clip of TikTok, because that's where I saw it, but there was a clip on TikTok

where it was a Slady, and it was like the my favorite thing that someone's ever said about like a marriage. Like she said, if anybody tells you a marriage is like 50, 50, they're both, do you know what I'm talking about? We say each other. That's my favorite clip of somebody talking about a marriage.

I, when I watch, I was just like, well, I can't wait to instill that in like my marriage. Like, you know, when I'm married with my wife, my wife. But I mean, it's such a hard time saying that because I feel like I'm never gonna fight any more. No, this is why I was asking about Dream Girl because I see this for you like an edit, a clip of this, and then stitch with like your wedding day and it's like your girl. So I don't know what you're doing.

It's really hard to say my, everybody I'm obsessed with, they're like, they're married already. Okay, that's why I said that's why I said he can't do something. But can I tell you that like my type? Yeah what is your ugly me a bee lacunas is That's why that yours too though is my Who is me lacunas? Ashton coach his wife I know I know I know I know I can't you lacunas. No, no caught that's oh Hi, dude. She's beautiful. Yeah, she is.

She, she, some a high girl reminds me of like my girlfriend's mother. Yeah. She's like my girlfriend's mother. I don't know what it is about it. Like she's, She's mature. What?

She's mature. She's mature. Okay, wait, so what about me look? Sorry about the fly. So we can, we can put it out there like what qualities. Yeah, yeah. Have them come to the podcast comments be like, I think I'm a what about me look at this? Sorry about the fly. So we can put it out there, like what qualities? Yeah, yeah. Have them come to the podcast comments, be like,

I think I'm a lot like me look. Oh, are you gonna help me? Yeah, yeah, well. Okay, like 90% of people watching this are women. So like our audience is very much. And you're amazing. Mine too. Wait, what is your demographic?

Is mainly dudes like you can be like this? It's like 90% female. Oh really? Yeah. Really? Okay. I would have never guessed since you're like, it's like, it's like Oh really? Yeah. Really? Okay. I would have never guessed, and it's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's like,

I know, three boys, I know. I thought it was a man that used to what you do. I think we're just like, very, we don't talk, like we don't talk about a lot of things that guys are like into on our show. Yeah. We talk a lot about like pop stuff, and we make a lot of like,

your chitchatty. Chitchatty, yeah, I feel like girls like listening to more chitchatty stuff, like feeling like they're there and like, but guys want to watch football podcasts and, but guys, do you, I personally don't, I personally don't like to talk about anything. Do you watch football or watch football or watch sports? No, none of my family's, family members have ever really been into sports. So I think growing up, I just never, really.

So then did you spend time making videos? Like, is that what? I was only computer a lot. Okay. I loved going on computer. I loved, I would go on Tumblr. I would watch different videos of, I would watch a lot of movie scenes.

Like, I loved watching scenes and movies. Like, just like different ones that I could find, which is interesting because now, looking back, I should have taken advantage of that or I should have followed that path because now I love like making, producing videos and like- With that kid, you know,

that young Zane, ever think that one day he would end up in a Drake music video with Justin Bieber. No, never, oh my God, never, ever. When they asked me to be in that, I thought they were, I thought I was a Drake Bell music video. When they said Drake, I was like,

I was like, oh, there's no way it's Drake, right? It's probably Drake Bell, like another Drake. Like no, no, Drake. I was like, me? Is it because somebody else is not like, somebody, am I replacing somebody else? Like, what's going on? They're like, no, no, they just,

they wanted you in the music video. I was like, who else is in the music video? And they say to the other guys, I'm like, why would they want me? Like, it just didn't make sense to me. It didn't make sense. But like, you know, I didn't, I didn't question it.

I just hopped on a plane and then I like went into it. That's so sick. Yeah. And I was like in the video, like quite a bit. Like I thought I was, you know, you know those opportunities, they like they asked me to do something and it's like a complete opposite of what you expected. Like, I thought I was, you know those opportunities, they asked me to do something, and it's a complete opposite of what you expected. I thought it was gonna be an extra.

Like I was gonna be an extra in the back, and I was thinking that the whole time flying back, I'm like, I just left my mom to do this music video. I'm probably gonna be an extra. This is gonna be such a waste of time, but I have to do it since I was asked, and this opportunity probably won't happen again. Totally, yeah, when we do all those music videos,

we're usually just like the extra in the back. In the back. And I've done it before. I've been asked, I do all the time where I was at the extras. I'm an extra in the, so I wasn't like, I wouldn't have been surprised if I were to be there.

We've never been in a music video. Were you star struck, like do you, or have you met enough people where you're kind of like, you see the, I'm just a mirror. Were you star struck, like do you, or have you met enough people where you're kind of like, you see the, then just a few years? I was star struck, maybe after meeting the first like, three solubris, or after seeing them first three solubris, and then it just became like,

because they're just so, they're just like us. They are just like the rest of us, nothing important. They're just on in front of the camera a lot. They're just in front of the camera a lot, and that's it. And they all poop. Yeah. When I'm only star-struck with like anybody from the cast of Game of Thrones, I see them in person.

I'm just frozen, yeah. What did you meet? I've met Maisie Williams from Game of Thrones. Wow. I've met, um, who do you, who do she fly? I'm sorry. She have a Arya Stark. Oh, okay, that's dope. You're you've never watched game of Thrones

I don't know the actress names. I just know their faces like you're not a big fan. I know Arya Stark But I know me these actresses name. Oh, sorry, sorry, okay, okay, yeah, oh wait, come again. Yeah, yeah Well, I met her and I also met, I met, oh, I forget her name. She played the younger, she, remember the girl with the gray skill interface? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I met her too.

Oh, okay. We actually went to really filmed that and de-brewed Nick a lot of stuff. We did, we did a lot of stuff. Like, what they do, the walk of shame. It was really cool, dude. Oh, that's, you take up all the ones that visit there. You go there and everything,

because Game of Thrones is like their biggest claim to fame. Even though there's. I'm always one of those of there. You go there and everything, because Game of Thrones is like their biggest claim to fame there, even though there's a ton of history that happened. But you will, everything, there's like walk of shame drink, walk of shame, appetizer, like tea shirts. You can get your picture taken on the iron throne. Like they had every, they had. I love, they're taking advantage of it.

Oh yeah. I love that. That's so sick. Yeah. And then we did this game with the ones too. Where they're like, this right here is where this person got their head chopped off. And if you come over here, it's just like so funny.

Now, it was cool. It was cool. Because they're really fun. Where they do the walk of shame. Like that wasn't actually heard. I would just recreate it. Like I would get naked right in the middle of it. And I would just do it.

I'll have my friend film it for a video. Oh my god. They've had love it. They'd be like, yes, this is the place. I heard they had a body double for that because I was like, that's a crazy scene of film. Like it did look very like when you look, when you look at it again, go back and watch it.

You could tell it CGI. I actually noticed it. It's a CGI. The first time we watched it, like I looked up close, I was like, that's 100% CGI. There's no way. And just knowing the actress too,

like I've watched interviews, she doesn't seem like the actress that would want to do a scene like that. Like there's so many people. There's so many people. It's a very crazy scene to do, yeah, for anybody. To be in front of hundreds of people like that, and a scene like that, it's very-

In the nature of a two, it's, yeah. Super, that would mess with you. Yeah. We never got back to your type. You were talking about your type. Oh, yeah, shoot. What is your type? Oh, okay. What you really want to know.

You want like looks or more like personality. Both. I sense of humor is very, very important. I feel like, especially with like, we're what I'm doing or who I'm with every day. I feel like we all have like the same sense of humor. Just someone who's like, just down to like, have fun and be funny

and someone I could joke around with. We just kinda, and each other, I think that's always fun. A girl who cooks, because I suck at cooking. I really suck at cooking. And normally I feel like girls like to find guys at cook, but I really have to find a girl that knows how to cook. Can you grill though?

Like I feel like grilling is pretty good. I could grill, because I think it's like the pudding concocting together that I'm really glad of. The mixing. Yeah. So good. I didn't even like, I just got lucky. I really, really like food.

So I feel like I would suck at doing this fitness challenge that you're doing, so I just, I love food so much. Like she made us homemade pretzels the other night, and they were delicious. Home made pretzels, like you baked it in. Like soft pretzels. She made the dough from scratch, dude. Yeah, that sounds amazing.

Yeah, I could definitely, I could grow though. I can, I can perfect my grilling. Yeah, that's one thing I'm like, I'm not a girl. Just so we can like, you know, 50-50, she can, like in the kitchen, I'll be on the grill. What's the look? Are you in the blond's, Burnett? Someone tall, someone short.

Like media, medium rare. We're talking about burgers, right? Yeah. Yeah, burgers. That was good. Oh, I'm, I'm, I'm, I definitely weren't to like, Burnett's for some reason. I like dark features, like dark eyebrows, dark eyes,

darker skin. I don't know. I think it's the Arabian me too, because Arabian, like Lebanese girls, Arabian women, they have dark features too. So I think that's like what I like to. Mm-hmm. That's what I would want in my girl, my type.

Nice. Wait, okay, I'm so sorry. Did you say that you had a girlfriend? She mentioned like a girlfriend, and then I was like, wait, are we asking you to get your type? And then you all said, oh no, no, no, no, I don't have a girlfriend. Okay, good. Did you say that you had a girlfriend? She mentioned like a girlfriend and then I was like, wait, are we asking you to get your type and then you all said, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, I don't have a girlfriend. Okay, good.

Did I say girlfriend? You mentioned like something about, like if I had a girlfriend, something earlier. Yeah, if I had a girlfriend. Yeah. You mentioned something about, if I had a girlfriend. I know you said it that way.

You said something about it. I thought I did it. No, no, no, no, no, no. No, I don't have a girlfriend. No, no, no, no, no go for it. I'm just talking about his type. And it's just like blonde. I'm always scared. I'm always scared. That always scares me to like describe my type because I don't want to make it seem like,

all he cares about is this, this, this, this. That's why I'm like kind of like, I'm trying to go back and forth between looks and personality. Yeah. And I was like, I was just overthinking it. I was also. That's so funny. I always get scared of the way I'm saying something,

because I feel like it could be perceived differently when people are watching it. So I get a little scared when I'm. That's what sucks about social media is, like, if you could explain yourself about everything you say, you wouldn't offend anybody, but it's just like when you make a statement and then maybe it gets clipped and then someone sees it

and they take it out of context. And then someone's offended and it can be messy. Is there crazy that now when I do podcasts, I'm not even really worried about people watching the podcast, it's just the clips on TikTok. They're not crazy. It's the clips on TikTok you have to worry about instead of the actual episode.

Cause I have to, I was like, when you watch the whole thing, you're not really paying attention to much of certain or specific things, but like a 15 second tick talk, oh, you're like really, you're honing down to everything they're saying. That was taken out of context too. The clips have really gotten. Yeah, no, it's funny. You mentioned that because I saw a clip of you on tick dock.

That was like, you, you, like announced, it was like this big announcement on your podcast. You're like, I got served for the first time. I'm going into court. And it was like this big announcement on your podcast, you're like, I got served for the first time, I'm going into court. And it was so funny. And then like everyone in the comms is guessing about what the court case is about. And it's just like, oh my god. If they just watch it, it has nothing to do with anything.

It's just like, I think I had something to do with one of the music videos that I did. I believe it was about the Wab video or something like that. It was something in that world where my video was like the foundation of it, but like had nothing to do with me, I didn't have to like, I wasn't getting any interest.

I just thought that was so funny. And you said you got an email that said, you had a show up in court and like crap dude, I never checked my emails. So I got an email saying I needed to show up in court. That's how they let you know. I'll be so screwed. I'm not sure if that's how they let everybody know,

but like I know they definitely do stuff through email We're so happy to check for email. So I put thank you babe. I'm really I check my spam folder all the time because I There's so many so many that goes into a spam folder junk. Yeah Yeah, I miss a lot of one one after it was like two years one day I was like let me check my junk folder and the amount of important emails that I missed was a nightmare. So now I check it every. Okay, I'm gonna like hurry and go check my email. Yeah, you should.

You can check it right now. I'll wait. Okay. Dude, about getting married, like I heard you say something somewhere about wanting to like wait until your fitness journey was over until you started like Danny and are you like, are you like taking, I was are you like, after like, taking, I was kind of kidding.

Oh, you were, okay. I feel like I want to just finish this because I'm so focused on it right now. I'm focused half my days in my head as like, steps, steps. You don't wanna take a girl on her first date and then take out your scale and start laying something. Exactly, exactly. I'm probably gonna wanna have a couple drinks.

And in the back of my head, I'd be like, Zayn, like, he's just stopped drinking, stopped drinking, you shouldn't be drinking. Like, but I don't, and it's because I get, like, especially ill on a Thursday, I'm like, you know, obviously nervous, just like anybody else would be. And so I'd rather just like finish this

because this is all I'm thinking about right now. And then when December ends, then that's like off my plate, off my shoulders. And like, then I can start dating. That's funny. Most people start their fitness journeys right after December, and that's when you're going off can start dating. That's funny, most people start their fitness journeys right after December and that's when you're going off this. Yeah, that's true.

But I'm still gonna keep going, Rose. I'm not like done. I'm still gonna implement this lifestyle. Like I'm gonna stick with it. It's funny you mentioned getting nervous because someone like you, I don't know, I just, I think like I get nervous but like nobody else gets nervous. Like oh like Zane probably never gets anxious

or nervous because you've getting nervous for so long. Has that gotten better as you've made more content? Or do you still get nervous just like you did in the beginning? No, I think it's actually getting worse. The first like few years, I feel like my confidence was through the roof. Not like in a bad way, but like I felt so comfortable being on camera. I was actually the most unhealthiest at my most unhealthiest at the time. I was big and chubby, my beard,

I didn't really take care of myself, but I felt honestly the most confident. I was just like, you know, just had the camera in my face, I would talk to the camera, I wouldn't really stutter a lot. I was like, I was not nervous or had any anxiety and then it just, over the years,

just started getting worse, worse and worse. I think it's just because more people started watching so I just started overthinking everything, and then I would see a comment here and there of talking about just like the quality of the videos or something happening around. The front group or anything, it just started eating me up, and like it started making me feel like

I had to watch everything I posted, and then it just got to the point where I was just like, oh my god, I just don't want to post videos anymore. And that's why I stopped. I'm so sorry. Oh no, it's fine, it's fine. I think we have the podcast now because the podcast, it's a completely different world, right?

Like for friends sitting on a couch, it's almost like you're just, you know, having a conversation with your friends. That's much more different than like holding out a camera and expecting everybody around you to have to interact with you for your video. And it's like, I always felt weird asking people to help me in my videos.

But because it's a podcast and it's mean heaths or the four of ours, it's easier to come together. You don't feel like people are doing something for you. You're all doing it for each other. Mm-hmm. In a sense. So like, watching the vlogs, it seemed like from an outside looking

and it looked like it was just the craziest, most elevated, fun experience. Oh, absolutely. It was. Yeah. That's really cool. Because like, even the birthday vlog where you make candle-generate,

yeah, you're riding like a bull. And then there's like this really cool cake. And just like so many fun things. I'm like, that looks like the craziest coolest thing. At that time. I was still like, I feel like my anxiety didn't even really hit that much at that time. I was like, I was doing great for the first like,

I would say like seven years, six, seven years. I was doing amazing. And then I think it was like maybe right before the pandemic. It was like right around that time where it really, I started like just panicking and like having panic attacks. And that's when I was like, oh, I definitely need medication. Like I'm starting to get like really bad anxiety where I don't want to be on camera, blah, blah.

And then starting from then till now, I've been spending my past four years like trying to figure out what medication to take, what should I be doing? That's why I started working out. That's why I'm eating better. It's like I'm making these changes to help me just feel better and be able to get work done

and not spiral that fly. It's like, I'm driving you crazy. I just thought that fly light going around. I don't even know how it gets in the house. It settles here and then it just doesn't go away. And I swear, I don't know where it comes from. I appreciate you being vulnerable about that, because I can so relate.

And I actually get the craziest pressure in my chest. Like before we go into school and high school, I was like, man, I just want to be people. I'm going to think about me. Like, what if I did something stupid? I wanna be accepted, I wanna be cool, I don't wanna be a loser and it's just like, all these thoughts and then you can't sleep at night

because it's like keeping you up. But what's crazy is, for whatever reason, like having relationship with Abby, like really helped me out of that. Like, I felt like she really knew me and she knew me better than anybody else did. And so, I don't know, I feel like I want you to find that person because I don't know where you're at in your journey,

but I feel like that's going to be just the best. To have that person that you can truly be completely utterly vulnerable with and they'll just accept you as you're... I can't wait for his girl to surprise me. Just like come out and know where. Because that's... I'm a channel, we probably lose all my friends. It comes as such a, like, surprise and shock where I'm just like, guys,

I don't know what to do. But, you know, I love that feeling though, where it's like, it comes out and know where and you have, you're talking to all your friends, like, I like this group of like, and like, just getting advice on like, even just like, after the first, second day, just like, asking for all this like advice I'm gonna need a lot of advice. Have you had a lot of serious relationships? No, no I haven't I had like one to me one serious relationship But like that ended after like seven eight months and I haven't had one since but I also wasn't actively looking for one I wasn't really like going on dates

I would I would you know as sometimes I girls out, but definitely not the first thing in my mind was like, I need to find a girlfriend or I need to, I need to, what's, what's word? I get married or settled down. Settle down. Yeah. Okay, this girl, I need to settle down with her. Like, I've always just, there's always been this giant wall, right? But like, if there's, once I find that girl, I go right over over Right over and that wall is completely down. Yeah, no it's the next thing you know you got two kids Yeah, I get you know kids is that gonna be a thing like yeah Depending on depending on the girl right like there's that it all depends on the couple like if you got if you want kids or not Totally all depends. It's not it's like now you have another person that also is a part of that decision and like

Us right now. We just had two babies back to back So we're we don't know we're gonna do next and we decided hey Let's just take some time and and see how we feel in the couple years because right now we have our hands full So like it's it's totally cool to I don't know think on that if you ask inside into Zane's DMs right now If you're if you're like you look who this yeah Feel coolness actually no first first, go to their unplanned podcast Instagram page so it can be filtered out to me, right? Oh, I don't like it. So first, it's gonna filter out through Abby,

then filter out through him, and then it'll get to me. So we're gonna have a little, we're gonna have a little audition process. Yeah. But if you wanna do the unfiltered way, go to their unfiltered Instagram, it'll be all unfiltered for you. Yeah, we'll have Jordan and Mariah go through all of them.

That's hilarious. I want you to find that person. I don't know, I just like, just talk to you. Yeah, I feel like, well, I just gotta trust the process. Like, again, I'm just like expecting it to surprise me. Like, I think it's gonna come out of nowhere. Hearing about your life in my, we were so sheltered. Yeah, he was telling me the other room,

like you guys just skip that call space was. So we're probably gonna do it once we're MD nesters. Like when we're like older, your kids are growing up. 20 years from now when I'm 45, I'm gonna just go crazy. I love that idea. I think that's a great idea. And I think that's a healthier idea

than doing it all when you're younger. But then maybe it won't bounce back. We're gonna be the weird 45-day account. No, I think you guys gonna be the fun, the fun, like a couple, the fun older couple. For sure, you guys have kids, they've already gone to college. They're good kids.

It's not, you know, they're not like bad kids, right? It's not like a family come to the park. They're in college, they're doing great. You guys are celebrating their life and all the hard work you've put into them. And now you're gonna start drinking. And I don't know. Yeah, Ben, we've been doing-

I'm maybe projecting what I wanna do onto you guys. I'm like, that sounds pretty fun. I kinda wanna do that. Yeah, I do that. I was thinking of that early when I'm like, okay, I really need to keep, like, watch my words here. Cause like, whatever they say, what's to do is what they say,

what's to say, like, you don't need to get married. You don't need to settle down, like, do whatever the freak you, what's to do is what's to do is what's to do. And you don't need to get married, you don't need to settle down, like do whatever the freaky wanna do. Yeah, exactly, I get to do what I wanna do. It's my life. Exactly, you're right, you're right. You should be wild forever. But when I'm 40, 45, I know it's gonna hit me.

Like, it's like that loneliness is gonna be the worst feeling. So I do hope that, hello? Oh, I forgot, there was somebody else here. I'm like, I'm just walking through the back. This is not good guys. It's like someone intruding into this house here. It's happening before. You know how many people have broken into my house?

Like, front door, no. Scary. That's terrifying. This city is wild. No, not this house. And close to Studio City. Was it because of you being a social media person? Was it just breaking in just a break in?

Maybe it was. We never caught the guy so like who knows? But we saw like footage. They would have kicked down the door. Duh. And you weren't home though. That time I wasn't home. Oh gosh.

One time we were home, me and Natalie Todd. We were all sleeping. And person came right into the house. Right into the house. Was in the house for maybe 15, 20 minutes in our house while we were sleeping. 15, 20 minutes? Yeah.

I watched way too much day line. When we saw that footage, the next, it was like three days later. I... Wait, you woke up in the morning, you didn't know someone had been in the house. No, well, because I couldn't find my car keys. It's like, and I'm the type to lose myself a lot,

so it was very normal, and I can't find my car keys. And's like, and I'm the type to lose myself a lot. So like it was very normal. I'm like, I can't find my car keys. And then after a day of like not finding, I was like, okay, I gotta check the cameras. Like there's no way my keys are missing. This is really weird. We look at the footage and we see somebody breaking into our house.

That is terrifying. Terrifying. So he was trying to steal. I used to have a Lamborghini Urus. I know. What? I don't have it anymore. I went to the Tesla now.

Oh, okay. I don't need a car like that. And so thank God Todd was parked behind me and Todd had his keys on him in his bedroom. Well, so we couldn't get out. We couldn't get it, but like that car would have been gone. But I'm pretty sure cars like that, they have like GPS systems, right? But I'm sure whoever's stealing it, I'm sure they know exactly what to do with a facetelic car.

That's so bold to like come into your house. It's crazy. It's crazy. I think it's crazy that somebody has a ball so like walking to a house when people have guns. Like if somebody wakes up and they have a gun and you're in their house, or if I was like, if I was breaking to a house

and that person like has a gun, like there is their house, or if I was breaking into a house, and that person has a gun, there is a good chance that they're gonna shoot you. And you're from Florida, I feel like everyone in Florida has a gun, so you break into a house. You break into the house. You break into the house. It's scary, people breaking in,

you don't know what they're gonna try, you don't know if they're gonna kill you. There has been, especially lately, there's been just so many people which is breaking in, it's, you don't know what they're gonna try, you don't know if they're gonna kill you. There has been, especially lately, there's been just so many people just breaking in, they're trying to steal something, but they don't mind popping a bullet in them before going. Like people are so just like, no that's terrifying.

They just don't care, they don't care about other people's lives. And yeah, that's just scary. Well, I just, I hear our son waking up, he's an appswife feeling like, no, what do you mean? We got a, it's nice hearing a baby. I know no, what do you mean? Feel like we got a. It's nice hearing a baby.

I know. This is a lot. You got to get used to that. You hear that cry? No, maybe he'll just speak. I thought it'd be funny. Have you ever held a newborn before? I haven't in a long time, but I'll fight the whole tonight.

I'd like the whole one today. We can do it on the show. Yeah, for the ladies to see how I am as a dad. If we like, take a video and we can put it up on the podcast Instagram. Absolutely. Let's do it. Well, Zane, it's been so fun talking to you.

If I can be talking about going for 30 more minutes and the entire Tiger watch, you guys are going to grasp it. No, I'm like, you're crazy. Guys, like, Matt, let's go and get a shot. Okay, okay, okay. Hey, you can find Zane on Zane and Heath on Phil Turd. He's also on Instagram. He has a YouTube channel.

I don't think you post there anymore. I don't, anymore. So you guys don't need to go there. But we are very active on our podcast channel. YouTube.com slash Zane and Heath. We post every week. And I'm really excited to see the documentary that you're making about your fitness journey.

Yes, yeah. That will come out January 1st on the Zila on fitness page. Okay, very, very cool. But Zayn, so nice meeting you. So, we gotta go. Okay. And as always, this is where we save peace out dudes. Let's do it.

Three, two, one. Peace out dudes.