True Crime with Kendall Rae - Disappeared Kayaking on Guatemalan Lake: What Happened to Nancy Ng?
Episode Date: March 28, 2024GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fi... Email Tobin Bradley – AmCitsGuatemala@state.gov Subject Line: E99 - Urgent: Assistance Required In Search For Nancy Ng Hello Mr. Bradley, M...y name is ____, and I am writing to you on behalf of Nancy Ng’s entire family, who have gone months without answers regarding what happened to her on October 19, 2023, on Lake Atitlán. After kayaking out into the lake, she disappeared in an alleged drowning incident. The one and only person who witnessed Nancy’s drowning has been uncooperative, and there are now allegations that a bribe occurred to have her statement omitted from the police report. This person then left the country without aiding in search efforts and has refused to cooperate with the family and search teams. It is my understanding that you have the power to escalate her case to the appropriate authorities in Guatemala because, as it stands, little is being done to investigate her disappearance. Please help her and her family. I am asking that you please: - Request that Guatemalan authorities ask U.S. officials, such as the FBI, for assistance in this investigation. The United States has resources that would prove incredibly valuable to this investigation, as well as in the search for Nancy’s body. - Facilitate a conversation between the Ng family and someone in Guatemala who is actively working the case. Currently, their family has been ignored by the prosecutor. Please help connect them with someone with more information regarding the status of Nancy’s case. - Lastly - I am asking that you please not forget that Nancy was human. She was a sister, a daughter, a teacher, and a friend. All her loved ones want is to know what happened and to bring her home to lay her to rest. Their patience has been taken advantage of and it’s time someone stepped up to escalate the situation for them. Please consider taking action swiftly. Thank you. Sample Tweets: I am requesting that @MinexGt please ask U.S. officials for assistance in the search for Nancy Ng. U.S. resources will be crucial and valuable for helping solve Nancy's suspicious disappearance. Please help escalate the suspicious disappearance of Nancy Ng! @MinexGt needs to request US assistance immediately to move this case forward and get the proper resources in action. I am urgently requesting that @MPguatemala respond to and cooperate with Nancy Ng's family, as they have been left in the dark regarding Nancy's suspicious disappearance. Please take action immediately, starting with working with the family. Nancy Ng's family has gone 3+ months without a response from @MPguatemala, the prosecutor's office in charge of the investigation into her suspicious disappearance. Enough is enough. Please respond to their family and take the steps necessary to keep this case moving forward. Please help escalate the case of #NancyNg in Guatemala! Cooperation between Guatemala and the U.S. is crucial to getting answers @usembassyguate What happened to #NancyNg and how is @usembassyguate helping? Please help the Ng family by escalating her case to the proper authorities! I am requesting that @usembassyguate please ask Guatemalan authorities to seek U.S. assistance in the investigation into the disappearance of Nancy Ng. Their resources would be valuable to solving her suspicious disappearance. Donate to NCMEC through my campaign! https://give.missingkids.org/campaign... Shop my Merch! https://kendallrae.shop This episode is sponsored by: Rocket Money Skims Smalls - promo code: KENDALLRAE Check out Kendall's other podcasts: The Sesh & Mile Higher Follow Kendall! YouTube Twitter Instagram Facebook Mile Higher Zoo REQUESTS: General case suggestion form: https://bit.ly/32kwPly Form for people directly related/ close to the victim: https://bit.ly/3KqMZLj Discord: https://discord.com/invite/an4stY9BCN CONTACT: For Business Inquiries - kendall@INFAgency.com
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Hello everyone and welcome back to True Crime with Kendall Rae.
I am so grateful to have you here today.
Thank you so much for joining me once again.
And if you are new, then welcome.
Happy to have you here as well.
So I'm going to jump right in because we have a ton to go over.
The case I am going to be covering today is a bit different than my typical coverage,
but it is definitely one that deserves and needs attention desperately. I'm going to be talking
about the disappearance and alleged drowning of Nancy Ng. This is a case that I first started
following back in October of 2023, so very recently this happened actually. And I have been wanting to cover
it but wanted to wait until I could collaborate with this family. Today, you are going to
be hearing directly from Nancy's family. And they are so impressive to me. I told them
on the phone the other day when we chatted that to me, it's just, it's unimaginable to have to be in a situation
where you are grieving the loss of your loved one,
but at the same time you have to be thrown into this world
of fighting for justice, trying to seek answers,
and going on TV, trying to do news coverage.
It can be such a challenge.
I don't know how people can find
the strength to do it honestly. And they have just been so inspiring to me. Now the reason
I say that this case is different than a lot of the cases that I cover is because it is
not 100% confirmed that there was foul play involved in this case. In fact, there may not have been,
but that is the answer that everyone needs to know.
It's possible, but it's not the only option here.
And the Ng family is completely aware of that.
They are not in denial about what has happened here,
but they want answers.
And if I were in their shoes, I mean,
I'd hope I had the strength to fight for it
the way that they have,
but I would certainly want those answers as well.
I think anyone would.
A lot of very sketchy, very disturbing,
very shady things have gone on in this case.
And it is not one that can just be brushed
under the rug and ignored.
And it's because of all the shadiness that the Ng family has gone without answers as
to what happened in Nancy for the last five months.
I hear it from the families I work with time and time again.
I hear it from viewers who have experienced this themselves or just can't imagine what
it would be like to be in this situation. It's it I know for a fact
that not having answers as to what happened to your loved one has to be is the one of the worst
things that someone can possibly go through in this life. How are you supposed to move forward
without answers? How are you supposed to get closure without answers and truly grieve and mourn the
loss the way that you should be able to? You just can't. But I don't think it has to be that way. And that's why I wanted to bring
this case to my audience because you guys have been phenomenal about being active true
crime consumers taking those extra steps, helping families in need. And I hope that
this can boost coverage in the case, but also boost the chances that someone will actually
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Although I will break it down more clearly towards the end of this episode and with that I'm eager to jump into things here
I'm fired up and I want to tell you about Nancy and
What an incredible woman she was so Nancy Ng was born on June 28th, 1994
in Monterey Park, California
to her loving parents, Stephanie and Henry.
She was the oldest of four siblings.
She has one sister named Nikki
and two brothers named Jonathan and Richard.
Today you guys will be hearing from Nikki and from Jonathan
and I really wanna thank them for taking the time
to help put this episode
together, help clarify information because there has been things misreported in the news.
And it's really helpful to get that clarification from family members directly and to hear about
the victim directly from the family that just, I mean, there's no other place that you could possibly get such in-depth
information and knowledge into who they actually were as a person.
And I know it's not easy, especially with this being so fresh, to come onto a large
platform like this in front of thousands of people and share information about the worst
thing that's ever happened to you.
So I know that you guys will be kind to them in the comments and thank you in advance.
And just from what I've learned about Nancy, you know, from research, but also spending
time just talking to them, I can absolutely see why so many people in her own life have
rallied behind getting the truth out, but why so many strangers online have also taken
interest in her story and want to see them get those answers and justice if needed. Nancy was a light. She absolutely was.
And from everything I've learned about her, I can say without a shadow of a doubt that this world is
a darker place without her in it. She was someone that made the world a better place just by existing. She was someone who let
her inner child show on the outside. She was not afraid to be exactly who she was. And her presence
alone was enough to lift people up and everything she did she did with kindness, empathy, and grace.
And that even includes her job. I think when you hear what she did for a living, it will say
everything that you need to
know about her and the type of person she was. Nancy worked in the Alhambra Unified School District
with special education students and had a passion for helping others. To me, doing that type of work
takes such a special kind-hearted soul. And not many people could do it. And not only did she do
it, but she loved doing it
and she loved her students and truly cared about them.
When I was talking to Nikki the other day,
she was telling me just how much she loved these kids.
She would even go out of her way to buy them little gifts
and not just get like a, you know,
multi-pack of bouncy balls or something for them,
but would find things that she knew each of them
would like based on their personal interests because she truly loved them. I think that going
that extra mile shows what a kind, compassionate soul that she truly was. And that's why I say,
you know, the world is a darker place without her and I truly believe that.
Nancy has also been described as a supportive friend, a caring daughter, and a loving sister, and someone that you could quite literally talk to about anything
for hours. From what I've learned about her, I just picture Nancy as one of those people
that you could sit down on a couch with and just start talking. And, you know, before
you know it, four hours have gone by and you feel so heard and so appreciated.
And it's just that that type of friend is really rare.
Plus, and I relate really hard to this.
One of Nancy's favorite things to do was cuddle up with her cat Momo.
And I love that. I love cat people.
So I don't know. It's just it's it's so sad.
She was such a good person.
I don't know. It's just it's it's so sad. She was such a good person.
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She also loved yoga, traveling and hiking with her family.
At 29 years old, it sounds to me like she had an incredibly fulfilling life and that
she was welcoming any and all opportunities to continue to live that way.
But if there's anyone that can really speak to Nancy's amazing qualities, it's her family.
So take a listen.
Nancy is the most special person. She's my best friend and just the brightest light.
I always told Nancy that she was one of the few people that were good,
that were left on this earth. And I meant that. She really cared passionately about helping others,
and that included her kids, her clients, the environment, animals.
And she really cared about people.
She could talk to anybody and everybody.
And that meant the girl on the line in the rush room,
the cashier, a stranger on the street,
literally anybody, she could talk to them for hours
and not stop.
And that was Nancy.
Growing up with Nancy, she was the eldest of four
and she always looked over us
and we did everything together.
I remember always wanting to match with her
and twin with her when we were kids.
And we watched Saturday morning cartoons together.
We walked to school together,
fought over who got to use the computer to play games.
Just like everything, singing to Hilary Duff,
going to zoos, all that stuff.
And she never lost that childhood spark
where the little things are the big things.
And I think that's what made her so special.
She was always happy.
Like in every childhood photo,
she always had that big like gummy smile, you know?
And yeah, things just aren't the same without her, but we love her so much.
Yeah, Nancy's my big sister. Just as an example of like, who she is, like, she was really
caring about everything that she was involved in. And like, especially for example, nature,
we'd be driving somewhere 15 minutes late and she would see like a can or a bottle on the side of the road and just like pull over real quick, stop, hop out the car, run to the back, grab the
bottle, open the trunk and throw it in, close the trunk, go back into the car, at least keep driving
along like that was her regular day. So I think she kind of carried that type of energy and everything
she did and all her interests and just it was I just it's I just miss her. So I mentioned this
earlier but Nancy was someone who loved practicing yoga.
It was a big part of her life.
And I'm not a yoga person myself.
However, every time that I have done yoga, I've never regretted it.
It's always been great for me and I wish I would make more time for it.
I honestly should because I know, first of all, how good it is for your body and for
your mind.
But also, it's a great
way to connect with other people and certain studios out there can create a great sense
of community.
Nancy was able to find community and peace at Hot 8 Yoga in Pasadena.
She found people and instructors who shared her same passions and in the process of that,
she was introduced to the Be the Change Yoga Retreat, which was organized by one of her instructors, Eddie Ramada.
Eddie was one of a few instructors that she had, but based on old photos, the fact that
they had gone on this retreat together before, it's believed they had a pretty good relationship.
Now, unfortunately, but not surprisingly, the website for this retreat has been taken
down now.
But just to give you an idea of what it was,
it was for about, you know, a dozen or so people to go down to Guatemala for a week of yoga,
relaxation, community friendship, peace, all of those things that you'd expect for a yoga retreat.
It's a week long trip. Nancy went back in 2022 and absolutely loved it. So of course she wanted to go again.
Nikki says that the first year her sister went, she talked about how she'd wake up every morning
to watch the sunrise by the lake by herself, which sounds absolutely wonderful. And during
their last dinner together before she left on the 2023 retreat, Nancy said that she was really
looking forward to all the activities by and on the lake.
And it's really sad to say, but that is pretty eerie to think about now because of what happened.
It pains me to say this, but it was during one of these group activities at the lake that Nancy disappeared.
On October 14th, 2023, Nancy left the U.S. for Guatemala and texted her family group chat a quick little happy
birthday to her brother and that she would be putting her phone on airplane mode for
the remainder of her trip. She told them that she would be safe and not to worry about her.
But sadly, those were her last words to them. Because on October 19, just five days later,
Nancy's father would get the call that shattered them and forever changed
their lives.
Now that day is said to have started like the rest of the days on this trip.
The 10 retreat participants that were there woke up and they did their morning yoga meditation,
which went from 6.45 to 8 a.m.
Of course, for any retreat, there's,, there's somewhat of a scheduled itinerary.
That was definitely the case here.
Following that, they all ate breakfast
and relaxed in preparation
for their scheduled activity of the day,
which was kayaking and paddleboarding on Lake Atitlan.
Now their hotel, Hotel Isla Verde, sat right along the lake,
and the company that they were renting the paddleboards
and kayaks from, Kayak Guatemala Guatemala was just a short walk away. Now Lake Atitlan is a ginormous lake but it is incredibly
picturesque. It's absolutely beautiful. It's a body of water that spans over 50 square miles.
It sits in a volcanic crater which is part of its incredibly stunning attraction to tourists and locals.
It's known for being the deepest lake in Central America and also known as being one of the
most beautiful and I'm sure you can see from pictures if you are watching that that is
definitely the case.
It is absolutely breathtaking and I can only imagine how excited Nancy must have been for
their activity that day.
Now Nancy was also a very athletic person.
So any type of opportunity to be outdoors and be active was one that she welcomed.
But this day didn't end the way that anyone could have predicted.
I will say it makes me happy in some way to think that Nancy got to spend the morning in such a beautiful place,
doing what she loved,
which was yoga, hopefully was in a peaceful mindset, but I am sure she never in her wildest
dreams could have imagined what would happen that day.
Because shortly after they got their kayaks and paddle boards, a video was taken as the
10 participants paddled out to the water and you can see Nancy as she waves happily at the camera.
It's really eerie to see this video.
However, it does, like I said,
it makes me feel happy that she was happy
in these moments leading up to this tragedy.
So they all go out onto this beautiful lake.
And then that afternoon,
eight out of 10 of the participants returned. They
paddled back to the dock without an issue and most of them sat in the jacuzzi
looking over the lake enjoying a final full day of their trip. Someone pointed
out that two of the kayaks were still out on the water and then they noticed
that despite there being two kayaks out on the water there was only one person
that could be seen and these two people that wereaks out on the water, there was only one person that could be seen.
And these two people that were still out on the water
were Nancy and a woman named Christina Blazic.
Now at this point, people obviously became concerned.
So Eddie requested that a hotel staff member
use their boat to go bring these two women back in.
But by the time they got out on the water,
Christina was already paddling back to shore.
Now Christina, who is a San Bernardino defense attorney
and obviously a fellow member of the retreat,
was said to have sent a distress signal
as she paddled back to the dock.
What's interesting is that she ended up paddling back
to a different dock than the one that they departed from,
one that was significantly further east.
Now it's unknown why she did this. I don't know if it has any significance, but it's something
that I wanted to mention. Now once at the dock, she was greeted by Eddie, who by that point had
also returned to shore. And he is said to have ushered Christina quietly and quickly back to the
hotel. Meanwhile, staff members alerted the hotel owners
that something had happened.
And then the entire group followed, not saying a word.
The kayak rental company that I mentioned before
has also stated in that exact moment,
nobody alerted them to the accident
and that they even left without paying.
And just think about that for a second
and how strange that truly is.
10 people go out on the water, nine people return,
and no one from this retreat,
no one from this group of people
that went out there with her said anything
or alerted anyone, caused a scene, shouted for help, nothing.
And these were people that had been spending time with Nancy, some that really knew her
personally.
I know I'm not alone in thinking that that's incredibly suspicious and strange.
I don't understand how nobody said anything.
I mean, I can't even wrap my mind around that.
And based on the prosecutor's report, the only person to go down and actually
speak with the kayak rental company was the hotel manager. Make it make sense. So a conversation
took place about needing extra boats to go and look for Nancy, but this was met with weirdness
over who would pay for that to happen, which is just not only strange, but also just sad.
How is that even a concern?
Who is going to pay for this?
Someone is out there, their life is at risk.
The fact that the money element of things
was even on anyone's mind, it makes me so angry.
The manager ended up leaving
with Nancy's personal belongings, but that's it.
Now, even if it's not maybe logical
to think
that they would find her by going out there,
it's strange to me that logic wasn't completely tossed
out the window in this scenario.
If it were me and I was in that situation,
and I'm sure many of you feel the same,
I would be running around screaming in a complete panic,
trying to get people to get back out in the water
and look for her, to do anything to try and help.
But that didn't appear to be the case.
And Nikki, Nancy's sister, has said that it's extremely strange to her that Christina, the person who was with her during whatever happened during her
disappearance, wasn't at least at the very least trying to direct people on you know where to go
out and look trying to get people on the water she I mean nothing was done
everyone was completely in the dark about what happened no one was trying to
make sense of any of it and no one even knew where to start looking and that
includes the kayak rental company they supposedly didn't get more details about
what happened
until the next day when they called the hotel
and let them know that some of their guests hadn't paid,
which is when they learned that the group was already gone.
They had packed up their stuff, checked out of their hotel,
and left the area completely.
Now, this is obviously a huge
and very concerning piece of information.
However, I wanna stick with the timeline here
so we don't get too sidetracked
and you are understanding how this all happened.
But I will come back to that.
So back to the kayak rental company.
After Nancy went missing, the owners of the company,
Mr. and Mrs. Beal, did interviews and made statements
about the events that transpired.
No one in the group was interested in talking to anybody.
It was almost like immediately clamming up
and like, we're not gonna say anything.
When the group returned, there were only eight that returned
but we could see in the distance,
so the distance of about 100 yards to single kayak.
We watched them as they continued paddling
until we lost sight of them.
I witnessed the survivor being ushered up the steps with the yoga instructor. She was
clearly distressed and they didn't say a word to us.
And I'm sure that might sound like super important information until you learn that Mr. Beal wasn't
even in the country when Nancy went missing and Mrs. Beale was not there
either, she was at home.
So why you would pretend that you witnessed this is absolutely beyond me.
Personally, I think it's incredibly strange to claim to have witnessed something when
you actually did not.
I don't understand.
And that's not all.
There's also some contention over whether
or not the group was offered life jackets. The Beals say that every single person was
offered a life jacket, but that entire group declined. But on the other side of the coin,
some people from the retreat have come forward to say that nobody was offered a life jacket
at all. One person even said that if she saw a life jacket at any point, like one hanging up
on the wall, she would have just walked over and grabbed it herself, but they were not available
to them, according to her. On top of that, she said that they weren't given any kind of safety
instruction, no explanation of the dangers that the water posed, they weren't asked to sign any
kind of emergency contact paperwork, and that they felt rushed into the water.
And I'm sure you're thinking what I'm thinking.
How do the owners of this company claim that these people were offered life jackets if they weren't even there?
How do you know?
Even if it is their protocol to offer life jackets to their customers,
how can you say for sure that that actually happened?
And I just want to mention as well that Nikki says
that she knows her sister would have taken a life jacket
if offered one, they had been kayaking together before
and Nancy was wearing a life jacket, took one,
so this doesn't make sense to her at all.
Nancy was someone who wouldn't decline the option
to be safer and if she were given that option,
her family feels strongly that she absolutely
would have taken it.
And I'm inclined to believe the same.
I mean, for someone who worked
as a special education teacher's aid,
I have a hard time believing that Nancy
would approach anything recklessly.
Which is why it's very disheartening to hear from people
who weren't even there that she declined to take a life jacket.
And Mr. Beale even refused to share a photo of the paddle that Nancy had used that day,
which was valuable information to people out on the water looking for her.
And he said that information is a two-way street.
So basically he wouldn't provide that information because Eddie had yet to pay for the kayaks that they'd all been using and
Nikki did not feel comfortable sharing Eddie's contact information with Mr.
Beale at the time.
And I don't think I have to point out how wrong that is.
We are talking about someone's life here and we're still worried about the money.
I understand they absolutely should have paid.
That should not be the biggest concern here.
You give the information that is needed to possibly save someone's life or to find them, right?
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His quickness to hinder the search and rescue only added to
The Ings families anguish and concern. I mean, it's just, it's heartbreaking to think that people wouldn't want to do everything
they can to help.
But let me move on because there is still so much to go over.
I started to mention this a few minutes ago that when Christina returned to shore, Eddie
ushered her back to the hotel without anyone saying a word.
Well shortly after this, Christina was seen crying and still very much
in distress, which you know is to be expected. And I don't know for certain how much time they
all spent there before going to the police station to file a report, but at some point
later that evening, Christina and a few others did go to the police and filed a report. Their
family was told by a participant that Christina was actually seen doing child's pose reiki healing and feather brushing during that time.
However, and this is a big however, when it comes to how this incident was
reported the information is a bit wishy-washy and confusing. Many news
outlets say that Nancy's disappearance wasn't reported until 24 hours after she went missing.
And that's both true and not true at the same time.
So let me explain.
It's my understanding that Christina, along with one retreat participant and the two owners
of the hotel did go to the police station to speak with the Guatemalan authorities shortly
after what happened on the 19th.
However, it wasn't until the following day, October 20th, that the prosecutor's
office got word of what happened and it's their office that has the ability to
investigate this type of thing. Nikki believes that this is what the news
articles mean when they say it took 24 hours for this to be reported because we
do know people went to the police station shortly after the incident
on the 19th. And that day it took four hours for their family to be notified by Eddie about
what had happened. And what's really shocking is apparently he didn't have emergency contact
info written down for Nancy and he had to call the yoga studio back at home to try to
get any information on who to call and how to reach them, which even that was unsuccessful. He ended up getting her father's contact information from
a friend of Nancy's who actually had been on the 2022 yoga retreat. And when I say he called their
family to let them know, I mean that in the most vague sense, because all he really said was Nancy
went out on the lake and disappeared and he's sorry for their loss.
Nikki ended up having to call Eddie and try to get him to clarify what exactly happened
to her sister, but he basically told them all the same things, which wasn't much.
She disappeared on the lake and that he was sorry for their loss.
And he also asked where he could send her belongings.
I guess he sort of tried to give some reassurance.
He said that Christina was at the police station filing a police report
and that her family would be sent that report.
But that was basically it.
And it's strange to me that as the retreat organizer, as the leader of this group,
he did not accompany her to the police station.
Maybe that's just me.
I think it's pretty strange.
So on October 19th, 2023, my father received a phone call from Eddie Ramada, the yoga retreat
organizer. And my father was having lunch with my mom and my other brother. So we weren't
there. But I did get a phone call from my father shortly after. And he said, are you
home? Something happened. And he didn't elaborate to who or what had happened, but he just said,
I'm coming over right now. So I knew it was serious. So Jonathan and I were waiting at
home. And I remember my dad came in first. And then my mom and my brother followed. And
when they came in, I was like, so what's going on? What happened? And my dad said, Nancy's
never coming back from Guatemala. And I said, what do you mean?
We thought that she went to Guatemala and she loved it so much that she wanted to stay for forever.
And in my eyes, we were like, okay, we can calm down.
Nancy's just having a moment.
She'll be there for a week or a month and then she'll come back home.
And don't worry about it. My dad's just over-reacting.
I think the way our dad said it, like we both thought that Nancy had chosen to stay in Guatemala.
But you know, I was like, what do you mean?
And my dad, and I can still remember the look on his face, he said, Nancy's dead.
Um, she died. And you know, our heart dropped.
We were just in kind of disbelief.
And you know, when I asked what had happened, he said, well, I got a call from this number
and my dad really didn't give us any details.
I don't know if he just didn't remember or wasn't told these details, but I said, just
give me the number and I'll call.
So we called Eddie back and I asked him what had happened. And he said he wasn't there, so he doesn't know.
But Nancy was on the lake with another student and disappeared. And the other student was
at the police station giving a report and our family would get everything in the report.
So it was really unclear what had actually happened.
But Eddie was saying things like,
I'm sorry for your loss.
Where can I send her belongings?
What's the best address for that?
And at the same time, he was saying,
I wasn't there, so I don't actually know for sure what happened.
So it was really confusing to us
for him to both not know exactly what happened
and start moving towards like, where
do I send her belongings? Like, what about conducting a search? Like, actually looking
for her? Because you don't know what happened yet.
Right. There was a disconnect and a priority there. And even in our family, like, there
was a different understanding of what had happened. Some of us were crying. Others were
like, wait, is this real? Others were like, how do we know she's really gone if he doesn't
know what happened?
But right from the start, the Ing family just jumped into action, trying to figure out how
they get the process of search and rescue going. The naval, which is the Guatemalan
Navy did send out a search and rescue boat right away on the 19th. However, this consisted of one boat of about four or five men and their
efforts stopped after 72 hours. Nicky actually called Eddie on the 20th not knowing that he'd
already left the area, asking if he would stay to help with the search because four to five men in
one boat in such a big lake absolutely is not enough. Or at least, you know, they asked him
if maybe he could help recruit people to get on the water
and start to look for her,
which to me seems like a pretty reasonable request
considering Eddie not only planned this retreat
but organized the kayaking activity.
But it actually took him hours to even respond to her call
because he said he was trying to get some sleep,
which is hurtful in my opinion, especially
because he told her earlier that he would treat this as if it was his own sister.
And if this were my sister or someone that I had even spent a little bit of time with,
I would not be able to sleep.
Plus Nikki claims that she found out later on that Eddie actually wasn't sleeping, that he saw her calling,
and he turned his phone around, turned it over, and just ignored her call.
And I think that says a lot.
Obviously, I don't know if that's true.
That's just what Nikki had heard.
But if that's the case, I don't even know what to say.
But getting back to the search efforts, though, Nikki says that the Naval determined their
search area by speaking
to the owners of the hotel.
The problem with that though is they weren't actually there to witness what happened, meaning
it's unlikely they provided any real insight.
And just to remind you, this lake is massive, dude.
It's the equivalent to 24,000 football fields.
I mean, can you even conceptualize that in your head?
It's huge.
So I mean, it's quite literally like looking for a needle
in a haystack and their family knew that five guys
out on one boat was not gonna cover it.
So of course they wanted to find a helicopter company
that could perform an aerial search,
look at the lake much more broadly
to see if anything stood out.
I mean, the reality is their family had no context of what the lake looked like or the
surrounding area.
They thought it might be possible that Nancy somehow made it ashore and was waiting to
be found, which in that case, a helicopter would have been tremendously helpful.
However, the Tourism Assistance Program in the U.S. Embassy told Nikki that there were no helicopters that did search and rescue.
Luckily though, they didn't take that at face value and not giving up paid off.
Within a day or two, they got in contact with Helicopteros de Guatemala and through them, she was put in contact with Chris Sharp and Black Wolf helicopters. Now, Chris Sharp is the chief air crew man at Black Wolf
and has over 28 years of helicopter flying experience
and has performed over 6,000 rescue operations.
This guy is truly a badass
and ended up performing a total of four searches
between October 21st and November 9th.
However, windy conditions made it very difficult
for them to fly on certain days,
but that did not slow them down.
Local woman disappears while on a yoga retreat in Guatemala,
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Search and rescue teams now working tirelessly
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Leanne Souter is live this evening in Alhambra.
We were hearing from that woman's heartbroken family.
Leanne?
Jory and Michelle, where is Nancy Ng and what happened to her?
Those are just some of the answers that her family is desperately trying to find as the
search continues for the missing 29-year-old.
By November 8th, Chris said that he and his team had searched 99% of the lake up to a
depth of five feet.
Had Nancy's body been floating anywhere near the surface
they would have found her, but they didn't. So they also hired a company called Bruce's Legacy
and they conducted underwater searches from December 3rd to December 21st.
Bruce's Legacy used remote operated vehicles to search the lake and by using long cables on these vehicles they were able to reach the bottom. Unfortunately though, due to weather and equipment damage,
they were only able to search a portion of the lake.
And Nikki and Jonathan even flew out to Guatemala
in December to help Bruce's legacy
determine the search area,
as well as collect their sisters' belongings,
but these efforts sadly came up empty handed.
There is one more company I wanna mention that helped them
and that is Rescue International. By virtually interviewing bystanders and some retreat participants,
they were able to help hone in on a search area or at least provide a much more, you
know, educated guess. Because like I've already said several times, this is a huge, huge like,
I mean, can you even imagine how difficult and how time consuming it would be to search
an area that's equivalent to 24,000 football fields?
But despite the combined efforts and all of the dozens of truly amazing people that have
tried their best to find Nancy, nothing has been found.
There has been nothing to indicate where Nancy could even be. Nikki did say that,
you know, in all of this it has been truly amazing to see so many kind people come out and do
everything they can to help them and to help find Nancy. She told me that they have encountered some
truly incredible people who have done everything that they possibly can to help her family. And I
mean these are people who owed them nothing, but gave them everything.
And that gives me faith in humanity.
And even in times where her family
couldn't afford to fly out to Guatemala,
there were people that stepped up and, you know,
took on that burden of searching
and doing everything that they could for them.
It's just the truest form of kindness and humanity.
And these community efforts span
not just days but weeks and even still no real answers have been found. However, her
kayak was located but even that has brought up many questions.
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Another person said that it was found face up with the paddle inside.
And these seemingly small things might not seem important to you, but to her family every little detail matters.
Now here is where we get into where
things get real sketchy and frustrating. You would think that the search and rescue team would have
a good indication of where to start looking based on Christina's recount of where they were and her
experience of what has happened, right? And this is going to blow your mind and piss you off.
right? And this is going to blow your mind and piss you off. But Christina has not said anything.
Anything. She has never stated where they were on the lake when this happened. She has not even spoken to the Ing family at all to this day. And not only that, she's declined to speak with or
assist the search and rescue team at all.
And her lack of cooperation is part of the reason
why I'm talking to you about this case today.
Because had Christina been forthcoming from the beginning
and had the search and rescue teams been given
a clear indication of even where to start looking
in those first few days,
it's possible that Nancy would have been found.
Because obviously that's all her family wants.
She has said they're not in denial that Nancy is gone, but they want to find her and they want
answers as to why the people who were with her on her last stand Earth have acted so strangely
following all this. I mean, it makes zero sense. And let me just explain more of this bizarre behavior
because I think you will understand why Nancy's family
just feels so frustrated and confused.
Starting with a detail I mentioned earlier
about the entire yoga retreat group
leaving the day after Nancy's disappearance.
We know that what happened to Nancy happened sometime
in the early afternoon
on October 19th. Well, at 6 a.m. on October 20th, the entire group packed up their shit,
left the hotel, and headed to Guatemala City where they would be flying out on their way back to the
States. Now I do want to note that this group was planning to leave that day regardless. However,
that this group was planning to leave that day regardless. However, the detail that I think needs to be emphasized here
is the fact that according to the trip itinerary,
they weren't supposed to leave their hotel until 10 a.m.
Yet they packed up and left four hours early.
And Nikki says that she was told that they did this
to avoid roadblocks.
And it's my understanding that they all booked
their own travel for this trip.
So some of them were scheduled to leave on the 20th,
some of them were scheduled to leave on the 21st.
And Christina was one of those people
who didn't need to leave or wasn't scheduled to leave
until the 21st.
Meaning she could have stayed to assist search
and rescue and authorities.
However, she actively chose not to.
And the same can be said for Eddie
because another participant said that he wasn't supposed
to leave on the 20th.
However, he did.
He packed up with the rest of them and got out of there.
And another participant said that they felt
like they were being quickly ushered by Eddie,
pressured to get going as fast as possible.
He left with all of them at 6 a.m. and the strange behavior doesn't end there.
He has been called into question for allegedly changing his flight to leave Guatemala a day
early.
And he does deny these allegations, but internet sleuths and podcaster Ed Choi believes that
he's disproven that.
With the help of someone who works for
United Airlines, it's been said that Eddie's original flight was actually supposed to leave
on October 22nd.
But on October 20th, a day after the incident, he purchased a new flight to leave on the
21st.
If he has the ability to stay and help assist to help search for someone who he claims is his friend.
Why would he go out of his way, allegedly, to get home sooner?
And let's just say that these allegations aren't true.
Let's give him the benefit of the doubt for a second.
Why would you not choose to stay in Guatemala longer and help search for your friend?
Why not push your flight back maybe even a week
and stay and participate in the search and rescue efforts, participate in the helicopter searches,
even just stay in the area to, you know, be a point of contact and help for authorities and
search and rescue. I just don't understand this. It just feels like the natural human response to stay and neither him or
Christina did. And they also left before they could give a statement to the prosecutor investigating
the case, Jose Racinos. I mentioned before how the prosecutor's office didn't get word
of what happened until the 20th. Well, he went to the hotel on the 20th to get Christina
and Eddie's statements and they were already gone.
And again, let's give them the benefit of the doubt for a second here.
Let's say they didn't know that they needed to stay and give another statement.
Let's say they just had no idea.
Well, you would think that you would at least provide necessary contact information and stay in touch in case they needed to ask you anything, right?
As you probably guessed, nope, they absolutely weren't.
Eddie wouldn't even give the prosecutor Christina's contact information when asked.
He said that she'd already spoken with someone from the US embassy and that she basically
did her due diligence.
But the thing is, the US embassy can't share personal information if that person doesn't want it shared,
and Christina obviously doesn't want that shared.
Eddie also wouldn't provide Nikki
with photos of her sister from that day,
even though multiple participants
and a hotel staff member told her
that group photos were taken on his phone
before they set out on the lake that day.
And obviously these photos mean so much to them
because not only are they precious last photos,
last memories of Nancy,
but they could also be helpful in the search
if they had a more accurate way of describing
what Nancy was wearing that day
to the search and rescue teams.
Let's say an article of clothing comes to the surface.
It would be helpful to know
if that possibly belonged to Nancy.
Their family just doesn't understand,
and I don't understand, I think a lot of you
don't probably understand why Eddie and Christina
would be acting so strangely about this day.
Why are they not being as forthcoming as possible?
Why did they leave early if nothing criminal happened?
And obviously that's just their opinion,
that's just my opinion.
All of this is alleged.
It's really important for me to note that no one here
obviously is guilty until proven so in a court of law.
And her family became even more concerned and confused
five days after Nancy's death
when they received the police report.
The Ng family waited to receive
that police report for five days, thinking that when it finally came, they would get closure
that they really needed. They even had to hire a power of attorney to obtain that report. But when
they got it, that closure was not there because when they started looking through it, they found
that Christina's statement was not included, which left them
not only hurt and confused, but also incredibly shocked.
The reality is, Christina was the only witness to what happened to Nancy and they were relying
on her statement, her recount of what happened to give them that clarity and peace.
They knew her statement wasn't going to bring Nancy back. Obviously they knew that, but they thought that it would at least provide them with answers as to what
happened or to at least understand it more. And they didn't get that because her statement was
omitted from the report. Now what I'm going to say next, I want you to pay attention to. However,
please note that this is entirely alleged. However,
that being said, it is something that is being investigated in the event that it is true. It
has been alleged that the reason that Christina's statement is excluded from the report is because
some sort of bribe has taken place. Again, this is not confirmed.
No one knows if this is true, this is alleged,
but it is being investigated.
And a bribe would explain why her statement
wasn't put in the official report
and why there's no record of her going
to the police station at all that evening.
And I guess this is where myself, her family,
so many others are wondering what the reason is.
What is the reason that Christina's statement is not included in the report?
And unfortunately, the participant who went with Christina to the police station to give
this statement hasn't given any insight as to why that could be.
And that's because they haven't even responded to Nikki's messages.
And I will say that it has been stated by someone involved in this that had Christina's
statement been included, that she would have had to stay in the country for an additional
three to five days.
So I wonder if it's possible that her statement was omitted to allow her to leave, but I don't
know.
But again, again, again, I just got to say this.
This is alleged.
It's not confirmed whether or not this bribe happened, but bribe or no bribe.
Why are they acting so strange if nothing criminal happened?
That's just my own curiosity.
Why?
I don't understand.
Why would they be acting this way if they did nothing wrong?
Why?
So we didn't get the police report until five days after the incident because we were told
that our family needed to hire a power of attorney to obtain the report.
And the plus side of that was that per Guatemalan law, that allows our family to take part in
the investigation.
And when we first got the report, we noticed right away that the witness statement was missing.
You first thought it was a mistake, like maybe it was misfiled, or it just hadn't been sent
to us. If we just ask around, we'll probably find it. We'll give the situation the benefit
of the doubt.
And I even like messaged the US embassy and the tourism assistance program and just to
make sure like this is the full police report, right? And to confirm, yes, it is.
And then we started to hear allegations of a bribery at the police station and then a second and then a third.
And it was hard not to be concerned.
And when we first heard about these bribe allegations, even we were a little bit hesitant and kind of in disbelief.
And our attorney explained to us actually that it is very common in Guatemala,
like bribes, corruption.
Like, and he was saying anybody can be bribed,
prosecutors, DAs, the attorney general even.
And it's essentially a standard of practice there
because it's so common.
But it still leads us to wonder,
like what necessitated a bribe.
That's when we started to get really suspicious.
And we can empathize and maybe understand how it may be scary to talk to Guatemalan authorities
during a foreign country. You don't know how their justice system works.
But it's kind of hard to understand her continued silence after returning to the safety of the US.
Yeah, at first we heard that she was traumatized and she needed some time to herself and with
her family before she could talk to us.
And then we started to hear about how she was like at the same time the week after going
to yoga, we had a report that she was getting her hair done and telling her stylist exactly
what would happen before she could told us what happened.
We heard that she told another student at the yoga that she didn't owe the family
anything, which was to put it lightly.
Just concerning to us.
We've also heard that she had told Eddie that she just wanted to see her daughter.
Um, and we can understand that, but I think how about our mom too? We also heard that she had told Eddie that she just wanted to see her daughter.
And we can understand that.
But I think, how about our mom too?
Is there any time under schedule to talk to our mom?
But it's just that the narrative of there being no foul play, that everything was just
normal drowning and there's nothing else to look into. It was increasingly hard to believe that like after just a series of events, them leaving the
day after, allegations of a bribe, hearing different conflicting versions of Christina's story,
like her refusing to help search teams and just the silence. It's hard not to wonder what
information is true and what information has been intentionally omitted.
So after learning that Christina's statement was missing from the report, Nikki texted Eddie
thinking that he'd reassure her in some way that this was all a misunderstanding.
But he never replied to that text and I'm sure that doesn't shock you.
And then she texted him again five days later asking if he would get on a Zoom with her to discuss the details
of where on the lake Nancy might have been,
and again, he didn't reply.
It wasn't until three days later that he called her back
and accused her and her family
of perpetuating a false image of him in the media.
Mind you, per their lawyer's instructions,
they had not released any information regarding
the name of the retreat, who organized it, where they stayed, the witness, any of that.
And despite the tension that had grown and all of the issues and strange behavior that
they had been made aware of, Nicky, Jonathan, and the rest of their family maintained a
sense of kindness and patience with them that he never reciprocated. So Eddie's behavior in the days, weeks, and months following the incident have been strange
to say the least. We were pretty appalled by his response to the whole thing. I think
in general, it just felt very self-centered. He would say things like, this is the hardest
phone call I'll ever have to make. You know, it's hard for me to look at photos, so I'll send you some when I get myself together too kind of thing. And I just requested photos,
not only from the trip to show my mom, but also just photos from the day of the incident
so I can show the search team like what she was wearing last. And overall, he just had
this, I felt like an unsaid reluctance to help. He didn't want to share Christina's last name
or contact info because she was traumatized.
He didn't want to text my brother, Jonathan, directly.
He said, oh, I feel more comfortable talking to you,
so let's keep it between us.
So I really just copy and pasted what Jonathan had asked him
and, you know, texted him personally.
And something that really bugged me about his response to this
was that the first day he told me that,
you know, I'm treating this as if Nancy were my own sister.
And in the moment, that was very comforting to hear.
But then I learned that the group left the next day.
And so I had called him the following day on the 20th
just to ask like, hey, I know this is a really big ask,
but it's my sister.
Would you or anybody else in the group be able to stay and help with the search or at the very
least like recruit volunteers? And I called, he didn't answer, so I messaged him that. And he
didn't respond until hours later where he said, oh, I was trying to sleep, but we've done all we can do.
And we heard that someone saw him see the call and flip over the phone.
So that in itself is kind of disturbing that he didn't, you know, at least pass on my requests to others in the group and give them that option.
And we learned that he booked an early flight to leave too.
I don't think he was supposed to leave with the group on that same day, but he did.
So I think all those little actions really just raised red flags for us.
Yeah.
I remember one instance where he had this screenshot where he had this map and drew
a red circle on it and it was like extremely far to where they were saying of.
Where it could have been.
So we just wanted to ask a follow up question, like, okay, like what's the context around this circle?
What perspective were you going from?
Cause there's a bias in like seeing distance when you're on the ground.
And all we got was just refers to the map.
If you look there, you'll find her.
And what we mean is we asked them to circle on the map where they had left
the dock and a different circle where he last saw Nancy and Christina
or where he thinks they were. And even the first circle of where they left the dock was
way off from where they did. So I don't know if he just maybe didn't put much thought in
the map or it was a mistake. I'm not too sure, but he just kept saying, referred to the map.
It's the most accurate thing. Like show the search teams the map. And we did, but I don't know how accurate that was. Later, a few weeks later, I, you know,
because I was sensing his reluctance to help and he was the person that had told me that Christina's
statement would be in the report. I was like, look, Eddie, I texted him. I don't know how much you know,
but we don't have Christina's statement in that report. We don't have anything. And that's why
we're asking you and other participants these questions. We're just trying to learn what happened and where to find
her and he didn't respond. And a few days later I texted him again and I said, we have new point of
view photos from where you guys were sitting like overlooking the lake. Can we hop on a zoom call
quickly just to get your thoughts on this? And again, no response. It wasn't until a few days later
that he called me and he basically blamed my family for perpetuating this false image of him
to the media. And I just remember saying, look, we, at this time, we haven't shared anything
because our attorney said, don't share anything. We haven't shared the name of, you know, the retreat,
the hotel, your name, like nothing.
And so I don't control the internet.
And I told him like, you have your own platform.
If you want to speak up by all means, do so.
But it was just, you know, the audacity to call and blame my family for that.
I didn't know how to feel about the fact that Eddie had ignored a week
long request to communicate with the family,
breaking that silence only so he could ask the family to stop the media from
portraying him as someone who wouldn't communicate with the family.
And I think just little bizarre things like learning that he had returned to work and somebody had
asked him how the retreat went and he said great. I think just little things just kept raising red flags,
but we haven't been in contact with him since.
It's again why I say that their family is so impressive
because from day one,
they have been nothing but kind and patient.
They have approached this situation with respect and empathy
even when they had every reason not to.
They've given everyone, especially Christina,
the benefit of the doubt
at nearly every point along the way.
And here's a primary example of that.
In the first five days after Nancy went missing,
their family chose to not contact Christina
because they had heard that she was really struggling
after witnessing such a traumatic event.
They felt like maybe she wasn't ready
to talk about it. They wanted to give her that space and time, even though it would
have been really helpful to talk to her right away. They gave her that grace to, to process.
They showed empathy for how difficult it must have been for her. And that, that just says
so much about them. And when that police report came in and it was missing her statement,
at first they gave her the benefit of the doubt again, thinking that maybe something
it was misfiled or left out, like there was some type of mistake or reason why it wasn't there.
They didn't jump to the worst because they figured that seeing someone drown would be very traumatic
and they wanted to trust that she had good intentions.
That's partly why Nikki and Jonathan decided to wait
until October 25th to first reach out to her.
They sent her an email and I'm gonna read it to you.
Hi Christina, my name is Nikki Ng.
My brother Jonathan is also CC'd here.
We are Nancy's sister and brother.
We received your information from some guests
at the Hotel Isla Verde.
As you can imagine, the days since Nancy's disappearance
have been incredibly painful and difficult.
We understand that you were with her on the water
and would like to extend our sympathy
for the traumatic experience you must have endured.
We have search and rescue teams currently deployed
looking for Nancy.
Unfortunately, their efforts have been challenged
by weather conditions and incomplete information.
We are reaching out in hopes that you might have that information that will greatly aid
in our search.
Will you please tell us what you saw during the incident?
We understand how difficult it is to revisit such a traumatic event, but our family needs
as much information as possible to find Nancy.
Please don't hesitate to reach out.
We hope to hear from you soon.
Thanks,
Nikki and Jonathan." And I think it goes without saying that that email was incredibly
empathetic and respectful. However, Christina did not respond. She could not even show the
courtesy to respond to give them the time of day. And she didn't respond days later,
on October 31st, when they sent her a follow up email. The The second email reads, Hey Christina, it's Nikki and Jonathan again.
We have attempted to contact you on prior occasions
to request you speak on the facts
of my sister's disappearance,
and you have failed to reply.
This raises suspicion not only with me,
but also with my family and friends
that you may be hiding something.
While we can have compassion
for what may have been a traumatic event,
we cannot understand why you will not
voluntarily speak with us.
It's been nearly two weeks since our sister has gone missing
and we are desperate to get the answers that we need
in order to find her.
We encourage you to contact us
so that we can get a full explanation
of what you saw or heard leading up to the events of Nancy's disappearance.
Please help us to understand what happened and bring Nancy home. If you fail to cooperate,
we will pursue this matter further." And I think we can all agree that this email was also very
respectful. It was firm, yes, but it wasn't rude, it wasn't threatening, and it still was empathetic.
And I say threatening specifically
because Christina's lawyer Christopher Gardner would soon speak out and say that the Ng family
threatened his client. And that was the email he was referring to. I'm very confused here. Did we
not read the same thing? I mean, I just read it to you word for word. Do any of you think that it
was threatening? Obviously, he's referring to, we are going to pursue this matter further.
That is not a threat.
That is showing how serious they are.
That is being firm in a very serious situation.
And this is their missing sister.
Of course, they're going to pursue this matter further.
Up until this point, they have been told that their loved one died
and that they'd learn about what happened in the police report
only to find out that that information was omitted from the police report and the one person who can
easily just tell them what happened is refusing to talk to them.
Christina has even said that she doesn't owe their family anything.
It makes me so angry to even say that you don't owe them anything.
What?
Nothing at all?
You don't want to give them anything?
Like it's mind-blowing
to me that this is coming from someone who goes on 10-day yoga retreats. I mean, maybe
that's just stereotyping, but it's like, I don't know. Maybe you guys disagree with
me on that. I just think it lacks empathy in such a human way. I almost have no words.
It's just, it's unbelievable. I just, I don't get it. I cannot get it, I will never get it.
And not only is she not helping their family,
but she is also not helping the search and rescue teams.
Like what reason would you have not to help in any way?
You saw this happen.
Like just show a shred of human decency.
Now, Keith, who works for Bruce's legacy,
emailed Christina and her attorney a list of human decency. Now Keith, who works for Bruce's legacy, emailed Christina and her
attorney a list of questions that he wanted answered so that he and his team could be better
guided in their search efforts. And they weren't hard questions either and yet no response once
again. Chris Sharpe, who has led the helicopter searches, has actually stated that at this point
in his mind, this is a criminal investigation because of how uncooperative the witness has been.
In fact, Chris was the one
who first named Christina publicly.
In a press release from November 13th, 2023,
Chris became the first person
to publicly identify Christina as the witness.
Up until that point, Nikki, Jonathan,
and the rest of their family had chose
to keep her name out of the media
because they had been advised to and they didn't want to scare her off.
Literally, all they want to know is what happened to Nancy.
They just want to understand what happened that day.
I mean, is that too much to ask?
Oh, and listen to this.
When Christina finally did make a statement, she of course did it through her attorney.
On November 14th, the day after she was first publicly named, attorney
Christopher Gardner spoke out on Christina's behalf. And here is what she said through
him. Like I already explained, the group went out on their scheduled activity for the day,
and at some point they appeared to have split up. Now, I don't know if it was just Nancy
and Christina who split off from the group or if everyone went and did their own thing.
But regardless, we know that according to Christina's story, she and
Nancy happened upon each other while out in deep waters. This is when, according
to Christina, Nancy told her that she was gonna get in the water and go for a
swim. And despite Christina telling Nancy not to because the water and current
conditions were rough, She did it anyway.
And then when Nancy hopped out of the kayak,
the kayak was pushed in the opposite direction
and began floating away.
This is when Christina says she attempted to retrieve it.
She said she did retrieve it.
And once she got ahold of it,
she put one leg in her kayak, one leg in Nancy's kayak, and attempted to bring it back to
Nancy. But then she says Nancy's kayak got away from her, so she turned around to attempt to
retrieve it again, and when she looked back around, Nancy was gone. To my knowledge, there was no
mention of how long she had turned away from Nancy, but she said that once she realized Nancy was gone,
she paddled back to shore and sent out a distress signal.
And I've already shared the order of events that transpired after this, but keep in mind,
this is just Christina's version of events.
We have no way of knowing if any of this is true.
What's interesting though is that in the police report, the hotel manager said that Christina mentioned not knowing if Nancy fell from the kayak or if she chose to get
into the water, which to now be saying that she knew she purposely got in the water is
a conflicting statement. But bottom line here is Christina's lack of cooperation has been
infuriating for the Ng family. And that was only made worse when her attorney refuted
any idea that she was anything but helpful. And just take a listen for yourself to say that
my client hasn't done all she can. It's just not true. The attorney for
Christina Blazic is sharing her account of what happened to Nancy Ing while out
kayaking. She tried to tell her not to swim because it was rough out there and
there was a good current blazek. A San Bernardino County public defender was
also on the lake through her attorney. She says, despite her warning, ing went
for a swim in the process, pushing her kayak away into the water, which blazek
then tried to retrieve. She kept one leg in her kayak and one leg in the other
kayak and tried to get back to her
And got close to her
And then apparently she lost the kayak again and she turned around to go back to get the kayak again
And when she turned back around
Missing little girl she went and then was told she needed to go talk to the police
Then she went and gave a full statement to Guatemala police
He also said that his client spoke with the FBI after learning that Guatemalan authorities were
looking to speak with her and again that she cooperated with them fully. Plus he addressed
the rumors about her leaving early and said that she tried to tell authorities where to look but
that she wasn't very familiar with the lake. He says that the Guatemalan authorities basically
told her that it's okay that people drown in this lake all the time.
But the hotel owner who was with her at the police station said something much different.
They said that the officer was reprimanding her for not sticking around to help,
for going out into the water that far if she didn't know how to swim.
And apparently the officer even threatened her
with jail time.
And honestly, this whole he said, she said
is very emblematic of this entire case.
Nikki says that she and her family have been told
so many different accounts of what happened,
so many conflicting statements from Christina
that it's hard to figure out what's true and what's not.
And then to hear Christina's attorney
making her out to be the victim, I mean, it's so frustrating, it's unimaginable. He says that this whole experience
has been traumatizing for her and that she doesn't have to speak with their family if she doesn't
want to. Now, I have a million thoughts on this myself, and I'm sure all of you do as well,
but I think it's most important to hear directly from the people that have been impacted by Christina's actions the most.
So the first time we heard Christina's statement somewhat directly from her was through her
attorney, Mr. Gardner, on the news.
It was very strange watching the news about our sister and hearing it for the first time
on the news.
Like in this day and age, for the victim's family to firsthand get that information in an ongoing
investigation through the news was kind of bizarre.
And we were also a bit confused as to why she had an attorney to begin with.
We thought maybe it was because she was scared of some sort of liability, but it was a bit
off putting, I think, that she had an attorney.
It was about four weeks after Nancy had gone missing and only a day after we released names
that Christina's lawyer shared among other things with the media that Christina was drawn to where
the water changes color. And our search team told us that the location where the water changes color
shifts with time and that that would have been crucial information if it had been given at the
time of the incident. So I guess it only goes to show how many details that Christina holds that we need.
Yeah.
And it's not to say like the search teams are asking for specific
coordinates or anything like that.
It's more very like innocent questions that only she can answer.
For example, they were asking like, you said Nancy's kayak was drifting,
which direction it was adrift team.
Um, were there any landmarks that you remember, um remember about how long do you think it took you to paddle back
to shore? Yeah, how long after Nancy had gone missing did you stay in the kayak before paddling
to shore? That's all critical. So I think, you know, her lack of cooperation with the search teams
has been one of the biggest red flags. And we got to speak with the search teams in Guatemala,
and they did share with us how important it was
for the witness to participate in the search,
just because they've had stories where the only witness
was able to pinpoint the exact location of their loved one
or where they were missing.
And we're not asking for that by any means,
but I think even just some input from the only witness
to Nancy's disappearance could go a long way.
Yeah.
It's really hard to say that that information isn't important.
I will say, you know, it has hindered the search, but I think also the investigation
because without a body, it's really difficult to determine for sure for certain whether
or not there was foul play.
I think hearing information, not indirectly, not directly,
through the media, through select statements,
that doesn't give us the opportunity
to have a dialogue and ask questions.
So we've been essentially trying to make a feast
just using scraps of information.
And that continues to hurt both search and investigation efforts.
Now, at the start of this episode,
I said very clearly that it is not 100% confirmed
that foul play is involved in this case.
And if you couldn't already tell from what Nikki and Jonathan have said, their family
feels very torn.
On one hand, they've gone through the last five months wanting to believe this was just
a terrible accident.
But on the other hand, the actions of certain people have caused them to question what really
happened.
And I completely understand where they're coming from.
I mean, here we are five months later.
They've had to fight tooth and nail to get any answers.
And now all they have is one very vague statement from Christina that didn't even come directly
from her.
And so after all this time, they still don't feel like they have any answers.
And I don't feel like they do either.
Now, I casually mentioned a few minutes ago that Christina spoke with the FBI,
and I do want to touch on that a little more.
Both Christina and Eddie are said to have given statements to the FBI.
And in mid-November, the Bureau did say that they were not aware of any evidence of foul play.
But Nikki has expressed that this ruling is difficult because they don't believe
that the FBI has given 100% effort into their investigation. For starters, they promised to
speak with all retreat participants, but only spoke with Christina and Eddie. Their family feels that
speaking to everyone on the trip is incredibly important, especially because people have
varying accounts of Christina's experience and might have information on the omitted statement.
The FBI also had Nancy's parents sign consent forms to have her belongings in electronic search,
but that never happened.
Everyone in their family has felt let down by how this investigation was handled,
but they also haven't given up hope that they can still help them.
The reality is, Guatemala has once been deemed a good place to commit murder.
And the Ng family isn't saying for certain that that's what happened to Nancy,
but seeing how grossly mishandled this case has been, it allows their minds to wander.
And without Nancy's body, they worry they won't ever feel confident about what actually happened to her.
And the original prosecutor, Jose Racinos, entirely stopped communicating with their
family and they were left in the dark for weeks.
And all the promises that he made to them went in the dark with him.
It wasn't until recently that they learned that the case was passed on to another prosecutor
who is saying there's nothing they can do because there is no evidence of a crime. At this point, Nikki, Jonathan and the rest of their family just have to
hold out hope that the search and rescue teams will be able to recover Nancy's body. Even
in the event that this was truly an accident, they desperately want to find her and be able
to lay this to rest and begin taking steps towards healing. And this is absolutely heartbreaking, but in the first four weeks of all of this,
Nancy's father held out hope that he would get a call
from someone asking for ransom.
He believed that his daughter might possibly still be alive.
And as a parent, I can totally understand,
you know, holding onto any type of hope.
He felt like there was a chance they could bring her home one day.
Oh, it's just so sad.
And I'm going to say it again, but I'm just so impressed with this family.
They have been so patient, kind and understanding through all of this when they had every reason
not to be.
And that's why I want to help them today.
And I hope that you all want to help them too.
A GoFundMe was started to help raise funds for the Ing family as they continue their
search and rescue efforts because as you can imagine, it is not cheap, especially because
this is in Guatemala.
You have to consider all of the travel that they have to do.
And I mean, these things are just expensive searches like this, especially in bodies of
water can rack up in price very quickly. This family has had to pay for all of this
out of their own pockets,
and it's just not sustainable
for them to keep doing this alone.
And so, of course, I'm gonna be making a donation
on behalf of this channel,
and I really hope that any of you out there
who are able to and feel so inclined
make a donation
as well, you know, for any amount big or small that is going to be put to good use. I promise
you they are currently planning their next search with rescue international and the more
support they get the better overall the funds collected from the GoFundMe are going towards
helicopter and rescue team efforts, equipment for volunteer divers, boat rescue teams, as well as
the potential use of a submarine and sonar equipment. And one piece of equipment that
they're looking to rent is an AUV or an autonomous underwater vehicle. Now this is an extremely
expensive piece of equipment that would allow them to search the depths of the lake without
sending a crew of humans into possibly dangerous situations. Not only that, this money is also going towards, like I said, their travel to and from Guatemala
and to those family members who have had to take time off of work to be part of the search.
So that will be linked below in the description box.
Please check it out.
Please share it.
That would be great as well if you're not able to donate yourself.
And you can also help them by reaching out to Tobin Bradley,
the US ambassador to Guatemala.
The reality is, Guatemalan authorities
haven't asked US authorities for assistance.
They said they don't need their help,
but the US has resources that could help bring Nancy home
and give this family the answers they need.
So by emailing Tobin Bradley,
we hope that he sees the importance
of making this request
happen and we want to put pressure on him to escalate Nancy's case to the appropriate authorities
and we also believe he can facilitate communication between Nancy's family and someone in Guatemala who
can update them on the investigation. Right now the prosecutor is ignoring their messages and they
should not have to feel this left in the dark.
In the description box or show notes,
if you are listening to the podcast version of this episode,
you can find an email template that you can copy and paste
along with where to send the email.
I'm also going to have a sample tweet that you can post
to try to get the attention of the US Embassy in Guatemala.
Putting pressure on them publicly
is often a really good way to get results,
and I know it's pretty easy for you guys to do. You can also email your local congressperson
about escalating this case and getting US assistance with the search and investigation.
So please consider taking the time to do that. And you guys have really showed up for families
on my show before. And I really hope that we can see that today by sharing this case
with all of you, because I know how passionate a lot of you are about justice. And even if justice doesn't need
to be served here, even if there is no foul play, this family, I think we can all agree
deserves answers and deserves to be treated better in all of this. I mean, it makes no
sense. I do want to remind you though, if you send an email or a tweet or anything like
that, the key is kindness. and I haven't always relayed this
clearly in the past because I've always taken the angry approach myself like years ago but I've
learned over time that it is way better to send something that is done with respect firm but
respect and that's why I'm making templates to make it easier for you guys but please don't send
anything that's going to be off putting or turn them away from
helping in any way.
Our family is immensely incredibly grateful for the online community
support during this time.
Thank you for following as you story and her case and for all your support.
We'd organize the first deep water search effort in December of last year, but we
weren't able to complete even
the primary search area due to really high winds.
So if you're able to, we'd appreciate
any help you can provide.
To conduct a second deep water search mission
and finish the primary search area where Nancy was last
believed to be seen, we need to hire search professionals,
purchase more equipment, and pay for their expenses.
So this, first of all, might be a shot in the dark, but it, you happen to know
anybody who works with autonomous underwater vehicles, AUVs, remotely
operated vehicles, ROVs, Doppler velocity loggers, DVLs, or ultra short baselines.
Uh, USBLs please reach out to help us by Nancy at gmlipound.
And another way you can help is to help us pressure our own government to get
involved.
The problem we're running into is that the original prosecutor that we spoke to, Prosecutor
Racinos, had a plan to interview and obtain declarations from relevant individuals.
And we haven't heard back from him.
It's been radio silence.
We learned recently that Nancy's case has been passed on to a new prosecutor
that we haven't been able to get in touch with either. So it's really difficult for
us not to know what's going on with the investigation there and to know that the U.S. does have
resources that they can offer. So what you can do to help is one of two things. We can
email the U.S. ambassador in Guatemala. His name is Tobin Bradley, and you
can email him at amicidsquadamala.state.gov. Something else you can do is to contact your
local congressperson to get involved. And we'll provide a template for both of these. But the
general questions are, how can we escalate this to the right authorities? How can the U.S. contribute
for both the search and the investigation? And the most important questions for our family at least are, what exactly happened to Nancy
and where do we find her?
We just want to bring her home so she can be back with us. And lastly, if you're able
to, help be able to help us finance the next search mission. Repreciation, funeral donations,
the Argo FundMe are appreciated.
And every bit goes a long way.
We do also post regular updates on our Instagram, Help Us Finance, and our GoFundMe as well.
Thank you for following.
Thank you.
But with all that being said, I'm going to wrap up today's episode.
I feel strongly that this case can reach a conclusion if the right people
get involved, first of all, and if the right people come forward and are transparent and
honest. Sadly, that hasn't happened in all this family wants his answers and it's possible
for them to get those. They want to bring Nancy home. They want to bury her. They want
that closure. They want to understand what happened that day.
And if they need to seek justice, they want that as well. But at this point, they just
don't have enough information to even know if that's needed, you know? And no family
should have to go through this on top of such a tragic and scary loss.
Again, I want to thank Nikki and Jonathan for taking the time to help me understand this case
and to be part of this episode.
And thank you to all of you who have taken the time
to listen to Nancy's story.
It means a lot.
That is gonna be it for me today, guys.
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