We're Here to Help - 126: Shirt Title Merch Business with Catherine Reitman

Episode Date: October 28, 2024

Jake, Gareth and special guest Cat Reitman talk to a caller about some issues at a cardio dance class. Later, Jake and Gareth chat with callers about planning a murder mystery party and better ways to cut the grass. Want to call in? Email your question to [e-mail]: heretohelppod.comINSTAGRAM: @HereToHelpPodTIKTOK: @HereToHelpPodIf you’re enjoying the show, make sure to rate We’re Here to Help 5-Stars on Apple Podcasts.Advertise on We’re Here to Help via Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Blasting through stuff today. We are laying down as they say pipe and we're great When you're doing a lot of work at once it's called your lane pipe brother, okay? All right? That's what we're doing Yeah, yeah, we're laying a bunch of pipe today quick question for the guys. What's your favorite? Thing of currency a one of five a ten a twenty a fifty a hundo easy. I got it right away to a You love a good bill Garret the response if I get it if I see a two. Yeah, I'm like, uh, yeah, they were like the best They were cool. I need even have one in my wallet. Yeah.

When I like when I'll sell merch, like if someone comes up with twos, I'm like, they count as threes don't even that's that's $3 to me. That's as weird as it gets because you're making math harder for them. And you, nobody wins when you hang out with me, you know, you should do, you should have a piece of, uh, merch that's like a pin or something that's two bucks and you can only get it if you got a two dollar bill. Oh that's pretty good. You travel around with like a suitcase full of merch? I it's well I drive I drive when I drive I take a shitload of stuff. You do yeah yeah. Yeah and and then after the show Luke will like put out all this stuff and he makes all this stuff

But it is truly insane after the show the van looks problematic about Kevin favorite currency I would I'm leaning five, but I probably would say ten I like just like I feel confident when I have a ten I'm gonna get like 90% of what I need with a very. That's a very Kevin answer, mine's, now Jake, stay on brand. 50. Interesting. 100% fit, not even a question. Yeah. 50s are great.

If I'm getting a bunch of cash to go somewhere in Vegas, I always ask for 50s, I hate the hundos. If I'm going to the cashier at the casino, you know, you're cashing in, I go, can I get it in 50s? What's it like to make money when gambling? I don't know, I'm talking about when I was like, I've gotten a lot of money. If you go somewhere and you have 100, I'll still be like, is this OK?

Most places, they're like, yeah, buddy, it's not like 19. Yeah, we can take 100. You are aging us 100%. I do that. I do that. Do you change for 100? I'm so sorry to ruin your Saturday. My dad, when I was growing up, whenever we'd have like Christmas or a birthday, the gift

would be we'd go to his condo and he would hide a hundred dollar bill around the house. This is awesome. And getting a C-note just being like in 1985. That is the greatest. I can go to Sharper Image and buy something. Everything. Who's aging who? No, one thing. You go to Sharper, even back in the day, I could be like, dude, I'm to Sharper Image and buy something. Everything. Who's aging who? One thing, you go to Sharper, even back in the day,

I could be like, dude, I'm at Sharper Image and I'd be walking around my scene out and be like, I can't get anything. That basketball hoop costs $350, it's 1986. It's like, you're looking like a weird like globe and they'd be like, that's $4,000. What does it do, massage you? And they're like, of course.

Yeah, it does everything. It's a lighter. Loved massage chairs. I love massage chair. The sharper image, I was like, this is what every store should be. Good. One of the cool shops to ever exist. Yeah, those mall days. That was something fierce.

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a new crowd work special. You can go check that out. You can go to the All Things Comedy YouTube page and check that out for me. Now I'm done. Without further ado! Hello. Hi, welcome. Kat, do you want to do the intro? Do you feel upset? Is that a bump in pay? I don't know, but I'll try. Give us a shot. I hear a, hi there caller. What's your name? Good.

Hello. Let's call me Sarah. Very confusing for us. Sarah, where are you calling from? Good. Sorry. I was hoping to say, I'm sorry. I was hoping to say, I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm let's call me Sarah very confusing for us Sarah where are you calling? Good sorry, I mean I was hoping to stay a little bit anonymous. I'm calling from South, Texas

Cool, and do you have anything you'd like to discuss a problem something you need advice with? You're on the cat right minute Jake and Gareth just so you know go ahead Sarah Hello Reitman and Jake and Gareth, just so you know. Go ahead, Sarah. Hello. Okay, so my problem is I go to a dance class at my gym and it's super fun, high energy, the instructor keeps it really fun, we have a great time. She will, the instructor will sometimes come out into like where the students are or participants and kind of dance with us for a few counts. And for instance, if I snake to the right, she snakes to the left. So it's just fun. And we have a great time. There is one other participant in the group in the class who shows up seldomly, but when

they do show up, they're kind of like a heckler from the back where they're like, they'll just yell out random things like, Oh, that's my favorite song or who sings that again? And it's kind of awkward. But the biggest problem is, is that she will try to do what the instructor does and dance with us. Well, actually mostly me. So she'll get behind me and try to do what the instructor does. But like I said earlier, she doesn't come that often, so she doesn't know the moves as well. And so she messes up and then I mess up and it's a hot, it's a total mess.

And at the end, I was so happy to have this problem because I thought it would be perfect for this show. I've Sarah, you're this is perfection. What's the problem? What do you want? What do you want advice on? You want to stop this action? Okay, so yes, she this person is a nice person. And I feel like I'm relatively nice, too. So my problem is, how do I get out of dancing with her without being mean? You know how I know you're nice you made this you came up with a fake name Because you don't want this weirdo to get their feelings hurt. Yeah, like the idea that this

Will you recap this one? avec plaisir For our francophones. That's with pleasure. So our friend Sarah, not her real name, goes to an exciting dance class where the teacher comes and dances with the students to get them, you know, up and at them. But there is an amateur in the background who continues to mirror the teacher, dancing with our collar and making her uncomfortable. I just want a little bit of follow-up like does she put her hands

on you? Is it more like yeah girl get it? What kind of energy is she giving to you? You said she's nice but can you be a little more descriptive? Yeah it's too much. I don't know this person well enough but it's almost like she doesn't realize that that he doesn't put her hands on me. I don't. In my recollection, she's having a time of her life though. She's loving it. She's into it. I mean, we all are. It's fun, right? We're all in our 40s and 50s. We don't have to go to the club and we still get to dance.

Sarah, is it just you? Or is it everybody? Oh, that's a great question. I thought, yeah, so I thought I felt like it was just me and I thought, oh, it's probably just me being insecure. But I was talking to some ladies on Tuesday a couple of days ago and they were like, no, it is always you. And we avoid eye contact with her when we see her walking up because we don't want it to be us.

So I'm basically like taking it for a team. It's just you. That's such a weird drink. And she'll also want to high five at the end. And guys, it's not good. Like it's nothing to high five about. It's bad. It's embarrassing because we mess up, she messes up and it's not a high fivable.

Sarah, do you think there's romance in her eyes? Here we go. Right? Because I'll tell you what, you said no, Sarah. No, no, no, there's no romance. So why do you think? She's married, I'm married. Okay, Sarah, step outside of yourself.

Pretend you're writing this in a story. Why did she pick you? I think maybe it's the placement where she stands in her vicinity, but I'm also, I've been told that I'm too nice. But it's still crazy. How many people are in the class? Oh, anywhere between like 15 to 25, depending on the day. Oh, anywhere between like 15 to 25, depending on the day. Out of 25 people to hone in on one person all the time is very strange. Her dance with her hands kind of on hips. Did I add that or is that real? I like it. I mean,

I'm not emotionally that way, but not actually. OK, but she does the moves right behind you as if you guys are dance partners. Kind of like the teaching somebody how to play pool. Very Patrick Swayze during the dancing. Just letting you know like, I got you girl, we're going to do these moves and all you need to do is be free and fly right now. Come back to my car. Let's get some fucking Chardonnay and talk about our problems. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. That might be part of this. I'm a therapist and she knows that I don't think I don't know. I don't think she's going to get to therapy through dancing behind you. Unless you start doing therapy while she's doing it and just

be like, tell me about your childhood. Why? going on? And that could make it way worse. And that's what I'm here for. Sarah, you said that she asked you, she knows you're a therapist. So you guys have had conversations, you've gotten to know each other a little bit. People will share stuff with me because they know that, right? And I'm fine with it. It's okay. I'm good with boundaries.

I just mean you've had extended conversations with her where you've gotten to know each other a little bit. That's interesting. No, a little bit. Like we'll talk about our kids. I got a question, Sarah, while you're dancing, can we just call her Swayze? Yes. While you're Dan, while Swayze is behind you and you're dancing, she ever

talk in your ear, she's giggling and laughing and going, yeah, like cheering on. But there's no like no and forth. No, it's the weird. The end of the world. But after class, you high five. There's no like in the locker room. She stands by you, puts her leg up. So she's got that power position on you while you're sitting.

What the hell? Sorry, I was fantasizing cat. I know. Hey, hey, can you guys please leave? Can you guys leave the zoo? Now we went from dirty dancing to ghost. This is going to be a one on one story. Well, this is the Gareth.

Let me guess. You're like, why don't you hire? No, Gareth is going to say, why don't I show up to class? I like, by the way, I like this with her behind her. I don't hate the wrinkle of guess my pitch. And it's always like, why don't you pretend six degrees of strangers? Why don't you just speak to her directly? You're a therapist.

This feels like it should be right up your alley. Where is dog outfit? I don't know cat. Why? What's the problem? Because she's saying to a woman in a dance class, all all Swayze is doing is being excited. Yeah. So she's going to really dampen her light. She's going to say, Hey, could you not dance behind me? I think it is delicate because okay, sorry, real quick. Is there like a version of it where you're like, you know, I'm doing my best to follow these dance moves. And I'm I get so distracted when you come I love how joyous you are. But I get really distracted when you dance behind me. Is there any

way you could like, give me a little bit of space so I could find my footing? Would you say during the dance? Or would you say that before? I would say you would maybe after it happens so you can be like hey you know what happened today? After I got kind of lost. Maybe or maybe you get off your... Maybe during it you do a shorter version where you're just like sorry that's throwing me off a little bit. Yeah. Like kind of like in the middle of it. And then yeah. And then hit her. Obviously. And then I'll show up I'll dance behind her. I'm already there, by the way. So why don't you do that behind me when I'm doing it?

We'll do like six emails with him and then you'll go like, I'm not going there. What are you nuts? It's a dance class in South Texas. I have 15 emails to write back about vocal coach lessons. I have some other weird pitches for you, Sarah, which I think are important to get out there. I've got one that I think is gonna work after. Okay. But go ahead, Gary. Here's my first one.

My first one is- How many are there? There's a few. My first one is whenever she grabs you, go to the bathroom. Just start to make it so she's gotta find a new target. I wish, I encourage everyone to go watch Kat react to the bathroom. Just start to make it so she's got to find a new target. I wish I encourage everyone to go watch cat reacts to my pictures. But you're talking about like the touch triggers something in Sarah and Sarah leaves. Yes.

Okay. Yeah. So she goes like, oh, so you're avoiding the front. She just like, the second she touches you, you're gone. Yes. That's my first. Which is awkward. It's awkward.

I would go with last. But she's conscious. Yes, it may be. My other one is you need a third party for my last two pitches. My first one. Are you willing to do it, Gareth? My first one is, I'm open. My first one is have someone else in the class who you're friends with beat her to the punch. So alert someone in the class and be like every time you see her going in for the kill Just you go up and do what she does to me, but almost like you're now That's gonna encourage her now. It's a free-for-all It might just turn the class into crazy town and the other pitch is well, you might have to fight

It's like yeah, James Brown, I don't know karate, but I know crazy. Gareth, tell me this is the last one. I want more because it seems to be frustrating you in a great way. The last one is have someone else do it to her. So you tell this third party. Or how about this, Gareth?

You would love that. But yeah, she'll love it. Then I got something. I got something pretty easy and it's a trick I did in a hot yoga class. I tried. I don't like being touched by instructors when it's really hot and sweaty. And when you, they say at the beginning, if you don't want to be touched, raise your hand. Well, I did the hand raise. I was the only person raising the hand and I was still touched. Stop. Yeah, my form's that bad.

I'm moving around like an old man in there. And this lady just pushed my neck down a little bit. And I just I felt her sweat on me. It grossed me out. You know what? You know what I did, Sarah? You know how I fixed it? I went to the back row right near the wall in the corner. So her big body couldn't get between my ass and the wall. Yeah, I kind of thought you guys were going to recommend me moving. The problem is we're all kind of territorial with our spots. We've been doing this for years. And when

I don't get that spot and I'm in the back, I kind of phone it in. I don't really work out as hard as when I'm in my spot. Sarah, come on. Plus, you shouldn't compromise your joy in your class. Yeah, but stop it. For this crazy lady. Stop it. Stop it. I got two more.

I got two more, Kat. Stop it with that. You won't move your spot. Go file for taxes in the middle of the class and then phone call her in. Go ahead, Gareth. Keep going, Jake. You got more? I got a couple of weird ones. Let's hear it.

Okay. I think there's something- There's always a couple. Where I thought you were going, Jake, was there is something to the idea. If you tell the instructor, can you make an announcement and be like, if you don't want me to touch you during the class, raise your hand. And you put your hand up there. So you're setting a boundary with the instructor for right now that sort of also sends a message to this other person. I'm not into being touched. You know, you could do it in a way where you're like just to the instructor, just be like, Hey, look, this is nothing about you, but I don't want to create any fucking bullshit here.

I don't want to make anyone feel bad, but I have been touched by someone else in the class. It's all good. It's nothing crazy, but can you make an announcement where you just say, some people don't like it when you touch them to adjust, so I want to be respectful of that. So if you don't want me to put hands on you during the class to change what you're doing, no problem. Just raise your hand now and just put your hand up. And then that sends a message to this person, don't want me to put hands on you during the class to change what you're doing, no problem, just raise your hand now and just put your hand up.

And then that sends a message to this person, don't touch me. Can you be a more direct version of Gareth's where it's just, hey, this isn't personal to anybody, but could you just say, could everyone stay on their lane? It's very hard for me to teach this class if everyone sort of, you know, it can't be a free for all. You guys, you're needing the third person involved. I want to keep this on Sarah. I got it. I got one that does that as an option. Sarah, the next time she does it, fake that your knee got hurt.

Okay. And so she's like, adjust, she's doing her thing and then be like, oh, and then be like, Drop to the floor. And then just take a minute and be like, sorry, sorry, that something in my knee just tweaked. Go off to the side for a minute. Next class, you show up with a knee brace on for like two classes. If she gets near you, you now have a reason to be like, sorry, my knee is still a little weird. You know what, you know what I would consider doing, Sarah? And I know you don't want to move spots and you don't want to do anything. And Kat said, you don't have to change anything.

Well, you do have to change. So good impression. Cause now you're in a situation that's not what it was made. So here's what I would say you do. When she gets behind you, do a 180 and face her. So you're making direct eye contact with her. She's making direct eye contact with you and you're not moving very much. So if she gets behind you and she's like, Oh yeah, girl, you do a 180 and stop.

So now your sweaty body and her sweaty body. Don't move. Okay. And you know what's gonna happen? Move away. Kiss you? No. Move away. Because this shit ain't working. If you go to teach somebody pool and you get behind them and they face you and go, huh? Right. You go like this. Sarah.

Sorry. Sorry. I just thought you didn't know how to hit that. And they go like, no, I know how to hit. And you go, well, if you're playing along and you're sitting there going like, I don't want them to teach me, but I let them. she might think Sarah and I have a great thing. She loves when I have her. She's excited.

I'm excited. She's one of the sweetest ladies in the class. And we have her whole family could be like, Oh my God, did you dance with Sarah? She might think she needs me to. She's not the best dancer. I like that. It's not bad advice, but Sarah, you keep going on about how you're so nice. Can you do something like that? You think you can turn around and stand

your ground, not say a thing, not make her feel okay? I probably would start laughing. But by the way, it's okay. Okay. As long as you're not dancing and she's not dancing. Whenever she gets behind you, you one idiot and you stop the dance. You guys are there to dance, not stare at each other. What do you hate about this? I got one more. You will like it.

I got one more. She will like it. Okay. You think it's gonna be like, Oh, we have a connect. I don't know. Cat's gonna hate this one. And that might be where it's coming from. Two words.

Brown stains. Put brown stains all over the back of whatever you're wearing. And like mud, just so that this person's like, I can't touch her. Like tell the other people in your class who you're friends with with you're using this tactic and just on the back of whatever sweats you're wearing,

have just what look like fresh brown marks, just like you rolled in the fresh manure. So Sarah, we've given you, yeah. We've given you a bunch of options. Some feel real, some don't. That one's real. Yeah, okay. No it isn't. It is too. It is too. But what do you

think you're going to do? Because what I've got from you on this call is you don't want to change very much, but you don't like it happening. And I think you got to rip the band-aid off. But what are you going to do? So I think, because I don't want to egg her on, and I don't want to play along. Okay. Probably the knee brace could be good. And what's the knee brace gonna do, Sarah? Well, it gives me an excuse for later, I guess,

to be like, oh, oh, my knee knee hurts when when she starts to dance with me. Oh, so you're going to dance like regular with a knee brace when she gets behind you. You're going to take the song off because your knee hurts. Yeah. Or even just stop her and be like, no, my knee. By the way, I think that works. Now, how long are you going to commit to the knee brace? Or stop her and be like now my knee by the way, I think that works Now how long you gonna commit to the knee brace?

Yeah, how many the classes are twice a week Well, how long your brace comes off in two weeks and yeah two three weeks, but you're still healing you have a meniscal sprain So you're basically just saying whenever she gets behind you, it's stopped. So I need me, which I don't hate. She's going to be, she's going to be on you. The second that thing is off, I kind of, and you bring it back on. Then you, then you go, then you tweak it. Then you go, Oh no, it's a little, but the idea of it, which I like is you are stopping her because of an issue. Yeah.

It's confrontational. It's confrontational. Sort of. I think it's I think that's a good that's you have a scapegoat. Yeah, I can blame my knee. Yeah. Are you going to are you going to actually do this? I'm going to actually do it. We want a picture of the knee with the brace on and we want an update.

Are you going to do this next class? Next class is going to be in like four days. Yeah, I can do it. Let's do that and update us on how that goes. Okay. Don't be afraid. And remember, don't just wear it and just stand there and be like, oh, now she's touched. You've got to be like, sorry, I tweaked my knee. I've got to be careful. Could you not be so close to me? I'm afraid of hurting my knee worse. you've got to let her know that she is part of the issue with your knee.

Boundary please. Or that you're being very careful on your knee from now on. Yeah, you know, you could also make the announcement before the class starts. Yeah, I'm sure people will notice. Oh, you have a knee brace on what happened? My knees a little bit janky. Could everybody give me a little bit space when I dance? I'm not feeling 100% confident. OK, I think you could pull it off with a without that. But if that happens, if she does not

stop, then I'd say next class, maybe you do something like that. Do the announcement. Yeah, like I think like whatever, like, yeah, I think I think that would be enough to just make her fuck off and honestly What you're kind of hoping for in a way is she finds a new target Right. Yeah, I gotta throw someone else to the wall. Here's another idea if

You don't want to because they find a new target. I find really interesting because none of these other women have your back She gets behind you starts dancing you get behind somebody else like the Macarena thing. So now you're both behind somebody else. You're going to get a conga line. But then you're getting her right next to you. So bring her so she's not behind you. You guys are together and you're essentially passing her on. This woman, I now know why we're fudging your name

because of this woman here. Exactly. We are passing her like smallpox. But what you're trying to do is you're just trying to get it not on you. Yeah, I agree. This is a virus. So put the virus, look, none of these women have your back.

She's a parasite, let's be honest. So she gets behind you. You take her to the next lady. You both get behind her. Put your hand on Swayze's back, push her a little forward, go back to your spot. Right. Okay. That's the bullfighter. I say start with the knee. If the knee doesn't work, do the bullfighter. I agree. Okay. And first case scenario, say something to the teacher and then, you know, it's off your hands.

Yep. You got a few tactics, but slow clam, start with the knee. Let's get a picture and let us know how it goes after two classes. Good luck. Thank you guys. I love the show. Go get them, Sarah.

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You look like you're in 98 degrees. Stop talking. Hi there. Welcome. Shut up. 97 degrees. Shut up, Kevin. You do know you look like you're from Florida. Shut up, Jake. We start, Jake. 97 degrees. 97. Shut up, Kevin.

You do know you look like you're from Florida these days. Hi there. Welcome to the show. We're here to help. Hello. Hi. Hello. Thank you for coming.

Not Milwaukee, which is the truth. Jake, we are excited to help you. Can we get your name and where you're calling from and how old you'll be in 10 years, please? Here my name is Claire. I'm fine from Denver and I'll be already Years old and then before we start I want to shout out Claire Claire was in the middle of an event right now and Popped out for this call, which was very clear. What's the event? Thank you so much. My little sister's getting married and it's her welcome party. So I'm a couple drinks in. Fine. Oh yeah. It's the welcome party. You can pop out of that. You can pop out of that. It is a welcome party and my sister is sitting right next to me. So shout out. Hey, congrats. Congratulations. What's up? Congrats. Claire, how many drinks in are you?

I'm going to go with three. Okay. Yeah. I was was gonna say it sounds like there's been a little loose juice cooking back there. I'm loose. Yeah, park level. Yeah, park level. Yeah, I'm a shark. I'm a shark. Claire, what's up? What's the problem today?

I'm a shark. Okay, so, I'm in... I mean when he said that, it's just, all he ate was Gardettos and he was eight old-fashioned to be just way on mic. I'm a shark. the has been dreaming of hosting the Mad Men themed party. So we have decided to host a Mad Men murder mystery party in two weeks and one, I need help planning the murder and two, I have never seen Mad Men. I love it, neither have I. Me either. We're the perfect people to be, here's man. I love it. Me either.

We're the perfect people to be. Here's what I know about it. Suits, cigarettes, uh, cool vibes. John Ham, uh, Elizabeth Moss, a lot of like Alta and that, and the meme, the social media meme where it's, uh, it doesn't matter how you feel. I pay you. That means you're doing a good job. That's what the money's for.

That's what the money's for. I like how far away you were from that meme, Jake. I'll pay you. It's close. I'll pay you. You'll get a salary. You're doing real good. Maybe some benefits. Sadly, Gareth, that's me on set.

The line is, that's why I pay you. So money comes from money's made of tree. Claire you're looking for a mad man styled party, but you've never seen the show and you need a murder in the middle. But first of all, we know the attire and it is a you're either you're either in a suit or you're in a dress and if you're not in either of those get the fuck out am I right or wrong Gareth? No I think you're right but Gareth what do you think? I think we're all right I think everybody's right. Yep I'm a shark. So Claire so for starters a hundred

percent it is a costume party. Yes. Well okay I agree. What kind of dresses though? Look at the show. Yeah. Okay. 60s. Claire, I'll be honest. 60s. Claire, you've done a shocking small amount of research for this part. I mean, Jake and I are gonna pitch. We're gonna get there. But it feels like someone just told you what Mad Men is. Okay. So you've seen it. So you know more than any of us. Let me pitch you who Claire is. Let me pitch you who Claire is. Go ahead. Her sister's... Richard Steeve? Her sister's...

Five. Her. Agreed. Her sister's getting married. Her family's there and she goes, I'm calling into a podcast. Claire, you're one of the good ones. And I hope tonight you just let it fucking rip at that party. She's only getting married once blow it up madman style Yeah, so what we what Claire what we know about the show is

60s suits 60s dresses the guys got to be in skinny ties everybody needs a heater in their hand everybody smoke In order to get into the party you need to bring a vintage glass. So like a 60s class, because you don't want to pay for all this. So their entrance in is their own 60s style glass. So everyone's got a cocktail on one hand and a heater in the other hand. What do we think of this as a start? And if you don't smoke, just walk around with an unlit cigarette. It's a good it's a good start, absolutely.

And I think you should probably assign people who they are, right? When people walk in, should you not be telling these people who they are, like maybe six or seven of the people who they are? You got to be a big fan of the show. What if someone's like, you're Lenny? No, but what I would suggest is on a note note card you kind of come up with who the person is Yeah, so you kind of go like hey, all right, you're not your name's Peggy whatever you are you are one of the secretaries You're a you always have a wet lunch. Yeah, you're a martini

You love a martini all any times of the day and you'll do anything to get your way Like that's it gives some of these character types to a few people so that those are going to be our main suspects when someone's passed. Hey, Claire, so you want a murder mystery where it's like the whole game of it, yes? So Gareth is pretty much right on. Yes. Okay. And do you want everyone to play the game for a while?

Yeah. So that's what we were thinking is, does everyone get a new role? Is it just certain people who are the suspects and the person who's killed? Yeah, so that's what we were thinking is, does everyone get a new role? Is it just certain people who are the suspects and the person who's killed? Or does everyone come in and I say, you are now so-and-so? You know, here's what I would do. It's gonna be a huge pain in the ass for you to pitch every character. So everyone gets to come in with their own character.

Yes, I like that a lot. So they come in, they decide who they are. But Gareth, they have to email it in advance. And I'll tell you why, because you don't want people improvising at the door like guys like you and me. Who's your character? I'm the bacon salesman. And then they go, what else do you do?

You go, me? I stacked all the bills and then I'm thrown off the party right. A paragraph. Oh, yeah. Yeah. You I agree. Me. You want me at that part. You know what I mean? I walk. It's not your character. It is like nine voices. Yeah. No, I just feel like this.

Come on. Don't do it. No, I don't. It's not relevant. It's not relevant to clear. OK. Jesus Christ. I do have a friend who will who will put on a Boston accent for the entire night. It's not relevant. It's not relevant to Who will put on a Boston accent for the entire night and I Don't drag me down to that level what I was about to do with I think I think Gareth is right though. You say you say to everybody create a character have a whole back story and Here's what you're going to do. One of the people who you're just going to pick randomly is going to be the murderer. You're going to assign that person

their character. No, beforehand. And you're going to go, hey, you're the murderer. It's got to be someone who you know can do this well. You're the murderer, but you're this, you're this, you this you're this you know obviously it's someone you don't expect It could be an intern at the company whatever something like that You're gonna assign that person so you can connect them to the murder that we're gonna figure out next So you know what I would do a little differently on that go for it I would connect it to a 70s key party and when you get to the place

There's an envelope that are closed everybody takes one and one of them when you get the envelope says you're the murderer so only that person knows. But do we want to but you're gonna have to tie the clues of how people figure out who how this person got murdered to the character type so that means you would if you did that you would then have to tell everybody what their character was, which is also a way to do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's interesting.

Claire, where are you at? Let's go to you for a little bit. What are you feeling? Claire, you're drunk. What do you think? I'm not drunk. No. Claire.

I like all of this. You're right. It would be too much work to come up with names and backstories for everyone, so that saved me some time. Also, because I had written in it before planning this, well, I wrote in, and then we started talking more about it. My friends did say he would be the murderer and then come back as the, not the murderer, the murdered, and come back as the twin brother detective. But what is the detective, so then the detective is kind of the host of the party is what you're saying?

Uh, yeah, like he could like give some clues. I love this. Because obviously he's gonna know. I love this. So the party starts off, uh, we'll figure out how to get the characters. Everyone's hanging out in their cool outfits, drinking, smoking heaters. And all of a sudden you hear a bang, you go, he's on the floor. You all go in the other room. He runs in through the front door and goes,

no, my brother's been murdered and I'm a detective. Then once all the lights go off, he then starts the party, right? Now the murder mystery is beginning. That's what we're thinking? Yes. Yeah. So you're gonna have a cocktail hour and then the murder happens at some point and

then the investigation begins. And so, and I think we've all agreed if you're in Claire, everybody has to come prepared with a character. Okay. So you don't want to do it there. The cocktail hour is you're talking as your character. And rather than my key party idea, I think somebody randomly gets emailed. You're the murder.

Oh, so that they know. So during the cocktail party and you give it to somebody who, you know, isn't going to blow it. Okay. Claire, I like that. Claire, you give it to yourself. It's it very easily could be you. It's you, Claire.

It's always been you. Claire, what you are pitching the house and to it's too obvious, therefore, it's not obvious. Oh, yeah. It's Wally Sean and the Princess Bride. But Claire was pitching, I think that her friend is the one murdered after everyone tries to solve it. That person comes back in at the end and is like, that was my brother and I murdered him. No, she came back as the detective. Oh, boy, I'll tell you what, these things are hard to play.

That would be a twist. That would be a twist. Is it the detective, Caleb? Well, hold on. Hold on twin brother, Cal? Hold on. So if he comes back at the end, then you're all doing detectives. You go, it was no one at the party. It was a new character, the murderer. And then you go, why did he spend an hour and a half looking at clues? So we could get drunk and eat finger foods. No, I think it's party chatting.

Everybody comes in with their character. Everyone's asking questions bang from another room Hit the circuit breaker lights go out candles flashlights like this you go in there boom There's a body on the floor you go when you see the body and everyone's in there you scream you go Everybody panics you guys go to the other room he comes out he comes the lights of the house go on He comes in with an English accent. He is the detective the twin brother just got in from London. Don't do it Gareth And I said English accent just to get you mad I was like every fair on your body I know I think I should be doing you. I'm yeah, you're edging me is what you're doing

So then he comes back You're edging me is what you're doing So then he comes back You know my dog just licked my arm, and I didn't know she was in here and it scared me to my core There's been a murder. Yeah The detective from International School Understand that a dog has okay go ahead Getting licked when you're not expecting it

while shirt Getting licked when you're not expecting it. Why? Sure. Well, title, business podcast. Oh, an equity in it. What do you think about the set up dead body? He comes back to the front. Everybody's been emailed their characters. Where are we at to start? Because if we're happy, I like that are building the case. So this is a yes. Yes.

This is a yes. Okay. And then you need to know what the story of the murder and why. Right. And I want to have enough sort of clues that aren't really some murder. Yeah. Like red herring.

Well, Claire, it's a tale as old as time. Mm-hmm. Okay. There was an overeager assistant who was working up through the ranks of the company, but a woman couldn't be doing these ads. It's a man's world. Oh, I like this. So one of the junior fucking junior goober guys started stealing all her work and taking credit for it as if he was doing it.

So a group of these women together said like, we know what you're doing, Troy. And he's like, you ladies are meant for typing on the typewriters and heating up my meatloaf. I'm pointing to my pants. No, not eating meatloaf. And I'm pointing to my pants. No, not eating meatloaf. Oh, heating. Actually, heating works. Okay, we're back. And then they say, if you take one more of Joyce's pitches and sell it,

that'll be the last thing you ever do. Oh, and there's a big pitch on Friday for Nabisco. And Troy pitches a pitch no one had heard of except for the ladies in the secretary room. Sounds like already there. Yeah. And the next morning at the party to celebrate the closing of the Nabisco deal, he gets murdered. Ooh. Claire reaction, Claire. All you've done is make noises.

Claire. I like the noise. I'm, I like everything. So yes, that was the other thing we were trying to figure out is what are we having a party for? And we're celebrating the Nabisco deal. The Nabisco deal, the new company got it. But here's the catch, Claire. It was the women who came up for the pitch, but it was Troy who stole it. But it was the senior VP who closed the deal. But he's having an affair with the top secretary. You're going to need to listen back to this episode, Claire. closed the deal, but he's having an affair with the top secretary. You're going to need to listen back to this episode, Claire, but his wife is also at the party and the wife of the top VP is having an affair with Troy. Okay.

Cause guess what Troy can't do? Keep his dick in his pants. He can't keep his meatloaf in the oven. He's always putting it in other people's ovens. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Now women, Gareth, but also the men. See, it's the 60s, but Troy is fucking everybody.

A lot of people. Royal. Everybody wants Troy dead. You want to know why? Because he's got everybody's secrets. Men want to be him. Women want to be with him and vice versa. So what do we think of that as your basic story?

I like it is Troy's Troy died. Who died? Troy. Well, we haven't got their class. It's you should have known that. I agree. I know Especially Claire with the reaction of ooh, I like ooh

And you go so what are all these characters doing for work? So who's Troy and what's mad? And who am I talking to please? Yes, I'll take a refill I agree I went a little weird at the end with sex and I I'll tell you why, Claire, because I'm trying to figure out other people who want to kill him because the first pitch was just the secretaries. But if he's having sex with the senior vice president's wife and the president, who's a guy, now there's a few other people

who want Troy six feet under. Okay, one more thing. The murder happened by who? Claire. Troy six feet under. Okay. One more thing. The murder happened by who, Claire? Who killed Troy? Don't think Claire. I don't know. Just Claire, stop thinking.

Oh, I'm just going to decide. I need you to take a big sip of your alcohol right now. Okay. Okay. Good. And I don't want you to think, I just want you to speak. Who killed Troy? The secretary's husband.

Ooh, yes. That's a perfect answer. Yeah. Okay. Cause guess what? He doesn't even work there. You know what he wears? Not a cool suit.

Oh, right. A secretary's husband is a plumber. Okay. I think it's the secretary's husband who killed Troy and he killed him because he's tired of his wife not getting the credit because guess what? It's a man's world and he's sick of that because his wife is the most talented person that he had ever met that's why he married her with the idea that they were going to get to the top of the ad world and get out of the slums he's not a plumber

he doesn't have a job can I make a suggestion when so when we solve this why don't we make it look like this person got killed by a decanter getting smashed over their head but when you have the English inspector there, he reveals that it was actually... Okay, Kevin, go ahead before he does the voice. No, it was... he reveals that it was suffocation, okay? But it's suffocation, but there are no fingerprints or markings around the neck anywhere, and if it was the secretary's husband who's a janitor, he eventually confesses and reveals, or the inspector does, that it was done secretary's husband who's a janitor, he eventually confesses and reveals,

or the inspector does, that it was done with a plunger that he put over this guy's face and killed him that way. I like it. Wow. I like it. I get a wow from that? You were ooh and an odd two minutes ago. No, no.

I'm speechless. Well, you also, because you said janitor. Well, yeah, but he's a janitor. He's got a plunger. Janitors walk around with plungers. They have access to plungers, Jake. I'm not going to have this argument right now. But did he take my plunger and my home to kill him? No, he's I mean, maybe, but he has access to these tools.

Look, we're threading a very strange needle. So Claire, will you walk us through what party you're hosting, what the story is about, what the murder is? This is going to be the best part of this episode. Go ahead, Claire. What just happened? Don't let him. Claire, don't let him psych you out.

You know what it's about. Take it away. OK. So we are celebrating the closing of the Nabisco deal. That was a woman's idea and a man's soul. The man, I can't remember what we named him. Troy. The man is murdered by the husband of the secretary. Who's best friends with the woman who I don't know about the best friend thing

came up with the, the idea that choice. So, so secretary went home to husband complained about this guy choice has been pissed off that this guy doesn't respect women, kills him. Great. Now, what are some things you could tell to other guests so it's not so obvious that people think somebody else killed Troy? What are some other things we got? It could be Troy just got a promotion and someone else was up for it.

Ooh, love that. OK. Yeah. OK. Oh, God. What about the sex stuff? The sex title. Remember all the stuff with Troy and the ladies and the guys? Go ahead. Oh, yeah. Troy can't keep his dick in his pants. Yeah, his meatloaf in the oven honey.

Yeah, sure. The meatloaf in the oven, that's great. And so, yeah. So all the ladies around the office either love him or hate him. Yes. Well guess why they love him? Okay. He's got the best dick in the Tri-State area. The best meatloaf. And he's a piece of shit, but he's fun right sack, but he's fun in the sack.

And he gets around, he gets around and he knows what to do when he goes around. And then he goes. Of course he does. He's Troy is the worst planet earth. Okay. So Troy has done all this. All right, Claire. So then he's been murdered.

We have an inspector, right? This guy comes in, he's your buddy. But she told the ending in the middle already. Yeah, I know. Oh. But yeah. Well, no, you asked me for more motive. Yeah, no, I know, I know, I know.

Okay, but I think it all checks out. Yeah, so then we discover that Secretary's husband, who is a plumber, killed Troy with a plunger after breaking a decanter over his head. No, what happened was we hear a decanter smash, that's the sound effect you play, we go in there, there's glass on the floor next to the body. We all assume that he got killed with the decanter. But what the inspector will reveal later is that there's no blunt force trauma on the head, so he was probably making himself a drink when he was killed another way.

He says, I don't know how he died, but it appears to be suffocation, but there's no markings around the neck, which is strange. But then the inspector has come up with the theory that the reason only way for someone to die from suffocation. Wait, hold on, Gareth, before you do that, everything there is right. The guy who dies when they find him on the floor, he's got the little, his feet does the red thing. You know, like if you get too much suction here, you create this, the

red circles, it looks like he's been kissed it's lit we think it's lipstick that's great but when the inspector sees that there are no markings around the neck but he's sure it was suffocation it leads him to think it had to be something done around his face yeah and his nose but who would have act how would someone be able to take the oxygen out of someone else's lungs without leaving any fingerprints and it goes like leads us to and then go and it looks like somebody there with the it looks like somebody was pumping it up and down at least three to five times well and we reveal that it was only the only person who could take the oxygen out of someone's lungs without

leaving any markings around the neck or fingerprints would be a plumber, which is her husband, and he was upset because she slept with Troy, and he stole the idea for the Nabisco campaign. Troy fucked everyone, Jake! Then the plumber does a final monologue. Yes. It's the end of the episode.

And he's Scottish, and he cuts in. No, he isn't, no, he isn't, no, he isn't! Thank you for the call, thank you for the call! And he's got he's Scottish and he But then he does his big final monologue and he tells why and then Claire at the final line You start a slow clap and can I say what Claire's final line is what and there's one more thing you should all know I've never even seen Mad Men. That's it. That's the final line. Claire, are you gonna do this?

Absolutely. And Claire, here's what we'll do. We'll send you this audio so that you can figure out what the hell we're talking about because you're obviously just drunk at a bar. We're gonna send you this audio so that you can figure out what we're talking about. It's great.

This is going to work. Good luck and let us know how it goes. And Claire, big congrats to your sister. Have a lot of fun at that wedding. And Claire, the meme Jake was talking about. It's called. See you later. Thank you so much.

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i live in the midwest and i knew from georgia to nebraska info it's our first summer uh... owning a home here and basically what happened is that we let our grass grow so long I felt like I was living on the little house in the prairie back here and so we I don't know if you've ever mowed really thick grass without any accessories, like the thing that shoots it off to the side or a bag, you know? So ultimately it kept clogging up and dying

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Perfect. Well, just to be clear, the problem is how do you get the lawn trimmed without your husband's help, or how do you get the lawn cleaned up? How do you get the mower to not clog? How do you get the mower to not clog? By the way, you have called the right podcast. Yeah.

I mean, Jake and I- These are the big questions. These are the, we like to deal with the big ones, life's big ones. I thought you guys were here for the serious side of it. We're here for the good stuff, Sam. And this is the good stuff. So let me ask you a question. We're ready to party. Are you a woman who works out?

If I said yes, let's just go down that path. You are such a mystery. Interesting. Why don't you just say, why don't you just say. Everything, this is the first call that you have utterly confused me and I'm more intrigued by this call I've ever been in my life. I don't want it to end. Yeah. confused me and I'm more intrigued by this call I've ever been in my life. I don't want it to end. The best way to put it would be I'm just outside of joining a gym.

Absolutely. I may have the gym pass, I may go, but do I go inside? I don't know. No. I get that. So the reason I say that is my brother-in-law, my sister husband used to think I do a thing called dad workouts and He tried to create a thing where whenever you're doing something if we were like all taken, you know groceries in with the kids He would go let's see if you and I can carry all the bags and squat our way in So from the car to the kitchen was a super weird workout that was also slash fun. So the thing I'm going to pitch to you is this, you got some thick grass in that backyard, it's eaten up your lawnmower. What a drag, right? Now you could just let it rip

and have a back, you have a party backyard and who cares? But if you want it low, get yourself a machete. Now we've gone down the you've gone down the machete road well i like to call it more of like i think they're called like a zyce right so it's like this thing that um i ain't talking about zyced i'm talking about no machete no a zyce it's a thing that like it looks like the grim re thing, but he like, we're talking about the same thing. Yeah. Okay. So we've also thought of like a fire blaster, you know, sure. But it's too wet. But hold on. But so what happened when you got the Zeist? The machete didn't

work? It doesn't know it takes a really long time because we do work? It doesn't. No, it takes a really long time because we do you guys we live on quarter of an acre almost. Okay, you got a nice spot. So and then you know with the house on it so with the if you think about machete like you have to have some tauntness so that somebody can chop it. Otherwise, I don't know. I know how to use a machete. All right, Jay. calm down. All right. Chill out, Gareth. Don't tell me to chill out. You chill out. Okay.

We've also thought about goats. Yeah, that's what I was about to say. And what's the thought on that? Well, I really enjoy the dad exercises. I feel like we need to close the loop on that and that I think my husband could really benefit from that. So as a takeaway, you wrote that down. I'm going to write that down for myself because I think my husband could really benefit from that. So as a takeaway, you wrote that down. I'm going to write that down for myself because I think that that's a great,

great option. Okay. So the idea of dad workouts, but then what would he, because the reason I was going to say with the dad workouts, but I'm going to also put that on a mom workout. And if you don't have kids, then I'm going to put it on a Sam workout. And that is you grab that machete, put yourself in a nice three quarter squat, so you're burning your thighs and just whack, whack, whack until you're dripping with sweat. And you might look up and go, I've gone four yards, but that was four yards you didn't have before. Go inside, get some lemonade,

throw an iPod in your ear, and get back out there. Whack, whack, girl, get going. In a month and a half, it might be gone. I don't know how long it's taking, but what you're going to get out of it, Sam, is some mean ass shoulders, some mean arms, some great Omaha son. And you're going to rip those calves a little bit. Yeah. OK.

Gareth is hating this, Sam, but I think you and I are bonded. I think that we're close to it, but I'm scared. Okay. Okay. I would be too. I would be too. Here's, it seems like you have a budget. It seems like you're potentially buying a fire blaster. You're talking about getting, it sounds like multiple goats, but might I just pitch that you bring in someone to just do the first pass at this like a landscaper and then you just maintain a lower level of the grass where it's not like trying to get

through a jungle. Shockingly good advice. That is that is perfect advice. It differs on what we were thinking, which was go to Home Depot, get a writing lawn mower, mow the lawn and then be like, oh no, something broke and then have Home Depot come pick it back up. Yeah, they could be, but there could also be some, there could be fights and trouble on that. Do you think so?

I do. Do you think Home Depot would care about Sam from Omaha, Nebraska though? I gotta tell you, sometimes they do. You're not just dealing with corporate. If you happen to get one manager with a carrot up his ass and then all of a sudden you're like, pull it broke and he goes and then he then you're sitting there with an $1,800 mower you're never going to use again. I'm going to go. No, they're $2,500. That's what I mean. I mean you're in a galaxy of hurt where now you have you could have got a you could have got an Oldsmobile for fuck's sake.

I think Gareth is actually on to this. What about hiring a crew to come once a month? You don't need it once a week, even if it gets going. And or if you just go, because if you're talking about you're in this, you know, it's kind of ruining the fun of your backyard, you're new to it. You don't need a once a week guy. No, you need to come once a month and I guarantee somebody wants that job. And if you're on a real budget and you don't want to hire eight guys in a truck,

put a sign up and get a couple of teenagers, a couple of 16 year olds who will go, she paid me a hundred bucks cash. I think in Omaha, you're going to find willing parties to do that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's a good suggestion. I think that, um, I guess if you guys think that it's better than getting a blowtorch or go, I'm going to, I feel very confident that it is better than getting a blowtorch. You do. I do.

Uh, what I think it's better than the blowtorch for sure. What do you think the reality is if you actually get into goats? They're illegal in my county. Okay, so you can't do the goats. Are sheeps illegal? We can't even have chickens in our county. Understood.

So Sam, our advice to you on this one is coming from me, which I now think is wrong, is to turn it into a workout, grab a machete and let it rip a little bit. Gareth's advice, which I think is also right on this one, is to hire a crew, either professional or just neighborhood kids, like a babysitter, throw signs up and let somebody kind of come once a month to get this under control until you decide what you want to do with it. Uh, how we like to end this call is, is there anything you have heard on this that you think you might do?

And if not, what do you think you're going to do to solve this problem? Um, I've really, really think that I'll probably go with door number two. Um, I feel like throwing up some signs and or and or finding someone with the proper tools would be the most effective way to handle it in the fastest method. Yeah, Sam. Good luck to you. We're on your team. Yeah. Good luck, Sam. Thanks, guys. We're Here to Help is hosted by Jake Johnson. And Gareth Reynolds.

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