Why Can't We Talk About Amanda's Mom? - Ep.4: Friend or Foe?

Episode Date: March 15, 2023

As Sarah tries to further understand the life Renée led in Mobile, she learns of a close friend of hers named David. But she doesn’t know if he is dead or alive. So, she decides to see if she can find him and talk to him. What she discovers sends her investigation hurtling in a new direction. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know what's crazy? I actually did a spirit box session in a cemetery I asked what do you miss the most in the spirit said sex? Yeah, right. I'm Dalyne Spratt on urban legends with the Ghost Brothers the podcast We get into the nitty and gritty of paranormal ghosts and urban legends and we have a good time I hear voices and I'm running up this mountain at some point lost my pants like running up Okay, that's fair. That's fair. Listen to urban legends with the Ghost Brothers,

wherever you get your podcasts. This episode contains explicit language and descriptions of violence. Please be advised. Is there anyone alive in Mobile who might have known your mom? It's hard because I don't really know her life in Mobile. I don't really know who she hung out with there. There's Leanne, but she's dead. This is Amanda Campos, Renee's daughter.

We're speaking on the phone. There's David. David? Yeah, he was a friend of my mom's. He would bring gifts and things of my mom for me. Actually, he took me where she was killed, like where her body was found. It was me, my grandma, grandpa, and David. We all drove the mobile.

He showed me her house, where she hung out, and then he took us to the spot, like, on the highway. But yeah, I don't know if David is still alive, maybe you could reach out to him. For ID and ARC Media, I'm Sarah Kaelin, and this is why can't we talk about Amanda's mom? Previously, on why can't we talk about Amanda's mom? The injuries to the net, which involved decapitation, meaning that her head had been physically removed from her body. These wounds, they're just indicative of someone who is in a state of rage trying to do

as much damage as they possibly could. I feel like she's left out because of circumstances of what happened, you know, because it was a murder, it was a brutal murder. She was a drug addict and she had a bad, I never will forget her, but I call them a real, but we find out later, the name was Renee Burrong, but she always be a real mountainist to me. I mean, this was going to be, I knew at the time, this was going to be a real challenge. To try to recreate what could have happened to this young woman. You cannot assume that the victim is a stranger to the offender. It builds the fantasy.

It builds into what he wants to do and how he's going to do it. I need to sit down with Amanda, hear more about this David guy. So I decide to visit her at her home. Her house is decorated with bright colors and holiday knick-knacks and lots of framed photographs. It reminds me so much of Joyce's home. Clearly, the apple doesn't fall

far from the tree. There's a pair of parakeets, a few small aquariums filled with fish, and a little dog scuttling around. At this point, I'm hoping we can talk more about a guy named David Young, a guy she mentioned the very first time we spoke on the phone. Do you have a memory of David and your mom coming over together, ever? No, never. She didn't, you never met him before your mom. Not that I remember. I remember mom talking about him as a friend. And I remember my mom explaining to me the difference of love and being in love through

David. As an example, me and my mom were talking and I said, well, what's the difference? And she said, well, like David, he's my friend. I love him, but I'm not in love with him. And I said, well, how can you say that? You know, you get, I'm seven, eight years old, trying to figure out what love and in love is. And I said, so you're not in love with David and she said, no, I just love him as a friend. And it was because

she said that he was a good friend and he was my dad's best friend. So that's the only way she referred to him as was my dad's best friend. So that's how I knew him. But despite how seemingly close Renee and David were, Amanda does not meet David until after her mom dies. Not long after the funeral, Amanda travels with her grandparents to Alabama. They need to collect Renee's belongings, including her beloved little sports car, which is still at the Mechanics and Mobile. Once they arrive in Mobile, they meet up with David. He offers to take them around,

since none of them really know Renee's life there. First, David takes the Bergeron family to the cemetery, where Amanda's dad Clay is buried. First, David takes the Bergeron family to the cemetery where Amanda's dad Clay is buried. She's never been there before. After that, he takes her to meet Clay's brother so that Amanda can be introduced to the other side of the family. After that, he takes Amanda and her grandparents to Renee's house, the one she shared with Marie's. And I remember walking in and my grandma was saying, how we know this is the right house? I walked in and it's a big old picture of me on her refrigerator. Like I had given her as my Easter picture.

My grandma had made me a dress, you know, you sit with the Easter bunny. But she had blew it up like the size of the whole refrigerator. And I said, well, unless I'm famous, this is the house. It is clearly Renee's house. But apart from the picture of Amanda on the fridge, it looks abandoned. There was nothing in the house. There was a few pictures, and empty purse.

Not even furniture, not even a sofa. Nothing on a wall. It was like, rammed sack, I guess you would say. I remember that feeling like, this isn't right like this is empty They wouldn't even have so foot, they went in bed. There was nothing in there According to Amanda, David then tells her grandparents that he thinks she

Amanda should see where her mother's body was found It's not far from Renee's house. The family drives over with David. I remember waiting in the car. You didn't get out of the car? No, no, no. My grandpa got out. My grandpa told me to wait in the car. So I don't know what they said or how precise he was, whatever, you know. Amanda doesn't know what David or her grandparents see or talk about while she stays in the car. After that, the Bershran family returns home to New Orleans. In the first years after Renee's death,

David visits the family every so often. In fact, just a few months after their mobile visit, David offers to buy Rene's car. My mom had a 280ZX and it was um teal and had spulled right and right across the front of it and gold letters. The car had been hard to sell, but Amanda loved having it around in her grandparents driveway. She said she would just go sit in it so she could smell her mom. So it was a very noticeable car and I knew it was her car.

So he told my grandma that he wanted to drive it around town. So if anybody seen him in the car, he would know that he's looking for is what he's set. After that, David keeps returning to the berseran home. But each time he visits, Amanda's grandpa Raymond makes her go somewhere else. He doesn't want her to interact with David.

Well, Grandpa always wanted us people to read people. And he just, from jump, he didn't like them. And the first couple of times he came over, he didn't let him sit come inside, like he has to stay outside and talk to him, you know. Eventually, at some point, David is allowed to come inside. Amanda's grandma Joyce invites him in to chat.

David brings Joyce's newspaper clippings with updates on the case. New rewards offered, new possible connections. But Amanda recalls Raymond still refuses to speak with David or let Amanda interact with him much. Despite this, David sends Amanda holiday cards. So it's Teddy Bear holding a heart and says happy Valentine's Day. And then the inside says, A Valentine's greeting for you from me as warm as a great big hug would be. Having happy day. And then David wrote, and please don't ever forget that I think about and love you forever. Love always, David, and very happy

Valentine. I knew I had another like a note from him before and he had sent me a picture of himself when he started driving 18 wheelers. He sent me a picture of that. That's all I remember though. Amanda remembers another time when David slipped an envelope under the door. On it, he had written, for Amanda. Inside the envelope was a gold necklace. My mom's necklace. Then he supposedly just found in the car, as we said. But my mom always hid the necklace on.

It's not just Amanda's memory. I have found at least six pictures of Renee wearing this necklace. It looks to be a favorite of hers. And then another time, you came in for Christmas because you bought me a bicycle. It tends to be pink and gray. I sickly with a squirrely handle. David's visits are regular enough that Joyce buys him

a Christmas present every year. And it was a partner of Winthand cigarettes. And then one year, he never came. And then he never came again. He just stopped coming. No letter, no phone call, just stopped. I don't know where. So, MacGroom, I didn't know if something happened to him

or he's got busy, because I, and I remember that box of rap cigarettes long after Christmas was over, my grandma just kept it out. In case ever, she showed up and she had it for her. And eventually she just threw it away. After that, Amanda never sees David again. He vanishes into thin air. Yeah, I don't know if David is still alive.

Maybe you could reach out to him. How old do you think he was? Mm. Older than my mom, but I actually do know his birthday. Christmas, hard to forget. David Young, his name actually appears in the original case files, but only briefly. He makes his first appearance on February 19, 1994, three months after Renee was killed.

A doctor calls in saying David came into his office seeking anxiety medicine because he was upset about what happened to Renee. Around the same time, a DMV employee also calls in a tip on David. Apparently, he came into the DMV to renew his commercial driver's license. He showed the employee laminated photos of Renee and discussed the case in detail. He seemed upset. The employee was shaken and told a state trooper stationed at the DMV who then gave the

information to detectives at the sheriff's office. Both of these tips are written down in the detective's notebook. From there, it looks like the detectives spoke with David about 11 days later, presumably following up on these tips. But there is no recording of their conversation, Just a few notes jotted down, saying that it happened, and that David said he hadn't seen Renee since July, a full four months before she died. Someone being upset about a murder when they know the person

who was murdered is not alarming. Yes, he shares a few too many details, but I don't believe there's a right way or a wrong way to process grief for traumatic loss. And so, someone being a little ghoulish about it isn't a red flag in and of itself. But that being said, I can't stop thinking about the story Amanda shared, about David taking her to the place where her mom's body was found. Whatever it might mean, it's clear that I need to speak with David Young. It's been clear since Amanda first mentioned his name. Even if he has a rock-solid alibi and no connections to Renee's murder,

at the very least, he's probably someone who knew her fairly well. I have a name and a birthday. No year, but it being on Christmas makes it at least a little easier to find him. So that's all I need. I find his criminal record. There are charges for assault, robbery, burglary, and weed, a felony marijuana charge, actually, meaning he had a distribution level amount when arrested, not some dime bag recreational amount. I also find an address in Mobile. As far as I can tell, there's no death certificate or obituary connected to his name. So it looks like he's still alive. 65 years old and lives not too far away.

My partner, Matt and I, decided that we're going to pull up to David's house and try to interview him without warning. We want to knock him off balance a little, see how he reacts. David lives at the very back of a trailer park. We have to drive through a series of twists and turns on a dirt road to find them. When we finally arrive at his address, it's hard to see his trailer because it's obscured by very high, cropped hedges. But once we walk past them, we can see it clearly. A single wide looks old, at least 30 or 40 years. Faded, worn, some rust showing. But it is also clearly as well kept as anyone could be expected to manage at its age. Or at his.

The property slopes down behind the trailer into a huge section of woods with a small shed at the edge of the property line. I record the interview on my phone, so it's not high quality. I'll try to clarify as we go, because this conversation that would only last half an hour contains a lot of very important information. He's wearing a plain white t-shirt and jeans, both of which appear quite crisp and clean, but also seem at least as size too big. With just socks on his feet, he joins us outside at Matt's request, sitting down on the narrow metal steps in front of the trailer's front door. David Young has a sort of lanky Santa Claus quality to his appearance.

Long white hair, long white beard, the both are yellowed from years of nicotine exposure. He is so tall and thin that gangily is the first word to pop into my mind. I just built my attention for you, so I'm kind of looking at. That was a whole part of the back of Mani. What's it? Renee? Yes, sir. David seems stunned, almost mute. He clearly knows immediately why we are there.

You might have missed it just now, but the moment when we mention a murder in 1993, he replies, mumbling. I quote, you mean Renee? Then I didn't really know her." End quote. At the outset, before we even begin asking him questions, David starts by saying that Renee got on crack. She threw her life away.

To hear him, he says, that's what got her killed. Matt asks David if he and Renee were ever in a relationship or whether they were just friends. David quickly answers, saying, no, I knew some people she knew met her through them, but she got on that stuff. After that, he trails off. That stuff changes people so much, don't it? My best guess is that David is struggling to grasp what is happening and maybe trying to end the conversation with us.

He's throwing out answers, whatever comes to him in that second, anything to just make this stop. That may be why he downplays his relationship with Renee, claiming not to know her really and emphasizing her drug use, distancing himself from her. But Matt pushes on. naming not to know her really and emphasizing her drug use, distancing himself from her. But Matt pushes on. Um, so tell me a little bit about her, because I, some of the case notes that I've read just don't tell me a whole lot about her. Now I see a picture over and that's all I know about her. Now I'm an order-missed detail about her life.

Who's you hung around and, what she liked to do. Where she got it, where she got it on that crack. She got it in black, please. Herchia is dating up with black guy. Yeah. Her name was Horace. Horace, yeah. And they say they question you, me.

It is clear and clear. Yeah. So David says that Renee got on drugs and started hanging out with black people, including her boyfriend, Maurice. How was her relationship with Maurice? Have you ever seen the indication of violence on this part? I don't like him. I don't like he ever seen him in that. David is quick to say that he does not suspect Murray's. Matt asks David if the detectives ever spoke with him.

The police are definitely searchers who come to speak with you. Yes, David says he went down to the sheriff's station and talked with Cookie Estes about the case. He makes it sound voluntary on his part. So who did you suspect after you kind of built into things? When Matt asks David who he suspects, David keeps quiet, he doesn't offer an answer. Instead he says, the detectives say she left the house that morning and was going to the store. It's like he's thinking out loud. But eventually, he does offer his own theory of the case. I remember seeing something in an old newspaper where that was a potential false process of

the sheer office. At the time, it was that she could have snatched on someone, per se, who had been in the drug and whatever it was. David believes Renee is responsible for somebody going to prison, and that is why she was killed. He cites the fact that she acted like somebody was after her. When Matt presses him on this, he then claims he read it in a newspaper. It is worth noting that for many years, Renee's mom Joyce has kept a file folder of all the documents related to Renee's murder.

In it, there are multiple newspaper clippings about the case. David gave some of these clippings to Joyce. On one, he writes in the margin, still lacks clues. So it does appear that he followed the case closely after Renee's death. I ask him about what he knows of Renee's personal life. I want to see what he knows of Renee's personal life. I want to see what he'll offer us. Where are you going to say she was married?

Well, Rene, she was married with that play of beer before, you know, he died. Played out of it now. Brain. And you're better. We all deal with that during the night before. Yeah, he got married. he got pregnant by the end. Just a reminder, Renee left home as a teenager and went to Mobile, Alabama, where she married a guy named Clay, that's Amanda's dad, who later died of a brain aneurysm.

David and Clay were childhood friends. So he knew her for a long time. And David tells us a history of Renee that more or less matches what we know. She put baby Amanda and her parents' care. She traveled. She engaged in sex work. It appears that David did know Renee well. But I am also curious about David's relationship to Renee's family after her death.

Like why did he visit so much? Why did he buy her car? And why did he take the family out to the place where Renee's body was found? According to David, Renee's family asked him to take them out to that spot. Yeah, I took her to the world of the process. We checked them out to the spot where she was killed. They wanted to. Oh, they wanted to.

They asked me, once the last time you rode out there, I don't know. I don't know. David's body language changes. He seems uncomfortable, cagey, even, unable to address the question directly. As Matt tries to get a more exact answer, David starts offering a roundabout story. He says he drove there with his friend Calvin, who he lives with and takes care of, but that's all he'll say. Matt asks David when did he last go to that spot? Last week, David answers. Matt follows up, clarifying that David is saying that he drove by there last week.

At this point, David starts murmuring, saying, I don't know, I don't know. And not exactly sure what David is trying to say as we push on this point. But this is what I gather. It's clear that David says the last time he drove by the spot where Renee's body was found was last week. Like the week before we were talking to him. Why would he be driving down this particular remote road so often? I'm not sure.

Psychologically, this stands out to me. The fact that he's been to that spot so recently. And the more we ask about Renee, the more that David keeps bringing the conversation back to the grizzly details of what happened to her. He seems obsessed with them. He also seems familiar with them. He says this is because he's seen pictures

of what happened to Renee. I'm sure that he's seen pictures of what's tattoos that he got from her dad. I know that these photos were shown to the family to help identify Renee's body and may have been in their possession, but I don't know whether anyone in the Berseran family showed these to David. David also claims that at one point,

he had the autopsy report. That is odd. These are not publicly available in homicides. One thing I notice is that David is pretty unclear, and I don't mean just in terms of the audio quality. Like, we ask him a question, he doesn't really answer that specific question. He says something unrelated that may or may not have to do with the actual question. He doesn't finish his sentences. It's hard to follow his train of thought. But it also seems clear to me that he's pretty nervous and not sure what he is supposed

to say to detectives about this case. There's a lot to note in this first conversation. David seems to know a lot about the murder of Rene, like a lot of specific details, and he seems eager to talk about them. He also gives roundabout unclear answers, and he's pretty judgmental, racist even about Rene's life. He clearly dislikes black people and blames them for what happened. life, he clearly dislikes black people and blames them for what happened. For me, the first conversation with David raises more questions than answers. It's not clarifying, it's confusing. Do you have a tattoo that says paranormal pop?

It's on his lower back. It is not. It's in her thigh. I'm D tattoo that says Pear no more pop. It's on his lower back. It is not. It's in her thigh. I'm Dalyne Spratt. And on Urban Legends with the Ghost Brothers, the podcast, we can enter some real stories of the pair normal. And we have a pretty good time doing it. I hear voices and I'm running up this mountain.

At some point, lost my pants, like running up the mountain because I heard voices. Listen to Urban Legends with the Ghost Brothers, wherever you get your podcasts. The next month, Matt and I asked David to come to the Sheriff's Office for a sit-down interview at the station. We need to speak with him again and ask about one,

his relationship with Renee, two, his knowledge of the murder, and three, his drives past the crime scene. In the time since we first talk to David, we've pulled license plate data from across the county. This data marks when a plate passes through red light cameras, allowing us to look for patterns of movement. When we look at the past 60 days of data for David, we count approximately 25 times

that his vehicle appears to pass by the crime scene. The data shows that his car passes through the nearest light to the scene, going in one direction, and then, usually 10 to 20 minutes later, passes through again, going back the other way. I am curious to see if David will confirm or deny whether or not he is, in fact, visiting the crime scene. It's part of our broader strategy. Get David to tell us as much as possible and gently push back for clarification when he goes astray. I am not sure how much of what he says will be true or not, but I want to gauge how he

responds when we ask him to clarify details. When David arrives, we guide him to the interview room. This is a room with white walls, a small round table, and a recording system. Matt begins the interview. I remember my partner Sarah. So we've been looking through thousands of pages of documents in this investigation. He is unbelievable.

David seems to trust Matt more. He opens up to him. When I talked to you yesterday, you said you got a dream. Oh yeah, so you've been thinking about it a lot. Oh yeah. I think I'm his favorite since I've seen you. Paul Cowell. Well, those about you said they were really vivid. It was, it was heard, heard, and dead, and long.

They had come somewhere when we was in. You're going to take her back. That was a dream. Yeah. David says he's been having dreams about Renee. Now having a dream about someone may seem like a pretty innocuous admission. We all have dreams about people and situations we know. But in the world of criminal psychology,

when any suspect begins to talk about dreams, we pay attention. This is because dream admissions are very common in the world of sexual homicide. People may not admit to the crime directly, but they admit to having had a dream about committing the crime. This is a psychological telltale.

David's dream strikes me as an interesting one. had a dream about committing the crime. This is a psychological telltale. David's dream strikes me as an interesting one. It is, in no way, an admission dream, but it does suggest to me there are some level of David's subconscious focusing on Renee. I make a note to remember this, to see if he mentions any other dreams throughout our interviews. Before we go any further, Matt and I want to learn more about the fact that David keeps driving past the crime scene. We know that he has done this multiple times since we last spoke to him, but will he admit that?

But did you go there to the murders inside? Or her body was discovered? Well, I guess my question is, since me and Sarah talked for four weeks ago, did you have you been back in there? Yeah, I went back in and I don't know. What do you found? Since we spoke? Yeah. So David does cop to going to the site?

Interesting. Now, onto our second area of focus. How does he know so much about the murder of Renee? In our first interview, David seemed to know a lot of details about the specifics of what happened to Renee. David claims that it is because he had the autopsy report. This claim about the autopsy report sticks out to Renee. David claims it is because he had the autopsy report. This claim about the autopsy report sticks out to me. These reports are not made publicly available, and they are rarely

given to families, especially in criminal cases like this, one because they could reveal sensitive information about the case, and two, because they are disturbing. When I asked Dr. Hughes, the sheriff's surgeon and a medical examiner about this, he said bluntly that these autopsy reports are not public. So we have to ask David about this. And just being honest and speaking to you now, you know, kind of strictly as odd the other day, when we worked your house and spoke with you, you told me you just recently burned all the things that you did have. You helped me understand why you did that. Well, this one old girl is nice, she said, I need to put a thing in my new stuff.

David is hard to hear, but he says that a girl he was seeing told him it was time for him to get over Renee and what happened to her. So you said another woman told you just kind of time for you to get over? Yeah, big, big to tell him, we said look, you need to get out, you need to get out. I'm sure you're not even sure. She's not going to look at me. She a girlfriend of yours? No, she was just a girl, I'm mad. What stuff did you specifically burn in the center house? The lunch and pictures. No, I am. All the old top. You know, that thing was thick. That old top.

It's already pain. Yeah, I've got it. It's pretty good. Yes. So, you know, remember the last time we spoke with Vicki? How long has long time? Long time. time? About 15 years. How long she tell you to get rid of her face legs? She used to tell me to get over her. No, that was so weird. Because she didn't physically tell you you need to get rid of all these. No, she's right. She's told me I need to just get over her.

She has those 10 or 15 years ago. And you told us last month that you had just burned the stuff like a couple weeks earlier. No, it's not long ago. It's not much. I'm just proud to understand. David says he got the autopsy report from Renee's dad. But he also says that he burned the autopsy report before our interview, because a girlfriend told him to.

Okay, so let's say he is telling the truth. How exactly did he get the autopsy report? They aren't publicly available, and neither Joyce nor Amanda remember Renee's dad Raymond ever having that report or giving it to David. Could David have gotten this autopsy report through some other means? And more importantly, why would David then burn it? Now, let's say David is not telling the truth. How else would he have found out about the specifics of Renee's injuries?

The details of them were not publicized, and did he actually burn anything? Like, is he trying to prevent us from looking for something by saying it's not there? Or could he have actually burned something to destroy evidence that might have otherwise been at his house? This is where I really want to press David. So I deliberately use an emotional tactic. I bring out a picture of Renee. It's a formal portrait, the one from her memorial.

In it, she's wearing the same gold necklace David gave Amanda. David is mesmerized by this picture. He looks at it intently. He says he's never seen it before. It's from her memorial. Let me ask you actually, are you looking at it? Does that necklace look familiar? Is it that? You said you would give Amanda... Yeah, I just just really... You said you would give Amanda. Yeah, I'll just do something.

She gets this stuff like that because she has that necklace and she says that you gave it to her. Oh, really? We just kind of need to understand. I understand you guys are closed and everything is so for us as we move forward and we're looking at things. We have to explore some weird angles. Yeah. things. We have to explore some weird angles. And frankly, it's a weird angle to me that a necklace... It was real.

It was real. I guess you left it. You put it in the door or something and say it. And when she went straight to that picture, she said, that's the necklace. I don't remember if you remember that. So at first, David says he does not recognize the necklace. When I bring up the fact that he gave trinkets to Amanda, including the necklace, he says, oh yeah. But as I try to ask him how he got Renee's necklace, he diverts and simply says that he has no memory of giving it to Amanda. Okay, so this brings us to our third area of focus.

What was David's relationship like with Renee? Did you and Renee ever have any sexual relationship? Did you want to? Honestly. Well, I mean, I mean, me being on the other day. Yeah, but I was on the smarter net, man. I've been around a lot of girls. Yeah. Like I said, I had three girl friends going one time.

A braver man than I am. I think I only had one, let alone three. So did you ever try to sleep with her? Well, we were friends. I always told her she would be everything else or you were a state. And you did do those things. You helped her. You were some money and you would give her a place to stay. But she never missed that amount. David says he and Renee never had a sexual relationship. When Matt asks him if he wanted to, he says yes,

but that he's smarter than that. But he does add that they were friends and he offered for her to stay with him if she ever needed anything. I am still unsure what the relationship between David and Renee really looked like. Amanda has said that her mom told her David wanted more than she did, but David seems sincere, saying that their friendship was platonic. To conclude the interview, Matt and I use a tried and true method and detective work.

We leave the room and watch how he behaves when we aren't around, specifically how he interacts with that photo of Renee, which we will leave with him. I enjoy talking, young. Yeah, if you'll give us just a second order to look at something in the office for Sarah, you'll come back here and talk for maybe another five minutes, you'll be good to go.

Yeah, okay. I'm sorry, I'm going to go. Yeah, okay. I'm going right back. Yeah. Go ahead. Thank you. Anything on your head, come. You want another coat?

No, I'm okay. Okay. We'll be right back. Come on. Okay. Now, keep in mind, there's no two-way mirror. But there is a camera and microphone recording him. We go into another room to watch that feed.

Here is what we see. David props Renee's photo up on the table. Looks at it. Talks to it. Between the AC and his low voice, it is almost impossible to decipher what he's saying. But he looks serious, maybe even longing. He can't take his eyes off of it. As we return to the room, Matt and I enact a plan

to try to get a DNA sample from him. Throughout the interview, David has been sipping on a can of Coke. We are going to try to convince him to leave that Coke without telling him that is what we're doing. We know how mesmerized he is by this picture of Renee. So Matt will offer the picture to David, but subtly, helping that David will take the picture and leave the Coke.

We return to the room, ready to put our plan into motion. Matt actually snatches the photo of Renee off the table from where David had it propped up. David stands up from the table. Coke in hand. Matt holds out the picture of Renee. David's eyes flip between the picture and the coke in his hand. Matt holds the picture just slightly out of reach as he walks backwards out of the room, luring David towards the door. Yeah, so I'm just going to be like, I'm just going to be like, I'm taking it on that finger. I'm putting it on that way. I'm putting it on that as well. David sets the coke down on the table and grabs the picture.

Bingo. Okay. That's good. Yeah, you should have something. We have our DNA sample. Many sexual homicides involve trophy collection behavior. This behavior can look like the offender retaining objects of the victims, but may also involve reenacting certain elements of the crime, revisiting

the scene, engaging with the victim's family in order to watch their emotional response, so on. Psychologically, these actions can often lead the offender to feel bursts of enjoyment, or even sexual gratification. There are certain accepted fundamentals of violent and sexual homicides, trophy collection being one of them, and they really are the baselines of our modern understanding of these crimes. These fundamentals were developed by the pioneers in the field, like Douglass, wrestler, heart, and of course, Dr. Ann Burgess, who expressed her own concern regarding David's behavior when I brought it up.

Well, what would intrigue me with David Young is how much time he spent going back to the scene, being especially developing the relationship with the daughter was, and some of the, that was really very eerie, that he would do this. So he was reliving it. We could say that if he was, if he did this, that he was reliving what he did, and they would keep it alive in his mind, and he would enjoy that part of it. So he became, he was just too involved in the dynamics, if you will, of the family, I think. Hey, David. Yeah.

Hey, Detective Peague. How are you today? Hey, what's going on, buddy? Y'all calm, you have to go. Yeah, sorry, I stepped out of the office yesterday afternoon. I just saw this morning where I'd missed your phone call. Hey, what's going on buddy? Y'all caught yesterday. Yes, Ari, I stepped out of the office yesterday afternoon. I just saw this morning where I'd missed your phone call. A week after our interview, David calls Matt.

It was just something that was in my mind. It was put in there a long time ago by either a mayor, as I almost said to be. I wish you I kept thinking, why aren't the hills, didn't I ask her that day? She told me someone might be looking for her. I never did ask her who was looking for her. I don't know what the hell I was thinking.

You're looking out for your friend and trying to help, so don't beat yourself up. I was always scared for a lot, man. I think that's why I was talking to her about her. Yeah. Because you know, the last you leave? Yeah. You know she had a black baby and sold it?

No, I didn't know that. Yeah, she had a black baby and sold it. No, when did that happen? That happened. I don't know, maybe a year or two before she got to Cal. Okay. She had a black baby and sold it. And how do you know this? She told me. Who'd she sell it to?

I'll tell you what, man, I wish I could. I wish I could swap my life for hers and bring her back so she could tell you man. Yeah. She knew everything I did. Well you're being helpful so you're doing everything you can do and just keep thinking of things and write them down. So you don't forget before you call me. I went back out there yesterday. Where's that? Me and Charles is on the way down there.

Oh, did you? Yeah, I went back out there trying to find a thing, you know, while I was out there. Yes, sir. Because, yeah, I didn't get to go to her funeral, ain't it? Why not? Oh man, I didn't go to my mother's funeral. Yeah. All right, thanks David.

Okay, but I'll talk to you later. All right, bye-bye. Bye-bye. Today at 6.24, 20 times0.37 hours, and that phone call was with David Young. The call is short, and all over the place. David seems to like playing detective. He provides us with different theories and suspects, all of which feel far-fetched and, frankly, made up.

David claims Renee told him she felt in danger shortly before her death, yet he, her close friend, never thought to ask her who exactly she was afraid of? And about that baby. Until this point in the investigation, there have been no other accounts of a second child. But less than 24 hours after David tells us this, someone else comes forward claiming the exact same thing.

But not to Matt or me, to Amanda. And she says, do you know you may have a brother? And she said, well, he contacted me. That's next time on Why Can't We Talk About Amanda's Mom. Why Can't We Talk About Amanda's Mom is produced by Arc Media for ID. You can follow our show wherever you get your podcasts. We'd love it if you could take a second to subscribe and leave us a five star review on Apple Podcasts.