Wonderful! - Wonderful! 270: Harma and Reg

Episode Date: March 29, 2023

Rachel's favorite Presidential-choice poet! Griffin's favorite places to get conventionally grown mozzarella sticks!Music: “Money Won’t Pay” by bo en and Augustus – https://open.spotify.com/al...bum/7n6zRzTrGPIHt0kRvmWoyaEquality Florida: https://www.eqfl.org/ MaxFunDrive ends on March 29, 2024! Support our show now by becoming a member at maximumfun.org/join.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hi, this is Rachel McElroy. Hello, this is Griffin McElroy. And this is wonderful. It's so special today. And I can feel it in the air. Whoa, okay. In the studio. It's week two of the Max Fun Drive. Yes. Huge for us, but even huger, I would say. And I love how these two events have dovetailed. It's Rachel's birthday. Now, we didn't plan this. We did not plan this. I know that it was Sydney's birthday just the
Starting point is 00:00:44 other day. And that felt like, is that a push for MaxFunDrive? And now we're doing it too, but it is actually also my birthday today. And tomorrow is our son's birthday. There's so many birthdays. There's never been a better time for you to go to MaximumFun.org slash join and show your support to
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Starting point is 00:01:41 uh for for this year on wonderful but uh it's been a little bit slow this year the drive has which is i think to be expected because of the economy the economy the economy has been better um so we are not taking it personally we are not no we do want to make sure that we take every opportunity to remind folks that maybe haven't gotten a chance to do it yet uh that now you should do it now you should do it this is the right time it's it's rachel's birthday it's my birthday say it can you say it in like a little like like it's my booth that's not really a thing that i do no it isn't is it um it's yeah maximumfund.org join is the link do it do it now if you've thought about it and you enjoy our work and you want to support it very, very
Starting point is 00:02:29 directly, this is the way that you can do so. And, um, we, we, we sure do appreciate it. Um, but I sure also do appreciate, I'm serving a lot of masters this episode because it's tough talking about the Max Fund Drive, which I feel very strongly about and your birthday, which I feel also very, very strongly about. Do you have any small wonders? Oh, man. I'm going to say when, and this is applicable, when you receive birthday gifts in advance of your birthday. But you save them until the day of your birthday. That's good.
Starting point is 00:03:08 This is something I don't know if everybody expects me to do. But if I receive a gift in advance of the actual day, I will not open it. No. Until the day. Right. It's a little treat for myself. It feels like cheating to do it otherwise. I know.
Starting point is 00:03:22 I'm nervous because my parents are about to come into town. And I have a gift from them. And I'm trying to decide. I should probably wait until they get here. Even though it is my birthday today. No, I would crack that bad boy. Oh, yeah? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:37 I love you and your birthday. And I love giving people presents. It makes me very uncomfortable to see them open it. And because I can't help but like sort of look at their face and try to sort of like look at their little micro expressions. Although I do love giving our sons presents. Well, yeah, because they're an easy target. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:59 Yeah. One of them likes cars. One of them likes Pokemon and Sonic. So just any of those. I know. If you get one of those two things, guaranteed going to put smiles on those little faces. And what's great is there are infinites of all of those things. All of them.
Starting point is 00:04:14 There's so many cars. And so many Sonic characters. So many fucking Sonic characters. I don't know where they came from, honestly. I don't either. So they could be entirely made from whole cloth. But he seems to know them. Maybe. I don't know. A lot of times i will give him one that i've never heard of yeah we got him like this purple chameleon dude and it's like i don't know who that is but he has cool bangles so
Starting point is 00:04:37 he must be all right um i'm gonna say uh, just sort of freestyling, making, um, vehicles with Legos. Yeah. It's always been a passion of mine. We've, we, we do a lot of Legos around the house, mostly Minecraft Lego sets, which Henry is like obsessed with. And we've built over a dozen of those. And you say we. Me and Henry. Uh, mostly me. Mostly you you yeah henry has an interest in
Starting point is 00:05:08 the completed set he does not necessarily have the patience or ability yet to do it himself but when we freestyle it he likes to make little monsters and little robots yeah they're so good and they're really really good and he will play with them for hours and hours yeah he will always make me take a picture and then tell me that he wants me to send it to his teacher he made a snake robot yesterday with a hand on the back of it that he named handler and we played with handler for a long time i love that that's my favorite one it's my favorite friend's character too it's my favorite friend's character My favorite Prince character is Handler and Annika and Aus, Hachel, Hoi B,
Starting point is 00:05:50 Owee, Owee and Hoi B. They should get together, don't you think? They'd be such a good pair. Yeah. I also love Arma and Bray. Okay. This isn't applicable anymore.
Starting point is 00:06:03 You go first this week. Yes. What do you got for us for your birthday and the second week of the Max Fun Drive? I bet it's gonna be hot stuff. If you had to guess,
Starting point is 00:06:13 what would you guess? Your birthday? No. That'd be weird if you brought your own, your own birthday. No. If I had to guess,
Starting point is 00:06:21 I don't know. Do you have a lot of things that you enjoy, baby? Oh, you're going to Poetry Corner? Yes, sir. Oh, you're not holding a book. I'm not. That's usually my clue. They do have poems on the internet. You're kidding me. They do. Yeah, you
Starting point is 00:06:36 don't have to have a book. How's that work? Is it on Amazon? You buy the poems? A lot of times they're just up there for free. Oh, like Torrent. Like you download and go to the old Pirate Bay and download and Torrent a few poems. I go to LimeWire.
Starting point is 00:06:51 That's interesting. Yeah. Wow, I never would have thought. We're talking about poems. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. The poem I'm reading today I got from Poetry Foundation, which has a lot of them up there.
Starting point is 00:07:04 Sounds like they would. It would be wild if they had something else. Mm-hmm. You know from Poetry Foundation, which has a lot of them up there. Sounds like they would. It'd be wild if they had something else. You know where Poetry Foundation is located? Oh, sure. Washington, D.C. No, Chicago, Illinois. Fuck. I used to go to Printer's Row Book Fair.
Starting point is 00:07:15 Did you ever go to that? Oh, yeah. I had for a while. I had a little free poetry foundation tote bag. I love that. That I used to carry around like, hey, you know what I like. Oh, for sure. I got this for free.
Starting point is 00:07:34 The poet I wanted to talk about, though, does have a connection to DC, and that is Elizabeth Alexander. Okay. uh she was born in new york but grew up in washington dc and uh actually went to school at sidwell friend school which is the dc school that like a lot of the president's kids go to so like chelsea clinton went there sasha and malia went there it's like the fancy school in dc that yeah the the super smart fancy kids go to right Right. And that's where she went. But you know what's interesting is that she actually has a, besides, you know, having gone to the same school many years in advance as the Obamas, she actually has a connection to President Barack Obama.
Starting point is 00:08:21 When she was at University of Chicago. And she was doing that because she was an assistant professor of English in the early 90s. And that was around the time that President Obama was a senior lecturer at the school's law school. Oh, that's fun. And so they met each other then. And then in 2009, Elizabeth Alexander had the opportunity to read the poem at the presidential inauguration. Oh, cool. She was only the fourth poet to read at a presidential inauguration.
Starting point is 00:09:00 Wow. Which I was surprised about. Yeah. Because it seems like there have been a lot of them. Well, there's a lot of singing at these things, if memory serves. You get a lot of, I feel like a lot of diva sort of singer style folks have.
Starting point is 00:09:17 I guess because it's so memorable. So there was Robert Frost in 1961, Maya Angelou in 1993, which I think I believe I read that poem, actually. Bill Clinton? Yeah. Oh, wow. Miller Williams in 1997, which I think was Clinton's second term.
Starting point is 00:09:34 And then, you know, Amanda Gorman. Yeah, of course. Which kind of blew things up. It's weird that presidents give a second inaugural address. I feel like you should be allowed to phone that one in. Be like, thanks guys. I appreciate it. You clearly like what I'm laying down.
Starting point is 00:09:52 And so just more of the same, I think is going to be the sort of vibe I'm going for. Huge thanks. I was worried. Huge thanks, gang. I think the poem always especially the poem it gives you kind of this sense of like a little bit of a fresh start in a way sure like yeah i've been here but now we're
Starting point is 00:10:11 about to start something a little better yeah a little different yeah and here's a poem to set that time the extent of that is definitely not contingent on the many other elected representatives and the sort of demographic makeup of congress yeah this is our year gang this is gonna be it for sure i'm feeling like getting a lot of stuff done yeah yeah and i'm a real sucker for that if i'm gonna be honest like i love being hopeful sure um which is probably not unique to me but i'm always willing to fall for it like you put the right words together i'm like yes good poem yes things are going to be better yeah so i actually wanted to read that poem that she read at uh his inauguration and it's called praise song for the day whose inauguration president obama oh okay 2009 got it elizabeth. Yes. Sorry. We talked about a lot of inaugurations and I got all mixed up, confused. Praise song for the day.
Starting point is 00:11:11 Each day we go about our business, walking past each other, catching each other's eyes or not, about to speak or speaking. All about us is noise. All about us is noise and bramble, thorn and din, each one of our ancestors on our tongues. Someone is stitching up a hem, darning a hole in a uniform, patching a tire, repairing the things in need of repair. Someone is trying to make music somewhere with a pair of wooden spoons on an oil drum, with cello, boombox, harmonica, voice. A woman and her son wait for the bus. A farmer considers the changing sky. A teacher says, take out your pencils, begin.
Starting point is 00:11:51 We encounter each other in words, words spiny or smooth, whispered or declaimed, words to consider, reconsider. We cross dirt roads and highways that mark the will of someone, and then others who said, I need to see what's on the other side. I know there's something better down the road. We need to find a place where we are safe. We walk into that which we cannot yet see. Say it plain, that many have died for this day. Sing the names of the dead who brought us here, who laid the train tracks, raised the bridges, picked the cotton and the lettuce, built brick by brick the glittering edifices they would then keep clean and work inside of. Praise song for struggle, praise song for the day, praise song for every hand-lettered sign, the figuring it out at kitchen tables. for every hand-lettered sign, the figuring it out at kitchen tables.
Starting point is 00:12:47 Some live by love thy neighbor as thyself. Others by first do no harm and take no more than you need. What if the mightiest word is love? Love beyond marital, filial, national. Love that casts a widening pool of light. Love with no need to preempt grievance. In today's sharp sparkle, this winter air, anything can be made.
Starting point is 00:13:12 Any sentence begun. On the brink, on the brim, on the cusp, praise song for walking forward in that light. Isn't that lovely? That's, I love an epic poem isn't that lovely that's i love an epic poem about just sort of life yes and i i and i love it because i feel like it's very hard to write it's probably the hardest kind of poem to write and write well yeah yeah because it can seem just like a list. It can seem like a list.
Starting point is 00:13:46 It can seem like nothing but sort of just gross generalization. Right, when you write about life, that's a pretty broad sort of thing that is different for a lot of people. And so to say like, I'm going to wrap this whole thing up in a few good stanzas, but that was excellent. One of the poems,
Starting point is 00:14:03 or one of the poets I've brought here before is Kenneth Coke. And he was of this like New York school of poets. And they got criticism for what they called I do this, I do that poems. Yeah. Because they were kind of like listy. But I feel like that so accurately reflects a time period like it's kind of the best way to kind of travel through time in in what people do yeah day to day here's what's interesting about that poem so you know obviously that is a huge platform for her to give that poem at the inauguration and she was
Starting point is 00:14:41 largely unknown at that point. One, because she's a poet. I was going to say. And two, just, I mean, just, you know, in the poetry community, you know, she wasn't as widely known. Actually, in 2007, which was just two years earlier, she received an honor. She was the first recipient of the Jackson Poetry Prize, which is an annual prize awarded by poets and writers for an American poet who deserves wider recognition. That's great. So they were like, hey, you should really be checking this person out. And then two years later, she's like, I'm going to read in front of everybody. So here's what is really unfortunate. So she read that poem. And then all these newspapers came out and were like no
Starting point is 00:15:26 it wasn't very good ah the chicago tribune the los angeles times book editor uh most critics uh were were unimpressed uh quote her poem was too much like prose okay what the fuck does that even mean quote her delivery was insufficiently dramatic. Adam Kirsch of the New Republic found the poem, quote, dull, bureaucratic, and found it proved that the poet's place is not on the platform, but in the crowd. That she should speak not- Fuck yeah. That's a cool thing to say, dude. That she should speak not for the people, but to them.
Starting point is 00:16:03 Oh, nice. Which like, how is she not speaking to the people? What a fucking bonkers, inane thing to say about any kind of art form whatsoever. I know. You shouldn't be doing that to people. You should be doing it with them. What is that? Yeah, like, she's at the inauguration.
Starting point is 00:16:20 Like, what is she supposed to do? Can I say something about poetry as somebody who is is like, doesn't know fuck all about it? I feel like I saw a lot of this about Amanda Gorman also when she did her book. A lot of people who came out like, that wasn't very good, don't know fucking anything about poetry, who were like, is an art form that a lot of people who don't know anything about it feel very well equipped to say some shit about it, which is completely mystifying to me. Yeah, it's incredibly hard to write a poem and to write a poem that is supposed to welcome the new president and deliver it in front of a larger audience than most likely that poet has ever spoken in front of. Or most poets. That was a big – both of Obama's inauguration, those were big fucking to-dos. So I can't think of too many times where poets had a bigger platform than that.
Starting point is 00:17:16 Yeah. So, yeah, I would recommend checking out Elizabeth Alexander. She has a great book. She has a great book. She wrote an essay in 2020 called The Trayvon Generation in The New Yorker that she then turned into a book that just came out in 2022. examination like beautiful examination of kind of what it is like to be a young person in black america particularly if you have only lived in a world during you know trayvon and george floyd brianna taylor in that time period that was hugely traumatic and she speaks kind of to that generation of young people and kind of this world that we live in now uh and so i would i would
Starting point is 00:18:03 really recommend looking at that if you enjoyed her poem and enjoy her. I almost want to, even though I don't read poetry recreationally, just to spite the critics from whatever. God, 2009, that was a long time ago, eh? Yeah. Hoo boy. You know what's not a long time ago and it is now is the Max Fund Drive and Rachel's birthday. But I think for this break, we're going to mostly focus on the Max Fund Drive. I'm fine with that. I saw a really great tweet about it.
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Starting point is 00:24:26 Yes. Okay, good. Because my thing is casual dining restaurants. Oh, interesting. I was originally just going to do Applebee's, but then I decided to broaden it a little bit bigger. Okay. Partially because I haven't eaten at an Applebee's in a long time. Yeah, I think the last time was when I got a gift card from a coworker.
Starting point is 00:24:45 Was that an Applebee's or a Chili's? That was a Chili's, my friend. We did go to a Chili's in Austin. The Chili's. The like meme Chili's in Austin at like Guadalupe and like 44th or something like that. I think it's Lamar. Lamar and yeah, maybe. Maybe.
Starting point is 00:24:59 Great fucking Chili's, man. Awesome. Had some of their zesty little chicken poppers. Austin is a community that is very blessed with unique restaurants. Incredible restaurants. To the point where you don't actually really, like, unlike a community maybe that doesn't have that, you don't have to go to a chain restaurant. Sure. And yet, there is an opportunity.
Starting point is 00:25:22 There is an opportunity if you do. And yet there is an opportunity. There is an opportunity if you do. I feel like living in Austin and D.C., like D.C. has an incredible food scene as well, has made me forget the face of my father, who is Applebee's, a little bit. Because, like, I have a very soft spot in my heart for casual dining restaurants, largely because, like, growing up in Huntington, there wasn't another option for, like, quote unquote, like nice food, right? Like not, I guess not fast food. I definitely had that experience in St. Louis. Now, there may have been nice food there.
Starting point is 00:25:53 I'm not sure. I will say St. Louis definitely has nice restaurants. But after, you know, after a football game or on an evening or weekend, like we were going to the Applebee's or the Steak and Shake. Huntington has great restaurants now that I'm very happy for. Huntington has gotten sort of 50,000 times cooler since I left it, which is unfortunate. But there was something very beautiful
Starting point is 00:26:17 about anytime you had a date or a birthday or a cast party for a show, whatever. Like your choice of dining establishment was probably made for you and it was um i want to try to separate sort of my nostalgia for that that experience from the like the discussion at large um because i think there's a lot about casual dining restaurants that I love sort of unironically. I love a big menu. I love a big menu that covers multiple food genres.
Starting point is 00:26:50 Like a physically big menu? I do like a physically big menu. God help me. I know they're gross. I feel like the worm has turned against big laminated menus because they're just apparently very, very dirty. But man, when I get one, Cheesecake Factory menus are like bound. There's like a binding that has to happen there because of how bodacious and heavy, like when you can't see someone on either side of you because of just the width of the menu that you're looking at. I
Starting point is 00:27:19 love that. I love a restaurant with a million apps and desserts and a kid's menu that goes for days. That is huge for us. I cannot understate the value of that last point, especially for us when we're like touring, when we're on the road and we need to get food for our kids backstage at a show. Knowing that there is a Cheesecake Factory nearby with their infinite menu really relieves a lot of stress from that equation. There's an amazing article. I'm sure I've talked about it on this show before from a website called First We Feast where they interviewed a bunch of NBA players. Because in the NBA, the Cheesecake Factory has this like cult-like following that nobody could really understand. And so they interviewed a bunch of NBA players and they realized like there's a cheesecake factory in every nba team city they are usually in the like
Starting point is 00:28:12 central hub where you know the the uh the hotels and uh basketball arenas are i think that's probably what they're called stadiums sometimes stadium. Stadiums maybe sometimes. The portions are enormous and the prices aren't bonkers because if you're coming at it from like a rookie salary that you have to kind of manage, like that can be a consideration. I know people think like, oh, basketball players are super, super rich. That is not always the case all the time. And also the buildings are usually huge enough that like if you and most of the team want to have a sit-down dining experience cheesecake factory can hook you up there too is the food amazing at a lot of casual dining restaurants no of course not is it like a lot
Starting point is 00:28:59 of the time sort of frozen and rehydrated yes Yes, it is. Do I need my mozzarella sticks to be farm to table? I do not. That's true. I do not. I'm sure that farm to table mozzarella sticks exist and I'm sure that they are excellent. But like, I don't need my Bloomin' Onion. What's that Outback Steakhouse?
Starting point is 00:29:22 We haven't mentioned you by name, but you know I'm looking at you. Do I need my Bloomin' Onion to be artisanally made i do not there is a place for this this echelon of food and it exists very specifically in this one sort of category of restaurants that is sort of dying and not sort of like it's wicked dying like casual dining's in a very rough spot right now obviously with the covid19 shutdowns when they were in sort of full effect traffic disappeared as things sort of got back to normal i saw a statistic that was like traffic at casual dining restaurants is down like 59 percent uh from from where it was pre-COVID. But even before that, fast casual restaurants,
Starting point is 00:30:05 which is your Chipotle's, which is your Five Guys, anything without drive-thru service that doesn't have full table service, typically you would call a fast casual dining experience, just obliterated the market. Because of how much easier and obviously faster it is to get food there and as sort of the prevalence of, you know, meal delivery took off, which again was compounded by COVID. You know, it's a lot easier to get a burrito from a restaurant to someone's door than it is to get like some chicken piccata, for example. And so casual places have tried to pivot, but I feel like they are fighting a losing battle. I don't think that there is any coming back from this because it's just like for us personally speaking, it is very hard for us to get a babysitter and get together for like a night out at a dinner.
Starting point is 00:31:01 If we're going to do that, usually, you know, and we live in a city where we have infinite options because we live in D.C., like usually we're going to go for someplace a little bit nicer than a Chili's. But at the same time, I am eternally grateful to have that option available to me when we are traveling. Yeah, I wonder if the young people still do the casual dining. Because I remember the prospect of going to a restaurant when you, one, don't have a lot of money, and two, don't really know how money is managed, is intimidating.
Starting point is 00:31:43 And I just remember so many times going to restaurants and sitting around and like all of us were like, always trying to figure out how much money we were supposed to put down. And that process was made so much easier in an environment that was not stuffy or intimidating. Exactly. That's a really good point. It is a good place to kind of cut your teeth. I'm glad that I went to as many dates at Applebee's and Outback's that I did because it is like a pretty nonjudgmental environment to kind of get your sea legs under you. Also, there's like lots of places where, you know, fine dining options are limited. And it kicks ass that there are, you know, is the cheesecake factory can be there in those times and also full full stop fancy restaurants don't serve riblets and fucking oreo mudslide dirt cake and some of that shit rules yeah yeah no that's true like most uh places
Starting point is 00:32:41 that are considered fancy don't have a lot of appetizers and they don't have a lot of dessert options. Yes. Whereas a casual dining restaurant always has tons of both of those things. Of course. Like you could make a whole meal out of apps and desserts at these places. And you should. You absolutely should. Also casual restaurants have done some fucking bonkers stuff to try
Starting point is 00:33:00 and stay in the conversation. Yeah. Like I'd like to see Panera Bread try to do infinite soup salad and breadsticks. They'd go out of business. I don't think they know. I don't think stuff to try and stay in the conversation like i'd like to see panera bread try to do infinite soup salad and breadsticks they'd go out of business i don't think they know i don't think they can do that they charge you for all that shit there but olive garden when you're here you are family um this segment has made me want to eat a big blackened steak at the applebee's i don't think there is one actually close to us, sadly. No, I don't think so.
Starting point is 00:33:27 You know what has me thinking about is milkshakes. Oh, yeah. For whatever reason, at casual dining restaurants, they almost always have milkshakes. Sure do. And I could not finish one these days. It would destroy my body. Yeah. And I would feel terrible.
Starting point is 00:33:41 But I like them. I had a milkshake. This is a complete non sequitur at the Alamo Draft House pretty soon after I moved to Austin and it was a I mean they do them right there they do them yeah big and thick yeah you can turn that cup upside down it probably make a big mess but you know what I'm saying. That wrecked me so completely that it changed my life. That I was like, I can't. I don't think I've had a milkshake since because I'm like, I can't keep doing this.
Starting point is 00:34:14 Yeah. Well, I mean, you are most likely lactose intolerant. Yeah, I think so. I think so. We did our pizza party stream yesterday and I did not feel so good after that. I have noticed since I have made a return to dairy that I generally do not feel well after consuming lots of dairy. No, there's an object lesson in there somewhere. But I'm too dang distracted by the MaxFunDrive and your birthday.
Starting point is 00:34:40 And my birthday. And your birthday to talk about it. This is our last pitch for you for the year maximumfund.org slash join is the link that you can go to
Starting point is 00:34:50 you can choose the level that works for you at just five bucks a month so much bonus content for every show on the network
Starting point is 00:34:57 throughout the fullness of time you want to listen to us interview Bachelorette Canada Jasmine Lorimer on the Rose Buddies podcast? That BoCo's still up.
Starting point is 00:35:08 Rose Buddies ain't around no more, but the BoCo still is if you want to go and dive into that. There's so much really, really fun stuff for you to go listen to. But again, I am a supporter of the MaxFun. Yeah, me too, which is so unnecessary because we live in the same house. But I like, it is an honor to be a part of this network. When I got an email from Jesse in like February, 2011 while I was checking out at the Trader Joe's in Chicago, I was like, hey, we have some listeners
Starting point is 00:35:42 of ours who suggested your show and we listened to it and think it would be a really great fit for the network. That was full blown, like life changing. Yeah. Like like life event for us. And that I mean, that year kicked ass. That was the year I moved to Austin and met Rachel. And we did our first live show in Chicago with Jordan and Jesse.
Starting point is 00:36:11 And that was an incredibly happy and exciting year. And I genuinely do, around the Max Fund Drive every year, feel that same sort of joy and excitement that this is our lives and this is our career and that we've gotten to be a part of this thing that we all love so much. Yeah. And I want to say particularly about this show, Griffin is somebody now that creates a lot of content. But I would say like this show is like the most personal, vulnerable thing that you make. Would you say that's true? I would say now that I don't do Griffin's Amiibo Corner anymore, I would agree with that. Now that I don't do Griffin's Amiibo Corner anymore, I would agree with that.
Starting point is 00:36:50 I think each week when we sit down and we talk about things that we like, you know, there is, I think, inherently a risk of coming across as like silly, you know? But I never feel that way because of the community MaxFun has given us and the support of the audience and- Just the best. And the opportunity to talk to my person that i like so much i like you too yeah maximumfund.org join is is the link please please think about going there if you like us and you have the means if you like us if you like us please like us please please like us we have a bunch of stuff over at our youtube channel at the macroy
Starting point is 00:37:20 family we've been doing streams basically every day and have done a lot of fun stuff like the pizza party stream mentioned earlier we've been me and basically every day and have done a lot of fun stuff like the pizza party stream mentioned earlier. Me and Justin, Travis, and Dad have been playing a weird sort of competitive version of Stardew Valley that I didn't know existed. That's over there too. Yeah, and Griffin and I played Stardew Valley. Rachel and I also did some streaming. I finally got to see her farm. It's a thing of beauty.
Starting point is 00:37:40 Thank you to Bowen and Augustus for these for our theme song, Money Won't Pay. You can find a link to that in the episode description. All of our merch stuff is over at MacRoryMerch.com. I'm trying to wrap up quick because I know you have a meeting in like one minute. Um, but yeah, you know what? Let's call it. That's it. Thank you all so much for, for listening.
Starting point is 00:37:58 We'll be back next week with another sort of straight down the, straight over the plate, non-MaxFunDrive episode. So you're going to listen to that and feel like, ah, dang it. Why didn't I donate during the actual max fund drive episode? Don't let that be you. This is you from the future calling you on this haunted telephone to say
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