Young and Profiting with Hala Taha - Interview: Career Advice with Hala [ A Few Things Podcast]
Episode Date: October 23, 2020Today on the show we’re replaying a session from earlier this summer that I did for the Rutgers University’s Global Entrepreneurship Experience Teen Camp and college students. I had the pleasure o...f being interviewed by James Barrood, who’s a business and ecosystem advisor, global speaker and host of “A Few Things Podcast.” Jim has a passion for building and strengthening startup and innovation ecosystems. In the interview, we discuss insights from my side hustle and entrepreneurial journey, career advice and more! Links: Follow Hala on Instagram: www.instagram.com/yapwithhala Reach out to Hala directly at Hala@YoungandProfiting.com Follow Hala on Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Follow YAP on IG: www.instagram.com/youngandprofiting Check out our website to meet the team, view show notes and transcripts: www.youngandprofiting.com A Few Things Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/21-hala-taha-host-young-and-profiting-podcast-influencer/id1526155088?i=1000491591974 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Today on the show we're replaying a session from earlier this summer that I did for the
Rutgers University Global Entrepreneurship Experience Team Camp and College students.
I had the pleasure of being interviewed by James Barude, who's a business and ecosystem
advisor, global speaker, and host of a few things podcast.
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In the interview, we discuss insights from my side hustle and entrepreneurial journey,
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Talk to us about your story.
Sure. So, current, I'll start from the current. Currently, I have a number one how-to podcast.
It's called Young and Profiting. And we help people grow financially and professionally by
investigating a new topic each week.
I've had huge guests on the show, like billionaires, CEOs, best selling authors, and we cover topics
like how to gain influence, the art of entrepreneurship, how to start a side hustle, and things like that.
I also work at Disney Streaming Services. I work in Marketing. I've been, I've had a corporate
marketing career for almost eight years now, and I help run their email marketing at Disney streaming services.
So that's what I do for my day job, and I also just launched a new marketing agency. So very busy.
And in terms of my background, I started my career in radio. So I used to work at Hot 97. It's a number one
radio station. After that, I started a blog site. At the height of it, I had 50 bloggers under me. We were called the sorority of hip-hop.
We almost had a show on MTV and that was really cool if you wanted to dig into that later we can and
After that, I got my MBA and I had a job at Hewlett Packard and then I got the itch about four years in.
I thought I was never going to get back on a mic again.
I thought my radio career was over.
I had a lot of online radio shows all throughout hot 97 and then also when I had my website.
I thought my radio career was over, my broadcasting career was over, but I got the itch and I started
a young and profiting podcast.
And so that was like two years ago and the rest of history.
So that's me and Annette Shell in terms of my career journey.
That's great.
Well, let's dive into that, that MTV story.
That seems super fascinating.
And I think I know for a lot of people who grew up with MTV, that, you know, that would
be great.
And it's so great to have a show.
Yeah.
So this was back right when Jersey Shore ended.
So this is when MTV was huge, right?
And now MTV, I feel like, doesn't have as much power as they did.
But back then, it was like, to get a show on MTV
was like the biggest thing ever.
And so we actually got scouted by them twice.
When I first started my website, I was
I was in college, my senior year of college. I had dropped out of college temporarily only when
I worked out hot 97 to explore that path like wholeheartedly, right? When I left hot 97, I went back
to college to finish my senior year. And at that time, I launched my website.
Within three months, we were the 30,000th most popular website
in the world.
We were one of the biggest hip hop websites
and entertainment websites out there.
And so right away, we made a lot of noise.
I figured out this thing on Twitter
where every time we had a blog post, 50 girls would tweet
that blog post, and we would at mention a celebrity.
And so that celebrity would retweet us and
Nobody else was doing this. We were like the first ones to do it and
All the blogs followed suit later, but nobody was doing it at first
And so we got a lot of attention because Drake would retweet us, you know
He had 50 girls tweeting his song. He would retweet it and then we got really big really fast
So three months in and TV scouted us. They did like a small pilot. We didn't get the show, but we didn't care because we were like, you know what, it's three
months in and we already got scouted by MTV. We already almost got a TV show. You know,
what could happen next? At the same time, I don't know if anybody on the line is familiar
with Love and Hip Hop. Mona Scott is the producer of Love and Hip Hop. That's how Cardi B got
her starred in all these huge stars. She was begging me to come on the show
and I actually had rejected her for MTV,
which was looking back.
I think it was a blessing to disguise,
but at the moment, I was like,
I could have been on Love and Hip-Hop,
and I didn't take it, but that's how life goes, right?
So anyway, two years into it, we hustled so much,
we had online radio shows, we hosted concerts,
we hosted events.
That's really how we made our money. We had thousands of blogs that by hosted concerts, we hosted events. That's really how we made our money.
We had thousands of blogs that by this time we worked really hard.
I had 50 girls under me and we got another MTV reach out again.
Hey, we really want to do it this time.
You're really going to get a show this time.
They signed paperwork.
I was the lead.
I was getting paid.
They shot us for an entire summer.
They got us a studio on Broadway.
So think of the real world where they would like,
deck out a studio and put neon signs and all that.
We got our makeup done every day.
They followed me to the restaurants
and walking in New York on the street.
They came to my parents' house to film us.
And so really, we thought we were celebrities.
We were like, we made it, we did it.
Like, we got a show on MTV.
We're gonna be the new Jersey Shore.
Everything is great. And then we didn't be the new Jersey Shore, everything is great.
And then we didn't get the show.
They, they, after all that filming,
I remember my producer called me up
and she, she let me down
and I remember crying hysterically like somebody died
because I was just, I thought I was like banking on all of this
and then I ended up actually shutting down the website after that
and getting my MBA and kind of,
that was like a point in my life
where I thought like, I can't do this entertainment industry
anymore, I worked so hard, I did everything that I could
and then like, I was finally gonna get my big break
and it didn't happen and so I decided I was gonna shut
everything down, get more education
and just be like a regular corporate worker
and that's what I thought my life was gonna be forever.
So that's that story.
That's really interesting. So everyone is fascinating with celebrities, right? I mean,
they're all over social media. And then there's, I'm sure you have a number of stories, but is there
anything that you can share with us about celebrities in general or experiences you had? And
this is entertainment area where people should, you know, it's very sexy and attractive. Do people want to go into that sort of industry or is it
more like than it's worth it? Well, I think there's a lot of people out there that you think
celebrities are rich and this and that. There's a lot of smoke in mirrors in that industry, especially
in the hip-hop industry, there's definitely rappers out there
who are wearing fake jewelry and say they're really rich,
but then they're actually really broke
and live in a crappy apartment
and kind of it's all just fake.
In terms of like getting into entertainment,
I wouldn't discourage anyone from it.
I would say that it's a really tough industry
to break into, you're like,
gonna have to work at it for a long time.
You need to have super hard work ethic.
You're not gonna make it to the top.
It's so competitive.
So it's like, you're not gonna make it
unless you're willing to kind of risk it all
and go day in and day out in order to be a singer
or like whatever you're trying to be
in terms of entertainment.
It's really hard.
But I wouldn't discourage anybody from it
because anything is possible.
I believe that life is limitless.
So I would say anything is possible.
Yeah, I have funny stories about celebrities.
I used to work at Hanin Y7 and I used to be in the studio area
and I would meet literally every celebrity.
So I've met Jay-Z, I've met Kanye West,
I've met Kim Kardashian, I've met J-Lo,
I've Beyonce, I've literally met every single celebrity.
Do they remember me probably not?
But I have met them and I have funny stories, you know, but-
That's really interesting.
So tell me, I think I read in one of your somewhere about used to sing and songwriting,
is that right?
I did, yeah. So I actually first took that internship at Haunt
in E7 because I was a singer and I, you know, I was in college and my dream was always to
be a singer. When I was in high school, I used to always have like a solo at every concert
and like that was something I was always really naturally good at. And so I was exploring
that and I did songwriting and I have a whole album with my boyfriend,
still my boyfriend, his name is Harry Fraud.
And he's actually a famous music producer back then, but when we were doing my album,
he was a nobody. And so, I love to songwriting. I'm so creative, I love to sing.
But at the end of the day, I knew that I
didn't have the drive nor the talent to be a Beyonce. And so I quickly realized that if
I wanted to be super successful, I probably should pivot into something else that I also
enjoy like radio and being an online personality. That's maybe not as so demanding in terms
of being a singer and, you know, being a singer is also like having to be the best dancer
as well.
I'm a great dancer, but I don't think I'm
like Beyonce level dancer.
And you kind of need both, I feel like to make it.
So I kind of like let those dreams go.
And it's OK to let dreams go and kind of evolve.
I think that in general, I wanted to use my voice for good.
And I still get to do that.
That's great.
And there's a lot of young people on this call from around the world.
And I know a lot of them aren't the performing arts. So a lot of them have interest.
And they may not use it in their first job or second job. But maybe ultimately,
though, sort of, there'll be some interaction, you know, in industry. So I think it's
something here in your story about, you know, you didn't take the typical path, especially compared to other people as you mentioned in your family.
Yes, completely. And one thing I'll just add to that, I interviewed Cassie Heller on my podcast
and she's a huge songwriter. And one thing to think about when you're thinking about the
entertainment industry, the typical path people think about is like, oh, I'm going to be like, for
example, we're talking about a singer, I'm going to be a singer. She started as a
singer and then she decided she was going to pivot and be a songwriter and license her music.
And she became super successful, you know, just licensing her music to movies and things like
that. And that's what she built her whole career out of. And it's like, so you can think about
something that you love to do and then think about like, what does it take to like what are the other areas in which I could dabble in this like, you know, certain path that isn't necessarily the obvious choice.
Yeah.
Good. So, and there could be a side hustle, right? I mean, so that's really what is so fascinating is that you are a successful executive
yet you're doing a side hustle
and it's really popular
and it's really special what you've created.
So talk about that, that these days,
side hustles are sort of very attractive
and it's okay.
And how did you stumble upon that side?
Yeah.
So, I think that nowadays, it's really important to have multiple income streams.
It's super important.
I think having only a full-time job or like being employed is actually more risky than having
multiple sources of income.
I think that nowadays, lots of people have multiple jobs. And having
a side hustle is more normalized than ever. In the past, it used to be called like moon
lighting and people used to kind of frown upon it. But I think more and more corporations
are starting to realize that their employees are going to have other jobs outside of their
normal nine to five. And for me, how it started is, like I said, I was working at Ulyt Packard.
I had gotten my MBA.
I started there with an MBA internship.
I worked my way up.
I got promoted like four times in four years.
And everything was going great.
And my family was really happy because they, like, you know, to them, I was a black sheep.
You mentioned that I have a successful family.
All of my siblings are doctors, right?
And it was actually very difficult for me
when I was younger working in the radio
and having my own website.
Like nobody understood what I did.
They didn't understand, even though I was learning so much
and I was becoming an expert in terms of digital marketing,
they didn't really understand, like they wanted me
to be a doctor or a lawyer or an engineer.
And they didn't really understand
that like new world of digital marketing.
It was, it was, you know, it was new to them. And so for me, I went into Corbett kind of trying
to satisfy everybody else, right, that I would get a stable job. I would, and I worked my way up,
and I had this amazing career, and I was making like a lot of money, and everything seemed great.
But I felt like I was unfulfilled. I felt like, you know, I miss being on the mic. I miss interviewing people. I want to help people.
I want to have my own personal brand. I used to be very popular on Twitter and like I
had nothing anymore. My boyfriend was a music producer who was really famous and here I
was working or I felt like I was like the normal one and he was like the famous one and that
was weird. And so like I just wanted to like have a personal brand and that was weird. And so I just wanted to have a personal brand
and have a voice.
And so I decided that I was gonna start
Young and Profiting Podcast.
And at first, I had a lot of pushback.
All of my loved ones, even my boyfriend,
they were like, what are you doing?
You're risking your career.
You did all of this work.
You got a four-point one in your MBA.
You worked so hard.
You came from being an entrepreneur and now you have some stable career.
What are you doing? You're gonna lose it all. And I was confident and I said no, like I believe in myself.
I think that I can do both, which I am. I believe that I could create a platform that can help me become an entrepreneur one day, which is happening.
And, you know, I just decided to go for it. And I think that when
you start a side hustle, it's great because it's, you have everything in terms of being able
to explore entrepreneurship while having stability. And you get to do it slowly. So it's like,
you started off on the side quietly and you kind of just build something up. And now I'm getting
to the point where if I wanted to stop working at Disney, I could, you know, I'm just choosing
to do both. I can handle both right now. But if I wanted to, working at Disney, I could. I'm just choosing to do both.
I can handle both right now.
But if I wanted to, I could now sustain myself.
And there's zero risk because I've already built that, I've already built up the podcast
and my business around it, whereas now I can roll off Disney if I wanted to.
So it's like definitely a path to entrepreneurship in terms of starting a side hustle.
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sort of advising just do it. Just get out there and do it. It's the best time.
It's the best time. It is. And so what would you say,
I know I was set telling my nephew, you know, take this time and just just drill down. You can't go
out to any bars right now anyway. So just focus, right? Exactly. So I always say this, you have,
everybody has the same amount of hours in the week, like whether you're Elon Musk, whether you're Jeff Bezos, we all have the same hours in the week. And like, I think it's
164 hours in the week. And so if you work eight hours a day and sleep eight hours a day, you still
have like 60 hours to do whatever you want. Sure, yeah, you might have a commute, which now you don't,
so that's not an excuse. But in general, you have like all this time and people don't utilize their time effectively.
I don't watch any TV, none.
Like I don't even open up the TV.
I came to visit my mom for a couple of weeks in New Jersey.
I literally have not touched the TV one time.
It's been two weeks.
How many people can say that, right?
Probably not a lot of people.
And that's because I use my time effectively.
I don't waste my time.
I still do stuff I love.
I still work out.
I still walk my dogs.
I still, you know, see my friends, but I don't waste my time like scrolling
on social media and they'll say, I don't do that.
You know, I don't, I don't watch TV and do mindless things.
Everything that I do is productive, either for work for my podcast, for my brand.
And because I love doing it, it's fun.
So it's like working on my podcast is actually fun.
And when you love doing what you do,
things are effortless and you'll have a great time doing it.
So it's like a win-win, I think.
That's great.
Well, but speaking about social media,
you are one of the top influencers.
And so, even though you're not on all the time,
scrolling all the time,
scrolling all the time, you are very effective in leveraging it.
So can you, some general, I'm sure we'll
get some questions about it, but give some general guide
insight what people in general should be thinking about
as they sort of get on board.
Yeah, so I'm like a really big influencer on LinkedIn,
that's my main platform right now.
And I think it's a great platform that's underutilized, especially from younger folks.
They tend to think it's like just a job site B2B, but it's not.
There's lots of people on LinkedIn, and especially if you have a valuable message,
they're there to hear you.
So the first thing that I would do is actually focus on your community.
A lot of times people focus on
the content, but I would say you want to grow a really engaged community. And the way that you do
that is you try to find people who may be interested in the things that you're going to talk about.
So I would say first you want to know what you're going to talk about. Like what is your value statement?
For me, I like to show people that life is limitless.
And I do this by interviewing the brightest minds in the world.
And so that's my purpose.
And almost all my posts have to do
with helping people become an entrepreneur
or elevating themselves in their lives,
becoming better people in general.
And so that's what I'm proposing.
So what I did is I looked for other
people like Gary Vee and Tony Robbins and Grant Cardone and other self-improvement people in my
space. And I saw who is the liking and commenting on their posts. That's my audience. That's the people
that I want to capture, right? So it's the people that are actually engaging on that content. So I
invited them to connect. Hey, what's up? It's my name's Hala. I have a podcast. I noticed you liked Gary Vee's content.
You may like mine too. Let's connect. Nine out of 10 people accepted that invitation.
And then I started to grow a very engaged community, people who were already active on LinkedIn,
who already liked self-improvement stuff. And then when I posted, I was more likely
to get likes and comments, and then there
was like a circle effect where more people would see my posts because so many of people in my network
were commenting on my posts, so it boosted it in the algorithm. So that's kind of my biggest
strategy. So you could do this in so many other ways. You can, like, let's say you are in real estate.
You can go find other people who have real estate in their title on LinkedIn
and invite them to connect. So now you have a network of real estate agents so that when you're
talking about real estate agent stuff, they'll be interested in liking comments. So I would say growing
your community is really key. Sometimes people just ask random people to connect. You don't know if
they log on, you don't know if they like your stuff, and that's not targeted enough. So you need to like grow a targeted network.
Great, great.
Any other other platforms?
There's a folks on this.
Yeah.
Well, that goes for any platform.
So, so you could do this on Instagram.
It's the same thing.
Whoever likes and comments on the post, you could do this on any single platform.
You could also just look at people's followers.
So if they follow, follow somebody that you're interested in,
you can follow those people and kind of grow that community that way.
In terms of posting, I didn't really give any advice in terms of actually the content that you should post,
you should always think about what's in it for the person who's reading that content.
It should never be just self-promotional.
You should always have something
where the person left learning something new.
And that doesn't mean that you have to have original content
in terms of doing your own research.
It means that you pull from different sources
and you make something your own, right?
So one of the ways that I think
about the social media content that I'm going to do
is I have an idea.
Let's say I want to talk about persistence or something like that.
I'll go and look online for different quotes about persistence, I'll read a blog about persistence,
I'll just get ideas, you know, anything about persistence, all the different ideas in the
world.
And then I think about it for a second, and then I make up my own post about persistence,
right?
And that's what creativity is. It's taking things from other people and putting it for a second, and then I make up my own post about persistence. And that's what creativity is.
It's taking things from other people
and putting it in a unique package.
Everything in the world has already been thought of.
Being creative is taking those things
and putting it together in a new way.
And people will appreciate that
because it's something new that you brought to them
in a different way, and they'll engage on it.
And so I think that that's really key.
I think another thing in terms of posting
is to get your copywriting skills better.
Like a lot of people don't really
know how to write in an engaging way.
They write very passively.
They write in big chunky paragraphs
where on social media people like line by line,
they don't like to read a lot,
they don't have like a hook, so you want to make sure that like your first sentence is
really powerful and triggers emotion. So like there's a lot of things like that. And then
the last thing I'll say is that you want to stand out. So there's so much competition
on social media. One of the things that I did for my podcast, if you guys check me out on
LinkedIn or Instagram, my stuff is really bright, right?
I have like neon colors and bright big patterns.
I use animations.
I use a lot of selfie videos and that helps me stand out
in the feed, whereas everybody else has muted colors
and things like that.
And so your goal on social media is to stand out.
That's the goal.
So you also want to keep that in mind as well.
Well, that's great advice. And I love how you mentioned that there are really no new ideas.
It's just a combination of old ideas and new formats. So people get stuck on, I'm not creative or
you know, I can't develop something new, but the reality is everyone can be creative. They just
have to work at it. Exactly. That's really important.
So what about, there's so many social media platforms.
So people are thinking about TikTok.
They're thinking about Reels, whatever, and others.
Yeah.
Anything that you see down the road that folks should be thinking.
Yeah.
Well, I think TikTok is huge.
I think it's already reached, you know, critical mass,
but I still think that there's still time
to get on TikTok and kind of create your brand.
And then I would say YouTube.
YouTube is huge.
YouTube is more, almost more popular than Facebook, I think.
People spend a lot of time on YouTube.
I feel like there's a lot of potential in terms
of starting a show on YouTube
and really kind of blowing up that way
and getting credibility.
You can also monitor after like 10,000 subscribers,
you can monetize your show fairly well.
It's like a clear path to monetization,
whereas other social channels,
even if you have a bunch of followers,
it doesn't mean that you're making any money, right?
With YouTube, it's almost guaranteed
if you make 10,000 subscribers,
like you'll start monetizing your show.
So I would definitely suggest YouTube,
and that's where I'm focusing on next.
And I just posted today, apparently Facebook has
something called Watch, which has 1.2 billion viewers.
Or use it.
Oh, wow.
Like, it came out of nowhere.
So there's things popping up all the time, right?
And I think it's just people have to make a plan.
Yeah. And test and, you know, try things out. So there's things popping up all the time, right? And I think it's just people have to make a plan.
Yeah.
And test and try things out.
There's like no, there's no, there's no, you know,
downside except you spend.
Totally.
Right?
Exactly.
And I think being an early adopter,
you have such an advantage.
Just being an early adopter, there's
so many more chances for you to actually get those impressions,
get those eyeballs. That's why Instagram is so hard now because it's just so saturated, there's so many more chances for you to actually get those impressions, get those eyeballs.
That's why Instagram is so hard now because it's just so saturated.
It's so hard.
You need paid advertising in order to get big on that platform.
Whereas platforms like LinkedIn are still growing.
You don't need paid investment in order to make a brand on there.
Before I forget, on LinkedIn, people always ask how often should you post?
Yeah.
Guidance there.
Yeah, so I would suggest that you post just once a day.
You could even post as little as three to four times a week.
It's not like Twitter where you're
going to post 10 times a day or even Instagram
where you might post two times a day.
It's really just like three, four times a week,
really substantial, valuable posts.
And the time that you post is really important.
So you'd have to experiment in terms of your community and when they log on.
But like for me, like 9 a.m. works great.
And that's when I tend to post my stuff up because it gets the best engagement.
Interesting.
And what about general advice for young people?
Obviously, you have a of a really fascinating career.
But in these days, as you know,
kids are going to have multiple careers.
Yeah.
Anything you can sort of, you know,
a lot more fun.
Yeah, I would say that the biggest takeaway
for my career is that don't let rejection stop you, right?
I've gotten rejected so many times in my life.
I worked for free at Hot and 87 Radio Station
for three years, and I was fired in the end of it
after working for free.
I'm fine with the whole, like everything is fine,
but I ended up getting fired and I was devastated.
And then, you know, I started this blog site
and I almost got a show on MTV and they didn't pick me, right?
Then I like, you know, there's other stories of me failing. Like, for example, I was president of the young employee network at HP
and then when I was, it was time for me to be president of the global network, they rejected me as well.
And I didn't get it, even though I deserved it. And so there's so many times in my life where I failed and I got rejected and I failed and I got rejected and
You have to understand that when you get rejected. It's the gatekeeper in life It's the gatekeeper like the boss who didn't give you the job or the producer who didn't give me the show
You know what it is or the HR person who didn't promote me to president of the young employee network
It's a gatekeeper at that point you need to take that negative energy and turn it into something positive,
learn something new, and pivot your story, and create your own path.
So for me, when I left hot in 97, and they didn't give me a job,
I channeled that positive energy within two weeks.
Started the story of hip hop became one of the most popular hip hop entertainment sites in the world.
The DJs who didn't hire me, then hired hire me, then hire me to work at the station,
would then hire me to promote their parties.
And I was on the flyers with them side by side
instead of being their little intern.
And so I elevated myself by starting my own path.
And so when I didn't get the show on MTV,
I went and got an MBA, I got a 4.0,
I channeled my energy into education. And I was like, I'm just gonna do this, I got a 4.0, I channeled my energy into education and
I was like, I'm just going to do this and I'm going to give it my 100%.
I ended up making like four times as much as I was making previous to that in my first
job, you know, and I elevated my life.
When I didn't get young employee network presidency, I started a young and profiting
podcast and instead of, you know, representing 7,000 people at my company, I started representing 700,000 people on my podcast
and being able to have a voice to that many people.
So it's all about channeling any rejection
or negative energy into something positive,
learning something new, creating your own path,
and understanding that if you can believe it,
you can achieve it.
And as long as you're passionate and you take action if you can believe it, you can achieve it. And like as long as you're passionate
and you take action, anything can happen.
And so that's what I would like to say to people is that
just because you fail doesn't mean that you're a failure,
your failures are your stepping stones to success.
And when you fail, you don't start from scratch,
you start from experience.
And that's the key.
That is great guidance.
Sorry, let's get to questions.
So I think you gave some advice to students,
but this question is about those that are looking
to enter the job market today.
What advice do you get new graduates in general?
I would advise you to start your LinkedIn profile,
to start your personal brand.
All the amazing jobs that I've ever gotten
have been where I've been recruited off of LinkedIn.
Like for instance, Disney streaming services recruited me
because I had a personal brand on LinkedIn.
And so I would say start your personal brand.
The other thing that I would say is don't be afraid
of internships.
Even if it means that you're working for free,
a lot of internships are paid now,
but it doesn't matter. The key is getting experience and skills. That's what you want to focus on when
you're young. The money will come. You have to trust that the money is going to come. It's more
about gaining skills and experiences because that's what's going to get you hired. It doesn't
really matter how much schoolwork you've done. If you don't have that real world experience,
really matter how much schoolwork you've done. If you don't have that real world world experience, you're not going to get hired as easily. And not to mention that getting
an internship helps you grow your network with people in your industry.
Great. Alright, so here's a question about, this is from a college student, they know that how you
started a website when you were pretty on. So it's easy to start things for students,
that this person says,
what would your number one piece of advice be
for a college student in the same position
that you were in with an interest
in starting something of their own?
So I guess the question is,
if someone's gonna start something today,
what would you recommend in general?
I mean, clearly websites, one thing, podcasts,
is there one sort of area which has the most sort of...
Oh, you're saying like, if somebody wants to start some sort of a show or some sort of a platform, I would say it has to be what you're passionate about. Like I can't tell you that you should start
a podcast or you should start a website. It's really like what are you passionate about? What are
you good at? What are you interested in learning? Now everything is on Google. You can, I learned how to build websites by Googling it.
I learned how to be a podcaster by Googling it, right?
And so if you're willing to spend the time
to learn those skills, that's a hint
that you're really passionate about it.
And as long as you're passionate about it, just do it.
That's great.
Here's a long question, but I'm going to distill it down.
There weren't about political speech on platforms. That's great. Here's a long question, but I'm going to distill it down.
There weren't about political speech on platforms.
What's your perspective on, you know, I guess the perspective advice is for people who are
listening in and viewing us, should they get political on platforms?
I would say no, but I'm just curious to see, you know, what's your perspective on that?
Yeah, this one's tricky because I do think that, you know,
when you get political,
you automatically segment your audience, right?
I've seen a lot of people
who are building their personal brand
who went against certain things
that were happening lately.
And a lot of their followers stopped following them
and they're, and everything kind of like went down the tank
because they were very vocal about their opinions that was an unpopular opinion, right? And so when you're when you have an
unpopular opinion, you you were at the risk of offending a lot of people and kind of shooting
yourself in the foot in terms of the audience that you're going to be speaking to. And so I think
that there's a fine line because there's always the premise of being morally correct, you know, and you always want to do the right thing.
So if you feel in your heart that it is your moral duty to post about something and raise awareness about it that you feel very strongly about, then yeah, you should say it.
If you really feel that your voice will impact something and change society in a way that you really feel. So for example, I was supportive of Black Lives Matter and I was vocal about it and
I posted that on LinkedIn and I supported it. But I didn't go to the extreme, you know,
like there's always the extremes. I didn't go to the very extreme where I'd be very offensive
to anybody. I was just, you know, trying to make sure that I did the morally right thing in my opinion to do,
which was to speak about it and use my influence in that way.
So it's really a balance.
And I would say that you've got to be careful when you're talking about politics.
And if you don't really care, you should probably not say anything.
If it's not that important to you.
But when it is important to you, you should speak your mind, in my opinion.
Great, great.
So let's see.
There's a bunch of questions here.
Connecting with celebrities, did you interact with them differently at all?
That's a sort of interesting question.
Did I interact with?
No, I mean, it was at the station,
I was really young and I did interact with them all the time.
I used to go out with them and we used to go to parties
and Jay-Z put his arm around me before
and I have a lot of stories,
but yeah, I interacted with them.
I was in that industry, in that scene
and a lot of the celebrities would come to Hot and A7
pretty often.
And so they knew me that I would be there
and some of them became my friends.
That's awesome.
That's awesome.
So here's a LinkedIn question.
Or social media, which format gets better engagement?
Short form or long form content?
It depends what platform.
On LinkedIn, I would say that both do well.
LinkedIn short text posts actually get a lot of attention because most things are long. And so,
again, you want to stand out. It really depends on the platform, like Instagram stories do the best
and like regular images do better than videos. It just, it depends on the platform.
But if we're talking about LinkedIn,
which I'm really the expert in,
I would say that just text posts and text with images
do the best.
Videos do the worst in my opinion.
Interesting.
Okay.
Here's three who says great energy and tips.
Thanks, Ha, okay.
My question is for people who are in a certain professional
track with a specific, specifically strong skill set
in finance, what tips would you have for
then to use social media to build their brand?
Yeah, well, you basically said it in your answer.
You provide, you can provide financial value, right? You can provide advice in terms of finance.
So maybe you want to find a specific niche in finance to talk about.
But like I said, to grow your personal brand,
you need to find other folks who may be interested in finance.
So that's step number one.
And then you need to figure out what your niche is in finance
because that's a broad topic.
So what makes you different?
Why would people want to go to your feed and trust you?
And then also how do you build credibility? So what your niche is in finance, because that's a broad topic. So what makes you different? Why would people want to go to your feed and trust you?
And then also, how do you build credibility?
So if you're brand new in the field, it might not be time to really launch your personal
brand.
Maybe your goal is to actually gain more experience and credibility first, whatever that may
be, whether that's getting a job, whether that's writing a book or whatever, or creating
videos, whatever it may be,
but getting some more credibility before you actually launch your personal brand, I think is key
to because a lot of people, you know, they don't end up being successful because they don't really
have credibility around them in terms of what they're saying. Great. Here's a question, not
much, or you can answer a vote, I want to mention it. And we're still getting more questions. So feel free to submit them.
This is a question about Robert Eiger.
They're asking the Red Is the Memoir on Leadership and Success.
And what can you share about the experience
working under him?
Yeah, I never read the memoir.
I work at Disney Streaming Services.
So we're just like one arm.
We're like the startup within Disney.
And so I feel like we're like not
disnified at all.
And so I have never read his book.
And nobody ever talks about Bob Eiger.
We actually have a completely different CEO.
But in terms of working at Disney, it's great.
I mean, I work with super smart people.
I've learned so much.
I feel like at streaming services specifically,
I'm on like the cutting edge of technology
in terms of targeting and retaining subscribers
and all the different things in terms of mobile messaging
and all of that.
And so I've learned so much.
I used to be at HP and it was kind of like a dinosaur
of a company.
It was a great company in terms of its culture,
but in terms of marketing,
I kind of was like an outdated marketer by the time I left there because it was a great company in terms of its culture, but in terms of marketing, I kind of was like an outdated marketer
by the time I left there because it was like, we always did
the same stuff.
Then I got thrown into Disney and it was like a whole new world
literally.
And I learned so much, so I loved the experience.
Well, I have to have a system.
Mulan is coming out tomorrow.
Yeah, oh my God.
Is everybody working like crazy? I always couldn't, I always couldn't
do this show because there was like, Milan fires everywhere. But yeah, everybody's going crazy to
get ready for Milan. That's gonna be amazing. All right, so here's a question. How do you socialize
and engage with family and friends while remaining productive or super productiveproductive as you are.
Yeah, one thing that helps is that my partner,
who's been my long-term partner,
is also really motivated.
And so I chose somebody who also has really big ambitions
so that sometimes we'll be working next to each other,
but it will be fun because we're together
and even though we're both working.
So that's one way to find somebody that has common interests in terms of like who your spouse is.
Secondly, I have best friends and that's really who I spend my time with and like my cousins and my
siblings. I don't have like many acquaintances that I spend my time with. If I am gonna talk to
any acquaintances, I do something like this where I have a platform
and I get to talk to you 300 people at the same time
and not just like a one-on-one thing.
So I try to spend my time strategically
so I'm being smart about my time.
So I would say that I don't really waste my time
with many different friends.
I just have like my core friends
and then I make time for them.
Like I said, there's a lot of time in your life,
you know, saying you have no time is just an excuse and you'll be able to, like, and then I make time for them. Like I said, there's a lot of time in your life.
Saying you have no time is just an excuse.
And you'll be able to, like if you start to track your time
and think about how you spend your time,
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So, here's a question about the switch professions from radio to industry.
How did you handle that?
That's a pretty big shift.
How did you handle it?
And what was the biggest surprise for you? That's a pretty big shift. How did you handle it? And what was the biggest sort of surprise for you?
That's a great question. One thing that I would say is I was actually really successful in my corporate career right out the gate because my experiences were so unique.
And so like I said, my family was worried because when I got my MBA, I was like 27.
My family was worried because when I got my MBA, I was like 27. I was like on the older, like they thought that I was on the older side or whatever.
And in terms of like starting my corporate career, most people start their corporate career
when they're 22, right?
And I was starting at 27, but I had all these experiences.
I was in radio, I started a blog, I had digital marketing, whatever, right?
And so I ended up pivoting into my corporate career from my MBA.
I got an MBA internship.
But right away, I stood out at that company because I had amazing networking skills, right?
I started the young employee network and immediately got the attention of the CEO and the CMO and was asking them for budgets to start company picnics and holiday parties and
stood out that way because I was just like an entrepreneur within the company,
right?
And so I just grew this network and became like the face of the young employees because
I had these unique experiences.
It actually wasn't a deterrent to my success.
And within four years, I had like surpassed my peers who might have started when they were
22.
Because I had more experience.
I knew how to video edit and create websites and do this
and do that and where other people were stagnant
and only learned what their company provided them
or I had the whole internet to learn from.
And so I learned from the entire internet
instead of just the in-house knowledge of the company
where so I was further ahead than everybody else
in terms of my skills.
And that's what I said when I went to Disney.
Now everybody, I was like, because I stayed at that company
for so long, I lost that time to just learn and learn
and learn all the new cutting edge stuff.
And then I felt at Disney that I had to catch up again
because I was in this corporate job that was kind of outdated
in terms of their marketing, where I was the most technical
person instead of learning.
So I would say, I don't know if I answered the question,
but I think that was a great answer.
So here's a question.
Elon Musk has a quote that says,
starting your businesses like eating glass
and staring into the events.
I feel like this applies to any endeavor.
I'm currently trying to learn a new skill
to become employable and have a deadline and goal
in the date.
However, it is still nerve-wracking.
How do you stay positive during these periods
when there's so much uncertainty
and whether you'll achieve your goal?
I would say just keep channeling your energy
into learning something.
That's the key.
Just keep learning.
Instead of driving yourself crazy with worry,
am I gonna get a job and am I gonna do this?
Just keep doing positive things,
like learning something new, meeting new people online,
networking, just keep doing things
that are gonna help you no matter what,
get closer to your goal.
And don't forget about like,
worry too much about the outcomes, just be in the moment and just try to learn as much as you can.
That's great.
So one about when this COVID thing is over
and we get to meet people in real life, right?
So right now what I've been recommending
is people to build their network, strengthen those ties,
but when we can meet in person and go to conferences
and go to the activities, is there any strut
things that you're thinking about, particularly that you can
relate to people who are listening in?
Yeah, I mean, I think going to a networking event,
especially when you're young and you haven't done it so often,
it can be really hard because you don't really know
what to expect.
You might be nervous to go up to people to have conversations.
One of the things that you can do is look at body language.
So I interview like XFBI agents on my show and like really cool experts on body language.
And Dr. Jack Schaefer who is on my show taught me this thing where if people's feet are
pointing towards each other when they're having a conversation,
that means that they're not open to talk.
But if people's feet are open,
as if there's an opening in their circle,
that means they are open to talk.
So you can walk up to them and have a conversation
and be confident that they'll be open
and they're not having some private conversation.
The other thing I would say is to really just try to
be confident with yourself.
I know that's easier said than done, but just understand that everybody is human.
Everybody is insecure.
Even if they're really successful, even if they're really attractive, deep down inside,
they're actually really insecure and everyone is human.
As long as you're a nice person, as long as you're smiling, you've got good hygiene,
you know, you don't just talk about yourself and you're interested to learn about other people,
that's also really key, like being exploratory when you're talking to someone and asking about
them instead of making it all about you, you'll do fine, you know. So it's just like, just understand
that everybody is insecure and that will make you feel more confident.
So here's a question that, you know,
I'll chip in as well,
but I want to get your perspective.
How can you beat the competition that you are facing?
Oh, so like other podcasters?
Well, it's always about switching up your strategies, right?
So I've grew my podcast completely organically up to this point, right?
And so I've gotten to a point where I don't think of that I can grow unless I start doing
more paid advertising.
And the other, so I decided that I'm pivoting my strategies and I'm actually starting
a side business where I'm pooling all my money that I make off of it, most of it, into paid
advertising so that I can play with the big boys,
like Jordan Harvinger and Tim Ferris and other people
who are really pumping advertising into their podcasts,
and that's why they're so big.
The other thing that I do is I actually don't have competition.
All my competition is my collaborators, right?
I believe in collaboration, not competition.
And so any top-podcaster that I come across, I invite them to, I have a pod, not competition. And so any top podcaster that I come across,
I invite them to, I have a podcaster mastermind.
I have a monthly call with other podcasters
where we talk about tips and tricks
and they become my friends and then they become my collaborators
and they give me tips and we talk about
how to grow each other's shows
and they hand me opportunities
and I hand them opportunities.
I don't hoard my network, I expand my network.
And so that's also key to just not have that close minded
mindset, I believe in abundance,
that there's enough for everyone.
And definitely there's people who, you know,
don't give me the time of day,
but there's a lot of big podcasters
that have become my mentors and become my colleagues.
And so I believe that, if you, as long as you don't see
competition in that way, I think that's helpful.
And I'll just mention that there's so much opportunity,
right?
It's not like zero-sum game where you're getting more viewers,
or more listeners than the other person's gang less listeners.
There's so much potential and demand.
The market is really wide open for everyone to have their niche.
That's a great place to be.
That's the benefit of the internet.
That's the benefit of all this easy access to.
Totally. But that's really, I'm glad you mentioned that
because some people can feel intimidated
by starting a podcast or by competition.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I would say like whatever you're doing,
find other people who are like at your level
and start a community.
And you'll just have that support system and lift each other up and give each other opportunities.
That's what I did.
And it really worked out.
So here's a question, a serious question.
What do you think about ageism in the market in both directions?
And what do you think we should all be doing about that?
Oh, that's a tough one.
I think that it's true.
A lot of people are looked down upon because they're young
and people think that they don't have experience.
And then there's a lot of older people
where they're looked at like they're not tech savvy
and they also don't have the experience needed.
I think that in order to change that mentality,
we all need to do our part. So if we are hiring
managers, you know, to give people a chance, I definitely hire young people and old people. There's
people older than me who work on my podcast and that's totally goal, you know, it's just really,
you know, if they're passionate and have the skills, you should be open-minded. I don't think I have
like a great answer for that. I think that it's as an individual,
you need to try to make a change if you can, and also be vocal about it. If you see somebody
getting discriminated against because of their age, be vocal about it, and stand up for them,
I think that's the best things that we can do.
I think that's a perfect answer to that question. Now, what about women in business?
Yeah. Clearly, I'm sure you've had challenges. Can you talk about that, particularly for
as a lot of young women on this call? Yeah, sure. It's, you know, being a woman, you've got to deal with
so many different things. So like, I'll give you a personal example, I just posted about it on LinkedIn. So I do a lot of videos on LinkedIn. I'm very busy as all of you guys
know. I have a full-time job, I have a podcast, I have a business, I have a boyfriend, I
have friends, I have family. So I feel busy life, right? And somehow I make it happen, I
make a live interview on video happen every single week,
sometimes twice a week.
And then I do interviews as well like this.
And sometimes I don't have time to do my hair.
Even right now, this is my natural hair.
I didn't blow dry it.
I don't have time to blow dry my hair.
I don't have two hours to blow dry my hair.
I did my makeup today because I was gonna do an interview.
And I always do my makeup a little bit bit But I don't have fake lashes on and you know
There's girls that spend hours doing their hair and makeup and I just don't have time for that my message
Isn't about you know frolicing on the beach like an Instagrammer. That's not me
I'm actually teaching and educating people. I study a lot for my interviews
I have value to say and what I do is meaningful and takes a lot of effort.
And I've had fans approach me, oh, it looks like
you just got out of the shower.
Oh, it looks like, you know, this is what you should look like
if I put a nice picture of me and address.
You're looking the part today, Halla, like great job, you know.
If I, you know, don't look great one day, you look tired.
Why do you look so tired today, you know, don't look great one day, you look tired. Why do you look so tired today, you know?
It's, and it's never about what I'm saying or my content.
And that's the thing that is, is tough because as a woman,
sometimes you're judged on your looks and not what,
what you're saying, right?
And if I was a man, nobody would be commenting,
oh, your hair looks like you just got out of the shower.
Oh, oh, you look tired.
Like nobody would be commenting that. But because I'm like you just got out of the shower. Oh, oh, you look tired. Like, nobody would be commenting that.
But because I'm a woman, they think that I'm supposed to look like a doll all the time.
Or maybe because I'm a pretty, like, not to, like, I'm a fairly attractive woman.
So they expect me to always look like a doll because I had pictures that make me look
like a doll.
And so they want me to be a doll all the time, but that's not reality.
You know, I'm authentic and I have a busy life and it's not about that, right?
And so what I would say is that you're going to get that feedback.
You're going to have people that try to value for what you look like instead of what you
have to offer to the world.
And you've got to be stern and you've got to tell those people like you have no right
to talk to me like that.
I'm not a doll for dress up.
I'm a human with a mind and beliefs and value to provide to this world.
It has nothing to do with what my body looks like.
It has nothing to do with what my hair looks like.
That's not what it's about.
And I would say that you know, you're going to have to grow some thick skin
because people will try to take advantage of you,
but you just need to make sure
that you can realize it right away
and stop it right away and be assertive.
That's my advice to all the women
who are watching right now.
Be assertive and know that you have value
and you have no additional standards to live up to
than a man does.
And if some man tries to,
and a lot of the times they don't
do it intentionally, it's just they believe that like they really truly believe that like your hair
should be perfect all the time and they don't realize how much time it takes and whatever you
just nip that in the bud right when it happens. Thank you for that thoughtful response, you know,
Holla. So we're just coming to the close of our show.
We have a tradition here of having guests read out poems.
So here with us a poem.
Sure, let me just pull it up.
Okay, this is success by Ralph Waldo Emerson.
To laugh often and love much,
to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of
children to earn the appropriation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of
false friends to appreciate beauty to find the best in others to give of one
self to leave the world a little better to leave the world a little better, to leave the world a little better,
whether by a healthy child,
a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition,
to have played and laughed with enthusiasm,
to sing with exulsion,
to know that even one life has breathed easier
because you have lived,
this is what it is to succeed.
That is the perfect way to end.
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