Young and Profiting with Hala Taha - YAPClassic: Alex Hormozi, From Soul-Sucking Job to $100M in Revenue

Episode Date: May 24, 2024

Defying his father's wishes, Alex Hormozi left his stable job to open a gym. But after a failed partnership left him sleeping on the gym floor, he attended a marketing workshop that turned everything ...around. He used online marketing to secure his first 27 customers, and within three years, expanded to six locations. He has since run and sold multiple successful businesses. In this episode, Alex chats with Hala about his inspiring entrepreneurial journey, sharing the valuable insights he gained along the way.  Alex Hormozi is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, and co-founder of Acquisition.com, a portfolio company overseeing multiple businesses. He is the bestselling author of $100M Offers, where he shares strategies for creating irresistible business proposals. In this episode, Hala and Alex will discuss: - Alex’s upbringing and come-up story - The efficiency of learning from experts - Using death as a motivator to accomplish your dreams - The marketing workshop that fueled his success - How Alex scaled his gym chain by monetizing his knowledge - Why your life partner is critical to your success - Respect over chemistry for a successful marriage  - The pros and cons of marrying your business partner - When it's okay to leave money on the table  - How he rapidly scaled his business using the licensing model - And other topics… Alex Hormozi is a first-generation Iranian-American entrepreneur, investor, and philanthropist. In 2013, he started his first brick-and-mortar business. Then, he transitioned from gym ownership to founding GymLaunch, a fitness business consultancy, which expanded to over 4,000 locations within four years. Alongside his wife, Leila, Alex bootstrapped three additional companies, which generated $120 million in sales. Then, the Hormozis founded Acquisition.com through which they manage a portfolio of bootstrapped companies. Alex is the bestselling author of $100M Offers, where he shares strategies for creating irresistible business proposals. He is also the host of The Game podcast.  Connect with Alex: Alex’s Website: https://www.acquisition.com/bio-alex Alex’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexanderhormozi/ Alex’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/AlexHormozi Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hormozi/ Alex’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HormoziAlex/ Resources Mentioned: Alex’s Book, $100M Offers: How To Make Offers So Good People Feel Stupid Saying No: https://www.amazon.com/100M-Offers-People-Stupid-Saying/dp/1737475715 YAP Episode 43 with Robert Greene:  https://youngandprofiting.com/yapclassic-decoding-the-laws-of-human-nature-with-robert-greene/  YAP Episode 203 with Leila Hormozi: https://youngandprofiting.com/leila-hormozi-100000000-leadership-how-to-build-high-performance-teams-people-never-want-to-leave-e203/    LinkedIn Secrets Masterclass, Have Job Security For Life: Use code ‘podcast’ for 30% off at yapmedia.io/course.    Sponsored By: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at youngandprofiting.co/shopify Indeed - Get a $75 job credit at indeed.com/profiting. Yahoo Finance - For comprehensive financial news and analysis, visit YahooFinance.com Kajabi - Get a free 30-day trial to start your business at Kajabi.com/PROFITING LinkedIn Marketing Solutions - Get a $100 credit on your next campaign at linkedin.com/YAP Industrious - Visit industriousoffice.com and use code PROFITING to get a free week of coworking when you take a tour!  More About Young and Profiting Download Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com Get Sponsorship Deals - youngandprofiting.com/sponsorships Leave a Review - ratethispodcast.com/yap Watch Videos - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting   Follow Hala Taha LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ TikTok - tiktok.com/@yapwithhala Twitter - twitter.com/yapwithhala   Learn more about YAP Media's Services - yapmedia.io/

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Starting point is 00:00:49 visit the brand behind every great investor, yahoofinance.com. As always, you can find all of our amazing deals in the show notes. What's up, yap fam? Today we are replaying one of my most iconic episodes and that is with Alex Hermosy. Alex Hermosy is one of the most well-known entrepreneurs and he's a sales and marketing expert. He started his entrepreneurial journey running brick and motor gyms
Starting point is 00:01:28 and after taking some good advice from Russell Brunson, who by the way is now in my YAP Media Podcast Network, he ended up selling those gyms and eventually licensed his business model to start the company GymLaunch. So he was able to scale what he did with his own gym with GymLaunch and then he helped 4,000 plus locations in
Starting point is 00:01:45 four years do the same thing. During the same period, Alex and his wife, Leila Hermosy, bootstrapped and grew three other companies to $120 million in sales across four different industries, and in 2020 they launched Acquisition.com to help promising internet companies scale and grow their portfolio to over $100 million dollars per year. Talk about couple goals. Alex also wrote one of my favorite business books of all time, $100 million offers.
Starting point is 00:02:12 I find myself time and time going back to that book. It is a classic business book. And we cover a lot of the concepts found in that book in part two. But today we are replaying part one as our yap classic. We're gonna go deep into Alex's super inspiring rags to riches story. There's so many lessons to learn just from his story.
Starting point is 00:02:32 And the next Friday, we're gonna get really tactical with sales and marketing strategies. So mark your calendars for part two next week. If you guys can't wait for part two, we're gonna put episode 199 in the show notes. I'll also link out to my episode with Leila Hermosy. So if you guys want to binge the Hermosys and Yap this weekend, go for it. Right now, let's get into part 1, Young and Profiters, I Give You Alex Hermosy.
Starting point is 00:02:57 Tell us about what your parents were like. I know you haven't really talked much about your mom in terms of your upbringing. And what was young Alex from Moseley growing up before you went off to college? I mean, I was a pretty quiet kid, I think, for the most part. It was just me and my dad, for the most part, growing up. I didn't see my mother very much. And so that's probably why I don't mention her as much. That being said, I had a Middle Eastern father. He was like, I got out of Iran because of school. And so do well in school, and you too will succeed. That was kind of the path. There wasn't really like an option
Starting point is 00:03:32 of not trying hard at school, like it just wasn't a door. You know what I mean? I think there's some things in America that are a little bit different. I genuinely believe that everybody can get straight A's. Now I think the amount of effort that would be required for everyone is different. But I think given the time constraints that people have to apply themselves to school, anyone could do it. That's just Alex's perspective on the world.
Starting point is 00:03:54 I don't think it would be easy for everyone, but I think everyone could do it. And I think most people, or oftentimes there's different things that are reinforced in their household. Like there's some people who are straight A's at football. And so that's the thing that their parents reinforce and reward. Because maybe that dad thought that he relives his football days through his son or whatever, and so that's what gets reinforced. And they spend three hours a day practicing
Starting point is 00:04:15 and 30 minutes a day on all the homework for all the stuff. So anyways, me growing up was mostly quiet. I think as I got into high school, I came into myself a little bit more. I was a little bit of an angrier guy. I was more of a, I would say I was more of a lone wolf during that period. I mean, I had groups of friends and whatnot,
Starting point is 00:04:32 but I wouldn't say that I was particularly close with, you know, like deep, I'm still in touch with one guy, but that's kind of the extent of it. From there, I went to Vanderbilt because I did decently well at school, so I was able to get in. I think I needed to get out of the house for me to kind of just be me more,
Starting point is 00:04:49 because there's a lot of, I'm sure, from, and this isn't just a Middle Eastern thing, there are a lot of Asian parents, it's just probably just more foreign parents, it's just a little bit more pressure, I think, than is common in the American standard to conform a certain way. And I definitely conformed.
Starting point is 00:05:05 I definitely followed the path. It was only when I was very, very sad after I had graduated college and I did it in three years and I did all the stuff. You know what I mean? I was president of fraternity, vice president, the power lifting team. I did all that.
Starting point is 00:05:19 And then when I got out and had my two years of consulting, it was a very miserable time for me. It had nothing to do with the people or anything like that. It was me. I was like, this is it. This is all there is. Like, there's just more of this for the rest of my life and that was incredibly depressing to me.
Starting point is 00:05:33 And so that was when I had to kind of challenge the original paradigm, which is maybe the plan that was laid out for me was not my plan, but someone else's plan. I'm making progress towards a goal that I do not want in terms of my dad's viewpoint of me and my success, which was at the time all that I cared about. And so for me, it was really just not wanting to be alive,
Starting point is 00:05:50 which became my kind of thing that got me to change, which I was like, if I wake up every day hoping that I don't wake up, then either I can just live the rest of my life like this, or I can just die to somebody else. I was like, because right now I'm dead to me. That was kind of the internal dialogue was I have to die to my father in order to live for me. And so that was 2012, 2013. I drove across the country.
Starting point is 00:06:14 I called my dad to tell him that I had left halfway, halfway there, cause otherwise I knew he would try and he would talk me out of it. I mean, very transparently, like my dad had enough influence over me at the time that I literally had to physically separate myself in order to not be convinced. Because I knew that if I had not done that, he would have convinced me to stay.
Starting point is 00:06:30 Because I had tried multiple times before that to be like, I'm not gonna do this, I hate this, I don't wanna do it. He would always be like, you know, when I was a resident, we didn't sleep, this is just, you know what I mean? And to be fair, there's probably a certain degree that's true, you know what I mean? And he's like, you just gotta get through this and you'll get to the other side. And I, there's probably a certain degree that's true, you know what I mean? And he's like, you just gotta get through this and you'll get to the other side.
Starting point is 00:06:46 And I think there's an element of that that's true and maybe I was too soft, who knows? Like I don't know. I really was very, very sad. And so just the idea of being free was very liberating for me. Then I went to start my own business and was shocked by just how hard it was
Starting point is 00:07:03 for me sleeping on the floor at my first gym. I remember having the story of the come up and everybody loves the idea of like, yeah, you slept on the floor. It was not glorious. It was very lonesome. I didn't know anyone because I was in California and from Baltimore.
Starting point is 00:07:19 So I knew no one. And I was sleeping underneath of a warehouse where homeless people would be on top like breaking bottles at all hours of the night. You've missed a whole big part of your story. So let's back up. You ended up becoming an apprentice for some guy in California.
Starting point is 00:07:35 So you ended up driving, where were you? From Maryland to California. Like you said, you called your dad halfway and you decided you were gonna basically work for free for this guy, 4 a.m. to 10 p.m., or whatever it was, and you followed this guy around a gym, and you tried to learn as much as you can because you were obsessed with fitness and gyms,
Starting point is 00:07:55 and so you wanted to break out and learn from somebody else who had already done it. So tell us about that period of your life. So I emailed 40 gym owners because I knew from the consulting world, which is what I had graduated into, that the best way to learn is to seek out experts. And so they have already consolidated the information because there's no lack of information in the world.
Starting point is 00:08:13 Like the issue is sifting through it at this point. And so finding people who've already pre-sifted it is more efficient. So I emailed 40 guys. He was the only one who got back to me. He had a seven figure gym. His name was Seven Figure Sam. And so anyways, I just showed up at his doorstep a few days later. He was very surprised by that He had a mastermind which I joined even though I didn't have a gym
Starting point is 00:08:31 It was for gym owners and he said yeah if you join then you'll start the gym the right way and I was like, okay But then I didn't have a gym So he said you want to work for me so he ended up paying me as an employee even though I paid him for a master It was very weird Set up but anyways, I worked for him at the gym and he said I could be his apprentice because he didn't really have a program for me. So I just hung out with him all day.
Starting point is 00:08:50 And so he got to the gym at four and he would leave at four. So he worked four to four. I would usually stay an extra couple hours until six because I didn't know anybody. So I would just hang out at the gym because at least there was people there that I kind of knew now.
Starting point is 00:09:00 I worked there for 12 weeks. It was kind of a crash course. I mean, imagine spending 12 hours a day with somebody who was a decent business owner at the time. You know, he had a seven figure business. And so there's just so much that I learned so quickly. It's more like constructs. Like I didn't know things existed.
Starting point is 00:09:17 It wasn't like I learned tactics. Like I just didn't even know email marketing was a thing. I didn't know affiliate marketing was a thing. I didn't know what a landing page was. I didn't know what ads were. I didn't know sales as a term existed. I didn't get it. And so I remember the first time somebody walked in, he's like, oh, go sign this girl up. She walked in. So I had no training, no script, no nothing. He just said, go sign this girl up. And I came from a management consulting background making slide decks. So I had no
Starting point is 00:09:41 idea what I was doing. And so the girl came in and I was like, yeah, so, yeah, the gym's 129 a month or whatever it is, and you want to sign up? And she was like, yeah, I just have to, I don't have my credit card with me. I just have to go get it. I was like, okay. And then I walked out two minutes later and I was like, yeah, she's going to sign up.
Starting point is 00:09:56 He was like, you closed her in two minutes? And I was like, yeah, I guess. He's like, you got the card? And I was like, no, but she's, she'll be back. She said she's just going to go get a credit card. He's like, ah, like, it was like a bunch of guys around, they all cracked up because I had no idea how it worked. And so I was like, dude, if you don't get the card,
Starting point is 00:10:13 you didn't close. Anyways, I went to a workshop for a weekend. It was like $3,000, which was a tremendous amount of money for me at the time. They promised that you'd make $10,000 by the end of the weekend. I did not make $10,000 by the end of the weekend, but they taught Facebook marketing. And this is 2013. And so I came back to Sam and I was like, hey, we should try this stuff.
Starting point is 00:10:31 I think it's going to work. He said, I tried that. It doesn't work. I was like, just give me, you know, give me a grand and I'll test it. So he said, I'll split the profit with you after we make my money back. And so I ran the ads the way I had learned at the workshop and made $6,000 and then Trudeau was worried he gave me $2,500. And that was kind of like the beginning of my taste into marketing.
Starting point is 00:10:50 And during that period of time, I was looking for my own location that was like far enough away from his thing that I wasn't going to compete, you know what I mean? But close enough that I could still be there. So I went to Huntington Beach and found an old warehouse on Gothard and Talbert. And that's where I started my first time. That's so cool. What a great story. And so I want to talk about giving up something good
Starting point is 00:11:11 to go after something better. I feel like this is such a big lesson. I can relate because when I started my company, everybody was against me. I had a great corporate job. I was running a marketing department at Disney Streaming Services. Everyone was against me. My boyfriend of 10 years who job. I was running a marketing department at Disney Streaming Services. Everyone was against me.
Starting point is 00:11:25 My boyfriend of 10 years, who I thought I was gonna marry, was so upset with me, I had to break up with him to start my business. And I moved out, and that's when everything took off for me, because I felt like somebody was stepping on my neck, and I finally was released from it.
Starting point is 00:11:40 I'd love to talk about why it's okay to leave something good to go after something better and what you learned from that. This is a really, really deep topic that I like a lot. And I don't think I've talked as much about it as I really like to. I think the hardest decisions in life are giving up good for great. And I think oftentimes, what makes it hard is that your good is someone else's great who's casting their projection onto you and saying, why would you give up great?
Starting point is 00:12:06 And so it's really just about expectations and standards that we set for ourselves and not buying into people's dreams about you that are smaller than your dreams for you. And so I think it's really just continually trading up dreams as you realize what you can do. Because my dreams now are significantly bigger than they were 10 years ago. And it's the scariest thing to do is to trade what you have now. It's basically trading the one in the hand for the two in the bush. So it's going counter the traditional common sense that people espouse. And most people are security driven. Most people don't achieve big shit.
Starting point is 00:12:42 It makes sense that everybody around you will tell you not to do it. Because for most of them, it wouldn't make sense. And many times you will fail. They will be right most of the time. But the thing is, is you only need to be right once. And that's the piece that I feel like is missed, is that they will see someone try something on their own,
Starting point is 00:13:01 and then fail, and then say, see, and then they will confirm their bias bias rather than thinking like, well, if I do this a hundred times, I only need one time to be successful to be set up for the rest of my life. The biggest cost is time against expectations that we have for ourselves or rather that we adopt from other people. And so this is for the listeners. If you could fail for 10 straight years, and then on your 11th year, make a $2 million a year business,
Starting point is 00:13:28 you are further along than the person who made $100,000 a year that entire period of time. It's just people measure outcomes on too short of an interval. And that's why they don't get what they want. The goals that they have, because they measure with such a small interval, they can't see success anyways.
Starting point is 00:13:46 Right, it's like you can't make a billion dollars in a year. It's just not gonna happen. Like no one, I don't think there's anybody who's made it from zero to a billion in a year. I could maybe nowadays, who knows, but like, but if you extend it on 10, anyone can do it. And also people don't understand your experience, what you've done for yourself, you know,
Starting point is 00:14:03 what failures you've had in the past, how you've learned, and sometimes these big hard jumps actually have the most rewards. So let's go down a little tangent. I think this is a great place to talk about nihilism. So you are a nihilist and at this point in your time and your journey, well got back to your journey, you weren't one, but you are now and you don't let other people's beliefs really impact the way that you move. And so I'd love to understand what nihilism is, because for me, it was sort of a new, like not many people talk about it.
Starting point is 00:14:33 And what is it that you like about being a nihilist? And how does this philosophy enable you to take on your dreams without worrying about what other people think? Yeah, I'm glad you asked. Mostly because like, I don't really like the label of nihilism in general. I think it's just, I got on an interview
Starting point is 00:14:49 and someone said that and I was like, sure. But like, nihil, I think it's Greek or Latin, comes from nil, which means nothing. But it really just means that you don't believe that something has inherent meaning. And so for me, that's incredibly liberating because it means that we are devoid of circumstance. Nihilism, people ascribe meaning to that word, which is more by and large
Starting point is 00:15:10 negative. I rejected the term. I just inherently believe that things don't have inherent meaning, and that we choose the meaning things have. It does not mean that I live a meaningless life. It means that I choose the meaning that I want to ascribe to things. So I don't inherit the meaning that my father gave to having a job. I choose to ascribe my own meaning to that. And so all that happens from a behavioral standpoint
Starting point is 00:15:35 is that we're changing the meaning of circumstances. And so it gives us a lot of liberty to live life as we see fit. And a lot of that comes, at least for me, big picture because like I have the belief that when I die, people will come to my funeral, people will argue over my belongings, over who gets what. People will think that some people shouldered
Starting point is 00:15:55 more of the responsibility of dealing with my funeral and my death than other people. Some people will not be able to make it because something came up. And two months, three months, two years after I die, I will never be mentioned again. And so if people are not going to even care to show up to my funeral,
Starting point is 00:16:14 why would I let them have any say over my life? Yeah. For me, a lot of it was unlearning, projected judgments that I believed people had over the actions that I was taking when they weren't even thinking about me at all, nor do they really care. Like, you get a hater comment, it ruins some person's day, but like, they don't really care about you.
Starting point is 00:16:37 Like, they don't care. And even the very few people who really care, who might actually speak at your funeral, like how many people are actually gonna speak at your funeral? Probably not many. Even then, those people are going to go home, they're going to look at their to-do list, and they're going to move on. And so it's like, you have this whole life, and the whole time we're catering it to a lot of beliefs that other people
Starting point is 00:16:55 have about us, and we don't take actions, and we put things off for years, decades, because of judgment that isn't real, it's made up. And it's just hard to unlearn that. Believing that things don't have inherent meaning and then that we have the choice to ascribe whatever meaning we want to things has been very liberating for me in terms of how I can approach business, timelines that I can ascribe to success,
Starting point is 00:17:16 how I see marriage, like, you know, all of these things. It's so interesting to me because we talk about death a lot on this podcast because a lot of business people bring it up. I had Robert Green on the show and he talks about the law of death denial. And that's all about people avoid the thought of death because it scares them. But really when you think about your death, it can help motivate you to accomplish your dreams.
Starting point is 00:17:38 And you're giving us a whole other perspective, like thinking about your death to realize that nothing is that big of a deal and who cares what other people think, you should just do your own thing and do what you want in the moment. All this stress, all these problems that we have, they don't matter. No. I mean, there's a poem, I always forget the name of it, but it's like a, it's of an Egyptian king or something like that. And there's this, this head that's buried, it's sort of worn with time, 5,000 years old.
Starting point is 00:18:04 You can imagine the nose is off, you can barely recognize it, and there's an inscription on the side that says, here lies so-and-so who, I'm loosely paraphrasing, who ruled everything that the eye could see. I obviously don't know the name of the thing. And so like here's somebody who was king of the world or the known world at the time.
Starting point is 00:18:25 And we, not even 100,000 years later, but a few thousand years later, don't even know who they were. I talk to entrepreneurs a lot too, and they're like, I wanna leave a legacy. But when you zoom in on that, it's like, for what? Kids get ruined when you give them too much stuff. So that's kinda out the door.
Starting point is 00:18:43 If you wanna go like extended time horizon, the earth is gonna disappear when the sun them too much stuff. So that's kinda out the door. If you wanna go like extended time horizon, the Earth is gonna disappear when the sun gets too big. And so like everything that we're doing is just a stimulus for us to stay busy while all of our material needs are completely taken care of. I see it as liberating. Many people see that as dark.
Starting point is 00:18:59 But like I think a lot of times it's just because like people don't wanna confront that. The sun will get big enough and eventually evaporate all the oceans and the earth, there will be no water here. That's what's going to happen. We could be a multi-planetary species, Elon can kill it, who knows? You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:19:12 Yeah. Yeah. And I'm glad you went over that because that was a huge interview that millions of people listened to. So I'm glad that you cleared that up. That's great. Let's hold that thought and take a quick break with our sponsors. Young and Profiters, they may call me the podcast princess, but I'm also the LinkedIn queen. I've been a LinkedIn influencer for six years now, and I teach one of the most popular courses about
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Starting point is 00:25:20 your first experience opening up brick and mortar gyms. Well, my first gym, I was sleeping on the floor. Very fortunately, I was supposed to open it with a partner, not Sam. Sam was gonna be like a minority partner, like an advisor kind of thing. And he set me up with another guy who was in the area. He said, this guy's in the mastermind,
Starting point is 00:25:36 you guys should just merge your gym. He has a tiny gym, you wanna have a bigger gym, you could start with his clients, you could split it, whatever, which is by the way, not a good way to start a partnership. But I said, sure, I don't know anything, you're my advisor, I'll do that. And the night before the lease was supposed to get signed
Starting point is 00:25:50 and we're gonna put the deposit down, he couldn't come up with the money. And so I actually had to take on the whole thing, which I wasn't really financially prepared to do. So I ended up going from thinking I was gonna have like 25 or $30,000 saved up to having five when I opened a gym with no customers in a place I didn't know and at least that was $5,000 a month.
Starting point is 00:26:10 So I had one month of basically savings for this business before I would not have money. But the gift that that partner gave was that he was the one who told me to go to that workshop. He's like, we should do this marketing workshop. And by chance, the thing that that guy taught in 2013 was Facebook ads. Like, I have been extremely lucky many times in my life,
Starting point is 00:26:31 and this is one of them. It's crazy, because something as small as that, if I hadn't gone to that workshop, the recommendation that my advisor had given was that I should just run Groupons to get customers, because that's what he was doing for his gym, and it was working. But in Huntington Beach, there was 10 times the gym density compared to where he was.
Starting point is 00:26:47 And so every gym, there was literally three gyms on the same block as me. And so when I ran a Groupon, nothing happened. If I had not gone to that workshop, I might not even be in business. Like I might have just gone back to corporate world and had to like come back with my tail between my legs because I would have failed.
Starting point is 00:27:04 So I'll go on this quick tangent. Like my plan B was that I would strip and drive Uber if I couldn't make it because I figured I could make probably 250,000 a year doing that if I needed to. And then I could start again because once I was out, I was like, this is what I want to do. I knew even though it was hard, I liked the freedom. I knew that I enjoyed that. So anyways, did the workshop. I learned about Facebook marketing. That was what allowed me to sell my first 27 customers, I liked the freedom. I knew that I enjoyed that. So anyways, did the workshop. I learned about Facebook marketing. That was what allowed me to sell my first 27 customers, which paid my first month's rent.
Starting point is 00:27:31 The next month I paid more and we added $5,000 a month in revenue to the business for the first, I think, seven, eight, nine months, somewhere in there. I didn't know employees were a thing. So for me, I thought like a business was, you pay the rent, everything else is yours. And that's pretty much how I ran it when we were starting out. But quickly I was like, I thought like a business was you pay the rent, everything else is yours. And that's pretty much how I ran it when we were starting out.
Starting point is 00:27:46 But quickly I was like, I cannot, like I was not sleeping much and I was doing the billing and I was doing work in the leads and I taught all eight of the sessions every day. And it was just very, very hard for me. I was very tired. And so then I found out that you could hire people to do some stuff, but I still slept at the gym.
Starting point is 00:28:01 So they would still get in there at four o'clock in the morning anyways. So it didn't buy me a lot of sleep back, but at least I didn't have to teach all the sessions. But yeah, from there, by month nine or 10, I was able to get a manager in and I had a fully outfitted facility. And then from there, we were able to open the next location at month 15, and then open a new location every six months after that. And the big claim to fame was that once I got better and better at marketing and sales, I was able to open each location at full capacity on the first day. And that's what ended up spring boarding into the next thing.
Starting point is 00:28:31 That's awesome. How much do you scale that up? You had like six, six of them or something? Yeah, it's six locations. I opened a new location every six months. And so at year three, I had six. That was roughly where I was. And I think, honestly, I never added up the top line between all of them. I know my biggest one did 600. So it wasn't like a huge business I had six, that was roughly where I was. And I think, honestly, I never added up the top line between all of them. I know my biggest one did 600, so it wasn't like a huge business in terms of, I mean, each, like my biggest location did 600.
Starting point is 00:28:52 And so anyways, I got to this weird point where I wasn't needed. So like I had managers at each location, they could all sell, like the locations were working, I was making okay money. I had a nice little condo that looked fancy, so I felt like, felt cool. And so anyways, I went to go to this,
Starting point is 00:29:09 another marketing conference. It was trafficking conversion years ago. And a guy named Russell, right, got up there and was selling people on internet marketing. And I was like, man, this is really interesting stuff. But he wasn't allowed to pitch. So he did his whole pitch webinar and then just didn't close.
Starting point is 00:29:24 It was very weird. And so I was like, very sold on this opportunity, but there wasn't allowed to pitch. So he did his whole pitch webinar and then just didn't close. It was very weird. And so I was like very sold on this opportunity, but there was no call to action. What happened? Nothing. I just kept living my life. But I was like, that was really cool. A year later, I'm up at night, nothing to do. And so I was like, you know what? I wonder what that guy, maybe I should do some of that stuff. And so I just Google his name. The first page that comes up is his application to be in his mastermind. This is again, six, seven, I mean a while ago. I applied, they called me up, I paid the money. And they were like, oh yeah,
Starting point is 00:29:52 there's tons of gym owners here. And you'll like, you know, lots of people go to, I was the only brick and mortar business owner in the room. But anyways, I went up there and I was like, here's how I opened my gyms, you know, profitable day one, I don't have to put any money down. Like I pre-sell them to pay for them, I had this whole strategy.
Starting point is 00:30:07 And after I broke down, everyone was silent and he was like, you shouldn't be running gyms, man. And I was like, I had this whole plan to be America's gym, United Fitness was the brand. And he was just like, you have a level 10 skillset and a level two opportunity. And this was Russell Brunson click funnels, right? Just so the listeners are clear. Yeah, this is years ago. This was before this was Russell Brunson click funnels, right? Just so the listeners are clear.
Starting point is 00:30:25 Yeah, this is years ago. This was before he was Russell Brunson click funnels of the of the Lord that he is now. I think click funnels is maybe doing like a million bucks a month then. Like, I mean, it was, you know, it was I think year two, you're 18 months into click funnels. It's very, very young. So anyways, he said that but you know, I I'm a big believer.
Starting point is 00:30:41 Like if someone's if someone's further because he was much further ahead than me when I was in the Mastermind and he said that and I was like, well, if I'm not if I paid for advice, I'm not going believer, like if someone's further, because he was much further ahead than me, when I was in the mastermind, and he said that, and I was like, well, if I'm not, if I paid for advice, I'm not gonna listen to it, might as well just burn my money. And so I took the advice, and so he said, you should start teaching people how to do what you do. And so I took that not quite as literally
Starting point is 00:30:59 as he probably meant it, so I started doing gym turnarounds. So I started flying out and launching other people's gyms, did that for almost two years, did 33 turnarounds, we'd fill the gym up, 30 days, that was the offer. It was free to them, I would just keep all the upfront sales. I make about 100 grand every 20 days doing that,
Starting point is 00:31:12 just on my own, no employees. And I was like, this is chill. I like this better than just running the gym. So I got really good at the marketing and sales. And I would say that me running all my gyms, I got very good at sales, but where it really got one from like, I just got so many reps in during that period of time.
Starting point is 00:31:29 I mean, I was taking 20 plus one-to-one consults a day, every day. And like when you have that kind of level of transactional sales over and over and over again, like you just, there's a depth of knowledge that you learn. You learn when to pause, you learn when to shift, how to say certain things, how to, like just how to shift tone. Like there's just lots of things that you intuitively learn you learn when to pause, you learn when to shift, how to say certain things, how to, like, just how to shift tone.
Starting point is 00:31:45 Like, there's just lots of things that you intuitively learn just from that many repetitions. I got pretty good at it. And then I got pretty good at teaching it because I had to have a team of guys who could start doing it because we started doing like two, three, four, five, six gyms a month that we'd start doing these turnarounds for. Logistically got really difficult, flying people out,
Starting point is 00:32:00 guys said their wives were threatening to divorce them because they weren't home and like all that kind of stuff. And so I need to have a different model. There's like many terrible instances during this period of time. I like lost my money, I had a partner stole everything, I had to start from scratch again, like I could keep going into it but.
Starting point is 00:32:16 Yeah, let's pause here because I do want to talk to you about the sales experience that you got. So would you say that you learned most of it on the job or were there certain books that you were reading and what were you really into at that time period? Because I think sales is one of the most important skills that any young professional can have. Agreed.
Starting point is 00:32:36 Yeah, the ability to persuade. And I would just say persuade in general because marketing and sales, like marketing is really just sales done at scale. Yeah, marketing and sales, yeah. No, I wasn't really consuming anything. It was all done just, the first time I bought a sales training program was after,
Starting point is 00:32:49 like it was when I had a team of sales guys. And I was like, you know what? This would probably be a good idea to add it in. But at that point I'd already done like 4,000 closes. So like I was, again, a lot of the stuff I didn't know the terms for it. I just knew I needed to get somebody to give me money. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:33:03 And so that was like, this is how I have the conversation that gets the most people to say yes. That's how I started it. That's so interesting. Well, part two of this, we're really gonna get into some of those sales and marketing strategies. So this was around the time you met Layla, right? Yeah, it was, I think within one month
Starting point is 00:33:21 of me joining Russell's thing was when I met Layla. You have some unconventional views on marriage and I have a few questions. First of all, let's talk about why your life partner is so important to your ultimate success. I mean, I think that people either are contributing to your goal that they're taking away from it. I think a lot of people compromise on their partners
Starting point is 00:33:41 because they're convenient, rather than thinking like, is this person going to make it more likely that I achieve my outcome that I want? And so, you know, for me, Layla was the first, to be fair, I hadn't dated that many people because we were pretty young when we met. But she really, really, not only like wanted to encourage
Starting point is 00:33:58 the dreams, but like participate. And so I think a lot of times, entrepreneurs will make compromises on, okay, well, I'll do this, but then I'll do your thing this weekend or whatever it is. And so the nice thing with Leila is that she never really tried to change me. And because I probably wasn't that changeable, I would have just resented someone more for making me do things
Starting point is 00:34:17 that I didn't want to do or asking me to do things I didn't want to do. And so it was really just a new construct. I had just gotten out of a basically on and off relationship that was a five-year engagement that we ended up calling off. And I had no desire to get into anything. I was like, I'm going to do me and you can like roll with if you want. And so like our entire first few months of dating was just, I'm going to work all day. You can work next to me. That was what we did from the day we met. Like the next day I called her up. I was like, I'm working all day if you want to come after your shift.
Starting point is 00:34:43 And so she just worked with me. And that's what we did. And this really hasn't changed. We went from first date until today with very little changing in our relationship. It was just, it was very easy. And so that's been, even running a business together, I think because we had such low expectations getting into the relationship,
Starting point is 00:35:02 it made candid conversations much easier. I was like, hey, I think it was six months in, I was like, you're a little cold, for this to work, I need you to be less cold. And then she was like, okay. And that was it, like literally never again. Like Layla is one of the most fast changing people I've ever, actually not one of,
Starting point is 00:35:19 she's the fastest changing behavior person I've ever met in my time, it's almost freaky. If I'm like, she used to say, you know when someone laughs and they're like, you're stupid, you know, like, you know how girls will say that? She said that to me once, like, early on, and I was like, I don't like when you say that.
Starting point is 00:35:33 I was like, I just don't like being called stupid, even if it's a joke. And she was like, oh, okay. Never did it again. Like, if you define learning as same condition, new behavior, like if you haven't changed your behavior with the same condition you have not learned. And intelligence is speed of learning,
Starting point is 00:35:48 which is speed of behavior change. So in that way, Layla is incredibly intelligent. Like her ability to change behavior is insane. And so that's also why I think she's been such an adaptable COO, or rather CEO now. She's really CEO of acquisition.com. I just, I make the content and write the books, but like she's really the one running everything.
Starting point is 00:36:06 I think you gotta, there's so many ways to have marriages. This is what worked for me. And I am weird. If we're defining weird as not standard, like different from the average, like I am not the average. And so my marriage is atypical. And so this is just what has worked for us
Starting point is 00:36:24 is that I like working all the time, and I wanted someone who would work all the time with me, because if I didn't, then I wouldn't see them. And then we would drift apart because I'm getting way different stimuli from my life than they are. Inherently, we're gonna adapt to the things that we're exposed to all day,
Starting point is 00:36:37 and eventually we're gonna look at each other and be like, oh, we don't know each other. And some people, that's exciting. To me, you might as well be a stranger, and I can just keep doing my own thing. So probably contrary, but that's exciting to me You might as well be a stranger and I can just keep doing what my own thing So probably contrary him, but that's just how I see it Now it's very interesting stuff and I'm sure Because she was so smart and you know had her own thing and very career driven
Starting point is 00:36:57 You obviously respected her a lot. So how did that respect factor play into? You being attracted to her and wanting her to be your wife? Yeah. So two separate things. So from a respect standpoint, she was the first girl that I respected professionally. And so that was new for me. And I think it was probably one of the keys of our relationship is that it was based on respect rather than chemistry. The second part was kind of like what you alluded to with like the attraction part. I wasn't like super, I mean I was attracted, like she's pretty obviously, et cetera,
Starting point is 00:37:28 like there was that, but I didn't have like a romantic, I wasn't like oh my God, I'm getting swept on my feet, and neither was she. So we honestly were just like buddies. Like we liked the same stuff, and so we just did stuff together all the time, because we enjoyed doing it together more than alone. And then it got to the point where it was,
Starting point is 00:37:46 where our employees at Jim launch started saying, hey, what happens if you guys break up? Cause we weren't married and the business was scaling like crazy. And I said, you know, we should probably deal with their concerns and get married. And my proposal to her was, hey, what do you think about getting married?
Starting point is 00:38:02 And she said, that sounds fine. And I said, okay, then I'll, we should, I'll get you a ring. And so we went together to the store, literally, what do you think about getting married? And she said, that sounds fine. And I said, okay, then I'll get you a ring. And so we went together to the store, literally after I said that, we got the ring, 45 minutes later back home. Said, I guess we should call a church, called the church. Six days later, we were married. And then we didn't take off the day of our marriage
Starting point is 00:38:17 and we didn't take off the next day. We just showed up the next day at work and we're like, hey guys, we're married. So all of your concerns about the stability of the business are gone now. You can keep working and everything's fine. And it was like, that was it. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:38:29 And since then we'd haven't taken, we didn't do a wedding. We didn't do a honeymoon. Again, well, it worked for me. I'm just saying like that worked for me. My vibe. Yeah. And so you guys are obviously a power couple
Starting point is 00:38:40 that a lot of people are looking up to. And I learned from you that people who have businesses together that are married only have a 10% divorce rate, which I think is pretty incredible. So what would you say are like the pros and cons of marrying your business partner? And the other question I have is, do you feel like Layla fills in your weaknesses,
Starting point is 00:38:58 or do you feel like you guys are more similar and kind of just help each other accomplish the same goals? This is really interesting. So even the way that you phrased the question, I thought was cool. So I recommend marrying your business partner. I don't recommend trying to make your wife your business partner or rather your spouse, your business partner. So we already were business partners. And then I married her and it worked and people ask me, what happens if you got divorced?
Starting point is 00:39:21 We probably still run the business together because I never want, and neither of us would want this, for the other person to get a free ride. You know what I mean? Like she doesn't get special treatment because she's my wife. She is CEO of the companies that we have together because she's the best CEO.
Starting point is 00:39:35 She's amazing. Like you can look at the tracker, she's amazing. She fucking knows how to run businesses. That's why she's CEO, you know what I mean? I have so many entrepreneurs who are like, how do I get my wife to want, like dude, you're trying to change somebody. They don't like it, that's it, that's fine.
Starting point is 00:39:48 But don't try and make her, who's not Leila, into your version of Leila. She has to be her. And I think to a great degree, a lot of, and this is, again, this is counter-cultural, but like, I do think people pick wrong. I think people use the wrong assessment to judge whether or not they're going to have a good long-term relationship. When I say good, I would say that's going to be minimum
Starting point is 00:40:09 strife, maximum achievement of your personal goals for both people. Yeah. And I think people think about marriage differently. And so for me, marriage was, is this somebody, again, that's going to support my long-term goals and am I going to support her long-term goals? And for us, our long-term goals are aligned, which honestly was rare and weird. I didn't actually expect to see anybody who wanted to do the same thing as me and work as much as I do.
Starting point is 00:40:29 But I did, and I'm very happy and very lucky that we found that. I just think the reverse, you get in trouble. Yeah. And would you say that she has strengths where you're weak? Complementary skillset, shared values. So I think, was it mission, values, lifestyle?
Starting point is 00:40:46 So, these three have to be the same, and then you want complementary, so different. So, it's like, we wanna go to the same place, we wanna get there the same way, and we wanna have the same stuff happen in between. Right, so mission, values is how we're gonna behave, lifestyle is what we do in between. Right, like we like all, like,
Starting point is 00:41:00 or you can say interests if you like that. Those have to be aligned in my opinion for it to just be maximally fun. The complementary skill sets is if she did the exact same thing as me, one of us wouldn't be necessary. And we've also gravitated that way because when she came in, she was top salesman.
Starting point is 00:41:13 So she came in, she was top salesman at 24 at one of the top locations in the country. So she's a savage at closing. But the requirements of the business required, I was like, well, I'm gonna still sell because that's what I'm good at. And I was older and it was my, you know, when I started it was my business, so I call the shots.
Starting point is 00:41:28 But so she just, again, so adaptable, like Layla can learn and change her behavior like that. And so she was like, I'm gonna be an operator. And so then she just went all in. She, the books, the courses, the podcasts, the masterminds, the workshops, she just, all the stuff she consumed was different than the stuff I consumed, which was cool
Starting point is 00:41:44 because then we got to talk about different stuff. And like at the end of our days today, like every day, we download. It's like, what were your meetings? We just go through each other's calendars. Oh, how is that meeting? How is that meeting? How is that meeting?
Starting point is 00:41:54 And so we download at the end of the day, we do a walk for an hour every day. That's our download. And so yin and yang, I think it has to make sense like that. Otherwise one of you isn't, I've seen the entrepreneur assistant wife or husband. It's tough. It's tough.
Starting point is 00:42:08 I think you have to have equal power. And that's rare. It's rare because it's usually uncommon for both people to be like equally yoked. You want them, want both people to tread in the same way. And it's hard to find that. If you want to do rare shit. Talk to us about that.
Starting point is 00:42:21 How did you meet her? Bumble. So I swiped right. Swiped right literally and swiped right in terms of right and left. I swiped right. I swiped correct. She was an Iranian girl and was into fitness. And when I met her on our first date, she really wanted to talk about business all the time. I'm like, well, this is great. I don't have to like pretend to like what you like. So this is so much more efficient for me. And so we talked for like four hours only about business.
Starting point is 00:42:45 And I was like, this is great. And then she was telling me what her dreams and aspirations were and she had big dreams and she wanted to open a gym someday. At the time I think I had five, I had five or six, I can't remember. And I was like, let me just leapfrog you. I already know what you're about to try and do.
Starting point is 00:43:01 I know all the failures. Just like, I already have, like the months that I have, I'm starting this new thing. You should do it with me." She didn't really believe me yet because I hadn't even started it yet. So it was just kind of like an idea, you know, right on her. And she had built up her own personal training business, like a roster of clients. And so she had her own thing going. But I was like, well, I'm going to, I'm going to do this.
Starting point is 00:43:21 And so I went and I launched three gyms, came back, I processed like 100 grand in front of her. And she was like, what the hell is this? And she, I mean, she ended up processing it with me. When she was like, is this legal? I was like, yes. And she was like, okay, I'm it. So she ended up quitting and joining me there because she knew it's like there's product market fit.
Starting point is 00:43:38 There was a viable, like people wanted this and I was good at it. And so that's when we started flying around doing the launches together. Now my gyms kept running, but it was very clear that as I left, like they weren't doing as well without me like being there. There's just all the intangibles.
Starting point is 00:43:53 And so I ended up selling those and just going all in on the launch thing, put all my money from the sale. I mean, I've told this story before, but I'll tell it to your audience quickly. I had all the sale of my gyms, went all in on gym launch, started launching gyms, doing well with that. One of the gym owners I launched with was like,
Starting point is 00:44:08 dude, you should be owning all these gyms. Like you're literally filling them up and you're leaving all this money on the table. Which by the way, most dangerous term in business is leaving money on the table. It's okay to leave money on the table because you will fuck up the big money
Starting point is 00:44:20 that's in front of you by trying to chase little money that's still on little tables. Anyhow, he had bad credit, so I signed the lease. I fronted all the money for the locations. We were going to split them 50-50, of course. That's a terrible deal for me. I'll do all the work, front all the money, and then we'll split it. But I didn't know anything. So anyways, he was supposed to come in after I launched the first gym. With him, that was number six, and I crushed the launch. And then he was like, hey, man, I'm going to keep running mine. You got that one. And I was like, whoa, I'm doing launches now.
Starting point is 00:44:46 Like that's not my business. You were gonna come behind me, we're gonna launch, open two, three, four gyms a month and own them all. And then it kind of rapidly spiraled down from there. And then he thought he accused me of stealing, so then he took all the money out of the account. I went to go line for line with him, and be like, I haven't taken any money out of the account.
Starting point is 00:45:00 Like it costs money to open a gym. And when he didn't wanna look at the financials, that's when I knew that he, that was just a line. That was just like a strategy. And so I basically lost everything. So I lost all the money that I had had from my own gyms and lost all the money from that gym. But the thing is I still had a gym.
Starting point is 00:45:14 So there was no money to run the gym and I didn't really have any money. So I just had whatever was in my checking, which every month basically I couldn't sell anymore because I didn't want to keep the gym open because he wasn't going to run it. So my savings just got drained. If you have payroll rent, everything, and you can't make new sales in a new gym that
Starting point is 00:45:30 doesn't have recurring revenue, really, really tough. And so I got drained almost of everything. And then I started doing launches again, sent Layla out. She did a launch on her own, first solo launch, crushed it, still has the record to this day, did 240 sales in 28 days, made me a hundred grand. And that basically helped me pay off all of these debts of refunds that I had to do for people who bought a year and all this stuff like upfront.
Starting point is 00:45:54 I just refunded everybody their money, which just came out of all the money that I had. The one thing I had a coach at the time and he was like, just do right by everyone and you'll be able to get out of this. And so it was really good advice. And so I just, just do right by everyone and you'll be able to get out of this. And so it was really good advice. And so I just, I did right by everybody. Like no employee was unpaid. Every client I wanted to refund got a refund and I was able to just like walk away unscathed. And so I was at ground zero again, we did another launch.
Starting point is 00:46:17 So the hundred, the first hundred grand went to cover all the refunds and stuff. We did another launch to kind of like recapitalize ourselves. It's like, okay, we can go make another hundred grand. Cause I was kind of like, youize ourselves. It's like, okay, we can go make another 100 grand. Cause I was kind of like, we make a hundred grand on every launch. And so we went to go do a launch. A guy said he had a baby on the way. He was just happened to be in the neighborhood of the gym
Starting point is 00:46:33 that we were going to launch of all places in the entire nation. A guy reached out to me, he crushed it. All of a sudden we're not getting the deposits, even though I'm processing all this money. And I'm like, where the hell's the money? Call the processor up, standard annual thing, you'll be getting your money soon.
Starting point is 00:46:47 Call it again two days later, same thing. And then finally, it had been 10 days since I'd had a deposit. Imagine anybody who had like no stripe, like not getting deposits, but still processing money. I was like, dude, I need this money. Like what's going on? And so I called Christmas Eve and I said,
Starting point is 00:47:02 I'm not getting off the phone until you send me my money. And turns out they can keep your money. And I had no leverage. And they said, you will get off the phone because we're not sending you the money and we're gonna hold it for six months because of regular activity. Because what I was doing was processing money
Starting point is 00:47:16 from all over the nation through what used to be my brick and mortar gyms processor. I didn't know how it worked. So I was running like credit cards from Virginia through my Southern California local gym processing. They're like, what is going on here? So it seemed irregular, so they held all the money. But my sales guy had, the guy who had done it,
Starting point is 00:47:35 I owed him like $22,000 in commissions. And I had $23,000 left after all the refunds and everything that I had done. And then that got me to my last thousand dollars. And so that was my rock bottom moment. I screen-shotted it after everything, four years or five years or whatever it was. I was like, wow, I have literally nothing to show for it.
Starting point is 00:47:55 That's tough. And was this around the time where you got your DUI and got into a car accident? So my mother went to the hospital for tough stuff. I got in a head-on DUI, 60 miles an hour on a highway, walked away, crazy, nothing, walked away, walked out of the car, the car's crushed. And then I lost all my money from my partner.
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Starting point is 00:53:51 That's Yahoo Finance.com. What I found was really interesting when I was researching your story, you didn't mention it, but you also had like a dental and chiropractic agency, I think, at the time, and you were like running these gyms, you were doing your gym launch business, and you hired an attention coach. So what did this attention coach teach you about having to focus and make decisions?
Starting point is 00:54:18 Well, like the one output of the entire time that I had with him was just untangling, loose attention. It's like I was just spread so thin. So I had all these things that you just alluded to at a chiropractor agency that I had a couple clients, I had a dental agency that I had one client, I had my five gyms from home, I had the new gym, and then we had gym launches that were going on
Starting point is 00:54:41 basically paying for all of my stupid mess-ups during this period of time. And he's like, you have no power. You're so spread thing that you can't accomplish anything. And so what it was was that I was not confronting many hard conversations. So I would do any, I would start another business, I would avoid, it was all avoidance.
Starting point is 00:54:59 So I didn't wanna have hard conversation with partners. I partners at all of these things. And for most of them, I was the, I don't want to say the breadwinner, but I was the one who was bringing it in. So I ended up just partnering with people because I felt insecure about doing things on my own. This is where partnerships have to be long-term.
Starting point is 00:55:13 Like, even if this is a side note, like if you have the opportunity to get 50% of a business that you know you're not going to contribute 50% to, don't take it. Because two years from now, they will resent you and it will not work. So there's no point in getting the short money because it's going to blow up in your face and really ugly
Starting point is 00:55:26 And so I learned that on the opposite side being on the receiving end of that and I was like I will not do this to anyone and so Anyhow every day he would ask me the same question, which is what is your attention on and so piece by piece It was just every day We would just start peeling back all the things and just removing things from my life until there was basically nothing left but one thing. Layla and I went on like a six week breakup. Basically she went to go launch a gym and I was like, I just don't have that space for this.
Starting point is 00:55:53 Fundamentally we talked every day, but like from a tension standpoint, I was like, I can't deal with anything. I had too much on my plate. And so I broke everything down to nothing and then just rebuilt with the few things that mattered. And I think that since then, that has, despite my proclivity for wanting to do more things, it has been the hardest, hardest one character trait I have is being able to focus by far.
Starting point is 00:56:15 Yeah. So let's get back to GymLaunch. You start this company, you basically start licensing your business model. So talk to us about how, why is that such a scalable opportunity for the new entrepreneurs out there? Like, why is it better to take something and teach people how to do it
Starting point is 00:56:32 rather than trying to do it one by one? So just big picture, I don't think it's necessarily better. I think that it has faster scale. Like for example, we have a handful of companies in our portfolio that are brick and mortar. So I had a company recently that was an agency for photography studios.
Starting point is 00:56:49 And they had a very good model for growing photography studios and I was like, and he was like, hey, I want to do what you do with Jim launch. But there were a couple of key differences in the business in terms of how much it cost to start up. The nature of the service itself was one time versus recurring, et cetera, et cetera. And it made more sense for us to actually own all of them
Starting point is 00:57:03 and then compound by adding more locations every month. So we open like four locations a month right now. And so if I knew then what I know now, real, real, acquisition.com might not even exist. I might have 200 gyms. But the thing is, is that my operational skillset at that point wouldn't have been able to scale that business.
Starting point is 00:57:20 It is easier to scale something that has more leverage. So media has leverage, software has leverage, capital has leverage. Like one person can raise a billion dollars, one person can write code and a billion people can use it. One person can make a video like this and a million people can listen to it, right? There's leverage there.
Starting point is 00:57:36 Limited input, unlimited output. With labor or services, right? Like you have to be able to operate people. And so I didn't have that skillset. I think that now we have a team, et cetera, like we could do something operate people. And so I didn't have that skill set. I think that now we have a team, et cetera, like we could do something like that, but then I didn't have it. And so given the skill set I had at the time, me switching from brick and mortar operations to licensing it, and basically taking a fraction of the revenue I was able to make other people, I was able to scale that much faster. And so I could
Starting point is 00:58:01 help 4,000 gyms make an extra 100 grand a year in profit, and then take a percentage of that profit. So realistically, I would be able to take probably 25 to 30% of the added profit to the facility through my licensing. They would win, I would win, and that's just the nature of capitalism. And so that was the trade off. Now, a licensing business or any business has value in so far as the future revenue is stable and predictable. So the reason that I like brick and mortar a lot of times for scaling is that if you count the locations, almost like customers, if you think about it like that, they're not going anywhere. And so it's like every time you open a location, it's like you can bank on the fact that they're
Starting point is 00:58:40 going to just deliver $150,000, $200,000, 400,000 dollars a year in income to the main business. And then we just reallocate capital and keep doing it, which is why it's such a nice and scalable business. That's why franchising versus licensing, franchising those contracts are more ironclad. You're in for 10 years, there's a lot of law that protects the franchisor to make sure that they can collect on that for 10 years.
Starting point is 00:59:00 Licensing, it's much less so. And so anyways, not to go into a big tangent here, but the main point is me switching from brick and mortar to licensing made up for the fact that I was not as good at operating it, because my constraint was my operational ability, not my marketing and sales. And the product that I was selling was marketing and sales. I was really good at marketing and sales.
Starting point is 00:59:19 And then the thing I sold was marketing and sales. And so like I was better at teaching marketing and sales than I was at like weight loss experiences. So if you just think of quality of the product, like the marketplace valued making $100,000 a year in extra profit far more than Susie values six weeks of group training and losing 20 pounds, far more. And so I was able to switch my vehicle that I was that I was selling. And that was a big part of why I was able to make a lot more money.
Starting point is 00:59:44 Talk to us about how you started Acquisition.com. Oh yeah. So I mean Acquisition.com started in 2021. The first company we took on was 2020. So June of 2020 I think was the first company we took on which is that photography business. We also took on a personal training certification business and we took on a publishing business in 2020. Those three businesses, between the three of them, added over a hundred million a year to those businesses in total. And so we thought, we should do more of this. And so once we had that as like, okay, we have a workable model here where we can just take all the knowledge we have of scaling our companies. And the reason 2021 was
Starting point is 01:00:22 boring and difficult for me was because I had to sell had to sell I sold three companies. So for anybody who's ever sold like going through a big sales process is a year. And you usually don't change much in the business, you don't want to do anything crazy. And so there's just not a lot for me to do. So I just had to sit there and mind you, they made money, which then gets into the whole meaninglessness thing. But I just had to sit and wait. And so acquisition.com and these companies that I was working with on the side took my focus. And to the point that we were making earlier about focus, I know myself well enough to know that I have to do one thing. And so I needed to exit these companies so that I could focus full-time on acquisition, but I wanted to just have a quick test in the water that it worked.
Starting point is 01:00:59 And so once it did, then we sold, December 24th of 2021 is the day that the last deal closed, and the 25th, so then Christmas day, we we sold December 24th of 2021 is the day that the last deal closed and the 25th, so the Christmas day, we were working on acquisition.com. And so I started making content in 2021 because again, I had extra time. And so I was just making stuff and people seemed to like it. And then everything really took off in 2022 when we brought in a team and editors and all that kind of stuff.
Starting point is 01:01:22 And yeah, now we have 16 companies in the portfolio. And we do, we take minority, minority interest in businesses. The average company we have right now does about 17 million a year with margins above 35% as a portfolio average. And so yeah, so our goal is just to get as many of them as we can over 100. And then it's really the founders because we're minority partners. You know, we're 20 to 30 percent equity holders in those businesses

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